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It’s a problem for women in that the male loneliness epidemic, as it grows larger, will have an antisocial spiraling effect, where more and more men will have severe antisocial disorders/behaviors. Leaving women with fewer and fewer viable partners
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:24 AM
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Are you attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:37 AM
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I am an only child raised by a single dad, my mom was/is a drug addict who walked out on me when I was young and I haven’t even spoken with her in years. I also have never had a girlfriend. +1 for no positive experience with women here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:53 PM
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So many women who have zero actual hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:51 PM
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I’m not sure about that, just look at our media and literature of today. The boss lady/career woman is way more celebrated than the stay at home mom who is tending to the home and caring for the children. (I think this horrible btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:50 PM
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You laid out things that women consider romantic. Pretty much each one of them were things the feminist movement wanted to destroy. 1) care for the home - feminism did not want women to be homemakers. 2) care for the children - feminists did not want women at home caring for the children, they want women at work and enjoying a career. 3) change their bodies and give them children - feminist movement promoted contraception and abortion which does not give men children. 4) give up career - absolut…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:07 PM
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The whole point of the feminist movement was to get rid of all of that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:07 PM
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As a man, a good chunk of that effort has to be put into yourself. You need to get in good shape and get a stable career going for example. If you put 100% of your effort into chasing women while ignoring yourself, expect to struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:52 PM
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They’re only swiping right on Chad, who has four to five side chicks he goes through a month. People are wrong to think women have it good in the dating world right now. The top 5% of men have it on easy mode. Women have it on hard mode. The other 95% of men have it on virtually impossible mode
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:28 PM
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They do, if you’re at least 6ft, have a six pack, and make 100k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:36 PM
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They pretty much don’t exist anymore, but a girl who isn’t completely addicted to social media is the greenest flag ever, at least imo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:33 PM
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Women wanted equality because they thought the lives of men were great. Now they are seeing men did not have it all that great
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:47 AM
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The problem is lonely and broke men are violent men. Women don’t usually get as lonely as men do, and certainly are much less violent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:45 AM
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I mean, it’s clearly an overreaction. But back before social media and dating apps, women couldn’t really meet Chads from across the country or even across whatever state they are in. They were limited to their social circle and family
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:44 AM
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As far as governmental social policy, a good majority of men have little incentive to support them. Why would they care about abortion or birth control when they can’t get laid or a girlfriend anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:02 PM
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Well, if it is any indication, investors are really confident that almost half of women 25-44 will be single by 2030. https://medium.com/hello-love/study-predicts-45-of-women-will-be-single-by-2030-1fbc99bad6a8
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:50 PM
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There’s a lack of social venues period. The third space has been wrecked by the internet. As a man, I had no idea until very recently that Instagram was used for dating, as a girl told me the last two dudes she dated were random guys who DM’d her. Meanwhile, I’ve never had a girl DM me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:36 PM
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Social media has been a disaster. Women get inflated egos from the attention they get on Instagram, and average women end up thinking they deserve an extremely HVM because one slid up in her DMs looking for another side hoe to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:46 PM
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Men look more muscular today mostly because of steroids. Natural weightlifters are very lean and athletic but aren’t usually very “big”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:41 PM
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Being fit also shows certain qualities in a man. Discipline, perseverance, delayed gratification, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:37 PM
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Overwhelming majority of women don’t want feminine men. As a man, our sex drive is so biologically power, everything we do to some degree is powered by our lust for sex. In order to get that, in most cases we have to fill the masculine role (breadwinner, protector, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:12 PM
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I like corn, preferably on the cob
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:06 PM
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Dating apps get the attention, but the biggest detriment to society and especially dating is social media. You are now judged not based on the person you are, but the number of follower you have on Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:50 PM
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You most know some shitty men/couples if that’s your view of how fathers are these days. Most men I know with kids are never free to hangout, because they’re always doing stuff with their children
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:05 AM
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You’re confusing cause and effect on that gender pay stat. Husbands are out earning their wives because that’s what the vast majority of women in the dating market want. Most don’t want anything to do with men making what they make or less
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:18 PM
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Be careful now, you’re victim blaming. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:00 PM
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Settling has taken on a new meaning with the invention of social media and dating apps. You have access to so many people these days that, even though most are not realistic options, you can think you are settling when it actuality that’s the best you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:58 PM
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True. Working out and getting fit is obvious, but even getting a better career and making more money is greatly inspired by the chase of women. A lot of guys would live a very simplistic life otherwise that wouldn’t cost a lot of money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:52 PM
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I’m sure that I’m not the only guy that feels this way, but my dream girl is cute, nice, and has a limited social media presence/social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:34 PM
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Men are willing to lower their standards for sex, women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:16 PM
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If this has been your experience, it sounds like you married a shitty guy. Most guys I know with kids are never available to hang out because they’re always doing something with their children
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:32 PM
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Men have less places to vent than women. To start off with, men typically have fewer friends than women, and on top of that men are seen as pussies if they are complaining about their problems. So venting here anonymously is the solution
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:06 PM
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Yea if he’s Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:03 PM
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Tik tok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:01 PM
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I know one girl, she met a guy through her Instagram DMs. This guy would definitely be considered a Chad. But her insta is pretty much nothing but pictures of her in a bikini. Anyway, they dated for a little bit but broke up after a couple months. Turns out, she was SHOCKED that a guy she didn’t know who slid into her DMs was also doing the same thing with other girls. Now she thinks all men cheat. Because the one Chad she chose out of her hundreds of DMs was cheating. SHOCKINGGGGG
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:47 PM
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Lol as a pretty average guy in his 20s, my parents always ask me to try online dating. They have no idea lmao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:33 PM
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50% isn’t that high. I have no data to back this up so correct me if I’m way off, but I’m assuming the number of men married by 30 as declined significantly the last 40 years
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:27 PM
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Mothers aren’t lying necessarily, but they don’t fully understand how hard their sons will need to work to get the love they want. Rolling out of bed and finding love is a uniquely female experience. Men have to work hard in various aspects of life (finances, strength, etc.) to get that. That’s why it’s really important that boys have a strong father figure in the household growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:24 PM
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Lots of men would die young going to battle so it skews the stats a little
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:31 PM
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Young men have a choice and far too many have been exercising it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:20 PM
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Well there is a choice. Have you seen how many young men are committing suicide?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:39 PM
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Yes for the top 10% of guys who have options
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:54 PM
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Obesity is so bad in America, not being fat makes a woman above average, regardless of other features
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:58 AM
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The oldest gen z is what, 25? Priorities change as you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:17 AM
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You can have kids in your 30s/early 40s, but it is no guarantee and significantly harder than in your 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:51 PM
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Well, for an average guy you can either be plan B or get nothing. Sad reality for guys but it’s true. If you’re gonna want to be plan A, you got get in really good shape and make good money
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:40 PM
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Depends how old these average dudes are and how old the women they are targeting are. Average looking 24 year old dude looking for a girl around his age? He’s screwed. Average looking 32 year old dude looking for a girl around his age? He’s got a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:19 PM
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I mean, that’s not that different from the modern American woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:36 AM
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Men want sex regardless if it’s the right person or not. Hence why men want sex more
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:52 PM
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Women are judged just on looks, Men are judged on looks AND success (income). Hence why dating is much harder for men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:58 AM
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If it’s unreasonable for a man to want a traditional woman, then it’s unreasonable for a woman to want a traditional man. Expecting men to open doors for you is unreasonable. Expecting men to pay for dinner is unreasonable. Expecting men to do all the physical and mechanical work around the house is unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:30 AM
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That was normal for thousands and thousands of years
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:16 PM
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What’s wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:06 PM
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Unless it’s because she’s pregnant, I’m ending things. I put a lot of effort to stay in good shape and would expect the same from a romantic partner
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:59 PM
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More like women their age are trying to date their dads
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:11 PM
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No but men definitely start to get more value as they age. Despite what women like to say about age gaps, women look for older men, straight up. I’m only 24, and by far the most interest I get is from girls 18-20
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:04 PM
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Well truthfully, I think we’re in a weird middle place. Lots of women out there don’t want to confirm to their traditional role but want a man who does
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:50 AM
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It’s almost like traditional gender and relationships roles prevented society from being on the brink of collapse! Shocking!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:33 PM
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So 50% of women are trying to take away womens rights? Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:29 PM
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This is 100% correct if you swapped every time you wrote men with women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:07 PM
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I know what you’re saying, but phrasing it like this makes me regret my hookups even more. I know her well enough to penetrate her sexually, but not enough to be an item in public? Man I don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:31 PM
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My goal is getting a six pack, making six figures, and growing a six inch penis. How does that sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:44 PM
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1-3 months sounds very fast for an average guy to find a relationship. I’d say more like 11-13 months unless they just radically drop their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:29 PM
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Are we the same person?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:20 AM
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They aren’t, but all of them knows it exists as an option. Just having the option to download an app and get hundreds of matches in a few minutes drastically skews the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:25 PM
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Ok Chad👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:38 AM
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Maybe I’ve just been in shitty relationships, but I’ve always put in more time, money, and effort than the women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:46 PM
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Nothing is more unattractive in a woman than being overweight. Which you have complete control over
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:37 PM
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All about access to sex and sex drive. Women have unlimited access to sex whether single or not and just have a lower sex drive to begin with. Men have very limited access to sex (that is usually confined to some sort of relationship) while also having a higher desire for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:48 PM
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I live in the south. These women would be considered skinny down here…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:05 PM
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Obesity has killed dating for me. I live in the south, where a non-obese woman is automatically top 10% regardless of any other features
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:18 PM
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And white and make 100k
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:50 PM
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Big if true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:50 PM
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So basically you’re saying there’s no hope?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:47 PM
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Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:22 PM
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Damn dude that’s fucking depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:18 PM
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He’s not really hurting other men chances. Women (especially younger) either sleep with a high value men or nobody. They don’t settle like guys do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:47 AM
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Mad respect to that man because it ain’t easy for an average man to have a true hoe phase. Meanwhile, an average woman can have a hoe phase by just spreading her legs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:55 AM
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If it makes you feel better, ON AVERAGE women have a lower sex drive than men. So they might not care as much that they can have sex whenever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:31 PM
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Because online dating. Rejection is much easier to deal with online than in person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:18 AM
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A lot actually. My mom wasn’t in my life after elementary school, now women aren’t in my life at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:32 PM
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Money has to factor in here somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:44 PM
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Abundance of options. OLD and social media means you can meet new people from the comfort of your bedroom at the click of a button. Whether people actively use it is somewhat irrelevant, as just knowing that option is there gives people more reason to be more demanding from their relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:57 PM
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Being “single” means two incredibly different things for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:31 PM
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38 OR has a kid. Being a single mom drastically reduces options for relationships (can still easily get sex tho)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:56 PM
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Dumped my ass. Never again
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:33 PM
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This typically happens as the women approach 30+. Young women in their early 20s typically don’t do this due to abundance of options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:28 PM
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Because STEM dudes typically make a lot of money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:40 PM
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So what you’re saying is we average to low value men need to come together and form a sexual union?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:50 PM
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You live in a rural area where an elementary school teacher makes 80k? That’s impressive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:18 PM
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They do, but they also (usually) become wealthier. Women are willing to trade looks to an extent for $$$. Men on the other hand usually aren’t willing to make that trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:37 PM
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Nah even above average men (especially younger under 25) struggle. Only Chads are successful
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:01 PM
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Eventually they are, but for the 25 and under crowd this doesn’t really apply
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:40 AM
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Women aren’t staying in relationships because they are attempting to date up. A 5-6 woman trying to date a 8-9 man is commonplace these days. The 8-9 man has no problem fucking the 5-6 woman, but there’s no chance in hell he’s committing to her. The 5-6 woman thinks if she keeps giving him easy pussy he’ll commit, but this almost never happens. Thus you have bitter women who think all guys are bitter assholes who just want sex, without realizing that this only applies to the 8-9 guys they’re cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:37 AM
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Lol most women I know are just as boring. Where the fuck do I find single women in public? There’s not many of them at the bars and clubs I go to. It’s mainly a sausage fest, with the only women being there with their man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:29 AM
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You forgot the most important: make a lot of fucking money
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:21 AM
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Sorry for you dude. Fuck the family court system and their unreasonable bias for women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:52 AM
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Necrophilia
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:32 AM
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Most men would love to be in a relationship, but these are the 80% of men that women ignore. Also, men are becoming more and more resentful that women these days want a finished product. We used to build lives together, but now women demand men have all their shit completely together before entering a relationship with them. (Note that men by and large aren’t like this and would gladly take a woman who is still building herself)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:49 PM
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Maybe you should’ve thought about that when deciding a sex partner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:28 PM
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That all sounds terrible! Maybe you should wait until you’re ready for kids to have sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:48 PM
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As a man in his early 20s, I personally don’t give 2 shits about abortion/contraceptives as they are not part of my life. If women want me to care about that shit, please involve me in the process that makes these necessary. Please go ahead and call me an incel lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:46 PM
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Well my current sexual access is zero and I live in a very pro choice state
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:40 PM
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Dog park
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:36 PM
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What a load of bullshit. Personality is extremely overrated and is more a product of the halo effect. Looks and money attract women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:29 PM
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Nothing too extreme. Just needs to be 6 feet tall, be in good shape, make 6 figures, and a great personality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:21 PM
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Based on obesity rates in America, not being overweight makes a female very desirable regardless of anything else. Especially in the south. Finding a thin woman in the south is no easy task
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:20 PM
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Nah, a 9 or 10 dude is still getting laid on the regular even if he’s totally inept socially
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:36 PM
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You must be Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:35 AM
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Not sure specifically about marriage, but pretty much every study shows women are happier “single” than men. I put single in quotations because the average woman is not single in the same way your average guy is. A 6/10 woman who is “single” is so by choice. She still has numerous dudes in her phone who will come over to her place at a moments notice. And several (not all) of these dudes would probably like to commit to her. A 6/10 man who is single is involuntary single. Nobody is giving him an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:12 AM
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