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Only if you keep it secret
/r/seduction30/03/26 06:03 PM
0

Bartender.
/r/seduction13/03/26 06:21 PM
1

I thought that was all it was about. At that point, just be in a regular relationship without the label you coward. Lol
/r/seduction22/02/26 02:59 PM
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"agreeable" as an negative trait... Women are strange, lol. They do like negativity and to argue I guess 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction20/02/26 09:31 PM
5

I ain’t sayin’ she a gold digga, but she ain’t messing’ with no broke 🥷’s Because money and resources are the most important thing to them. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
/r/seduction01/02/26 12:27 AM
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I'm single because there's literally no reason for me not to be. When I was younger, I thought you can only have sex if you were in a relationship. Imagine how excited I was to learn that that isn't at all the case, LOL.
/r/seduction31/01/26 04:10 AM
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I didn't realize I was talking to two different people. The other one said self is something that exists outside of your ego and self talk Unless you're a solipsist, the rest of the world exists outside of your ego. Your ego is a third of your psyche. Anyway, people really aren't that different. A wide brush will almost always suffice.
/r/seduction31/01/26 04:09 AM
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Lol All of Freud's work hasn't been rejected. You seem to believe the self doesn't exist. That's patently false. Anyway, I have no problem getting laid. I've just never had to seduce anyone so I come here to see what it's about. Apparently, your idea of seduction is to just badger as many females as you can until one of them lets you hit, lol. What a joke.
/r/seduction31/01/26 01:00 AM
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That's paradoxical. Your ego is your self.
/r/seduction31/01/26 12:11 AM
0

Who said anything about a big ego?
/r/seduction30/01/26 11:59 PM
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Again, my ego (since of self) is important to me. Moreso than my id (instinctual attraction). So part of my superego (since of morals) is to never degrade myself for someone else's approval. Sure, you don't get laid as much, but I'm not a hedonist so that's irrelevant.
/r/seduction30/01/26 10:07 PM
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Ego is your sense of self. If you don't respect it, you don't respect yourself.
/r/seduction30/01/26 09:59 PM
1

What if you ego is all you have? Pussy is more important than your ego to you?
/r/seduction30/01/26 07:34 AM
1

GenZ is so confusing, LOL.
/r/seduction30/01/26 07:27 AM
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Yeah, no, everyone gets rejected. Those comments you're referring to are virgins trying to live a fantasy vicariously through the Internet. Dating is a numbers game. You just gotta get to a balance where you don't care to the point where getting rejected doesn't hurt, but do care enough to actually shoot your shot. That, is a very delicate balance that I've never been able to find. I just wait for the females to approach me, which happens about 3 or 4 times a fortnight. I figure I'd get laid jus…
/r/seduction30/01/26 01:40 AM
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Getting cheated on <> rejected
/r/seduction30/01/26 01:37 AM
0

Bruh, you don't know the first thing about anything you're talking about.
/r/seduction26/01/26 12:46 PM
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You’re being super silly son. This is not how any of this works. Seduction is and will always be theory and only in the most layman’s definition of the word, as anecdote is your strongest evidence 🤷🏿‍♀️
/r/seduction26/01/26 10:19 AM
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Yeah, there’s nothing factual in seduction. There is no factual, 100%, scientific way to seduce people, lol. If you want to talk about psychology, like I’ve said that’s not even a hard science.
/r/seduction26/01/26 09:54 AM
-1

What do you think psychology has to do with mass approaching? Even then, psychology isn’t even a hard science.
/r/seduction26/01/26 07:10 AM
-1

This will all be theory. There’s no such thing as fact in seduction. Closest you can get is anecdotes, which are nothing but your own experience
/r/seduction26/01/26 07:05 AM
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Gotta hit the gym, dress like a slut, speak in short but impactful sentences.
/r/seduction22/01/26 07:49 AM
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Yeah, it's a wrap
/r/seduction17/01/26 11:30 PM
1

you must really hate and/or don't like your job LOL
/r/seduction08/01/26 04:35 PM
-1

Well, it's legal there sooo... Honestly I feel like it's 60% in a lot of other places, Vegas is probably more like 65-75%
/r/seduction22/03/25 12:25 AM
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Ask them out. If they say no, move one.
/r/seduction15/03/25 07:46 AM
1

Not sure what a "faang job" is, but no matter your city size, if 85% of the jobs there are service industry, getting both server and bartending jobs can be muy dificil
/r/seduction14/03/25 10:04 PM
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Bartender is the easiest to get into, depending on where you live. It's hyper competitive where I stay. Also, medical field is really promiscuous, even though it's little more resource intensive.
/r/seduction13/03/25 04:28 PM
62

Came here to say this. Every bartender I know, every hookup or relationship they have started with a customer, lol.
/r/seduction13/03/25 04:26 PM
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Lol, so weird
/r/seduction17/02/25 01:02 AM
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I thought the "I can fix them " thing was a female thing. Who knew. Also, beauty is subjective. Just because you think someone is attractive doesn't mean I will. Just because you think someone is attractive, doesn't mean they think they're attractive; they may not be their type. Anyway, getting involved with this person is a fool's errand. They got some self work to do
/r/seduction06/02/25 11:39 AM
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Ain't nothing wrong with being maidenless. It's so stress free and free in general. Life's already a beach, don't need 3 more of them, lulz.
/r/seduction27/01/25 01:15 PM
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Naw, it's about 20% of men that women find attractive on apps. The extra 10% is when a woman gets bored every now and again. For that remaining 10% it is faster and easier on apps.
/r/seduction24/01/25 07:20 AM
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For 80-90% of men, that isn't true at all 😂
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:51 AM
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lol yeap. Make going to clubs a hobby and you're set.
/r/seduction13/01/25 11:43 AM
2

I have no idea. My most discreet flirting was with this chick who was hosting a party. She was a diabetic and was injecting her insulin. After she finished, she showed me her gauze that had a little blood on it. She says, "you want some of my DNA?" I said, "No thanks, but you can have some of mine." She threw the gauze in the waste bin and said ""I'm good" and started walking away. It took her a second to register, because she made a few steps, stopped, and turned around blushing with the the mo…
/r/seduction11/01/25 04:48 AM
2

Well, if you're never making your intentions known, they're not going to know why you're texting them. Why do you need a witty response? Why not just get to the point?
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:57 PM
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Means you don't do anything to seduce them, they're already DTF. You just didn't do anything to give 'em the dreaded ick.
/r/seduction07/01/25 05:12 AM
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Seems like she came pre seduced, lol. That's pretty much the same as ally stories. When you're around certain people for a long enough time, it'll just happen naturally. No seduction required
/r/seduction07/01/25 02:45 AM
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You must be too huh? YT people, ASSEMBLE!!!
/r/seduction06/01/25 05:23 PM
0

Lol, yeah, I'm the racist one. Sure.
/r/seduction04/01/25 07:07 PM
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Poor girl was probably thinking, "is this one of the racist ones, or one of the fetishist ones? Or one of the half-and-half's?" lol
/r/seduction04/01/25 05:25 PM
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Considering your openers, definitely mostly white. You guys are crazy about race and ethnicity 😂
/r/seduction04/01/25 03:52 PM
16

are you white?
/r/seduction04/01/25 02:30 PM
2

So your HS crush is a female? A little confused
/r/seduction03/01/25 08:27 AM
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That's the one place that is off limits for me. The gym, while they're at work and I'm a customer, anywhere else. Ain't no 😺 or 🍑 worth risking my job for 😂
/r/seduction03/01/25 06:39 AM
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Yes, it's true that a woman gets hit upon by a lot of guys, but she generally ignores most of them... You've got a weird way of motivating people, lol.
/r/seduction02/01/25 07:35 AM
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Put on a little weight. Whenever I bulk, I get hit on a lot by cougars.
/r/seduction01/01/25 05:34 AM
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Worked for me :shrug emoji:
/r/seduction30/12/24 03:55 AM
1

Make and break eye contact for a while. Walk up and say: "Sorry for starring, but you know when you see a work of art that looks better the more you look at it? So, what's this one called?" Put your phone camera on front-facing and say: "I'm looking for my GF. She's gorgeous, maybe you've seen her." Then hand her the phone.
/r/seduction29/12/24 10:46 PM
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I only go alone. There's way too many people out in the first place, I'm not bringing more lol. The best wingmen are females, if you have female friends. You can go alone, you just need to be really self aware: look approachable and have a warm vibe. That can't be taught though. It might have to do with how you dress and your facial expressions. Im pretty muscular and have good fashion sense. I wear suspenders and apparently, that's pretty disarming for people. I lost a bunch of weight and they …
/r/seduction28/12/24 11:48 PM
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I'm pretty sure they think the experience comes from, the experience. That's why women don't really care much about a high bodycount for a man. You need a high bodycount in order to know what you're doing.
/r/seduction28/12/24 06:31 AM
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It feels like being a comedian and thinking you're hilarious. But if the only one who laughs at your jokes is you, are you funny? Fuck a winner mindset. You just have to not mind losing. Once you're no longer afraid to lose, you're playing the game on debug mode, lol.
/r/seduction28/12/24 05:11 AM
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You ever heard that Daft Punk and Pharrell song Get Lucky? Anyone still lingering around that late, are generally out specifically because they're looking to "get lucky", lol. Bars/clubs close at 3pm where I am, so if anyone is still out that late, they're probably way too drunk and/or ugly.
/r/seduction24/12/24 07:12 PM
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Then they're not genuine people. If there are 2 genuine people who meet each other, and they're both looking for a partner, I don't think it'll take long.
/r/seduction24/12/24 09:22 AM
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That's what I'm saying. If you're genuine, there's no mask to drop.
/r/seduction24/12/24 09:18 AM
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I replied to some post somewhere talking about knowing you want to marry someone after 2-3 months of dating. I feel like 2-3 years is for people who aren't genuine and don't know if they want to be married or not. If you're moving with purpose, I feel like maybe 6 months is the max. otherwise, you're just winging it.
/r/seduction24/12/24 09:17 AM
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I'm never proposing, but if there's 2 genuine people who meet each other and they're both looking for marriage, why not? How long do you think you should wait? Also, didn't i just see another similar post about this a little bit ago?
/r/seduction24/12/24 08:22 AM
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I'm going to say no. Paying for OLD is not worth it for most guys. If it's not working for you for free, it's not going to work for you for money
/r/seduction24/12/24 06:18 AM
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I've got 2.5. A full time, 1 part time, and a gig. Women are expensive, lol.
/r/seduction24/12/24 01:08 AM
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Right. I'm too socially anxious to walk into a building with that many people sober, lol.
/r/seduction23/12/24 07:19 PM
113

You really just need to workout a lot, wear nice clothes, and go to bars/clubs at around 1am or 2am. At least, that's what I did. As long as you're not painfully socially awkward you're good. You can be socially awkward (as I am) so just don't talk a lot.
/r/seduction23/12/24 07:40 AM
2

A leading question implies a certain response with key phrases: "Are you always this clever, or did you just have your coffee" "Do you always look this gorgeous, or is something special happening?"
/r/seduction20/12/24 07:33 PM
3

It's more comfortable in my bed
/r/seduction20/12/24 09:22 AM
6

Very short, blunt sentences. Mostly leading questions unless it's a joke.
/r/seduction20/12/24 08:19 AM
5

My most memorable is when I walked into a bar and sat down next to a chick who was literally setting up a booty call. She jumped at the chance to give me an IOI, and we ended up leaving before I got to order a drink. She liked the fact that I had a car, because she would've had to pick dude on the phone up and drop him back off. I saved so much time and actually go to sleep that night. Easiest lay of my life, and I didn't spend a dime. I appreciate that one Blake, lol.
/r/seduction20/12/24 07:20 AM
0

I think the first way to improve is to get over a female's looks. Thinking it's a milestone is nasty work.
/r/seduction19/12/24 11:52 AM
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As soon as she tells you she wants a commited relationship
/r/seduction30/11/24 05:59 AM
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Typo, 45lbs ago. But yeah. Nothing about me changed but how I looked, then all of a sudden I matter. Went from people cutting me off or walking away when I speak, to people asking me to repeat myself when I mutter to myself. Sucks to think about how fleeting relationships are.
/r/seduction25/11/24 01:27 PM
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Physical fitness is my entire game. Well, maybe 85/15 with fashion. It's been pointed out to me that I have pretty privilege even though I'm a 5.5/10 face wise, lol. Allowed to skip lines, break rules, and free shit quite often. I'm tall and muscular and women approach me all the time. About 35lbs ago, I was invisible, lol.
/r/seduction25/11/24 09:19 AM
4

You most definitely will be at first. But what's the worst thing that could happen? You'd just end up back where you started, so you can just try again. Just remember what you did the last time, and try not to do it the next time.
/r/seduction23/11/24 07:55 AM
13

Get off the apps. Just go into a bar around 12-1am. It's pretty much easy mode. 2-3am is baby mode, but you don't want to go home with anyone still in a bar/club at 2-3pm.
/r/seduction23/11/24 05:21 AM
1

How often you talking to 7+ women? Where tf you stay,? Miami? Florida???
/r/seduction22/11/24 08:05 AM
1

What flaws do you appreciate?
/r/seduction08/11/24 06:40 AM
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Social media is all about clout and status. Doesn't matter what you say. You need a sizeable follower count and images illustrating a high status lifestyle.
/r/seduction06/10/24 04:12 PM
2

Actually, both depending on when you go. There's arcade games, pool, skee ball, pinball, and 4 tvs. One tv always has golden girls, one has random internet dance videos, one always have pokemon, and the last has a random anime. That night was silent disco night, so there were a bunch of people dancing with headphones on. It's my favourite spot in town.
/r/seduction03/10/24 12:17 AM
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I have absolutely , I repeat ABSOLUTELY, no game! I put all my skill points into my height, muscularity, and fashion. Last chick I picked up, I sat down 2 stools away from her sitting alone in front of a tv at a bar that was playing Golden Girls on mute. I heard her setting up a booty call that she was annoyed with because he didn't have a car. She was going to pick him up and drop him off, lol. I noticed she seemed to be into the show, so once she got off the phone, I loudly said something like…
/r/seduction02/10/24 05:47 AM
2

I just wait for the double take. Say something out loud that anyone can respond to, if she does, we're golden.
/r/seduction01/10/24 05:54 PM
2

The point is seduction. Changing “who you are” with the goal of seduction, is pretending to be something you’re not. It’s not being “the best version of yourself “ haha. It’d be far more helpful if people were just upfront about that. Find a persona people respond positively to and use it.
/r/seduction01/06/24 12:53 AM
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Change that happens naturally is one thing. Change you intentionally do for a specific end isn't true change. It's theatrics.
/r/seduction31/05/24 08:12 PM
1

That's exactly what you have to do. You are already yourself. You have to act like someone else in order to be attractive. You can't just be someone else, you are you. But, you can act like anyone you want.
/r/seduction31/05/24 08:10 PM
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Mmm hmm
/r/seduction31/05/24 12:31 AM
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Probably not. LTR's are not in the cards for me ATM. My mind has been poisoned on the whole idea.
/r/seduction28/03/24 04:44 PM
1

Ideally, back to your place. You have to do a but if screening for that. Everyone else gets a coffee date where we play We're Not Really Strangers. Gets em every time.
/r/seduction27/03/24 01:18 AM
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Ask them if it's serious. Point out she's not wearing a ring. Tell her there's really nothing stopping her from giving you a phone number/IG (# is always preferable). Log the fact that she gave you her info because she's either a liar or an infidel. That's what I do. Works fairly well.
/r/seduction25/03/24 06:32 PM
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A lot of times, I'd wager most, after people who are doing it for others tend to fall off from it once they start getting noticed. They go, "yeah, I did it", and then stop. Especially when they get into a relationship. Another common scenario is, when they get fit and realize that that isn't enough to achieve their goals, they also quit.
/r/seduction21/03/24 09:27 PM
3

It's rather common really
/r/seduction19/03/24 07:45 AM
220

She's playing you dum dum; using you. She allows you to service her, but reneges consent when it's your turn. Grow a spine and reject her. She's a cheater anyway
/r/seduction19/03/24 02:30 AM
5

There's way too many expectations women have of men in order to have fun with them. It's easy to have fun with my female friends, because having fun is the goal with them and they don't have the same expectations of those men. If I focus on having fun with females I want to date, they just end up becoming friends. It's counter intuitive.
/r/seduction16/03/24 07:58 PM
1

It's fear of rejection ultimately. Low self-esteem. You assume they don't like you, before ever meeting you. The best way to get over it is to get mad at yourself and then starting small. I would just stop women and ask their names. Then, smile, thank them and Walk away. Of course some people will think you're weird (you probably are) but others will light up. Those people are those who would've been receptive. Also, finding couples and asking them how they met can also be helpful in getting ove…
/r/seduction25/02/24 09:54 PM
1

I give zero f's about status. I'm speaking from the devil's advocate perspective for those who do care about it. My happiness is not dependent on how I'm viewed by others. But if it were, I would prioritize my image versus all else. Just look at celebrities, influencers, and politicians.
/r/seduction06/09/23 03:11 PM
0

Doesn't matter what people think or what the truth is. All that matters is what you project and what you have to show for it. Fake it til you make it, then fake some more.
/r/seduction06/09/23 05:49 AM
6

It really only boosts your confidence, if she's out of your league and you're not used to it.
/r/seduction06/09/23 02:26 AM
2

But, if you have the status, it doesn't matter if you've fixed the problem or not.
/r/seduction06/09/23 02:25 AM
1

And feces.
/r/seduction31/10/22 01:46 PM
1

I mean, I don't go to the grocery store expressly to meet women, I go to get groceries. But, I have a few times. I use that as an example because dudes act like women aren't literally everywhere but they don't know where to meet them. I live in an art school college town, so there's a bunch of pale nerdy chicks about (my type). One had on a Fire Force t-shirt and I just gotten finished watching the anime. Complimented and talked about it and anime in general for a while. She told me about an ani…
/r/seduction11/01/22 08:34 AM
2

I used to think this too. The #MeToo movement and the subsequent social media fallout made it seem like women hated men all of a sudden. It's a distorted reality. Women, even the ones that complain about being bothered, want to be approached. What they are tired of is: rude, chauvinistic, misogynistic men catcalling and then responding with aggression when they are rebuffed or rejected. That happens so frequently that women say they are being "bothered". Just don't be the guy. Look presentable, …
/r/seduction11/01/22 08:18 AM
1

I ask for their name, but don't tell them mine unless they ask. It's a simple way to show an I.O.I (indication of interest).
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:14 PM
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You can cold approach from anywhere dude. My favorite is the grocery store. It's the coldest of cold approaches. In night clubs, women are expecting to get approached by 100 dudes and their guard is way up. Plus, you've got a bunch of competition. I.e, a fuckton of pressure. In a grocery store, it's low stakes and spontaneous, seemingly. You can tell the women that are open to being approached when they have a basket full of groceries, but are dressed as if they are on a date. The best piece of …
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:03 PM
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I've no idea. I'm an introvert and can't stand night clubs. People go to meet people but it's: too dark to see people, too loud to hear them speak, and too crowded to focus on any one thing. Plus I find alcohol makes 90% of people obnoxious. People do this constantly though, so maybe I'm just not about that life. Hope you figure it out and find what you're looking for. Cheers mate.
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:51 PM
1

Been working on myself for ~7 months now. I figure I'd start with the physical part and then work on the mental. After going to the doctor and racking up quite a bit in med bills, I lost 80lbs and counting. I did that by incorporating Bruce Lee's philosophy. Summarized as, "take the best parts of everything and put them together in your own way". So I: fast every other day, work out like an athlete (1-2 hours daily), and watch what I eat on feed days. I figure I'd do the same with the mental. Dr…
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:17 PM
1

What if you're a woman? Non-gendered? It's patronizing either way. The advice should be to change yourself. Be a better version of yourself. Yourself, as you are now, is right about you. At least, that is what I keep trying to convince myself of.
/r/seduction08/01/22 02:56 AM
2

Hey, some people don't count hookers as people. But yeah, I go through so many during the year that I have to fight the urge to pay civilian, non-hooker women i sleep with.
/r/seduction27/12/21 01:19 PM
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