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But I don’t enjoy having someone telling me what to do You’re not even ready to date, let alone get married. Leave her, sell all your belongings and live in the wilderness until you discover who the fuck you are.
/r/askMRP29/01/21 03:37 AM
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Social media is to actual social interaction as pornography is to actual sex.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/20 02:05 AM
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I immediately knew who posted this from the title, since I listened to your TRP YT interview. Some really thought-provoking stuff. Everyone should have a listen: https://youtu.be/69fWeG7SDaY
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 02:35 AM
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Watch what he does, not what he says. You can be around someone for a week and get a good idea of their work ethic, discipline, priorities and character without them uttering a single word to you.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/20 05:50 PM
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The objective should be to gain a mastery of the concepts so that you can talk to women and feminists, just using non-autistic language and references. I’ve explained TRP to women so that they understand it. I just never used terms like “AWALT” and “solipsism”, and I never came across as a bitter victim who has PTSD from his previous interactions with women. Ultimately, if you’re living the life, people will come to you, curious and full of questions. This is the way.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 04:28 PM
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Betas should not be dating. I thought everyone had figured that out by now. It should be in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 06:48 PM
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Call a good estate planner. They’re the experts at this shit.
/r/askMRP27/09/20 06:47 PM
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Learn from this experience. If you don’t have your estate planner’s number memorized, you’re not doing it right.
/r/askMRP26/09/20 07:57 PM
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I take a different view than TRP. Is a woman’s love different from a man’s? Well no shit. It’s the feminine love of masculinity. Of course it’s a different type of love than the masculine for the feminine. But when it comes to depth, or power, there’s no match. Women love more deeply. But you have to be a proper, dominant man to experience it. And sustain it.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/20 05:26 AM
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Nice. Frugality is a forgotten virtue in the US.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 04:32 PM
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You will have to make a hell of lot more than 100k to live in a luxury condo in Manhattan. A fuck ton hell of a lot more. Your monthly mortgage would be close to 100k. Did you leave out some zeros? But interesting post.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 03:31 PM
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Just be feminine. That’s really all you need.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/20 03:23 PM
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I know you don’t think you’re breaking the shit/eat rule, but you are. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 02:30 AM
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Because you’re still weak and insecure in some areas. As soon as you read that sentence you knew exactly what they are. Work on those areas. Remember, it’s all a process. There’s no arrival. Proper men never stop improving.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:08 AM
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Betas should avoid relationships. Most of them have already figured this out.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 10:10 PM
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If you haven’t already then speak to a lawyer right now. You need to learn the legal landscape here. You could make a simple mistake somewhere that could have profound consequences and restrict your available options.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/20 08:37 PM
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Great. Another weak man who couldn’t sustain a woman’s attraction. This shit belongs in your diary. If women become less attracted the more they get to know you, you’re gonna have a bad time.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 02:01 PM
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Bro she’s twice as cunning as you. You don’t stand a chance. She will eat you alive. Look around at the #metoo bullshit. A woman can destroy a man’s life far easy than the reverse. Think of a false rape or abuse accusations. You didn’t even know she was loco, and you were right there with her! Think she won’t fool everyone else when she tries to destroy your life and reputation? Using the legal system? You’re in dire danger and don’t even realize it. Get the fuck out before it’s too late.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:27 PM
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You had a mission. You achieved it. Now find a new mission. A longer, more valuable mission, one that will take years to accomplish and level up your life. Multiple long missions. That’s it. Now every moment of every day has meaning, in service to your passions. And lift.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:07 PM
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Word. Godspeed brother.
/r/askMRP01/09/20 05:32 PM
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Finding a new job won’t be hard. You already had multiple feelers out because you were never complacent and always kept your eye out for opportunities to level up. You’ll be able to utilize that professional network you’ve been developing since day one. Must be pretty extensive by now. Right?
/r/askMRP01/09/20 12:19 AM
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Women want to make you their world. You just have to have a world worth inhabiting. It’s not emotional investment I look for. Not interested in bits and pieces of interest. I look for emotional submersion. She’s all in and can’t help herself. Once you’ve gotten used to that dynamic there’s no going back to half-ass bullshit. That said, good post.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/20 04:41 PM
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Nope, TRP is just sexual strategy, full stop. It devolves into the self-help cheese because as it happens, a lot of the guys wanting to get laid need to become actual men first. In a perfect world they’d already be men and we could just exchange sex strats. But here we are.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/20 07:39 PM
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Having to explicitly instill dread is a poor substitute for the natural dread she would experience if she were with a proper man.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 04:48 PM
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He was banging Margot Robbie and other AAA pussy. Seems a fair trade.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:42 AM
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Since she’s a grown adult, she will communicate to me if she’s uncomfortable or if I need to intervene.
/r/askMRP12/07/20 01:57 PM
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Find and join a new social circle. That will lead to another. Sounds like your life and health shit is on point. Now throw in some personality and a little game and you should do well. Or are you more of a solo player? If so, all the more reason to improve your social game. Good luck.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:08 PM
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If you have to think about holding frame, you’ve already lost it.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:38 PM
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Sure, in the grand scheme of things, women can further the species. But here in real life, if you’re disposable then you’re just a no-value loser. Trying to pervert this concept to somehow explain one’s pathetic life is incel territory. I’d also like to see someone marry this idea with the fact that men are naturally the providers. One cannot be an indispensable provider and disposable at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 08:29 PM
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Hmmm. You get it. That’s rare here. Post more. I will respectfully add: While a man’s life is by nature solitary, it does not need to be a lonely experience. If a man cannot differentiate the two, he has failed at being a man. And I meant what I said. Post more. TRP is floundering for lack of proper men.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 09:22 AM
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Because it’s easier to read about being a man than it is to actually be a man.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:14 PM
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Eh. He does know why: Did my thing. Lived my life. Hobbies. Education. Career building. Met my wife... She was happy tagging along Fast forward to now... Everything got pushed back or dropped until now I do almost none of those things. He does know what to do, and he knows which direction to go. This is not someone who desperately needs RP, he already has the hard parts figured out. If he rebuilds his life to what it used to be, she will happily follow. Just as she did before he got distracted a…
/r/askMRP26/06/20 07:22 PM
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Nice try. You already know what you need to do. Let me refresh your memory: Did my thing. Lived my life. Hobbies. Education. Career building. You’re here looking for a shortcut. Some easier way of being a man. Some internet tricks or tips to get you there faster. Sorry, brother, but there’s no shortcuts. I don’t blame you for looking for an easy way out, but you’ve no options here except to put the work in. Now kick that lazy attitude out for good and get to it. She wants to make you her world. …
/r/askMRP26/06/20 04:50 PM
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Social media is to actual social contact like pornographic media is to actual sex.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 12:28 AM
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How odd. My experiences are completely different. Women who are with me worship the ground I walk on. I'm their world. Their sun rises and sets with me. They are loyal to a fault. I'm regularly contacted by exes who, even years later, their memories are so exciting that they still want to experience it again. And I'm not special. So let's update your post title so it's a little more accurate: Women besides my mother don't care about me; they only care about what provisions they may procure from …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 02:23 AM
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Do you lift? From your description of your energy levels it doesn’t sound like it. Start working out. You’ll not only sleep better, but you’ll have more energy during the day. Right now your body isn’t strong enough to do what you’re asking of it. Strengthen it.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 07:17 AM
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Excuse me? Did you just say she was checked into a psych ward for fear of her harming herself and the child?? And you’re here asking for advice on how to deal with her? What the fuck is wrong with you?! How is she even able to see the child if not so long ago there was concern she might murder it? Get your fucking head straight. Right now. This is no longer about you and some bitch, this is about your child.
/r/askMRP25/05/20 09:21 AM
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She passes anything of consequence through me. Not expressly for permission, although that's what it is. We do have a strong D/s dynamic in areas, but it's not about that. No trust issues, that's not me. It boils down to simple practicality: I cannot protect her if I do not know where she will be and what she would be exposed to. Not just protect her from physical harm, although obviously that's part of it. I also protect her femininity... her charm, elegance and innocence. I don't want her expo…
/r/RedPillWives16/05/20 04:06 AM
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Adversity. Discipline. Dominance. Ambition. Self-control. Delayed gratification.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 02:51 AM
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Fair points. Know that my comments were not directed at the losers as much as the rest of the sub that tolerates faar too much whiny self-pitying mewlings from weak men anger phasers. Wander through MRP if you really don't understand what I'm talking about. There are more men there, which results in far less bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/20 10:44 PM
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The anger phase isn't about women at all. I'm not going to mince words -- they are angry because they realize they are losers. They are not the men they thought they were, if they ever thought about it at all. And of course they'll blame others for their predicament, like women and Disney and anyone else they can think of, but that's just what losers do. Blame other people. Not taking responsibility for their own mind, body and life is what made them losers in the first place, so it's not terrib…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/20 03:25 PM
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What do you want out of life? You never mentioned that, so I assume you don’t even know. Find a mission and get to it. It will automatically give your life structure. Everything, even the small shit, will have a value assigned to it and will naturally fall into a hierarchy of value based on every individual thing’s relationship to your mission. Right now you’re just treading water with nowhere to go. No goals, no structure, no destination. Your woman wants to make you her world. But your world i…
/r/askMRP20/04/20 11:53 PM
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First, congrats dude. Not bad at all for a first date. You had a plan and you fucking executed it. You weren’t timid and didn’t pussy out at critical junctures. Your future is bright. A lot of these questions you will answer yourself... after a bunch more dates. She probably thinks you’re a little inexperienced. Hopefully it’s the “awkward, but cute, too” variety. Good luck. Go on hundreds of dates.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 09:49 AM
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You sound like a goddamn woman. Pull yourself together, man! How did this happen? You’re too fucking comfortable, that’s what it is. Comfortable and lazy, and getting soft. Know how I know? Because if you are operating near capacity, and all your shit is on point, you simply don’t have time to entertain frivolous nonsense like this. Not only is your attention directed elsewhere, but there’s a waiting list of things you want to do that are just outside your doable range—and they all rate higher t…
/r/askTRP22/02/20 09:56 AM
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Fucking invest. If you don’t know to use money to make money then you do now. Imprint that in your mind. Your relationship with wealth needs to be healthy. (edited to remove BS)
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:48 AM
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The only winning play is to delete the post.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:18 AM
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Only because I’m bored. This is what gave you away: The part of me that wants to go thinks it'll be a hilarious time. I imagine people will try to pigeon-hole me into who they knew I used to be, which I think would be funny to encounter. I imagine some people who used to think they were better than me and make fun of me will act goofy as fuck around me lmao, especially my friends from my low tier social group that I was at the bottom of lmao. I can't wait for the shit-testing from males and fema…
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:13 AM
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You’re not autistic, but read the post you made while pretending to be one of us. Not much to go on, is there? Any advice is just going to be shooting in the dark. If you have a specific question, fire away. But this mournful shit belongs in your journal, not here. Good luck.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 05:30 AM
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I would be a charming motherfucker, same as you. Good luck.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 04:53 AM
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I too want to build long lasting relationships Then you’re on the right track. You’ve got it right: building a friendship takes time and effort. You are not “grand-fathered” into friendships just by being in their social circle. Specifically what you’re looking for are life-long friends. It’s common to have one or two from high school, pick up one or two in college, and after that add one every 7-8 years or so. Those friendships are built on shared experiences. That sounds so dry for what it’s d…
/r/askTRP21/02/20 06:52 PM
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Verily and so forth you are hereby officially granted permission by AskTRP to have sex. This permission is standing, so next time you need permission from AskTRP to have sex, you won’t even have to ask.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 12:07 AM
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What you have barely counts as a job. If you’re pretty sure of your abilities to get another one like it, then shit where you eat all you like. However with your novice social skills you run a higher risk of misreading and offending someone. But at the very least you should be practicing your passive flirting.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 10:05 PM
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The fuck you need a role model for? All they can give you is information, information you can find here. Have the mindset that you are going to be a role model. Then you will attract other leaders, and have the honor of influencing younger men. If you can get your shit together that is.
/r/askMRP19/02/20 07:56 AM
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Yes of course I didn’t mean right immediately after to shower off hit the club. I mean, when you see naked girls on the screen, does your mind at some point during that period think, “We need an actual girl”? Does seeing pictures of naked girls make you want the real thing, and automatically think of ways to get one?
/r/askTRP12/02/20 06:45 PM
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Something else struck me about that whole thing. Doesn’t watching porn increase ones urgency to find a girl? Like, a little “this belongs some place other than my hand” motivation? But I guess if they treat it like an Olympic sport some nuances are lost.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 05:23 PM
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Aw thanks, but the name “NoFap” beat you to it. What they describe is not what a happens to a normal person who doesn’t jerk off for a week. They’re having testosterone peaks, intense experiences and early hard times. That’s nuts! So I’m wondering if there’s some kind of competitive fapping where you compete in leagues and have a Discord to share tips and everything. I just want to know how much one has to jerk off in a week in order to have a religious experience when you stop?
/r/askTRP12/02/20 05:06 PM
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Dude... little weird the way you guys describe the whole thing sounds a lot like getting off smack. I have to ask. For you pro-level onanists, just how often were you practicing your craft? Ballpark figures, no specifics please. What are the key stats to track?
/r/askTRP12/02/20 03:43 PM
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Well then feel free to show yourself out. Whatever the general trends in post quality, this post and this young man is what TRP is all about. Getting laid. Or closer to getting laid, at least. Last night this lad kissed a cute girl, and today he shared his progress. You didn’t even touch a girl last night, and today you’re complaining about someone who did. Maybe your priorities are a little off. Take a break. Go outside for a while. Get an experience instead of reading about them.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 11:42 AM
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Yes, a woman's attraction can grow over time. It's more common that it shrinks over time as unattractive traits are revealed, but the opposite can happen as well.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 07:21 PM
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By doing hood shit. You gotta get rid of that content look that's all over your face. Expose yourself to some real adversity. Fail. Be betrayed. Betray someone. Be a real asshole. Antagonize people. AMOG everyone. Use words with fewer syllables. Never be the first one to smile. Don't try and learn ebonics, too late for that. Fight. Fight a lot. Look for fights. You should be squaring off with someone about once a week, preferably coming to blows, so throw first. I think violence is healthy and f…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 04:37 PM
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Sounds like you need a little more hood in you. You would strengthen all kinds of RP mental muscle there. But as things stand now, what you need to do is stop being a little faggot and make something of your life.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:54 PM
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That’s not something that gets fixed, like we think of it... broken until that hour on that day when it goes from broken to fixed. It’s more like your body. You never see a result in the gym from one day to the next, it happens over time. And whatever gets “fixed” is fixed over time. Your job is to have the discipline to put the work in. The results will take care of themselves. Your mental health works the same way. Keep doing the right things. Focus on your weaknesses. In the gym, do you avoid…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:31 PM
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Congrats on your progress. I just have a small suggestion: get tan. Sure sure, skin cancer and aging and blah blah. All I know is that people almost always look better with a tan, and it just might help a bit with the acne thing. If a full tan would stick out like a sore thumb then just get a mild one. Use it like makeup of a kind, find a good shade that does the most good. Good luck, keep at it!
/r/askTRP08/02/20 12:27 PM
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Okay. I don’t know whether she would fuck up your marriage. But you certainly will. EIGHT fucking years and your shit isn’t even close to being on point. To your question... all else being equal, one essential virtue is productivity. Put another way; she tends towards action, not inaction. She should naturally keep busy with things. Women who do not start failing out their pores. Idle hands and minds and all that. Good luck chief.
/r/askMRP08/02/20 08:35 AM
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You were me. Are me. I'm still not lightning quick on my mental feet, every second I get to think something through yields exponentially more results than the second before... but seconds are a luxury when it's real time. I'm no quicker now, I'm just more seasoned. This is your solution. And it really applies to any interruption that you must deal with, particularly with others present. As soon as the outburst occurs, your mental frame should be: Whatever just happened, it will be handled--BUT I…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 06:30 AM
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Sexual strategy is amoral not because it’s sex and everything goes... it’s amoral because strategy is just words on a screen. Sexual behavior however is squarely in the province of morality, and there is always a cost to losing your integrity.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 01:17 AM
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Surely there are resources that cover all of that. This one seems fine. Don't worry so much about your listening skills, those are fine already. If this is your first foray into the social world, just get comfortable talking. But once you are, remember to pay attention to details. Treat it like an experiment of sorts. Gauge how people react to you. Then, say, change things up a little. Don't shave for a month. Wear different clothes. Are people more attentive when you're in business casual with …
/r/askTRP07/02/20 06:45 PM
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Consider that you might be biting off more than you can chew. if your problem is approaching women, you probably aren't great at approaching people in a social setting, period. So start small. Start talking to strangers on the bus, in line, at the store, everywhere. Do this for weeks, until shooting the shit becomes natural. You don't have to think about it, and you're comfortable talking about yourself. Talk to women too, but don't make it sexual. Completely friendly, no romantic vibes at all. …
/r/askTRP06/02/20 05:17 PM
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No conversation! Jesus, you kids and your feelings. Defuse the situation. Handle her, and handle your shit. Nobody will be the wiser. And nobody said a damn thing. It’s good practice. You’ll need to maneuver around people possessing all kinds of motives in your adult life. It’s called being professional. Leave a spark tho and set a timer for 1 year 11 months. Or, you could try to get her mind off sex by having a conversation... about sex...
/r/askTRP01/02/20 04:23 PM
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This post brought me to tears and I’m not entirely sure why. They were good tears. I can’t relate to really any part of the experiences you shared. But what you have done to come to the place you are now is epic and profound—and I would imagine exceedingly rare. And not “for a woman.” For anyone. The thoughts and feelings you must have experienced as the realizations of what happened gradually dawned on you. To see a good man anew emerge from the ashes of the unfair caricature that imprisoned hi…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 05:46 PM
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Well said, you’ve nailed it exactly. The whole point of the post is to avoid over-thinking (and poor thinking) by focusing on essentials and cutting the frivolous mind (the squishy one) out of the equation as much as possible, and just do. Audentes fortuna iuvat.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/20 05:18 AM
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You'll know it when you see it.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:54 AM
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Trunk of your car. It’s simple, effective, and you usually brought one with you.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 12:19 AM
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You can't go wrong with the "less is more" approach when it comes to men and dancing. Learn a little shoulder roll, on the off-beats. Sway a little. You're keeping busy, you obviously got rhythm, you're cool, and you're not even really dancing, just subtly grooving. Watch a black gospel choir perform a more serious, medium-paced song. Every single person on those risers is in constant motion, but nobody is dancing. Seems to me that about 90% of dancing fails is trying to do too much, and 0% are …
/r/askTRP26/01/20 11:53 PM
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If the date did go well and at the end of the night she was still considering going home with you, then the following bit could've easily had the potential to kill it. "Let's grab an uber to my house... she politely turned me down. I pushed a little harder, and a few more times." Ah, the invite. The moment itself doesn't require a lot from us, but we spent the date up until now preparing for it. My only advice is to remember that she did, too. Because the invite is a well-known moment of a date.…
/r/askTRP26/01/20 03:56 PM
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Refuse it or show disapproval. Civilized people understand that unsolicited gifts aren’t always welcome 100% of the time, even if it’s a useful gift. Similar to how unsolicited advice isn’t welcomed just because it’s good advice. Don’t have a fucking conversation, this is far too minor an issue to warrant spending actual time and energy dealing with it. We should always be teaching our women how to read our cues. They only get better at it over time, and it’s a much better system than “discussin…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 05:22 AM
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You’re her world. She longs to just be in your presence. One form that takes is her curled up on the floor with a blanket and a book, while you work at your desk close by. She will start to lose her mind if she cannot see you for more than a couple weeks or so, slowly consumed by her worst fears—that you’ve left her, or met with some calamity, or are hurt, whatever. She won’t be able to help herself. When seeing you she will get misty eyed if it’s been a couple days, tear-faced if over a week. O…
/r/askTRP20/01/20 08:46 PM
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I don’t know how you left out the most essential quality of a man: He is on a mission. Once that is in place a lot of the other less significant activities will naturally adapt and find spots around the mission. If they are useful enough.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 02:28 PM
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... and credence.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 09:44 PM
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Not to sound trite, but it should boil down to rewarding good behavior with your attention, and withdrawing attention with poor behavior. Not only is this the healthiest response for your own mental health, and the proper response to any behavior, but it’s the best way to influence their behavior. We can’t change people, only influence.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 09:58 PM
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I don’t think it’s your finances. Not saying it’s not a problem, but it’s not the problem. Talking about money is hard because money represents our effort. There’s a reason people with money say to never talk about money. It never ever ends well, period, forever amen. This includes family. She’s been making money, and from what I can tell from your post possesses some amount of class in good times, so my guess is that she’s perfectly aware of the pitfalls of discussing money. Yet she weaponized …
/r/askMRP26/08/19 11:17 PM
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I’ll cut to the chase. Women are naturally monogamous. When she is in thrall to you other men may as well be invisible. Not all women, but pretty much all. The way they love consumes them, they can’t split it between multiple men. Sounds like she’s lost that, yes even if she still throats you. You gotta ask yourself, is that the kind of relationship you want, with a women who isn’t drunk on your existence?
/r/askMRP19/08/19 11:20 PM
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Dread is inherent if one’s shit is on point (all of it) and you still behave like a man around other women. Comfort should be the only knob needing twisting, and lightly at that if she knows how to properly utilize you. Just being in your presence should be comforting.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 01:12 AM
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Submissiveness is only fulfilled when paired with dominance. Dominance begins in one’s own life. Watch what he does, not what he says. Know some red flags. Every guy would love a chef/maid/nympho combo if asked.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 10:13 PM
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She was a nympho the whole time bro, you just didn't want a nympho for the first 1.5 years for some reason. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 09:36 PM
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Sorry to hear it, I stand corrected. The rest is not directed to you personally. In case a good point goes to waste, which the downvotes indicate it did so... it remains true that one need not be a misogynist to strike a woman. This is only worth pointing out in service to a larger truth. Again. Violence is a natural and healthy part of masculinity. Sports are physically violent. Breaking down mountains and stone and re-shaping the face of the earth requires a teeny weeny amount of violence. Eve…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 11:02 AM
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This shit really isn’t that hard. It’s hard work to spend 60+ human years building whatever it is we decided was worth spending a lifetime creating. Of course it fucking is, how could it not be? But women? A fully formed man naturally includes a perfectly formed space for a woman.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 10:22 AM
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Not necessarily misogynistic. Violence is a natural, healthy part of masculinity, applied justly. For example, using violence to protect you. Lashing out in petty frustration is not just. Just a shitty captain from what I see. Sorry I don’t have much advice. He seems fundamentally set in his ways, so aside from making sure you are communicating how you feel, without judgement or accusations (and it sounds like you are), he will either (slowly) begin to change his ways, or you’ll have to continue…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 04:47 AM
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Talking about your self-improvement is a tacit admission of your failures. Show her, don't tell her.
/r/askMRP03/08/19 08:13 PM
1

Normal, healthy men want sex immediately. I'm beginning to suspect you're a girl.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 10:27 PM
8

Man does not understand female sexual strategy. Not newsworthy.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 10:25 PM
4

I took 1.5 years off from lifting I struggle with getting myself to go to sleep
/r/askMRP15/07/19 06:48 PM
1

A hobby should produce something interesting and tangible. Improved hand-eye coordination is neither.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 03:16 AM
10

Probably the best One way is to simply be joyous, appreciative and have a great time. It’s a gift. What do we desire most when giving a gift? That the recipient loves it and appreciates me for giving it. This goes double for men providing for their woman. When there is an event during the trip that you particularly enjoyed, like a concert or visiting a special location, just give him a hug, kiss and “Thank you, my love.” Avoid all conflict. The why and the who and the what of the conflict are al…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 12:57 AM
2

This part stood out to me: I try to explain myself and my motivations so that he can understand me. Could you give a specific example of this with some detail?
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 12:14 AM
-6

Eh. All your points are only true of women who don’t love you. Sure she can fall out of love/attraction, but it’s your responsibility to see that doesn’t happen. If that’s beyond you, then I suppose you can follow the points in the post. E: Silent downvotes? Pathetic. RP exists to help you get your dick wet, not so you can document your failures with more detail.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 09:05 PM
1

Probably the best testament would be for someone to see you two together. Not saying of course to make it about displaying some kind of submissive/dominant interaction. In fact I would shy away from anything like that at all. Simply your grace and charm and his doing his guy thing with the guys, the kind of attention you pay each other as man and woman... just seeing a healthy dynamic will have people asking you questions. You can’t fake that shit, people know when they’re seeing something real.…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/19 12:08 AM
5

She doesn't vent to me, she vents to a girlfriend/family. Now if she's frustrated with a problem and she would like my counsel, that's something else. Or needs actual comfort. But just to express some negative emotions? Nope. I don't want to feel bad for her. And she doesn't want me to. She likes me to think that she can handle her shit.
/r/askMRP23/06/19 10:44 PM
3

After a man commits, what's to stop a woman from leaving the man? For the man, by continuing to be her best option.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 06:09 PM
13

If we are in the same residence she will always wave me off to business in the morning. She would be hurt if she missed me. Small gesture but it touches on a couple virtues that aren't always easy to regularly demonstrate to one's man. I do miss it when she is absent. I cannot think of a better way to transition into battle.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 07:38 AM
1

It's possible to be concerned about an n-count without getting intimidated by the unseen exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 07:54 AM
1

How goes it with the sexy times
/r/askMRP14/06/19 01:41 PM
1

Like how does one even talk to a girl without flirting? How the hell do you forget to flirt! I don't know, man... Some of these FRs follow a similar pattern. Dude talks about plates, his impressive pulling rate, how the only thing more badass than his IDGAF is his frame, and so on... then when he describes his interactions with a girl you realize that he couldn't flirt to save his life, and based on how he described the interaction, is almost certainly autistic. Zero verbal game. This one seems …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 01:29 PM
2

Well there ya go. She's already a rape victim, so might as well get some actual rapes* in. *Not actual rapes
/r/askMRP05/06/19 04:40 PM
1

That's disgusting, stop it. The FUCK makes you think anyone wants to hear play-by-play level details of you fumbling around! This is how you repay my kindness? Her anger is just an emotion. Charged air. Play with it. Flirt with her anger. The angrier she gets, the more you're grinning. Keep it equal parts lust and amusement. Until she begins to relent, then go dark and powerful. Her anger is her anger. Nothing to do with you, so don't involve yourself with it. You're not even curious why she's a…
/r/askMRP05/06/19 04:26 PM
3

I tried to initiate. You fucker, I was eating breakfast when I read that and it killed my appetite. Those four words are some of the saddest I've ever read here. I'm not going harp on it though, not going to ask what "trying to initiate" looks like, not going to ask how it looks different from actually initiating. You should initiate sex the same way you have sex -- with confidence and power and a sense of authority. Have you thought about just grabbing and fucking her? Essentially rape her, but…
/r/askMRP05/06/19 03:44 PM
3

I gotta say you hit all the marks there with near-perfect pitch but I know you’re full of shit, and I mean that kindly. Was it logistics, or abundance? Was it aware-adapt-improve or AWALT on a branch in a unicorn suit? You’re just completely in your head. Anyways, cheers.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 10:36 AM
4

Nothing in your post made any sense for a man to write. Are you a “just enough” man? Just masculine enough to have a polarity. Just dominant enough that you could say you’re dominant. Just ambitious enough so you don’t feel common. Just jealous enough of your own time and focus to fend off average life intrusions. I’ll leave it to you to think that through, but on the relationship tip, this “hovering” of virtues doesn’t give a woman anything to cling to, because dude is essentially reacting to h…
/r/askMRP30/05/19 06:01 AM
11

Let's become aware together, right now. Make me aware of why you didn't fuck the girl. Because assuming things went down how you said, that's a seriously huge malfunction. What scared you off?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 01:08 PM
27

The fuck you going on about? AWALT? Branch swinging?? A one-date Unicorn??? None of that happened. Girl wanted to fuck. You turned her down and instead talked for 2 hours. She went elsewhere. Still not real clear on WHY you turned her down. Sounds like a case of nerves. Not much experience with the close? Don't worry champ it gets easier. But in the meantime for the love of dog delete this post. Come back with something more than regret.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 08:44 AM
1

Ironically, the woman being yelled at had lied about her husband for some manipulative purpose, which is a hell of a thing to do.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 12:39 PM
3

Could a mod clarify if RPW has an "official" position on whether the woman should share her count? All things being equal, and assuming she is in a healthy relationship that's heading towards marriage, etc. I know the arguments, for and against. Does RPW have a default position?
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 03:30 PM
1

First, make a list and determine if your anger is justified in each scenario. As is repeated often here, some of women's poor behavior is due to a lack of leadership by the man. Then there's AWALT, can't get mad over shit on that list. And so on. Then apply stoicism and STFU and avoid DEERing. You'll probably reduce your flashpoints significantly after using these filters.
/r/askMRP13/05/19 09:07 PM
1

Lift. But you didn’t fail because you’re skinny, you failed because you took a simple shit test personally. Shit tests are never personal, girls use them with all guys. Did you catch that? It means that even if you weren’t thin, even if you were jacked, she still would have tested you (and you would likely have failed that, too.) And lift.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 07:54 PM
5

Don’t get distracted. In a sense you want to be outcome independent. You do you, period. While her behavior can be seen as a positive sign that you’re on the right track, it may well have gone the other way. She could have reacted poorly. This reaction wouldn’t mean you’re on the wrong track... any more than her positive reaction means you’re on the right track. That said, nicely done. Hopefully you can give the same testimony in a year from now. That’s the real test.
/r/askMRP09/04/19 08:06 PM
1

Hopefully you'll do better with the finances than you did with the first car. Sounds like the "child" has set a high bar. I think you are misunderstanding the idea behind the "child/responsible teenager" concept. Generally speaking, it's just a coping tool to help maintain the masculine/feminine dynamic when it otherwise doesn't come naturally to you. It's also useful to help put any emotional irrationality from her in context when, again, you are unable to accomplish same with other first princ…
/r/askMRP28/01/19 04:11 AM
4

I don't think you should focus on books so much, not for the job of teaching boys about masculinity. Focus on gifts that will allow them to be masculine, not read about it. At some point soon--if it hasn't already happened--some of those boys' basic character traits will more or less be locked into place. Things like work ethic, tenacity and physicality. So I'm thinking sports, boys/men's clubs, building shit... Things that will that have to get up, leave the house and go do. This is a time for …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/19 07:11 AM
-1

It’s pretty wordy. That’s probably why it’s not better known. It needs to have a little pith. Pith naturally introduces cleverness, which aids its retain.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 11:30 AM
11

Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak men create hard times. Nicely put. It’s like the natural circle of strength or something.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 02:11 AM
10

First, men’s SMV fades as well. Not as pronounced or as quickly but it’s a downward trend. But a healthy LTR requires SMV and RMV. If one is lagging, make damn sure the other is not. Jealously guard your high opinion of him. Always be looking for new reasons to admire and respect him. When men do a cost/benefit analysis of a relationship [ie whether to stray], everything goes on the scale.
/r/RedPillWives22/01/19 07:59 PM
4

Come back and ask us in a year. That’s when it counts.
/r/askMRP13/01/19 10:11 PM
1

TRP is largely comprised of guys learning how to be men. And just as important, how to attract and seduce women. Just being able to have regular sex is a giant leap up, which is why you see it emphasized to a far greater degree than LTRs. But relationship threads are there if you look. (That’s not to imply that LTRs are preferable — many men will be quite content with a steady stream of plates forever amen.)
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/19 09:18 PM
16

Fucking other women will not increase his attraction to you. Lessen it, likely.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 04:19 AM
4

This is complete word salad.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 04:10 AM
2

Indeed. Trump didn’t win the presidency because of his intelligence, or any other discernible functionality. Sheer irrational self-confidence embodied. Psych issues irrelevant in this context.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 05:22 AM
9

Talking about your self-improvement is a tacit acknowledgement of your failures.
/r/askMRP22/12/18 11:19 PM
7

The best way to introduce someone to RP is to live an exemplary life, and then when asked you divulge the bits and pieces they need to hear. Then, see “mentoring.”
/r/askMRP18/12/18 01:27 AM
4

Sounds like your living situation is actually causing more stress than your SO, though he is at the root of both. As a middle ground between the status quo and breaking up, have you considered getting your own place? Don’t entertain any accusations that you’re breaking up, or want to. The reasons you give all have to do with you, not him. You’re not moving out from him, you’re moving from the unhealthy situation. Then you date, just as before, and see if anything changes before your tolerance st…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 01:09 AM
2

I would add, if you structure it all, meaning you agree on ‘minimum’ of contacts, make sure it’s realistic and something you are both 100% comfortable with. Otherwise later if one side wants to do fewer for innocent reasons, it won’t seem like a relationship issue.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 09:09 AM
5

That will be half the equation. The other half is your ability to forgive him. To really forgive which means loss of resentment. And forgive yourself for your mistakes. Good luck. (Not sarcasm.)
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/18 10:00 PM
2

Consider this scenario: it continues for a few more months, when he gets a great job and he seems like the better version of himself. Do you think the respect/love could return?
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/18 08:57 PM
1

Its a generalization. It doesn’t mean that every women is monogamous at all times until then end of time.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 04:12 PM
5

They’ll probably forget soon enough. Twice in last year I’ve commented simply, “Women are naturally monogamous.” -4 and -18.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 08:35 AM
2

I'm going to pull back a little on that claim. I'm thinking now of an associate who gets really enthusiastic about certain things. (He's straight.) In a serious way, not silly or rally-the-troops way. He's a sophisticated man and doesn't seem less so for his chatter. I'm a man of noticeably few words and I dare say his joy can be infectious. He's usually swept up in the narrative, the larger picture, and he always romanticizes it by correlating things to the grand human virtues or some rubbish. …
/r/askMRP08/12/18 05:29 AM
4

These are the girls that you will be fucking. I'm not sure of the wisdom of building up resentment for them before you even meet them.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 05:01 AM
2

What you're missing is that most TRP principles are generalizations, not laws or axioms. So the core principles of TRP will usually be accurate enough, but not always. I didn't read your post closely, but it sounds like you're wondering about your successes since they didn't really match how TRP claims things work. A little charm, charisma or social skill can go a long way -- qualities which you might possess in some small measure but are unaware. Many guys here are zeros on those three counts, …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 04:49 PM
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I'd be concerned if the more she got to know you, the less attracted she became. I've seen that pattern repeated a lot in TRP. I read your post closely, and I have to say, do you think it's possible that this is all in your head? Or mostly? The relationship may have shifted slightly but not in a horrible way. I see a lot of "probably" and "could be" and "seems like". Sounds like you lost your frame when you really didn't need to.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 04:27 PM
18

This sounds a little bit like the dude who starts working out, sees some gains and gets worried that he'll "accidentally" get too swole. :) I can't tell if you're concerned for the future of your own health (ie burnout), or the future of the relationship. If the former, pace yourself. If the latter, I wouldn't worry about it. Women should be in awe of their man. Part of that awe comes naturally from thoroughly fulfilling the masculine role, obviously. Another thing which will inspire awe is livi…
/r/askMRP30/11/18 03:54 PM
4

I don't know. Forcing yourself to think of women's sexual past as some dirty, nasty thing can't be healthy, especially since you're going to put your dick in that. Or maybe you won't, but the point stands. Can't you just imagine she leaves the toilet seat up or is shitty at parallel parking to get her off the pedastal?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/18 08:58 AM
5

Eh. I’m not going to speculate on post-relationship emotions when all bets are off. I dare say it’s also outside the purview of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 04:45 PM
8

Women are fiercely protective of the men they love. Why would anyone expect the same concern for men they do not love?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 03:45 AM
1

This whole thing is so fucked up. The basic allegations against K. are almost undoubtedly true (there was physical contact but it was hardly a rape attempt), but that nor even his excessive drinking in college should be disqualifying. But then he turns around and disqualified himself with his own words, showing himself to be hopelessly partisan, dishonest and not even a particularly clear thinker. He “lost frame” in other words.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 03:31 AM
3

Eh. Sounds like a TRP sentiment. If he’s a normal guy who is into you he will more likely be trying to seduce you than anything else.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/18 01:27 AM
1

Your intentions are not important. Only your frame is important. Almost. Only your actions are important. This is the same in all aspects of life. Talk is cheap.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 04:37 PM
1

Is there still an IRC channel for RPW? That’s kind of a meet-up, without the meeting part.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/18 01:26 AM
4

Tread lightly. E: For one, most men find it a little embarrassing to discuss their own masturbatory habits with a woman who isn't their SO. Or the person they replaced with their hand. Second, care must be taken to treat masturbation itself as a natural, healthy act. Which means you must believe that it is. If not your disapproval will show through. Stay on message. This isn't about disapproval or jerking off it's about your attraction. Here's a thought for a line: I notice you've been having se…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 07:26 PM
7

Correct his behavior? Girl, you’re in the wrong time zone. You just took part in a negotiation. Yes, that. Do you like the terms? Keep in mind that people who have difficulty reading social cues sometimes won’t recognize rejection unless it’s fairly explicit. Nice work, using the date to get a little femininity practice in. It wasn’t too challenging of a situation, but the grace and maturity you did show bodes well for your future, and leads nicely into what looks to be your next lesson — how to…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/18 01:45 AM
4

You might have mentioned you were helpless.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 11:39 AM
5

You’re a generous and brave man, inviting unknowns into your home. Girls have to seriously earn that kind of privilege with me and mine, and only a small percentage ever do.
/r/askMRP01/10/18 11:33 AM
3

You have to use a browser initially to click through a Are You Sure You Want To See Misogyny? verification prompt, after which you can view again on mobile normally (although it took a couple hours). I didn’t try the verification on mobile browser while viewing the desktop version of Reddit but that may work as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 04:00 AM
1

It wasn’t a great effort but I like how they’re thinking.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 10:15 AM
5

Yes, if someone is living by RP principles it should be fairly obvious. Then, you wouldn't need to be told, and they wouldn't have the need to tell you. Plus, some things just aren't discussed much by masculine men, masculinity being one of them. Or he just innocently used it as shorthand to give you an idea of where he stood on the various RP topics without explaining each separately. Just be wary, and good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/18 11:01 PM
2

It feels like the middle ground (in this case 'reality') is missing because it's common for people to mistakenly use generalizations as laws or axioms, forgetting that one cannot ride a generalization all the way to an instantiation. That's assuming people are even aware of the distinction. Combine all that with a general lack of experience and you get comments that sound kinda right and kinda confident but often miss the mark when arbitrarily applied to individuals. I've been mulling this over …
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/18 10:01 PM
1

Not TRP--some members of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 08:04 AM
2

At first glance, the first bit collapses if she banged mediocre men in her youth, not alphas. Then she would possess all three stones to cast the spell or whatever it was.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 07:03 AM
1

I see. Thanks for the warning. So many guys around here are super considerate, always helpfully pointing out all the ways that they have failed I could fail. It's... heartwarming.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 06:32 PM
1

Please tell me you're not making the asinine claim that all marriages fail.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 06:11 PM
4

This, 1,000%. It's the most important thing by far. You see, there will always be some bad feelings, EVEN IF you are on board 100%. Women are naturally monogamous (thank the gods) so a part of you will instinctively be riled up upon seeing another woman with your man. You will feel that pain, period. If you were 100% for the idea you have a chance at dealing with those emotions with clarity. If you went into it begrudgingly those feelings will assault and overcome you and the relationship will n…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 06:03 PM
1

Maybe the "all", but LTRs are not BP. Half of the core LT are in monogamous relationships. They're not for everyone. Your shit has to be on point, and I mean all of it. You can't display a lack of maturity and expect a grown woman to respect you, no matter your frame. And even if you can handle an LTR, there remains the issue of attracting a suitable girl. So the odds are stacked against you. The ability to conduct a successful LTR is a sign of a man in full, not BP.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 05:23 PM
1

I don't know about all that. Men are from all over the map here. I just want to see some pluck, some verve, some of that can-do competitive attitude instead of proactively surrendering to a freakin' ghost in someones head.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 05:07 PM
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1) There is no indication this was anything more than a common breakup. Every word is typical. Watch what she does, not what she says. 2) I gotta say, this whole thread is a little embarrassing to read, like similar ones before it. Why is everyone assuming they will fail to measure up to someone they've never even seen? Why hasn't someone expressed something like "I'd fuck that memory right out her head"?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 02:14 PM
2

Yeah, I got nothing. Would you say you know what your life’s work is? Your mission? Introspecting, everything flows from that. It gives everything else context as to what I should feel about it. It’s relevance. If I began feeling apathetic about my main driver I’m not sure what I’d do. Pick up another I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 11:13 PM
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Not advice per se, but something important to keep in mind about the context here: overall, a man’s career will almost always be more important than his romantic relationships. Not always, but there are good arguments why it should be. That doesn’t excuse being disorganized, of course.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 09:06 PM
2

Sure, I'll go ahead and explain to a sub full of women the intricacies of blossoming into a feminine woman. But I can tell you the desired result: however you are outside the relationship, with him you are feminine. Not just acting feminine, but actually feminine. Is it possible to be non-feminine in life/career (aggressive, combative, etc) and still be feminine in the relationship? Opinions vary, but certainly at a minimum it would require significant emotional maturity and structured thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 08:15 PM
2

On the bright side, women are naturally monogamous, so there’s one for the Pro column.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 08:41 PM
1

Sounds like you have some ways to go yet. There are a lot of things which can explain infidelity long before it becomes an indictment of monogamy.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 04:55 PM
2

Apart from TRP, what has you doubting the efficacy of monogamous relationships?
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 04:05 PM
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You don’t need a man. But if you were the type that did need a man, you would also likely be the type that got the gifts. Those women needed a man because they needed something from their man, and gifts are a part of the man fulfilling those needs. You don’t need a man, so you don’t need anything from the man. Somehow he’s picking up on that general sentiment and acting accordingly, probably mostly subconsciously.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 06:56 AM
2

Seems the principle “men’s attraction is primarily appearance-based” has developed a little over-reach. That’s fine, and expected. Remember, most of these ideas are generalizations, never meant to apply to the entire group in the first place. We lose a little preciseness of speech, but without some simplification discussing these dynamic ideas coherently would be a challenge. I’ll add another exception to the ‘rule’: the higher on the dominance spectrum, the more a man is affected by (and concer…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 06:22 AM
5

Me again. Never, ever ever everevervrevrvvrv say a single negative thing on a first/early date. Never, really, but especially then. Do not agree with someone who makes a negative statement. Do not laugh at a negative joke. 0% negativity. At the core is this: women will not fuck you if you make them feel bad. Ergo, toss all negativity. Ignore, deflect, change the topic, but never even acknowledge it. Simple rule, makes it easier to follow it subconsciously. I’m not saying be positive. She should …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 09:32 PM
2

Ah, so you don’t feel like a sexual being. You are one, so something is blocking it. Fix the areas where you don’t feel sexual. Hope you don’t mind the unsolicited advice. I feel rude saying this shit lol
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 09:14 PM
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I hope you’re practicing outside of actual pickup. Pick a style and practice on strangers. Take humorous. Try different ways to be funny. Maybe you have a good shit-eating grin you can use when needed, or maybe your style is more of a bemused expression. Maybe you’re a story-teller, or maybe you’re more of a clever observations type. If this was a sport your only practice wouldn’t be during league games, right? If nothing else just learn small talk, if that’s a challenge. You should be able to b…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 08:34 PM
178

Jesus Christ if someone as chickenshit as you can do it then anyone can. I mean that in a nice way bro, well done. It only gets easier.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 09:27 PM
2

Eh, you sound fine. I was concerned you were overly sedentary. I've not dealt with apathy, at least in regards to something I should expect to care about. Or perhaps I've felt apathetic for a short period but discipline carried me through until I was back in the sun. What have you tried? What has worked before? Glancing at the literature I see that emotional suppression is mentioned as a possible cause. Sounds more like the effect but okay. Do you think you suppress any kinds of emotions?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 07:32 PM
2

When I was a teenager, do you know what I used to do when I got sick? I would go play tennis. My reasoning was that my body needed to be in high gear to pump out those extra T lymphocytes, so working up a sweat would do the trick. Utterly wrong, but you gotta admire the discipline. (Pro Tip: vomit is corrosive and if left on a tennis court will eat into the surface and discolor it, leaving a puke shadow. With multiple puke shadows you can make simple designs.) Turns out I had the right idea. A h…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 12:15 PM
1

This made for interesting reading, as I happen to know Serena. I’m not going to defend he behavior. I don’t need to, and it certainly wouldn’t be to you. But you should know that you’re wrong about her. She’s very feminine, and actually has some girly girl in her. It’s just that she’s in the body of linebacker. So instead of a girly girl squeaking about something or another that the officials can look concerned about until she gets winded, you have this slab of muscle who could probably kill thr…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 09:58 AM
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You might take another shot at it. I believe you are describing a man with enough of a mastery of communication that he is able to reveal about himself only those things he chooses as “stifling” his emotions, but I don’t think you meant to.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 06:53 AM
2

I was hoping brevity might begat retention. It might yet.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 06:29 AM
2

I don't think it's an emotion, but I've never thought up a list or anything. Closest might be... resolute? Determined? Crave?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 06:23 AM
2

Right on! You really shot off on a tangent topic-wise but I always like to hear about men who are killing it. Keep a firm grip on life's nutsack and godspeed.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 06:05 AM
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I looked it up. You know, I think my mom took a course in this method. Years ago my 15 yo brother did something thoughtless and rude, changed holiday after dinner plans to take off, leaving mom home and alone. Something like that. No ill intent, just wasn't thinking. Mom had been attending Bastyr, a kind of forward thinking school. Clearly she had learned something. She expressed disappointment to my brother when she found out about the changes and desertion but didn't say much and disappeared i…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 05:58 AM
3

The objective isn't to get good at managing one's emotions. The goal is to have an organized mind in sync with a structured life and avoid the mental conflicts that cause the poor reactions (emotions) in the first place. This kind of enlightenment takes some time. Each mental conflict must be reviewed and resolved, hopefully by making adjustments to you or it, but by tossing it aside completely if the two of you can't coexist peacefully. That's the mental piece. On the practical side, life needs…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 05:10 AM
5

Most important is to examine what you are reacting to and make adjustments to your relationship with it. This could include deciding it's not as important to you now, which would result in a weaker emotional response. It could include discovering you were afraid of a specific possibility, causing you to overreact to everything in that entire area out of worry. You could discover you were mistaken about something, or didn't know enough. You could discover that your sense of proportion was out of …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 02:28 AM
2

I added a bit of clarifying language that differentiates between external and internal sources, but I'm not sure we agree on the distinction. In my telling, emotion is generated when one considers any thing of value, be the source internal or external, physical or mental or somewhere in between. Amusement is amusement whether it's a private chuckle miles from the closest human or on-stage in front of miles of faces hanging on your every word.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 01:11 AM
6

No? What about letting out a little excitement, or triumph? Lust might want to stretch its legs, too. You don't want your girl to be so emotional, you say? What about joy, romance, and awe? Emotions don't get no respect, no respect at all.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 11:49 PM
0

I left it to the reader to consider these principles in action and their potential affects. For instance... #2 brings clarity to the admonition about not mixing work and pleasure. If I talk about my personal life at work, not only do people learn some details about me, but if I do not guard my emotions I can leak out a lot of very private info I might not want to--like how well the marriage is going, or how good of a father I think I am. People know to guard their thoughts and actions but someti…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 11:26 PM
2

What a peculiar question. As it happens, apathy doesn't fit into any picture, and it wants to leave any picture it finds itself in. It's a black hole of steadily declining interest in its surroundings. Apathy doesn't give a shit about emotions.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 10:58 PM
4

That's interesting, splitting those up. Could you explain your process there and what it accomplishes?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 10:50 PM
3

Your entire post is a sob story about "that guy" (you) who can't even get a FWB, and how it's going to get even worse. What response were you looking for if not sympathy? A medal?
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 12:49 PM
1

Yes, it does. The kinds of women a man is able to attract does speak to his own value, or quality. If it didn't then you would be equally fine with your friends meeting a date if she were hot, or definitely not.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 12:28 PM
2

No, "we" are not beginning to see any more of this that already existed. "We" have seen long cycles of all kinds of things. Your lack of experience betrays you: all that and far far more has been around forever. Let me guess... you "started to see" these things right about the time you went online and read RP-themed materials. Get outside and clear your head and stop overthinking all of this. Those numbers are not some wand you can wave around to explain your lack of success. Stop looking for sy…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 04:33 AM
3

Well done, best wishes.
/r/RedPillWives08/09/18 01:10 AM
2

That's fair. It's almost in CMV territory too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 06:45 PM
1

They occasionally address the issue. I don't think my blunt version would be appropriate, being directed at men and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 06:42 PM
2

Good idea. It's gotten out of control lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 06:28 PM
1

Actually there's really only one thing that's necessary to have a 'red-pilled lifestyle' relationship, and that is the masculine/feminine, dominant/submissive dynamic with your SO. A career often involves many non-feminine activities, such as arguing, fighting, deception, stubbornness, arrogance, selfishness, sabotage, and so on. These are often virtues in making your way in society and business, but not in a relationship. And even if they do not bleed over into the relationship directly, they c…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 08:35 AM
2

I don't know where you got the idea that men who are capable of obtaining frequent casual sex don't marry, but it's wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/18 09:51 AM
1

You're confused about the nature of RP. RP did not form to get men closer to their evolutionary purpose. RP is not for men to learn about evolution. RP formed to help men get more sex. Evolution is only valuable to RP in that context. But if you're concerned about evolution doing it's thing, don't be. It's still the high value men who are reproducing, and the low value men who are complaining. Same as it ever was.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 11:31 PM
3

I've never thought much about it, but it seems to me that respect can manifest itself as trust. The more respect, the more absolute the trust. Trust in my judgement, abilities and integrity. Others have listed how we treat the people we trust. Respect also looks like lust. And submissiveness. Respect can look like understanding and approval. She admires qualities that she herself holds dear, so respect from her is a tacit acknowledgement of my skills from someone who has earned an opinion. Seeki…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/18 11:57 AM
9

I’m sorry, but how does your inability to sustain normal healthy friendships help me get laid? And as an adult man, if you’re not adding another life-long friend every 10 years or so then you’re doing it wrong. Jesus fucking Christ what has this sub come to. Stop trying to normalize your condition.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 03:44 AM
4

You can help others on their unplugging journey but not if you can only explain the concepts in TRP parlance, terms which were chosen to speak to a specific group of men, not the public at large. When one has more of a mastery of the concepts they can get the same ideas across with words the target can digest, that meet him at his level of understanding and gently nudge him forward.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 02:17 AM
1

It's nice to deepen our understanding of the forces that influence our behaviour, but you missed your stop on this one. In the context of assessing potential mates, there is only one reason for cheating that’s relevant, and it’s the same for both genders: lack of integrity. If one is so inclined they can try and match up the particulars of the incident to the framework you outlined, but it’s not necessary. We already had the data that matters.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/18 08:01 PM
5

What should we do with the dudes who complain, “Where have all the good women gone?”
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 07:24 AM
1

[Slightly off topic] While not quite in the family of things you mentioned, Rollo’s next book is going to be on the subject of religion and RP. He writes to men and while this is RPW it’s worth mentioning. I’m sure there’s a lot there for RP-aware women as well.
/r/RedPillWives19/07/18 07:40 PM
0

Just be aware, young buck - older ladies can sometimes be allowed to flirt with boys like yourself who are obviously too young. So good on you, best of luck, but maybe don’t read too much into this.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 05:36 AM
4

This post is almost appropriate, but it’s not. Take it to amihot or whatever. And you look fine bro, as others mentioned get in the gym, lifting doesn’t just change you from the neck down. But facially you’re handsome. Now gtfo with this shit
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 09:57 PM
-2

The words you're looking for are "self-possessed."
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 02:53 AM
1

Heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 09:07 PM
2

What is this "15%" bullshit? How do you even quantify that? How can you tell if you hit that 15, or if oh shit I'm only at 14! That changes everything! That number will only serve to discourage you. You shouldn't even compare yourselves to other men, at least not in a serious, who's the better man way. You keep your body looking as good as you can, you dress as stylish as you can afford, all your shit is on point and you get out there and fuck the best women you can. You might still end up on PP…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 09:06 PM
2

I think certain men have lost their value. People's standards are higher, women especially. It's no longer enough to be present and have a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:35 PM
0

Why are you comparing yourself to women? You know they are a different sex, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:47 AM
3

Except there are no longer constant external stressors to shape men, at least not in developed countries. And it’s a big problem.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 01:48 AM
1

If one has a mastery of the concepts, then one can talk about it all day, because one would not use TRP/MRP language. One would tailor the language to the audience, so they could understand the concepts in more palatable forms.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/18 07:03 PM
-4

Women are naturally monogamous.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 10:53 PM
-3

Who. Cares. Seriously. It’s not healthy to focus on crap like this. If you are living optimally, and your shit is on point, bullshit stats are irrelevant. And if shit like this actually motivates you more than the desire to live a great life does, you’re really fucked.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 07:28 AM
2

It's also silly, but it makes a hell of a lot more sense to compare oneself to the superior than the reverse.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 03:45 AM
1

Instructive perspective. You have my vote for a post.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/18 09:24 AM
3

Sure, reject it. Then stop thinking about it.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 06:15 AM
1

Be nice if the speakers had links to their work.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/18 06:14 AM
22

Ever meet a girl raised on family farm? Or runs one herself? Sure, your point is valid but who gives a shit? Okay so women are lesser suited for reshaping the world. Why look down? Look up for men you can learn from. Men comparing themselves to women is a phenomenon I’m having a hard time wrapping my head around.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 05:37 AM
1

I'll tell you when I might consider it a possibility: when someone new asks a few progressively better questions, disappears for 2-3 years, returns with a FR that is low on details but brimming with energy and his admonition is only, get out there and do it. That might raise an eyebrow.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 01:06 PM
15

I'd introduce a caveat that says if one has a mastery of the concepts then one can talk about them all he likes since one could explain them in ways without using obvious RP/MRA lingo or other loaded terms.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 09:07 AM
4

If the author means masks as in a facade, or these things are somehow fake and unnatural, then that premise is ridiculous. Those aren't masks they are attributes. I don't have time to write further, so I'll summarize by saying the author is beta and the men whining about women in the thread are as well. The fact is, strong proud men don't want to talk about weakness and failure to anyone because those things suck. The men who need someone to "understand" their problems, whatever that means, are …
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 03:56 PM
1

Hah, fair enough, I missed that. Unfortunately my point stands. Surely there's a proper definition for a variant of "leadership" that involves other people, following, etc. I mean, you're pulling a straw man argument on a dictionary. There must be more able opponents on which to demonstrate your point. But overall not a bad article, thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 03:47 AM
3

Hey dude, hope you don't mind a little constructive criticism. In the second sentence, neither of those are definitions of leadership. You're just saying, 'leadership is leading and being a leader.' This looks really really bad, and in fact put me off from reading the rest. Defining words is important business and to offer this non-definition at the start of an expositional paper as this was startling.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:29 AM
5

Pro tip: avoid stupid whores
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 06:29 PM
4

When it's but a trifling of a trifling to you, what does it matter? It's not like you're saving up your allowance money, right? Younger girls can almost get in a hypnotic state with older guys smart enough not to put too many barriers in her way that jolt her out of the moment. it's a daddy thing. It will feel like a little adventure to her, if you let it.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 12:13 AM
1

If you can get this down, next level is ignoring them.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 10:39 PM
1

I don't know, man. How long has it been? The dude's kind of out of control. He can have his feelings without acting out on every single one of them. Men are good at reacting to danger, but in this case he has misidentified the source of danger. Someone's gotta let him know.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 04:21 AM
3

Lots of assumptions and projecting ITT. 1) Don't take some anonymous comment on the internet personally. 2) Beta TRPers are part of the problem. 3) All of this is pretty rich considering TRP's chosen label for quality women is "unicorn."
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 08:58 PM
2

Unsolicited advice is verboten in relationships, same as if not more so in business/social settings. And although it sounds nicer than “nagging” it’s the same thing.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 11:05 PM
1

I would only add that for your part, make sure you have a life outside of the relationship. Quality friendships, hobbies and interests. Things that are fulfilling to you completely outside the context of the relationship. I’m not sure where RPW comes down on this so I might get dinged here, but: a relationship/marriage is chiefly about romance. Not friendship, not companionship. Obviously they are all intertwined to some degree, but to paraphrase the good book, “And now abides companionship, fri…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 04:15 AM
4

Hm. Extra affectionate? If that is indeed due to your job then it’s [more] serious. Jokes are one thing. Trying to strengthen the relationship because of this indicates real fear. If you two have the requisite understandings then just tell him that his reaction is a turn off. Regardless, from here on you must pretend it doesn’t exist. Don’t talk about it. If he brings it up, do not comment, and change the subject. If he wants to discuss it again, don’t. If he insists, only listen. You’ve said yo…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 02:28 AM
30

He should prioritize his career over you, sorry to say. For most men their career is their mission, their greatest goal and life’s work. It’s important to understand this and even cultivate it, for it is a good thing. Be careful questioning the balance. If you are negative about a man’s mission in life then you are questioning his core values and it will only damage the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 03:46 PM
2

He had a certain charm for sure, not easy to convert hardcore concepts into colloquial 5-cent words. Love his write-ups on the various dust-ups.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/18 08:30 AM
9

You’re not going to go through all of them are you?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 12:56 PM
1

Glad to see some movement away from the unicorn concept, it always reeked of self-pity.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 05:33 PM
1

So you came back after all. For what it's worth, I thought you explained your relationship dynamic better in the first post. It may be why you're getting a lot of blank stares here. But you really need to do a post on frame. Your conception was different than anything I've read, and I've read a lot of too many posts about frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/18 07:47 AM
6

Very perceptive. IDGAF is a blunt, serviceable tool but it's usually not the best one because it's not a leadership tool.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 10:45 PM
3

A small but important point: hypergamy only comes into play when she already has a partner. If she's single, what she has is standards.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 09:17 PM
1

He's not spinning plates. If he was, he wouldn't offer monogamy before he's even seen you. Nor would he be in such a hurry for sex. Proceed with caution.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/18 03:43 AM
9

The fine doctor is a good example of a man with a fair mastery of his masculinity. While of course underpinning everything he does, he delpoys more potent concentrations with good measure and timing. And looking pretty damn good at 55. A surplus of masculinity isn't likely to be a common problem here, but it's still worth taking note of the demeanor of a man who perhaps knows more about the subject than us all.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 08:19 AM
6

It can also be exciting watching a woman blossom in her sexuality while playing a large role in the process. There's few things more profound than sharing the experience of a woman continually peaking. It's so honest.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 08:07 AM
1

I have significant experience with these scenarios. A couple things stood out. First, you were both interested in and discussing this option from the very beginning of the relationship? That's curious. I wonder if you had the same opinion then as now. Second, it bears mentioning that you do not owe penance for fairly innocently damaging the relationship early on. That weight you feel should not be placed on any scale. Without looking I know the comments are rife with warnings so I'll go the othe…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 07:43 AM
1

He had knowledge and facts on his side. "Frame" wasn't needed.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 01:59 AM
-1

The best way to be a good influence on the people around you is to be a good example. Lead an explemplary life and they will want to know more.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 10:31 PM
19

I don't have a good answer. Highly dominant men enjoy women all along the spectrum. Some go for the innocent wide-eyed type, a la the Fifty Shades thing. I go for highly dominant and successful women. TRP may be right that accomplishments do not generate attraction, but for me it can certainly kill or increase it. I have zero attraction for women low in the dominance spectrum no matter their looks. My partners are possessions, in a certain context, and I only want the best things in life. One th…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/17 08:42 PM
1

In your experience as an egomaniac, did you care who you impressed or would pretty much any warm body do?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 04:27 AM
6

Heh. Sounds dangerously close to falling into their frame.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 03:00 AM
5

Don't be an ass. Discuss all the BS claims and societal impact and whatnot here. No need to punish the random fucking woman on a plane with your grievances.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 11:59 PM
2

You earn loyalty, chief. But I understand the sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 09:28 PM
1

You find the good in them or the situation and you focus on those things and ignore the bad. And you never offer unsolicited advice or stand in judgement. Nobody likes that (see "shit tests"). How hard is that? Just takes a little patience and maturity. I have a whole white trash wing of my family and we get along great in this way. Be generous. Magnanimous.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 08:57 PM
48

Not to be a dick... But for the TRP crowd, if you have to think about "holding frame", you're not ready for an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 10:10 AM
1

Why did that line disgust you?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 05:54 AM
1

Promote plates? I guess there's some chance of getting someone LTR quality that way but I wouldn't suggest it.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 05:09 AM
1

Stop thinking about them - YOU are not ready for an LTR. Worrying about "breaking frame" is beginner level shit and your relationships will almost certainly fail. You def need to mature more. I know that sounds harsh but search your feelings.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 10:24 PM
-6

By unattractive you mean classless.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 08:11 PM
6

It is absolutely avoidable and an insult to suggest otherwise. Their anger is at themselves, it almost always is, even when it seems like it's not. We don't know anyone well enough to be angry at them, and it is our fear that generates anger, but that mechanism doesn't exist between us and other people. All this talk of lack of respect for RPers and how women just lack empathy for the plight of lower tier men and all the rest... you know what is almost universally considered to be pathetic? Self…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 11:32 AM
1

I doubt Roy Moore was unattractive at 30, yet people still found it creepy for him to be regularly roaming the mall alone, hitting on a bunch of young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 04:30 AM
1

It means that authenticity is an important characteristic of an attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 03:56 AM
2

TRP attempts to produce men who will get groped by hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 08:29 PM
-1

Please don't. Please don't talk about your sisters sex life to your new internet buddies. You're not so young that I should need to explain why. Turn the computer off and go outside and play with your friends.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 08:01 PM
2

Jesus that's a lot to take in. You lurked here for a year and then posted this? These aren't notes they're essays. Ok. How did you work out this arrangement with your wife? If I'm understanding you right then it makes perfect sense, I've just never thought of totally flipping the script like that but it's brilliant. So you make the time you see each other free for romance, and you do non romantic things separately so as to not damage the attraction? Re masculinity. If non masculine but good work…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 10:42 PM
3

Whatever. Overall he seems to have his shit together and certainly has a better grasp of all the shit TRP covers than most the non-EC guys. I have no reason to doubt he's helping a lot of dudes, the same courtesy I give to GLO. I mean seriously, what standard is being used to judge this guy - perfection? GLO bleating about a strong guy not being strong enough is just weird. For someone who hasn't contributed much of anything to TRP in recent memory he has some nerve. Always seems to have opening…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 11:58 PM
1

See the reply to RP_Scotsman.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 08:49 PM
9

Someone's still miffed they didn't get invited to speak at the conference. Poor guy.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 08:44 PM
3

Tell me about it. I've used 'positive' and 'negative' more times in the last 24 hours than an inspirational speaker does in a year.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 08:07 AM
2

I would guess it's possible to be a happy virgin. Some philosophical and religious orders are voluntarily celibate. What can you learn from them?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 07:51 AM
1

How do you tell that site to save a post?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 07:45 AM
1

I'm into serious LTRs but 'older' is a stretch. The answer is context. How you interpret the interaction you are relating, and how you insert yourself in it. And ultimately, your motive for relating it to your audience in the first place. What's the overall message? That you were a victim and how that sucks, or that you were part of a fucked up situation that's interesting enough on its overall merits to tell someone about. The first is negative, and may put pressure on the listener to provide w…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 02:39 AM
5

Excellent point, inappropriate negativity in a business setting is in incredibly poor taste and they will suffer greatly for it.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 01:24 AM
2

Is that book as good as everyone says? What did you think about it?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 01:21 AM
1

I tried but I couldn't think of any hard connections between what I described and conspiracy theories or theorists. Care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 09:35 PM
1

Aren't all posts automatically saved on that site?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 09:26 PM
7

Keen insight. How old were you when figured that out? Or rather, was able to do it with aplomb and not biting your mental tongue? I was embarrassingly old. And I still get tense lol.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 09:06 PM
5

I'd just make one correction, that I'm not at all talking about how you should present yourself, e.g. as being happy, or carefree, or problem free, or with the ever-popular AA. I'm just pointing out why we shouldn't share certain things, at least until you can do so as the victor. The distinction is important to me, because like you I do not support the idea of constructing some facade of being a happy or whatever person.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 04:25 PM
5

If you're willing, I'd like you to expand on that a little, the idea of venting, of getting things "off your chest." How and why does that make you feel better? How do you explain stress or anger or other loss of emotional control without also implicitly admitting you were to overwhelmed by the situation? How does their knowing about your (albeit minor and insignificant in the broader scheme of things) failings make you feel better? Why? And if you identify the operating principle... Could a dif…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 03:57 PM
12

I get what both of you are saying, and you're taking this way beyond the purview of my point. Which is not about being or appearing to be happy. It is, simply, don't be negative. Don't talk about bad shit. Especially bad things about yourself. That not only is it unpleasant, but pointless too. And I tried to shift the context a little so the principle is fundamental to all social interactions, including the romantic ones, to make it easier to implement for those guys whose Sharing mechanism swit…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 03:28 PM
7

You do have it pretty bad in London. It's not living in the horn of Africa and dying of starvation bad, or dying from drought-induced diarrhea bad... but pretty bad.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 02:43 PM
3

Maybe I should have left out the thing about roping them in emotionally since it's a secondary consideration, as is the concern for showing weakness. The driving principle is, I don't want to spend any time focused on negative shit, and certainly not with the people I value.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 09:27 AM
3

Thanks for links, but I retract my post. These are issues with grave societal ramifications and you're doing your part to call it out. You can imagine my shock upon learning something significant in the world had escaped my attention, but I'll be ok.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 09:13 AM
5

It was written in response to the many "so I made the mistake of opening up about some shit I was going through" posts. It's a simple principle that any twit prone to oversharing can adopt.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 08:38 AM
1

Intersecting social circles are how many guys meet chicks to bang. Did you miss out on that? I doubt you're alone.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 11:32 AM
5

Men are promoting the women they fuck at work. We are in control of this.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 08:34 AM
4

He's an intellectual, of a sort. There are special rules for intellectuals.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/17 07:37 AM
5

Serious question: where are you hearing this shit? I never detected a whiff of anyone placing this on so called toxic masculinity. I think 99.9% of people would say it was cowardly, not manly. You write well on the topic but maybe pick better examples to illustrate the conclusions you have. E: What I did hear were stories of heroism by men, told in admiring female voices. Nary an indictment. Note that I'm upper class and mingle with the mc, that's my source. I have no idea what twits on the inte…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 07:17 AM
3

About fucking time. If her attraction was so tenuous as to be severed by some minor show of humanity then it was already destined for ruin. The whole OP was written from a position of weakness and he doesn't even know it. Well written though.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 07:36 AM
24

Women have been fucking their way to the top since forever. You've described the issue, stated how it could be better... But what's the fix? How do you change it?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 06:05 AM
1

Great, another post by Will about how great Will is but with little usable sexual strat. Tell me, when you were typing this out, and you imagined guys thinking about you and this chick, how did it make you feel?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 05:58 AM
1

Get your T checked bro, you're talking like a girl. Men want to rule the world and everything in it, including fucking the women. If you're missing this drive then seek help.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 05:02 PM
4

I doubt you have plates as this is fairly common with them.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 04:38 PM
12

^ That right there is why you need to "establish" (you don't need to establish something that already is) yourself as a sexual being. Because sexual beings don't stop being sexual beings when the girl stops smiling at you.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 04:39 AM
1

The sooner you stop feeling bitter about women, you'll stop feeling bitter about women.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 07:13 AM
2

It's great you're on an emotional high, but the important thing is that a year from now you have the same perspective and drive. On a side note, it would be nice to hear from people a year later instead of just after their awakening or whatever. Everyone has moments, making them stick is the only thing anything.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 04:33 AM
2

This had occurred to me as well. It's fine for TRP to be all enlightened and avoid marriage for plates. But the top tier men and women are getting married, mostly to each other, and having families and passing wealth down. This is one reason the classes don't change much. Just saying.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 03:53 AM
2

It seems to be a common theme here that the more she gets to know you, the less attracted she becomes. That shit ain't right, she shouldn't lose attraction for at least a few weeks/months.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 12:57 AM
1

This is really a class issue. For Middle/lc college is optional hence discussions like these, for uc a degree is expected, and missing it is akin dropping out of HS or teen pregnancy. The uneducated do not possess class.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 05:42 AM
1

And the benefit of lower tier men. Holy shit I was down voted? Is woman's monogamous nature unknown to TRP?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 11:05 PM
-17

Women are naturally monogamous.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 04:49 PM
1

Or, "Don't sweat the small stuff."
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 02:00 PM
2

Well there goes every RP conclusion out the window lol. This better not generate a rash of related but weird questions on PPD.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 07:21 AM
2

And yet from this nothingness emerged the entire human race. You sure picked an odd context for your dichotomy.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 06:44 PM
1

IME conservatives get laid at a lower rate than liberals.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 01:13 AM
1

TRP is sexual strat. You won't find any "self improvement" links in the sidebar. TRP veers into self improvement often because the guys who can't get laid usually also need to get their life straight.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 01:11 AM
1

Meh. Take it to your alt-right crowd. Didn't you actually start an alt-right subreddit?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 04:30 PM
1

Except lots of broke niggas get laid.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 12:03 AM
0

1) It wasn't random. 2) It wasn't a shit test. 3) It wasn't a stranger. 4) You expect anyone to believe she went DEFCON 5 all because of some awkward smile moment? Either she is certifiable or we are missing context. Or both.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 07:28 PM
1

It's a bowl of shit molecules, of course you keep a lid on that thing, in your beautiful bathroom. Wtf man
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 02:29 AM
1

I am Chad and women are monogamous by nature.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/17 06:14 PM
5

Of course she has a whore side. That's always been our only real goal - that she's a whore for us. Because whores can be pretty awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/17 08:25 AM
16

And have fun. Not everything is fun, being a man is work, neverending work, but don't forget to have some fun. This will influence your interactions with girls. Flirting and game and seduction should be fun, and its easy to shift fun into passion.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 12:56 AM
1

Could you describe the difference in education and its impact?
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/17 10:19 PM
3

Do nothing, watch what she does, adjust accordingly. She knows what she's doing is improper. If she doesn't then wtf are you even doing with low class trash? As played, muck this hand. And find a different table. Or quit the game.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 08:43 PM
1

I don't have any flaws or insecurities and if I did what point is there in "opening up" to a romantic partner? I'm not interested in people's flaws nor them in mine. We bond over virtues and respected traits and accomplishments. The only practical reason to tell anyone would be if they could assist somehow, which would mean an expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 06:16 PM
10

Society is ran by men. MEN. Why are you looking to women for sympathy and help? I don't understand this blind spot. And whatever influence women now have was earned, not by whining about it but by getting involved and changing things from the inside. If things are as dire as you claim, look to your own gender, you have all the power. And apropos of TRP, nothing gets women wet like men feeling sorry for themselves. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 02:25 AM
1

Sure, I guess. Probably best just to avoid those women.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 12:43 PM
4

So where are all these absentee fathers?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 04:50 AM
4

Hah, you're not entirely wrong. But that's no contradiction, just high standards.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 06:17 PM
16

There's no contradiction, they just want full, complete men. You're overthinking this to the point of obsession.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 07:23 PM
2

Your first step is to realize that ALL your anger is at yourself, although it won't quite feel that way. Exactly 0.000% is caused by or directed towards anyone else. Realizing this will allow you to utilize your bad feelings, like a huge alarm panel, to know exactly where to drill down and clean house. It's also the first move towards what RP calls stoicism, which is a good thing. Pleasant journeys.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 06:28 PM
1

That's the wrong question but ok. Last month, beach, dude was being a dick so I escalated it. It was a proper fisticuffs. Had a beer later. Good dude. I don't know how to say this without insulting somebody... but masculinity leads directly to violence. Violence is almost the foundation of masculinity, and if you are not so inclined then that's something for you to think about. Sorry. I really shouldn't need to explain this.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 11:59 PM
-2

You posting this is akin to the recent posts about looks by cute guys. RPers don't need to be waved off from fighting, they need to fight more. Betas will err on the safe side. They need to discover what masculinity is, and it is sometimes violent. In a fun, healthy way. Sure, not by walking up to some dude at a bar like a dumbass, but smaller altercations. They need to punch someone in the face, and get punched. Fight Club had it about right. RPers should instigate with the guy watering his law…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 12:27 AM
1

It could only be by reputation. On first read it just seemed like this cock had some near-magical properties, was by appointment only and booked through next year. Plus I have to keep all my business compartmentalized and locked down, no chances for bitches to be comparing notes and shit. But that's fun too.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 09:58 AM
-2

Of course you're right. Plus it's not something the average soft dude could just start doing. It doesn't take more than a couple knock-down fights as a kid to recognize the difference between the square-up posturing of the guy who just wants to hit something for a few minutes, and the dude with less civilized ideas -- or worse, the one who doesn't know yet how he's going to hurt you. Just had a laugh when I thought of suggesting that experienced men could mentor the noobs, maybe form little club…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 09:28 AM
-4

Disagree. Violence can be healthy and fun. Every few months I'll purposely get into a good fistfight, when the mood hits. Obviously it's with people who either know the rules or are unarmed etc. I highly recommend it, and as I've read TRP it's occurred to me more than once that it would benefit a lot of dudes here.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 04:57 PM
10

Confused. How do they know about your big dick before they sleep with you? Are you black?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 04:46 PM
1

I had to look those up. Jesus. The first two are... interesting. Don't get the volcels though. Do they really need to band together if the collective goal is to not do some thing? I voluntarily avoid liver too but I don't talk about not eating liver, and there are no NoLiver groups to share my non-eating ways. Or hell maybe there are.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 06:23 AM
1

Yes, both of them seem to have good times. Yours was the most left field response but at least it made sense. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 06:55 PM
1

Who said anything about immoral? The responses are really going downhill.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 06:49 PM
1

How is that white knighting? I just carefully read my post couldn't find a single instance where I defended her. What's even to defend? In fact I didn't say anything about her at all. However, you certainly sprung up to defend the OP from whatever slight you imagined. Funny how that works isn't it. Does that make you a red knight?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 03:08 PM
1

Serious question: what do you suppose she would think if she knew that as soon as you had sex that you ran and posted all about it on an anonymous message board, in the manner that you did. What do you think about what you did? What was your goal? What did you get out of it?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 01:02 PM
1

Who are you trying to fool? Your own bitterness jumps off the page, in the terms you use, your premises, the context in which you insert men and women in your examples, in the disaffected air you try to maintain. Not remarkable but for your attempts to convince the reader otherwise. And what's your generation, the one where so many men have just stopped pursuing women?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 12:27 PM
1

Your 'Understanding OR Love' premise is flawed and in fact leads to the anger you reference. Most healthy women who look at TRP understand their anger, probably better than they do. It's just not interesting. But thanks for cluing us in.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 11:34 AM
1

What you are describing are inferior men conducting inferior relationships. You come looking for what, sympathy? To be understood? Certain anger is the reddest of flags, I spend little time considering those who suffer it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 08:52 AM
9

Reminds me of that kid who must've had 30 posts in the days around Christmas.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 11:24 AM
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