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Cope. U ain't a 8/10 if u under 6ft unless your very attractive. You aren't an 8/10 at all unless you're very attractive, what's the difference? Also, I said above 7, not 8: I'd call myself a 7.5-8 A 6ft 4 version with your face will get more girls than current u. Yes & no. My dad is a 6'2" version of me and he hardly got girls, but he's a pussy. In a vacuum, yes, a 6'4" version of me would do better than 5'10" me, but also: vacuums don't exist. I have a really ideal build with really broad, wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:01 AM
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Women's vagina never hurts for Chad. They concluded this in a study
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:35 AM
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No, I am a stranger to me, you are using schemas of other people to judge what I'm saying. I'm not like that. Yes, I harbor some feelings for her, as is reasonable, so I found out about it... but objectively, I'm a lot better than him lol. I mean, there's other reasons we broke up, which explain why she "downgraded" despite me liking her, but you don't want to hear my whole life story lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:44 AM
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Tips or advice for dealing with not being picked/rejection/jealousy/etc? Based on what you said I feel like you could have gotten her but I'm sensing some missing details wherein you either wanted to keep dating to try to do better, withheld how you felt, or maybe you don't even really like her but you're alone and are telling yourself you did just so you can feel lonely in comparison and like you missed out in a kind of self-deprecating way. Either way it doesn't really matter. Sounds like you …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:26 AM
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Want to get over jealousy? Be better than the guy she ends up with. Lol I like the sentiment but I'm objectively better than my ex's new guy (higher income, way better looking, my personality is pretty good and was gr8 for her specifically so at best he's even) and I wouldn't call myself jealous of him or anything but it still feels like shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:22 AM
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How so? Like maybe in net worth and monetary assets... but is that all that matters to you and other people? Is the implication here that the 20 year old wants to party all night and the 30 year old doesn't? What if the 30 y/o does? I don't get it. Can we expand beyond "they're different" or "they're at different stages" and actually name and explain those stages?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:37 AM
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Yes! It is like an "inner child" aspect. It's someone being able to suspend judgement (whereas younger kids are still developing their judgement) about social rules and being able to just be primally silly, strange, and fun. Lol yeah exactly. Like, idk, for me personally, 'formal' social etiquette can get quite boring. I just like to have fun lol. But, like, really just being in the moment is something you need a specific kinda someone for haha. I get it totally I've never quite found the term t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:12 AM
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Yes, facts, you get it! Like I don't know if I need to add this qualifier but I'm a pretty normal dude lol. But like, weird shit is so fun. Or like just acting on impulses that normally you quiet in your head. It literally reminds me of being a kid lol. And kids have so much fun. They're so care-free lol. I think a lot of things like that are what I miss most about being in an LTR, that and "completely knowing someone and they completely know you." Those would be like the big two, I feel like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:56 AM
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Sounds like a new version of "I'm gay but you're welcome to try to change my mind"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:51 AM
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Lol kind of a funny post, but y'know what I think one of the worst parts of being single is? I mean I just drank a couple beers, and I was kinda just thinking about random shit, and I'm gonna skip a few steps here but I really wanted to yell the word "animals!" Like, ANIMALS!!! Not like "you are an animal," not in that sense... like I wanted to yell animals because animals (actual animals) are crazy yo. But really I feel like only an LTR you can do that kinda thing with. Other people would think…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:48 AM
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Lmao touche. To be fair, fake or not, the described situation does seem realistic. So I guess the LARPer did their homework
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:16 AM
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What's up y'all who tryna chat rn
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:15 AM
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Personally I don't know but that one seems more realistic than a lot of other things like that. Like that situation could totally happen. But most of the hype about dick size is so ridiculous, it really doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:12 AM
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Lol. I'd gladly take that deal. Idk a lot of people agree with you, that they're glad they die. I kind of see it as being a very deeply seeded cope. Like, we can't stop ourselves from dying, so it's all what we think of it. But idk, i can't bring myself to believe death is a good thing from any remotely objective POV
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:09 AM
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Maybe a little black-and-white but more or less. Some girls have enough self-awareness (or whatever you wanna call it... social grace?) to be okay with guys they don't like hitting on them. But yeah any girl who says "omg guys hitting on women in public is THE WORST" can't be taken seriously. Half those girls in 20 years will be saying "I'm so glad my husband told me my eggs were supposed to be half-off in line at Costco... we've been married 18 years now!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:06 AM
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Nah if we get anything remotely resembling that I'm the first one signing up to test it out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:03 AM
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ANA SOPHIA ROBB
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:33 AM
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Totally not responding directly to what's being said here, but my gripe with the whole thing and people's dislike of it is: Bitter people's argument: "You're at totally different life stages! You'll have less in common!" The reality: women want the whole marriage-and-kids thing younger than men. How is it the least bit shocking that in a life-timeline sense a 20 y/o girl and 30 y/o man (for example) may be at a similar place?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:24 AM
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No idea of other men's take but I have like no use at all for women doing "cooking and cleaning" for me. I'm a shitty cook but I view food as fuel not a fun activity, so if she cooks well, I view anything she makes more as like a treat than a necessity. As for cleaning, I'm naturally moderately clean, and I could give a fuck less about being any more clean than I already am. So that does nothing for me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:22 AM
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Laid back and sense of humor is so high on my list. I just constantly feel like 90% of people are too uptight for me. I have almost no filter and idk i'm just funny so I really need someone who isn't going to take that and go... "omg i need to get on his case you can't be disrespecting me like that!!!!" Like no, it's not like that, just make a joke back. Other than that, I like being able to have intelligent conversations with nuance and just the general sense of... everything you're saying alig…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:50 PM
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The things you listed are not relevant to the girl being good at being an LTR or not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:55 PM
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This is ridiculous. No one is expecting all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:01 AM
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Yeah I've heard sayings like that before with all sorts of animals (outrun the bear, outswim the shark, etc) and this was basically that in practice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:44 AM
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She turns down sex. I wouldn't date a girl like that. Bad LTR. When I say "she sucks" I don't mean "she universally sucks for all men ever." Some men are okay with being turned down. I'm not. I wouldn't date her. In my books, she sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:37 AM
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RIP I feel you tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:27 AM
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I mean, in theory, if I watched a 72-hour movie at some point I'd probably become too tired to continue watching it... But 1. sex doesn't last that long 2. just being spontaneously "tired" all day is ridiculous. Get in better shape lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:27 AM
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Facts lol. I think these people are probably just fat or something--fat lowers your libido and is gonna make sex seem like "work" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:24 AM
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Hell yeah that sounds so easy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:21 AM
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They don't do that anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:17 AM
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Lol I might be weird for this but I wish my dad had given me some semblance of a talk on how to talk to / get girls. Instead I needed to observe others & read online smh. That said, as an adult now I know he has no clue how to do it himself so... yeah, his advice would have been ass anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:17 AM
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BTW it doesn't take 10 bil for R&D, facebook started on much, much less. I kinda think OP just isn't that familiar with the mechanics behind these companies and used 'R&D' as a catch-all including user acquisition
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:15 AM
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Lol I don't need to read an article about it. I'm an attractive guy who had an LTR for 4 years, and even at the end we'd bang 10x/week or more. It's really as simple as: Date girls who are into you Date girls who are into sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:10 AM
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Replace "swearing" with tattoos and agree But no I like when girls swear lol fuck people who don't swear fr
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:07 AM
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Honestly tho I can't comprehend being too tired for sex. Yeah, like, I don't get who these people are that cite this as a legitimate reason to not have sex. It's like saying you're too tired to play video games or watch a movie... doesn't really check out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:06 AM
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This isn't about commitment. This girl just sucks and the guy doesn't inspire sex from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:04 AM
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I thought only P's were C'd because C'ing V's is genital mutilation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:01 AM
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So, I'm gonna chime in as one of the few people on here (likely) who actually made a decision like this... spoiler alert: it didn't turn out to be real, but I didn't know that at the time You can google this but in 2019(?) I was in NYC and a motorcycle backfired really close to me, which caused a lot of people to run and shout things like "active shooter!" There was a stampede and lots of people went to the hospital. I booked it with my friend and I suggested we run to the nearest building with …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:59 AM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:32 PM
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If you're 5'10" and not getting laid height has nothing to do with it Signed, A 5'10" guy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:18 AM
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18 and to this day she'd have no idea lol it was a random girl at a party
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:17 AM
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Buffalo travel in herds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:16 AM
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Well I lift lol. But other than that nah I don't go outside. Granted the whole 2-year period hasn't been as intense... the longest ago 10-months-or-so I still lived on my own albeit during the pandemic in a town I knew nobody It's just because I couldn't get a job because the US system for who is worthy of employment sucks ass, to put it shortly. So I lived at home in a place I hate (the more recent 14 months), and didn't want to socialize here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:07 AM
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Maybe workplace harassment should increase
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:55 AM
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First Q: I don't get this, all my traits equal the traits I want in a woman? I'm just looking for girl-form me. Smart, hot, works a chill job or one she's passionate about. Why haven't I found her? Haven't been outside in a couple years
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:53 AM
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a female boss telling a male (non Chad) that he would get a promotion if he fucked her Did they at least make the "female boss" a 2/10 for accuracy purposes?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:51 AM
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Idk that's still kind of corny, like an "if incels said it, no one else can." I wouldn't know what incels are saying since I don't read incel shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:28 AM
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What lol I don't think any incel has ever said this seeing as it's A) not realistic B) arbitrary and made up C) definitely not pro-men D) not posed as an actual solution to any real problems... I could have as easily said "kill all the men," which would equate to the same result, and I don't think that's an incel talking point--not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:50 PM
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Nah because that's a temporary solution, not a permanent one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:47 PM
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Cap, they only seem that way because a lot know sucker men will support them lol. Remove that safety net and they could do just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:46 PM
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We should genetically modify humans so that 90% of births are women and then all the problems on this sub would be solved
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:51 PM
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I don't understand how you can distinguish? I could go find some average girl, put on a charade I genuinely like her, fuck her for 3 months, and walk away. Her story: "I met this dope dude and it just didn't quite work out :\ Maybe I'll get the next guy like that" My story: there was never a chance lol But it'd look the same whether my story was "there wasn't a chance" or it was "dis da best girl evah"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:38 PM
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Let's just look at it like this. Men prioritize sex, women prioritize relationships. Men want sex with multiple women because they like sex so much. Women want relationships with _____ There's also a factor of: For men, your wife/LTR/gf tends to be "the best you can do." You fuck all the girls you fuck, a high percent of those want to LTR you, and you LTR the best one. For women, your husband/LTR/bf tends to be "the worst you can do." Go to any bar ever, any event ever, and higher value men will…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:17 PM
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Yeah I pretty much agree, with the addition that (and this is super annoying) the less you like a girl the more likely she is to like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:13 PM
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I don't think you should care? I don't think there's any underlying ideology founded or "protected" by the USA that is of any real value to the human species; the USA mostly serves a certain class of people within it and tolerates the others because without them that aforementioned class wouldn't have the man-power to get everything they currently do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:11 PM
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Good way to become incel
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:42 AM
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The better one of your jobs is, the easier the other is And yes, that can go either way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:49 AM
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Were you me?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:47 AM
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Why you talking about "non-rich non-tall guys" like that. Nah bruh. I be that Chad-type taking her best years
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:46 AM
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It's a riddle
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:45 AM
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To be fair you asked them about one of the youngest ages they wouldn't care about. Try asking them about 17 and 24 LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:44 AM
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I was basically saying: you probably know people who want that, so it's not that crazy to want a life-long connection. Plenty of people do. It's out there Funny you remember that lol. Ummmm to be completely honest I found out he's pretty in shape, so despite the very very very ugly face, I feel like the whole thing made more sense finding out he's fit. He seems a lot like me* (albeit facially uglier) from the limited info I have, so it didn't actually end up impacting my views that much... thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:32 AM
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i aint married to nun but the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:34 AM
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ppl always want more than what they currently have yet adjust to what they do have
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:34 AM
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id like to be able to say the n word
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:33 AM
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yes, no, maybe so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:33 AM
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just get the girl pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:31 AM
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wanna fuck, thtd solve ur problems
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:31 AM
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cuz women have a bigger chess, it wouldnt be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:30 AM
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no, think: do u want tht, does anyone uk want tht, ok those ppl r out there too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:30 AM
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To be fair I am the one who basically just made him into Billy Beta; I'm not certain he's actually just the exact same as the old trope with a new name, but yeah, that's how I've taken it so far
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:28 PM
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Catcher in the Rye? It's always been how a lot of teenagers feel lol. I would hope a lot of "guys" don't feel like Holden Caulfield as adults; he's literally like a famous symbol of teenage rebellion. Like I said, it was probably my favorite book as a teenager, but reading it as an adult I couldn't imagine relating to him anymore lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:27 PM
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I don't understand your takeaway? Maybe you're saying because it implies "couldn't get a girl his age but could get me, a younger girl." Idk I wouldn't read into it. Women throw that ideology around like candy. Truth is, the hotter girl is the harder one to get, and the less hot girl is easier. And the girl you get along with better is easier to get, and the one you get along with less is harder. The age isn't really relevant, as imo women know their "market value" pretty well by like 20. Pre-20…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:11 PM
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I really liked it and related as a kid (read: 15/16), but I re-read it as an adult and I thought it was kind of funny more than anything. He has some good points and relatable feelings, but the main character is pretty immature. It's kind of solipsistic. He thinks other people don't relate to how he feels. They do, but many people don't act out because of it. Teens love it because it's the age most people act out, and it's most relatable then. But as people grow we stop acting like Holden becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:03 PM
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I'd call myself non-jaded but I haven't seen "average Adam" used enough times to have a super strong understanding of it--from the little I've seen, I'd say: He's some guy without strongly attractive features (not high income, not tall, not hot, not fit) that women supposedly don't like. Ironically imo I think he's kind of a caricature based on what I've seen because a truly "average" guy would (obviously) have some above-average traits... the above-average + the below-average is how you = avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:59 PM
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overabundance of incredibly wealthy people earning the big bucks who have time to spend here. To be fair, wealth does purchase time. Like you don't hear a lot from low-paid workers online: why? Because they're busy working 80 hours per week--they aren't online. Likewise the richest people have the most time for bullshit like this, though I don't disagree many are probably capping
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:57 AM
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Oh in that case I agree, like, I would be pissed if it was banned everywhere. But (and this is definitely a selfish take) I don't really care and I think most of the people making a big deal are ridiculous. This truly impacts such a fragment of the people who act like it impacts them... but again, if you're saying outright banning it, then yeah, that'd be pretty bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:35 AM
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But could I own the Texas Rangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:49 AM
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You forgot the best part of the story His ACT score was a 24 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:49 AM
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"9/11 was an inside job" - George Bush
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:47 AM
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me too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:52 AM
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For anyone who doesn't like the way the USA is run... Just remember, if George Bush could become President, you could too. Be the change you want to see in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:46 AM
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To be honest I'm down lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:44 AM
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Fun fact (and you may be aware): regardless of the 'average IQ' across genders, men have much more disparity in IQ than women. I.E., there's many more men with the lowest and highest IQs, while most women hover closer to average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:43 AM
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It's actually hardly anyone's issue. Like, the fucked up part is: Yeah, it's the issue of people in poverty who can't afford a ride to the state over to get the abortion. That is... not most people. The vast majority of Americans can afford to just go somewhere else and get the abortion. This hardly effects 90% of Americans, except it perhaps being inconvenient
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:15 AM
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71.6% of adults aged 20 and over are overweight, including obesity. An average girl IS an overweight girl. I've never seen the stats to be this high... I've seen like 50% tho Fat people are disproportionately post-dating-age Fat people disproportionately live in places that most people don't date from... i.e., rural Kentucky, Mississippi, etc Even given all that you need to be pretty low value (or fat yourself) to be in their league
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:13 AM
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This extreme, no But I've definitely seen a fair amount of guys I'd call a 7-8 with girls I'd call a 4-5. That said I've seen the opposite too, with the girl being hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:09 AM
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I feel like you made the wrong point? Lol In theory (not always in practice) women are dating to stop dating. Them saying "dating sucks" and doing a lot of it is pretty in-line--if it had gone well and they got what they wanted, they would have already met the guy and stopped dating *Again, note: in theory. Some girls aren't like this these days, but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:57 PM
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damn i was hoping for a link to the balls out jeans commercial
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:51 AM
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I mean I semi-explicitly-chased, kinda like passively chased it, in my college years bc I graduated HS a virgin and I do think that had I not I'd have a lot more 'bitterness' or w/e towards women in an LTR sense, since I'd always feel like I missed out... but yeah neglecting the rest of your life for extended periods for that goal is dumb and will have you waking up one day w/ regrets
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:50 AM
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Nah i mean hangovers hit hard, valid excuse, but its also why i cut drinking hella
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:47 AM
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When im dating a stacy tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:46 AM
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Ime hot girls dont reject harshly like this, but average women who want to act tough / desirable do. Its an insecurity thing, a chance to put someone down
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:45 AM
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Maybe if elon buys reddit he’ll unban them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:42 AM
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Depends where you are in life, a phase to me makes sense, but i agree about doing it as a lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:41 AM
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But i only have 3
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:40 AM
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Idk i'm a little young to be commenting on it but 30 is pretty close to 40 and by 40 you're like def kinda old. So that only gives you 10 yrs til ur at ages where ur just not ur young self anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:15 PM
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Like I don't disagree you can "get better girls by leveling up" if you progress from 22 to 35 in your career, fitness, etc But it's lame. Men already die younger than women. So say you get a 24 y/o when you're 35. You get the wonderful ages of 35-70 with her lol. None of the "fun" years
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:13 PM
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Lol. Not dogs. I have to take a call in like 30 seconds so I cant look into what im referencing rn but theres animals that genuinely use language. Like, can pass down info through generations, communicate ideas, form strategies, all that. its just not exactly the same as when humans do it, so we dont count it and invalidate it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:12 PM
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Eh pretty lame you need to wait for life to be half over to start it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:09 PM
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most average men Average men are about 5'10" and range from too-skinny to kind of pudgy, with a face that doesn't make up for it No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:07 PM
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chad checking in, wassup
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:06 PM
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what do you think as humans is our transcendent quality? Like, the one that puts us on a different plane than animals? Ego lol Other animals have language--we just choose not to recognize it as being "as good as" ours Other animals/insects/organisms outnumber us in all of: total body mass, total organisms living, longevity of species as a species, but we "run the world" because, I guess, we have missiles and stuff? Even tho those would kill us too lmao But humans have the innate ability to defin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:03 PM
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Nah like the stakes are way different Guy does it: girl fucks a guy she wouldve wanted to fuck anyways barring cultural programming (male virgins r icky) Girl does it: guy can literally marry someone he wouldnt have
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:24 PM
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Women can’t really opt out. They’ll always be approached and whatnot. If men lose interest they’re all but guaranteed to be single
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:17 PM
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In theory, sure. In practice, no, because: Vibe matters a lot, and there's no such thing as vibe on OLD. Women are passive in dating therefore unlikely to make accounts and sift through the men, so men are overrepresented. As a result, you're highly likely to date down if you meet your LTR through OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:04 PM
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A commonly used trope is also the following argument : "My iq is 160, but women don't like me. Therefore women don't like intelligence". The truth is they don't care about extremely high levels of intelligence. But they still care a lot about it. I would doubt the person making that argument actually has that IQ. That's a low IQ argument. Anyone with an IQ realizes that people like those who are similar to them, and IQs that deviate significantly from the mean are not relatable to average or eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:03 PM
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Nah this is cap, most girls I know within the top 3% of intelligence or so date down in that metric. And I do happen to know a lot of girls like that. It's not even about preference at that point as much as... you're going to be single forever if you're within the top few percentiles and want a trait matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:01 PM
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To be fair men skew right wing more than women as-is, so a "man's men" philosophy having participants who skew right isn't that wild
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:59 PM
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ur a 2
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:58 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:45 PM
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A ladder lol, obvi
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:31 PM
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Thanks dawg lol. It would track, since in my experience, a lot of the people here can't get results in their own lives yet still think their wider views on dating can be right... imo, you need to be able to handle yourself before you're qualified to handle others. Not that I'm swimming in pussy, or have the perfect LTR, or anything--but I do well, and a lot of people here cant say the same
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:25 PM
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Yeah that's like exactly what I said in my other post too and how I feel about this overall. Face takes precedence (which I understand why some people want to reject that) and then beyond that height/build matter but not independently, as in, tall with a terrible build =/= good despite the fact that you can write down a height but you can't write down a build. And fitness matters too, again, despite the fact fitness isn't as quantifiable as "I am 6'2"."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:20 PM
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The very last thing, definitely agree (I mean, obvi, I already said that lol) To the... "he's thin, therefore above average bit"--I'm going to say: do keep in mind this guy is about 20 (I don't know his age, but using context clues). Most people who get fat get fat post-college. For his age, being thin isn't some huge win. A lot of guys who later get fat are, at his age, involved in sports and shit and "in the best shape of their lives." A lot of college athletes end up fat. At his age, they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:16 PM
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Uhhhh, so, I mean here was my thoughts on that/the vid: He's not mega popular (30k subscribers) but the vid is--so it's not like he was flashing fame to get these girls to act, nor does he probably have the $ to pay them to act He does cut out the intro, so you only see the ending (when he tries to "close") Some of the girls even acknowledge the situation... one of the girls says even she just wanted to "go on the date for the content"--the thing about that is, you can kinda simulate that in oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:09 PM
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This is the most level response I think I've seen about the topic. I do kind of agree he would beat "an average guy with an average face," but mostly because I believe in "finding your niche." The average guy with average height appeals to no niche; he's just "meh." This guy could, in theory, appeal to mid women who like height above all and can't get the "good looking" tall guy. In general I think having bad and good traits is better than just having all mediocre traits. That said the dudes who…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:58 PM
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So, I mean, to your first point: I am 5'10" and I get laid fine. Being that I'm average height with a good build and good face, height is just not part of my life. The only reason I even discuss it is being here. To your last bit: no, I would argue a good face will go way further than height. If you asked me "do you want to be two or three inches taller, or make a couple adjustments to your face to get women"--I would pick the face option. A good face on a male who is 5'7" or taller will get gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:55 PM
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Men value height in other men, so to men, who aren’t attracted to men.. they’re rating him a 6. Height will never trump facial ugliness. Online men* I think that irl men get it more. No one thought the 6'1" ugly guy in HS was a stud lol. No one thinks their 6'1" ugly coworker is slaying either. It's like the internet's version of how dudes who hit the gym (not all but some) look at those huge bodybuilders as inspiration, and women just want a kind-of-big-but-cut guy in real life, not Hulk Hogan
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:47 PM
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I completely agree with you which is why I said it lol It's people who think this guy is a 6/10 that think the "average man" is struggling This guy, who IS a 4/10, is showing he can get girls with some effort. To some degree (I know it's an artificial environment w/e, but still--on some level, it's working) The average man is fine. He doesn't get daily pussy from a new chick, but he's far from incel lol. The "average man" is only an incel when you, well, decide that incels represent "average men…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:40 PM
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Ok firstly I might misremember the thread but did he actually frame that as a negative? Maybe I just skimmed or w/e but I (maybe mistakenly) thought the point was "in as little as 8 hours, you could have 10 dates." But I agree that dating and whatnot should take a while. If it doesn't, you're probably not doing enough due diligence to make sure this person is actually a good fit for you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:38 PM
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Did you read what I said, like at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:33 PM
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From one of the thread's today but imma bring it here too: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mC34TSXNKiY&list=LL&index=1&t=375s How in the fuck can people actually say the dude in this video (go to the start if you wanna see him) is a 6/10? I swear some of y'all delusional. His face is made of pizza and even if it wasn't he'd STILL be below average facially. Inb4 "BRO, he's, like, 6'1" dude! Da bitchez luv da heightz!" Mf naw, girls love when a GOOD LOOKING guy is tall, not when some pencil-armed …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:31 PM
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More annoying is how there's two political parties who feel like they both represent half of what's in people's best interests, and no party who represents all the things in people's best interests
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:26 PM
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… Yes and no. He’s a weird guy, and generally, a “danger.” Not one to associate with. But the odds are he’s not going to actually do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:00 PM
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I don't think either? He just seems like a weird dude with weird ideas. If I was a girl, yeah, I'd want him to stay the fuck away from me, but I don't think he's actually dangerous. Just a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:22 PM
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I’m 25 and can afford to buy a house. Youre older and still living paycheck to paycheck. Not certain what you saw in this chick in the first place lol... Raise those standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:19 PM
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how killing babies is such a priority for single women, they showed up in record numbers to protect that right. To be fair it's kind of annoying how Republicans are right on most points right now and Democrats suck ass for this country's economy but Republicans randomly had to go and strongly back abortion bans to make sure no one liked them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:17 PM
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They're on 4chan or making bank working as a software engineer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:50 PM
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Just going to say... while these interactions are real, sure, they're also on camera, and videos like this have been made before. There's really no way at all to know the "real life results" of this. SimplePickup used to do stuff like this all the time; they were generally good-looking (except one of them), but they would use fat suits and stuff to counteract that at times. Getting a girl's number and/or getting her to say yes is completely different than actually meeting up with her and banging…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:07 PM
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I'm just glad he used my college friend's old pickup line "you're a 9/10 and I'm the one you need"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:05 PM
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Lmao I feel that, im 24 but I went to my first concerts starting in like 2017 and i wanted to go to a mac miller one but he hadnt been to my nearest city within that stretch and then RIP, probably the most ive ever cared that a famous person died bc i watched the man grow up from when i was literally 11 to like 21
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:20 PM
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Oh I didn't even think of that baggage could mean different things to different people To me baggage would be like, just unpleasant things about the person (could have been dealt with or not). Like a traumatic childhood (dealt w/ or not), an ex who they really liked and maybe have some residual feelings for, a 'slutty' past, fear of having missed out in youth, uhhh--come to think of it, I guess these are mostly things someone would still be dealing with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:35 PM
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Lol I sporadically post here & I used to be active in the Discord. But usually i just hide in my mom's basement
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:32 PM
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I think we're going to get a divorce. I caught her with my brother, but we're still trying to work things out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:31 PM
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Yeah I mean in regards to your first points, any kind of echo chamber will suck you in. Hell, my n-count and whatnot is pretty solid, and I've gone through a period of kind of "shut-in-ness" and reading this stuff sometimes makes me forget it's not over for me lol The age gap disapproval on Reddit is so fucking obnoxious lol. It also kind of plays into: I hate how quickly people on Reddit jump to assumptions based on things they've read before from entirely different people too. Good example: my…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:29 PM
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Yeah I agree w/ what you said which is why I think most men say that men give better advice on getting women than women do. It just breaks down to: Women's advice: "Here is how you would get a girl like me, or like, I guess I've heard my friend bitch about men too--maybe this would work on her, but yea, tbh idrk, GL dude" Men's advice: "I used to get rejected by a higher % of women than I do now, here's what I changed, maybe that will help" Obviously neither is perfect advice but one is a lot mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:25 PM
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Lmao yeah women do be like "Don't change yoself fo no man hunz! You iz enuff az u iz, sis"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:22 PM
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I don't agree with this take. This is the standards to get a low or maybe medium value male lol. But surprisingly, some women want more than that. My standards--and I'm sure as hell not alone in this--are much higher than that for women. You could make the same argument for dudes. Want a naggy fatty? Ok, bro, just exist! See, it's so easy! But then dudes be like: "Well... I don't want a naggy fatty." Ok then, that's not appealing? Do more. It's really not that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:21 PM
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I'm not an avid reader of Nihilism but I am familiar with how the core idea is "nothing really matters." Here's my experience of it: I believe that (the core idea) 100%. But I'm completely cool with it. Just due to life experience and whatnot, I kinda had to embrace a "nothing matters" approach to find happiness. So I'm a pretty happy person. BUT: In my experience, very few people can just accept that nothing matters like I can. Especially women. Many people I speak to about the topic, especiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:18 PM
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Super cool, funny, wealthy, fit, really likes me, helps me reach my goals, perfect face, probably blonde, not sure what else Keep in mind this is perfect and I'd obvi settle for less
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:14 PM
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I think ppl overstate how bad being inexperienced is They kinda overstate how bad being any (insert bad thing) is. If you're not 6' it's over. If you're not jacked it's over. If you're not rich it's over. If you're not--you get it lol. Ultimately it's just a scapegoat they can point to to externalize the blame* *Caveat: a small percentage of people do truly have genetics so bad theyre fucked, but it's much smaller a percentage than is portrayed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:13 PM
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Hey to be fair I think this is a blind spot for lots of people. I'm not exactly the target of your post but it's something I need to remind myself of a lot when dating. I get really pushed back when someone shares something negative about themselves but my history isn't exactly clean itself, but it's human nature to be like that i think--at least in a gut-reaction sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:09 PM
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Rt but mac miller for me lol, followed that dude from like 2010 on and felt like i grew up with his music
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:08 PM
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There's no people around me, so I don't know how people around me could have told me anything. School is a machine built by smart, wealthy men to hammer everyone else into predesignated cogs Eh, most wealthy people send their kids to top-ranked schools. Many wealthy people even shell out tons of extra money for that privilege. because high finance requires protection against overproduction leading to competition causing downward profit trends. I'm not sure what you're saying. We have overproduct…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:20 AM
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The good news is that if you are smart and capable or retarded and lucky, you can still do great things. I honestly don't really believe this. I spent over a year looking for a job very actively, and I went to a top-tier school, had high grades, and an above-top-1% IQ, plus I "work hard." Really I'm capable of doing anything, but I come from an unprivileged background and jobless area so I don't have great resources to "get my foot in the door," so after a year I'm finally starting out on an ok …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:17 PM
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I think 'about to' is debatable and non-knowable. But I do think something needs to srsly change because the current trending direction is abysmal. Like I think all 14 things I listed are pretty bad for the 'average American,' and they're all happening at once. It's solvable, but it's not exactly gr8
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:51 PM
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Tbh idt homophobia is something I would cite as an issue in America anymore. Idrk any countries with less homophobia, or even historically, most* periods had more. I think people esp. in younger ages are pretty accepting of that these days. That said, if you live in some form of bible belt or Utah or something, maybe that doesn't hold for those areas. But i've never lived somewhere like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:52 PM
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I know you meant 'talking head' but I saw 'taking head' and my initial reaction was to wonder if you meant beheadings or guys getting blowjobs at first lol Yeah, this is true, I also think that kind of relates to a more wide problem I see: we focus so much of our resources on business. These businesses make massive profit and employ a lot of "dead weight" (ultimately, as a result of being so big) and then, wow, now we have money! But because there's so much money to be made in business people in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:50 PM
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Unfortunately that just adds Problem 15: the obesity crisis :\
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:35 PM
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Mars is a little too mainstream I think Venus is the better buy rn, underrated with high upside potential
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:34 PM
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It just depends how you want to look at it. Functionally yes because it impacts how people see you. When they look at you, they see your height too. It's part of "your look." Philosophically when people use a phrase like "good looks" they typically just mean facial aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:30 PM
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Wow you're so smart!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:27 PM
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just like incels don’t get brought up irl I've heard incels talked about irl lol Just not agreed with, or really even known about--more like, "those crazy incel killers like Eliot Rodger"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:21 PM
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The more I think and read about it, I really think America is dying as a power. It has: A police crisis A crime crisis Daycare/child-rearing cost crisis Student loan crisis Rent price crisis Home availability crisis Home price crisis Stagnant wage crisis Cost of healthcare crisis Availability of healthcare crisis Inequality crisis Political extremism crisis Teacher shortage crisis Work-life balance crisis Like, what the actual fuck is good about this country? It seems like it's failing in litera…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:19 PM
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I don't really care about mass killings because they're statistically highly unlikely to happen to me and they're not even worth being a talking point. Women hit men all the time because they think men won't hit back because everyone will get pissed at the man if he does but everyone assumes the woman was obviously justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:45 PM
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Lmao idk why but i found that too funny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:31 PM
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Wow, this news is almost as mind-blowing as when Fox reports an increase in crime and a decrease in morality or when CNN reports that something a Republican did could be construed as racist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:24 PM
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I saw that post and there's no way that wasn't just bait lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:21 PM
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Women get violent when they get rejected or otherwise don't like men too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:20 PM
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This is like a square and rectangle thing. Some rectangles are squares. Not all rectangles are squares. All triangles are not squares. Some hot girls are good for relationships. Not all hot girls are good for relationships. All non-hot girls are not good for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:18 PM
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So for one, I've used SARMs and I acted a lot different (stereotypically masculine) on SARMs. Off SARMs, when you're fit, you'll get shades of that too. Higher T causes it. In addition to T, you get more happiness chemicals, and a bunch of other shit I'd know more about if I was a chemist or something. But basically you feel better and more masculine and it's pretty much in direct result of the fact humans were made to be active and 'strong' and doing those things gives your body good feedback c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:39 PM
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Eh, 6 months is pretty noticeable. A year is basically jacked. 2-3 years is very jacked. Depends on your goal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:20 PM
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Your face changes Your size/presence change even if you can’t literally see the muscles Your behavior chemically changes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:13 PM
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I don't think any of the girls would actually smash Robin. Bro takes it in the butt from Batman, and everyone knows women hate bisexual men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:20 PM
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Dating doesn't need to cost money The only real value in LTRs if not family/kids is basically emotional closeness. So your need for that depends on your desire for it & how well that's met elsewhere Sugaring sounds like a fine option for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:15 PM
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The relationship between Beast Boy and Raven was head fake. Well yeah, Beast Boy loved Tara
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:10 PM
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Weird, I don't remember randomness being necessary at all for it to be subjective Lol. That's literally what subjective means. If something has an underlying reason that makes it more or less likely, it's not subjective. There's objectivity involved. A correlation. A strong one. If there's no way at all to guess at something, that's random.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:46 PM
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Could be. My ideas are based off quite a while ago, so not the freshest in my mind & the culture of the subs has changed considerably as well. I said in the other comment, but I really liked reading things like field reports (an extinct part of old RP-like places). Field Reports, to me, just seemed like the most practical part of all this type of content. I like "theory" discussions sometimes, but really, when I needed this stuff most, I just wanted to know how to get girls lol. Field Reports il…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:32 PM
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Both takes, that this is objective or subjective, are really stupid. There's pretty heavy agreement upon who's average, hot, and ugly. Is it unanimous, such as if it was objective? No. But is it anything at all remotely approaching random, or what it would need to be to be subjective? Also no. Beauty is basically subjectively objective. A given person can rank, say, between a 6-8 or a 3-5 based on who's scoring, but anyone ranking outside that ranking is typically a huge outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:14 PM
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Pretty cliche. Girls are fine with equal value too. Just not interested in lower value.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:12 PM
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I agree with this 100% tho. As someone who actually read RP stuff in its "prime" years, the shit that passes as RP now is ridiculous. One key difference I think was Field Reports. Field Reports were one of the best parts of TRP. I don't think most "RPers" these days touch enough grass to write a field report.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:11 PM
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I read some of it but most of my RP knowledge just comes from having been active in those subs from like 2014-2019. The sidebar obsession always irked me a bit, I found a lot more value in the subs themselves where it was more dynamic discussion than a static sidebar could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:09 PM
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A lot of the dudes here are weird. I don't like when people say "Omg a dude who identifies himself by an online chick tutorial did X, crazy!" just because... many RP ideas are right, but RP dudes are awkward and weird. RP =/= its userbase lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:07 PM
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Women r not the enemy, PPD mods r
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:24 PM
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Oh also the retaded discord mods banned me what the actual fuck lol autism at its finest. RESTRUCTURE THE DISCORD MODS IT KILLED THE CHAT FR
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:21 PM
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So much of being "wrong" is rooted in obedient cuck corporate slavery in the US, I really like a girl. I've kinda been, myself. She seems to like me. It's cool. A lot of what we discuss subverts the narrative. Can't really go further, or I'll be called out for those individual parts. But she's cool fr, Believe me. Signed, The only PPDer who'll consistently dox themself, Bread
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:21 PM
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I'll hide you under my fat flabs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:24 AM
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Don't talk about my bagel
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:24 AM
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Is anyone else here in love with me or am I the only one?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:48 AM
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Yes. I am the world's first 5'2" 300 pound gigachad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:42 AM
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Actually, and someone else can correct me if I'm wrong, but it isn't very staged any more I do not believe. Rather, the reason it seems 'choreographed' and 'fake' is because editors sort thousands of hours of clips and turn it into a story. What you're seeing is real, just blown out of proportion. Interesting though. I'll check the show out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:20 AM
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No idea what that show is but being on reality TV would be sick lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:58 AM
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Going to be teleporting into a lot of bank safes, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:58 AM
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The closer to average intelligence you are, the more people who have your intelligence level exist. Intelligence comes across in communication. People like those who communicate similarly to them. The closer to average you are, the wider your pool is. *Side-note: if you parlay your intelligence into an attractive career, you can rack n-count. If you prefer quality over quantity, well, intelligence and looks positively correlate. If you want to gold-dig, the one being gold-dug still wants to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:54 AM
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Yo. I went through this like 2 years ago. 4-yr relationship. I let it effect a lot of my life for longer than I should have, too. There's not really much anyone can say to you. It sucks, and it will suck--until it doesn't. Some tips: Do know pretty much everyone goes through this at some point. You're not alone in your current feelings. Likewise, your ex, no matter who broke it off, feels many of the same things Dating other people will help. On what timeline you want to do that, that's your cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:46 AM
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Cap, dunno who this is or how you know me, but I did want to work lol. And I finally found something. It's just-world fallacy: "if you wanted to work, you would!" Mf I didn't apply to 3k jobs for the love of the game. I worked the entire past year, unpaid. The mental health part was a bit overblown though I think I just smoked too much weed it had really invaded my thoughts in a way I didn't really realize
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:38 AM
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I mean I think an exorbitantly rare amount of 'regular people' look 'perfect.' Most of the perfect look is purchased.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:34 AM
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or me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:32 AM
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It's wild to me that people actually do this. Like, I'm not the most 'experienced' worker, but I feel like this is one of the last places I'd want to meet someone. Not even just because of "ooh, get fired" but also, just, I mean people's spouses literally tell them "don't bring work home with you." Well, that's kinda exactly what you're doing with this set-up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:54 PM
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I've done this a ton, yeah (not sure why this is "Q4BP" lol). Literally never had it done for me though... granted, in most of my social days, I was already paired up. In general though, like, why wouldn't you? Merging groups, being someone who can intro people to other people they'd like--very valuable in a social realm. It gets you a lot of credit with people, and benefits you too. Plus, it's just a good thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:40 PM
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I don’t necessarily agree with modern society on the assumption that easier = better. We chase easy when we should be chasing fulfillment. Lol. I agree, but... I did chase fulfillment, and didn't get anywhere with that. Since my fulfilling goals are now things I've deemed unreachable, well, I sure as fuck would rather have an easier time than a harder time if I won't be fulfilled through work regardless. But I can definitely see how/why YMMV on that. And, yeah, you can lose them (looks, social s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:20 PM
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Yeah, absolutely. I was not into art exactly, but some other creative endeavors. If I just became a finance Chad, I would have gotten way more girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:16 PM
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I hear your argument, the thing is... Ultimately... I just don't want to "take care of a girl." I can take care of me just fine, but the added burden I'd have to take on to take care of someone else, too--not worth it to me. In general, I think it's true when people say "you pay one way or another." The less desirable you are, the more you need to literally pay. The more desirable you are, the more that desire can just be your currency. I guess, put another way: would you like life to be harder …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:50 PM
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Ehhhh, to interject: I think working out is good for sexual attraction because it gives that gut reaction kind of feeling, the feeling you want to inspire. The competence + good job section... I kind of feel like that's cope a bit. Take this with a grain of salt because I have the attractiveness elements down firm and my "career history" and wealth suck ass, but women don't speak about career in a "ooooh, I'm so wet" kind of way. It's: - Stability - Comfort - "Growing up and being wise" I've fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:32 PM
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A bit of a problem here: Typically women don't respond as well to overtly describing your behavior as they do to just doing it. I.E. "Tate got girls because he was a famous kickboxer" "Tate says be alpha, masculine, fight, and get status" The latter doesn't get girls, but the former did--as you even said. This kind of thing tripped up a younger version of me. I read a lot of PUA-type materials. I learned to actually be that "attractive male," and for a time, I was. It worked. When I became consc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:26 PM
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I was speaking tongue-in-cheek But yeah, for all the women out there, I'm single. Hmu
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:00 PM
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Nah they should only go for high SMV, low RMV dudes like me. More fun
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:54 PM
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I don't think you get it. I am fit, attractive, socially skilled, and have a degree from a top 20 school. There does not exist a world where a person like that does not end up successful, to at least some degree. Now I have a job that can lead to making ~200k in a couple years and will make a little under 100k yr 1. Plus it's 40h/week so I work on side hustles too. Plus I have basically no debt. Any average woman who rejected me because "err derr, unemployed!" is literally fucking retarded and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:55 PM
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Yeah, I mean, I'm just going to try to find a girl who earns very well. I think I have the market value to do so. My ex was a Stacy and inherited 1.4 million dollars lol (so far, with more coming in the future). She would have had no need for my money, or my looks either for that matter--she just liked me. I need to find another girl in a similar situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:24 PM
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No I am very attractive with good social skills. I post on the Discord all the time. I am verified lol. & I wasn't employed because I was working on getting a good job. I went to a top-tier school. Anyone with a brain would know that that means I would eventually get a good job--I just didn't have it yet. And that still pushed away, like, all women lol. It's also... not "punishing" different women because those women would have acted the same in that situation. When I was in college, I got girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:00 PM
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Nah that's cap. I struggled for like two years getting it together post-college and no women really liked me at all during that period. If one had, I'd have really liked her and stayed with her. But they didn't. Now I'm about to good money, but I'm still single. So women are going to be extremely expendable to me from here on out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:23 PM
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yeah idrk a ton about it myself tbh, just that it exists lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:46 PM
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yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:19 PM
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Untrue, actually, there's been people to date and even marry from this general community. Fun fact
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:42 PM
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It's not really like the sub lol most people are more normal (with some outliers but we shame them)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:22 AM
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If you're reading this it's too late Join the Discord
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:57 PM
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im a virgin its what we do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:59 AM
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i believe in u
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:59 AM
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im feminine so its cool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:33 AM
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I mean idk about "poppin" but it's pretty fun yeah lol. I was pretty active posting here and mostly dropped off after joining there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:33 AM
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Lol idk who u r in the Discord but i'm in one of the "side ones" or w/e. Im in Swans discord LOL. I only recently joined the main discord tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:32 AM
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if you're not in the discord you're a pussy tbh i too was a daily thread poster but now i've seen the light - brought to you by a drunk mushysauce
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:53 PM
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Oh then still that The first is me irl The second is most of my friends lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:39 AM
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First lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:33 PM
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Never in my life has that been the reasoning for sending one lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:31 PM
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Look, I don’t agree w/ RP saying “women’s money doesn’t matter at all” But saying it matters equally to men’s, at all, is just asinine, tone deaf, dishonest, and dumb. Like open your eyes at all. Women’s income has like 1/5th of the sexual pull men’s does
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:10 PM
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Lol my bad I replied as soon as I read "men don't care that much about makeup/nails/lashes" I agree w/ the take in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:30 PM
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Men do not like zero make-up lol. Why do guys even say or believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:05 PM
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Maybe like marriage-related ones sure But 25 is prime dating age, and you’ve been dating like 9 years by that point. If you’re like me you would have been responsible for paying your own way by that point for a while too. Let’s say a 25 y/o goes on dates at twice the rate of a 29 y/o. Theyre still going to have had way more dates than the 29 y/o, even being younger
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:04 PM
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100k
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:01 PM
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And the class of two different people who went to the same college with similar degrees with the same job status is different how
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:56 PM
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Because women’s income does not matter Men’s does Therefore: men will earn more
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:05 AM
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Ehhh, don't think so. Both my career and my ex-LTR's career was kinda fucked by virtue of trying to be together post-college during the pandemic (in all practicality, we were basically the same person in most every way dating-relevant and both attractive--careers with similar earning potential, similar pre-grad qualifications, similar personalities, similar looks, similar faults, similar strengths, etc.) We broke up two years ago and I haven't really talked to her since Jan. 2021. But in Jan. 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:17 PM
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This just seems blind to reality &/or like you're assuming I'm coming from the standpoint of "life is unfair for men" Imagine this scenario, a man and woman (respectively) are looking for the love of their lives: Man: "I earn 100k. I work 60h/week. I want to raise a steady family that I love, and find the perfect partner with whom to do it." *Meets two women simultaneously who share the same ambition and both like him.* "Man, Becky and Stacy are both cool. Fuck. Stacy is so hot, but Becky also m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:47 PM
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No, it's an objective truth. Women sexually value money. Men do not sexually value money. Men are and always will be expected to earn money. Women are only expected to earn money when the man does not earn enough to not expect her to earn money. This will always be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:12 PM
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Are we talking... Looks like Francisco Lachowski Or are we talking... Looks like the attractive people that exist in real life, maybe like Joel McHale Because I don't understand at all pedestalizing the latter like an inhuman object. I am pretty attractive--in a couple years, with more gym time, I'll be pretty similar to Joel's looks (he's in his 30s--older than me). Honestly I'm already pretty similar, but he's more muscular. Why do you think people like that don't use the internet? It just see…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:08 PM
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And yet most women are with men who earn more money than them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:03 PM
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That’s not what I meant lol. If we’re literally going for just the title of model, I went to HS with two girls i’d rate a 6-7 who model now. I meant people who actually look perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:54 PM
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… yes. Men don’t have nearly the same options to acquire wealth via another person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:53 PM
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Women earn less money. This is just a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:52 PM
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I mean what is meant by "extremely attractive"? The dumb "literally a model" look? That nobody at all has and you'll meet like 1 ever lol Or someone who's like generally top 10-1%? Because there's quite a few people like the latter on PPD. And I don't really care about the former--they don't exist, in all practicality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:58 AM
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Nah I've used a condom with like 6/29 lol No kids yet tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:56 AM
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I mean I lost my virginity kinda late and used to think like "woahhh, what if I could get laid" too. But when you actually do it it's like oh okay. That's what that's like And then it matters less lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:52 AM
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Yeah more or less. Lots of wealth would mean no more working would mean just follow passions of mine. Good looks but little wealth means I need to keep working but with the reward that I can also get pussy, but I don't really want pussy that bad anymore. My n-count is near 30 and it just gets pointless. I'm just tryna cop an LTR. And that's honestly harder when you look better. You have higher standards in looks by virtue of you-know-whos-your-match, and since there's less of those than average …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:45 AM
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Yeah, I mean, there's no escaping certain things lol. If I could convert my looks into wealth and be average looking as the result, I would lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:35 AM
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Give me an elevator pitch in the ass sure if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:33 AM
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Why do people say this lol. There's multiple pretty good looking guys in the Discord. Attractive people use the internet too... internet use is extremely common these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:31 AM
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I mean idk if I qualify exactly as "extremely attractive" but I'm pretty attractive for sure--a lot of people have seen me in the Discord When it comes down to it it's not that different. I go for more attractive women on average and if I want to slum it to raise my n-count I generally can. But you still get rejected plenty, girls don't just thirst message you constantly (tho maybe if I looked better), you can have non-dating problems, finding an LTR is a bitch, you can't sperg out on dates eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:30 AM
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If we want to go the malevolent intentions route, no, it's nothing to do with women. The pessimist interpretation should be that upper classes want more lower class servant babies. Because that's exactly what this repeal will cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:53 AM
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No one said it was “the leading cause” so that’s where your argument doesn’t make sense This has no bearing on the size of the impact I am claiming it makes. A statement that something was not said does not mean I am saying something else. You can say: Loooool you admit it's not up there then you argue when I say it. But really you're just not reading closely enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:51 AM
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No... you said "it isn't up there" I never said where it ranked. Because I don't know. And I couldn't really speculate to know. You said "clearly it isn't up there." Based on what? I would not call it "clear" if you couldn't explain it in a way that isn't easily able to be challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:17 AM
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No one said it was “the leading cause” so that’s where your argument doesn’t make sense You get to 100% of something by adding up smaller percents. One of those percents is definitely high female earnings, as high female earnings contribute to poor wealth distribution like 90% of the times they occur. High female earnings, however, are not super common. But they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:49 PM
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Countries that do not have feminism all tends towards a certain ideological sect that other countries do not. The Middle East, likely the most in-your-face example you could use for "countries without feminism with high inequality," also practices polygamy and most wealth is essentially just the result of oil dynasties. There's way more differences between the Middle East and the rest of the world than just feminism. That's why correlation =/= causation. To go with the smoking thing... if only t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:08 PM
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Ehhhh When wealthy families buy all the real estate and jack the prices, you get the modern housing crisis. It's very relevant. We live in the land of the haves and have-nots.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:01 PM
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Based on...? You can't debunk a whole idea with an argument that amounts to "correlation does, actually, mean causation"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:02 PM
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This is true. Can't wait to defy gender norms and be a trendsetter when I marry a chick who's loaded
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:01 PM
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There's more than one thing that can cause inequality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:00 PM
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Ehhhh High-earning women exist. Fact. High-earning women likely also pair off and start a family (sure, some don't, but some non-high-earning women don't either). Fact. With whom do they pair?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:59 PM
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Yeah, it's literally 50% your rapist. Lol. You're raising your own rapist at that point. Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:58 PM
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It's not. Men have way more reason to work hard and earn money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:57 PM
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? These are just random incomes to show something entirely unrelated to "pay gap."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:57 PM
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Nah this is true but not what I'm talking about Not even necessarily saying the system should change just that this is a result When you give high-ranking or high-earning positions to women, you're taking money from needy families and giving it to already-rich ones
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:56 PM
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LTRs =/= BB smh Also people would pair off regardless I'm just talking about an affect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:55 PM
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On this topic I feel like the internet as a whole is chilling out. A lot of the toxic bullshit spewed that honestly caused RP to form has simmered down
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:29 PM
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You’d understand others better if you assumed they had good intentions rather than bad ones. While I don’t believe in pro life, I don’t think it’s that plausible that it “comes from a place of hating women” And pls don’t go find a quote from a random Republican who hates women to try to validate that the original point is true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:28 PM
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I hate the idea of forcing birth of rape babies. We need less people with rape/murder/anti-social DNA, not more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:26 PM
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Lowkey feminism leads to greater inequality. Hear me out. With both men and women able to earn high $, wealth pairs with itself. A girl gets the job making 150k that a guy previously would have gotten, then she marries a dude making 200k. 350k household The guy who didn’t get that job has his RMV reduced and pairs with a girl making 50k. Let’s say dude makes 100k instead. Now that’s a 150k household. 350k vs 150k. If you arranged it like the past would have—so say the first girl took the second …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:23 PM
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No, I've done both, and LTRs are way better Some people would disagree with that Bottom line there's no inherent answer that covers all people in all situations here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:45 PM
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This is really true Important point to consider: a common posting motivation is feeling internally like you need to cement "the narrative of your life" to yourself and others. Often, people post in a format of "things that are true + things I wish were true that seem within grasp." It's also just about self-presentation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:51 PM
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Well no they aren’t but just because they can’t prove it. Like try taking a video of you doing every drug in the book and saying “This is not fake these are actually drugs you can test my system and it will be positive it is 10:40PM at X location I will post this video tomorrow morning on Reddit as proof.” Then post the video. You’d definitely get arrested. Obviously there’s shades below it and yes the bigger the action the more likely to be used against you but as an absolute yes you can get ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:23 PM
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I believe it is actually but there’s a statute of limitations and it’s like totally unprovable too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:31 PM
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There is which is why idc as much about sharing lol. It’s like 5-7 yrs depending on state
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:30 PM
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Was this thread created by the feds lmao A quick scroll through and this would make an excellent hunting ground 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:54 PM
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I mean that's one of my goals sure But nah I do like to make a difference. I mean, most of my interaction on here is trying to help dudes who are struggling (in addition to general theoretical conversations). I work with a lot of creative things and would want to eventually create things that just make the world a better place. In like an ideological sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:37 AM
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I feel like he easily could have thought you weren't srs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:25 AM
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Making a difference. That's ultimately what I wanna do. Just plotting to get there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:18 AM
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Aren't we all, aren't we all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:18 AM
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I was just curious how sex with her would feel The exact same as any other hole lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:33 PM
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Compared to what? Spending your younger years grinding to amass wealth, not really enjoying life And your older years surrounded by attractive but opportunistic women letting you score with them just so they can attempt to score with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:23 AM
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I mean on some topics RP is still pretty universal but The whole "you need freedom fuck a 9/5" blah blah spiel--I mean personally I think it just neglects the fact that 40h/week isn't that much time to work tbh. You're awake 112 hours/week, 120 if you cut some sleep. That's still 72-80 hours to do what you want, build a side hustle and prob make more than just only doing your own business would, easier to save, live life while young (important imo), and more stable. Like seriously if you get int…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:00 AM
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"I enjoyed 9/11" "The Holocaust was a good thing" "My cousin is so hot" These opinions would all be social suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:52 AM
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i think she saying she doesnt even do that tho if the words "alpha fuck beta bucks" or "hypergamy" or any of that shit ever comes out of your mouth irl you a clown fr fr
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:51 AM
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i feel like this would be super awk to bring up as a girl lol. ive had like a few ppl i talk about this shit w but idk it feels more natural to bring it up as the dude lol, cuz like girls know u were "being strategic" talking to them already
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:49 AM
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Can’t believe someone had the audacity to imply that I can’t get bitches like….you must not know me Sounds like things a virgin would say Like stop it my baby mama alone shits on 90% of PPD women here and multiple PPD women have seen me and said I was attractive like please find a new narrative yall are boring me Honestly tho I felt this fr fr when people be tryna call you out online but they just not right but they say the same shit to everyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:47 AM
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a multimillionaire who can buy nearly anything they want Here's the thing... You're going to need to make A LOT of money if you want the ability to "buy anything you want." Most of the people who have "multi-millions" is specifically because they don't "buy anything they want."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:39 AM
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Because TRP and all those things are specifically written to tell you what is most attractive to UMC sorority girls, specifically If you have ambition to doing anything else with your life other than bang/LTR UMC sorority girls, you're good to pursue something else
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:36 AM
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Don't define yourself by your conquests. That was a big hurdle for me too. Knowing she would bang you is enough. You already have an LTR. Now go jack off and think about it, but actually doing it is pointless. Actually doing it, once you know you can, is literally just trading 10 minutes of fun for needing a new LTR. Then again if you're thinking like this--maybe a new LTR isn't a thought that makes you wince.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:34 AM
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I think the fears are just different. A little boy can be afraid of grown women because they're stronger. A really, really weak guy could be afraid of women too. Or a normal guy afraid of like a bodybuilder woman lol. But most fears with women I feel like should revolve around relational manipulation. It's way more likely you wife up a girl who doesn't really like you, or get cheated on, or have a girl who airs your dirty laundry, or accuses you of rape, than it is that a girl will actually "bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:31 AM
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Even better: "Bro I don't even use InstaGram"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:47 PM
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Yeah I've sent a shit ton lol Granted the higher numbers here tend to be if I know a girl better. Also I don't think I've hit anything north of like 120 in a long time. But yeah. Like a good example is I'd been flirting with this girl and she said "ok shutting my phone off for a sec, have a work meeting." So I sent a bunch of random shit like "work work work" "meet meet meet" "ooooh the way you're breaking down that strategic corporate plan rn so sexy" "wowww omg i'm impressed" and a bunch of sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:32 PM
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Yeah facts it's just normal to do that now and then. And like, I think a lot of guys don't realize girls "know the tricks" too. There's a certain power to breaking them, like you just don't care and you're just being you. Surprisingly (lol), girls actually like that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:54 AM
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I'd go with it differing city to city My college town was a gold mine on Tinder Haven't had the same success literally anywhere else but some places are noticeably atrocious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:33 AM
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I like this take here because I completely ignore the shit other dudes say about over-texting women And it works lol I have sent up to 300 unanswered texts to a girl lmfao. Sending 30-150 is pretty common for me. You just gotta have shit to say lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:31 AM
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Yeah I agree w/ that as well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:32 PM
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I mean it's a little extreme but I do kind of agree that many women are social downers. Spoken as "all women suck" is hyperbole, but there's a greater number of women whose company I don't enjoy than whose company I do enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:37 AM
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I feel like it gets recommended or advised in situations even when it wouldn’t be that beneficial. If you feel like that, you should seek therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:35 AM
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Look at my hot body! Everybody wants dis hot body! NO DONT LOOK AT ME pervert! Creep! The first quote is from an ugly girl The second quote is from the girl people actually want to look at
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:16 PM
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There are 5s at all ages lol How is the 18 y/o going to "capitalize on her youth"? By tryna lock down a 30 y/o? Dude is likely to fuck n chuck her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:54 PM
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Miles Teller Idk who any of these others are but Miles Teller qualifies as a 9/10 now? Lol. He just looks like any other guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:52 PM
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Well, I'm going to add one more interpretation because I didn't perceive it this way: Unkempt bishes get unkempt dudes. If you're not attractive, you'll end up with unattractive dudes or dudes with unattractive habits, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:51 PM
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TrueRateMe scale - 5 x 1.5 + 5 (in that order, not order of operations) is a pretty good irl scale
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:29 PM
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It was so long ago I kinda forgot I learned to manipulate the visions I got a bit tho and now I can manipulate what I see irl for fun sometimes (usually need to be high tho).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:27 PM
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Idk about rn but who doesn't wanna turn into Saquon Barkley
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:33 AM
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what would happen if men were 25% of the population. The population would soon be 50% again when all the men fucked all the women until the ratio was even
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:24 PM
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i will try lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:19 PM
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Don't smile and for god's sake don't smile open-mouthed While I wouldnt be as vehemently opposed to it if I could pull it off, I cannot lol. It looks really bad on me in pics Current facial expression is a really neutral one with a slight brow furrow lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:17 PM
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I'm looking for something long-term but in the absence of that casual is fine too. I'm starting a new job soon and moving and when I do that i'll be looking for long-term mainly so this is me preparing to hit the ground running lol. More than anything I'm just trying to keep bumping up the quality of my matches as much as I can. I get a lot of matches with girls below my looks-threshold (relevant to what I would LTR), and i get a decent amount of matches in the right ballpark but more would be b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:14 PM
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My main 'visible' pic is not smiling or looking away from the camera. I'm looking slightly off-center (about an inch above and to the right of the camera lens) Can confirm it comes out better that way than directly at the camera
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:11 PM
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lol i gotta consider swapping it. fwiw i've had it on my profile for the past 4 years (since it was taken, pretty much) and i've done fine on OLD. but yeah i def need a good replacement for it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:49 PM
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Smiling? maybe a neutral facial expression. Just don't open your mouth like a lot of guys do im ass at smiling in pics lol i gotta work on that. i go neutral facial expression for the most part Also link your IG to your profile helps too tru, no IG struggle tho :\ lmao remove the pic of you with a girl Yeah I want to and feel like a pic with guys would do better but its my most "fancy" picture. All my pics with dudes are old af and just drinking and stuff lol. My pic w/ the ex is pretty classy a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:49 PM
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First pic is a chest-and-shoulders-up selfie in a tanktop (so you can see my build and my face clearly) Second pic I'm 3 years old and did a drawing lol Third is a gym pic (tanktop), can't rly see my face but im clearly fit 4th is kind of a weird pic it's like a meme with me in it but you can see all of me (nicer shirt) 5th pic on my college's football field after-hours (the one in the shitty clothing, not like I could just go to midfield with the logo at one of the best stadiums in the country …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:44 PM
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Cuz they cheating. This is like saying you scored 40 points in a basketball game but your bro asks you later and you gotta clarify, "Oh, nah, I actually scored 10 points, but I assisted on another 30!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:35 PM
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Yo, interesting discussion here. I've been really trying to maximize my OLD accounts lately because I feel like I just have so much untapped potential with things like picture quality etc, to really maximize my results on OLD. So I'm curious about a couple things: What are the most attractive facial expressions? Maybe provide a link if needed What kinds of pictures do best? Examples including "dog pics," "shirtless pics at beach with friends," "clearly visible selfies," etc. Is there an order of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:28 PM
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Me neither that's why I had to see what the audience had
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:13 PM
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Idk that would have been up to whoever said yes to explain
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:12 PM
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Has anyone here had sex while driving a bicycle
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:25 AM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:23 AM
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This is like one of the millions of similar things that University does. It's mostly run by cheap student workers it's just how Ann Arbor is, your tuition money isn't paying for this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:46 AM
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Imagine paying hundreds of thousands of dollars so your daughter can get this kinda education. I mean, this isn't a class or anything lol. This is just one of the many little things that would have been in some building somewhere one random day of the year; she's just someone who went to it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:44 AM
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I watched a compilation video of endings to the Maury show (the "you're not the father!") one. Honestly it was super addicting I feel like I just watched 20 dreams being shattered or coming true in like 10 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:39 AM
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please don't downvote me because 'ew redpill' This isn't the sub where you have to worry about that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:30 AM
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Mmmmm, I've been a lot of places in this country, and NYC and LA notably had the most attractive people of all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:29 AM
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More people are average-looking than look like this but there's plenty out there who are pretty damn good-looking. Location will skew it though; I see way more in some cities/towns than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:28 AM
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They’re usually aren’t the ones who will initiate a break up but are most likely to treat you a certain way until you’re pushed to break up Yeah I will vouch for this. Never been married but think I've been guilty of this in the past lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:21 AM
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You aren't the main character Thank you for letting him know. I'm the main character.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:18 AM
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Men are more driven because they are more interested in cars But wouldn't this mean women are more driven? If men are more interested in cars they're probably driving them too, which means the woman is the one driven. Women are clearly more driven than men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:13 AM
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I worry you might be missing the forest through the trees, though. Even if “only” 40% if people meet online, that makes online dating an absolutely massive component of modern dating, even if it isn’t the majority. This kinda what i was thinking lol. 2 out of 5 is pretty close to a 50 50 chance. At that point it's clearly a huge factor, though I do think it figures in with the whole picture well. People typically say majority of couples are looksmatched and some have either a more attractive guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:38 AM
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Oh wait i read that originally as “hot person OR serial killer” 😭 I was like, well im not the latter lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:49 PM
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Lmao. I am like borderline hot. But been hitting the gym tryna get in Chad territory. Prob more of a Chad-lite
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:13 PM
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where i can find plates??? i'll be your plate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:12 PM
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when I was 20 I knew some "hot waitresses", but not at age 30. They became stay at home moms lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:08 PM
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Less marriage, less divorce, more 'different' arrangements (thruples, same-sex couples, etc), less kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:07 PM
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A few reasons: Rushed the choice from the get-go Changed over time Harsh physical realities (such as: a spouse has a can't-miss promotion across the country, and decides to take it; the other spouse never finds work there. Or just can't pay bills together) One of them is just shitty at being in a relationship for a long time Too many unforeseen differences (sending kid to private or public school, religion, values, etc... often things like this are "cool that we're different but still like each …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:04 PM
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Bitter, not exactly. But they annoy me for existing. So I try to minimize how many there are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:00 PM
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Counterpoint: Over the last two days I proposed straight-up sex to four different below average girls (in the second message, after just sending "yo" first). Kinda just wanted to see the results. Didn't actually bang any--basically catfishing but as myself. Results: 2 women agreed, 1 blocked me, 1 wanted me to wait All girls were roughly equal. Their reactions to my proposition says more about them than me. Ironically, the oldest one was the one who wanted me to wait, and also admitted she'd jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:58 PM
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10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:53 AM
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Shinier heads draw more chicks attention. They like shiny things. This is why they like jewelry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:49 AM
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Yeah but i’m js I don’t like a lot of men bc they have ass social skills. Like in college I met tons of dudes like that. So idt Reddit is that unrepresentative
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:27 PM
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There’s a disproportionate amount of men here who say they struggle to socialize with other men. Honestly I don't think the average man has good social skills. I get laid and shit but I've never had the most male friends. Usually just a few close ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:21 PM
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RIP Unfortunately a lot of overlap between not having weed & not having abortion 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:00 PM
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Yeah, that shit is just crazy. I thought it was just some kind of political formality at first, not a legitimate codified law. We gained weed and lost abortion. One step forward and two backwards lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:22 PM
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Yeah, the question being: who did Billy and Becky end up dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:21 PM
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Somewhere between all and many just meaning "a simple majority." I don't know, 80% of guys 5'6"-5'4" and 95% of guys in total? To get a girl at the lowest rung of being "Stacy." So like what I would rate a 7.5. Step 1: get in-shape Step 2: get a high paying job that's accessible to people like you (everyone has these, just need to figure out what it is--some trades are high-paying, without college. more options w/ college) Step 3: you may have to accept not getting the best Stacy or getting one …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:08 AM
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Hot, lick it clean
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:20 AM
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Today on PPD I learned: Chad cheated on Stacy with Becky, but Stacy took him back because Chad is Chad Stacy left Billy for Chad, but Chad wasn't scared because Chad is Chad Billy left Becky when Becky cheated on him with Chad Sanjay is a virgin Tyrone was arrested, but he didn't do it Stacy's Mom was arrested for sexual relations with a minor
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:20 AM
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Lmao tbh my biggest mistake was thinking they wouldn't take it down over that, tho I def did not expect being banned Before the ban it was going wild, I guess the OP OP made a really engaging post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:15 AM
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Fucking other girls lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:13 AM
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I mean do I really need to specify "if you're extremely short and extremely ugly, you may not get Stacy even if you improve" tho. Like at the absolute extreme worst of multiple traits, it's not that surprising you'd have a hard time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:12 AM
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Did you walk out unscathed? I got permanently banned
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:09 AM
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... Was this a social commentary?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:04 AM
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Lmao, right, that's what I was thinking in this whole thread. The whole thing looks like "girl on twitter used random buzzword that doesn't actually fit what she means to criticize men" followed by "men find women doing such and are offended to be called random buzzword that doesn't really fit what she's trying to say" Utilitarian is just not really a fitting word for this conversation. "Shallow" is what she means, but it sounds a lot cooler to bust out "utilitarian"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:00 AM
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I'll be your beta if you be my Stacy. Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:51 AM
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ikr got their titties in a twist over a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:50 AM
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I cant i got permanently banned lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:09 AM
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That thread was killing it before it got taken down. RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:27 PM
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Update: it got taken down :( For all the haters, it did have 35 comments before it got taken down. So suck it smh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:24 PM
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Ay I got 24 comments and growing. Thread achieved
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:20 PM
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I was. That girl wrote a thread exactly like mine. Did you not see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:19 PM
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Any short guy? No. Many short guys? Yes. That dude isn't really some athletic specimen. It's always backwards-rationalizing. Step 1: Dude is attractive Step 2: "Here is why he is unlike other dudes" I used to do that with one of my friends from college but he told me how dumb it was lol. He showed me a pic of him in HS. Average twinky bro with an average face. But in college he looked like a (shorter) Chad. It wasn't "his genes" it was just the lifting and what naturally happens
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:18 PM
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no one will connect dots All the people saying "its the same as the other thread" are just gonna increase its popularity and make it viewed more. Power move
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:15 PM
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Tru, I did think that if I waited literally just like one week I could repost it To be honest I could still do that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:13 PM
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Oh I know. But I'm just saying. I'm gonna pull the wool over their eyes while they're wide open
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:10 PM
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I mean anything that needs to be done to get that physique, that guy is doing. So why can't someone else do as much as him? Maybe you won't look exactly like him, but is that really going to be the difference-maker?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:08 PM
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Nah he just said some shit about pasta we good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:07 PM
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u/Yukbghhjj yo shit keep deleting so i can't respond but nah just watch. aint nobody gonna check post history or the other thread i got this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:59 PM
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i used to be in your spot but in a girls position. favorite reply so far lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:57 PM
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It's not real lol. It's a copy/paste of a different post with the genders flipped But I do generally agree w/ the premise
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:56 PM
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u/Yukbghhjj wanted someone to post a gender-reversal of a thread where a woman bemoans finding most men ugly so I went ahead and reposted the same thread word for word with the genders flipped and the age changed to mine. Chime in and make it a popular post in the sub if you'd like to see what people say! lmaooo https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vnsl6d/any_straight_men_find_most_women_unattractive/ Original thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vnchnm/any\_straight\_women\_who\…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:48 PM
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Lol based on the build-up I thought you were gonna say women. I guess this happens to lots of people on here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:38 PM
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The man has elite athletics Going to the gym often is "elite athletics"? No, it's hard work. is handsome, Because he's fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:12 PM
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Yeah, agreed, life isn't automatically flowers and sunshine just because you're attractive. Like, there's things you can do that others can't, but for the most part you have ups and downs like anyone else. Chad gets cheated on, Chad gets fired, Chad gets sick and dies, Chad gets sexually assaulted (inb4 laugh bc male sexual assault), etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:50 PM
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Uh, by arouse, do you mean get hard? Make me want to fuck them? Sure. Basically the line for "attractive" to me is when I feel like I want to fuck her. She stands out--she's different. If I had sex with her I'm not going to think afterwards, "Word, just got laid," but instead, "Word, I fucked that girl." I could fuck hella girls who don't "do it for me," but only few will give me that extra feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:48 PM
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Not surprising that placed is dying despite it's big subscriber count. Yeah, I kinda think the height of "men bad, women good" has passed to go along with that. Around the internet in general I see a lot more balance in that regard than 5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:46 PM
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he looks good and is in insane shape. It’s not exactly a bluepill endorsement that a shredded handsome mountain climber is getting matches after putting in effort. Agreed but this is why I tell all the dudes here who complain about being short that they could still do fine. And those dudes bitch at me and say no (sometimes). Any short guy can look like this guy. And if they did, they'd do fine with women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:45 PM
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Sounds like the man is just a man but the woman is a blog writer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:41 PM
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Sad but accurate lol Part of me feels like this is just a copy/paste from a real post
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:38 PM
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Honestly same but for women. Most are not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:35 PM
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Size* and face And he is ugly and skinny. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:29 PM
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... No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:42 PM
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This doesn't make him physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:42 PM
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you do know for average joe,being a Hollywood celebrity is pretty much the same thing than winning the lottery right? This has literally nothing to do with anything being said here. and you do know less than 1% of male population is taller than 6'3'',right? This also has literally nothing to do with anything being said here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:53 PM
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Well hopefully I am LTR'd by then, but if I was single, then hell yeah I'd pursue those girls for sex. They're way hotter with way better bodies lol. I would take that all day over saggy oldies with flabby stomachs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:49 PM
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I agree w/ the women bit. Lot of dudes don't see that tho. In general famous people are given a huge halo effect. And the fact that pictures and whatnot are hella touched up now doesn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:48 PM
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It depends on the celebrity in particular. Like let's take a dude like Pete Davidson. Women swoon over Pete Davidson. Pete Davidson is literally fucking ugly lmao. I do not trust women saying they find Pete Davidson attractive, unless it's from the POV of "I think he's hella funny, which attracts me." Claiming physical attraction to Pete Davidson is bullshit--he is ugly lmao. But celebrities who are attractive? Sure. There's plenty of those to pick. But some celebrities are not attractive physic…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:43 PM
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How are you going to try to convince me 40 year old men can't be attractive? Would a girl be more attracted to a hot 40 year old who's in shape and makes 6 figures or an average 24 year old with noodle arms? Sure, whatever, "the average guy isn't like that at 40." I could give a fuck less. The goal isn't to be average. Attractive 40 y/o men do fine. Stop the cope
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:25 PM
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Yeah, lot of girls are just looking for simps. I'd gladly LTR a girl now but she needs to treat me like a casual sex option first
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:23 PM
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I know plenty of older guys who have banged younger girls I don't know a single lottery winner It's not comparable at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:21 PM
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Well that's true often. Many famous guys aren't that special in the looks department. Take the fame away and they're just a dude. But that can be true and it can still be possible to bang people younger than you without being famous too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:20 PM
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No? Lol. Way more common than that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:58 PM
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Yeah, I lose a fair amount of dates over it, but fuck it. I don't want to go on those dates anyways, as I want a low-maintenance girl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:58 PM
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People just use famous examples because they're more recognizable. "My friend Joe down the street" doesn't ring the same bells for people Attraction knows no age. Is it easier to get a 23 year old girl if you're 25? Sure. Is it impossible to get a 23 year old girl if you're 40? Definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:41 PM
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They’re pretty shit about paying. I try to avoid pay-oriented dates for this reason One time a girl took me to a bar she used to work at and we both got hella free drinks. But the bar owner (male) was paying, so still a dude paying for my date 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:29 PM
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At least 10x Probably pretty high. I often feel like many other people hate sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:50 PM
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All the people who say X or Y doesn't make you happy ignore that X + Y + Z + A + good brain chemistry = happy Humans are wired to seek certain things. When you don't have those, you're less happy than you otherwise could be
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:48 PM
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They’re more similar than they are different lol. Women are just pickier, and like more dominance-oriented traits. And they weight traits differently
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:49 PM
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Found Lilith’s girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:48 PM
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100% of the comments have been about Lilith so far lol So I'll add on. She seems passionate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:04 AM
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Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:59 AM
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Oh, is it down for everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:53 AM
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Yo why'd I get kicked from the Discord? Smh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:42 AM
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Oh, I kinda exited that train of thought when saying the quoted portion, but I catch your drift
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:10 AM
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Yeah so for context The Giver is basically written about a society where everything is perfect but people still age so when they're "close to expiring" they take them away, and no one even knows what death is because they never see it--people just are called to leave, and don't come back I feel like euthanizing people of a certain age is a step towards that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:33 PM
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This stuff happens all the time lol. Want to hear a funny, also true, gender-flipped version of this story? I was at a deli in central California during a SF --> LA road-trip, with my LTR. At the deli was only dudes, all lined up in a perfect line. The first time we walked by, they were all on their phones. But as soon as she walked by them 1 by 1 they looked up from their phones to stare at her--every single one. So we did the lap 3 more times cuz it was hella funny. Now imagine that girls do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:12 PM
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Like I don't even know where to start but yes absolutely Better girls, more girls, less need for "game," dudes treat you better, job interviews are easier, everything is better 100% and I'm not even one of those "I was 400 pounds and then I got in shape like John Cena" stories. Just a dude who went from skinny-fat (160 pounds, 5'10") to bulky (5'10", 195) to skinny-fat (5'10", 165) to fit (5'10", 170ish, 14%ish bodyfat). And even at these differences there's a ton of movement in people's treatme…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:08 PM
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proposing the idea of voluntary euthanasia at age 75. ... oh god. Did these people never read The Giver? That was very terrifying to read is being considered irl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:04 PM
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Considering there's a tax break for being married, is being single not a default bachelor tax?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:03 PM
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The bar is not on the ground, it’s very high for young men right now Honestly I don't know. Until proven otherwise I am going to keep running with thinking that just being in moderately good shape in America gets you close to your pick of the litter. I won’t dismiss their complaints because there are times where even a good looking dude like me comes up short and feels discouraged. This part is true though. I mean, I don't think a lot of dudes realize how similar being good with women and being …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:02 PM
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Well in that case you're talking about selectively applying action rather than not applying action, which for both you and Rivet City seems good and like what y'all do At the same time there's a boat load of people generally around the sub (and this point, many lurking bc incel type things are banned I think) who will take the "it will be more difficult" or "you should aim for girls who are X bc they're more open to that" and turn it into --> "I have no chance so why try." <--- There's literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:02 PM
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I would disagree that having those traits means you “win” though I mean "win" in the sense that your "luck" allotment sexually would have been better than someone else's I think you have a good perspective, but it is frustrating seeing complaints or observations ignored or shut down by people when the topic comes up. This part is always a double-edged sword. On one hand, all the different categories of "worse" are, in some fashion, right that they "have a worse hand." At the same time, no matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:44 PM
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i feel u
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:10 PM
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6/10 white , black or Asian guy ? White > Black > Asian But all I'm saying is that race-wide there's advantages but individuals are still born as individuals. If you're born a 6/10 Asian guy you're still luckier than an uglier White guy. The uglier white guy doesn't just reap the benefit that the other white guys get. Your race is part of your genetic lottery so if you get other good traits you still overall win Of course the flip-side is getting bad traits and being a less-preferred race but id…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:03 PM
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fasho fasho get those gains
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:41 PM
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An advantage yeah. But idk I always look at it as the whole package. Is it better to be born as an average white dude or above average non-white dude. I would say above average non-white dude (sexually). And your race and your other looks are all part of your "overall genetic package." An average white dude would still struggle sexually. So thats not really a good thing to be either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:33 PM
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I have made a total of like 35k since college lol (2 years), and that job hasn't started yet. I also dont tell girls about it bc it's gonna have me moving, and I have no friends here lol. So fast-forward a little bit and yeah correct, but rn no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:29 PM
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I mean yeah i’m kinda like that lol. I dont really tend to win dudes over but I win a lot of women over, but my mindset is just like “fuck dudes, they soft af anyways” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:13 PM
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Nah I feel you if equal But a non-white 8/10 will still do well. Or 7/10. But location would matter, like on my college campus there was hella different races represented and any would do fine but in rural FL it would have been tough to not be white. But like my frat for instance was only 50% white and most dudes got pussy. I do think white people stereotype a lot tho so tbh you’d have most success if you were pretty “white-washed.” Not ideal but still a niche to fill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:11 PM
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“400 pounds as part of my warmup” Damn who r u, the incredible hulk 😭 i can deadlift around that but that shi aint a warmup lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:00 PM
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Aint no way lol Some of the shit I say to women, and the fact ive been unemployed for a bit (new job starting soon tho but they dont know that) they only keep talking to me cuz of appearance lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:58 PM
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You mean sexually or just in life? In life I see it but sexually idk I feel like it’s better to be better. I guess depends on location tho, some areas have less racial mixing than others. I feel like if non-white then location-maxxing matters a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:56 PM
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Depends how he reacts. If he takes on a kind of “lone wolf fuck the world” attitude, then yes absolutely If he is trying to win people over and failing, no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:53 PM
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It would take until about 3am 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:17 PM
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I mean Jonah Hill is a status Chad ig lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:41 PM
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I mean there's no job field where all of them are Chad, except like A-List movie star or something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:04 PM
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IME Hinge > Tinder > Bumble but YMMV
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:37 PM
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Based on people I'm related to and things I've seen in reality TV, real estate and sales seem like really common "professional jobs" for a Chad... mostly real estate Failing the professional job market you get lots of unique things like scuba instructor, fitness trainer, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:35 PM
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Well yeah but youre better to meet girls who look similarly attractive but irl Irl you’re “the rare good option who approached” Online you’re one of many options
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:20 PM
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Cant wait to join SAHD crew
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:57 PM
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Its summer prob 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:57 PM
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I mean never isn’t right in my case but yeah this happens and can feel like never between them lol These chicks just have lots of options
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:55 PM
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Ill take both
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:44 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:40 PM
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Fwiw whatever size you are youd be bigger if uncircumcised But lies dont rly work that way w women. Women are just naturally wired to please and say what feels good to say often. Its not like "let me logically mislead him to increase his like for me," its more like "i want the vibe to be good, what aligns with making the vibe better?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:06 AM
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Well, depends on the definition. Population wise, not so much. This is fair the dense states (and California) mostly dont have it illegalized rn But yeah agree w/ Michigan, and PA. Those states just arent upholding this. Incredible that this will be the law in some places for a bit tho. I feel like our system needs a way to protect against system failures better lol. Like this is a huge system failure where tons of places and people have to temporarily--and in some places, permanently or more lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:58 AM
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To be fair, if it was better or something, girls wouldn't rly wanna confess that So it's rly tricky to get data on it. Like my LTR who was n = 2 other than me, one of them was uncircumcised. But she didnt rly elaborate on how it was different, plus he was just worse looking than me so that would bias her anyways But idk. Ultimately you can do as you please but you know what i recommend lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:54 AM
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How so? It just feels better. Being that i've only read about the difference and never experienced it take it with a grain of salt but apparently foreskin lubricates and creates more of a suction experience, and also has receptors for female hormones(?) or something like that. But again, not experienced it, so not 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:06 AM
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I've read about it enough to know that (and I'm bullshitting these exact numbers but the real ones are roughly similar) human genitalia nerve endings by body part: Female clit: 10,000 Male penis: 2,000 Male foreskin: 40,000 So I mean, I'm circumcised myself. So I wouldn't know. But imagining that men are supposed to have something 4x as sensitive as a woman's clit--and seeing how much women react to their clit being touched; they literally like convulse when you touch it--I just couldn't take th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:34 AM
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I just hope we finally start to take the path of: Increased technology --> less dire need to work --> generous social programs with most "work" revolved around entertainment and human-extending research (think: inhabiting other planets, extending life, etc) Rather than: Increased technology --> less dire need to work --> create meaningless work to fill people's time and increases the rich's riches, no QOL increase We're currently more like the latter (so, so many jobs are just so fucking useless…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:29 AM
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A lot of those states won't have the same laws on the books in the end Honestly this is kinda what I was thinking. Having lived in Michigan, I was kinda shocked to see them on the list of states where abortion is banned--there's no way the people I knew from Michigan, overall, would be anti-abortion (yes, some hillbilly religious folk, but not the norm there). A lot of these laws will change, but still, for the time being it's wild that a majority of the country now has abortion banned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:25 AM
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Sex is fun. We have the ability to have fun and not face repercussions. Why do you want to be the fun police?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:01 AM
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Yeah exactly. But it's such a bandaid solution "Capitalism is structured in a manner where you need more young people than old people for it to thrive" (fact) --> "Let's keep raising the population" (solution) But you hit a point where that is a very bad solution... we are already at that point. On a selfish note, if it works and increases births, social security won't go bankrupt when I'm old--hooray. But then the next generation will have this exact problem again, and what are they gonna do, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:56 PM
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Honestly to me yes it literally reads like “the proletariat stopped producing servants for the upper class bc it sucks to live like that, so we needed to stop that.” Big yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:40 PM
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Their political platform is pretty shaky bc it’s crumbling under their weight
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:39 PM
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Both political parties are better at making the case to me of why I shouldn't affiliate with that party, rather than why I should. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:03 PM
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Lol, yes, it's popular these days to modify your body, and to hate men both
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:02 PM
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In this context there's not really a whole lot of difference. If you think you have a chance and want something, whether you fully "expect it" or not it's still delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:00 PM
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I don't even think it's that deep. You remove abortion you create lots of unfunded unwanted children. How this is good for the world, no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:59 PM
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The only time anyone should ever have sex is when it’s with a person they would be willing to have a child with, at a time when they would be willing and able to raise a child if a pregnancy should occur. ... no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:57 PM
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Nah but damn. I thought the idea of this was to give states the right to ban abortion, and that only Deep South nobody states would be doing it. But nah literally fuckin half the country has it banned now. Wtf? Who the hell thought this was a good idea, and why? I just don't get it. As if we don't already have enough children nobody has the resources to provide for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:54 PM
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combined with the hygienic benefit There is no hygienic benefit and sensation is more than marginally reduced Dawg, don't do that to your kid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:50 PM
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Woah I did not realize how many states actually banned abortion because of this until I looked it up What the fuck? Why is everyone a fucking idiot. Why are the two sides running this country "Jesus freak" and "pink-haired man-hater." Where the fuck are the normal rational people these days
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:47 PM
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Personally, 24-26 would be needed to date me So anything above that would at least decrease woman's options by 1
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:20 PM
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Idk I recently went on a date with a 21 y/o and she was pretty terrible. But that was more a her thing. A different kind of 21 y/o would have felt differently I don't mind "being less knowledgeable about the world" because a girl (or guy, but I date women) can learn. But I do dislike signs of materialism and things like that, which isn't rly aged--though younger people tend to be "more about the now" than older people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:19 PM
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Being that I found PUA prior to finding RP prior to finding this Yes congruency is one of the top things PUA used to preach. Essentially, "seeming natural." 100% agree you will do better with women and whatnot if you're congruent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:14 PM
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This 100% lol Many people have really made it seem like a bad thing to not blindly follow party lines across all issues
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:06 PM
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I oscillate between reaching this point and then not reaching this point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:04 PM
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Personally I feel like I will like 22 y/o women forever. Below 22 they're kind of disconnected from real life and a liability to pack up and move across the country, but 22 and older is "full adult status." That said I'm 24 so maybe this will shift. I would prob LTR anything 20 or older currently but a 20 y/o would be a little sketchy on the actual viability of it lasting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:03 PM
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This may or may not be true but I generally don't like judging people based off their families My family is generally pretty bad people, most of them. I literally have a famous serial killer amongst my great grandparents (their sibling) lol. My parents are ok themselves for the most part but pretty much everyone else is bad. If someone knew "my tree" they'd have lots of judgment about me that they just shouldn't--so I extend that same courtesy to others
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:00 PM
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Well she didn’t let a pro life dude hit it. The pro-life dude is his dad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:48 PM
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My uncle (who used to be hella good-looking) is like 500 pounds now (not exaggerating, at least 400) and still talks about how he only wants pretty thin girls Delusion is not gendered lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:47 PM
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bc i'm american and dont know wtf that means
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:27 PM
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The posting a picture thing is based on real news articles I've seen The drinking or otherwise intoxicated in public isn't something I've seen but it's in the like contract agreement (i've interviewed for jobs like that before)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:23 PM
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And I think it's hella funny. So there's your difference
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:22 PM
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Yeah, makes sense. The level of investment one has in it definitely impacts its outlook. I guess a similar things is something like movies. Many people watch movies, but few of those people could have discussions on, say, cinematic history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:03 PM
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Well you just said cannabis lol. There's also like... posting a picture from a party on IG, being seen drinking in public, and more
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:01 PM
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Yeah I can see that. I wonder which jobs are the most unanimously attractive I feel like people's brains go to Doctor, Lawyer, Business Owner --> but those jobs are really busy. So for quite a few that's its own dealbreaker too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:00 PM
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Oh god dont be like that lmao Do you get mad watching Family Guy too?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:58 PM
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Well this, I already knew. But unfortunately I'm not exactly willing to pack up my bags over it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:58 PM
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Interesting. Makes sense. Those are like the pros I would want someone to see, though I feel like they often don't in this materialistic world
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:57 PM
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Yeah I also don't like how you getting "caught" for doing legal things can end up as a news story lmao Strange world strange world
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:49 PM
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Weird world lol Moral of the story I guess don't move to states with weird laws bc theyll track u down and kill u
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:47 PM
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Lol its a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:44 PM
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Damn I kinda expected it to go the other way bc ime people who have money care less about it (it's not a concern bc they're already supported). But yeah idk I agree it's a "better job" insofar as I just feel like anything middle management in corporate is just a high expense drain on society but idt the wider world sees it as this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:31 PM
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Out of curiosity do you make good money? I have kind of a theory here about the yes it's fine people vs no it's not but we'll see. I just feel like they don't make enough money themselves to even come close to supporting a family
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:29 PM
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So weird. What even qualifies someone as "a citizen of Missouri." Like I am a citizen of the USA, not my state. Insofar as there is nothing at all stopping me from just signing a rental agreement in another state and switching my driver's license and then what's the difference? A "citizen of the state" is some weird shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:28 PM
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Idrk, I slayed in college and haven't really made any money (yet) post-college and my ease of sexual access definitely dipped. I look better now than then too. I think money = BB to a point. You need a certain # to qualify but after that then yeah it won't do a whole lot. But generally I feel like 50k and under is below that for a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:26 PM
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Interesting. Out of curiosity do you have money yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:22 PM
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Damn, you can make 100k here too but you'd need to be in a really HCOL area A MCOL area you make more like 70-80k. Which isn't terrible but you only get that after a really long time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:21 PM
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Strange. Honestly just call them ugly after they say that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:20 PM
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Damn I should work as a bounty hunter, fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:07 PM
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Idk, how so, STEM is like easily twice the pay of teaching; I'm not talking about the people who are those jobs, but if an otherwise attractive person did either of them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:06 PM
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invade your privacy Lol this one is so true. Teachers get fired all the time for doing very normal things outside of work hours
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:05 PM
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I dunno they make a ton of money tho. Put an attractive dude as a software engineer and I doubt he's struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:04 PM
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Damn, got left for a blue collar worker. RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:03 PM
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Woah wtf. How can you prosecute someone for doing something in a different state? At that point the state is acting like they own you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:51 PM
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Is teaching the least sexually desirable job a college degree holding male can pursue? If you live in a city and teach, would most women disqualify you bc it doesn't earn enough money and pretty much never will? Asking bc I thought of going into that for a while but just never could bc of the pay. Imo it's kinda lame it's like it is bc it's a way better job than some middle management position but I feel like chicks would not like it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:49 PM
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Rly? Im 5’10” and only got it once from a 5, ever lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:28 PM
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fuck metric 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:27 PM
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I feel like it can be different for diff men tho Like I played sports, will play in an adult league when I move, lift, and watch/study sports (for a long time I planned to work in sports). For me I consider watching sports a hobby but I could see why a dude whose only involvement is getting drunk during Sunday Night Football doesn’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:24 PM
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Maybe other people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:24 AM
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Oh i could see that tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:52 AM
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Yes they would def trade it for a longer life why would they not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:59 PM
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OBVIOUSLY it's just a sign of how broken the SMP is Even Chad has to marry a whale. All the Stacies have graduated to mega mega Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:25 PM
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You know what'd be super cool If you could like trade lives/bodies/brains with people Like say you're hot but dumb and broke and someone else is wealthy but ugly or whatever. But you're both unhappy as you are. You could trade with them Or maybe you're wealthy and attractive but kinda old (maybe 45) and you just wanna prolong your life so you trade down with a younger person who's less good but they get to enjoy the benefits of being you for some time That shit would be dope lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:23 PM
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Agree except you don’t need to tell her In fact ime most women have a “pick me” tendency. The more you tell her what you want, the more she will magically “just so happen to be exactly like that.” So just screen, don’t tell. But yes absolutely dudes can and should have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:44 PM
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Idk theres def a tendency to “take down the insta queen” from men these days, prob just that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:44 PM
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The safe word is “yes more pls”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:43 PM
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Well that isnt the same thing now is it 😂 Like idk negotiation and the like is highly unattractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:43 PM
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I mean in this scenario idc about her anyways so why not If I cared about a girl tho hell no obvi
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:46 AM
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Smh Theres way too many dudes on this to all be below average lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:46 AM
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Well I dont have an LTR rn no but in the past I did have a no-saying-no policy in my LTR, if thats what youre referring to. Id like to do that again in any future LTR too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:45 AM
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maybe, maybe not lol ig i will never know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:45 AM
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Damnnnnnnnn I needa wife up a girl who thinks like this lmfao (more-so the second half, idrc if shes politically RP lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:36 AM
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Not even gonna cap if I had a hot LTR and got tired of fucking her she's perfect leverage to get me laid with hella other hot girls lmfaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:35 AM
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o
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:33 AM
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damn, lowkey knew i was potentially setting myself up by saying "him" but what the fuck girl is called "atlas." is it not a male greek god's name. Thats like a chick going by "Zeus" or a dude going by "Cinderella" smh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:53 PM
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The bottom left is gross but anyone not rating the rest pretty high is gay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:50 PM
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I'm still waiting for the first PPD mega-Stacy to appear
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:47 PM
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Nah those are both above average, one is just much more above average The more average one is more nerd-vibe but like the actual average man is pretty ugly lol. You dont need to be a stunner to be above average
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:45 PM
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My rules on this are honestly kinda strict relative to "the norm." But I live them myself so whatever. I don't really appreciate any kind of cross-gender friendships, trips with friends without me, etc. Inb4 "controlling"--but it's not controlling, I just wouldn't date a girl who lived in opposition to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:42 PM
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truly unbiased news source No because picking what is and is not news is inherently biased. Unbiased is literally impossible via textbook definition of the word "unbiased" however what you likely mean is "less biased" And still the answer is no because choosing "facts" to present, "things" people care about... is still biased lol. The closest you could really get to that would be news that only covered topics people unanimously agree upon. But then that's just a shared bias rather than unbiased
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:40 PM
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Oh when I joined the Discord there's a dude in there with that name Maybe that's him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:37 PM
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Your username lmao. A papsmear is something girls get. So I just assumed lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:49 PM
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oh, are you a girl with a wife? now i am confused
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:08 PM
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So mushysauce is just a stage name? I would rather my last name was Mushysauce tbh lmfao But yeah thatd be something to discuss w/ my LTR. But almost no way I give my kid my last name
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:08 PM
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Lol nah I'm not French (well actually i'm a tiny bit French, like 5%, but still) It's Eastern European and my last name is near the end of the alphabet and looks like Ysmsoalpzisps basically People who have last names you can pronounce don't realize how much of a disadvantage it is to have one that people can't. Then add in being the end of the alphabet and it's smh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:14 AM
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I have a really bad last name lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:06 AM
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Lol idk. So I actually lived something somewhat close to 'that' for a bit. I had good status on my college campus and was outgoing which got me a lot of passive pussy, and I had a really hot LTR simultaneously who was cool with it So I mean. For one it's super hard to say no. At least at first, if that's not your norm (I was a loser in HS, so that was not my norm). But having done it, I do think you kinda need to be a certain person to keep doing it after the novelty wears off. I voluntarily sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:05 AM
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Honestly "wifing up" a beta male with good earning power could not be easier. Step 1: Move to SF. Or Seattle. You don't need this step but it helps Step 2: Go on OLD or join very very male things (be a secretary at a tech company, play DnD, etc) Step 3: Love bomb different men until it works. "Wow, Charles, you are just soooo cute. Who's the lucky lady? Oh, you're single?!?! WHAT!!!??!?! How could YOU be single, Charles?!?! I do not believe it!" *later that day* "CHARLES, I brought you some milk…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:59 AM
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Lmaooo that really is the expectations vs reality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:48 AM
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If you can tie a kite string to the back of your car and climb to the top of it to grab the kite and take it down without making the kite stop flying while the car drives 100mph
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:47 AM
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I just found out that you're a guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:46 AM
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I think it's because any woman they date will allow it, and tons of women would come onto them Imagine every single day the hottest woman you ever met wanted to fuck you, and your wife was cool with it. Wwyd
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:45 AM
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i dont want my kid to have my last name lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:44 AM
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Well, he couldn't make me go bankrupt because I wouldn't fund it lol If he goes bankrupt that's his own call to have made. For all I know he's a visionary and gonna turn to a billionaire from his shiny dolphin picture
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:31 AM
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NFT son My mom is her dad's astrology daughter and I could not take it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:45 PM
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No As long as you don't mean "a bunch of shitty things women sometimes do" by saying "feminine." Because sometimes people use it like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:44 PM
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No, but a restaurant within a 5min walk from my childhood home is called "The Barn" (don't even try to dox me w/ that you weirdos it closed ages ago). So I was raised next to the barn, not "in a fucking barn"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:43 PM
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Yeah even though I’ve only been using OLD lately I will vouch firsthand whatever you can get from OLD add +1 or +2 and that’s what you’ll get irl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:30 PM
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Pls ignore I said this Was high and def confused them w similar-looking actors. Miles Teller was def in it tho, they were both basically extras tho 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:24 PM
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Yo I was watching a kinda old movie (from 2004) and both Miles Teller and Brad Pitt play teenagers at the same high school. I guess Myles only got to college 10 years later, and Brad Pitt stayed back a few times 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:05 AM
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u wot m8 (this is what u meant to say^)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:35 AM
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Ew, I heard they have cooties. You mispelt "coochies"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:31 AM
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Like do you guys genuinely walk down the road and rate all women you come across and decide if they’re Stacy or Becky or whatever Subconsciously & automatically, yes every guy does this he seems to have a 6/10 physique. I must find out what his penis size and income is to find out if He’s worthy of my attention. I wonder how many Stacy he has had sex with.” Women don't care about dick size but the other ones yeah I would say they do that. Maybe the Stacy thing less so, but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:30 AM
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Eh in general a lot of the better athletes (even non-recruits) have low SES growing up While Tim goes on ski trips, Daquan hoops at the local park bc you just need 1 ball between the 10 of them. So Daquan is more fit and better at sports, on average Idrk where you’re going with “rags to riches isnt common in sports.” Ive covered football/basketball for several national media outlets and it 100% is. Hockey and lacrosse tend towards the more affluent, but not football/basketball. Baseball is a tos…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:21 AM
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Could be. They are all OLD dates, fwiw. OLD is def more transactional by nature, in general; you’re literally picking based on stats not vibe, more or less
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:17 PM
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Im in 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:16 PM
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join a dungeons and dragons group
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:53 PM
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you got a link? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:51 PM
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trying to get laid off of the reddit hook up subs lol I mean... I know a real-life decent-looking girl who genuinely gave a random dude a blowjob off r / random_blowjobs (or whatever it's called). So hey, shooters shoot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:50 PM
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Yeah I remember in HS rating chicks with my friends. If you didn't call a girl a 7, everyone thought you meant she was ugly But I put average at 5. 7 is hot. 9 is so hot I would very very seldom meet a girl like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:48 PM
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https://instagram.com/heloisehut Too hot for me lol Girl is a 10, easily. As attractive as it gets
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:45 PM
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same except i get so hard the tip gets wet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:38 PM
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hey boy u sexy af ;) woo woo now uve been catcalled twice in one day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:38 PM
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Lol. Social media age really showing its colors. In-depth =/= long-winded. Sorry I don't tend to write things that can be read in 10 seconds, I know that's the average attention-span these days. As far as blaming others, it's 50/50. I do believe you're not meant to date most people you date, which explains a good portion of it. At the same time, the quality of women's "personal character" that I've met has declined a lot since college. Lots of wide-eyed idealists in college, whereas post-college…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:22 PM
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usually younger women are more inclined to love. Yeah, which is why I vastly prefer hitting on college girls lmao. For reference I'm 24 so it's not a weird age gap, but yeah. Would like to find someone who's like 20 because post-college women go interview mode trying to get LTRs. The women left are largely ones who didn't learn that you don't marry stats on a piece of paper, you marry a real person you have to spend time with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:19 PM
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To be honest maybe it seems like a small detail to you but I would have taken my ex back at 23 but not now (she'll be 25 in a couple months). I really, really want a girl who spends the most valuable years of her life with me, building memories. If a girl has an opportunity to do that and decides not to for a prolonged period of time, that's not who I want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:12 PM
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I would maybe consider if they were hot or hotter than before. But they never are... They never are. Ain't that the truth. I used to go to the gym with my LTR 5x/week, and we were both fit. When we split, I got depressed and out of shape at first, but ultimately hit the gym hard and am in better shape than ever. Don't know her story because we don't talk, but I'll tell you this much: on the 1/10 scale, she's gone down 3 points in just 18 months. And that seems to be the only scale she's gone dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:08 PM
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Absolutely not. Which sucks because I loved my ex magnitudes more than any other girl before or since. But ultimately she made her choice. Add on that I've gotten fit and she's gotten chubby, and it just doesn't make sense. My best years are ahead of me, women-wise. Her best years surely were the 18 months that have already passed since we split, unless she trims down again. Our compatibility isn't really aligned anymore. She hangs out with the toxic friends I pushed her away from again, too. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:06 PM
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Not entirely true. I did have an LTR invest in me, but her lifelong dream was to work a pretty prestigious job in the middle of nowhere, and she got the job. Meanwhile my field(s) are not accessible in super remote locations like that. We even stayed together an additional year, tryna make it work, but it just didn't. But fast-forward to present day and no girls operate like that. Dates feel like job interviews a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:02 PM
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Betcha a million fake internet points you'd find a 1:1 correlation between guys who get laid in HS and guys who have a car. ? Most future pro athletes grow up poor. Future pro athletes are the epitome of female desire in HS. Nobody gets more HS pussy than the #1 basketball recruit in the state. Sure, next tier is Chad Jr., son of Mr. Thundercock who founded Thundercock Incorporated, but then after that it's basically just who has the most swag and that's pretty income-independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:47 PM
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Are you disagreeing that experts know better about a subject than non-experts? I'm disagreeing that American diploma mills, which exist largely to place people into jobs and keep capitalism flowing, accurately quantify who is and is not an expert. I have 0 respect for degrees, unless it's from a T10 college in that specific field. Those people can still be wrong about their subject, but it's a more respectable effort. Anything below T10 in a field is generally just a diploma mill. You seem to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:43 PM
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Fuck yeah this doesn't have a CMV flair I totally relate to this. I had a love-based relationship from 19-23. It was so great. I've dated for 18 months now since that one ended. Every mf girl is always interviewing me like it's a goddamn job. I've had one date where that wasn't her vibe, and I actually kinda liked her--but she was moving back home to another country in a month, so we broke things off. I don't really get it, to be honest. I can't do transactional, at all. I just can't. I need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:37 PM
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I went to a T20 college lol. I went to school with all those "intellectuals." We are equally intelligent on a raw level. The difference is, they grew up upper class and I didn't. They grew up accepting the system and I didn't. What professors at those schools say is often bullshit. They believe a bunch of bullshit handed down by the system. There's just a dearth of people like me, who've been around what "our finer establishments" are saying and also were not born into the system. Anyone below 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:30 PM
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Just because one person rates someone a 6 and someone else an 8 Does not mean that people whose "average score" is a 7 are not treated differently than those whose average score is a 5. You don't need every single person to completely agree on ratings for them to impact your life. It doesn't work that way. Some people think I am average. Some think I am hot. The fact some think I am hot lets me date girls I consider hot. There's people who nobody thinks are hot. It's a different experience. It d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:33 PM
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What individuals rate people does not matter in regards to what I originally posted
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:58 PM
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I mean we went the wrong direction with it It should have been abortion for all. Not abortion for none lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:40 PM
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Oh yeah my method def does not work for all. My depression and whatnot was likely externally chemically induced (lifestyle) + experientially induced. I do understand birth-root is a different cause. But I think people like me would be heavily over-diagnosed as birth-root causes. While it’s possible to be “born like that,” I just feel like an overwhelming majority of those who are told they were born like that, weren’t. But it’s not profitable for them to know that In a country with tons of overw…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:31 PM
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Only difference between me and “an expert” is they can afford the degree that makes people call them an expert. America is a huge diploma mill where it’s basically pay-for-credentials. Coursework is easy af. At my last job, I had a bachelors and most of my co-workers had PHDs. They were a bunch of idiots lol For any given field there’s only about 10 schools from where I’d respect a PHD. But even people who went there, they are susceptible to the same issues. They’re being taught by the system. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:14 PM
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Nah it was chemical too. But you can improve chemicals. I started working out a lot and I’m in way better shape now—happiness chemicals are in much higher abundance when you do this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:15 AM
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I mean read my last paragraph again And like—maybe—but there’s more to dating than getting laid initially. Would the ability to have a ONS be that enticing if it meant no one would ever see you a second time? No
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:13 AM
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Nah we had to move to different states bc of the pandemic lining up w/ our college graduation. And she works in super remote areas only. If not for that I doubt we would have split
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:12 AM
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That’s assuming I haven’t studied it. I have. And I don’t believe it in many cases. If every person in the USA was extensively studied, everyone would classify as having mental illness. It’s just mythical norm-chasing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:10 AM
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The last paragraph—yeah exactly what I was getting at. It’s just a label
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:07 AM
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“Like it’s lil bo peep and caligula” I’m dead 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:06 AM
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Well other than the part where you assume it was an accident, yes I agree 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:05 AM
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Lol I was saying I did not go to rehab. That's just how it felt. I moved back home and avoided the outside world for like 8 months. Because prior to that I was kinda unstable, after a couple years of a rollercoaster ride of an experience. It wasn't addiction related as much as I just didn't know what the point of life was anymore; I didn't necessarily want to die, but I didn't want to live either But I had a lot of introspection and just realized. It ain't that serious. Chill, and smoke some wee…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:42 AM
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Emphasis on "if you pick right." My ex did exactly this. We had a great relationship. Her n-count was two and we met from a ONS. The way it went never would have been possible had she had some weird rules and stuff. But, yes, it requires some luck, and a good eye for 'real compatibility.'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:40 AM
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Yeah, this is a YMMV kind of thing. Admittedly I was a little loopy at times but just kept pushing. I feel like I got it under control though now, without outside intervention. But I basically checked myself into rehab (not literally--too poor for that--left society for a bit and got my bearings through introspection) and that worked for me. But if you can't reel yourself in then yeah it's better to see what outside forces can help you, because on meds is better than dead lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:37 AM
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Yeah it's also like... I've had low n-count girls put out quickly in the past. If they like you enough, boundaries become flexible. Not always, but enough that I would rather try to be the exception for a good girl than 'one of the pack' for that same good girl. I think sometimes girls don't understand that breaking your rules for a guy, if you pick right, is a really good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:35 AM
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This is so vague though I consider myself a leader in certain things and not in others If a woman needed my leadership in the things I am good at, I would provide it If she needed my leadership in things I'm bad at because she's even worse, I would provide it If she was better at something than me, I could take a back seat But in reality, all of what I said is what truly being "a good leader" really is. Recognizing, objectively, the strengths and weaknesses of your team--and aligning those who m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:30 AM
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Since you'll never know which she is, I just want a girl to put out quickly Rather sacrifice a man to the sea than risk the whole boat sinking (analogy is i might be typing myself into below-ideal relationships, but at least i wont be in a shit-tier one)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:27 AM
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Y'all might fall far on the spectrum But either way, I just think medication should be a last resort. It seems like a way to 1) profit 2) get sentient beings that weren't designed for a particular lifestyle, to live that lifestyle. I could probably "benefit" from some "treatments," but I value being my authentic self too much (sounds judgy but not tryna be judgy, is just how I see it lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:07 AM
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I mean there's problems... PTSD, Schizophrenia, etc But for example: I don't really believe in ADHD, outside maybe extreme cases. BiPolar, too, I think is quite a natural phenomenon. Again, an extreme iteration of it, maybe temper it some--but I would probably test as both ADHD and BiPolar and I will never, ever let a doctor give me shit for it because all it's going to do is rob me of my human-born emotions. Being uninterested in boring shit, or feeling like shit sometimes, are just natural hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:57 AM
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buy the dip
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:49 AM
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Chiming in totally without understanding the context here but Modern medical practice in terms of this stuff is kind of a sham. It basically follows an outline of... label any deviation from a mythical norm "problematic," then prescribe things to "fix" it It's just the result of money-motivated medicinal practices. If you don't have a problem, there's nothing to solve. Big Medicine needs you to have a problem, so they fund research that "proves" you have issues. It's nonsense Signed, Someone who…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:48 AM
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They just want to be served on the small stuff and not even consider the needs of others You could serve me if you really want to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:44 AM
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not the price of bitcoin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:16 AM
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Lol no. It doesn’t work like that. None of these girls were out of my league except debatably one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:14 AM
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Nothing to do with that. Everyone gets rejected. If you don't get rejected you don't put yourself out there enough, or you aim too low.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:46 AM
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How so? How else would I get dates? I do this every few months. Usually I get a date or two out of it. This time I struck out If girls weren't as flaky or as fickle about "timing" to begin with this wouldn't work. These are all girls I've already talked to. I'm not even mad that's how the game is it just is that way it isn't "men's fault" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:30 AM
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Facts lol shooters shoot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:28 AM
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Damn Burnt through all my options recently so I hit up girls who I'd had ok connections with but nothing ever came of it over the last few months. Texted 16 girls Results: 1 response of "who is this" followed by me sending a pic she'd know me by followed by left on read Pour one out for ya boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:24 AM
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It’s not impossible—what’s impossible is getting people to accept the truth There’s still flat-Earthers. Is it impossible to determine if the Earth is flat? No, there’s just lots of morons out there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:50 PM
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Can we settle this once-and-for all: The Official Generalized SMP Power Rankings Hot Af Guys (8.5-10) Hot Girls (7.5-10) Good-looking guys (7-8.5) Cute Women (6-7.5) Cute Guys (6.5-7) Above Average Guys (6-6.5) Average Women (4.5-6) Average Men (5-6) Unattractive Women (3-4.5) Unattractive Guys (3-5) The rest are unranked because it's just a mess below 3 Explanations (matched to the rankings above): Super hot guys can hook up with anyone and date anyone, and they want to do both those things. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:32 PM
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Hot dudes can 100% marry a rich average girl and get taken care of lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:19 PM
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I don’t agree w/ average woman > hot dude Hot dudes can pump and dump average women at will and, if he’s so inclined, more-or-less date any of them he’d want (if he could stomach the lack of attraction) Sure he still has to approach… but that’s like saying “you need to fill out the application even tho you already got the job”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:22 PM
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Guess ill be the best in the world at edging
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:00 AM
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Oh for sure. Honestly PEDs are like unfathomably prevalent compared to what people who’ve never been near them think. My most jacked “natty” friend started to hit his ceiling so he hopped on. No chance anyone suspects him of using PEDs bc he was already jacked before—something I feel like a lot of vet lifters end up doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:25 PM
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Someone like vitruvian physique is what to expect out of years of dedicated, natural lifting. Tbh this hardly looks different to me lol. This dude would also slay hard af
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:10 PM
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Yeah but only males can go Super Saiyan. Never seen a female go Super Saiyan. So the Super Saiyans will still make women feel inferior
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:07 PM
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My superpower is to have sex with every woman who sees me I take it. And since I can't cum, we bang for hours. And I don't wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:06 PM
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Dudes just be jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:04 PM
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No I mostly use my imagination To be honest a lot of times that I masturbate I think of women I either did hook up with or ones who I could have hooked up with but didn't Next tier for most often is just general people I know or met. Or ridiculous fantasies like for example I had a 3rd grade teacher who was hella hot lol. But it's almost always just using my imagination. Or sometimes my nudes collection. Random IG models or something isn't out of the question but not common for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:23 PM
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I kinda agree with this take. I think this is a much more neutral environment that's actually interested in these topics than most other places. There's bad advice sometimes like anywhere else, but you've got a wide variety of perspectives all from people who generally at least accept the core of "good" advice--being attractive is helpful, you can improve, yada yada
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:17 PM
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I mean like yeah. I had a pair of shoes that added several inches too and I wore them a lot for that reason. But still. Anyone can put shoes on. In the right pair of shoes I could be 6'2". But I'm not 6'2" that's dishonest to say that I am lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:15 PM
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Haha not as old as you might think. I was super into RSD when I was about 16 because I didn't talk to girls, they scared me. So I watched a ton of it pre-college and then when I got to college "graduated" to TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:14 PM
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Lmao yeah I checked their post history too from what they were saying Clear burner account smh. And they're just using it to try to put people down. Messed up lol but hey says more about them than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:13 PM
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Oh porn is whack but depends what you say about it lol If it's some "it rots your brain and makes you hit women" kinda stuff I don't really agree But I do think it's used pretty problematically nowadays. Porn shouldn't be a replacement for getting your shit together and trying to attract a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:11 PM
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Jabrill Pepper
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:04 PM
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not sure if trolling but i watch porn like 1/100th of the time i masturbate lol. porn sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:03 PM
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I don't think it's weird lol I do it and think about hella people it's just for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:02 PM
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Molly Acid Cocaine Shrooms Weed bc I can't feel it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:00 PM
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Simple Pickup --> Real Social Dynamics --> TRP --> looked for RP-like subs (years ago) --> this one is in better shape than most of them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:58 PM
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Lol let's not describe people's height with shoes added On stilts I could be 7 feet tall
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:58 PM
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Honestly no idea. Maybe 5'11"? He doesn't come across as "big" but he's not short, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:47 PM
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The cynic in me wonders how much of this is driven by the fact that the kind of man who would cheat also tends to be the kind of man women pursue generally. Having the willingness to unabashedly shoot your shot regardless of consequences repeatedly does tend to be a trait that would get you both an LTR and would make you cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:17 PM
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What about Tim Tebow
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:15 PM
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Dunno what prompted me to remember this but the best anime is clearly Assy McGee
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:14 PM
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Toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:52 PM
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for sure for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:46 PM
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No you just have mental issues. I'm not even "a 5," I'm better looking than that, yet you assumed I was and tried to talk down to me. Why? I was posting something uplifting for the dudes having a hard time. And that wasn't cool with you. You felt the need to just be a cunt for no reason. Says a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:45 PM
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Wow, you really got me. Wish I could be like you. How fucking insightful that you mustered up that grand wisdom. You must have an n-count of a million, wow, I am impressed by all your knowledge of females. I'm such an inferior specimen :\
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:41 PM
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Yeah I mean it's obviously a generalization but it holds pretty true Woman: "you cheated, but did you love her" Man: "did you cheat?" There's a reason the focus is on different things, in that really stereotypically-written question post-cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:38 PM
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I didn't realize women spread their legs out of pity Touch grass lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:36 PM
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What? Who is in delusion land? You don't even know this dude. Was he obligated to marry her, flaws and all, because she's more attractive? Stop lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:28 PM
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I disagree that men are more loyal. However men cheating is much more superficial, typically If a woman cheats, she has no respect for you and does not like you. Guaranteed. If a man cheats, either the girl was not putting out or he just wanted some variety. It means pretty different things, but the actual occurrence of it is prob similar
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:18 PM
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Hung out with one of my old friends today Not to shit on him he's a nice dude but he's not attractive at all and I can't imagine he has much game, also not wealthy... BUT: Found out he dated one of the hottest girls from our HS for a couple months recently, and he broke up with her because she was kinda crazy. So whoever you are, there's hope lol. Male 5s can, in fact, bang hot girls. I was really surprised to hear that that's who he'd been seeing (and before you say it, he is like the last pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:16 PM
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There's users who've had positive experiences dating too lol Consider that they still exist here and that this place by nature would attract people with less-than-positive experiences disproportionately
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:17 AM
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Super hard to generalize but I think people in general are more real with close friends and more fake with acquaintances. I would tell my boys when I catch an L but I don't broadcast it to everyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:14 AM
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Less promiscuous because men will date them More hypergamous because men will date them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:13 AM
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I am openly jealous of dudes who have a really good LTR but not in the like I-hate-you way more in the when-is-my-turn way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:31 PM
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At a certain point too much SMV overloads the system and forces it back down to 0. That’s what happens to these girls They date incels
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:24 PM
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Eh I dress nice if you like men who dress like me. I don’t dress like I’m ready to give a campaign speech tho lol. I wear lots of colors and just good normal clothes. Style preferences vary—Asian culture’s high-end clothing looks extremely ordinary to Americans. And yeah, again, its not surprising to me a particular woman would dislike my preferences. Im not trying to date women tho—just one woman. And theres certainly a singular woman who doesnt think my desires are crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:44 AM
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Nah like youre just describing a completely different—and more “normie,” admittedly—relational dynamic than my past LTR, and future LTRs I am okay with a girl point-blank honestly saying to me “you look like shit today. Go put something else on you fuck.” It’s said half-seriously. The half being, its understood “i am attracted to you, but what youre doing rn is not attractive.” The other half being, “keep each other in check, no slacking.” Its just unabashed honesty between people who highly val…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:39 AM
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LOL you would HATE me irl. I jokingly call women not wearing make-up “little boys” all the time. Only to ppl I know dont find it offensive, but still lmao. Context would be: if i said “the little boy at that table looks like shes on a date rn w that guy,” anyone who knows me closely would know i meant an unkempt girl lmao. Tbh dont style my hair bc i dont have the kind of hair one styles. But i keep my beard very groomed. Also dont wear suits (not corporate) but wear nice hipster-preppy clothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:31 AM
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Comfort is bad for sexuality. Deep connection is verbal. Deep connection is truly knowing each other. Comfort should be capped. I want a girl a little on edge. It builds tension and sustains it. Tension = desire. Maintaining high desire in each other is like the pinnacle of a fairytale relationship 😂 I am an idealist, I want that kind of story. I will take no story over not that story. Otherwise i’ll just bang girls 🤷‍♂️ Passion in LTR > passion in casual sex > LTR w/ no passion > not getting la…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:20 AM
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This is true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:07 AM
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When they can't wear sweats at home because of you Sweatpants look hot on hot girls lol. So do sweatshirts And idk why you're trying to make superficial connection and deep connection into the same thing. I said you need both. The two are completely independent. You need two completely independent entities, and you need them both.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:05 AM
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Oh I'm not mad at the woman who wears mascara, to be absolutely clear. I think it's pathetic, if anything. That's not how I got or how I keep my husband. He wants me for me even after I was my face or go without makeup. It's crucial. This is your opinion tho. My ex and I used to listen to that Drake song where he says something like "you look best when you wake up" and laugh and say he must be simping to try to please his woman audience. Because we both knew men don't really prefer that. Do cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:02 AM
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Again, don't see the problem. I didn't say I'm not shallow. I'm allowed to be that way. When you connect on shallow aspects, and on deep aspects, you have a really great relationship. I want to connect on all aspects. That isn't that crazy. My apologies that other women wear make-up more often than you find to be politically correct. While you're criticizing my preference for this, women who put in effort daily criticize women who don't behind other women's backs. So it all goes round. Again, if…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:54 AM
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First of all, the original context is a first date. I don't know why you keep having babies brought into this. There is one specific time where it will be briefly okay to do that. But this is not that time. So stop talking about it. And these standards were ingrained in me from a woman. From two different women (my mom & my ex). So they're not coming from anywhere but your own gender. If you want somewhere to point your hate of this preference, point it at the women who do that and get the dudes…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:46 AM
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Going to the gym, looking presentable at all times, yes--that is trying in life. And no I don't wear mascara? Why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:37 AM
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I mean to clear things up I don't expect face make-up daily. But mascara and good skin-care are necessary. A naturally beautiful woman passes the bar with mascara and good skin-care. I'm not sure if this girl could have passed if she'd had mascara on--she's kind of borderline for me. But it would have been nice to find out. Yeah I do call it that. I don't get it. Hey congrats to you for finding chemistry. What makes you think these older married couples are lacking anything though? You're fine t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:36 AM
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You may want to sit with this. For a long time. Are you trying to say that attractiveness is marketed and whatnot? That may be, but even if-so, it's so ingrained in me that I don't really care. It's different Do men in this sub know that you can video chat? No drinks, no overpaid and overconsumed drinks, no driving, just a video chat? And you can see if she's hot to you and vice versa? I swear, your not the first man to just totally skate past the possibility here. I don't get it. This takes awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:28 AM
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You call it face-cake. Who hurt you? Loads of women like make-up. It is considered the conventional of attractiveness. In fact it’s considered so attractive some blackpill dudes want it banned lmao. And you call it logically inconsistent. I call it exactly how I would have wanted relationships to go, and exactly how the one ive been in—which was really good—went. If you really want “dirt” on me, I want it so specifically one way bc I dated a girl i would have married, but we split due to long di…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:22 AM
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I’m trying to game you? And no, you’re just stereotyping. Im anti-consumption, not anti-attractiveness. Im pretty superficial in dating. She looked hot(ish) in pics, with make-up. When girls dont wear make-up they just are not hot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:14 AM
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No i think you should be, soon. Otherwise its just a friendship. I want to become friends with my lover, not lover with my friend. Better relationship And no. There are like 10 women on the planet id notice without makeup lmao. My ex was my type to a T personified. She wore super light make-up, just mascara and daily face creams mostly (ik this isnt make-up but yea). But even her I thought she was like a 6 with none. Im not going to be attracted to a woman with no make-up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:12 AM
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Yeah I kinda assumed it was a “make my ex jealous” thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:09 AM
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I don’t really see your end-game with this comment It isn’t a crime to have expectations of people. They then either meet or don’t meet them. In this case she did not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:07 AM
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I mean you clearly seem to be a woman who doesn’t like make-up but that doesn’t negate that not all women are opposed to it. And I like those ones better—dw tho, there’s lots of guys who dislike it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:06 AM
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I expect it because girls do it w/ others, and have done it w/ me. We’re both adults. Shes not a virgin. Waiting is just games. I would rather her n-count was 50 and she fucked me asap than 5 and she wanted me to wait. The 50 girl has a better chance with me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:02 AM
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Lol i dont rly count self-care products bc im not gonna like make them myself I know but my ex got around this by only wearing it around me, but always wearing it around me. That is like, the hottest thing you can do as a girl dating a man. “I dont need anyone in the worlds attention but yours” — 😍😍😍. And nah I agree i should use a condom LOL. But it should still happen, it feels so passionless without it. Im very emotion-driven, relationally
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:00 AM
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I wasn’t pissed the whole time, just annoyed at the end lol & nah I hardly “consume.” If you count thrift stores, $5 sports tickets, a beach pass, and like groceries then ig I “consume” a whole lot. Lol. No. & I’m not making something like that for a chick idk. Those are earned. I’m lowkey proud I’ve only done “bf stuff” for one girl as I try to keep my r-count down. Bc i’m trustworthy and if i do things like that it actually means something. Which is kinda why tricking me into paying annoys me.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:57 AM
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My mom wears make-up every single day from the time she wakes up. Any girl who doesn’t keep standards like that isn’t for me. It’s important to look good without it on too but it should pretty much always be on. I would never let a girl see me not dressed nice. And yes I’ve lived with an LTR in the past. We kept those standards & it was hot af. She asked me out lol. From Hinge. And nah I like to fuck ASAP. I brought a condom bc I’m not wild enough to still be fucking every girl raw. But I’m stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:52 AM
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I don’t pay for dates it’s just against how I do things It also sets bad expectations. I don’t spend money on women really, period. For gifts and stuff I write them songs, stories, and stuff like that. I did have a long LTR so I can vouch some girls are cool with that, and I like it as it’s my thing & I hate money/capitalism. So I create rather than consume. So I don’t want to start out spending money. Bc then what? I stop? I’m not normalizing that in the first place bc I don’t plan to upkeep it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:46 AM
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She didnt like post it but took it And idk, maybe im biased but she went with no make-up on and didnt try to fuck or anything. That and making me pay just makes me feel unwanted lol. No sex + no effort + putting burdens on me is kind of a buzzkill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:41 AM
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It was so cringy lol. I could tell she was super happy a dude paid something for her. I’m like… this wasn’t willing you just abused social norms lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:34 AM
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Bruh this girl really texted me all week, and hella Then we meet up for drinks She takes IG pics and like vaguely gets me in the pic, just enough to tell she’s with a dude And she lowkey gets the check put together rather than separate and “fumbles her card” until I just get mine and pay For a $9 drink. Like idk if she actually did like me and is just kinda clueless but how do girls really want to spend all that time feigning interest over one free $9 drink. Like, just punch an extra hour on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:17 AM
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Well you could have said “no u”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:06 AM
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I guess his plan didn’t work. He was just negging you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:53 AM
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Well I’m just saying You were setting up that the men “are the prize” But that’s not entirely accurate. Collectively, yes. But there’s a huge collection of them. Each man has a tiny tiny slice of the “overall power” in that dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:52 AM
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Did you send him nudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:51 AM
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Well considering there’s 100,000 of them (metaphorically, dunno who this is or how many followers) and 1 of her, they only have 1/100,000th of power
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:41 AM
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I got mine yesterday, congrats joining the club
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:33 AM
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Yes lol it was a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:04 AM
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I feel that. I got kinda desperate for a job and took one I prob shouldn't have, which lead to me quitting after a year to think things over a bit. By time I started applying again I went from "a promising candidate from a good school" to "gaps in resume and lackluster experience." Pretty much lost all the points I ever had from where I went, smh Job I'm starting in July is decent, so at least it's gotten better. But I feel like I could still have done better than this job, and I pretty much los…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:02 AM
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Generally with partner value I'm looking at: - Looks - Wealth - Projected Loyalty Rating (n-count) - Interest in Me - Personality / Swagger Dunno, prob some others, but these came to my head. And obviously nobody is gonna score a 10/10 in every category. I prob weight looks, interest in me, personality highest. So I may very well end up with a high-N girl, but in a vacuum I wouldn't pick a high-N girl. I prob weight wealth and n-count about the same, of the ones I listed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:59 PM
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Cool with it as long as she's otherwise worth it A woman could sell herself to me a million different ways; I see value as value. But if she's having lots of non-committed sex she would need to have value elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:51 PM
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Peep the movie Idiocracy It's based on a true story
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:49 PM
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No HR department is gonna give a fuck why you don’t have work experience Class of 2020 grad probs :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:49 PM
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Speak for yourself. The closer the nutsack is to the floor, the more I want to pick it up and hold it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:41 PM
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You could have just written “I am privileged” and it would have really simplified your post
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:56 PM
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Well, pretty average, but technically above 50 would be average
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:32 PM
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Only go for people you feel like could replace those feelings Whether they do or not is out of your control edit: realize there were options but realistically you put time-frame options. i don't believe in a time-frame to find the right match, can happen at any point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:53 PM
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Deranged hatred of Capitalism, the system which (though far from perfect) has resulted in levels of wealth and ease unimaginable to prior generations. Has it? As far as I can see, people work as much if not more than pretty much any other period of human history. People have a hard time securing housing. People lose jobs frequently, and struggle to pay bills. The average American is pretty poor. Capitalism benefits one specific group of people: those whose net worth is... dunno, maybe 10 million…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:35 PM
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An average person has less average options, not more. I get what you're saying in terms of: Let's say 5/10 average people are attracted to one average person. But 9/10 average people are attracted to a given hot person. The point of my post was: yes, 4 additional people are into the more attractive person. However: The average person themselves is probably attracted to 2/10 of the 5/10 average people attracted to them, giving them two options. The attractive person is likely attracted to 0/10 of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:25 PM
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Are you just saying better odds =/= better outcome? I mean I agree there but unless you're already taken we're all playing an odds game, so good odds are the best thing you could have lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:22 PM
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I honestly don't know how you would date and not end up "in Chad's rotation." If you aim high it's just going to happen if you date long enough (unless you get scooped up young) and that's basically all that that's saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:21 PM
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I could see this. Like being 70th percentile is better than being 50th. That I would agree with. There's still a pretty wide range available at that range
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:19 PM
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People, especially women people, are not very keen on an average person, they are much more likely to be attracted to someone who have one or more special, above average traits Yeah but ultimately people do pair and, though those women may be attracted to those guys, they're not going to get it reciprocally. Also people who are above average in some trait can get with someone who's above average in other traits (ex.: pretty woman with avg looking, very sociable guy with higher income). I mean th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:18 PM
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This is true but it can cause problems I think. Like can the attractive partner consistently turn down more attractive options? Can the less attractive partner keep insecurity in check? Different issues whether it's male/female who's the more attractive one but it can cause problems, tho it may not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:15 PM
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For getting sex absolutely not But for mutual compatibility I would argue yes The same can be said for lots of traits. Outliers have a harder time finding other outliers. Like imagine you just wanna play some pickup basketball. If you were in the NBA, nobody is gonna want to play with you lol (a little different but yeah)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:14 PM
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Imma give you two answers here: Absolutely yes I think women can be alpha widowed, and alpha widowed hard. I don't really see how you could argue otherwise--backsliding sucks ass. Which brings me to my next point: "Alpha Widowing" is not uniquely a female thing, but a human thing. I am a dude--my Ex totally Alpha Widowed me hard lol. Now, if I could find better or equal, I would be fine (and I suspect the same in women). But ever since I dated her I would have a bitch of a time downgrading, as I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:37 PM
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CMV - Unpopular Opinion It's way better, if you want an LTR, to be average than attractive. At first glance you would say: "Oh, but the attractive person has more options. No way!" But consider how average people feel about unattractive people--to the average person, those aren't real options. Now consider that, to an attractive person, they feel the same way about average people. The best relationships, imo, and happiest ones are when you're matched on as many levels as possible. The more trait…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:25 PM
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Eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap. Then why can I pick up a dozen eggs for like $1 at a grocery store, yet a sperm donor costs about $1000? Seems to me like eggs are about 1000x cheaper than sperm
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:16 PM
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Made me realize two things. 1 - my dating life would be significantly easier if i was gay If you're being honest is this really something you had to realize The average guy dude has an n-count of 500, which is like the Chaddiest of Chaddy Chads for straight men. The average guy dude gets to exercise his sexual desires to the level that you need to be insanely outstanding to reach as a straight person. So if you're attractive at all, and gay, I imagine you basically just live in sexual paradise l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:13 PM
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nah japanese can learn kung fu too I am white and I could learn kung fu if i really wanted Kung Fu for all, even Pandas
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:35 PM
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Sexual socialism sounds great. Lifelong monogamy would be so easy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:28 PM
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Theyve never been on a date bc chicks come directly over for that kung-fu-POW
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:26 PM
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Not true at all. Average people have the best odds. There’s way more average people to pick from. Attractive people are most likely to have to settle and not love their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:24 PM
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No you can get LTRs by simping. Theyre just not good LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:09 PM
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Yeah exactly this. Theres no demographic of ppl w/ an overabundance of “perfect matches”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:08 PM
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Getting a shitty relationship is super easy as both genders tbh. Whether you are a man or a woman: you read here often, right? You know what women want, what men want? Men want sex. Women want to hold off sex. So here's what you do, to get a shitty relationship. Take all the knowledge you've accrued here and go apply it to a ton of both men and women. Simp hard. Do everything you could possibly imagine they'd want. Absolutely gaslight the shit out of their expectations, if you're a guy, spend mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:17 PM
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No it doesn’t bc women are evaluated with it on, it just lowers women without make-up bc men compete against men not women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:58 PM
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Lol I googled it and 8 inches is the 0.6 percentile Even 7 inches is just 1-in-50
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:57 PM
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Not really no i’m not contradicting it But also explaining the #s dont come from nowhere. Like i wouldnt be surprised if a good # of girls have seen an 8 inch dick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:44 AM
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I mean “between 9-12” is gonna skew hella towards the lower end, so 9 I imagine this is self-reported, so subtract an inch or two. Call it 7 A girl fucking a 6’4” guy isn’t crazy at all An average 6’4” guy’s dick is prob like 6.5 inches or something Now consider it’s self-reported and voila. Plus, girls are more likely to assume taller guys’ dicks are bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:16 AM
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Lol cant say i participated in anything like that but can say frat dudes talk about each others dicks 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:12 AM
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A lot of it Honestly “achieving” is entirely pointless. And on a lot of “would you rather” type posts I see people pick women over riches generally. Even saying things like “well the point of the riches would be to get women, so riches without women is pointless”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:11 AM
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Well I was in a frat so More than you’d like to think lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:00 AM
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Not valuing any sort of purpose except having an attractive girl It’s not inherently bad but an attractive girl wants you to have purpose. Often money too but even above money is having purpose generally
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:59 AM
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Consider that taller men would have bigger dicks on average
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:55 AM
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I agree But 2. For anyone who likes monogamy GL getting that with a gay dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:52 AM
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To be fair you say online but i havent heard it irl either. Everyone got an anaconda
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:50 AM
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Nope, but as a male that combo would be difficult to pull off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:49 AM
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He fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:30 AM
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Idk what this “dick print” is you speak of I don’t walk around hard lol my dick is tiny soft like anyone else’s And as for your others… no, they cant tell in those scenarios. I’m sorry it’s not like you wanted it to be. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:20 AM
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Dawg, you don’t know me, and you’re extrapolating my entire worldview off 30 second low effort messages I’m sending from my phone while I rewatch Bojack Horseman. My ideas about the world are as not-normie as it gets. Often I put things into “normie” terms because people listen to you better when you speak in familiar terms. My main argument here is I don’t give a shit about Western society dying. Yeah, I get what you’re saying, foreign takeover yada yada. Could give a fuck less a bunch of rich …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:18 AM
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Well no most (basically, all, bc nearly everything else was a ONS) of the times I got laid were with the same LTR who had a low n-count and hadnt really looked at a dick other than mine. She had no clue. No one i fucked had any idea how big my dick was until it was out lol, idk how a big dick would even get u laid bc the girl has to know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:12 AM
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Eh idk i dont mind sharing positive things cuz i share negatives too but i see what ur saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:09 AM
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Probably sarcasm but I just tell it like it is lol. I think part of it is that I was hella awkward when younger so I didn't get as much of that training in 'being graceful about sharing your stats,' so to say lol. I more-so had to operate on a "prove yourself" mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:44 AM
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Whatever you want to believe. Want to stereotype people into left and right? Then you'll see the world in left-and-right. Want to be open-minded and understand nuanced viewpoints exist? Then people making comments like you're making right now will start to look quite sad. Only you control how you see the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:41 AM
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Yeah, I mean, it's basically a dating equivalent of being in a high-income high-stress career. Ironically, I would hate that. But it suits me well in dating to have a somewhat difficult time with it. It's definitely a reality most men don't understand tho, at least until they experience it. I mean hell I did not know what I got myself into on day one, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:40 AM
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... No. I wasn't told I was average I wasn't told I was big I wasn't told I was small I was told nothing Women have no idea. Half their sex happens drunk and in dark places. Half the time the dude puts it in before they really see it. It's just not on their radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:37 AM
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Dawg stop. My dick is 7.5 inches and it hasn't helped me once--I didn't even know my dick was that big until I'd already had sex over 1000x. Dick size is all male fantasizing bullshit. No one even knows or cares how big a dick is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:33 AM
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Lol just pull a real life me and say "Oh I read Reddit" If they say "which subs" just name the biggest most popular ones like AskReddit and shit chances are they don't read it enough to notice what you talk about from Reddit isn't really what happens on those subs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:32 AM
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Hell no don't ban make-up. I want my girl to wear make-up lol (but also look somewhat good without it). Why would people want to make women uglier wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:29 AM
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Honestly I don't think hot girls are any less LTR-quality as a whole compared to other groups. The girls themselves, that is. When you date a really hot girl though you have to be a certain type of man, and you have to actually be that kind of man--not pretending. Your girl will get hit on all the fucking time. People will make sexual comments about your girl. Friends will "fall for her" (lol). It's like a massive target on your relationship from the outside and if you are not the kind of guy th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:27 AM
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I say this whenever this comes up but dudes way overthink this. My dick is 7.5 inches lol. So pretty big. I found out my dick was big... 4 years and 25 sex partners after I started having sex, and after having sex over 1000x lol. Nobody told me at all. Nobody noticed. I even had an LTR and we both just assumed my dick was average. Girls do not know how big 4, 5, 6, or 7 inches are. The average is like 5.3 inches I think. They have no idea. Dudes are the one who obsess over inches, not women. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:24 AM
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… no. I am a person. I don’t believe in sides
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:00 AM
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These aren't "my lands" or "my people." And I'm not high on Western civilization so it's impending doom--which is pretty much guaranteed, regardless of population trends--is not my concern, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:28 AM
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Damn i’m jealous. I only hit one 6 in 6/6/6 and it’s the most irrelevant one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:05 AM
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I’m not Leftish lol I hardly consume any media You’re just assuming I have views I don’t I’m aware decreasing population will cause unrest in the future when retirement can’t be funded I’m also aware that a global population of 10 billion would lead to tons of deaths too In reality, “pick your poison”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:04 AM
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This is so overblown My dick is big. I was sexually active 4 years and with many chicks before I even found out. I told girls my dick was average. Nobody disagreed with me. Turns out it’s 7.5 inches when actually measured. Who woulda known 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:55 PM
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Tryna summon the devil or an attractive man? Or are those even 2 different things
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:51 PM
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I got 9% Considering 9% just about covers only my desired attractiveness level from women, yeah, pretty busted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:50 PM
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To be honest when I am social women in my league do approach me now and then. Granted, I approach more women than the reverse, but still—not unheard of
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:49 PM
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Nah long-term it’s good. There’s too many people straight up. Sometimes you need a rain storm to grow flowers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:44 PM
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Wdym? That's pretty much what we have
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:38 PM
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birthrates If we had high birthrates we might have another period of wealth soon but we'd be fucked in the not-too-distant future
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:30 PM
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Seven dollars, but in bitcoin so it'll be worth 100k in 6 months
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:43 PM
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Q4M - Would you blow me for cash? Asking for a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:03 PM
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9% lol This makes me sound way less selective than I am
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:02 PM
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Both! We'd talked a couple times in class, and by time we actually fucked we'd gone on one date (she just blew me after it). I liked her personality a lot but didn't find her the most attractive (was a little bit--emphasis, little bit--chubby). She hit me up to fuck drunkenly and then we dated for 4 years after that, but at the time it was no different than any other ONS I've had since
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:59 PM
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Damn lol. When you couldn't pick one thing, so you pick them all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:51 PM
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If she offers I won't say no lol But most likely I'll just split it. When I invite I just have it split anyways since it's "on me" to invite most of the time so paying seems like a double-whammy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:50 PM
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Oh, didn't expect an answer like that but that's hella valid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:49 PM
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Yeah like I don't think an average guy who actually gets big would ever not be considered a 5. And still, women, ehhhh. Attraction to women is just so genetic. Short of surgery you can't really hide a mediocre face. Make-up doesn't completely redesign your face unless you use a ton of it, which men then notice and criticize
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:48 PM
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Hmm well that does tend to hurt in dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:46 PM
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Lol I feel this As a muscular guy who was also in a frat but wasn't that "fratty," back in college I often "had some explaining to do" with women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:45 PM
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Lol imo this sounds more like a positive. Women hate "having to take care of" grown men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:44 PM
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And let me guess this just makes men more attracted to you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:21 PM
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Oh you went the other way with it. Interesting I mean there's tons of individual items where men and women get "a raw deal" but it's just a result of the fact that no system will be perfect, and our overall world equality is fucked (i.e., wealthy people are vastly overprivileged). My opinion is basically--I think most 'groups' of society are more equal than people like to admit, but wealth-privilege is overabundantly rampant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:20 PM
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Whatever way you want to frame it, that would convince me men and women are not equal in total sum
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:17 PM
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I'll go first My biggest negative is probably income (about average for my age, not the clearest path to improving it either). I guess my net-worth is worse than my income tho as that's below-average for my age I'm relatively clear about it but I don't exactly draw attention to it--you could probably infer it from my job title and past things I've done, if you paid attention Effect I think it has... I've definitely lost a couple prospects over it. It isn't too bad because I'm not the worst in te…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:16 PM
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Q4A What would be the worst thing about dating you, and how has that impacted your ability to date? Do you hide it? Are you forthcoming about it? What reactions do you get?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:10 PM
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This thread is written in a way where it's hard to not pick the purpose-driven guy. In practice, even though I'm that guy and do get girls, I think women pick the status-driven guy. It's just, you're describing him how someone who subtly doesn't like him would and it leaks through. If you rephrased this as like "He's a lawyer, and he's so dedicated to his profession that he talks about it often and really puts in extra work to make sure he can support his family through it" ---If you reoriented …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:09 PM
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Where is the easy going, socially and professionally successful man who never stops learning and growing? The man who likes people and enjoys socializing and getting to know new people and learning new things? The always curious man? The fun guy who laughs a lot and likes music and books and nature and art? This is what we call the status-driven man, but in the honeymoon phase OP was talking about his description post-divorce (lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:04 PM
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You just said "status-driven social media shows me women who are with status-driven men" I'm more of the second guy and women do go for me; I just don't have social media, and women who go for me tend to be outside that bubble too. Like attracts like
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:01 PM
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I mean I'll chime in. Yes it's easier for an average male to become a 7 than an average female. Average dude: hit the gym for a couple years and you'll be a 7. Done Average woman: there's basically nothing you can do to become a 7 So yes possible is easier to accomplish than basically impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:56 PM
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Men can wear make-up and increase their looks lol Ever watched TV? All the dudes on-screen are wearing make-up. Fun fact
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:54 PM
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I agree with the idea but you wrote a lot more for the girls than the guys which kinda disproportionately makes it look harder for women I've actually said this exact idea here many times. Dudes say all the time shit that basically means "I shouldn't have to do shit to get women because women don't have to do shit!" And that's patently false. What they really mean is: "I have spent so little time around women who take care of themselves that I have no idea what women do, so I assume it's nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:54 PM
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Traditional etiquette was that the person who issued the invitation paid for the date, unless it was a group outing with no romantic overtones where everyone was clearly going Dutch. So tomorrow night I have a date with a girl who asked me out. Think I should let her know I expect her to be paying? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:49 PM
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Lol it's funny to see y'all talking about this here bc I recently saw it in a couple dating profiles and I thought it was a joke Such an odd thing to care about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:48 PM
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Lol in retrospect I think I had this like 6 weeks ago Went on a date with a girl, it went fine, she asked if I wanted to split the bill, I said yes, soon after we were left and she practically stormed out, didn't look at me, and never texted me again--never explicitly said it was that but that was in stark contrast to her earlier behavior Some chicks just entitled. Fuck em. Chick was making double my pay too ain't no way I'm paying for her lmfao. What sense would that ever make
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:47 PM
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Just move on from girls like this They'll learn better eventually... ... or just be forever single. Or find a huge beta lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:44 PM
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Out of curiosity, in what way do you think we don't already have male-female gender equality? Like, there's some things better about being a guy and some better about being a girl, but I just really fail to see how either gender can think they're unequal in 2022
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:43 PM
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This checks out lol. The second-tallest one is lowkey way taller than the other two as well Guess it's a memo to girls--if you want to look small, have friends who are bigger than you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:39 PM
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Lol. My official dating strategy is basically that. Have variety until I can have quality until I ruin the relationship then back to square 1
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:36 PM
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None of this is about the kid. This is about the mom consenting (lol), and then about a societal construct ("rights and responsibilities") The kid is better off talking to a dad than not, unless the dad is like independently a bad dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:33 PM
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Lol, come on Is it better if a dad cared a little or none at all? Is it better if a kid gets answers or no answers? Pretend that we never had child support or any of that to begin with and this just an in-a-vacuum thing. Because to the kid, it would be exactly that. I know plenty of people whose dads walked out and I can say 110% without a doubt that they would rather have some level of involvement from him than none. It's an insane take to say he should be kept away from the kid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:31 PM
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I feel this And women feel 100% about dudes that other women of similar looks feel 100% about. Then they wonder why dudes have a hard time picking one and settling down. I'm just tryna order one steak but if every item on the dollar menu is all that's in stock rn why not just order them all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:27 PM
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Yeah, this. IME my 'friendly rejections' are never taken well. Well, not never, but often are not taken well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:24 PM
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Because women claim that all the Islamic people carrying out terrorist attacks are actually Jews in disguise trying to give Islam a bad name
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:21 PM
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Well it’s tough for me to say why without knowing who’s saying it. Context matters If I HAD TO sacrifice a trait, then yeah, earnings would be one of the first “big traits” I’d let go (to a point). For various reasons some have to make that sacrifice. So I can see why a “generic someone” would say that, or again—they’re young or something But career being “meaningless” is pretty overblown, yeah, I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:53 AM
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I don't even really agree with the whole "RPers don't care about what a girl makes" bit Like let's be real most RP dudes are RP because they're not getting any girls, thus yes have very few standards (anything is better than nothing). Up their options and they're going to have preferences the same way anyone does
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:43 AM
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I mean anyone who doesn’t value their partner’s earning power is 1 of 3 things: Young Dumb Rich Whether RP or not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:28 AM
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It doesn’t have to be as negative as you’re interpreting it I wouldn’t date an unemployed uneducated girl. Therefore I am “making” women who hope to date me have that qualification. But no one would argue that’s bad & yes you can say “it’s her choice tho” but if every dude agreed w/ me it wouldn’t be a choice anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:08 AM
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Is the opposite of a micropenis, a macropenis?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:39 AM
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If your husband was dating a 49 y/o that just means he had no better options. Or her SMV when she was younger would have been way higher than his at that age I don’t see what the second half is supposed to mean? 25 y/o women date dudes who are like 25-35 most typically, from what I see. I did say 40 is a stretch, but not a huge one. 25 y/o men date women age 20-25 most typically
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:18 AM
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like men to eventually reach the mindset that they are most likely going to die alone or end up settling I don't think this is a good starting place for youth. Reason being: first you try; if you fail, then you accept your failure. But quitting before you even begin is ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:58 AM
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it is really easy to hide redpill/blackpill ideologies under "feminist" teachings once you have a really good handle on them. This is a truth few people pick up on lol RP: "make women do shit" Feminism: "women should be able to do shit" It aligns more than most people think
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:56 AM
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Bruh, comments like this are literally what push people towards RP. Like idk how some of y'all make the worst arguments against RP and think it's proving some point. Is a 40 y/o guy as attractive as RP says? No. Is a 40 y/o guy more attractive, on average, to a 25 y/o woman than a 40 y/o woman is to a 25 y/o man? Hell fucking yes. You would never catch me--or anybody, anybody at all, that I know--dating a 40 y/o woman (I am 24). And maybe 40 is a stretch for a 25 y/o woman too, but 30+ is comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:55 AM
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I think the point of frustration is that the % of women who are willing to fuck criminals, even if it is a small percentage, is still greater than the % of women that want to fuck incels. I'm sorry lol but this whole thread is so illogical. The word incel means "involuntarily celibate." The percent ratio of incels who women are not willing to fuck will always be 100%. If women decide to fuck an incel, well then they're not an incel. So yes criminals will always get laid more than incels. Because…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:11 PM
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well, if it's short
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:08 PM
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My best friend won’t ltr any girl he doesn’t think is good enough to show off essentially retweet
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:04 PM
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To be fair they make a big difference. I have a rich 5’4” unattractive asian male friend. He hired a professional photographer whos top notch to photograph him in designer clothes at exotic locations. He matches with girls who are bad af lol. Obvi not doable for your average Joe, but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:42 PM
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Why do so many of your arguments take the form of: Here’s a ridiculous idea BTW men say this Crazy!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:36 PM
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My mom rejected my dad’s first proposal They’ve been married 30 yrs now 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:33 PM
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How tf I make the 3rd comment and someone already beat me to saying Ghengis Khan 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:31 PM
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Genges Khan
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:30 PM
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Damn be careful who you say that around. Some dudes around here will think you’re LARPing. A 5’6” dude could never actually see a vagina you’re being way too crazy rn 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:21 PM
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Well that and he probably weighs 140 pounds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:18 PM
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You're less successful with women now because you're 20 pounds LBM less and aren't in college anymore so Frat/Sports modifiers count for less with less women. I am more successful with women now I am just more selective and don't extend beyond OLD right now, whereas in college OLD was only a small portion of who I got and my logistics were great. And that 3-month spell was a complete aberration. My matches on OLD are consistently more attractive than they ever were in college, and I'm in a way s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:10 AM
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I didn't shit on short men, actually. I shat on internet short men. Of which you seem to have big internet short man energy. There's a difference between internet short men, and short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:29 AM
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No, I stand by everything I said. I could 100% give you example after example of short people I know who did well in life, in dating, in anything--and you're not interested in that. You're interested in moping.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:26 AM
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Why do you say these things to me like I've never had a problem in life? Lol. This is what this post is about, literally. You don't see any other problem as prevalently and religiously presented over and over again. And yet there are way bigger problems than being short.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:25 AM
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[First Paragraph] Short of showing you pictures I'm not really going to change your mind on this. I indexed looks-to-percentiles and my idea of a 7 is about top 5-15% (of girls my age), an 8 is top 1-5%, a 6 is top 16-35% (convert from TRM scale to my scale--I'm talking about my scale is those percentiles. And I used college-aged population. On my scale TRM 7 = 8, TRM 6-6.5 = 7, TRM 5.5 = 6, TRM 5 = 5). I don't know if that corresponds to the graph because I didn't agree with that side of the gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:20 AM
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My LTR that I dated for 4 years was a very strong 8 lol. I do generally agree that the worse they look the easier to meet-up, but I still am meeting up with more of the more attractive ones. My most recent date was a 7, date I have for Wednesday is a 6 (but she's down to bang lol so why not), and the 7.5 has been texting me a few days now and we'll likely meet up soon. Ironically I got flaked on by a 6 on Saturday night (RIP). But still I haven't gone on a "true" date with a girl I consider a 5 …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:22 AM
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If we're mapping to income that would be 65k per year, whic sounds like to me you make less, but fine we'll go with it unless you correct me 60k so I mean 'less' but not noticeably less I think the scale needs a lot more face in this case. Or to somehow recalibrate body ratings. Because my body looks better than most dudes lol, so feels weird to get 10/40 for it. I'm 5'10" so I'm just not going to have the lean body mass of a 6'3" guy, but I look muscular at this weight, height, and bodyfat. Scr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:04 AM
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The last thing you said is 100% it lol. Especially, again, because I'm not stringing them along--very few guys are going to do that lol. I guess the most common thing to deal with is them "rejecting my rejection." I've had a lot of "Oh, I'm so glad you told me you rejected me because X--I would NEVER have wanted you if I knew you were like that!" And the thing itself will be something pretty normal, like she's been shitty about making plans. Honestly not being respectful of my time is the #1 rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:06 AM
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Was my experience more normal than those of guys who whine in reddit about OLD, has OLD gotten more dire for men since 2014, or were a handful of women able to tell by my picture that I'm 6'4" despite not mentioning it in my profile? So I was using OLD with outdated pics where I'm a little above average for a while and I was getting trickles of attention. Like, some dates, but kind of sparse. Not bad enough to complain about, but not great. I switched to pics after 8 months of lifting and I've h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:56 AM
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The theory is that women don't care about height, they care about LBM Yeah, glad you said this. I support using LBM over height. A big short dude, generally > a rail-thin tall dude (generally). Using LBM already incorporates the inherent advantage height gives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:52 AM
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This is really hard to follow entirely but fuck it let's run me through the metrics and we'll see if it's accurate to how I actually do lol. 40 points for Lean Body Mass My lean body mass is about 143. No idea how to place that. It seems pretty light and your "average guy" had the same so let's go with 20 points. Off to a great start! 20 Points for Body Fat % I'm about 14% bodyfat so this scores pretty well here. Probably get most of the points. Let's call it 16/20. 17.5 Points for Status (gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:46 AM
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Lol I use this phrase. What would you like instead of it? I mean when I say it I'm just trying to elude to "capable of accomplishing one's sexual goals" whereas many people can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:32 AM
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Depends on the situation. If I've actually had sex with them then I'm probably going to say something, but a few scenarios that've come up recently: If she's being unresponsive via text and I'm losing interest already, or her unresponsiveness causes me to lose interest--ghosted. If she keeps putting me off--maybe ghost, maybe let her know. If it's entirely my decision that I'm not interested and she's been trying, I will 100% let her know. If we haven't even met up, ghost. Not sure what other si…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:29 AM
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Lol funny you shared this. My mom (semi-famous influencer) dated a 5'6" bodybuilder before my 6'2" dad and by all accounts based off what she's shared she was way more attracted to the short guy. I know a little different than your story but still. Short guys are their own worst enemies a lot of the time. So dedicated to blaming their failures on their height that it just cripples them, like in your story--and they don't even want to hear the stories like I said above because it just shatters th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:13 AM
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There's plenty of short men who do fine Then y'all add in the caveats "but they're X, Y, or Z" so it doesn't count It literally keeps going on and on like that with internet short dudes. Until someone is a fucking dumb, deaf, mute, 4'2", crippled, scarred short man with a harem of models it won't matter to y'all. Like, bro, life isn't Disney. I'm sorry that you need to compensate for shortcomings with positive traits. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:10 AM
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Lmao. Glad you shared. This is pretty much how I feel about the internet short dudes. And notice how I always put "internet" before short dudes--because, again, it isn't short men who have this problem. It's short men on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:07 AM
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Yeah I agree it's like between 2 and 3 where you start getting results. And i'm honestly not sure how well you think PPD thinks good-looking guys do but I would agree they do really well lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:56 PM
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Yeah, at one point or another, every frat has someone get charged lol. Those people join frats. The frats try to weed them out. It's literally 1 out of 100 dudes, the other 99 aren't like that. I mean it's kind of like police. The job is to hold a gun and enforce shit with it. People who have bad intentions will become police because they see what they could do as a policeman. The police force isn't rewarding that behavior though. Unless it's a really fucked up police force. They want those dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:52 PM
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lmao yeah bc the post was literally 'incel has become meaningless and basically a way to invalidate points'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:46 PM
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Real shit there is no more annoying group of people than insecure short men online. These bruhs wonder why they aren't getting laid it's like fucking listen to yourself. If an Indian guy complained about his race as much as short men complained about being short, no one would go near him If a dumb guy complained about being dumb as much as short men complain about being short, no one would go near him If a tall guy complained about being tall as much as short men complained about being short, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:43 PM
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Ugh. All the short dudes online dwelling on their height need to get over it. I was 5'9" until I was 21 (literally below average height) and I was still getting laid pre-21. Even now my height is literally average. You're really trying to say I get above average results because of my average height? Like that is just illogical bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:38 PM
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Yeah, I could see 3, he just looks really young--which maybe he's a 3 for that age, which idk how old he is, but it's hard being mid-20s bc I just see him as kinda boy-ish looking like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:25 PM
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Women don't like men who smile. Because muh dark triad These two things are not incompatible. Whoever is saying that is a clown lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:22 PM
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I don't really think 1-10 works for dudes It's more like groupings Gross Whatever Good-looking Chad af I put him between 2 and 3, would be attractive if not a pencil
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:20 PM
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5'9" until I was 21 then 5'10"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:56 PM
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tall no good looking guy yes, but much more-so when i lift doesn’t have a tough time in life Sometimes it's good and sometimes it's not. I don't think many people would want to trade places, for whatever that's worth
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:45 PM
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Bruh. Half the shit that gets frats labeled creepy is just other frats/srats that have incentive to "take that house down a peg" spewing propaganda. I was in a frat. It's catty like that. People badmouth other houses all the time. People involved in it know that those parts are mostly bullshit. Now and then, you'll get a house with a few creeps (frats do attract creeps), but even then those dudes are typically weeded out in pledging and kicked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:40 PM
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the guy who knows how to make a woman feel sexual yet is the commitment type. They exist but are almost always already in relationships. Hello hello it's me guy number 3 Alternative: I've been single a while, but my standards are high. My last LTR (4 years) really hurt me when it ended, so my standards now reflect how much I want to avoid anything like that happening ever again. To many girls that comes across like number 2. "Oh, he had sex with me then we never spoke again. What a douche! Just …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:37 PM
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Those pictures are ass he could be a 10 or a 2 I wouldn't know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:12 PM
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Were you talking about everyone with an XY chromosome or about yourself indiviudally? I wasn't talking about anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:11 PM
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For most positive results tease without being that sexual. You can have sexual conversation without sexual topics; it's most effective because their guard can't be put up by anything overt you're saying but it'll still be triggering attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:32 PM
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Idk I will date around and report back with results
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:24 PM
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5'10"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:07 PM
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I'm also just kinda tired of guys talking about "gymcels". Being fit and in shape and even moderating lean does an immense amount for one's physical attractiveness and I've not met a single in shape guy on real life who struggles greatly with the opposite sex. Yeah, they may not be lotharios but a lot end up falling into some kind of pussy. Except on Reddit, which somehow seems to be chock full of men in the upper echelon of physical fitness and yet can't find a woman to save their lives. Most o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:59 PM
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First of all that dude doesn’t speak for all dudes (why I hate 2-partyism type beliefs bc both sides just do this hella) Second of all in a different context I could see his point making more sense? Like people can turn you off. But I can see why a guy might struggle to see how, for girls, people need to turn you on too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:57 AM
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Lmao i just read them side by side its literally the same 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:43 AM
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Lol before I saw this I wrote a response that was almost identical to this one. Stop assuming smh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:30 AM
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My ex was best, mostly because we did the craziest shit lol. Unmatchable adrenaline rush No I wouldn’t fuck her again because she hurt me so I can’t think of her like that anymore I don’t have a partner. Strangely I do fantasize about her, but entirely platonically. What I miss most about her is that I could talk to her and tell her things I’ve never been able to with anyone else. We also just had unreal chemistry. That’s the part I miss, not really the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:28 AM
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What I see in real life : Ugly mofos and short guys making bank, good-looking dudes being miserable. And so on and so on. I feel like most people with high-paying jobs get fat from stress and long hours. Being both wealthy and in-shape seems like a pretty rare combo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:49 AM
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yeahhh definitely don't lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:48 AM
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For sure. To find a supplier, just go to parties at houses known to be like that and befriend attractive girls and ask them. They know lol. All my good, cheap connects were referred to me by women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:43 AM
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It came from my friend who is debatably gay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:38 AM
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Nah trust me you'd get hooked on nicotine if you did it long enough. I'm decently addiction-resistant. I've done pretty much everything that isn't like heroin meth or crack lol. And most of them a handful of times. Alcohol, a very, very small addiction formed; I was more of a frequent drinker than alcoholic, tho (could go without it perfectly fine). Nicotine took me about two years of active use to get super addicted. I started using nicotine and stopped so many times I thought I was immune to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:38 AM
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and takes it seriously Depends what you mean by this. Like I have "serious" conversations insofar as I say shit I actually mean and talk about topics that actually interest me. But if by serious you mean that I'm actually evaluating whether my irl actions are "alpha" or "beta," then yeah, I "don't take it seriously." I think there's definitely attractive people who post here; again, repeating myself here, but attractive people are people too. If unattractive people can have nerdy hobbies like Re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:30 AM
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The actual sub? Hell no. The ideas of it? Kinda. I don't really agree w/ all of RPW, like I don't agree w/ all of RP either. But I talked about RP without the word RP to my ex-LTR all the time. For the most part it went pretty well. What gives me pause for concern is that the way I can depict the world to people often causes them to get depressed, eventually. Like, I am a pretty dark-humor individual, have been through some shit, and I have a lot of accurate-but-not-pleasant 'bits of wisdom' to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:27 AM
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Nicotine would like a word
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:14 AM
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I imagine pro-lifers are more attractive than pro-choicers, especially when adjusted for SES. Really read this as "pro lifters" and was very confused why this would need to be argued for a sec lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:11 AM
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Just be yourself. If you have a healthy attitude toward women, you’ll meet plenty. Your height, looks, etc. don’t matter. You realize he said he's going to a bar, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:09 AM
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Girl, you're a 9 out of 10 and I'm the one you need
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:09 AM
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I DM'd you bc doxing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:11 AM
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main character syndrome and believe their way of dealing with things is the only way to deal with it. To be fair, what other way are people really qualified to speak about doing things? Like, anything you haven't experienced yourself, if you tell other people to do, you're basically giving them advice on something you're just speculating about--at least if you've actually done it, and are pleased with the results, you can verify it worked for someone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:06 PM
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Plot twist: they banged and now it's awkward between them at work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:04 PM
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Maybe their going out of business sales are working so well it keeps them in business, but the second it ends they're back on skid row going out of business again
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:03 PM
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Oh for sure. And some think I'm pretty good and some don't think that as much, too. Both will give you points for it anyways (the ones who like your stuff more obviously give you more tho lol). But it can also work the other way too--if they like you better, they'll like your craft better too. <-- last bit is why a lot of the musicians/artists that make it are attractive lol. But overall definitely a pro. Tho I will also add--I played pro in a video game, too--so funny you mention anime (anime &…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:58 PM
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For a guy that hasn't had sex you hit the nail pretty on the head w/ that. I mean, in my own story, that proved to be very true. I was a pretty sad kid, but I put myself out there a lot in college and got laid a lot because of it. Thought "my life will now be perfect," but I was still a sad kid on the inside. Ironically, my sex life dialed back by a ton in the last 18 months--and I'm the happiest I've ever been. Ironic, because I'm the most anti-social I've ever been, too. But letting go, not in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:16 PM
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Best of luck with everything you're doing, be the one-man entertainment machine Chad that you know you can be. Haha thanks--we'll see what I can pull. Not sure what my aim is, entirely... mostly, I want to put "good messages" out there, I want to make people laugh and provide some levity in a pretty dark world, and I want to replace my day-job with it lol. Beyond that, we'll see But yeah I feel that with "I want to have something to tell women I do"--can vouch, sending clips of things I've done …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:10 PM
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damn i just got check-mate'd lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:39 PM
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Take a pic of someone else's dick
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:39 PM
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Well, this is a really good question for me and also a bad one lol. So I haven't been putting myself out there like that for my music because I live in a pretty shit-tier place rn but I am moving soon--so I've just been practicing, for the most part, and recording some good "seed content" for when I first launch my shit. So I don't personally know anyone successful w/ it that started after a certain age. HOWEVER: I am 24, not the youngest for beginning in music, and I totally plan to pursue it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:35 PM
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Liar. I may be pretty buzzed but I read the definition of a troll and that is not me smh I am person not troll
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:30 PM
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Ehhh, idk, it depends on your idea of a neg. I consider it a neg because quite literally it is a negative statement directed towards a girl, it's just well-calibrated. If you define negs as only being things that aren't well-calibrated to being an attractive guy in a fun atmosphere, then yeah, negs suck. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:28 PM
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:( lol i know you're kidding but i actually support negs. the only reason they have such a bad rep is bc of the autistic implementation of them that most dudes do Good neg: Girl: i like country music Dude: so, do you fuck your cousins too? joke being: haha obviously you dont this is crazy to say Bad neg: Girl: I like country music Dude: LOL @ you country music sucks fucking loser joke being: none at all youre just being a dick lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:24 PM
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hit my DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:22 PM
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Sounds fun
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:19 PM
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I know you're a girl but the answer here is be hella attractive and take a full body naked picture lol. Or have a huge dick. The full body pic works best tho bc you can tell it's big by relation to the rest of your body's size and the BG and whatnot. I've really only done this w/ girls I'm actively hooking up with but it's gone fine lol. I would also say, if your dick isn't big, just don't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:18 PM
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If you wanted a real answer tho. There's a few golden rules: ABP (always be positive) ABL (always be light) ABF (always be funny) ABMM (always be making moves) ABOR (always be okay with rejection) You want to come across as fun, nonjudgmental, just like... a good time. And always be moving shit forward, in small steps. Whether that's meeting up with her, getting her into bed, getting her to "open up to you" (if you want to transition to an LTR). But at the same time as you're being this fun guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:15 PM
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You don't, just grab them by the pussy. Bruh you should know this the President himself said it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:10 PM
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Some redpillers genuinely think that everybody are gonna benefit and read their goal if they lift 8 times a week. Honestly if you lifted 8x/week and couldn't get girls you're doing something extremely wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:09 PM
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I mean I consider myself like 50% RP (the 50% that isn't RP, tbh, is just because I don't like how other RP guys talk about women and such) and I would openly admit that everyone needs to "find their own lane." Like, I went from incel --> sexually successful, and I've coached some friends, some people online, and stuff--and never, ever, do I tell them to just be exactly like me. The most important part of getting women is to find out who you are, find out how to tune that to being attractive to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:08 PM
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Anyone want some advice on something? Preferably dating-related but I'll try my hand on other shit if you got it lmao. Had a couple drinks to record some music in the AM and now I have what I need so need something to do while I'm still feeling some buzz lol. If it gives you any better idea the type of things I can give advice on Imma writer/musician/comedian, male, pretty attractive, and have studied "sexual dynamics" (or more colloquially, "the game") for years. AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:03 PM
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Are you a guy or girl? Like I am not an incel but cannot imagine how awful that would be. Well, actually, I can--because in HS I was basically an incel (by virtue of being afraid of women, not being undesirable lol). And if my whole life was HS, like honestly, I would be batshit insane by now. So honestly I empathize with incels' position. That said, I took that and improved rather than going crazy--so I do think they could learn something from that (quit fucking bitching, incels). But still--un…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:56 PM
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Yeah I totally agree. Like, you don't "need" to be happy to live. But you only live once and life is way better if you are happy. Sex is something that honestly is a substantial amount of happiness, especially when you're younger. If you expand "needs" beyond literal survival needs sex is one of the first things any rational person would include
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:53 PM
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I would rephrase that to "most of the attractive men" are muscle heads --> I don't think most men here lift, tbh. But enough women like that look that, if you aren't born attractive (most people), it's the surest way to be attractive to some people You can lift and not be super yolked. Like as of this moment exactly I am 5'10", 167 pounds, and low(ish) bodyfat. I lift 5x/week and a lot of the bodies posted when I asked "what is the ideal male appearance" looked similar to mine (basically my body…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:48 PM
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ight i'll post the first pic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:55 PM
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Lol you don't have to frame it like that. It doesn't need to be in reference to my post people could just share them I have in the deep past (not here but TrueRateMe) but i wouldn't anymore but some people dont have that hangup lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:39 PM
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Facts. Now Show Me Your Genitals, GENITALIAAAA
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:37 PM
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yooooo lmfao Where the fuck have I seen that before. Did it originally air on AdultSwim or something? Damn, glad you posted that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:25 PM
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Well yeah this is what I was referring to Anyone between like 4-6 I'm just lumping into the big average group Anyone outside of that is what I meant But yeah most people are average
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:23 PM
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why would the ugly dudes here post photos lol Idk, for fun lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:22 PM
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attractive tend to share their photos more. this sub has a skewed gender ratio Lol this could very well be why there seems to be more attractive dudes. More likely attractive people post + more men who could possibly be attractive would naturally = more attractive dudes interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:22 PM
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i'm not sure bc i don't really agree that the bar is higher or lower for men they're just two different bars lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:21 PM
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I mean if it was like a nude maybe 😂 but i dont see as much relevance to being in a ltr for just a normal pic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:19 PM
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Alright let’s let the chaos ensue Of the posters I’ve seen pics of here the men look better on average 👀 Most people here are pretty average but I’ve seen like 3x the above average men as women Inb4 (valid but) “attractive women wouldn’t post pics here bc stalkers” Thoughts????
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:33 PM
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The rest are 8s and above This is what came next, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:35 PM
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The police wouldn’t beat me up because I don’t run away and stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:50 AM
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Didnt have the balls to say this before the game smh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:49 AM
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If you don't think sex is a need you're a psycho Like honestly what the fuck reason do I have to date a girl if she's not having sex with me. And you can go all "well, ACTUALLY, here's a bunch of reasons you would have"--but like, let's be real, those are just attempts to obscure the point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:30 AM
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Lol i was kidding i get it Random but i always imagine lift_&_lurk is your ltr. Yalls names look similar and his story is like, kinda similar lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:17 AM
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There are no statistics about attractive men’s sex life lmao, at least not that I trust No it’s called I went to college and knew a ton of attractive men because I am one and am very social. There was nobody making it out of freshman year less than n = 5, who was “hot.” And I didn’t go to “a party school,” either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:39 AM
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Lol nah my boy PP got a huge PP i bet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:57 AM
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if you're not rooting for the celtics tonight you have a small pp
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:48 AM
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Most attractive men have casual sex one or twice, then decide it's not worth it ??????????? Where did you meet a single dude like this. Every single dude I know who's at least what I would call a 7, has fucked 10 girls, minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:43 AM
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It looks like the photos of dudes thread was nuked It wasn't a thread it was a post in here lol that's why it 'disappeared'
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:26 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:24 AM
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Too mumbo/jumbo and cliché tbh. Sounds cool but reminds of that comic shop owner in the Simpsons who reportedly has a very high iq but feels superior to everybody else despite being a massive loser. Reality will hit sooner or later. Eh it's not my side with the superiority complex. It's more, like, a dude with a 110 IQ that does something like Mortgage stuff and banks 100k at my age, will think that makes him the shit lol. When in reality, he's just trading his 20s for money. Even people who don…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:24 AM
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lmao the pic was called "shirtless man with hands in jean pockets."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:11 AM
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Nah I feel like you could. I know tons of stories of "I slept with him 4 years earlier, then I saw him again so we banged." Like, it's not going to be a 100% success rate, but compared to someone you haven't ever banged--way more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:29 PM
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It's alright you did better than all the lurkers who didn't post I like the name of the picture I hope that's what you searched lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:27 PM
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Lol it's easier if you know who you're looking for and then to find a pic of them where they look how you mean. Every time I try finding pictures of "hot girls" I get shown tons of girls but none really are what I'm (typically) trying to show
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:37 PM
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haha thank you m'am
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:34 PM
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You look like Francisco Lachowski? 👀 or do you just mean his body I googled him (didn't know who it was prior) and we don't look that similar if we both shaved. My jawline is my weakness so I wear a full beard at all times, tho. But when he looks like this I look a lot like him, yeah. But with longer hair and like 1 point uglier because I'm not actually a model lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:29 PM
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Sure why not I won't tell on you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:20 PM
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Good picks lol. #1 looks almost exactly like me if my abs were more visible. Fuck yeah Is #3 Asian? If so he's the rare specimen we call "the hot Asian male," I've only seen a few of these previously-thought-to-be-mythical creatures in the wild
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:18 PM
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Must agree to my first invite for a date or propose an alternative to it Must be hot enough that I won't be thinking to myself that my ex is hotter while I date her (more for me than it is about her quality) Must not be in contact with past people she fucked (gonna be tough if she shits where she eats) And a bunch of others that are more specific to me than generalizable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:13 PM
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Damn bro. Looks like we got the same type in dudes. The things I'd do to get my dick between those meaty breasts....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:10 PM
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i'm just ready for other dudes to criticize it no matter who they post lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:09 PM
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The dude's have been getting hard all over this thread for like a while now When will the ladies start spamming pics of guys who look like perfection to them? Let's see what y'all got. I want at least 5 pics of what y'all think are hot af shirtless dudes in the next 30 minutes. GO! edit: shirtless is optional but preferred
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:02 PM
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The gayest though, was giving women oral. truuuuuuuu
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:55 PM
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... She resisted arrest and tried hitting an officer. A dude would have gotten way worse than that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:53 PM
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it must be applied in your profession for people to believe that Tell this to the girls I've met lol. Highly intelligent people recognize that highly intelligent people do not need to apply it to a profession to be it. I only get spoken to like I'm intellectually inferior because of my earning power by people who... are intellectually inferior. Because a lot of people have this pretty simplistic mindset, but few who are highly, highly intelligent does. I've said it here before but my IQ score is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:46 PM
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I mean, I like more "presentable" girls because often the difference between GND and "hot girl" is just that--presentation. You could certainly doll up a GND type, give her fake tits, and turn her into a Playboy Bunny... but I don't want a playboy bunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:29 PM
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Bruh STOP. Why does every dude feel the need to speak on other dudes. I would fuck a girl of "any type." I would only LTR a girl who was my exact type. I do have a couple types, but if a girl did not fit neatly into one of them, she's just not getting LTR'd by me. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:28 PM
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To chime in, my preferred type is like GND meets tanned sorority girl lol. Call that shit "Sorority Girl Next Door." What I mean by that type, summoned into flesh edit: first pic didn't work, updated link. this pic a little less exactly what i mean but ana sophia robb still my go-to when specifying my type lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:23 PM
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Yeah, and the girl can have this if she wants it so bad. My last LTR was from a multi-millionaire family, and pretty much every girl interested in me has been wealthy. They're fine without my money. I don't want a girl who wants me for my pay-check anyways. I'm a great trophy husband who could also teach our kids lots of things and pass down superior intelligence genes, so if they want to earn money--they can. Great sex, healthy lifestyle, superior genes, fun person, still loyal = dream guy for …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:17 PM
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Lmao i tend towards being an insomniac too. So funny you mentioned that The best way to do psychedelics is: Have a trusted supplier Take them either with 'a sitter' (sober person) or someone who's done them at least a few times already (and who isn't a dumbass) For your first time just take the standard dose. Ive never gone beyond 1.5 of a dose bc I know it'd get too intense fast lol, 1.5 is my sweet spot Be irrationally positive you will have a good trip. I've never experienced a bad trip, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:12 PM
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It's kinda something that just gets me wary. I feel like way more commonly it just = not interested. Of course some are reasonable/valid but I feel those are few & far between, so I'd let her clarify without being prompted and if she doesn't... well will be another girl happy to see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:44 PM
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Nah cuz lots of people don't know this but you can get pregnant from swallowing cum. The babies are just a little smaller (this is where Asians come from). To get an Indian you have to assfuck (why they're brown)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:43 PM
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Yeah I agree I don't get the "women have low standards" bit. I mean I don't think their standards are ridiculously high but let's be real she's not dating ugly dudes if she's attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:39 PM
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Maybe it wasn’t a flake? Maybe reason was legit Idk I kinda hard-line this because... my only ex cancelled a $200 event ticket ($400 after modern inflation lmao) for our first date. If she wants to see you, she will see you--or make it abundantly clear why she couldnt, and reschedule. Games only apply when her interest is a 5/10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:36 PM
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why do women text back after flaking ? Idk a bunch of reasons. I would go w/ mainly, to subconsciously see if you can / see if they can retain you as "an option" No matter the reason just ghost them. Next. Ive been nexting girls a lot lately and idk it's def upped my game just mentally, like just spitting whatever tf i want to bc who cares ill prob never meet them and even if i do ill prob never meet them twice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:35 PM
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consume the souls of infants slang for swallowing cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:29 PM
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word word, lets get it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:28 PM
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how's it poppin' for y'all getting closer to your goals? feeling like youre irrevocably fucked? whats good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:05 PM
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r/TheRedPill woah, there's way more posts now than a couple years ago. it really went downhill at one point when they were trying to do that "make our own website bc f reddit" thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:04 PM
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normies call this "the time between relationships"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:46 PM
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some women who are not all women lmao this is my favorite phrase. i loooove women saying "other women i know do this, but me? yeah i would never--but yeah lots of women do that"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:42 PM
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Nah f a doctor I can't afford those lol I self-diagnose everything and it's usually pretty accurate Idk what they say online to do but. My mind races a ton so really I'm just harnessing that. Often I will just close my eyes while I'm trying to fall asleep and try to visualize as deeply as I can, sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't. I have a lot of success taking the "random colors" you see against the black when you close your eyes and turning them into shapes and stuff. Have tried to visual…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:38 PM
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fuck it hits deep when you find out you're a bot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:29 PM
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Eh this sounds like “there’s no possible way to figure out what generally works to attract a woman (or man)” Not really attraction is super simplistic. The only real issue here is that people overcomplicate it and then bitch about it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:05 PM
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5 meters is roughly 16 feet lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:55 PM
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lmao yeah this. it might be on the internet but it's literally a place where we acknowledge looking good, earning money, being attractive help your life. like there either has to be some attractive people OR this is just the most self-loathing, helpless place on all of the internet lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:55 PM
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Am I a bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:51 PM
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I don't live paycheck-to-paycheck I just don't spend much money because free time, and time to create > going to Paris. And hell all the time I spend creating could very well make me wealthier than the Capitalist bots grinding for that "coveted 6 figure income," without having to sell myself out like that We all die. So many people really don't truly realize this. My old self is cool with being poor if my young self can make more memories, go for bigger goals, because of that. I'll be a happier …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:50 PM
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Are you a bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:43 PM
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... And you think my LTR, who easily could have been an IG thot and signed to a modeling agency, was off of social media for what reason exactly? That shit is for business owners and vapid people who think they're more important than they actually are. I literally used to make fun of those people with that LTR, everyone who flaunts on IG breaks up with that person. It's just a fancy way to say "my LTR is nothing but a status symbol to me"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:43 PM
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Lmao this is hella the vibe i get from this dude's mindset. "Dude, if you aren't Facebook official, are you even dating????" - what people said when i was a junior in high school lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:39 PM
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Nah this is really immature thinking lol. I didn't use social media originally because I often dated multiple very attractive women and didn't want them stepping on each others' toes. If you can pull a fun life on your own you want to keep it more lowkey so you can continue it, not flaunt it so it crumbles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:37 PM
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eh my only 'real LTR' didnt have any social media at all so i prefer girls where this does not apply those who need to flex tend to be insecure. i went from pretty incel-like to dating a bonafide Stacy and gave it a solid 1 singular post before she even hit her stride as a Stacy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:34 PM
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4.5
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:32 PM
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Lol or they're just interested in things that don't necessarily correspond to high earning potential. We aren't all capitalist bots
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:31 PM
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lol i don't get why people say this. are attractive people not people too? like bro i can use the internet too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:29 PM
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... is this a bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:29 PM
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Lol, shit like this is why I hate liberalism. "If you don't agree with me, you love making people suffer." The ad-hominem style of "im right ur wrong im good ur bad" is just hardcore pandering to the lowest common denominator with a superiority complex, it's sad. For the record I hate people who identify as conservative too. I just think 98% of people's political opinions are absolute trash. Which is why politics are absolute trash, and just take advantage of everyone to prop themselves up as we…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:39 PM
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Honestly I support eugenics. And no, it isn't communism--communism gives everyone an equal share. I don't think people should get an equal share. Superior people who do more should get more, but not to the extent they do now--a billionaire is just fucked up. There is no person alive who is worth a million humans. That is God-like status
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:36 PM
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I have a lot of control over my own brain lol. But I practice it. On acid or shrooms I can control my visions. My control isn't perfected but I can start/stop visions, change to a new vision or keep the same one going, etc. I can't lucid dream every night but maybe once per month or so, sometimes I get streaks where I start lucid dreaming a lot more. Tbh I would have forgot that I did last night except for your post was relevant to it. It was a full video game-like experience, where I was like f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:34 PM
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People like to join cults. Not that I agree TRP is a cult but this is more accurate lol. The whole bit of a cult is that you 'trick' people into joining it no one really sets out to join a cult
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:27 PM
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Lol, liberalism is not even remotely about equality of opportunity. It's about equality of pandering to marginalized groups hoping they can make enough people feel like they're marginalized to win an election with 51% of the votes based on 51% of people feeling like they're in the minority of unprivileged people, the 49%. I don't want communism, liberalism, or conservatism. They all suck. I would like an algorithm to run the world, place everyone into jobs based on a formula that maximizes indiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:03 PM
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Well, what's your SMV? Lemme walk through some quick points: If your SMV is low, high SMV girls feel less threatened by a low SMV guy--the low SMV girl will think "yikes, people are going to lump me in with this"--no such concern for the high SMV girl, she's used to this High SMV people are treated nicer, thus become nicer (feedback loop) If your SMV is high, lower SMV girls feel like you think you're entitled to their pussy and they've had bad experiences with "guys like you." High SMV girls th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:55 PM
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Isn't it quite ironic the party marketing itself as "for the people, for equality" isn't supported by those who would theoretically stand to benefit from that? Makes you wonder if maybe that's not really what that party does... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:47 PM
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If you're good looking yourself then it makes sense. Despite the prominent narrative on this sub, most women are aware of their "league," and unattractive women don't trust the intentions of much more attractive men who hit on them, I will vouch for this. Though I want to add a little more nuance. I have the easiest time forming "real connections" with girls who look similarly good as me (girls who are about a 7, sometimes 8, in most cases). Women who are 5s and below pretty much exclusively fal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:18 PM
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Alright dawg have fun “not reaping shit” 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:23 PM
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Lol the irony of this rn. I just woke up from an extremely vivid dream. Some days if i can ‘tow the line’ between asleep/awake long enough i can give myself super-extended very vivid dreams w/ lots of control over what happens in them. Super dope 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:10 PM
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Why, you want me to eat your pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:18 AM
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I don't eat pussy. That's my icon
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:10 AM
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it be like that lol same here except i never respond to those hoes smh we scoutin for the real one not these thotianas
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:00 AM
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On the other hand, there is extreme risk involved with approaching women when you are unattractive. Women already see ugly men as creepy and repulsive, and even more so if he's socially awkward. If you approach a woman in your social circle you'll just get ostracized and shunned for being creepy, and if you cold approach you'll get the cops called on you for sexual harassment Have you had this happen or just speculating?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:56 PM
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It's not really RP or PUA it's just describing how a Talk Show Host speaks to be entertaining to people. And like no shit it's going to work better for someone who looks better or whatever that isn't the point. Saying you shouldn't flirt right because you're ugly is like saying you should shoot a basketball underhand because you're not as good as the NBA guys. It makes no sense at all even if you have less 'athleticism' (looks) you'd still do best by learning from the NBA dudes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:00 PM
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idk, transgender seth rogen?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:58 PM
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DJ Khaled
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:56 PM
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Seth Rogen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:55 PM
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they have small frames
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:52 PM
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Facts lol. I didn't even bring my system to college until my senior year. Best call ever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:51 PM
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ATTENTION VIRGINS, INCELS, AND OTHERWISE WEIRD FUCKS Stealing someone else's thunder because they posted it first but: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8NalcOPBXvs This video will show you in really specific terms how you flirt with women. Is it the best way of all of them? Can't say. But I do pretty well with women and honestly watching it it sounds like a bunch of shit I do, spelt out. So I can vouch that it works. You'll still get rejected sometimes like there's no magic spell that gets rid of…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:41 PM
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yo actually update this is hilarious lmao im through point 2 and these are already both things i do. maybe it would work for anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:34 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8NalcOPBXvs&ab\_channel=CharismaonCommand Nah similar to what someone else said I believe your "game" needs to be highly individualized to who you are. You kinda need to play a role. Like, I have a niche that I'm really good at, but I would never advise my friends to try to be like me to get girls. They wouldn't pull it off. Everyone needs to find their own lane--lots of girls out there, all looking for different shit. Figure out what kind of girl you want, and wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:31 PM
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People extremely underestimate how much dating character is built during college. No sir not me hahaha. I literally didn't talk to women until college and then I talked to every girl in sight for 4 years and it'll never be the same again lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:28 PM
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It's really gonna depend on the frat and when you're there. The frat I was in, if it was a party, people would have been an asshole to you (unless you were a known face via being friends with a brother). If it wasn't a party, well you'd definitely have to be a friend of a brother but we would have been pretty chill to you too. Individually in a class or shit we'd have been nice too. Normal dudes, just in a frat lol--can be pretty intensely cliquey tho hence the "gtfo" mentality of brothers at pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:26 PM
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Lol I was in a frat. Some of the frat dudes need to stop smoking weed and drinking beer playing Fortnite with the boys and go talk to a female too. I mean I graduated a couple years ago so maybe they've moved onto some other shit game but damn f that crowd lmao. Honestly tho I think young men just need to loosen up. My frat wasnt top tier but was kinda close and still too many dudes just couldnt talk to a girl unless hammered and she already wanted to fuck him lmao. dudes were bewildered when a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:21 PM
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awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:06 PM
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The joke he's making is that it says "women are suppose" as in "women are supposed to (fill in the blank)" aka feminism says forcing women to do things is oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:04 PM
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Lol I am a pretty non-judgmental person irl and very laidback which for some reason makes people comfy enough with me to where they think they should tell me illegal shit they've done, and immoral shit too. I have like a dark sense of humor on top of being like that so I can see what they're seeing but damn lol. Not like "really bad crimes" all victimless type deals but still Ion need to know that bruh I'm keeping it clean lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:00 PM
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Argue with them--yes it's pointless, once you reach the 'argument' phase it's clear they rejected your idea and you're not convincing them Tell them and see how they respond--nah this can work. I feel like guys would be surprised what women would agree with if you did tell them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:11 PM
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you do the math. 6 + 2 = 8
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:10 PM
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lmao if you're insinuating i 'go a little overboard with it' youre right. its something im a lot more conscious of now but in the past i did it hella. not even intentionally it just made sense to do it that way--lowkey i think a lot of people do it without realizing tho, also. like, anyone who says things like "i am dumb," "i am a hippy," etc--is kinda doing it, bc youre just stringing together a few experiences and slapping a defining label to it. i mean i do kinda think its what attracts peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:09 PM
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lol, this is not how real life works. when you start imposing thoughts into other people's heads, you already missed the mark
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:05 PM
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Eh imo it depends on the girl. Generally the lower her n-count is the more likely it's Optimistic Take & higher n-count the more likely it's Pessimistic Take, bc it rly doesnt take a long time to realize Optimistic Take--a couple experiences by time ur 20 should be all you need lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:23 PM
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idk i wouldn't date a girl if the sex life wasn't top-tier so. that would by default mean every relationship ill ever be in is doomed and such but thats just not true. it isnt even remotely unreasonable for that to be a top concern. to me it's a bigger concern if that isnt the case, like: everyone needs to get laid. if youre supposedly committing yourself to do that with one person, you need one person whos going to take care of that. try to lock me in a deadbedroom and whoever my LTR is will wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:21 PM
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I’m 19 lol i feel for you. i am 24 and generally date 19-24... 19 year olds are really, really tough to talk to. and so dense. just yesterday one snapped me something that clearly applied to 'us' but framed it like it went out to 100 people so she felt better about sending it lmfao. so immature its cuz i asked her out and she didnt respond to it and just sent me a pic of herself so i ghosted her cuz f that. so she sent me paragraphs of "omg everyone im so sorry i havent been responding to things…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:15 PM
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Lol this kinda checks out. Dudes inflate n-count for p much this reason. Hell my n-count is mostly what it is for said reason. Most of the girls I've banged I could care less if i did or not now i just liked my LTR lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:12 PM
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Yes. If sex is the only thing keeping you with a person, that's a fuckbuddy. Stop pretending you and your fuck buddy have a relationship. Idk I feel like "the only thing" always tries to shame it from being "an extremely important thing," which is different. I've been in one LTR only, and sex was a huuuuge part of it. But we also traveled a lot, talked a ton, knew everything about each other, had tons of inside jokes, etc. But any time I said to anyone anything to the tune of 'damn shes hot' or …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:11 PM
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Optimistic Take: they realized there's a difference between wanting to have sex with someone and liking them, for men Pessimistic Take: they tried locking men down with their pussy, it didn't really work bc they suck, so now they're trying to portray themselves in a new light to get relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:08 PM
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That's still rather hard to count tbh. Yeah i wasn't rly looking for exact #s, was just curious of ballparks lol. I dont think its humanly possible to count this as its pretty ambiguous and something ppl dont have a great memory for
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:57 PM
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Yeah I had less-in-mind the "hey whats up" kinda things. Since, in the event you were going to fuck, youre still a ways off that and between that moment and the one you actually fuck a lot could go wrong. Like, obviously in practice, a significant # of those would 'convert' but still i had more in mind "a layup" not a 3-pointer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:56 PM
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uhhh, that doesn't rly fit what i had in mind. for one: in my mind it needs to "have been possible." theres no way every dude would have waited for her to give her # to all of them, theres no way every dude would have been interested after seeing her try to fuck sm of them, and she would still have to talk to these guys to 'cement' the interest i'm trying to put it in terms of... very clear path. like heavy sexual innuendos from someone youre actually talking to, followed by some kind of invite …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:54 PM
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yeah same thing with like high-level acting, where people start to really take on their roles. i mean, ive acted a little too, and i'm best at it when i can genuinely delude myself into losing myself and "embodying" the role in my thoughts and whatnot too. those micro-expression differences come across on camera. Idk ive kinda built up a whole little world in my head with a story, was very intoxicating to my LTR when i had one lol. it's like, really fleshed out. so i always had an answer/explana…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:43 PM
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Nightclub dancing - most likely, but not all of them Every guy I kissed - probably, unless theyre like religious or something Followed me and asked for a blowjob - well yes, he might be gross but I included gross people in my would-be count too lol there has to be a reason you didnt fuck them so that factors in there. gross people are still people male teacher - i dont think so because he's unlikely to have actually done it, even if he "wanted to." work colleague - sounds like yes but you would …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:36 PM
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Never went home with a guy from a bar but probably could have dozens of times. FTFY lol. Not that the sex would have been anything to aspire to but... yeah lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:33 PM
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But regardless I’m more or less like the black version of a himbo i'm basically the sneakily intelligent version of a himbo lmao i'm pretty smart but my personality is like just jokes and shit i dont take life too srs like some smart ppl do, ive always thought how sad it is that me being light-hearted and fun makes people think i'm stupid. honestly the smartest move in the world is to enjoy life, smh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:31 PM
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oh if 'mouth stuff counts' im up to like 35. i just dont like counting mouth stuff bc it's like IME: any girl who banged me was willing to smd. but not every girl who blew me was willing to fuck me. so it feels like cheating to add that, bc it was literally a PIV rejection lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:29 PM
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yeah it's kinda weird to count as a girl lol. since its way more of men's expectations than girls'. it does kinda say what situations you put yourself in tho, a girl who frequently uses tinder or went to bars, if she was being honest, i feel like could only answer "way too high to count"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:27 PM
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N=57. My 2nd ex-wife wanted to know but I didn't have a ready answer. I carried around a legal pad for about a week adding names (or sometimes just physical descriptions) to the list. I may have missed one or two really unmemorable women. lol relatable and my n-count is lower. i feel like every time i try to count it out i get a different #. i hardly remember any names cuz most of my n-count was fairly anonymous / happened very fast. mentally i recall them as like "big tits asian" "less hot vers…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:25 PM
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idk depending on perspective the ones who asked you out could count if youre female. like imagine you went on that date and said "lets go home and bang," id imagine theyd say yes given that men generally want to get laid. but you wouldnt necessarily 'know that,' bc maybe theyre religious or sum
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:21 PM
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misleading flair im sure u can find another guy who wants to check out ur body tho u sound quite pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:18 PM
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Going with the PPD “what counts” I’d say lol wdym, like just PIV? thats kinda what i mean by n-count but it can get kinda weird when a girl uses it that way and is like "yo imma virgin" "but ive blown 7 dudes" bish u as much of a virgin as a male virgin who went to prison
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:13 PM
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he should just go back to monogamy with jada and leave margot for the rest of us margot if youre reading this hit my DM i wont cheat on you with a bald lady
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:12 PM
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haha so i write a lot, and a cool thing i use it to do (which sometimes i get a lil carried away with) is narrative-build my own life lol. i connect dots and tell it like a pretty compelling story, and i have a habit of doing that with people who spend a lot of time around me too. sometimes it goes better than others lol, its kind of a pretty powerful thing to where i realized to be more careful, people close to me have sometimes bought into my narratives of the world / our lives in it too much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:10 PM
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js but someone downvoted this who i assume is a writer, but i am too lol. leave me alone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:07 PM
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real n-count: 25(ish, idk) would-be n-count: 70-80? total guesstimate. i turned down the first like 10-20 girls who tried to fuck me. this year ive turned down roughly 9 of 12 chances. i don't rly remember the in-between years as much but during those years i "capitalized on a lot more of my opportunities" lowkey i feel like real n-count vs potential n-count, if i was a girl, would be a good way to measure if a dude is gonna cheat on me. my count is 'high' but idk i feel like most dudes, if me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:06 PM
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random PPD poll of the day What's your n-count What would your n-count be if you had sex with every person who showed some sort of explicit indicator they would have sex with you (i.e., wanting to go home with you, texting 'lets fuck,' coming onto you but you backing out, anything where you had a clear path to get laid) let's call it the are-you-a-slut index
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:00 PM
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something smart about this kinda stuff i once heard people who write these things have to really struggle to get there, and being the kinda person who can make up believable fake stories usually lends itself to crazy. so imagine who the people writing these things are. then you have your answer of why everything is so often so dramatic & lots of things 'normal people' would be alarmed by are just accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:56 PM
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Lol this reminds me of something funny from my childhood. I had twin girls in my class in 1st, 2nd, and 3rd grade (the same two i just always ended up in their class). i was kinda friends with them so when i told my family about school id refer to them as "the pretty one" and "the ugly one." they were literally identical twins but they carried themselves differently, was the only difference lmao. everyone else couldnt even tell them apart and here i was not only doing that but deciding one looke…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:47 PM
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nah lol near boston i've lived all over the country and nowhere is there a higher % of sports fans and people wearing sports jerseys and shit than here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:43 PM
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tf jada is the cuck not will if true margot >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> (me not being able to put enough symbols to accurately quantify this) >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> jada
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:41 PM
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my aunt got to 8 lol oh and she's like 50 rn so still time for more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:39 PM
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if you're a girl i'm down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:38 PM
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If they pieced together lots of info to find them on LinkedIn or something this why i lowkey fudge my details a tad so if someone did find me and tried to compare against what i say "theyd be like nahhh, cant be him. he said he's a pirate, but this guy is a viking" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:37 PM
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they think “exposing them” does something about it. why dont they just expose themselves wink wink
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:34 PM
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his dick is huge tho wtf is this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:29 PM
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you think will smith interrupted the guys banging his wife when they started screaming her name?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:28 PM
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Lol where I live like 50% of the girls are into sports
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:27 PM
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slide in their DMs theyre probably Beckys you can be their Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:25 PM
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Take them to a dinner with your parents and tell them you are only dating with marriage in mind so it is important you all get off on the right foot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:24 PM
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Nah we got those matching PFPs how could i forget my brother from another mother
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:02 PM
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Well “hes either hot or not” is a real simplification. Theres def reasoning behind that Like yeah its a difficult puzzle to piece together but its still more attainable to understand than just ‘a mystery.’ Theres many different ‘attractive traits.’ Generally the more you stack the better you look, tho yeah, therell be outliers who dont make a ton of sense to be attractive piece-by-piece
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:53 PM
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Oh damn thats sexy & nah i just dont be reading names like that 😭 only recently have i rly started recognizing a decent amount of ppl cross-posts 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:50 PM
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will u call me pretty also random but id been reading your name as "jackson" since like the first time i saw u post. only noticed it fully spells out "jacked soon" yday lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:12 PM
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faceless nude pics. Lmaoo now here's an idea. If i went this route honestly nobody is recognizing me cuz no one i know even rly knows how my body looks anymore lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:10 PM
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Yea but fi you're at the point where you're meeting random strangers off Reddit I don't think you care too much about privacy anyways lmao. Lmao ironically she was a virgin, not like a girl just doing that all the time. Was part of what made it so funny & Lol if someone tried to "Chadfish" as me that would be hilarious. It's like both a compliment but also creepy af bc theyd prob do weird shit and then a bunch of ppl would think i was doing weird shit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:08 PM
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It's because he lifted tbh lol He also might be bald but he's reasonably well groomed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:04 PM
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Bruh the yuk dude is short and gets girls. Dude literally posted pics and everything. It can happen 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:54 AM
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lmao right this is what burners are made for more than anything im just thinking, what if someone who knows me sees it lmao reminds me of a time in college that a girl i know posted on some anonymous blowjob subreddit. girls make a post, a bunch of guys respond, and u meet up and give one of them a blowjob then write ur experience. my LTR told me she did it, so it took me all of 3 minutes to search and find like 10 paragraphs of this random chick i know describing "his delightful, deliciously bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:48 AM
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lol i wasn't tryna change your stance if i was on national news related to incels tho id want it to be "MrMushySauce, not an incel" --> if youre seeing this Tucker Carlson, i would like a spot on Fox at 7PM tm. thank u
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:43 AM
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lmao theyre capping. i'm bigger than like 90% of dudes by irl realistic standards and youre bigger than me by like a decent margin tho ig idk your actual height/weight bc muscles do look better quicker the shorter you are & i'm 5'10" which isnt tall but you call yourself "short"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:40 AM
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nah i feel you its 50% a joke but also i'm just hella bipolar lmao im the kinda dude who fucks a hot chick and is like yo holy shit im the man omg holy fuck then the next day a diff chick leaves me on read and im like omg no i must be ugly or awkward or dumb lmaooo when i post i stick to 'the facts' but thats how my actual brain works
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:37 AM
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so what you're saying is post a picture of a girl, pretend its me, then send a dick pic to any incel that tries to f w me over it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:32 AM
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damnnn weak swerve. what if the school shooter here is actually a girl, we're about overdue for a female school shooter right? gender equality and whatnot. her backstory can be that shes listened to incels too much and now also hates chad, so she targets good-looking young boys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:31 AM
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u need a cameraman? we can set up a lil shoot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:27 AM
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who do u think the shooter is. pls tag them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:26 AM
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lmao yeah i found u in all of 15 seconds dw i wont send you threats lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:26 AM
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lmao i personally would def get small-shamed by RPers. Dude who posted got way more bulging muscles than i do and people even gave him shit lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:25 AM
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6? she looks like a generic girl to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:11 AM
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He got it used ... Very used
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:07 AM
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Single women in their late twenties/early thirties are drying eggs ​ I like/don't like single women in their late twenties/early thirties because I would have to call them mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:01 AM
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honestly mad props to anyone who posts themselves lmao i would be mad intimidated and just be waiting for all the comments like "yo massive LARP u hella ugly compared to what u say" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:57 AM
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damn and where's ur pics smh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:50 AM
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they take all the good subs away :/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:46 AM
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Eh the mentality is definitely relevant Inspired by Game 3 but do you think Steph Curry would be as good of a shooter if he thought he was gonna miss every time before he let the ball go
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:46 AM
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