Not OP, but I’ll give it a go You said: “Just because someone wants sexual attention, doesn’t mean they want it from you”. This implies women seek sexual attention from a select group of men, presumably those to whom they are attracted themselves. Men who are deemed attractive by any given woman are probably objectively more attractive. Ergo women seek attention from the men they consider attractive; the men who are attractive. It is an extrapolation, but the implication is there.