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It’s because the only hobbies most women have in their life is socializing and it’s easier for them to find sex. Men have isolated hobbies that keep them busy and it’s harder for them to get sex do to women being choosy. It’s funny how all these people think socializing comes so easy, I was in sports had a few girls like me and make the first move in school and at a job and had a best friend. The only person who I really talked with was my best friend and the girls I was with only lasted like on…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:02 PM
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Awe most of you guys sound so young it’s so cute. Once your past 30 you will soon learn it’s all about survival, any sex is good weather it be from someone with experience or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:46 PM
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Look up the statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:37 AM
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Arguing about this is kind of pointless because it doesn’t solve much. The brain and psychology is overemphasized and we will never understand each other. Even if men were better communicators it doesn’t matter. It’s an observation we’ll leave it at that.. Regardless, any experience I have is going to be discounted as only an experience. My experience is that talking to women is boring because I don’t think I ever had an intelligent conversation with a women. But you’ll say it’s just the women I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:56 PM
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Too much of a risk when sharing a home. Women leave 80% and 90% if college educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:48 PM
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I thought as a learning psychologist you would take everything into consideration when I gave you that example but instead of going into detail and mentioning bloodlust and giving us our just do you said the scenario would just be “equal” and women would communicate equal and better if the man had bloodlust. You named the trait “bloodlust” which you said is fueled by testosterone, then went on to say that it “would” help in a combat scenario but not make men better communicators. So that’s your …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:48 PM
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This is a perfect example of cognitive dissonance women have. I created that scenario on purpose to see how aware you are of the different attributes between men and women. It all comes down to how much do you really know about men in actuality. First off, men have the capacity for extreme violence. Secondly we have a strict hierarchy that women don’t have. I think your failing to realize how strict this hierarchy can be and how men communicate while in it. You simply don’t know because you prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:04 AM
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I know a way to make you understand. So there’s a group of men and women who both have weapons and are about to fight to the death. To make this fair I’ll give the women guns and the men also have guns so physical strength is canceled out. Both groups are untrained civilians. I’m curious to who you think would win amongst these groups since physical strength is canceled out and both parties are untrained. Would the men communicate better with each other or the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:57 AM
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Very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:34 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:30 AM
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And that’s the best case scenario for having healthy children?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:29 AM
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I think biologically it does wouldn’t you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:22 AM
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It’s their decision I have no say in that matter. No opinion on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:15 AM
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Option to not have kids? Offcourse they can do whatever they want. Especially nowadays, so I understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:11 AM
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What are you trying to argue here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:56 AM
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I agree that it’s hard to test for, do you think combat requires intelligence? I’m pretty sure a group of men will overpower a group of women if they both had weapons. Reason being men have certain “features” that are hard wired from biology. Thus making men more skilled in certain fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:54 AM
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If they wanted their line to become extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:41 AM
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“Sacrifice my youth” do you think a women had that option. Especially during evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:38 AM
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Well what’s your goal? Are you trying to build rocket ships or stay in a mud hut and have babies constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:33 AM
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If you want my personal opinion not coming from studies. I believe both men and women are equally book smart. Women do very well in academics. The problem is men don’t listen to them or they don’t voice their opinions well enough. Their communication is a bit blurry and it’s odd that they speak about what they feel instead of arguing based on facts. It’s like men have this thing where they can manipulate the information they learn and turn it into something very logical and abstract. The reasons…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:22 AM
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Life is strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:51 AM
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Some men did. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:49 AM
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Women couldn’t be under that pressure do to child bearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:42 AM
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Precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:31 AM
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Pressure forms diamonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:29 AM
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A long rough biological history for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:26 AM
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Well you can’t have intelligence if you starve and freeze to death, or get lost in a jungle and eaten alive by predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:22 AM
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the ability to acquire and apply knowledge and skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:16 AM
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Just look at the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:03 AM
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One specific example is Bear Grils survivor island. The group of women were trying to get out of the jungle but it seems like they were having directional problems. The men had a sense of direction that women didn’t have. This is just one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:33 AM
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The study didn’t find any reason to believe so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:16 AM
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“The asymmetry of hemispheric volume (left minus right over total, times 100) was correlated (r = .57, p < .001) with Verbal IQ minus Performance IQ within subjects. No relationship was observed between total brain or hemispheric volumes and IQ scores.” Intriguing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:42 AM
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Thanks for the bait question. Here’s your link. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/0191886994900302#:~:text=Among%20adults%2C%20males%20have%20slightly,than%20the%20mean%20for%20females.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:37 AM
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You found a good article then. It’s interesting because as we age and our bodies wear down, it could possibly spill over to how intelligent older men are in particular and also women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:18 PM
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Physical strength has nothing to do with intelligence or is it your non factual believe that it has nothing to do with intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:48 PM
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From the Wikipedia “although ability in particular types of intelligence does appear to vary slightly on average.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:44 PM
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Then you cannot answer a simple question then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:31 PM
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There’s multiple sources of literature listed below lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:30 PM
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You didn’t answer my question, you answered it with another question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:07 PM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/0191886994900302#:~:text=Among%20adults%2C%20males%20have%20slightly,than%20the%20mean%20for%20females.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:05 PM
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The study does say men on average have 4 iq points higher??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:59 PM
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Well, let’s start with this then. Are men physically stronger and thus more physically capable then women in certain situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:54 PM
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Did you read my last post? I said Bear Grils wasn’t in the show it was a group of random men and random women. Could this be a perfect example of women lacking social reasoning skills? Failure to read a simple comment and getting upset and triggered over it? Saying that they lost iq from the op’s post and attacking his ability to spell? Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:47 PM
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This is my exact observation. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:43 PM
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It’s mostly physical and the ability to direct men when physical activities are happening. My job is only slightly physical so women do ok. But I feel anything more then that, such as a job requiring actual strength or men having to use combined strength to reach a certain goal. The women would be detrimental in this category. That’s mostly where I observed this phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:16 PM
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The men weren’t trained survivalists either they were inexperienced just like the group of women. Bear Grils played no part in what went on in the actual show. The men found their way out of the jungle the same day while the women got lost and spent the night in the jungle then had to be rescued. I’m assuming they had to pick the women up during the night for fear of getting sued or for whatever reason. The producers of the show also had to bring women food while men did pretty well finding thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:04 PM
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Bad choices? I just met her lol
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/22 02:54 AM
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I knoww time is so valuable. Idk I think she was expecting me to keep the intense dynamic I started with, once she saw I backed off a little she thought I was playing games I think. When really it was more like my energy runs low and high during different times of the day or depending on the type of feedback I get.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/22 02:41 AM
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It gets worse, she starts getting racial and saying I look like another race but I wasn’t. Then she says that I’m poor for living in the place I do. I live here because my father stayed to be close to his mother during passing.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/22 02:31 AM
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What if I wanted extreme kinks filled with love and emotion that was fired by intense romantic scenes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:25 PM
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And kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:57 PM
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OP is absolutely right that it’s harder to get women for men, that’s a known fact. Women sleeping around is actually easy. These are all facts of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:14 PM
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Your reality stems form evolution. It’s not like that in civilized western society. We aren’t cavemen running around clubbing women on the head anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:53 AM
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So then what do you suggest we do? Assume that all men are women beaters?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:39 AM
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You mean you don’t know? Why do you think all these wars are happening around us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:26 AM
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I thought men and women were equal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:23 AM
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A women could just as easily kill me if she wanted to with a weapon. I could just as easily get a girl pregnant which would cause a significant mental and financial strain which would in turn effect my overall health. If they are worried about STD’s they need to get the guy checked before they engage in unprotected sex. If it’s painful then just tell the guy to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:15 AM
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Then sex will never be excepted by the world and there will never be peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:59 AM
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What unequal risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:54 AM
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Then he needs positive reinforcement directly from the women. Right now society is telling him men shouldn’t approach women are like sex, let alone talk about it to reduce severe stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:44 AM
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He says he has sex sometimes and he’s fine with it. A women would never notice or question that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:30 AM
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I think a most women would be relieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:51 AM
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I meant what specific emotional support do men provide. I was looking for specific traits…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:25 PM
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Because I’m bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:16 AM
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I totally understand the romantic aspect. It’s very powerful indeed between a man and woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:01 AM
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I think jumbo is trying to say or what I’m trying to rephrase the question as is, besides our sexual organ. So besides sex which is an obvious bonus, what’s the difference between the type of emotional bonding you get from a man that you might not necessarily get from a women. Or is it just the sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:32 AM
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It’s a red flag having this many red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:47 AM
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Men are going there own way and are choosing to not have kids or take women seriously anymore. The responsible guys will always wear a condom and ask if your on heavy birth control and even then we may still wear a condom. We don’t want your egg anymore, it’s not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:34 PM
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Most are are just boring to be around and only guys with a blue pill personality can deal with them. Men who like to be free and do hobbies will only find themselves burdened mostly financially if they have kids. The women can leave whenever she wants there’s no incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:29 PM
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Have you seen women’s bathrooms? Period stains everywhere, lingering smell of feminine odor, strands of hair all over, the sink is a mess, beauty products all over the place, things in the toilet that clog it up, it’s nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:28 AM
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Yeahhh… 95% of you women are boring people why would we want to get to know you.. women don’t even like women and you expect men to jump in and fill the gap? You never tried talking to women as a man, their voice is screeching and high pitched and you have to ask all the questions or else they will just sit there.. they cop an attitude for the smallest reasons, they aren’t funny and get mad if you make a slightly wrong joke. It’s an old notion that we are supposed to approach you, not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:24 PM
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Men pretty much do that themselves and don’t “need” any of that from women, we may want it and it’s nice but you women are the ones who want all these materialistic things and lifestyles that require all this work from men that’s much harder to acquire. Cooking and cleaning is easy and men do that themselves. We don’t “need” teachers or any of that if anything teachers are a burden to society. We need builders, labor workers, farmers, and people that make the world run which men mostly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:26 AM
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I’ve had a girl approach me at work do this, she overheard me talking about a subject which she studied then talked about it with me for a couple of minutes then said we should hang out and study gave me her number after. She never “asked” me if I wanted to do it, she basically said “we should” or “let’s”. I’ve had another girl follow me into the lunch room and ask what was my favorite food, one sat next to the bench I was sitting and commented on it, the most recent one at work brushed against …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:39 PM
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If a women doesn’t like when the guy plays video games she should come up with something fun to do. We live in an age of equality and if women have something in mind that’s better than playing games that doesn’t cost much than I’m all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:10 PM
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This is good logical advice and all but if a man goes this route all the romance is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:41 PM
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Well women are equal now so they can take care of their kids by themselves and spend their own resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:49 AM
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They are trying to hit a buzzer beater and somehow get lucky to find a guy who makes more than them and provide them with a lavish lifestyle but in a few years from now we will all see that they will never get that and will be single living with their cats and dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:55 PM
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The top answer in Google as to why women don’t use birth control is because it adds “flavor” to the sex. So basically they like taking the risk of possibly getting pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:11 AM
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I’m surprised at the type of girls who came on to me at my jobs throughout my life and I’m below average height but with a somewhat chad looking face but not chad chad. I remember a petite redhead coworker giving me her number and saying we can hang out and study. At my current job there’s another amazing little redhead that brushed up hard against me when there was nothing but room to move around and I’m like what’s going on. Girls that don’t look nearly as pretty as these girls don’t give me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:23 AM
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I’ve had girls look at what girls I had on my page to see if they were local. Another girl asked why I don’t post anything. It was more than just to see if I’m real they actually analyzed everything on my page. The funny thing is I didn’t care to look at their page and most men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:59 AM
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Ancient women must have been really good lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:08 AM
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Yeah even big women want above average men and most won’t even respond to you if you messaged them online.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:50 AM
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We should just stop giving women compliments all together and never do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:34 PM
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Oh then that’s totally different then. Although I had a girl say I was too nice while in a relationship which is strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:01 PM
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Uhh we expect sex because it’s a normal and healthy part of a relationship? We are nice because that’s how we would want to be treated and if we see that it isn’t reciprocated we aren’t nice anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:13 PM
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These gentlemen guys can be assertive and dominant as well we just don’t get in trouble with the law lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:41 PM
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What about the men who are nice but do what they want and aren’t a door mat?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:29 PM
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Then the women would have to have a good personality which isn’t the case half the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:09 AM
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Then those guys have small pee pee energy. I’m just hoping you women don’t secretly get off on the guy getting mad because that’s what scares me about you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:35 PM
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That’s the men YOU choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:11 PM
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This is a lie and it’s just an excuse for women to get emotional and crazy. It’s gaslighting and abuse on women’s part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:54 PM
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Wasn’t saying anything against your comment I’m just saying in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:44 AM
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This is called too much rom coms and immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:50 PM
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Why not just say.. You like sex? I like sex.. It’s my developed caveman style.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:44 PM
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I just had a girl yesterday do this, she wanted to throw in my face that I had casual hangouts in my profile and because I failed to change it she wasn’t going to give me a chance and that not changing my status came back to bite me even though I told her I seriously didn’t know you could change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:06 AM
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It was something sexual, she then came in shaming me for liking it and I explained to her that I was safe about things in that regard and she immediately ghosted me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:30 AM
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Oh it was true alright. I guess at the end of the day she wasn’t serious anyway. But the things I was saying to her was just a normal convo and she ghosted which is the usual. Also they showed up not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:26 AM
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I’ve had girls who saw my dating bio which was kind of written in a bad boy way and message me first only to ghost me once I showed I was stable minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:47 PM
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I kind of do that now, the problem is that I’m into a lot of stuff that would require long explanations. Should I just be vague and say I’m kinky or do I start listing all the crazy stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:48 PM
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Yes and I’m looking for someone who will entertain my kinks. How do I know if I’m compatible with her if I don’t have sex first? Should I list all my kinks in my dating profile? I’ve done that before and got banned from the dating site or opened my profile to have it wiped clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:34 PM
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What if a guy is kinky and doesn’t know if the girl is going to be into the things he’s into? I’ve told girls what I’m into to see if we are compatible and been immediately blocked. Some women will block and shame you for liking something so quick your head will spin lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:07 PM
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For me it is, this is where compatibility comes into play so I specifically ask for casual because I don’t know if she will like the things I’m into.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:01 PM
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I have a serious question, uhm… how do we know we are compatible if we don’t have sex first? I specifically say in my dating profile I’m looking for casual because I wouldn’t know if the compatibility is there. Did anyone think of this simple concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:46 PM
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Exactly, and I find most women are pleasantly surprised and the ones who aren’t are most likely high maintenance and not worth it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:08 PM
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I would say yes and it’s a lot easier if I explain that’s what I want from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:11 PM
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TRP eventually just made me a laid back, poly, hippie guy that asks women for friends with benefits. I’m surprised some men on here even entertain the idea of monogamous relationships nowadays I just accepted it’s perfectly natural especially in today’s climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:44 PM
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Do women get the ick if they find out the guy has a small pp?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:05 AM
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This is why I never cold approached my whole life or at work. I had some chances at work where the girl made the first move but I acted coldly towards them afterward because of metoo and it lead to a life of isolation and missed opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:47 AM
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I think what he’s trying to say is he acts his nonchalant self which isn’t nice or a jerk. He doesn’t care to act either because it takes too much energy and he’s in a neutral zone. He’s saying that being his neutral self comes off as nice to the women. It takes more energy to be a jerk, these jerks are still simps in my book. The way I do it is I’m a neutral guy with extreme perversions which I try to get the girl to do for my pleasure without putting too much effort in. He could be doing it a …
/r/MGTOW24/06/21 08:32 PM
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Oh I already know but sometimes a man doesn’t want his line to die off that’s just nature. I don’t even like pussy I just want my line to go on.
/r/MGTOW24/06/21 08:08 PM
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I got permanently banned from r/ unpopular opinion for posting this even though people were agreeing and upvoting. Only one person was debating me and I was respectfully debating that person but still got banned. The reason was because they said I had an “incel” burner account. Apparently speaking the truth about men’s rights issues isn’t allowed.
/r/MGTOW22/06/21 04:06 PM
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More so the child custody because I actually want kids and I recently talked to the psychopath baby mother who opened my eyes and told me all the dirt.
/r/MGTOW22/06/21 05:18 AM
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Where did you get gay from? Wouldn’t it be the exact opposite.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:32 AM
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Your right, I now believe the the untruthfulness stems from being taught that masculinity is toxic. Once I realize that it’s like a weight has been lifted. Screw feminism lol.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:30 AM
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To be honest I can’t even get into a conversation with them because they never respond lol. I haven’t had a conversation with a women in years. Seems like they priced themselves out of the dating market.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:48 PM
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You can’t over alpha the government so off course it’s beta. See this is what I mean, all this talk about beta is being beta. Who cares about being beta and alpha anymore. Thanks for saying that because it validates the point I’m trying to make. If your constantly thinking you have to be alpha around women then your a beta. It’s way too much thinking, your thinking about manly rules and how it’s beta like who cares anymore. Kids would never be worth that risk. To me it just ruins your life. Who …
/r/askTRP12/02/21 09:35 PM
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For me feminism has ruined things because I actually wanted a family and I can’t because the feminist marriage laws against men. Off course I would never bring up feminism without being asked. If she asks why I don’t want kids then one of the things I’ll say is that the feminist climate of society ruined things if I want to tell the truth. Why think all this stuff and come up with an excuse when you can just treat them like equals and say what’s on your mind. This is why I think the red pill stu…
/r/askTRP12/02/21 08:35 PM
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All that stuff like amused mastery and distraction is fine and all if you want to do that. But for me personally I found that to be too much work and too much thinking. This is the whole point of the post, who cares if she can use it against me. The point is that I’m saying whatever is on my mind without thinking and who cares what she thinks. That’s the great thing about feminism, we no longer have to do anything for them or treat them special in any kind of way.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 08:16 PM
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You can say anything really that’s just a couple of examples I didn’t mean that’s those are the only options. As long as you don’t have kids, because that’s how they will ruin your life. When I actually wanted kids I would tell girls I wanted them and some would reciprocate while others it would turn into an argument and we would stop talking because of the kids subject. This has led me to never want to talk about kids again.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 12:15 PM
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So your an sjw or you believe in god. I’m not either of those and I’m quite cynical. Modern society had only been are around for a little while.I’m not stupid enough to rape a women and get sent to jail. If you think I’m that way then you misjudge my character completely.Your attitude would make a women’s pussy dry up basically. I’m not saying you have to rape anyone but if you spoke like that to a women she would become drier than the Sahara lol. The funny thing is that if I’m with a certain ty…
/r/seduction16/12/20 07:46 AM
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I think it’s around 40%-50% or more. I think it’s just in their submissive nature to be complacent about stuff like this and they wouldn’t necessarily feel negative or positive about it if the law were to break down and it became a common trend in society. Your making women seem more innocent then they are with those low ball percentages lol.
/r/seduction15/12/20 09:41 AM
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You’re right when you said that it’s better to get a women who’s on board with it. Vanilla women who aren’t on board don’t really know much anyway and they are kind of boring and prudish. Although I think you were wrong about only 1% having rape fantasies. I read a study that said it was much higher than that.
/r/seduction15/12/20 02:52 AM
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Well I don’t necessarily think the matches would be less, there would probably be more matches lol. You helped me decide whether or not to make my profile about kink and I think that’s going to help me in the long run. I’ll feel better about myself and I’ll probably stand out more which will help bring in more matches. About the enthusiastic consent thing, I’m not sure if that goes with a vanilla women’s nature dude I’m just saying. Doesn’t it seem like tons of women have this weird plausible de…
/r/seduction12/12/20 09:07 AM
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Yeah but the problem is how many women are going to give explicit enthusiastic consent? I would be lucky to find 1-2 girls like that every year. I’ve had very bad experiences explaining my kinks to vanilla girls. It never worked in my favor and made me sexless for years. I’ve been kink shamed enough that I lost the motive to even do bdsm let alone the rape fantasy thing. I think I need to be more clear that I’m into bdsm. I had it on my profile but I need to gear my whole profile towards it I th…
/r/seduction12/12/20 08:25 AM
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