Well yes, i guess. My confidence werent high then, or now for that matter. Im about 185 cm tall and weigh 57kg. So im not the most attractive guy around. But when she was "bigger" i guess i looked "better" on a relative scale before the lipo.
Rough path behind me, rough path ahead of me. But I'm trying to selfimprove, go to the gym, become more attractive both in looks and personality. But I moved here just knowing her, and don't really have a social circle. I'm trying my best, but it's not easy.
In my case the opposite happened. My wife were a bit overweight, but I never cared about it, I loved her deeply beyond her weight. Then she did a liposuction and cheated on me with a coworker after the surgery. We are talking 1 month tops after.
Seriously though, why cant a woman approach? Besides, from what i've learned or heard, no woman wants to be approached in public by anyone she doesen't know.
Just a curious question: Why are you so extremely picky? So what if someone is insecure about a minor flaw? Why does it matter? If you are extremely shallow like this the only people you will get are other extremely shallow people. I just don't get it.
As a newly divorced man myself i gotta admit hes right. For a long while she said this wasent about someone else, that she diden't even want to meet anyone else. And then she did anyway before we even separated. Behind my back.
