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She wants your safety and their danger. She doesn’t care about you, no matter what words come out of her mouth. She severed her emotional connection with you and built one with him before she stepped out. She’s just afraid of losing the safety, money, or provision that you provided. They want their cake and to eat it too.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 02:11 PM
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You should be pushing as the primary caretaker and telling and showing all of that to a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 02:07 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1haqg95/texas_child_support/ I assume Texas works like everywhere else and they say you have this amount of marital assets and that amount of marital debt. Assets minus debt = amount. Amount divided by 2 = your part of the split. If she has $100k of assets, you have $100k of assets, theres 100k left on the home loan, 100k on her student loans, and 500k in equity on the house, everything outside of the home equity cancels out and you split the 500k or…
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 04:33 AM
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That’s fine. She doesn’t have to be willing. If it goes to trial and wastes a judges time, she’ll be giving you a hell of a lot more than that.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 04:14 AM
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Lol. How’s does that work in months with 31 days and 50/50? With an income disparity like that, she should be paying you. Child support or otherwise, unless you never have the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 02:13 AM
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Dude. If she earns 4x more than you, she’d be paying child support, not you. Probably spousal support as well, on top of a 50% split of community assets (anything earned or home appreciation during the marriage).
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/25 08:28 PM
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Only pay what is in the order and not a penny more. If her living situation has changed, get the order changed.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 08:19 PM
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Why are you paying anything without an agreement?
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 08:14 PM
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Mines perjured herself in all her filings so far. It’s all easily proven w bank statements and publicly available information too. We’ll see what becomes of that. Probably nothing.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/25 10:50 PM
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Lol. Mine thought we’d be friends. She honestly thought that everything would be exactly the same, but I’d just live somewhere else. Big family Christmas’ w both sides, I’d help her fix her car, etc. How could I ever be friends with someone who takes away half my time with my kids, everything I’d worked 25 years to build, everything I could have built in the next 20 years, my ability to retire, etc.? We’re not fucking friends. If it weren’t for the kids, she wouldn’t exist to me.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/25 05:42 PM
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Lol. According to the person who’d be ruined by the advice.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/25 12:20 AM
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You sound like the cheater.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 11:44 PM
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Acting in a morally right way isn’t stupid advice. Depending on the state, she may have her income imputed at the level of her previous employment, so it’s irrelevant if she keeps her job or not. The state will pretend she has that job regardless. As far as any social ostracizing that comes of this, those are the consequences of socially unacceptable behavior. Society has decided those behaviors are abhorrent, and you’re judged accordingly. If you don’t want to be judged in that way, don’t act t…
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 06:28 PM
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I’d tell. I’d wanna know if I was being cheated on. Cheating has consequences. FAFO.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 04:50 PM
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“ I don’t want to be selfish” Stop thinking this way. You’re acting sorry for trying to get what you’re owed and what is reasonable. She is not your wife. She is not your lover. She is not your friend. You owe her nothing anymore. You don’t owe her justifications, considerations, or appeasements. This is a business transaction. She is no longer your responsibility, problem, or concern, or you hers. You don’t need to be giving her free advice or aid. You need to document unreasonable requests for…
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 04:49 PM
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I hope you’re taking someone else on this vacation. I wouldn’t be rewarding her cheating with an international trip. I’d be taking it with another woman so she can enjoy the same feelings she gave you.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/25 08:20 PM
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They just don’t get that we don’t need them the way they need us. They NEED to be validated. We don’t. We just need goals. We can be happy alone, content, and at peace. They cannot. You see all these women crying on TikTok or YouTube about how they grenaded their families and regret it, and no one will enter serious relationships with them after that. No shit. You’ve already proven you’ll destroy a long term relationship for little if any reason, why the hell would anyone want to deal with you. …
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/25 02:56 PM
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She sounds fun.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/25 05:47 AM
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That pay sounds like bi-weekly, the rent is monthly.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 03:12 PM
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6 mo shouldn’t have any spousal support. Get out now, not later, or that won’t be the case.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 08:14 PM
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You don’t even have to get married or have kids to get fucked over either. Being in a “marriage like” relationship is enough in some states to land you losing half your assets or paying alimony. Then obviously having kids doesn’t help you avoid destruction.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/24 01:46 PM
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I would apply whatever legal litmus test would be required if their roles were reversed. You shouldn’t be verbally or physically abusive of the other parents, period, and especially so in front of the child. It’s not hard to do. At least it’s not hard for me. It’s considerably more difficult for my ex. He says she assaulted him in front of the kid. You’ve done enough tap dancing through these comments, that’s you may as well be his wife, justifying her actions at every step.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/24 12:35 AM
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The second sentence of the second paragraph. “last night she was physically abusive to me again in front of our kid.” The last sentence of the post. “ I shouldn’t have to be yelled at screamed at called names from physically assaulted in front of my daughter.” She’s also abusive towards their daughter, in the third sentence eof the forth paragraph. “ She does, however look afterour daughter well when she’s not yelling at her.”
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/24 08:14 PM
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You seem to keep missing that part that there is violence in the home.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/24 05:19 PM
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Did you not read the post? He said she physically abuses him in front of the kid and verbally abuses the kid. As well as being hospitalized twice for suicidal ideation. More than that he needs PROOF, something a woman is never asked to provide.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/24 02:49 PM
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You should be calling the cops on her for DV, getting her in the system with paperwork supporting your position, and filing restraining orders before she seriously harms your child or you. Call a lawyer and use the legal system like she would. Get her the hell out of your life before she does something that can’t be undone and you live with the consequences of her actions.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/24 02:40 AM
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He should journal for himself if he doesn’t have others to talk to, and talk to a therapist, “find himself” so to speak, do the things he enjoys or used to enjoy, interact with his peer group, etc. Happiness is sourced from within, not from someone else, including your kids. It sounds counterintuitive, but he has to put himself first, if he can’t be happy with himself, he can’t be happy or useful to or for anyone else. If that means finding new hobbies, so be it. Work out, get back in shape, hit…
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/24 08:09 PM
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Depending on the state, he never has to bend the knee. Just being in a “marital like relationship” or “committed intimate relationship” is enough.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/24 05:45 AM
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“Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. Men are only loved on the condition they provide something.” - Chris Rock
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/24 01:52 AM
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I hope you’ve got this overpayment noted legally somehow. Otherwise it will be considered a $48,000 gift, and you’re just donating money you’ll never recoup or recover. Did she let you keep an additional $48k worth of your retirement or something? I have no idea what your situation is, but I doubt she’s telling them about what you do FOR them.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 01:03 AM
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Nuke her. It’d probably encourage more unhinged behavior, which will also work in your favor. More custody is worth whatever money, more custody + no child support is a no brainer. You’d save the costs in a year. Better yet you can defer the costs off on her and get your own restraining orders based on her unhinged behavior and threats.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/24 12:24 AM
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You haven’t provided a single fact or source for anything you’ve claimed. You have incorrectly asserted about a half a dozen times that abortion is a right though. It is not. It never has been. Precedents haven’t been disregarded, they’ve been proven judicially unsound, and they’d been argued as such by prominent left leaning judges for years. You’re awfully focused on the single state of Florida. Has any state legalized abortion? Fun fact, legalizing something also does not make it a “right”, i…
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 04:36 AM
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Despite if you think it should be a right or not, does not mean everyone else thinks the way you do. States have vastly different populations. People in Alabama have different values and beliefs than people in Massachusetts. They’ll pass the laws they want passed, to represent them. Like I’ve said several times now, the courts don’t make rights. Depending on precedent, and a precedent that numerous justices over decades have pointed out to be judicially fallacious, was a fools errand. If you wan…
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/24 03:39 PM
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Her criticisms were that it was based on physicians rights. And that it was, judicially speaking, a poor decision. It will continue to be decided and available at a state level, depending upon the will of the people in that state. Like most things, the federal government should not be in control of it. The only thing the federal government is supposed to be in charge of, are things the individual states cannot do, like national defense. The courts have never granted rights. They aren’t even the …
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/24 01:02 PM
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To you first part, it’s never been a right. Supreme Court rulings don’t produce rights. RBG also has significant criticisms of Roe as not being centered on a woman’s rights. All of that said, it’s not an issue dear to me, but abortion should be accessible, and I believe it will continue to be at the state level.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 12:55 PM
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She’s worrying about nothing. He was president before and he didn’t do anything about abortion. He’s never expressed any interest in federal abortion bans. She’s being conned by a media whose sole job is to sow discontent and division and is destroying your family in the process. Her being unwilling to be by your side when your parents die, after her child rearing years, is ridiculous. She’s in no danger from any administration, current or future. If she wants to be pissed, she should be pissed …
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 03:42 AM
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lol. You might want to do more digging. This state is known to disfavor them and will refuse to enforce them. Child custody and child support terms in prenups are unenforceable. Property division is often thrown out if the 2 party’s aren’t on equal financial footing to start with. You’re putting your future in the hands of a judge who can basically do whatever hell they want without any consequences. I agree with don’t get married. The prenup likely won’t matter, at least not here. Like I said, …
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 11:39 AM
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Prenups don’t matter. The courts just throw them out. If Elons lawyers couldn’t build him a bulletproof prenup, yours can’t either.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/24 07:41 PM
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Look up Nate Boyer. Crazier shit has happened than what you’re trying to do.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/24 02:07 PM
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Escalate it. Escalate the hell out of it. She’s doesn’t want to go down the path because she’s gonna have to pay. A lot. In spousal support, child support, retirement, buy you out of part of the house etc. She doesn’t want to get treated the way the guy gets treated. Neither do you.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/24 04:16 AM
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Daughters getting married isn’t the problem. If they get a divorce they’ll be taken care of. Sons getting married is the problem. They’re the ones that are going to be destroyed if it doesn’t work out, and statistically, half the time it won’t work out. And every time after that the odds of success drop further. I know I will never marry again. I will never put myself into another situation where I stand to lose so much and gain so little. I can’t afford it, mentally, emotionally, or financially…
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 05:04 PM
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