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Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion (it's a novel, not some textbook about pick-up) and Social Heartistry by John Cooper are also great.
/r/seduction28/07/20 11:57 AM
3

And that can also indicate that there's no natural chemistry between you and the girl. So why bother? Maybe you want to have sex with her, but that would be also lame and boring with a girl like that. You don't have to pickup every girl on the planet. Focus on those you actually have some chemistry with.
/r/seduction24/07/20 07:38 PM
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Abundance is a feeling of possibility. You live on a planet with more than 3 billion of women. Isn't that abundance? Yes, they aren't in your life right now but the possibility is undoubtedly there. I don't have any food next to me right now as I sit in the front of my computer - is it scarcity? No, because I have the possibility to order food or go to the nearest grocery store anytime.
/r/seduction24/07/20 09:08 AM
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I agree, not buying a drink for a girl just to look "cool" or "alpha" is the cringiest/autistic PUA thing you can do. Cool guys don't make a big deal out of it. If you meet an interesting guy at a bar and chat for a bit, you offer him a beer (then he most likely pays for the next round) and that's completely fine. Women are the same, not some alien race.
/r/seduction23/07/20 09:19 AM
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We get you live in a shitty place (no offense) but I don't know what kind of piece of advice do you expect besides "move to another country".
/r/seduction19/07/20 01:33 AM
15

What competition? This is not a race. If she has better chemistry with my friend than I, I'm happy for them (he's my friggin' friend, not an enemy to be destroyed :D) and find a girl with whom I can connect better.
/r/seduction08/07/20 07:53 PM
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Thinking about getting laid as "victory", "win" or "success" is also a big part of the problem.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 09:23 PM
22

Yes, it works. I had many "lucky coincidences" in my life when I knew what I want. Like finding the right people or circumstances to achieve them.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 01:18 PM
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I rather order healthy food, so I don't have to spend any time and energy buying the ingredients, preparing the meal, cooking/baking, cleaning up the mess etc.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 12:12 PM
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I'm not muscular (yet) but I'd wear nicely fitting (possibly tailored) slim fit long sleeved shirts with rolled up sleeves.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 09:16 AM
1

But can we become big AND still have abs without taking steroids?
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 01:12 PM
3

Why not go to her place or fuck her in an abandoned, dark park/playground?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 05:20 PM
1

I wonder if anyone was born as a " pathetic, loser, creepy... bitch boy".
/r/seduction17/11/19 07:55 PM
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Then what is it made of?
/r/seduction17/11/19 07:53 PM
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And why not dissolve those dysfunctional behaviors with the help of a professional therapist, instead of learning complex strategies and using weird buzzwords?
/r/seduction17/11/19 05:51 PM
1

You can control your mindset, too. If you don't make your whole life dependent of a woman's reaction, it won't hurt you if she sends you home. Because you have so many other things to do - so, you'll be able to react to her calmly and not "raging inside". The result will be the same but it's much more emotionally healthier because you don't try to mimic the reactions of a cool guy (and manipulate the girl) - you are really that cool guy.
/r/seduction16/11/19 11:38 AM
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You already fall for her "test" when you were "raging internally". Being needy is a mindset, not a specific set of behaviors.
/r/seduction16/11/19 09:21 AM
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If you reach a certain threshold in looks, it won't matter anymore. And that threshold is lower than you'd think most of the time (basically don't be physically repulsive, that's all). Most hot girls had sex with uglier guys than you before.
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:00 PM
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When I read this I automatically think of those "how to be successful" Youtube influencers who make money simply by teaching desperate people superficial "how to be success" secrets (actually stealing those ideas from classic 10$ books like "Think and Grow Rich" and when their viewers are hooked by clever copywriting skills they sell some bullshit overpriced ebook or online course to them). Is it really the example to follow?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 07:24 PM
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Probably most of them are self-loathing needy little boys who only want to fuck "you" (or anything that moves and also has some kind of p*ssy) for other men's validation. That's very enviable, indeed.
/r/seduction27/06/19 04:11 PM
1

If you want to date a transgender, you aren't straight.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 02:15 PM
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He isn't exceptionally good-looking, of course he's attractive and most likely not a needy mommy's boy but if you aren't deformed and have a normal manly attitude you can become more or less the same (maybe you won't dating a world-class model but still can have very cute girls in your life).
/r/seduction20/05/19 10:37 AM
1

To show that a very popular model girl doesn't have some amateur bodybuilder, multimillionaire, obnoxious alpha male boyfriend.
/r/seduction19/05/19 09:24 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-pNcZnuKdDM
/r/seduction26/04/19 11:30 PM
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Maybe she had enough hot guys in the past and already sick of them and looking for someone else. There's some Instagram models who date down to earth, dorky guys - because those girls are also dorks behind their beauty. E.g. I know some big players who had sex with dozens of beautiful women but still have average looking LTRs or wives (but those women have more great qualities inside and can provide their men more than just a nice body to show off with). But that requires some maturity and it's …
/r/seduction25/04/19 11:22 PM
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"keep performing or die sexless" You can have sex whenever you want just not with the top 20% women. It's like earning money for a Ferrari vs. renting it (at least according to the universal social conditioning which overvalues hot women - that thought obviously also puts hot women on the pedestal which doesn't help).
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 01:14 PM
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I love them, but they mostly ignore me (I'm 6'4 and average or shorter-than-average height girls seem to like me).
/r/seduction10/02/19 07:26 AM
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Could you also write about how to even get hot female friends?
/r/seduction08/02/19 12:24 AM
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I wanna learn how to use my great-grandfather's straight razor but I'm scared to death.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 09:57 AM
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RSD Julien's Transformation Mastery
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 02:03 PM
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I experienced they fuck guys from their social circles (who many times aren't even that good-looking, muscular or rich - but at least they're familiar "territory").
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 05:26 PM
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There are many "waves" of PUA. The first one was all about routines, fake DHV stories etc. Then the second one started to mention the importance of looks, personal finance etc., too. Right now, the third one teaches the importance of dealing with past traumas which is maybe the basis of everything (e.g. you can be the biggest, richest motherfucker on the planet but if you have issues with repressed childhood traumas from the past you'll have a hard time reaching your goals and also enjoying them…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 01:09 PM
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You will get used to it and laugh at it. That's an illustration that everyone's having fun except you. Enjoy the party with your friends (and enjoy the fact you're a virgin because you'll have so much new, exciting experiences), don't be scared to make fun out of yourself, it doesn't matter and others won't care anyway (everyone's biggest concern is themselves). How do you approach girls, btw?
/r/seduction02/12/18 11:49 AM
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That's the big paradox of the game: you should care about the girls and simultaneously you shouldn't care. I guess the most important thing is to really feel abundance - you want that particular girl but you still don't need her.
/r/seduction02/12/18 03:16 AM
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Not just because the others have died in battles or diseases? It's hard to believe that nowadays men can't reproduce somehow if they want to. Poor people tend have the most children and they usually don't have money, resources, power or drive to achieve anything, nor do they read 1-2 books per month.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/18 07:04 PM
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Prostitutes are still much cheaper than a gold-digger wife.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 09:57 AM
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I wanted to write the same thing. And being "alpha" (e.g. going for what you want or having abundance) helps you in other areas of your life, too.
/r/seduction23/11/18 02:30 PM
10

Having sex a lot can help.
/r/seduction22/11/18 09:49 PM
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He was the ultimate example for a high value man for decades. :D Feel free to replace him with another, younger guy, e.g. Jason Momoa.
/r/seduction21/11/18 09:54 AM
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OP is (mostly) right: don't forget that she would have time for Brad Pitt even if she's "too busy" at the moment.
/r/seduction21/11/18 12:41 AM
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OP enjoys the ego boost. :P
/r/seduction19/11/18 03:25 PM
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Wanting them is not the same as (desperately) need them. You can want someone while you still don't give away your power.
/r/seduction18/11/18 10:13 AM
6

I agree, mgtow is just another word for "I can't deal with women so I rather quit instead of becoming a valuable alpha man".
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 02:43 PM
1

It's a good thing, more pussy to the ripped redpill guys. :D
/r/TheRedPill10/11/18 04:10 PM
1

Right now I try to minimize giving her validation, especially kissing (Mystery wrote that in nightgame kissing is a tool of comfort building and not of seduction), qualify the girl (I'm not a needy guy who's only interested in her because she's beautiful and showed me some interest before, e.g. kissed me - she should also show me her good inner qualities beside looks), and create a situation where sex is "just happened" and it's "nobody's fault" - but that requires great logistics, too, so it's …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 10:57 PM
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In Hungary it's only 14. :P
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 03:32 PM
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That happened to me several times, too. Maybe the girl wasn't invested enough, you're just a random "make out pal" to her, but since you aren't enough of a challenge (after all she could make you to kiss her easily), she loses her interest quickly. And in the club she's in a certain state of mind (have fun, party, make out with attractive guys, enjoy the moment etc.) but on the next day she doesn't feel any of this. And when you write to her you're just a random guy, and maybe she feels a little…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 03:19 PM
1

I don't want to sound like a DYEL RSD fanboy, but maybe his nonchalant attitude is more important in this case (which can come from lifting, more testosterone and looking better, of course). I mean there are lots of buffed but insecure and needy guys who can't do the same shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 01:17 PM
1

Interesting, I'm 6'4 and I've never had any success with tall girls. But short girls seem to like me much more.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 05:00 PM
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I can't remember an approach which I've regretted later (even if I crashed and burned). But I remember the regrets when I didn't approach.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 04:56 PM
1

I've heard about a forearm exercise where you squeeze a wet towel with your hands. Has someone tried it?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:48 PM
1

But a wide neck can make your shoulders look more narrow.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 01:07 PM
1

What are the main points of you method? What are you doing differently than the other PUA guys, that makes you much more successful in the field?
/r/seduction17/03/18 11:11 PM
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Yes, Integral meditation is easy and can be useful to recognize your mental barriers (like identifying with the ego) and surpass them. I haven't practiced it regularly yet so I can't give personal advice.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 06:53 PM
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"A Brief History of Everything" and "Integral Meditation" are great books that I've read before.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 05:53 PM
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Ken Wilber also has some great books about (among other things) transcending ego (because you can't really "kill" it, it's a vital part of you but you also shouldn't identify with it).
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 05:21 PM
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I say it won't make you happy because you always want more and more. If you reach a goal you're happy for, like a week mostly, then what? It becomes boring and you'll want more. I don't say we shouldn't do anything then, and it can be a big "spiritual" self-sabotaging mindset ("money won't make me happy then why even try not to be a penniless loser and get a job promotion/work on my business?"). But be conscious of the fact that external things (like muscles, fame, money, girls, cars etc.) are n…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 06:19 PM
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Reaching goals and self improvement won't make you happier in the long term either. Meet girls because you genuinely enjoy it and it's a form of self-expression. That's why it's called "game". E.g. you wouldn't build a sandcastle if you don't enjoy its process, would you?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 11:14 PM
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Escalate (verbally and, most importantly, by touching).
/r/seduction04/03/18 12:19 PM
6

How to remain non-needy and be "the prize" when obviously you're the one that's chasing her and competing for her? Would you still do push-pull and other techniques when you're following this method?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 05:25 PM
1

Mental institutes are full of people who think very confidently that they're Napoleon. But they still aren't and nobody treats them like they were him.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 05:09 PM
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"The problem with PUA is that the mission is not yourself, the mission is women. Self improvement, lifting, etc. has no place in PUA. PUA still puts the women on the pedestal." You misunderstand the real purpose of PUA. It's a way to mastery and self-improvement through meeting women. But meeting and picking up women is only a tool and/or side effect not the end goal itself. "PUA is toxic because it allows men to tell themselves "There is nothing wrong with me, I am fine as I am, I don't have to…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 03:06 PM
1

There's no such thing that a "worst" guy, everyone can be exceptionally good at something, pretty good at something, average at something and sucks shit at something. Maybe the guy with no arms and legs obviously can't be an elite bodybuilder but he can be elite in another areas.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 08:37 PM
1

Yes, most likely you won't be Arnold. But with hard work you can be better than 80%+ guys who maybe have more potential than you but they're lazy.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 07:30 PM
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You can always find a job as a pizza delivery guy, McDonald's employee, cleaner, etc., if everything goes absolutely wrong. It maybe sucks but you will not starve to death, become homeless or something like that. Short, but very interesting and thought-provoking article, thanks for submitting!
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 09:07 PM
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She's around miilionaires because of her job, it's self-evident that she will choose a guy with similar job, lifestyle and overall background. BTW she's not that hot, maybe a 5 or 6 by appearance. http://i.huffpost.com/gen/1077916/images/o-EMILIA-CLARKE-NO-MAKEUP-facebook.jpg
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 10:59 AM
2

Thanks, that sounds reasonable.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 04:13 PM
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How to wake up so early if you go out at weekends?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 11:52 AM
1

Good looking guy with good enough results will probably never admit to himself that he sucks (compared to a skilled PUA's results) and needs to learn game. His ego won't let him to do it.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 02:23 PM
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I'm 6'3 and 185 lbs (skinny but not skeleton-like, still want to become at least 205 lbs though) and have a symmetrical face (considered good-looking by many). I see shorter, skinnier/more fat and uglier guys who can score much more than I, because they have more social skills and aggressiveness in field. Looks matter but not the ultimate answer to everything (online game is an exception, they can only see your photos not your body language, tonality, humor, charisma, vibe etc.)
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 10:52 AM
1

I like boxing but I'm naturally skinny and can't gain weight easily. Doing cardio (like boxing) isn't really beneficial to me if I want to be bigger.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 09:01 PM
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"I can't afford to screw up with this new girl" That's a bigger problem here. The shivering will go away, but you can reframe it by saying in a matter of fact tone that you're excited and in this case sometimes this thing happens. It's not a big deal, if maybe someone doesn't like this about you, that's her problem.
/r/seduction18/04/17 07:45 PM
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When I started to game more seriously than earlier, it was maybe 3 months (I was in the game before since years but mainly as a "keyboard jockey" - I mean I still went out to field and occasionally get a makeout but I didn't tell the girls clearly what I want from them, which is a key). I had some makeouts and many missed opportunities before (almost gave it up as I had some dark thoughts about rather paying for sex), but I kept going and finally achieved it (and I was a virgin btw - closer to 3…
/r/seduction10/04/17 03:53 PM
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Who cares? If you do it properly, they probably will like it. If not, it's not the end of the world. You can't be liked by everyone.
/r/seduction03/04/17 10:23 PM
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Inner game: Silva method - it's basically about visualization and "law of attraction", it helped me to surpass some of my inner hurdles
/r/seduction03/04/17 10:19 PM
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Sometimes you have to be careful with the bruises, because they have boyfriends. Discretion is alpha.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 09:49 PM
1

I had similar experiences this year, I also lost my virginity in a one night stand (I was 29 so it was a big relief for me :D) and discover that sex isn't some great, rare, mystical thing that changes your whole life and solve all your problems.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 12:17 PM
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Working on yourself should be a reward by itself. Becoming a confident badass with great lifestyle and social skills is great, even if there still won't be any women around.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 09:19 PM
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Yes, but still a little bit confusing that on the other hand girls don't necessarily have to be top 20% in fitness to be really desirable to most guys. But I guess that's just the way it is.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 09:05 AM
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Fuck, I don't have eyebrows (at least they are very thin and light colored).
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 11:43 AM
1

That's cool, but I don't think most girls really care about your bench press or deadlift level that much.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 09:54 AM
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