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| 566 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successful | Fundamentals | MrWannabeStockMan | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 03:08 PM |
| 118 | Dating apps are a scam update | Field Report | MrWannabeStockMan | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Need Advice | Fundamentals | MrWannabeStockMan | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 12:42 AM |
| 0 | I want to learn how to seduce my skin | Resources | MrWannabeStockMan | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 03:05 AM |
| 0 | Looking for outside perspectives on a couple of my dating experiences that have left me stumped | Conversation | MrWannabeStockMan | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 04:41 PM |
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| 1 | Which large US cities are the worst for pick up today in 2025?Augusta GA, my font for whatever reason on what I posted originally is huge letters that are bold with tiny lettered title , not gonna do that to all of you. I can provide a laundry list of reasons for those that are curious | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Girls flake even after a good first date – is this normal?It’s not a lazy idea at all it’s the solid truth, if you are too scared to be yourself you are never going to be confident and able to be successful with women. Going to therapy helps you not be afraid of being yourself which in turn boosts your confidence/self love which in turn boosts your success with women. Not only that, therapy helps you to be an overall better conversationalist and to be better around people overall, helping you to make friends as well as be more successful with women. Ho… | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Girls flake even after a good first date – is this normal?Found the dating couch 😂 I’m not underestimating anything, it is really as simple as being yourself. The real problem with modern dating is dating coaches and online dating apps creating a manufactured crisis built entirely on convincing single people that they have a problem when in reality there is no problem. Yes it is a simple as being yourself. Let’s turn your comment into a really great example. “Then there’s guys who legit have terrible conversational ability, are very boring, and need sp… | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 06:50 PM |
| 0 | Girls flake even after a good first date – is this normal?My biggest piece of advice I have learned that these “dating coaches” trying to make money sliding into your DMs will hate me for saying is - Go into the date with zero expectations. That’s it. There is no science to it, no technique, no script. Be yourself and if they don’t like you fuck em. If they flake on you don’t give them the time of day again. People will sense entitlement and hidden expectations and most of the time that is what torpedoes second dates for people. You give out a whole di… | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Do you build up to a kiss or do you react to how she reacts to late stage kino first?You are overthinking it, if she likes you she will kiss you if she doesn’t she will reject you, it’s on you to make the move, just lean in at the end of the date see what happens, there is no perfect moment, ya just gotta go for it | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 11:56 PM |
| 42 | 2 guys hitting on 1 girl dilemma100 percent this, humor is your greatest weapon | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 02:56 PM |
| 13 | Across the Board, What is Biggest Hurdle to Dating/Hooking Up with Girls?Her friends/cockblockers should be number fucking solid 1! The amount of times I have had girls coming home with me, literally walking out the bar with them only to have their guardian fridge come charging out of nowhere and completely stop the whole thing. There was even times the girl was the one who came up and initiated, we start kissing, then she initiated again to leave with me, then suddenly it changes when the fridge shows up as we are 95 percent of the way out of the bar | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Main reason very unattractive dudes that don’t have money get gorgeous women?What books on stoic philosophy would you recommend? | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Need AdviceWasn’t a chance she pulled me away from my friends and went away from hers, when it came time her other friends she was with were cool with it, the fridge was the only one that wasn’t, my buddy tried to befriend her but she was hyper fixated on sabotaging me 😂 | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Need AdviceMy Medal of Honor recipient friend for the night tried but she was hyper fixated on sabotaging me and wasn’t having it, her other friends were cool with her going home with me | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Need AdviceAppreciate this, I should have said something, she was literally the only one in the friend group that stopped it, and this girl I was about to take home initiated literally everything haha oh well. Thank you for the input | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Anyone getting more matches on Facebook Dating compared to Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, etc.?Let me spit a bit of facts here as a wannabe investor that routinely looks at stocks… tinder, bumble, hinge and those other ones are all owned by a company called matchgroup. Matchgroup offers subscriptions on each of the apps. They have also been on a decline as far as stock value goes, why? They are bleeding out users, people are getting swiping fatigue/dating app burnout whatever you want to call it and deleting the app/unsubscribing. Online dating is very much a thing so where are they all g… | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Dating apps are a scam updateSome of you are missing my point, this was an experiment and not about how good or not my profile was, it’s about the numbers of people that show up on your feed that are nowhere near what you are into vs the amount of people that show up you are into. Also this… if I didn’t pay to unlock my likes after two weeks do you have any idea the amount of times I would have to swipe to get to those 15 matches? A ton, also they would very rarely show them except to dangle the carrot here and there to get… | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are a scam updateNot about a percentage, if the apps stopped showing you repeat profiles you already swiped left on, showed only people tailored to your taste and giving you the ability to successfully filter out people you aren’t into without a pay wall | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps are a scam updateIt is exactly 100 percent a scam, it’s not women’s fault, it’s the way these apps are set up | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Dating apps are a scam updateHinge was alright, I usually don’t do good on hinge but this time around I did better on hinge than bumble as I got fewer matches on hinge but more actual dates | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are a scam updateI appreciate the information but I think u missed the point of this post, it was about an experiment I started doing a couple weeks ago about the algorithm and how dating apps take your money, I have no issue with getting girls that’s not what I am trying to prove here, I am trying to prove that dating apps are a scam system designed to capitalize off off using the small percentage of very attractive users to get everyone else to pay for their services | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are a scam updateSo I haven’t tried this myself, but my best friend has been on Facebook dating and has been getting a lot of success, doing some research they are gaining 24 percent new users each year while the trio is losing users | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps are a scam updateExactly, look at their stock lmao, they have been tanking in value | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps are a scam updateThat’s what I am trying to say | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are a scam updateCorrect, But how many people do you have to swipe through to get those 10 matches? That is what I am trying to prove on here. Dating apps purposely don’t show your profile to people you would actually be interested in, where’s the money in that? Location also plays a role to, if I am in a big city, I can get over a hundred likes in a day but the stats are still the same, majority I won’t want anything to do with and I will have to swipe forever to filter through them and get to the ones I find a… | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 10:21 PM |
| 4 | Dating apps are a scam updatenot too picky, but I am selective. many of them were very overweight, unattractive, photos heavily filtered. The 15 I matched some were average with cool profiles, others were smoking hot haha. Also I am not very serious about dating apps this time around so I wasn’t as selective as usual | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulYou don’t have to use a different email or anything, can use your same number to remake the account, app still will consider you new | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulEver even heard of that one, I just use bumble and hinge | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulOn Bumble I believe it does, each time I move cities or do passport mode to some country cause I am bored, get a shit ton of likes in a few days. I am pretty sure you get another boost when you move cities or do passport mode, but not sure how long that one lasts. | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulI usually just say fuck it and do the platinum, if you wanna save money just get the one that unlocks your likes list, having plat does help you out a little bit more. Gives you a bit more of a boost. Definitely not super hot. Average, 5 ft 9 inches 174 pounds, really fucking stupidly goofy which is what mainly helps me out 😂 | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulI’m not sure, I never swipe on girls that I’m not attracted to | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulI am a country boy, sounds like the perfect spot for me, not a fan of city life. Definitely going to add it to my list now! 😬 | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulHinge has the same algorithm so yes, the less you use them the more they spam you with premium and keep your profile boosted, I am on day 14 of no swiping about to open up the likes list and do a follow up to this, they offered me 50 percent off first month of premium and keep spamming me with premium to see all my likes lol, think I’m gonna let it ride a few more days | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulI had tons of matches in Australia, makes me want to go there even more, best success was in Adelaide, had well over a hundred likes in a few days there and a good amount were attractive. Not a fan of Asian women, not really attracted to them, Aussie women and Swedish though 👌🏻😍 | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulJust don’t delete then immediately create a new account, won’t benefit you and I think u can get banned | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulYes as long as you take a break, switch to a different app for like a month or so then go back and create a new account on the previous you can use the same information and get the new user boost | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulAhhhh ok haha, I was like nahhh I don’t put too much effort into dating apps, just read a lot about them 😂 | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulWouldn’t say I am a slayer of dating apps lol, I just hated them so much I really dug into them and wanted to explain why they are a scam but still provide some tips to improve everybody’s chances on them. For example, in about 14 days I might have around 100 likes, right now day 4 I am sitting at 50+ but for fun and fuckery let’s say I have 100 in 14 days. Out of that 100 I will probably find 10 girls if that attractive. Out of those 10 I will get conversation with 5, out of those 5 I will prob… | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulI have a buddy that is very short, no muscle, 30s, simps pretty hard but gets lucky still not often but does. I would say you need to lower your standards a bit, set that age range from 21 to 37 and build options. Also need to evaluate the average age of users that liked you and go off of that, being 30s-40s just trying to get with early - mid 20s girls is going to really limit your options. Doesn’t sound like an issue with your dating app profile but an issue with your standards being too high,… | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulIt is possible, those that blame females and chads are just incels or someone that doesn’t want to take personal accountability and realize they are the problem not the apps, women, or make believe 6ft Chads | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulIt was a combination of the two, I read the book then talked about it in therapy. Did the home exercises the therapist had me to do. Those two things helped me detach from validation from others. It wasn’t just females for me, it was friends, family, etc. I learned that it was fine to be myself and that I would be more loved and accepted instead of trying to be something I am not to appease others. This really helped with my dating and getting me to completely disconnect from the apps. Now I can… | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulHonestly I would completely ditch the apps and work on yourself for a bit to get over those things | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulIf you don’t have any trouble getting matches or likes then I wouldn’t change what you are doing, why fix something that isn’t broken? Also as far as the self validation and addiction bro I would highly recommend therapy and also reading the book No More Mr Nice Guy. I had the same issues and finally went to therapy and read this book, it was life changing for me. Buuut you have to want to go to therapy and not just go because someone told you to go, won’t do anything for you if you don’t want t… | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulUnfortunately yes, this is the only way to optimize your chances, dating apps are a pay to win. Maxing out your new user boosts lasts then paying to unlock and see who likes you is the best way to optimize your chances at getting likes,matches, and meeting someone | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulJust an average dude helping out my fellow average dudes have better chances at finding someone in the scam called dating apps | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulI verify it just cause that shows u look like your pictures, they don’t shadow ban you unless you keep deleting then immediately create a new profile, but if u wait a month or so then make a new profile u will be fine | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulAlready had a couple on here that were politely and professionally burned, they deleted their profile though so you can’t see 😂. Has nothing to do with red pilled or blue pilled dudes, just simps and incels that have no personal accountability | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulI know, I was saying didn’t know why your comment was downvoted for you saying you preferred hinge | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulNot sure, haven’t done that before, but maybe the same thing as swiping right on everyone? | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulKind of what I am saying, don’t play, don’t swipe, only swipe on those that liked you. Don’t have to be Brad Pitt tier to be successful, that is just the opinions of those that think women are obligated to like them and nowhere near fact. | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulYes, don’t swipe at all, the new user boosts lasts around 2 weeks, once activity starts dieing and u get few likes, that’s the best time to get premium and unlock the people who liked u, then only swipe off that liked you list | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:05 PM |
| 4 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulU don’t gotta do all that, just delete your account, go to a different app for a month or so then come back, make a new profile, repeat the process, you will be a new user again, I have done this a few times now, just don’t delete then make another account right away | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:55 AM |
| 5 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulNot sure why u got downvoted I’m not saying it’s bad just saying I prefer bumble, I go between the two quite often, I don’t really touch tinder anymore 😂 | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:53 AM |
| 10 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulAbsolutely not, the more you swipe the more it hurts you, in my article I talk about this. Also when u mass swipe like that u get shadow banned and dont get shown at all | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:53 AM |
| 4 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulIt’s at the top of ur feed where u swipe, a bar like a loading bar on a computer once it disappears u are good think like 20ish swipes | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:51 AM |
| 7 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulThinks it’s 20ish swipes when you make your profile and go to the feed where you swipe there is a bar at the top, once u start swiping the bar will fill up like a loading bar on a computer, once it disappears if I remember it also says a message that you completed it | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulYou are also correct | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:48 AM |
| 13 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulThey love the shit out of me haha, and I have fun talking to them, Auzzie girls are all hot, if I ever go there I will end up married 😂 | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulIdk why I can’t reply or upvote to his comment but I definitely don’t work for bumble, and I am definitely not top 20 percent although I appreciate the compliment 😂. The deck is stacked against everyone on the apps which is why it is a scam | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:21 PM |
| 7 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulExactly this isn’t a how to game the system tutorial,. The system can’t be gamed but here is some tips to optimize your chances on a rigged system | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:17 PM |
| 9 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulNah I just have a lot of idle time at work and read sooooo much shit about dating apps and their algorithm, really went down a rabbit hole for a bit on the subject. Decided one day to say fuck it and try everything I read and it made a pretty big difference. Just an average dude like everyone else trying to help my fellow average dudes out 😂 | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:13 PM |
| 10 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulWorks great for me, give it a try, hope it helps you out. I just started my bumble account a few days ago doing this method 3 days in I am at 50+ likes | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:10 PM |
| 17 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulYeah give it a try and let me know, it works great for me, helps get me around a lot of the apps bullshit and get better quality matches. The perk to premium, ever feel down or unattractive because of these dumb apps, switch on that passport mode and switch ur stuff over to Australia or Thailand, it will be eye opening 😂. Also I like Bumble the most out of all the dating apps, had the most success there but I switch it up between them | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulThat’s my conclusion, it’s a good tool to use but definitely should not be relied upon | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulI have as well, I think bumble is the best one as the user base isn’t so one sided, it also has the most users,they all use the same algorithm. I have had the most success on bumble. Tinder is mostly dudes, hinge still doesn’t have that big of a user base and I routinely get shown profiles I already swiped left on that I was interested in. Have had my bumble up 3 days no swiping and am at 50+ likes. Bumble is not designed for women to Cherry pick this 20 percent of make believe Chads. They have … | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:04 PM |
| 11 | Best general places to approach girls?Go to a target and start snorting candles, bitches will find you | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Looking for outside perspectives on a couple of my dating experiences that have left me stumpedThank you for your perspective I really appreciate it | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Looking for outside perspectives on a couple of my dating experiences that have left me stumpedLearned that after the first one, thanks to this sub and ask men actually I read a book called no more Mr nice guy and it completely changed around how I think and act. That book changed my life for the better now I don’t put up games, you are either interested or not, getting to know somebody is multiple dates are for, if you are ignoring somebody for a few days to play hard to get, weigh other options, decide wether or not you are interested, whatever the rational I’m out, don’t play that, man… | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Looking for outside perspectives on a couple of my dating experiences that have left me stumpedThat’s is what I have concluded and why I have lost interest, the minute I am seen as an option I am out or feel that I have to pursue also out, something better in their eyes came along and they went after that, no issue with that but don’t expect me to jump with open arms when I suddenly get a text 4 days later, this was the only 2 dates in my dating life where this has happened the other times it worked out for a bit, I wasn’t interested, or they weren’t interested, is what it is. 😂🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 08:59 PM |
| 1 | I want to learn how to seduce my skinI got the CeraVe skin renewing night cream, is that the same as the water sleeping mask? Or is that different? I want to try the water sleeping mask as well but not sure if I can use them both or not | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 04:53 AM |
| 2 | I want to learn how to seduce my skinAppreciate the help, I went with CeraVe, the most recommended after scouring reddit, can’t wait to get started on it, kind of put together my own kit from recommendations on their site | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 04:45 AM |
| 2 | I want to learn how to seduce my skinIs lumin also a good brand? looking at kits and this one keeps popping up, I am going to look into CeraVe, seeing that a lot as well in my research, thank you for your help | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 03:55 AM |
| 1 | I want to learn how to seduce my skinIs there any brand you would recommend, I am so lost on Amazon right now trying to find something lol, I was looking at skin care kits | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 03:23 AM |
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