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| – | The idea that a guy is morally obliged to date an old chick just because he’s old is regardedIt's rare, but not unheard of. I had a babyface that made me look like a teenager until I was 32. I look fuckin awesome with a little weathering and a salt and pepper beard at 38. My dating life has exploded in the past few years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 12:05 PM |
| – | The idea that a guy is morally obliged to date an old chick just because he’s old is regardedIt's true good looking older woman can and do date younger, but the whole looking for a mommy thing is significantly overblown. Hot older people can just pull younger people, and sometimes it's just attraction between two normal ass humans. I've been seeing a literal grandma on and off for a couple years, and I just genuinely thought she was in her 30's until she told me her age on our first date. I don't give a shit about her age one way or another, she's beautiful, fit, and fun to be around, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 11:54 AM |
| 4 | What Happens When A Guy Dates Someone 10-20 Years Younger Than HimI've seen jealousy crop up here and there. My girlfriend is quite a bit older than I am, and quite good looking, and some men her age get irrationally angry when they see her with me. It's similar to the reaction some have to interracial couples, the idea being that you're somehow stealing someone from their dating pool. People are weird, and jealousy happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 11:17 AM |
| – | What are the biggest advantages of age gap relationships?Uh, yeah. Everything about age gap relationships are statistical outliers. It's not "normal" for a man my age to be attracted to older women, but I exist. Just like wome that are attracted to older men exist. I never said it was normal, or usual, but we're here and we don't care to be grouped with people that do this shit for money. It's not fun to have the motivations of your relationship incorrectly judged by strangers. I hit the nail on the head in saying that your views say more about you th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:51 PM |
| – | What are the biggest advantages of age gap relationships?The fact that you think women MUST gain financially from a relationship with someone says much more about you than the people in these relationships. I know couples where the younger woman is the breadwinner. Again, you don't know anything about age gaps or what people's motivations are. You just automatically assume the relationship comes down to the worst impulses of either sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:27 PM |
| – | What are the biggest advantages of age gap relationships?From someone inside the age gap community, you're absolutely wrong. That's just the lens you use to view these relationships, and has little bearing on the reality. In your mind, you can't separate age gap relationships and the sugar daddy/baby lifestyle, which are not the same thing. And, no hun, I'm not interested in dating younger, my girlfriend is in her 50's because that's what I'm attracted to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:17 PM |
| – | What are the biggest advantages of age gap relationships?As the younger man in an age gap relationship, it's literally just a normal relationship in almost every way. We have a couple cultural differences, but that's often the case with any other cross cultural relationship like interracial couples, or couples where one of the people involved are from a different country. There are no "advantages", and I just like who I like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:13 PM |
| – | What are the biggest advantages of age gap relationships?What kind of agist bullshit is this? My girlfriend is quite a bit older than me, and money has nothing to do with why I'm attracted to her. Older men and women can be very attractive and most of the people in these type of relationships aren't doing it for the money. Most people in a real age gap relationships look down on the sugar daddy lifestyle and this is just a bad stereotype from people looking to justify their shitty views | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:05 PM |
| 6 | Infantilizing women in age gaps relationships is inherently misogynistic.You realize all these "negatives" about cultural references exist in any cross cultural relationship where one person comes from another country. It's a pretty weak argument, really. People can connect on a deeper level than having watched the same crap on tv. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Men only want casual sexThat's not what I said. Both sides are seeking more than sex, that's what makes it a relationship and not casual sex. If you aren't getting that then you're being used for sex under the guise of a relationship and need to either reevaluate the man you're with, or possibly look at yourself and ask what value am I providing these men to make them want to stay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Men only want casual sexYes. That's how relationships work. Are you just figuring this stuff out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 07:02 AM |
| 4 | Men only want casual sexHe's only interested in sex. You've said it yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Men only want casual sexYes, men typically want something more out of a relationship than sex. If that's the only utility she provides, well, that's probably all men will seek from her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 07:00 AM |
| – | Men only want casual sexI'm sorry the men in your life have only valued you for one thing. I know the day I meet a woman whether she goes into the box of relationship potential, casual sex potential, or just friends. I don't know enough about the way you've treated men in the past, but I'm not really all that surprised with your jaded outlook that you quickly get weeded out as a potential partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 06:52 AM |
| 0 | Older Women Who Didn’t Hit The Wall Are The Hardest To GetWell, if I'm living in her house in my later years, I'd prefer the legal protections I'd get by being married. I don't want to get forced out of my home by her adult children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 06:37 AM |
| 4 | Older Women Who Didn’t Hit The Wall Are The Hardest To GetDating got far easier in my 30's, but I had a really bad baby face until I hit 31. After I got my man face, everything got way easier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Older Women Who Didn’t Hit The Wall Are The Hardest To GetSpeak for yourself. I can't have children due to years of steroid abuse, but I still enjoy companionship. My girlfriend's kids are all young adults, and neither one of us wants or is capable of having kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Older Women Who Didn’t Hit The Wall Are The Hardest To GetI date a beautiful older woman and she's actually really understanding of my shit financial situation. She's set financially, so I don't think it's a huge concern for her. I think being a competitive bodybuilder is the big selling point, honestly. I do also treat her like a queen, I expect to be treated like a king in return, though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are often more equal than close age relationsMy point is there are outliers on both sides. Some women will find older men attractive the same as some men find older women attractive. The way you speak as an absolute authority over what women find attractive and why is a little weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are often more equal than close age relationsI am dating a significantly older woman and I'd absolutely marry her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are often more equal than close age relationsThat's a pretty asinine statement. I date a significantly older woman because she's beautiful and fun to be around. I know I'm an outlier among men, but we exist. Surely some women are outliers among their peers and do in fact find older men attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 06:52 PM |
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