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Can you properly filter out information? If so, fearless relentless escalation is a good one for escalation and seduction. I say this because that was written in the early 2000’s when MeToo wasn’t a think so being a creepy wouldn’t get you kicked out of the club. I’d also add the books from Stirling Cooper and Todd V
/r/seduction26/07/26 12:26 AM
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If you roast them back it’s called flirting lol
/r/seduction23/07/26 11:08 PM
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“I wanna get with younger chicks like 18-22 because I never had that and it’s what I’m most attracted to.” Brother, beggars can’t be choosers. Your goal should be first get some action and once you’re competent at it you can aim for girls in their prime. And no it’s not over for you but you gotta stop doing what you’re doing and put yourself out there otherwise eventually a girl will like you but you’re gonna be what she settles for not what she truly finds attractive…
/r/seduction13/07/26 07:46 PM
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Quite simple actually. Remember, you can be anything BUT boring so always make accusation, qualify her, and physically escalate as the date moves on.
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:18 PM
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I’m glad we made your day worse 😎 Don’t forget to find a nice male personal trainer for your wife, she gotta look good for you at all times…
/r/seduction10/07/26 02:12 AM
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I mean man the whole premise of Day Game is to not wait for IOI’s but go after what you want. So just have a solid opener, and a good body language.
/r/seduction10/07/26 01:05 AM
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Black pill is garbage overall, women throughout human history never picked men by looks but by accomplishments, behavior, and competency. I agree that looks matter a lot nowadays but there’s still a lot more to the formula than simply narrowing down to your jawline
/r/seduction07/07/26 05:24 PM
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Same over here brother. I always reread it every 2 years, it’s such a good book with practical lessons
/r/seduction06/07/26 07:41 PM
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Brother, my advice for you is get yourself uncomfortable and go READ ‘No More Mr. Nice Guy’ by Dr. Robert Glover. Those two things alone will make your life change dramatically in the next 3-12 months
/r/seduction02/07/26 06:18 PM
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Just like everything else in life there’s the need of moderation. The idea here is not to think yourself like a King and herself like a peasant but to act like you know better and if you take the lead things will fall into place, and she can have good ideas and tell you them but you don’t wait for them, you will by default take the lead and make decisions. If you’re doing a good job she’ll relax around you because she can trust your decision making and confidence. At least that’s how I approach …
/r/seduction02/07/26 05:47 PM
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Good question bro, I’d say the best advice for me was “there’s no equality in a relationship, act like you’re better than her” That helped me a lot about leading the interaction and keep being the confident guy she has fallen for
/r/seduction01/07/26 06:20 PM
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I’d fuck 4-5s until I can find someone cuter because we as men tend to act better when we’re fucking, post nut clarity makes you act less needy and more attractive
/r/seduction25/06/26 11:46 PM
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It depends on your goal or budget but I’d go for a bar close to your place and then after 2-3 drinks you’ll get back to your place. If you know how to cook you can invite her for a pasta night or something
/r/seduction25/06/26 11:44 PM
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I get what you’re saying but you still need game and knowledge of female nature regardless of your height. Remember Johnny Depp who has been nominated the sexist man alive twice but still had a girl shitting on his bed… Height matters but being tall alone ain’t gonna solve all of your problems, I have a friend who’s 6ft tall and virgin so at the end of the day you gotta bring more to the table
/r/seduction22/06/26 06:39 PM
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Just tell them you have 7 wives but you’re still scouting for talent, they love it lol Most shit tests you pass by agreeing and amplifying!
/r/seduction16/06/26 07:11 PM
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Idk man I didn’t go the daygame route (I do nightgame instead) but I feel like having the ability of stop a woman in the middle of the day is helpful for any shy man out there. Also you don’t have to use daygame as your only source of meeting new girls, there are apps, nightgame, social circles, trips, etc…
/r/seduction15/06/26 06:58 PM
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You’re right bro, that’s what the PUAs did in the 2000’s and that gave them massive success in a short period of time but in today’s day and age we need to also be improving our looks and finances. PURE game alone can get you in her pants but if you want anything long term you need to have the rest of your life figured out or at least appealing to be figured out. Great insight, I’d just add that to the conversation.
/r/seduction11/06/26 11:12 PM
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“So he advised me to fully accept my inexperience, and instead of trying to overplay it, rather to openly talk about it, especially on dates.” With all due respect but for me this is garbage advice. You’re gonna sound more authentic but girls aren’t attracted to inexperienced men in general that’s why they go for older men. I’d say keep working on the man you wanna become, you might not be that confident yet but repetition makes perfect. Also, and most importantly learn how to physically escalat…
/r/seduction09/06/26 10:45 PM
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Honestly bro, if she went over your place or you got invited to go to hers you can assume she wants it and go for the kiss but there’s this one video from Coach Kyle that helped a lot, he talks about not going from 0 to 100 but slowly building your way into kissing her. I recommend you to watch it (How to go in for the first kiss) I think he posted it about 3-4 years ago.
/r/seduction08/06/26 04:29 AM
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Yeah bro, unfortunately we don’t have means to prove their competency in whatever they saying but if you have enough experience you can filter out most of the bad advices. I feel bad for the young ones but with what you just wrote might help them not getting played by pseudo gurus
/r/seduction05/06/26 07:48 PM
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Just escalate bro (aka touch her). Start with high fives, then touch her shoulder, then grab her hand (you can ask what her rings mean as you’re holding her hand). If you have to walk around hold hands with her and once she’s comfortable with your touch just go for a kiss.
/r/seduction29/05/26 08:31 PM
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This sounds fake man I’m sorry, you had coaching, went after feedbacks and even recorded your approaches and still didn’t find where you can improve?! If your story is truly real (which I doubt) go after some real coaching like guys that will have a fucking mic on you and they can hear what you say live and correct you after each approach.
/r/seduction27/05/26 03:31 AM
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“Tells me 70% of what I need to know about you.” Oh no, I’m devastated lmaooo First of all, brother stop using AI to reply my messages be a man and get your point across without a robot. Second, PUA literally paved the way for us today so implying that more PUA tactics are harmful is bullshit. Anyone who’s good at flirting/socializing today has been seeing as a weirdo or a creep before. OP not being calibrated in one interaction won’t kill him.
/r/seduction22/05/26 06:21 AM
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You’re when you say that a confident guy would have walked away as soon as he realizes she ain’t comfortable but the OP isn’t there yet. Going for a close did prevent the “what ifs” and gave him the opportunity to see to the full extent how a bad set looks like. Also, those intrusive thoughts you mention WILL always be there you rather face them and prove you’re not those things or go live the average loser life.
/r/seduction22/05/26 04:20 AM
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Bro stop approaching for a now and go watch some Tom Torrero, Tod V or Coach Kyle. You need the basics first then the courage you have will be more effective once you know how to talk to them
/r/seduction20/05/26 08:02 PM
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Congratz brother, you ahead of a bunch of cowards already. I like that you went for the closing even knowing that outcome, that prevents the “what if” thoughts post interaction because you did everything you could during the set. Keep adjusting the things you see you could do better like approaching with more confidence and eventually things will line up for you.
/r/seduction20/05/26 07:14 PM
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Simple but effective bro, I like it 👏 You gotta give her a plausible deniability and then keep it cool. I usually tell them that I make a very unique cocktail and they have to taste it.
/r/seduction20/05/26 03:12 PM
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For me this is beta mentality but I understand that promiscuity and abundance isn’t for everyone. You should find a gf bro
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:06 AM
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I mean if she’s a virgin or obviously inexperienced sexually you can wait if you want but if she’s a normal girl who’s done sex multiple times you shouldn’t be waiting more than 3 dates to have sex with her
/r/seduction14/05/26 11:02 PM
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That’s what I like to find when I open this subreddit, I love seeing ppl taking actions to change their lives. A more of a night game guy but I heard Tom Torrero was very sharp at Daygame you might want to take a look at his old content. Keep it up bro 🚀
/r/seduction14/05/26 11:00 PM
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Nigga this ain’t math lol It depends on many factors like how attracted she feels about you, how decent you can escalate things, logistics, etc…
/r/seduction06/05/26 07:27 PM
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110% brother, it’s not that they’re untrustworthy at all but the fact that they can easily disattach to pretty much anybody and are super emotional made me very careful when dealing with them
/r/seduction23/04/26 09:13 PM
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It depends bro, I’m having my “hoe phase” in my late 20’s and it’s been fun asf but for majority of men the constant chase and uncertainty of promiscuity isn’t fulfilling. I’d encourage you to have try it and find out what kind of man you are.
/r/seduction13/04/26 08:45 PM
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Unfortunately, majority of the ppl believe in the script given by society. They think a good life and a cute girl will just fall on their lap if they’re good ppl. I’d encourage you to distance yourself from them and go after what you want in life.
/r/seduction17/03/26 05:42 PM
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Am I really reading this bullshit on a SEDUCTION subreddit?! Mods, get this black pilled clown outta here
/r/seduction15/03/26 10:08 PM
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100% brother. Making out should be reserved for the sex location. If you won’t fuck her that night then you shouldn’t be making out like crazy but instead you should tease her and make her want more of you.
/r/seduction10/03/26 11:21 PM
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It seems like she’s either confused or seeing someone else I’d try to see her again but with low expectations
/r/seduction09/03/26 10:06 PM
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I think ppl in the comment section already gave good advice but giving my 2 cents there’s a video of Coach Kyle about how to go for a kiss and not get rejected which would be helpful for you
/r/seduction06/03/26 02:07 AM
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I think ppl in the comment section already gave good advice but giving my 2 cents there’s a video of Coach Kyle about how to go for a kiss and not get rejected which would be helpful for you
/r/seduction06/03/26 02:06 AM
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It depends bro, if it’s something that I can change like personality or mindsets I’m actively working on improving but when it’s something you can’t change like height I’m working on acceptance.
/r/seduction04/03/26 12:09 AM
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I don’t usually recommend coaching (most of them are clowns) but in your case I think getting coached by FitXFearless or coach Kyle doesn’t seem like bad advice
/r/seduction24/02/26 10:26 PM
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Much harder at least in my opinion
/r/seduction24/02/26 09:35 PM
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Well, in my perspective if sex is bad I’m never hearing about that girl ever again (either I’m ghosting her or she’s ghosting me). However, if you guys are willing to give it a second try make sure both of you are PRESENT at the moment and enjoy each other. Too much overthinking ruins sex and I think that was what happened in your situation.
/r/seduction17/02/26 07:31 PM
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I’d say irl is easier because the entry barrier is higher, not every guy has the confidence and the competency to talk to a woman in an attractive way so that limits the amount of competition but on the other hand on dating apps any bum can create a profile and swipe right.
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:07 PM
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He’s gonna delete himself if he does 1000 approaches randomly, first of all he needs to let go of some limiting mindsets he might have
/r/seduction13/02/26 10:59 PM
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Cantada dele vai ser “Hey, Sou Gringo! Eu kiss sua boca agora.” Pior que vai funcionar a rodo kkkkk
/r/seduction13/02/26 12:28 AM
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I guess the marriage folks will provide way better answers but I’d say 1. Don’t think marriage is the finish line, keep getting better as a man; 2. Competition anxiety is key, if she knows that there’s still other women who find you attractive and would love to take her place can be very positive for you; 3. Don’t let your relationship get into the autopilot mode, modern women seem to be easily bored nowadays so make sure to bring some surprises every now and then.
/r/seduction12/02/26 08:09 PM
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Idk much about Instagram but I find way more success on dating apps
/r/seduction09/02/26 07:01 PM
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1 - the best books were written pre-Instagram era 2 - some courses offer a community space where you can connect with ppl with the same mindset 3 - you can have some sort of mentorship Be careful though, a lot of those gurus are CLOWNS they rely on clout or money to pull
/r/seduction05/02/26 08:43 PM
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Welcome back brother, expose yourself to the dating and outdoor world as much as possible, and don’t get frustrated and get back to your ex.
/r/seduction04/02/26 09:31 PM
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Sounds like a magic pill to me but I’ll definitely put into a test. Thank you for the breakdown buddy
/r/seduction30/01/26 04:58 PM
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Getting rejected sucks but it’s part of the journey, I don’t see boxing fighters complaining about getting punched.
/r/seduction30/01/26 12:22 AM
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I have two questions buddy. 1 - how much did you spend? 4 different venues seem a lot to me so I’m genuinely curious if what you’re doing is affordable in the long run. 2 - what was your goal? Smash in the car? Take back her to your place? Just make out? Possibly start dating her?
/r/seduction28/01/26 05:36 PM
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I completely agree with that, I’m just not pro the idea of trying to close 20 girls in the same night lol
/r/seduction28/01/26 05:01 PM
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Unlike daygame when you’re night gaming If you get multiples no’s your status in that place lowers. The venue has memory and ppl don’t wanna associate themselves with a pushy guy. If you wanna approach 20 girls at the same club/bar that has to be done in a very smart way otherwise you’re just speed running rejection
/r/seduction28/01/26 01:45 AM
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This shit probably gonna backfire but make sure you have a good story/adventure before shit hits the fan
/r/seduction25/01/26 03:46 PM
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I kind of disagree with you, I see it this way: in life we come across 3 types of women. Yes Girls - They wanna fuck you for some reason (height, money, ethnicity, etc…) as long as you don’t fuck it up it’s a guaranteed lay No Girls - they’re not gonna fuck you no matter what you do Maybe girls - they’re interested but not completely bought into the idea of having something romantic with you. For me ‘game’ will apply with the Maybe Girls, having the ability to turn interest into sexual desire wi…
/r/seduction24/01/26 03:54 AM
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I don’t know if there’s a right or wrong about this but I use heavy makeout only when logistics are in my favor (car, bathroom, house) if not I’m gonna give her small kisses to tease her to want the whole thing
/r/seduction21/01/26 12:39 AM
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I do two things to not worry about the results 1. Do not associate with whatever happens (if she s*cks your d1ck or slaps you in the face) that doesn’t change who you are. 2. Consistency, I have had bad nights but also good nights so I have to keep going and not let one interaction define my journey.
/r/seduction21/01/26 12:31 AM
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Since you feel like you know what works, feel free to give them more accurate examples
/r/seduction05/12/25 03:27 PM
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1 — Spike emotion, always. ex: “You seem like the type who looks innocent but causes trouble… am I wrong?”. 2 — Make her qualify a little. ex: “You’re pretty, sure… but what makes you actually interesting? 3 — Match her energy (don’t overinvest). The goal is to avoid looking like you’re trying to impress her. You’re responding, not performing. Do not focus too much on the sentences themselves but on the idea/concept behind (not being boring, challenging her, and matching her energy)
/r/seduction05/12/25 04:35 AM
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Well, I'm still working on it but when I text girls I follow 3 principles: 1 - Be her drug dealer not her therapist (no boring texting); 2 - Ask Questions for her to qualify for you; 3 - Don't overinvest in the conversation. I have been finding some success but I see as a numbers game so if I ghost them or they ghost me I see it as part of the process. Hope this helps you.
/r/seduction04/12/25 10:40 PM
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That's game!!! Thank you for being honest and water down your own words to fit an agenda.
/r/seduction04/12/25 08:03 PM
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For me, I’d say when she’s touching you like crazy and she’s open for whatever you say. When this happens I isolate the girl and then boom… you know the rest.
/r/seduction15/06/25 11:53 PM
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It is a big deal not because of the experience itself but because by staying a virgin that shit leaks into other areas of your life. I’ve never met a confidence, social and charismatic virgin for a reason, that only comes with sexual experience unfortunately
/r/seduction30/05/25 03:03 AM
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I think I’m solid on points 1 and 3 but definitely need to put some work on number 2. I’ll be trying this for the next month and I’ll get back to you w the results
/r/seduction30/05/25 02:02 AM
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If she wants you to spend 100-200 bucks upfront without no connection previously established, she’s not for you lol I love when they say they don’t do bar or coffees for first dates, it helps me filtering a lot faster.
/r/seduction24/05/25 09:41 PM
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That’s a very beginner mistake anyone who’s been casually dating knows that a garlic breath on your first date will rarely take things to where you want.
/r/seduction24/05/25 09:39 PM
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Great analogy buddy, that’s why I’m pro the saying “fake it until you make” but you have to make it at the end. First, you borrow the confidence and then you become that guy
/r/seduction09/05/25 01:36 AM
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Oh yeah I called this mental masturbation, you read a lot and since you’re learning something new you think you’re making progress but unfortunately seduction is just like piloting a helicopter you can read as much as you want but you’re only gonna be able to pilot it once you start doing it.
/r/seduction04/02/25 08:55 PM
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I’m applying the 3-seconds rule in my life to solve this problem. At the clubs it helps a lot, After the 2nd approach I don’t feel anxiety anymore then things flow naturally
/r/seduction25/11/24 01:04 AM
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I believe 1 date a month is a good number, less than that could make you a little needy and girls hate that. Remember, this is a numbers game even if you get pickier some girls are gonna still flake or not connect with you on the first date. I think you should keep this same average of 1 a month and keep working on your game
/r/seduction22/11/24 10:36 PM
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It’s never too late buddy, the sooner you acquire the abilities to understand, attract and filter a good woman the better your love life will be. Tips: Focus on understanding the female nature (the reality is ugly but it’s delivering) and don’t get too attached to someone until you’ve learnt everything you need to know.
/r/seduction22/11/24 02:23 AM
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If talking to drunk people at a loud club can I guess anything is possible haha
/r/seduction19/11/24 06:51 PM
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I’d say firstly have a goal in mind either is just to hangout, a kiss or sex. Then be congruent with that goal. For example if your goal is sex it wouldn’t make sense to have lunch with her at 11:30 am, a belly full will rarely leads to sex, you’d rather to go a bar at night. Extra Tips: Try to take her to more than once place for a date (ex: coffee shop then ice cream place) that makes her think that she knows you for longer; don’t look needy; be anything but BORING. Good luck soldier 🫡
/r/seduction19/11/24 06:50 PM
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Honestly, having a goal in mind before going to the date like I want kiss this girl or I want her to come to my place after the date, and then being congruent with that set goal. No more coffee dates instead my dates now are at bar close to my place. Simple but effective
/r/seduction04/11/24 04:23 AM
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Now you’re competing against her daily routine, ex bfs, workmates and everything else. Try to text her something fun but don’t put too much faith in. Remember “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn.”
/r/seduction04/11/24 12:45 AM
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It depends dawg, if you’re at a Latino club invite her to dance with you, dance a little, lock eye contact and then kiss. If it’s a regular club, approach her, start physicality and then go for the kiss. You can stuff like “you have beautiful lips” as you’re staring at her lips or “I’m sure you have the best kiss out of your group of friends”. It might sounds corny but if you say it with confidence it’ll work. At the end of the day it’s about how you say it not what you say it.
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:10 PM
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Dawg it really depends on the situation, if you’re doing day game or night game you gotta be direct with you interest but with workmates or social circle girls I find it best to leaving them guessing if you like them or not.
/r/seduction11/08/24 11:37 PM
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It’s not that seduction isn’t working anymore but social media has completely changed the game and inflated the dating marketplace. It’s sad that we don’t have big personalities on PUA community anymore but it’s hard to sustain a career for 20+ years. It’s normal that many of them will drift into different directions.
/r/seduction29/03/24 02:06 AM
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Don’t be afraid to display your masculine energy Don’t be afraid to escalate physically the interaction If she says yes or no it doesn’t change who you are Looks matter (go get your teeth straight and always have a fresh haircut along with nice clothes) Reputation matters (if you only hang out with losers you’re gonna be perceived as one) I learnt this shit in my 20’s and they have been a game changer for me
/r/seduction06/03/24 07:38 PM
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