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| 9 | Need wingmen in Pretoria South Africa | MrPerfectlyperfect | /r/seduction | 03/09/14 01:22 PM | |
| 2 | Anyone in Pretoria, South Africa? | MrPerfectlyperfect | /r/seduction | 08/10/14 04:26 PM |
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| 2 | Outcome Independence In Closed EnvironmentsMove. I know this sounds ridiculous, but if you're serious about getting good with women then move somewhere with more anonymity . Go live somewhere with more people, simple. Not saying it's easy to leave all you know etc etc but it's your best option. | /r/seduction | 20/02/15 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Snapchat seduction tips?Hahha get in great shape and use whatever excuse you can to let her see your naked body. | /r/seduction | 20/02/15 02:16 PM |
| 1 | I am a 21 year college student with braces. Should I even bother trying to talk to women?Yeah dude you're fucked. Might as well give up and NEVER approach at all. Actually, might as well kill yourself. Of course, I'm joking dude. Let's say looks are the sole thing that determine your success with women (they're not, but lets say for argument's sake that they are.) Okay, so looks are the only thing that matter, and you have braces. How fucked are you? Not really at all, and I'll tell you why: Let's say you get an awesome body, killer hairstyle and you dress well and smell fucking ama… | /r/seduction | 20/02/15 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Dick is too Shy?Just like michael98118, this happens to me too. My dick never works with new girls like it does with girls I've already had sex with. I'm trying to get this solved by not masturbating for a few months. Then hopefully my genetics will take over when the next girl comes. Each guy has a different way of getting over this. But try what you can to solve it cus having sex with new girls is fucking amazing man. | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Is RSD Julien fucking insane?I see your point dude but saying that RSD is based on a degrading attitude towards women is simply not true. RSD teaches that it is okay to emulate that behavior and say that shit if you are CONGRUENT to it and actually want to say it. They do not ever condone making women feel like total shit and going at them with bad intentions. There are plenty of RSD instructors who preach nice, calm, easy going and good vibe game. For example, RSD Alexander. He stresses the importance of making girls feel … | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Falling for a girl too quicklyDude this shit is normal. It has happened to every PUA in existence. Shit even some maters who've been in the game for a decade still have these sticking points sometimes. Relax. When this happens it just means you like her which is fucking good. Just don't let it turn you into a chode and become. Just simply refuse to let it happen. The way I went through this was by expressing the feelings I have for her by being so ecstatic but never showing neediness because I knew that I will feel this agai… | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Need wingmen in Pretoria South AfricaHaha luckily my wingman doesn't need to be nice. Also iv'e menty plenty of nice and hot south african girls so no problem | /r/seduction | 10/09/14 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Need wingmen in Pretoria South AfricaI get what you mean. Iv'e gone out a lot in the previous city Iv'e lived in and approached etc. I have very little AA and I do have reference experiences. My game isn't bad. The reason I need a wingman is because I know NOTHING about the city and where to go etc. Have no social circle either. I need a wingman because I don't even know where to start approaching, not because I think it'll help me through the process. | /r/seduction | 10/09/14 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Getting girls to let their guard down and stop playing the gameGo do a shit ton of cold approaches or something. You'll get comfortable with game real quick. Also, getting girls to let their guard down is PART of GAME. The girl should know you wanna fuck from the start. From there, game is just how you get rid of all her inhibitions like fear of judgment etc. assuming you've built enough attraction. | /r/seduction | 03/09/14 03:06 PM |
| 1 | What to do when girls generalise you as a "player"What Psych40 said. It was a fucking shit test. Something that I see over and over on this subreddit is guys that take to heart every single thing a girl says to them. If she calls you a player do one of the following: 1- Go with it 100% and joke about it and say: " Yeah I'm the biggest asshole player in the world and I want nothing but to treat you like the rest of them." Or something along those lines. But own it and have fun with it in a joking way (or even serious if your'e congruent and stro… | /r/seduction | 03/09/14 01:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] SOOO unexpected - K-close and almost F-closeYour'e 6'3 and think a girl won't give you the time of day? Dude what are you smoking? you should have confidence pouring out of your fucking sweat pores. Sounds like you need to get to some more cold approach and get some reference experiences. What I don't like about this situation is that how a girl reacted to you gave you confidence. Why don't you have internal confidence. Start going out more and approaching more and I guarantee that you will have so many more good experiences and your game… | /r/seduction | 03/09/14 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls to let their guard down and stop playing the gameWhy do you even want to stop playing the game? It's fun as fuck | /r/seduction | 03/09/14 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Could use some advice (oneitis)This is what I do: every time i feel oneitisy or like i dont have enough to offer or anything beta, i just make this little ridiculous voice say whatever I'm doing. For example when I get any negative voices in my head before going out id say "oh noo, I don't have enough to offer, I'm gonna get rejected, I'm scared, noo" and id say it in an Eric Cartman would if he were crying. Then the thought that i dont have enough to offer or whatever completely dissappears because it has now become ridiculo… | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Could use some advice (oneitis)This is what I do: every time i feel oneitisy or like i dont have enough to offer or anything beta, i just make this little ridiculous voice say whatever I'm doing. For example when I get any negative voices in my head before going out id say "oh noo, I don't have enough to offer, I'm gonna get rejected, I'm scared, noo" and id say it in an Eric Cartman would if he were crying. Then the thought that i dont have enough to offer or whatever completely dissappears because it has now become ridiculo… | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with her friends?I agree with bl1y, isolating is absolutely key. Once you and a friend are with two girls, going your seperate ways is a must, it takes all the pressure off the girls so that they don't feel like sluts infront of each other etc. | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 04:05 AM |
| 0 | To the guys who have sex on the regular, help out some of us guys who are struggling. What was the moment it became easy, and you realized it's not hard to achieve?Good reply. Yeah when there isn't enough attraction and you know it then the light in my head is red(at least for the time being.sometimes re-opening can work wonders, especially towards the end of the night). On the last paragraph: What you said makes 100% sense but to avoid flakes, I never get the number unless I've made plans to meet the girl again later that night (while her arousal and excitement levels are high). I never ask for the number unless I KNOW there's enough attraction for anothe… | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 03:56 AM |
| 2 | If a girl is nervous around you, are you at least doing something right?This depends all on the context. If you're out doing cold approach and this happens, then the girl may just not want to "seem like a slut infront of her friends" and all that kinda shit. This is what wings are good for, if they take care of the friends, or if you can "befriend" her friends then isolating becomes much easier. But if you know this girl through your social circle then her "being too nervous" could mean that you did not build comfort OR it could mean that shes a female version of a … | /r/seduction | 23/02/14 08:02 AM |
| 1 | To the guys who have sex on the regular, help out some of us guys who are struggling. What was the moment it became easy, and you realized it's not hard to achieve?sounds good man. But with regards to the "yellow lights" they aren't always as yellow as they may seem. If u find the girl attractive but she seems "yellow" and is just listening to what u have to say and not being extremely talkative and u get their number anyway and they flake. It may not be because they weren't attracted or of low value. It may just have meant that you did not build enough comfort. (not saying that you didn't but that MAY be a reason for the flake.) Over time the girls that s… | /r/seduction | 23/02/14 07:49 AM |
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