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| 3 | Do You Guys Take Shots Before a Date?This is called alcoholism. Pretty soon it becomes: “Fuck, I’m about to go into a tough meeting. Better take a shot.” “Man, I have to drive in rush hour traffic? Better take a shot” “Gf’s parents coming over? I need a shot” | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 03:25 PM |
| 10 | Leaving girlfriend for day gameYou shouldn’t be thinking about trying to be with other women until that is in order. Sounds like a train wreck. Also, as an “older guy” on this board, I have to warn you that a majority of people who post here are in their late teens, early 20’s and are barely fit to give advice on relationships, let alone marriage. You should find a divorce lawyer, seek counseling, then come back here. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | When girls call you out on negging. What to say?If it comes across as forced or they’re not into you they’ll call you out for negging. If they’re into you they’ll say stuff like “Omgggg stoppppp haha” | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 11:15 PM |
| 0 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?I know what your logic is: "Black women come from a masculine/testosterone driven culture so because I've hooked up with them I must be an attractive, masculine guy? And because white women come from a less masculine, less forward culture they must be easier to hook up with than black women?" The short answer is No, that's not accurate. The data says something else. Of white women who have a racial preference, "92 percent of white women exclude black men, 77 percent exclude Latinos, and 93 perce… | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 08:21 PM |
| 42 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?Apparently he’s also 5’5 which probably has something to do with it | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 01:11 AM |
| 2 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?Mostly has to do with OP being non-white & short. White women are also least likely to marry & date out of their race: https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2015/06/12/interracial-marriage-who-is-marrying-out/ https://youtu.be/gWD9n1cyeQU https://www.gwern.net/docs/psychology/okcupid/raceandattraction20092014.html https://youtu.be/420LtdfGSt8 | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | girl i’m talking to sent nudes too fast and i don’t know what to thinkThis sub has gone to shit Zoomers actually think “3 weeks & 1 date is moving fast” 😂 | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 03:48 PM |
| 13 | The girl I’m seeing will tell me stuff about her life that bothers me low key.“It bothers me low key” 8 paragraph essay followed by a summary Zoomer vernacular is too funny | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 05:44 PM |
| 112 | This Exercise Makes You IrresistibleTLDR: Hype up your former self | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Girls disappearing after sexI doubt this, she could have crashed at her friend’s place. In all likelihood she wasn’t into OP or just wanted sex. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 12:54 AM |
| 5 | would you rather have sex with one girl for life or will you keep having sex with different girls“When marrying, ask yourself this question: Do you believe that you will be able to converse well with this person into your old age? Everything else in marriage is transitory.” - Friedrich Nietzsche | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:12 AM |
| 21 | I'm 20 years old and I have been with 59 womenI’m 69 years old & I’ve been with 420 women, keep going friends | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Do drunk girls mean what they say?“Strike while the iron is hot” If you seemed on the fence about it she might have felt slutty afterwards the more she thought about what she said. She probably did mean it when she said it but her mood shifted when you didn’t reciprocate | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 09:59 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Personally, I wouldn’t ask it at the last minute as you’re walking up to her door. It’s way less awkward if you bring up hanging out earlier: “What are you up to later? We should watch a movie.” or even better: “We should keep hanging out” | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 08:03 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]“You need plausible deniability if sex wasn’t put on the menu earlier”. This is not entirely true. If you come across like a guy she wants to fuck, it doesn’t matter if you escalate before. She’ll make up an excuse for you to come over. Women always make it easy if they want you. My body count is roughly ~60 now & I don’t really do any kino on dates aside from minor teasing & touching and I’d say my first date lay percentage is around 80%. Guys who blatantly talk about sex or try to be sexual ru… | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 07:58 AM |
| 2 | What are key songs in your sex playlist?Sandstorm - Darude | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 09:47 PM |
| 1 | I've not been on a date in months because my texting game sucks and I blow it with women who show very clear signs of interest. What can I do?Can you post screenshots of specific convos so we can give better criticism? | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 10:56 PM |
| 2 | [FIELD REPORT] Out-gamed a taller guy and got pinned against the wall by a bigger girl #MeToo“I out-gamed a taller guy & I have a prestigious profession” The amount of cope & insecurity lmao, especially the fact that another dude was interacting with you & you went full defense mode tells me you have a scarcity mentality | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 07:49 PM |
| 11 | How do I approach an older women at work?Same as any other woman of any age: You talk to them & ask. Find something mutual you both enjoy & say “We should do X at Y place sometime.” Also just an FYI, 35 year old women don’t look for relationships with 21 year olds lmao. They don’t take you seriously as a partner if they’re 10-15 years older than you. It’s always about sex if she’s much older. My body count is almost 60 & I’m in my late ‘20s. Take it from me, it’s not worth banging chicks at work. Women love to talk & they especially lo… | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Need some tips on how to meet girls in collegeWhat was a typical opener? Direct or indirect? | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 02:12 AM |
| 3 | how to finger🤟 <-This right here ladies & gentlemen | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 09:28 AM |
| 4 | Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps?What’s a typical opener at a grocery store? | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 03:57 AM |
| 10 | Isn't "the game" just a way to manipulate someone?No. I saw Todd talking about something similar. He said being an attractive guy is like being a great steak. The steak will taste good no matter what but pickup is the extra bit of salt you put on top to make it better. You really can’t fake having game. Pickup just guides you along the way. | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 03:55 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]I find that it’s rare to get a solid FWB. One person will almost always fall for the other or just get bored. Also most women (unlike men) aren’t transactional when it comes to sex & they usually want something emotional/fun attached to it. This is usually in the form of a good time or a great date. With the exception of a small few, women feel like sluts when you merely use them for sex. I find this to be even true for women who say they want something casual: they usually expect you to take th… | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 08:58 PM |
| 6 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):100% agree. College guys don’t have much status at all outside college: no job, no money, most are inexperienced with women (outside high status frat guys or athletes), they don’t have real world experience under their belt. I’m in my late 20’s and I date more college women than I did while I was in college. | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 12:25 AM |
| 75 | Had sex with this girl before. Now going to her place to ‘watch a movie’ at 9PM. Do I go empty handed?Way overthinking it. She’s already slept with you so no need to fear being a tryhard/simp. Just throw a condom in your wallet & bring a 6 pack of light beers. Wine might insinuate you want something romantic so id stick to something casual until you get serious. I completely disagree with the guy saying it makes you look like you’re desperate to get laid. Most normal adults who are visiting a friend or going to someone’s house will bring a six pack or wine. It’s just a normal social thing. Hell,… | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 11:58 PM |
| 1 | My dad got full custody in the divorce after my mom falsely accused him of molesting my little sister. Now she waits outside like a creep.Sorry you have to deal with this OP, especially if it’s a parent. If you don’t mind me asking, did your dad ever talk about why they got married? Were they in love at some point? Did her bipolar manifest later in life? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Cheater bride caught by best manThis is fucked up but I’m ultimately glad it happened early on. Imagine wasting 10 to even 20 years before finding out something like this happened. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/02/21 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Is she playing hard to get?She’s not playing hard to get. The fact that she asked “Why?” is a massive red flag. If women are into you, they’ll find ways to escalate with you. Women with boyfriends who are attracted to you will avoid mentioning them. Women play “hard to get” with needy men & use it for validation. She wasn’t into you, & if she was she wouldn’t have questioned giving you her Fb. “I’m new at this. I’ve never dated or talked to a girl.” You should practice having normal conversations with people without any m… | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 12:02 PM |
| 4 | Reminder to take any advice here with a grain of saltThe problem with this sub is that you have naive 18-20 year old guys giving advice like they’ve slept with 200 women when maybe they’ve been with 5 or 6? You also have people with 0 experience asking the wrong questions when most things boil down to having confidence & lack of neediness. | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 05:38 PM |
| 8 | Does anyone else find bars and nightclubs super awkward because nobody seems to go alone.Why? Because when you start focusing on external goals, you become a reactionary pawn to everyone else instead of acting in the moment on your own desires. If you set an agenda, you’ll start focusing on things like “Gee, when is a good time to approach? I wonder if that’s her boyfriend? Will I embarrass myself if I approach her? When should I start negging & kinoing? Damnit, she didn’t go home with me. I failed.” If you’re having fun w/o an agenda, you’ll find yourself approaching women without … | /r/seduction | 07/12/20 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone else find bars and nightclubs super awkward because nobody seems to go alone.Bars are awesome for making friends. When it’s obvious you’re there to have fun & have zero agenda of “picking up chicks”, people will open up to you. I’ve been in bars with the boys & having such a blast that women will approach us. I’ve had a few occasions of girls even straight up asking for my ig or number as they’re leaving the club. Grab a buddy, pregame by drinking & listening to music/playing CoD/whatever puts you in a great mood, head to the bar or club, and then just continue having fu… | /r/seduction | 07/12/20 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel political views are important to seduction?I’m a tall white guy who dresses indie & who works in the media/entertainment industry. I can tell you most people would never guess I vote Republican & I’m Atheist so they always take it for granted I’m Liberal since 99% of the industry thinks & acts the exact same way. Unfortunately, Lefties always assume you’re a foaming at the mouth racist if you’re any more right wing than centrist despite the fact that I have friends of all colors & have dated women of all colors. My best friend is Mexican… | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 12:06 AM |
| 37 | Psychiatrist interviews a guy who spent $8000 on dating coaches“I’ve still been rejected by every woman I’ve ever approached. They won’t even give me a chance.” Oof. $8000 for them to tell you to have fun, be cocky funny, and not give a fuck | /r/seduction | 05/10/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Finally manned upAccording to another comment you’re in an arranged marriage? I don’t think this belongs in r/seduction man. Check out r/relationshipadvice. Calling out a girl for shit in a sarcastic way is okay but blowing up at a woman is a massive sign of insecurity & shows you have little self-control. If you need to tell her something, you have to calmly bring it up, explain what you noticed, how it made you feel, and ask what she thinks about her behavior. Don’t act threatening or ragey. Just discuss it ca… | /r/seduction | 18/09/20 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Is brunch/lunch any good for a first date?Bars are better. There’s something about evening drinks that’s a bit more romantic & says “This is a date. Not platonic.” Lunch is what you get with co-workers or friends you haven’t seen in awhile. Also I’m not sure where you live but it’s been hot as balls out lately | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Cancelled date twice, should I try again?If a woman is interested in you, she’ll make time for you. If she’s not, she’ll make excuses to you. Personally, I don’t like shitting where I eat so I’d suggest moving on from hitting on a girl at work if shes that flaky. | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 7 | How to see if a hookup wants to continue a casual thing?Don’t “just ask”. That’s a bad idea. If you randomly text her a year later and say “Hey! Let’s hook up!” it makes you look thirsty or like you haven’t gotten any in so long that you have to look back on hookups from a year ago. Women aren’t like men, they typically want justifications in their mind to hook up with you. If you go right out and say “Let’s hook up”, there’s a high chance she’ll feel like a slut and say “No” especially since it already didn’t work out & she’s definitely moved on. Yo… | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 3 | I'm afraid she will be disappointed when we finally meet.Women look for congruency in your actions. If you text one way and act a completely different way, it’ll come across as catfishing or untrustworthy. The good news is that you probably are witty with your buddies but get nervous around women. What helped me is listening to standup comedy & improv podcasts. TBH Trying to be funny is a surefire way of not being funny or coming across as too much of an entertainer. It’s way better to come across as chill & flirty. | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Finally got a kiss after 7 yearsOof | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 06:14 PM |
| 15 | RSD deleted all their good content, they block comments, they use bot comments; And now this; how much more embarrasing can this company get?It’s true. In their old stuff they would use a lot of demeaning language and say things that (if taken out of context) would make them look totally insane and asinine. In the last few years, websites have been removing and demonetizing pickup videos. Julien was even banned from speaking in several countries and was in multiple news outlets. Another non RSD pua was arrested and put in prison for years. It’s an obvious business move for them to drop the whole pickup thing for fear of losing the en… | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 01:28 PM |
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