TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

MrYeahright_27 Archive

View 6 posts and 73 comments by MrYeahright_27 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Will use this one in future if situation arises. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:58 PM
2

Big advice for me. Thanks. 👍
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:55 PM
2

Will do. Thanks a lot.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:50 PM
2

I think it's important to still speak. Hopefully we'll get better with time. We can't improve by not speaking, hence remaining quiet is not an option.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:38 PM
2

Yes. In hindsight it was a bitchy comment but definitely not mean-spirited since I've known her on and off for past two years. You're there for the paycheck, don't worry about the rest. Will remember this perspective. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:36 PM
2

Thanks a lot for your encouragement. Really does give me confidence moving forward. 👍
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:30 PM
2

Wow it's nice to find a person who relates to me over the internet. Your comment gives me a lot of encouragement. Thanks. You seem to have overcome some serious challenges so far. Congratulations and good luck for the future.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:20 PM
1

Alright. Some critical thinking needs to be done about the function then. Will do. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:02 PM
1

As things stand, I'm not a top performer yet (by a long shot probably). It was a training session where she was speaking actually, with some 20 people in attendance. I need some serious body language work. I'll follow your advice and practice. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:47 PM
1

Yes it actually IS one off I've realised. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:44 PM
2

She jokes around a lot and probably tried to call out this issue jokingly but actually it came out as a bitchy comment. She's not actually a mean person and rewards competence. I just didn't like this particular comment of hers.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:42 PM
1

True. Now that some time has passed, I guess I've got over it.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:40 PM
1

Great perspective. Thanks!
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:39 PM
2

Will do that. Thank you. 👍
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:38 PM
1

Thanks a lot for your insightful advice. Do you think this damage is reversible if I now do a 180 and am talkative andnever again take shit from anyone at the workplace? Personally, I would responded with "alright, alright, I'll start contributing to the discussion from now on." This shifts the narrative to you being a boy for not contributing and not you just being a boy in general. It's damage control and you can leverage that shit test to your advantage by contributing to the discussion right…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:37 PM
1

Thank you very much.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:31 PM
1

Yes. It was regarding not contributing in the discussion, implying that if I "were a man" I'd have more actual knowledge. Mostly 2-3 people were contributing tho, all others were generally quiet except for random occasions.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:31 PM
2

Lol. Indeed. Finding balance is so tricky.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:26 PM
2

I think i should speak whatever is on my mind regardless of how fascinating I think it is, and let the listeners decide about that. Maybe it indirectly leads to a discussion which is actually more fruitful. This should stop me from worrying about the quality of the content. And also gain more competence so i know I'm actually talking sense. Good luck bro.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:24 PM
1

Snap something back Couldn't find the proper response! Otherwise it might have looked like i was perhaps hurt and lashing out. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:18 PM
1

💯
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:17 PM
1

I'll try to show them i actually care by doing what you said. Quiet isn't the way to go from now on, that much is clear. Thank you.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:16 PM
2

Cool thanks
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:13 PM
2

Appreciate the step by step instructions. Gives me an insight into how exactly i should hold myself should a similar situation arise again. Thanks a lot.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:11 PM
1

Lesson had been learnt but got reinforced. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:04 PM
1

Any shit your bosses toss on you has to be handled with a smile and "please give me some more, ma'am!" Think if I hold that frame it will convey a really nice idgaf attitude. 👍
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:03 PM
1

Yes. I've really accepted it now. I'll follow the advice. Thanks a lot for your comment.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:51 PM
1

Like I've mentioned elsewhere, now I'll try to up my performance and be more hands-on and involved. Yes, i don't suck up actually. I just stay quiet lol. Thanks a lot for your comment!
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:49 PM
1

Yes precisely. While it's not actually the case. And i can see how they'd actually find it insulting. I need to be more active now. Thanks a lot.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:44 PM
1

While that's true, first i probably need to up my performance. I'm meeting expectations but not exceeding them probably. If it still continues then I'll call her out. Actually this was a one off incident rather than continuing disrespect. Thanks for your insight. Like they say "you train others how to treat you". Need to actually implement it!
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:42 PM
1

Haha. Not sure I'll be able to pull it off, but I get your point and will try something similar next time. It'd definitely diffuse the situation in best interest of both parties. Thanks a lot.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:39 PM
1

Yeah 110%. In fact i don't think males generally speak their minds to female subordinates. They'll put it as nicely as they can. Will start participating and being more active in general from next time. Thanks for your comment.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:36 PM
1

Yeah... Like I've mentioned in another thread, I need to up my performance since I feel like I'm meeting expectations rather than exceeding them. Maybe they expect more from me now, and such a comment wouldn't have been made if they were happy with my performance. Other than this isolated incident they're not actually mean people tbh. Thanks a lot for your comment.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:34 PM
1

Next time I'll remember to use this. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:27 PM
1

I'm more than a week into my current nofap streak. For me it works wonders in social interaction. You start taking an active role in everything you do, show these people you’re competent. That's what i need to start doing. By kicking away laziness. Comments like yours with similar suggestions are emphasising what needs to be done. Thanks a lot.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:27 PM
1

That would've been such a cool reply. "Oh." *thoughtfully rubbing my chin, frowning* "Then could I sue <company name> for child labour exploitation?" Fucking fantastic. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:17 PM
3

The bottomline of this entire thread i suppose! I actually look up to my bosses. But she was a fucking assshole with that comment. No question. And I need to be always alert and always ready to react. Ideally i should be able to tell when something hits melike this at least one second before it does. By reading cues, etc like another commenter had said. Otherwise first few seconds go in just trying to wrap your head around the situation and the time for response elapses. And then I daydream abou…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:12 PM
2

Some time has passed and my emotions have cooled down, so i think she's a good person. Not a bully definitely. Someone who speaks her mind. And is competent enough that people don't dare to get into arguments with her. Age range is like participants were all mid twenties. And bosses probably late thirties/early forties. Thanks for replying. Like I've also said elsewhere, i need to big time train myself to actually act assertively. Rather than just knowing the theories.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:07 PM
1

A rather different take on the situation. Guess before this i was barely noticed by her. Now at least I'm sure she's noticed. Now I need to prove her impression wrong with my actions. I'm sure she's not threatened because I'm not as intelligent or as assertive as her, or as good as her at the work (at the moment). There's a reason she's a director, and apart from the not-so-classy comment i actually look up to her. Tho I'm not sure what exactly you mean by threatened. Thanks a lot. Hope I'm smar…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:02 PM
2

Thanks bro for the encouraging comment. Some serious toughening up needs to be done now. As long as you are bettering yourself everyday, you should forget about others' opinions of you. I need to remember that it's an every day game. Not only when I'm in the mood. But every fucking day. Whether I feel like it or not. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 04:56 PM
1

Yes exactly. Like I commented elsewhere, this is PRECISELY what i should do. I've let disrespect pass more often than i care to count even from lesser people than her. Tbh i also know this theory about assertiveness and no more mr nice guy stuff but actually implementing it is a whole different game. Need some serious implementation. Thanks for your comment. I need to actually start implementing your solution now.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 04:52 PM
1

I'm close to just shrugging it off now that some time has passed. I feel that a person who's truly alpha won't ever get bullied, or will be able to handle himself. He won't go to HR. I aspire to reach there. However this is a not-so-experienced person talking, and there may actually be situations where it's wise to go to HR. Thanks a lot for your comment.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 04:49 PM
2

Thanks. Actually disrespect is not a culture in our company. This is just a one off incident. Like this same director used to go out of her way to talk to me when I was new. And she was respectful to others who contributed. It's just me, I've brought this upon me. And I've learned a valuable lesson. Like you said, it actually IS about my performance. If they later find me performing well, I'm sure this same director will appreciate me. Not that I'm a slouch right now, but I'm more like meeting e…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 04:41 PM
3

Not to be pedantic, but I'm actually 27. Not that I'll just raise my hands and give up on improving if it IS already too late. Just feel that by now i should've learned this shit. Like by 25 anyway if not earlier one should have already had a handle on the social interaction stuff. Thanks a lot for the encouragement.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 04:36 PM
3

Exactly why I'm feeling bad. About myself for not replying and not the comment per se. I'm an mma/john kavanagh fan as well. That quote is 100% apt! Follow up question if you please. If you've been repeatedly insulted in certain groups, would your image change if you suddenly start standing up for yourself? I can generally handle myself pretty well and feel that once i do decide to engage with stupid people and show them their place, i won't have too much trouble doing so. My sticking point righ…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 04:06 PM
1

Ironically i actually like where I'm working. It's just this isolated incidence that bothers me. Big time need to upgrade my retort skills. I actually like the director as well. I'm not going to change my overall opinion of her because of the comment. She was definitely out of line tho. Thanks
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:40 PM
1

I'm indian. But i don't think that matters in this context because like you said, times are changing and as they say globalisation is making everything uniform. I need to SHOW that i know stuff actually. Thanks. I think I'm misrepresenting myself by stfu
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:25 PM
20

I've read it a while back. Guess it's time to revisit. Him and Epictetus. Thanks
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:20 PM
2

I've made up my mind to work on those traits. Do you think it's too late to turn things around if im fucking 27 already?
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:06 PM
2

Just copying what I wrote above. I'm not actually feeling insecure about my masculinity. But I'm feeling down because I couldn't come up with something. She won. I lost. That accounts for 99% of my dejection. Maybe 1% is caused by the actual comment. I believe people can say or do anything they wish to you. It's your duty as a man to retaliate, to take care of yourself. And i couldn't do this, which is why i lost.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:04 PM
2

i have friends but not too many. Like i don't have a group but isolated friends here and there. And one best friend. I kind of tend to look down on people from my high horse lol. Put off by many people. That's another issue i need to work on and I've got better at it this year I'd say. But that's another sob story for another day. I'm not actually feeling insecure about my masculinity. But I'm feeling down because I couldn't come up with something. She won. I lost. That accounts for 99% of my de…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:02 PM
14

Yes I'd say the director was justified in her point, just not the way she said it. After reading comments here I'd say I've been lazy af and should start to get more active with my communication in the workplace. It's basically just fear when one gets to the bottom of it. Fear, weakness, apprehension about what if you say something drastically irrelevant. And i actually don't have reason to be like this (intellectually I'm at least as good as most people I meet), but for some reason I just fucki…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 02:54 PM
2

At that moment i didn't look around to see who laughed and who didn't, but it seemed like maybe half the people laughed, and not for too long. Still not good though
/r/askTRP28/12/19 02:40 PM
1

Yes totally. I should stop being a lazy girl. Thank you
/r/askTRP28/12/19 02:10 PM
2

Actually I could've contributed something. I did have something to say which would've showed I'm not just a noob but just dallied around with it. Then the comment came after which i decided to stfu. Should've opened my mouth in time.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 02:07 PM
4

Yes. In fact, it's just pure laziness on my part to not feel like contributing. In hindsight I can say that i should stop being lazy. I should also up my small talk game with colleagues instead of just showing up, working and leaving. Thanks
/r/askTRP28/12/19 02:03 PM
3

She's a woman. And I respect her knowledge and intelligence and actually everything about her except the way she called me out. So probably a swell alpha. I'll try to come up with something if this happens again.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 12:00 PM
2

Just to clarify by respectfully, I meant that I don't act like I attend the meetings because they're mandatory. I actually respect the commenters by paying attention. Could you elaborate on basics of holding frame at the workplace? Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:57 AM
8

Lol. Thanks for telling it like you see it.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:49 AM
21

True. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:23 AM
7

Thanks. I'll become talkative af at work. Just chat chat chat regardless of how exhausting it seems, hoping that with practice it stops being exhausting. Will treat it as a game like you said. Im an introvert but no complaints. Will do what it takes. This seems to be the only way unfortunately.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:21 AM
8

I didn't try to be more friendly. In fact, i even kept my mouth shut during the second half after break when i actually had a question, just so it didn't look like I was trying to get into their good books by opening up. My body language remained the same later as it was before. The only time I smiled was when i was caught off guard when the comment was made. Thanks for your insight.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:16 AM
12

I think you've hit the nail on the head. I'll implement it next time, regardless of how boring I find it. Seems to be the only way to go. Thank you.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:10 AM
13

I thought this, hence included the context. But why is it like that? Why can't other people mind their own business. I appreciate the dislike, but that shouldn't have translated to a mean comment. I'd have gladly accepted any ccritical comment about me not talking. Why question manhood all of a sudden? Thanks for your comment. I'll try to participate next time but it's boring. I kind of like the actual work but talking about it is boring af to me
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:07 AM
9

I assure you that's not an issue. I exercise regularly and don't look weak at all.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 10:53 AM
1

That is soo true. I need to start being friendlier with people around me - especially girls whom I don't find that attractive.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 12:13 PM
1

Thanks. Will do that.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:34 AM
1

No no, I think I did get you. Thanks. :)
/r/askTRP07/08/19 09:40 AM
1

Thanks. Will hit her up soon.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 08:07 AM
1

I do want to do important shit but I also want to get laid and right now there don't seem to be too many prospects in my immediate environment.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 08:05 AM
1

Thanks for the advice 👍
/r/askTRP29/06/19 05:58 AM
1

I see. I was wondering about how some people have an edge - it's like with the way they carry themselves, others know not to fuck with them. The vibe they give off I thought had something to do with anger. For e.g. mob bosses in TV shows (I know it's scripted but still...) Can you develop the vibe?
/r/askTRP28/06/19 06:21 PM
2

Seems that I was mistaken. Will remember this. Thank you.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 10:22 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter