MrQualtrough Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-1	If she’s into you, it’s painfully obvious. If it’s ambiguous, you’re an option at best whether she’ll admit it or not It is obvious within a nanosecond. It was only not alwaus obvious to me when I was like, 11 years old...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 06:34 PM
1	“Low libido” litmus test. I find every woman apart from like the top 1% to be disgusting or inadequate in looks. A shame because I am bottom 1%, so I really have no chance at getting what I would want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 02:46 PM
2	“Low libido” litmus test. Because you're squares my G. I'm a man and have very low sexual desire, that shit ain't the norm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 02:45 PM
6	CMV: Sadly, objectifiying women is the only thing that works(at the start). I'm sick of these incels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 12:43 AM
1	CMV: Sadly, objectifiying women is the only thing that works(at the start). Eyeroll tier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 12:43 AM
7	Is it true most men are giving up on dating? It's all Tinder now. Two friends are married from it (because relationships = looks foremost). I get zero matches so I don't have the option to date. However when I did, I didn't particularly enjoy it. NEVER happy with what I've got.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 07:22 AM
1	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it? Many many many many things... I can tell if someone is fucked by one glance at them. Relationships based on money and "status" = prostitution. Mention that one because of incels who preach making money as some sort of cure. Yeah you make money and you get live-in hookers like is popular in South America.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 07:17 PM
5	This is the worst time in human history to be dating. I'm ugly, many women are interested but they are also ugly of course. So I just don't take part in dating full stop. I'm close to asexual never watch porn nothing, so I can't even get hard for a girl who is average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 04:31 PM
6	This is the worst time in human history to be dating. It was surprisingly good for it. Not the camps obviously but outside of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 04:30 PM
0	A 4/10 dude asks 100 girls out on a date. Interesting results. Even a 1/10 could date someone in their league. People out here crunching totally depersonalized numbers like...... Lol...... Fuck sake man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 01:13 AM
3	How easy/hard is it for you, in your opinion, to 'get'* casual sex? I'm ugly now so it's not possible. When I was less ugly, I was STILL ugly compared to many guys but it was medium possible. Every Tinder match is both extremely fat and ugly which seems slightly unfair as I'm only chubby and ugly as opposed to morbidly obese... I never used to use Tinder though but I know that rn it's ALL people use because everyone but me is attractive physically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 01:57 PM
1	Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standards NOBODY wants an ugly person.......	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 03:07 AM
39	The argument of "just lower your standards" to undesirable men is misguided since they have no option that is being filtered out by their standards Nobody wants an ugly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 03:06 AM
11	Rebecca Lynn Pope summarizes everything about howMen and women date differently. Men need physical attraction, women need everything they are and more. Men and women want a partner they aren't physically repulsed by, who they grow emotionally close to. It's that basic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 12:37 AM
2	Male entitlement is the sole reason for their widespread loneliness Everyone dude... Since the day you walk into high school and crush on the hot guys and girls like everyone else. No girl is gonna look at me thinking "damn I want some of that" lmfao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 12:10 AM
2	Male entitlement is the sole reason for their widespread loneliness Nobody wants average people either way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 10:33 PM
5	if you're an unattractive man, you shouldn't wonder why an app that lets you choose a partner based almost purely on appearance gets you no success. Only looks matter anyway. I'm a hot guy. I don't get shit from Tinder but in nightclubs I've been with like 100 or more women who even knows. Sad as fuck now though at my age I need to find someone to love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 07:04 AM
1	Progress with Girls is Not Linear. And that’s why so many guys give up before they get good with Women Game does nothing IMO unless I somehow have it without knowing. It's all looks. And the threshold IMO is like 6/10ish until you can hypothetically sleep with anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 01:31 AM
1	Most guys who don't "pump and dump" only don't because they can't without going sexless for long stretches Nah it's juvenile AF... I'm attractive, I've definitely slept with over 50 women from bars and such. Those types of men start seeming sad rather than cool when you hit about uh... 26? I don't have a gf because I'm not relationship potential. I'm too bizarre of a mixture between geek and cool douchebag to mesh with most women in a relationship. And also have shiny object syndrome. But yeah I think it's pretty sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 01:28 AM
1	You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-off Haha yeah right. It's the opposite, that's why MDMA works so shockingly well. If I was out and being offered a million to pull a supermodel, I'm taking MD every time lolz.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 01:22 AM
3	You will creep (some) people out if you cold approach All of those things. I also got fillers and I use botox for forehead lines. I've been on steroids before.	/r/seduction	02/03/21 08:49 PM
1	What are the craziest pulls you guys have had? I either tore her or tore my frenulum. Or both...	/r/seduction	02/03/21 03:14 AM
2	What are the craziest pulls you guys have had? Oh I forgot the best one actually. I did a girl at my mate's house in his dad's bed. Now it was pitch dark. It felt wet on the mattress. I shined my phone screen on my hands and it was heavily marked. Put the lights on and the bed is SOAKEDDDDDDD in blood. SOAKED. Like a fucking LITERAL murder scene. Both me and the girl are SOAKED. It's all over our faces, bodies, EVERYTHING. We left bloodied fingerprints everywhere when we went to clean up in the bathroom and to go downstairs for a glass of wa…	/r/seduction	27/02/21 05:19 PM
4	What are the craziest pulls you guys have had? Uh I did a girl in a swimming pool changing room cubicle thing, then had to jump out the window because the place was crowded. It was ground floor ofc. I've also drunk driven my car to a very nearby car park and used the back seat (it is very literally 30 seconds drive, and nowhere near used roads so it's not AS bad, but still bad lol). Also in a girl's car outside her house. In a park at night. In a park in the morning. One time a girl's friend was angry at her bringing me home, and didn't let …	/r/seduction	27/02/21 05:12 PM
2	Is dread game the only possible way to keep a girl from getting bored ? I've literally never heard of this, I'm friendly to everyone including women when I'm on a night out. I've got w quite a few women so I doubt w.e. this is is necessary.	/r/seduction	27/02/21 05:00 PM
8	You will creep (some) people out if you cold approach Thanks yeah that's accurate I think. If a guy looks attractive I think women feel complimented even if they're not interested IMO. When I put in a lot of effort to look really hot, rejections are like, literally: "sorry I have a bf, you're really good looking though". Or they'll blush/smile/giggle when turning me down. It's possible to say creepy shit or act creepy as well I think.	/r/seduction	27/02/21 04:58 PM
1	Does anyone else hate passing women on sidewalks? It's not that I don't feel like a man, it's that I know I'm being scrutinized and watched heavily. I feel it less in cities and such because it's not like I'm doing a catwalk. Or in bars like, I'm around many people and out specifically to socialize. These situations feel like there's a huge spotlight on me and critics marking my every micro-expression and step.	/r/seduction	27/02/21 04:26 PM
1	Does anyone else hate passing women on sidewalks? Is it actually necessary? I don't wanna embarrass myself acting cuck (like purposefully doing the virgin posture walk), but I legit don't want to have to acknowledge them at all. It's ghey feeling constantly scrutinized when you're just going for a walk or some shit. I'd kinda enjoy being able to temporarily vanish the human race for say 30 minutes per day lol...	/r/seduction	27/02/21 04:04 PM
1	(M16) Self Improvemnt + Need Advice Social skills are acquired only through experience socializing. The more rules etc. you impose the worse it will be. Conversely, the looser and more comfortable you feel in a social situation the better. You shouldn't be thinking about it at all. At your age it is not even an exaggeration or lie that you have plenty of time. Say 6 to 8 years until you wanna probably be getting more into serious relationships. I'm 28 and still just sleep around because I'm not desirable for a relationship, but th…	/r/seduction	27/02/21 12:40 PM
1	Does it matter if the approach is a smooth transition or somewhat blunt Fuck cheesy openers, the only possible difference between that and just a regular opener is that it could actually turn her off if it's weird. Not even joking the best is "hey", "hey how are you?" etc. Literally the first thing that springs to mind which may in some cases be situational, like "omg this queue is taking forever".	/r/seduction	27/02/21 12:19 PM
2	Escalation and Body Language Use instinct. If you're on the autism spectrum that might not be possible and you may need to seek cues. But generally speaking it's very obvious. Like when two characters on a movie pause briefly while looking at each other and you can just feel a kiss is coming. I don't believe you need to actively look for things at all.	/r/seduction	27/02/21 12:16 PM
2	Be real. Does call approach work? Yep for 99% of men/women on any night out ever.	/r/seduction	11/11/20 10:07 AM
1	Does Going To The Gym Actually Help You With Dating? I lift SOLELY for women and it works. Women want men who look attractive. Attractive is slightly different from beautiful. Being jacked is associated with socially popular men and thus attractive. But it does also make you more beautiful too so it's a double whammy. Beautiful AND popular looking is top of the totem pole head-turning. Powerlifting type routines are often cuck and give you wideass hips and such. Really you wanna just bro-mode. Exaggerated tapering is beautiful. Not stupid and bloc…	/r/seduction	11/11/20 09:19 AM
3	How to tell the difference between approach me eye contact and just random eye contact Idgaf about that I just talk. But it's easy to tell, you can even tell the way they start to dance a little stiff where they're not really focusing on dancing enough but are feeling aware of you and self conscious instead. You can see all these tiny things so clear. Haha.	/r/seduction	11/11/20 09:13 AM
5	How would you handle someone ghosting you? I learned after some time that these people are cunts. I've been on a number of dates by now and I learned that disinterested women usually text a thank you for the evening or w.e. else. Maybe say they aren't looking to date anyone. Busy. Etc. Ghosting is what just straight up legit bad people do, so it puts me off of them now. When someone does that I just know they're shit.	/r/seduction	11/11/20 08:59 AM
1	Guys that go to bars alone, have you ever had success? No. I'm not theorizing like the virginal gurus people buy bootcamps from, I'm telling you what's literally accepted irl. It's obviously different if you turn up at like 9 PM. Unless they find you unattractive and say it as a "fck off" type deal. Logically you could easily say they aren't replying as is typical of drunk friends. But think of it as a probable "fck off" but use your social sense.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 03:16 PM
4	Guys that go to bars alone, have you ever had success? Yes... It's still an accepted excuse, the best thing you can say. And it's VERY easy to legitimately lose your friends for real. Go out with a drunk friend, get parted, then text them and see if they actually respond. They almost definitely won't if drunk.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 12:36 AM
2	Guys that go to bars alone, have you ever had success? Anecdotally I find lost friends better than "friend got laid". I guess lost friends makes it seem like you're staying out thinking you're going to find them, while if your friends have left it's more like you're staying out to creep. Both are good but still. The lost friends is the GOAT lol.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 08:13 PM
1	Do you drink when you go out? I agree. The mechanism is similar to GHB and benzos somewhat. On its own I do not find it very effective so YMMV. But in a stack the impact is huge. Also as a warning people should know substances effect people differently. If you're using even phenibut use one pill on an empty stomach at first. I know if I take it on an empty stomach even 750 mg messes me up VERY badly. So does medical doses of pregabalin (Lyrica) which is sometimes prescribed off label for adjunctive anxiety treatment.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 07:33 PM
16	Guys that go to bars alone, have you ever had success? Definitely. Ignore PUA advice, here's the simple excuse: "I lost my friends"... Done. Don't bother getting creative... I've tried saying I'm on a business trip and got bored, or that I was out for a drink with some family and didn't want to go home yet... But nothing beats the "lost friends". Saying you came out alone is PUA advice, some noble statement I guess? But no you will paint a creeper picture of yourself. Even GUYS will find it weird, like "who is this guy? why doesn't he have any frien…	/r/seduction	23/11/19 07:17 PM
3	"You can have my number only as friends" Ignore the comment. And ignore PUA analysis. "Shit testing" lol, no this is normal human behaviour and could happen for an array of reasons. Some girls really don't want to feel sl*tty so pretend to be "oh so totally against" hooking up or whatever. Let them keep their self image, just WhatsApp her and pretend it never happened.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 07:12 PM
4	Tinder Game in Western EU In psychology there is something called the "contrast effect". On Tinder they have an ELO scoring system, which means you see people about the same as you in desirability... Generally speaking... However, because men swipe right at a dramatically higher rate, women's ELO score rises higher than even very attractive men's. This means that when an attractive woman uses Tinder, she sees abnormally physically attractive men and then you. You might look good, but because of the "contrast effect", by …	/r/seduction	23/11/19 07:03 PM
6	For Men Struggling With Approach Anxiety Pornography and no-fap is something discussed often, but which is not very effective for this condition. Approach anxiety can and SHOULD be treated with CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) techniques, with gradual exposure from non-sexual casual flippant encounters to more and more challenging exposures. It's as simple as that. If you have a mental illness such as social anxiety disorder making it worse, you may wish to try medication. I personally lived with social anxiety disorder for 10 years.…	/r/seduction	23/11/19 06:53 PM
2	First night out 0 approaches That is normal. Instead of trying to force yourself to walk up to strangers sober and hit on them, get used to saying things to strangers in general... If you're at the convenience store, maybe add one extra line of dialogue to the cashier, nothing sexually charged, literally just small talk. Even if it's just "hi how are you?" rather than "hi". Build up from there. Ask people on the street for directions, old ladies, whatever. Don't hit on them. Just some casual excuse. The idea is exposure the…	/r/seduction	23/11/19 06:46 PM
2	Do you drink when you go out? Of course I do, building a rapport and enjoying the company of drunk people while sober is very difficult. You will likely find everyone annoying and repetitive. Many sober PUAs prefer daygame, I think this is why... Also keep in mind the girl will feel less rapport with you if you are not engaging in the same activities, as opposed to say, doing shots together. I use a stack though. I will never drink without the addition of caffeine for one thing, to offset the side effects of alcohol. But I a…	/r/seduction	23/11/19 06:34 PM
2	Expert seducers i have a question for you! Also the guys selling books are often completely lame and have zero qualifications in social psychology. They're literally just random people off the street posing as educated experts. David DeAngelo sold millions of dollars worth of his "Double Your Dating" guide. I guess David managed to "double" his dating from one to two women. Hasn't he literally only ever been with two women? Lol. I would never purchase a self-help book from anyone who is not a professional with a degree in the field they …	/r/seduction	23/11/19 06:12 PM
2	cold approach help Follow a CBT style program. CBT is one of the only proven forms of treatment for social anxiety. You do not have social anxiety disorder but the principles are the same. First of all just do random menial tasks, even every day. One extra line of dialogue to a cashier "have a nice day", you're not hitting on them it's just part of therapy. Then stop people in the street and ask for directions to a random place. Make up an address if you want, that's quite funny. Some people actually give me direc…	/r/seduction	22/11/19 06:45 PM
1	Hilarious reaction from this girl when I didn't fall for her shit test. Omfg this is literally a normal human conversation. Lmao.	/r/seduction	22/11/19 06:32 PM
9	Swallow this. Broad statement. You need to know the person to actually propose any kind of answer. I have studied and completed psych, social psych, and a bit of biopsych but quit because it becomes too hard (neuroscience). Physical appearance is actually a very very strong factor. My social psych uni textbook actually says it is THE strongest factor and I can photo that of course. After that is similarity, familiarity, and proximity as I recall. Most desired personality traits are to do with similarity to th…	/r/seduction	22/11/19 06:28 PM