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He being a PUA is indifferent to your needs. He is a bad person. Has no abundance mentality and blame you for not being in a happy relationship with you and trying to hurt you with mean comment. Or maybe if he was he wouldn't be happy anyway. He needs to sort his life. And you should just go no contact with him.
/r/seduction30/09/22 03:34 PM
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It's not about being rational. A difficult conversation will involve feelings, even if you think it's 100% able to deal with it in a rational way. You do something. She get mad. You shut the conversation with "I'll not do it again". And you don't learn anything about her being mad. Instead you can say to her: "Wow. I see someone is really mad about it, can you tell me more about it?" Both can talk about it and understand each other better. At the end of the conversation you can tell her that you…
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:35 PM
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It's a problem of Intention vs Impact. You know what was the impact of her actions, but don't know what was her real intentions. You could have handled the situation for her if you wanted, instead of letting her in the awkward position of saying "No" and not being heard. You can, excuse yourself and say: "But I did say something to my friends and they didn't listen" or accept your responsability on the occurrence. Your friends didn't listen to you, nor to her. Both has responsabilities on the si…
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:37 PM
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Wew, holding hands at the first date? That's how you make a baby. Seriously, do whatever you wanna do. It's not bad, nor good. Some girls will like it, other girls will not like it. Some girls will even do the routine of "Look how small my hands is compared to yours" or any other excuse to hold your hand. At the end of the day the best thing is being authentic to yourself and do whatever you like. Instead of living your life with other person rules.
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:16 PM
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Is it impressive to you? Constantly bragging about the same subject make people think that you're insecure. And if you're asking about if it's impressive to receive nudes in the DM? It's also a no. Anyone can pretend to be a girl and send you a random girl nude.
/r/seduction20/12/21 12:14 PM
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The real question is: Do you want to keep this arrangement with him? He may or may not want to turn this FWB into a relationship - people will often accept casual relationship to try to turn into a LTR. You should set a boundary in the lines of: "I don't care if you are hooking up with someone else. I just don't want to disclose about my sexual life with others nor listen about yours cause I don't think any of that information is valuable. If you don't understand that I don't think we should kee…
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:50 AM
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What do you want? If you wanna talk to her, go talk to her. I only advise you to no clingy to the expectations about her coming back to you - if you have any expectations. Talking to her wont hurt you, unless you really need that no contact time.
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:10 PM
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It's hard to believe what you say, because it works totally different for me People do grief differently and it's certainly hard to see other person POV when we have our own POV. And I certainly see how hard it's for you and you will probably need your time to process it. Love is a difficult word, it has multiple meanings and most of us only accept the monogamic romantic love and will decline that someone can love and care about without having romantic and sexual interest. But I do believe if sh…
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:47 PM
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Cause she want closure and she is still griefing. She is human and has her flaws. The statement that she is physically suffering and she is going out with someone else - don't invalidate each other. You might be suffering because of it and thinking she is a hypocrite, but a lot of people can't be happy when they are alone and they end in a rebound relationship - they will feel happy for a little while and often will remember their old relationship and feel like shit. You're the one who commented…
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:29 AM
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I'm not a parent, but I'll tell you about the 4 types of parenting: Authoritative Parenting - they care about discipline and the child feelings and opinion. This is the style that will often end with the best results for your child. Authoritarian Parenting - they care only about discipline, they will not listen to the child needs. Child will start lying to you because of trust issues. Permissive Parenting - they care about the child but lacks the way of disciplining them. Uninvolved Parenting - …
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/21 12:47 PM
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maybe a dude isn't working at the time, but he could get a 6 figure salary if he interviewed for a few companies.... Or he may not get the job at all and they live a relationship fighting about money. Potential isn't a guarantee of what will happen in the future, unless the owner of the company is your father and will guarantee you a job, it's only potential. It is better to date a hot guy, than a fat guy and expect him to turn into a hot guy and get frustrated when they don't turn into a hot gu…
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:56 AM
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People date for a lot of reasons. It's is too plain to think they are dating cause she is expecting the guy to drop his weight. She might be wanting him to be lean and at some point in the future she will get frustrated cause the guy isn't losing weight and at this point the relationship will decline to the end. Lots of fat guys had to learn how to be charismatic to get women attention. While hot guys, in general, just have to be hot to get some shallow sexual interest but they may never turn an…
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:10 AM
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If you're focusing only in a physical aspect of the potential, you may be right. You need to be hot if you want a girl to be horny for you. But in general women's date with potential everywhere and they have shit relationship waiting for the guy to change.
/r/seduction23/09/21 10:46 AM
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You're not ugly, but by your arms you look skinny which it can be a thing that make women not want to aproach you. Or it could be a problem about personality. When we are talking about sexual seduction look matter a lot more than if we are talking about relationship seduction.
/r/seduction03/09/21 03:31 AM
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You're acting jealous and that's is very unnatractive. She went in a vacation with a (girl?) friend and her new friend must be flirting with her? What if he is flirting with her other friend? What if he is gay? If she was planning to sleep with him, she would probably not tell you about him. Unless she is a shit person. should I just let it go , and when she eventually text just don’t respond ? Or what should I do ? And if I respond how should I respond ? Tell her that this shit is not cool ? Le…
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:54 AM
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Feeling disrespected and being disrespected are two different things. It's completely fine to tell explain why some behavior or statement affected you in some way. I know, I've told the same in another comment when this thread had only 8 replies. But to just shut down a conversation about it without acknowledging and trying to understand the other person's perspective is fucking terrible. People in defensive try to shut down others instead of listening to their perspectives. And the post you ori…
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:45 PM
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I have to say you cut off something that gives a big context to this phrase: "If she is in defensive." Have you ever had a healthy dialogue with someone in a defensive state? They aren't there to listen to you, but they are trying to make excuses and not taking responsability for their behavior - which are thing that childs do. The best thing to do with people in defensive is leaving the situation cause it will not end. You say: "I felt disrespected because of X". People in defensive says: "Yeah…
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:10 PM
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This is not the same situation, but nice try. They are in their core. Disrepect and Violence are two different things. But talking about what happened after what occured is the same situation the only thing that changed is the reason you guys are talking. I think the point on the first you quoted is: "If she get defensive" and nobody likes people who lives in the defensive because they are not listening and are just looking for a way to get out without taking responsability of their behavior. An…
/r/seduction31/07/21 05:44 PM
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Let me put it in your perspective: A guy you went in a date, punch you in the face. You get mad. Would that be an "Acceptable Behavior"? Is there any room to discuss what happened? Or for excuses and blame. Like: "You made me anger so I hit you in the face." The way you feel about a certain situation has no room for discussion. The problem of the argument of "Acceptable Behavior" start when it's used to control how the other person behaves or dress.
/r/seduction31/07/21 03:50 PM
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The first thing to do is reflect if she was really disrespectful or you're just feeling disrespected. A girl can call you an asshole as an insult or as flirting. She can do it while flirting and you feel disrespected because your abusive parents called you an asshole all the time, and it's understandable that you feel mad but at the same time she isn't responsible to know everything about your life if you guys haven't already discussed it. And I'll have to agree with everybody, tell her in a cal…
/r/seduction30/07/21 11:38 PM
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A relationship need 2 people wanting the same thing and she already told you she isn't interested in you in the same way. There is nothing to do, unless you wanna play games and try your luck. The best way to get in a relationship is working on yourself. I've read your post story and you have lots of problem with others, like no knowing how to talk to your brother - and it's not so simple because he has selective mutism and would have to be in therapy - or going no contact with your parents. I c…
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:34 PM
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I can’t seem to find what I am doing wrong. You don't need to do anything wrong to be rejected, you are not capable of controlling the other person behavior. You could be the most perfect person in the world and if the other does not want to be in a relationship you gonna get rejected or at most accept to be in a fwb that you will expect to turn into a relationship in a near future but that plan will probably fail because the other person is thinking about hooking up with a lot of girls. Are you…
/r/seduction19/07/21 05:28 AM
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If you can't stand stupid games why you're not telling the boys direct thar you're not interested to the guys that are interested in you? Maybe you're just interested in those unavaible guys cause yourself like the chase. And maybe, those guys want to live the full college experience of hooking up with as many girls possible instead of getting in a relationship. Or it could be any other possible reason. I wouldn't mind a girl telling me she wants to know me better. But it would be a huge red fla…
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:36 AM
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According to this books: It's a Piece Cheese Also there are recipes that use used panties to make someone fall in love with you.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:50 PM
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And everything you say is just suppositions about OP. Did he say he is ugly? No, he said he didn't feel ugly. And that at the past women flirted with him. OP problem is to afraid to show he wants sex. OP even say that when he see a girl with warm and receptive body language he isn't able to aproach because he is too ashamed to be sexual.
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:43 PM
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I've been in that situation and when I was angry I thought about being mean and nasty to her. But at the end I was like: "No, she will not buy me with her body. And it will not solve the jealous problem we have in your relationship because she project her ex's cheating into me." And I choose to end the relationship that day. If you're only thinking about what you have to gain about that situations you're not ready to be in a relationship.
/r/seduction04/07/21 07:04 PM
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It's not creepy to have sexual desire, unless you live with a very religious family that probably taught you it's wrong. What is considered creepy is something that make others unconfortable or make they feel in danger. Telling a girl: "I want to go on a date with you" is fine. It would be really creepy if you insisted on: "Come on let's go on a date" or "Why not?" trying to push her boundaries, because you can't take a no. Talking with stranger woman is the same as talking with stranger man. If…
/r/seduction24/06/21 09:29 PM
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Can you quote where did he say women don't want to date him? Because he even answered my first comment he: "Don't even know how to talk to stranger women." So how exactly someone can be rejected by women if they aren't even talking to women? So he isn't doing anything to interact with those women he only exchange eye contact, because he is too scared to be seen as a creepy or too sexual. Taking the inaction path is doing something, it will just not help him with his objective.
/r/seduction24/06/21 09:21 PM
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The problem is you're not doing anything. Use the 3 seconds rules. You see a girl, go talk to her in the next 3 seconds, because otherwise you gonna find 1 millions reasons to not talk to her. Also you probably need therapy to discover why you feel so creepy for wanting to be sexual with a girl. A lot of girls want to be sexual with guys, they are just humans with flaws.
/r/seduction24/06/21 05:13 AM
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The most important thing you have to know is you can't change anyone so your relationship may already be doomed and you will need to break up. You need to learn how to set boundaries and talk without criticizing her - Nonviolent Communication book will help with the latter. Don't feel bad about her freaking out that's her problem, it's only turn to be your problem if you feel attacked: "If you keep shouting/blaming me I'll go home and we can talk later when you're calmer". Also, try your best to…
/r/seduction17/06/21 03:22 PM
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You answered yourself when you said nobody else showed to the party. The girls certainly wanted attention, to socialize or even something else.
/r/seduction07/06/21 12:57 AM
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Ask her to see the manager. You can choose to disengage or continue talking to her in a friendly way - if you're in the right setup. The wrong response is certainly getting mad with her and calling her names because you're frustrated for being rejected.
/r/seduction30/05/21 05:11 AM
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No, you shouldn't double text saying you're sorry for hurting her feeling. Healthy people know shit happens in life and dates can be cancelled. You should have only added: "Can we meet next week?" or anything in those lines to make show you're still interested. Maybe she is thinking you're rejecting her because you weren't clear enough.
/r/seduction25/05/21 09:03 PM
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Can you ? This always looks like coping to me. I don't think I've met a happy guy who has been single for an extended period of time without being with a woman. Like I said: "You don't need women in abundance in your life to have an abundance mindset". You don't need to cheat on your girlfriend or wife to know you have other options. You can also choose to be alone and know that when you get back to the dating scenario you will have options. You can also choose to have only one fwb. It's certain…
/r/seduction17/05/21 03:39 PM
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Abundance is the result of having real life options. This creates a feeling of abundance. Sure, it's that's why a lot of women naturally have the abundance mindset because they are hit on by many guys. While most man have to work really hard on their social skills to get attention. ​ It's not just bullshitting yourself into thinking you have woo woo abundance. You don't need women in abundance in your life to have an "Abundance Mindset". It certainly helps, but not necessary. "Scarcity Mindset" …
/r/seduction17/05/21 01:40 PM
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The contrary of a "Nice Guy" isn't an "Asshole". Also there is a difference about a "Nice Guy" and a "Kind Guy". A Nice Guy normally does thing with intentions: "I'll do that and she will reward me with sex". Or fear: "She asked me to buy a piece of cake. I'm not so sure what flavor she wants so I'll buy 5 flavors just to be sure she likes it" or "I can't set boundaries cause she might get sad/mad at me". Being nice normally don't come from authentic intentions.
/r/seduction13/05/21 12:24 PM
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Except that you can't generalize human behavior at all. There is this book, it's even recommended at this sub, called No More Mr Nice Guy. Talk about guys that rationalize they will get something for doing some favor to woman and they get a lot frustrated if the girls don't follow their thinking and those guys act on their feelings. A lot of girls suffer from emotional outburst from guys if they reject them.
/r/seduction11/05/21 01:59 PM
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Be authentic. Sometimes trying to impress the other person will backfire. It's bad if you're answering everything with only one word.
/r/seduction10/05/21 06:38 PM
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You don't need to accept what other people do - cause you can't control them -, you have to accept yourself.
/r/seduction09/05/21 06:19 PM
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That she didn't reject you and she is probably playing safe to not be called an slut. She is probably not sure if you're worth her time.
/r/seduction06/05/21 09:22 PM
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There is no need to criticize anybody - unless you work in the industries. Instead of it create boundaries and be assertive. "I'll go to X house if you keep yelling with me. We will talk later." Instead of: "You're a piece of shit for yelling at me."
/r/seduction05/05/21 03:45 PM
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Whatever suits you. What people do in SB apps: Meet someone for coffee/drinks. The man will bring something to spoil her (Money, Jewelry). And well, if both like each other in the date and like the arrangements they will stay in contact. An FWB starts with: Being friends that have sex. So you guys will do friendship things like hiking or wathever both like to do. It's not an sexual arrangement only. Asking a stranger to be a FWB or SB just show you lack social awareness. It may work, but will no…
/r/seduction04/05/21 02:11 AM
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The apps are the easy way. 99% of girls would be unhappy to be called hookers. Unless you're in a sugar daddy or sugar baby convention. The subtle way would be giving them expensive shit without expecting anything in return.
/r/seduction03/05/21 11:59 PM
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SeekingArrangements.
/r/seduction03/05/21 11:54 PM
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There are apps to find Sugar Babies.
/r/seduction03/05/21 11:24 PM
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It happens and it's a way of manipulation - if it's frequently used. Sex shouldn't be a reward for you and both should be enjoying it.
/r/seduction03/05/21 05:14 PM
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Example of boundary in your situation: I prefer to talk to you in person. You're lot more communicative and I don't feel like I'm carrying the conversation. Other example: Someone call an Uber. Passenger: Go fast, I'm late. Driver: That's not my problem. You should have called an Uber earlier. If the Driver had no boundaries he would break the speed limit and maybe get involved in an accident.
/r/seduction30/04/21 01:04 PM
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I'm not going to use toxic manipulation to guilt trip a person into changing who they are. Then read about setting boundaries. Setting a boundary is about communicating a need without forcing someone to change. You don't want to "guilt trip" someone, but you think ghosting is alright.
/r/seduction30/04/21 12:49 PM
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Some people just suck at texting and are better talkers in real life.
/r/seduction30/04/21 11:53 AM
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That's the thing here. She wouldn't be ok with me smacking her ass if she wasn't down to fuck right? Wrong. A lot of girls are fine to let guys touch boobs, pussy or even give handjobs and blowjobs. And not let you fuck her.
/r/seduction30/04/21 03:56 AM
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Do yourself a favor and accept mixed signals as a: NO! She probably had a BF all the time and was liking the attention you gave her but you made the cheating too real when you said you liked her and she adimitted it - distancing herself to no feel guilty. She is probably thinking something in the line: "He is the one advancing on me so I'm not cheating my BF and I'm not doing anything wrong." She probably still like the attention. Maybe her relationship is shit, but she is scared to end it and e…
/r/seduction30/04/21 03:37 AM
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You got labelled as Creepy with the IG girl because you fucked up, teasing then about something she likes and probably see it as part of their personality. You never tell a ballet dancer she is clumsy, even if you're joking/teasing. They will take that personally.
/r/seduction29/04/21 03:10 PM
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Create boundaries with her. I.e: (By snap you mean snap chat?) You could answer her email that you didn't answered her back because you were busy. Or about the work chit-chat: I don't like to chit-chat while I'm busy working. You're lying (at least to yourself) to protect someone else feeling, thinking that it would destroy her feelings, but at the same time rejecting her could help her grow up. I also don't see why her actions are necessarily romantic - I mean the information you gave is to sha…
/r/seduction29/04/21 05:18 AM
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I think the most important point in that set up, since IG isn't a social media focused in hook up or romantic relationship, is how to get to the point you can tell her that without being creepy. If you're in a dating app you can just straight tell her that you're looking for something casual or put that in your profile. They will probably reject you if you're not interesting enough, autenthic enough or looking to thirsty.
/r/seduction27/04/21 04:34 PM
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The other day a guy said he lost his virginity because of this sub help. really if you take an advice from here then there is something wrong. No shit, Sherlock! The thing that's wrong with most guys that come here is, they weren't socialized as a child. Probably a lot of them don't have friends or if they have they can't make new ones. A lot of them would benefit from therapy instead of reddit posts. But some probably doesn't have the means to afford it. I could agree if you said there was a lo…
/r/seduction19/04/21 12:10 PM
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That's normal. We are like that when we experience familiarity with a certain situation. And it doesn't really need to be related to sex. Or that could be related to some kind of trauma and you are rejecting intimacy with someone. Relationships take some work.
/r/seduction18/04/21 12:52 PM
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It's not rude, but he can find it creepy. It's a gym, not a party full of alcohol. I've had a girl telling me that she masturbated thinking about me, before we did anything. And that shit creeped me out, I'd probably act differently if we have had sex. I'd say the best bet is to say you find him attractive and ask him to go out for a drink. Then you guys have a chance to know each other better, you can say you're looking for something casual (or even that you want to hook up with him at the bar)…
/r/seduction16/04/21 01:14 PM
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Who agrees with a thing they don't know how gonna happens? Are you a people pleaser? Outcome dependent? The right answer would be: We can be exclusive if the sex is good. And let her decide if she wants it. Because if you accept and bail afterwards, you would be lying.
/r/seduction14/04/21 02:31 PM
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There is a saying that say: "Don't shit where you eat" and well that's one of the reasons you shouldn't. Is she paying? Cause if she is there is no reason to next her, you just should start treating her like a client without any intententions. If she isn't paying or you're giving her discount, she is probably just using you.
/r/seduction13/04/21 01:40 PM
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If you're expecting sex on the trip, don't ask a girl you never fucked before to go with you. Or at least I wouldn't offer to pay for her expenses. What do you want? She could be going in the trip for fun because you didn't sexualize the conversation enough or she knows what is happening and has intentions to cheat on her boyfriend - maybe their relationship isn't working or they are in an open relationship. Or maybe she has a lot of pictures with her brother. Who knows? Ask her if she has a boy…
/r/seduction13/04/21 04:14 AM
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Nope, she is just telling you she gonna sleep. A shit test in this scenario would be: You: I gonna sleep. Her: If you loved me you would not leave me alone. Yet, I don't believe in the concept of shit testing.
/r/seduction11/04/21 02:07 PM
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Nope. I don't really believe in shit tests, because it's mostly just shit communication or she is stabilishing boundaries. But there is other kind of test called: Confort Tests - and those are about her. "Do you think about me?" "Am I pretty?" "Do you love me?" Humans need validation.
/r/seduction10/04/21 11:12 PM
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Just some bullshit concept that some PUA created in early days, that women will test your behavior. "I have a boyfriend" is the most used example. She could have a boyfriend, she could just not want to be bothered right now by a strange, she could be testing you, and there could be a lot more reasons for then to do it. Lots of girls will give fake numbers because, they probably had trouble with someone they refused to give. Probably most of the shit tests we heard are just lack of boundaries and…
/r/seduction10/04/21 08:58 PM
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Because people are fucked up, selfish and get desesperate when they are losing something that make then feel good. Most have no healthy relationship models in life. Why would she give you sex if you already giving he the attention she needed? Sex was used in a way to manipulate you into staying in the relationship.
/r/seduction08/04/21 08:20 PM
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You're the one that isn't setting the boundaries. You don't like constant text or it's disturbing you, you don't really need to instantly text back. You also don't need to accept attitude or drama. It's okay to listen to it sometime but, if she is constantly with the same drama situation and not working on fixing it it's a problem. What do you mean by emotions?
/r/seduction07/04/21 09:15 PM
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Just use the oldest trick in the book: "Do you have some candy in your pants or are you happy to see me?" Maybe you missed something or maybe she was trying to get free weed. And that doesn't matter because is in the past. There is still a chance that she would bang you. Have your shot and then move on if necessary.
/r/seduction07/04/21 03:42 AM
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So I guess my questions are... how can you show a girl you’re extremely interested in her but don’t need her in your life? Join her OnlyFans. You will pay her and that will show you're interested and at the same time she will not really be in your life. Ok. Joke asides, have a life outside the relationship. Work, hobbies, friends. If you're cancelling compromises to go out with her it's bad - for a man or woman. Have boundaries. Do girls ever respond well to the extreme “I’ll never be happy with…
/r/seduction07/04/21 03:09 AM
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Why both are toxic? What if they had a helathy relationship for until that episode? The dude might be on drugs. Is it toxic to convince someone to not shoot you while you try to escape them and probably never see them again? Relationships aren't black and white to consider a behavior toxic or not. Calling a strange fat is toxic. But not necessarily in a relationship if both agreed that it isn't bad. Violence is toxic in most context. But it's toxic if it's self-defense? Some people see boundarie…
/r/seduction06/04/21 05:31 PM
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Your best bet is to ask her to go out in a date. And she will say: Yes or No. Simple as that. It's been 5 months that you know her, so she already know if she want you as a friend or a boyfriend. The fact that she is hiding about other guys from you, may be a good thing, that she doesn't want to blow things with you because she has feelings or could be nothing.
/r/seduction06/04/21 05:16 PM
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Being interesiting is a way to get attention and dominate a conversation. A submissive person will evade eye contact, a dominant person will make eye contact. A submissive person will be passive "I don't mind where we are going", a dominant person will be assertive "I'm showing you this cool place in the weekend". A submissive person will evade all conflict, a dominant one knows that certain conflicts are fine because people may have different opinion sometimes the conflict can be worked on and …
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:57 PM
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Look at Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, he is big and for many he is also the most charismatic guy in Hollywood. You can show dominance by being assertive. In sports you can see who was the most dominant team by seeing whose team held the ball for longer or whose team had the highest score. Did they have to be violent? No. They team just had to do the best they could do. In social interactions we think too much dominance is having power over the other person. But if you are the most interesting guy i…
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:35 PM
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Are you sure it's toxic in any relationship? "If you shoot me I'll not love you anymore." Who is the toxic one? The one who is shooting or the one talking like that. A toxic behavior can't be described as toxic in all relationships.
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:53 PM
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Some parents do like you said. Other say, that if do "X I"ll not love you anymore", and that's an example an ultimatum or a bad relationship with your kids.
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:27 PM
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I can agree that it's not punishment on purpose, that's why I said it's kind of a punishment. But you can't control what the other person will feel. Also, leaving or telling them what bother you are examples of boundaries. You don't need to educate anyone to set boundaries, like you would do with your kid or with your wife/husband. A boundary is a common concept in psychology. And you have them to protect yourself.
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:19 PM
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Leaving them is kinda of a punishment, if the girl was interested on you. Also, if you say it bother you she may get in defensive feeling bad about what she did. It's also the definition of having boundaries.
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:43 PM
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It's called having boundaries, it's not toxic, it also reward good behavior and punish bad behavior by making people responsible for their own behavior. Ex: You're at the groceries with your kid and he ask you to buy some candy, you say no and he starts crying. You can: a) Break the boundary by rewarding him with the candy; b) Spank him it would be considered a toxic behavior; c) Don't buy the candy and explain to him right now he is feeling frustrated and he can't have everything he wants, maki…
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:25 PM
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Why would you need to be dominant with your friends? The word you're looking for is: Leadership. Nobody likes to be near someone who is always creating conflicts.
/r/seduction02/04/21 07:53 PM
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AirBnB
/r/seduction02/04/21 03:47 AM
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I did read. And I'll be succint about what I saw from you: You're trying to hard to control what the other person want; You're not trying to control what you can control - tinder profile or being yourself after reading the word relationship; You're also not considering that other person may have a different point of view of what is an interesting person, because you're caring too much about: "All the girls that I match want a relationship." A lot of the girls that say they want a relationship wa…
/r/seduction01/04/21 09:29 PM
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A lot of your guy friends that are talking shit about you being a virgin, are probably virgins too. Maybe, they are even kissless but are lying for some social proof. Also you can't get in a relationship if you're doing nothing beside playing gmod. You gotta talk to girls or maybe guys, if that your thing.
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:13 AM
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It's the same for the guys. Clinginess and Jealousness is the core of a needy person. Liying and hiding insecurities is more of a self esteem problem than neediness. But a needy person may have a self esteem issue. A girl would accept a booty call at 2am if she is needy or cancel their entire calendar to see a guy.
/r/seduction31/03/21 02:39 PM
1

I don't think there is a best way for it. If you know him for a long time he probably already know if he would be in a relationship or not with you. Probably going for a kiss.
/r/seduction31/03/21 03:33 AM
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Everybody do that and it doesn't bring any connection. And if you're trying too hard to compliment her in the first 5 minutes of an interactions you're probably trying too hard - because you hardly had any time to know the person. I don't think saying "Hey, find you attractive and I wanna know you better." as a compliment, it's a way to communicate you want more than a friendship.
/r/seduction30/03/21 03:38 PM
3

It's mostly about holding your frame, you probably will have some trouble if you're trying to get girls on your frame - because, you can't convince everyone. A girl will only have casual sex with you if she is open to that idea, you can't convince her if she is saving herself for mariage or is against sex if she isn't in a relationship. So what you can do is holding your frame. Don't be the guy who want a relationship, but agree with a friendship with the girl cause he is too scared that it will…
/r/seduction29/03/21 07:32 PM
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A frame is how people view you or how you view a situation: Your frame in a date: You want to make her your girlfriend; Her frame in the same date: She thinks you are only her friend; You have to make sure she is aware of your romantic or sexual intentions with the date. Or: Someone call you an asshole. You can ignore it and do whatever you gonna do (staying in your frame); You start a fight (entered his frame); You keep ruminating about what happened (entered his frame); ​ It is being in contro…
/r/seduction29/03/21 06:03 PM
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He already choose to not engage in a romantic or sexual relationship with you - and you can't convince him otherwise unless he want it. What you can do now is live the friendship you have with him. You don't need to have a romantic relationship with everybody you know. He is a good friend for you. But would he be a good boyfriend? Maybe he wants to live a life full of FWB relationships, but he hide it because he thinks the women in his life don't need to be judged for it. Some people are good to…
/r/seduction28/03/21 02:57 AM
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I have not done anything really lol, I just sat down and she just went at it Sometimes not doing anything is doing something. She may be tired of guys who are clearly trying to impress her to get in her pants. Having a different behavior pattern than most of the guys in her life is attractive.
/r/seduction27/03/21 11:33 PM
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Yeah, looks like she like you. Whatever you're doing keep doing it. You might mess it if you start trying to hard to impress her or if you do a premature "I love you" - don't do it if you have no clue about her personality and because you feel lonely. Just ask her out.
/r/seduction27/03/21 11:09 PM
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It's certanly excessive if it's ruining other activities you should be doing. About ruining possibilities, every person is different. You can ruin it by talking too little too.
/r/seduction24/03/21 02:48 PM
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Teasing could be playful or hurtful or sexual. If you say to a girl: "You're so clumsy, you should be a ballet dancer." She could react playful: "You're right, look what I can do." *Playfully Dance for you* Or if she is a ballet dancer she probably will react hurtfully: "Fuck you, I work all day long to be the best in waht I do". Cause you tried to tease one of her insecurities. It doesn't need to be spoken. Flirting is teasing in a sexual way. We have innuendos. You're in a date and after finis…
/r/seduction22/03/21 02:37 AM
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Did you use the word date or relationship? Because for some people dating means, you want to know her to see if there is a future for a relationship. And that doesn't mean you're exclusive yet. But if you want to go back on what you said, just do it, there is probably not a right way to tell her that without sounding as a dick. How she will receive that news, is her and only her responsability.
/r/seduction22/03/21 12:55 AM
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To quote someone in mobile you add > before their comment. In the PC version you there is an option in the editor at "...". The problem here isn't the girls wanting a relationship. The problem here is you trying to control them and I would say you're trying to bullshit yourself in believing in what you're saying. ​ I keep ruminating about it cause all of them are the same. If I had the chance to find someone different then I'd probably ignore them but 99% of my matches are looking to settle down…
/r/seduction20/03/21 01:46 PM
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If you don't want her to get attached to you, then tell her you're not feeling it as quickly as possible. Also, Codependency means you feel responsible for the well being of other in a non healthy way. Don't feel bad because you're not feeling it and she will get sad/hurt, not all relationships will work. Or people pleasing. It would be bad if you would be treating her bad on purpose.
/r/seduction19/03/21 01:10 PM
1

These guys were running slower intentionally because of me. Did they say it? Because, runners can't do full intensity training everyday, cause you know the body need to recovery. They probably will do 2 days a week at full speed and distance, and the other 5 days will in a low intensity. Maybe the problem here is your ego, for thinking everything is your fault. But what should I do now? I think letting her know about what's going on is right but that ends the relationship, doesn't it? She ain't …
/r/seduction19/03/21 11:53 AM
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i want to tell her but I don’t want to break her heart or make her feel bad she is a kind girl!! You are not responsible for her feelings. If you think you're you might suffer from something called codependency. She will probably be sad in both situations, but when you tell her that you're not feeling it at least you will be taking responsibility for the situation.
/r/seduction19/03/21 11:40 AM
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That was the only time I got burned as well. That's probably mean you got some trauma that need to be worked on. Also, just listening about "Not Totally in Love With" I would tell it's kinda of a red flag and also would say you have probably a non realistic expectation about love.
/r/seduction16/03/21 05:24 PM
1

Yes, the reasons matter to me. Them you ask her if that's matter to you, because every single girl will have a different reason. Because in a general context it doesn't matter, because you're not looking into a relationship. GIRL: I want a relationship. YOU: I don't. Also, I don't want to lead you on and make you lose time. GIRL: Okay, bye. ALSO YOU: *Procceds to ruminate why she wants a relationship losing your time in something that doesn't matter* What really matters: what you do. What doesn'…
/r/seduction16/03/21 03:04 PM
1

Those girls are giving you some boundaries and you're getting anxious because you might lack them. Being open to a serious relationship doesn't bind you to stay with that one person for the rest of your life without knowing her first. She probably won't want to settle down with someone who is bad at sex or [insert here any reasons why you wouldnt want to be with someone else]. Who knows what the reason they are saying they want to settle down and it doesn't really matter. If she is over 30 she p…
/r/seduction16/03/21 12:06 PM
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Even if it was about looks, would that be easy for an anonymous to get noticed in a social media with millions of videos? Probably not he would be easily forgotten because it would be hard for his video to spread. Even hot girls sometimes don't get the most amount of attention if they are boring.
/r/seduction12/03/21 01:24 AM
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Yes, the technique of being famous in other social media and boosting your shittier socials media because of his value.
/r/seduction12/03/21 01:04 AM
1

A shit test would be: "You are so dumb, can't you remember to put the trash out on mondays I have to do all the chores in the house" "YOU are so lazy you can't help me paint the house." During the week, when you are tired of working and you want to have some quiet time doing something relaxing. You can just tell her: "I'm right now I'm tired and will help you paint the house for 2 hours at the weekend".
/r/seduction10/03/21 05:48 PM
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First: Shit test is about "YOU". Confort test is about "HER". Am I more intelligent than your ex? Is it about "YOU" or "HER". Am I prettier than my siblings? Is it about "YOU" or "HER". If you answered all of the above is about "HER". You failed lot's of confort tests. Also, shit test are about people who aren't able to communicate in a healthy way.
/r/seduction10/03/21 05:35 PM
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Sure, he can come back if you give him time. But will he change in that time? Also, I don't really think you were enforcing a boundary if you want to go back with him: Boundary give the person a choice of doing - or not - an determined action but your action on it isn't. He accepted it and got out of the relationship - he may or may not seem therapy - but you want to go back to him even though he didn't change breaking your own boundary. An ultimatum is when you're trying to control the other ac…
/r/seduction02/03/21 11:55 AM
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I didn't read it fully, it's to long but from what I read was: He has drinking problems and the only person that can help him is himself. What you can do: Work in your problems, you're putting yourself at risk to date someone POTENTIAL - he treat you bad, but you believe that if he changes you will save the relationship. Any and all healthy relationship starts with: 2 people, trying to be the best version of themselves. Enforce boundaries: "I can't be with you when you drink", "If you keep treat…
/r/seduction01/03/21 12:44 PM
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Only if you guys are interested in a non-healthy relationship. And a lot of people are interested ina non-healthy relationship because almost every family is fucked up and we live with a model of non-healthy relationship and we think we deserve it. But at some point playing the power game probably will make your partner tired of you. Having Boundaries is better than "Playing Games" to keep someone with you. If she is mad at you and she doesn't want to talk to you: "Fine, you don't need to tell m…
/r/seduction27/02/21 03:44 PM
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Yes. A lot of woman get in FWB expecting something to have the talk at some point, because we'll it would be more sociallly accepted instead of looking clingy. Also, even when there is no initial intentions of turning it into a relationship one of the party's could develop feelings.
/r/seduction24/02/21 03:39 AM
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A lot of kids lie about their first kiss cause of social pressure.
/r/seduction18/02/21 01:30 PM
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First problem is: Commucation. Ask her. Second problem is: Your loneliness and clingness. Third problem is: Is she even your girlfriend, cause you posted 9h ago she was a friend and she left for another guy. And that would be your distorted view of the situation that comes with your loneliness and clingness. It look like at least you guys don't want the same thing she may want to be your friend with benefits and you want her to be your LTR. If she is just your friend you guys are roommates you c…
/r/seduction16/02/21 03:03 PM
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Does anyone have tips for when you’ve liked a friend this much and they don’t reciprocate? I used to be in a situation like your. She was my colleague at university and I was 17. I felt so good being next to her, that I was trying to be close to her all the time I could and she felt suffocated. We fought and we never talked again for 9 years. Sometimes I still dream with her and she hugs me and I feel like it's the best place in the world. I had this feeling she would be the only person that wou…
/r/seduction21/01/21 03:50 PM
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Don't be clingy, jealous. Don't be a person pleaser. Try to be genuine and assertive. Also don't be to available, and by that I mean: Have things to do in your life, instead of thinking of I shouldn't answer his text too fast. Or always cancelling your plans with others to see him.
/r/seduction21/01/21 03:16 PM
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It's easy, you can't force someone into a relationship. You can ask him to see you and have sex, but he probably won't start a new relationship with you. If you want a new chance with him, go to therapy work in your flaws and maybe he will come back if he see you have changed. Maybe you will see it's not worth the relationship because he didn't do the work and caused much drama or you will see that the only thing that is making you stay in the relationship is clinginess or the feeling of being a…
/r/seduction15/01/21 11:50 AM
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It wasn't the same, but one time a girl sent me a text she had masturbated thinking about me - and probably the next thing she would ask was about having sex, but I was too shocked to answer her and we got in a very akward situation. And to be honest, I didn't think the girl was attractive.
/r/seduction11/01/21 11:33 PM
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You did fine voicing your boundaries about not wanting to do a date and wanting to do what you came to do. The only other thing you could have asked him was if he did print the documents before you left your house. Look like your boyfriend has a problem with accepting his reponsabilities - trying to blame you for being inconsiderate or his brother. He may even have a problem of setting boundaries with his brother: "Sorry, brother I can't do it right now. I'm doing some important shit for my busi…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 02:14 AM
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You don't need help from this forum, most of the content wouldn't help with an LTR. You need to talk to her about what's going on. And if she doesn't want to talk about it, you have to ask yourself if it's this kind of relationship you want and cause it will get worse with time. Just talk and listen to her. Also, was the pandemic who affected your LTR or it was going to fail. Maybe you have some fault and the pandemic helped it because you guys spend a lot more time together.
/r/seduction10/01/21 01:02 PM
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Yes, but people who are looking for outer game tips probably had problems of socialization when they were little and don't know what to do or say.
/r/seduction26/12/20 02:18 PM
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You kinda describe good thing like valuing communication or not playing games, but at the end you say you don't know how to have a healthy non toxic relationship. The first problem is: finding someone who want a relationship - and you have no power here, you can't make someone who isn't avaible to a relationship start one with you. The second problem is: you don't talk to anyone else - except of your sister - and it's a problem if you are always complaining to your boyfriend. (Not sure if that's…
/r/seduction15/12/20 02:20 PM
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It's about not playing games. I like people who have a life over the relationship. If you're aren't picking up the phone to answer me, it's because you're busy working, with your friends or doing something important. It's not because you're playing hard because you think they will see you as a desperate woman.
/r/seduction02/12/20 03:52 AM
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I really like it sloppy. And I would say look for "Lili Moon Milking Table" video she does a lot of teasing and use her mouth in different ways.
/r/seduction18/11/20 06:43 PM
2

I understand you were in a shit situation before, but your currently BF isn't your ex-BF the situation will not end well. My last relationship ended because my ex treated me like I would cheat on her because her ex cheated on her. You don't want to be with someone that punish you for being upfront, and you'll only discover it about him if you are upfront. And listening to you, I don't think sex is the root of your problem, it's the fear of being punished by communicating your needs. And I unders…
/r/seduction31/10/20 03:08 AM
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Okay, the fact that you are a girl certanly change the perspective. If you are able to give him head, I wouldn't say it's an you problem. It's a him problem, maybe he doesn't like to give head or think you're giving him a treat or maybe his libido is lower than yours. Have you guys talked about your expectations when you're giving him head? "I feel frustrated when I give you head and you don't retribute it". Never start an argument with "You're a piece of shit that never retribute my head" If yo…
/r/seduction30/10/20 05:19 PM
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Is that an "We never had sex" or "We already had sex" problem? Cause the first may imply she might not be ready to do it. But the latter is she is already comfortable enough with you and the only thing you have to do is escalate it. Do you have problems to initiate cuddling? Kissing? Hugging? Touching her butt in random places? Is that a problem related to only sex?
/r/seduction30/10/20 03:01 PM
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We established before the date that we both just want something casual. I don't know what the fuck I'm doing wrong. You established before both wanted something casual, what did you do next? A fancy dinner? Cause fancy dinner don't sound casual at all.
/r/seduction11/10/20 05:19 PM
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Maybe you're trying too hard to be perfect, and it's scare then. People have flaws.
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:50 PM
2

There are two options: She just want attention; She wasn't really atracted to you, but seeing how you acted after you got rejected changed her mind. Some guys are really immature after a rejection, they try to force they way into the interaction or just act butthurt.
/r/seduction07/09/20 06:49 PM
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A friend with benefits is still a friend. You do things with then, just don't do romantic shit like going to a fancy restaurant. You guys can talk, go for a walk, watch a movie, practice some sport, cook together, have a drink, go to a party, play videogames... Or you could just fuck, but I don't think that's is sustainable for a long time - you have to care a bit about the other person.
/r/seduction31/05/20 01:39 PM
2

Jesse is still listed at the Jumpcut academy site as an Marketing Advisor/Co-Founder. But, yeah most PUA coach are looking more at the profit than about what will their students learn.
/r/seduction28/05/20 12:47 AM
1

If you guys aren't in a relationship/fucking telling anyfuckingone that you fapped to then is weird - as a man or woman. The day a girls I wasn't interested in said she did it think about me shocked me.
/r/seduction26/05/20 03:04 PM
1

There are more than one reason for people going for women from another country - you're basing all your argumentation in one reason: People go to third world countries cause it's easier to get women. Dating Coaching is a market and they will teach things that might work - and everything kinda work with dating (Colleen Ballinger and her ex Joshua traded turd pics at their first date, they even married) - and if you read The Game you gonna see there are many coaches with different techniques. Peop…
/r/seduction25/05/20 06:33 PM
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0% if you're in a healthy relationship with someone who doesn't live a life of looking to be happy 100% of the time. Unfortunately your chances of being in a healthy relationship is very low. We're all fucked up to a certain point, and the closest you will probably be is if you find someone who want to grow with you. A lot of guys and girls start relationship with the intention of the other people making then happy - and it's not healthy. I know cause when I was younger I believed that a certain…
/r/seduction20/05/20 11:38 PM
1

No, this community didn't fuck you up. Don't play the victim card. You fucked yourself for believing everything in here. I remember when I read The Game and thought canned openers were fucking bullshit. Never used one and never will. Or that people use Negs cause they are low value. The problem isn't the advice from the sub, the problem is you ain't being critical about what advices you like or not. You're looking for a magic pill that will make you the supreme seducer. Get some fucking personal…
/r/seduction19/05/20 12:01 PM
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You can't. Go to therapy instead. You act creepy, needy and unstable. It's not attractive. Also, like you said in another sub he already has a girlfriend.
/r/seduction03/05/20 03:44 AM
2

About Carlton, I wouldn't say the fault was in hiding his bissexual past, but he acted like an Nice Guy, just like Robert Glover wrote in NMMNG. He expected X outcome, she didn't act according to it, he became furious and for him it was his fault. He wasn't congruent he hide something about his past and said he was being honest and living his truth. He escalated the fight and she also escalated the fight. (Be assertive - Don't be passive-agressive) Will agree with all said about Jessica. About M…
/r/seduction28/04/20 04:11 AM
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No, those statements don't contradict themselves. For the first statement: a lot of guys think it's acceptable to go to a girl they never talked to and say: "I love you since the kindergarten. And I want you to be my girlfriend." That's creepy. You don't know her. You have her prospect on how wonderful would be to date her. The second statement is about showing interest or being sexual/flirty with her since the first date. Like: - "Let's go out" - "Like friend?" - "No, that's a date." - that's a…
/r/seduction27/04/20 09:27 PM
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Ok. So what do you want to know? Do you want us to rate your profile? Do you want some suggentions how to make it better? Cause, there is no questions. I guess you should start getting more assertive, nobody has the ability to read minds. You should start working on your communication skills.
/r/seduction06/04/20 06:52 PM
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Why do you care about someone else choices? Focus on yourself, not others. If you don't want to go to the gym don't go to the gym. Maybe they got money to compensate it, maybe they have a personality, maybe they understand that their body is enough to attract his kind of girls. Maybe they are losers who can't get laid. Who knows? Who cares? And it's not about getting as bigger as a BB - unless you want to do it.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 12:27 PM
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So you're saying she is only allowed to panic when the mass panic happened? She could been freaking out way before the mass panic, like you said she didn't want to hang with you for 2 weeks. Maybe a relative of her got COVID-19 and she was panicking.
/r/seduction16/03/20 11:03 PM
1

There is no trick to make her decide. There is a thing called boundaries and you can set one about your needs to meet her face to face. "This texting only isn't working for me, I prefer to talk face to face." Or "I'm not looking for a friendship/texting buddy right now, I want to go out with you". Or whatever you want your boundary to be, if she continue to text you only it's your responsibility to enforce your boundary not texting her back. Yes, you may feel like an ass, but boundaries are nece…
/r/seduction16/03/20 09:49 PM
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That's strange cause I can get to the basics in mobile browser if I click on: About this community at the top of the page.
/r/seduction06/01/20 12:17 PM
1

Tldr;? I didn't see it. Not taking advice from someone who pays models to be with him and even paying many off those models are tired of his bullshit.
/r/seduction05/12/19 09:48 AM
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As long you're decently handsome, kissing a girl in Brazil isn't that hard - even if you ain't that handsome it's kinda easy. Last year, in the birthday of a girl friend she kissed more than 60 dudes in a night. If you think someone is eye fucking you, going for a kiss without knowing her is a good bet. It's low investment. ​ Now, having sex with someone is a bit harder, you'll have to convince her. Maybe if you're a foreingner it will be a little easier, since she will think you guys will never…
/r/seduction01/03/19 03:20 AM
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Just tell her you got a Nintendo Switch: https://i.redd.it/hyfh7pdff1r11.jpg ​ And, yeah I agree with the other guy talk about the genre and not necessarily the name of the game. ​ And another, advice is, maybe talk about a multiplayer game, this might be a good excuse to her to go to your house. Girls loved to play Mario Kart with me. ​ ​
/r/seduction09/10/18 07:55 PM
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Your problem is impatience. ​ 25 days ago you asked in fitness reddit: "Which dumbell you should buy?" No weightlifting program will have any time to work in 25 days, even worse if we are talking about dumbell only program... Unless you have a gym membership. ​ And you said you talked to a girl a month ago in other post. ​ So something is off. ​
/r/seduction10/09/18 02:57 PM
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I'm a brazilian. And your problem is you are talking about teenager game - wanting the kiss but don't knowing what to do after. I know kissing someone in a Brazilian party don't mean nothing, it's standard. You should talk to the girl after the make out if you want to escalate. I know a bunch of girls who got BF in party and they don't kiss and run. They talk. They exchange contact. You still want to run a teenager game. ​
/r/seduction03/09/18 04:05 PM
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Tinder is a game of photos. If you have only selfies, you ain't getting anything from there. Most guys have shit photos, that show only themselves or there is a bathroom - even worse sometime they feel very robotic and without facial expressions. Having better photos will improve your matching rates. I know a girl who matched with a guy just because he was using a duck tube in one of his photos.
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:58 PM
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First, if you're trying to impress someone you already failed - nothing good will happen. If you want people to notice you, take care of yourself and improve: lift, practice some sports, have a cool hobby or two, meditate, work on your posture. Don't waste your time masturbating and playing video games all day long - it's fine to do it sometimes, but limit yourself for like 1h of video games a day or 1 time a week. Second, you gonna be weird if you are trying no to be weird. And, it's better to …
/r/seduction16/06/18 12:27 AM
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Stop looking for guys on Tinder. Nobody looks for relationships there, unless we are talking about the guys you rejected.
/r/seduction16/05/18 03:27 PM
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One of the possibilities is: Bathroom selfie. Selfies aren't good for tinder. A bathroom selfie that show the urinals in the background? No, thanks. Profile 2 don't have any selfies either.
/r/seduction26/08/17 08:15 PM
1

Why you think the term "stunts" don't apply? My cousing, he is 50 years old, for example: one of his legs is shorter than the other because of an injury when he was young. It wasn't a lifting related injury though. It can happens in any sport or activity. Growth stunt may be rare, in case of any injury, but it still can happen.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 07:20 PM
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If it's a myth why the article you posted to prove your point says: "As long as it’s being done safely and responsibly, there’s simply no good reason to assume that this would be an issue of concern."? It's not a myth. You may damage your growth if you are stupid enough to hurt yourself doing stupid shit in the gym, and it's very common to see adults doing stupid shit in the gym and hurting themselves. Lift at any age, but first learn how to lift.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 06:03 PM
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It's not a myth: he said lifting without guidance. My anatomy teacher said he goes to the gym to laugh, because he sees a lot of grow ups doing stupid shit that might hurt themselves. It's fine for a kid to lift as long as he doesn't do stupid shit.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 10:10 PM
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You messed up when you told her you was expecting to have sex with her, she doesn't own you anything and you just looked needy. I know it's frustrating and I almost done the same mistake when I was a virgin. If she still talking to you, she is into you. Just go to her town and you will end probably making out again, if you end making out try escalate to sex. BUT IF IT DON'T WORK, DON'T SAY: You're disappointed with her again, you will have other chances with her.
/r/seduction04/01/17 11:50 PM
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