MrSelfImprovement Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	What’s a good book that will help with learning playful banter Watch complications of Craig Ferguson interviewing his female guests. There are some great examples of charm, flirting, teasing, playfulness, etc. It's great source material.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 03:33 PM
1	Has anyone here read the book "models?" Start with the sidebar. If you're new to reddit, it's all that text and links on the right side of the page. Start with "NEW HERE". I also recommend you read up on "inner game". This is extremely important for people who start out. I'm by no means an expert but PM me if you have any questions.	/r/seduction	06/05/15 10:06 PM
2	Has anyone here read the book "models?" Get out of your comfort zone. It'll help you accomplish great things.	/r/seduction	06/05/15 04:38 PM
21	Inexperienced hook-up-er The more sex you have, the less your first time matters. But if it really means that much to you, use your new skills to try to find a girlfriend instead of random hookups. If you want my opinion, just get it over with. There are so many potential memories you could be losing by saving yourself for something "special".	/r/seduction	02/05/15 04:01 AM
1	How does a person not become so attached? If you don't want anything serious with one specific female, remember there is always going to be someone better than her.	/r/seduction	01/05/15 04:20 PM
3	As a new user i already want to say thank you! Remember what I said about starting off innocent and stepping it up? That's what escalating is. I didn't just sit in front of her and grab her leg. We had been talking (and drinking) for a good while and I had been escalating throughout. Little by little, you get more "invasive" and if she's receptive or, at the very least, isn't "creeped" out, then you know she's comfortable with you. IOI - indicator of interest. Kino - physical touch. When you get to a computer, go to fucking town on that side…	/r/seduction	01/05/15 03:33 PM
3	As a new user i already want to say thank you! There are some proactive methods that you can do that can garner a response that can gauge her interest. One is through kino escalation. Start off light and innocent like high fives or playfully hitting her while laughing/making a comment about her or even "accidentally" grazing her while talking with your hands. As long as she doesn't respond negatively, step it up. It becomes a game of seeing how much you can get away with. When I first met my ex, we were sitting on bar stools facing each othe…	/r/seduction	01/05/15 02:28 PM
1	Well, here goes nothing. I always live by the idea "Don't tell her you like her, show her." Flirt with her. Prolonged eye contact and smiles while talking. Establish physical contact and escalate from there. Eventually culminating into holding her hand or kissing her (depending on how far you kids are willing to go).	/r/seduction	28/04/15 08:30 PM
2	My hookup game is weak. I've taken the first steps and have a few dates with some girls. I need advice from you experienced redditors. Look up the DiCarlo Escalation Method. It sounds exactly like what you're looking for.	/r/seduction	23/04/15 05:57 PM
2	How do I approach a girl? Short answer: Next time she's alone, try to make eye contact with her. Once you do that, smile. If she smiles back, walk up to her and start a conversation. Long answer: Don't get too hung up on just one girl. I'm sure there are plenty of girls you find attractive at your school and even outside of your school. No one girl is special until you've established something special with her. This subreddit isn't about helping you get THE girl. It's about making yourself so desirable that girls will be…	/r/seduction	17/04/15 05:33 PM
5	Dancing This isn't stupid at all. That's how you get better. That's how I learned.	/r/seduction	02/09/12 12:09 AM
1	Kissed a girl twice, don't want to end up in the friendzone. Crash courses are not ideal, sir. No magic bullets to guarantee success. It's all based on trial and error and learning and improving. Judging by this post, you need to vastly improve your inner game which is basically your confidence and self worth. Because from what I'm reading, you don't seem to have very much of either. Which is fine. We've all been there. Everything you need to know about that is in the sidebar. You shouldn't be saying things "I'm afraid I'll appear boring." Stop giving a s…	/r/seduction	31/08/12 03:14 AM
1	How many approaches (roughly) did it take for you to overcome your approach anxiety? It will always be there. You just realize it's no big deal and ignore or power through it. It's like being afraid of roller coasters as a kid. You know you're gonna drop, go really fast, flip upside down and the thought of that just terrifies you. Especially when you climb that hill. Eventually though, you still know what's coming but you're no longer nervous.	/r/seduction	30/08/12 10:58 PM
2	Guys. I fucked up. Well there was an opening and you let it go. Don't feel discouraged. I can guarantee you that almost everyone on this subreddit has had this happened to them multiple times. In sports, you don't dwell on a strikeout or an interception. You take it and move on. You're only 16. Something I didn't realize when I was your age was that I've got dozens of years and thousands of females ahead of me. Opportunities like this are still to come in abundance. Stick with seddit and practice what it preaches …	/r/seduction	30/08/12 10:36 PM
1	Got a number. Called no answer. Now what? Captain Hindsight response but good info for future reference. Try getting her phone and text/call your number. Then save your number on her phone. If you want, you can even write some extra shit like "awesome guy from name of bar" or whatever. Text her later when you're still fresh in her mind. Leaves a lasting impression. In this situation, like stated before, don't wait 3 days. That rule is meant to fake that you've got so much going on in your life that you don't have time to call her. If yo…	/r/seduction	30/08/12 10:03 PM
5	How many 9s or 10s have you gotten? Did you also want to compare dick sizes too? Seriously, this isn't what this subreddit is for. Don't worry about how better or worse everyone else is doing. Take a page out of Terry Crews' book and realize that you just need to be the best person you can possibly be. That is the definition of inner game.	/r/seduction	30/08/12 09:35 PM
2	"Take a hairpin, leave a hairpin" to let girls know it's a one-time thing Great, now I have this "Take a penny, leave a penny. Leave a penny, take a penny" chant stuck in my head and I can't remember for the life of me where it's from. Someone, I want to say a lady, started chanting this over and over and the more and more she did it, the uglier she started to sound. It's from some movie or TV show. If any of you can help me out, I would appreciate it.	/r/seduction	18/04/12 07:36 PM
2	Why YOU need to start salsa dancing. I've been wanting to take salsa lessons for a long time but have been unable to because of a conflicting work schedule. I consider myself to be a great "nightclub" dancer but never really learned those formal dances that involve a partner. Salsa is, by far, at the top of the list solely because of one aspect: DEM HIP GYRATIONS.	/r/seduction	11/04/12 03:52 PM
1	Four years ago I quit drinking alcohol, and I havent had sex since then. advice on meeting and hooking up with girls sober? Upvote for sobriety. 5 years for me and have no real desire for it. I'm still in my beginning stages of pickup so I really have nothing to contribute but I just wanted to give you a pat on the back. It's nice to find other young adults who are sober.	/r/seduction	03/01/12 12:54 PM