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I'd say 15-17. As a child people were empathetic and receptive to me but as I became a man that turned into suspicion and exclusion.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 07:25 AM
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What I find disturbing is how enthusiastic and ready so many people are to abuse incels. They seem to derive pleasure from it. Literally punching down as hard as they can verbally on someone who is struggling to live.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 08:58 PM
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Most Asian guys are not tall, slim and beautiful Kpop synthetic looking guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:06 AM
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Definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:01 AM
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Would love to. Black girls who are not fat are hot af. Problem is they only want black or white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:41 PM
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They're literally dating statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:13 PM
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This is very clear for us Asian dudes from since childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:10 PM
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And it turning into the first Terminator. Also John Conner is the beta bucks who saves you. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:51 PM
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Maybe but there are women like that and they still will largely not approach. They can also still hop on dating and social apps and find men who are willing to pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:58 PM
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He's a troll. Probably a black piller, he's using a lot of black pill terms in his posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:55 PM
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What's happening in 5-10 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:42 PM
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I wouldn't say that. You're mistakenly tying the concept of pump and dump to the male sex drive and strategy. The pump is true but the dump is not. Women are the ones who primarily do the dumping and leaving. Which also explains why the minority of men with options similar to women are ones who engage in pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:41 PM
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I agree. Which is why I wouldn't say it's a benefit to men in general nor the will of men in general to pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:55 PM
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Didn't mean women are literally getting swarmed like celebrities in public. But more the combination of male attention women get through various avenues, I've seen average women describe the overwhelmingness of male attention when it comes to dating and even when they're not dating at times. It can feel like getting swarmed. Are you agreeing with me or not? Your second point seems to add to the idea of the limited circumstances in which women do approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:48 PM
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Do you think women getting pumped and dumped is down to men in general or just to the men who are usually approached by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:26 PM
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From my perspective, women have even less of an incentive to approach now more than ever. There are so many avenues and places for them to just show up and they are swarmed by men. Despite that some do still approach but it's not going to be for an average guy like me and probably you. That's reserved for the guys who stand out and above the crowd who as we know play by inverse rules to the guys beneath them. The idea that they will take the initiative and be proactive is just wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:22 PM
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This is a hilarious read. So many baseless assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:56 PM
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I wouldn't get one to be honest. It would just make me feel worse about not having love in my life. There isn't much chores when you live alone so it would also be wasted on taking care of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:45 PM
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Even though I don't like using these terms, this basically feeds into the idea of Alpha fucks/beta bucks. Hot guys will almost always have significantly less barriers to sex than average and below looking guys despite disparity in status and wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:35 AM
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But women do give them more opportunities to have healthy relationships, don't they? It's a choice for a lot of them which they reject and continue their hedonism. Surely they see women more as nuanced people if women are offering those opportunities to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:58 AM
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Do you think fuckboys and pump and dumps see women more as nuanced people than average guys who struggle with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:18 AM
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I can tell you one reason that I'm disillusioned with dating is that the overwhelming amount of negative affirmation is ridiculous. It wrecks my mental health. Because we're so interconnected through technology now, competition is a lot more fierce due to the numbers and comparative choices. That's not limited to dating apps. Social media and instant messaging has largely taken over our prospective communications. Also time is more valuable than ever because we have so many ways to preoccupy our…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:02 AM
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Why're we arguing about the phrase "being alone"? It's usage is not so narrowly strict, it can be used in many different ways and instances. I feel it better describes my situation than just being single because saying that I'm just single is not as exclusive when it comes to personal contact outside of a relationship and I explained what that means to me. If you feel different that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:49 AM
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It can absolutely be used to mean being single. We use it that way in everyday language and literature all the time. Why does it even matter anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:20 AM
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What being alone means to me as a man is having no personal contact with the opposite sex not that I can't find a quality relationship. Sometimes while running errands or working, having a 2 minute conversation with a polite woman can be the highlight of my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:11 AM
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There are large portions of people who don't socialize in real life anymore. A lot of men just live off of social welfare/part time job or with live their parents well into adulthood, just surfing the internet all day and playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:04 PM
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That's not the issue though. The issue is that through technology people are delving deep into escapism while doing the bare minimum to pay the bills and survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:33 PM
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I don't know what will happen to us. But I do know that we must not be the backup plan for women when they want to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:23 PM
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How can you be so sure? We're a transitional generation, very different from our parents and grandparents. I think what's happened to Japan is a very real possibility for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:12 PM
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I mostly agree with what you're saying in the post aside from it being simple because there are complexities and nuances of give and take in social interactions. When you say the law, it doesn't register the same among all of us, it can be very different from place to place pertaining to social contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:50 AM
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Okay but don't just characterize guys who complain about being used as emotional tampons as your 50/50 scenario. That just feels like you're kicking us while we're down. We have legitimate grievances too. As for why we don't step away sooner, it's hard to do that in the moment and especially if you care about that person. It can seem almost normal for a guy because we always have to be proactive and prove ourselves worthy to get into relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:41 AM
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Do you think a PUA owes any woman with whom he tricks and manipulates into sleeping with him anything? Things like truth and respect for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:11 AM
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Do you think that's how it usually goes? Because a lot of guys including myself have experienced the one sidedness of this emotional support system especially if the woman knows you have feelings for her and will use that to her advantage at almost every turn. You are made to feel that you're lucky just to be in her life at all and that of itself will be her main contribution to maintaining the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:56 AM
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Do you think it's fair to only have a person around when you want to download your negative emotions and feelings on to them while receiving positive affirmation from them? Is that treating a person fairly? I'm not saying they deserve sex but they don't deserve to be treated like an emotional rebalancing tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:33 AM
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I agree and will add that no one owes anyone anything. It's a dynamic I don't think we can fully understand each other on, women have issues with being wanted and men have issues with being unwanted, both in excess are hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:23 AM
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I think everyone realizes that being completely alone and unwanted is bad. As a man I don't understand the concept of being "used for sex" it's never happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:24 PM
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How can I make it any more clear?? There are PUAs who use redpill knowledge to get laid and want to live that lifestyle while there are other redpillers like Christian redpillers who couldn't care less about hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:04 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:02 PM
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Because to many redpillers, it seems to be not worth the effort and risk right now. But the RP is not against the concept of marriage. There are prominent redpillers who are married and traditional redpillers who only seek marriage. The redpill just means an awakening to knowledge, what redpillers do with that knowledge is different on an individual level and group level.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:54 PM
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That's actually how I am as a person and I do have familial love. You can be mgtow and be a kind person who loves their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:21 PM
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How does a mgtow man let love into their heart? I ask this as a mgtow man. I've opened myself up many times yet instead of love I was filled with negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:58 PM
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I would say yes hesitantly in order to truly get to know her before the promised day. I'm very sure almost all RP men would say yes to a lifelong marriage to their dream girl. But that's just indulging in fantasies. You're missing the point of husband material being an insult. Of course it's not in your fantastical situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:25 PM
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You are assuming that their happiness and healthiness comes from being married. Or maybe men who are healthier, and better off socially and economically have better opportunities to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:02 PM
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It's insulting to some guys because it implies that you are the back up plan or settlement plan. There's actually a saying in the RP community that relates to it "if she didn't want you in her prime don't accept her in her decline." No one wants to be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:29 PM
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Being under the constant burden of performance to prove your worthiness to women and society is existentially exhausting. I would not be able to live like that, that's why I only focus my energy on doing things that make me happy and fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:48 PM
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True but how are you suppose to fit good pockets into skin tight pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:38 PM
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5/10 She's kind of a butter face. Profile looks generic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:29 PM
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I wouldn't say that. What I think is happening is similar to what's happened to the Japanese. It's break down of relationships due to how socializing has been affected by technology and ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:44 PM
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That's the way it's going it seems. Short and causal relationships are becoming the norm while long term relationships are on the decline. What's becoming the new norm doesn't interest me personally. I'd rather be alone than participate in hookup culture or jump from short relationship to short relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:36 PM
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I only look at porn when I'm at my lowest points mental health wise. There's no joy or fulfillment involved, just a moment of fleeting sexual high. Porn a huge problem for men yes, but a lot of times It's just an attempt to make you feel better or at least feel something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:10 AM
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I personally value other forms of intimacy above sexual intimacy as a religious person but at times I do feel like shit because I'm not getting sexual intimacy. My body and mind cries out for it and it can be painfully frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:25 PM
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Never said anything about you committing to a man you don't want. Yes, you're just describing what it means to be an individual. But we're not so unique that our ideals are wildly different from person to person like if you put them through a random number generator. Our ideals are not unknowable nor unpredictable, our behaviour can be observed and compared like any other animal. What are you doing to find said man? What do you think his ideals are going to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:48 AM
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That wasn't my point exactly, maybe I worded it poorly. I'm saying that it is a problem when women apathetically or purposefully deviate from male ideals while holding men firmly to female ideals then complain about non-commitment from men. I'm not for forcing anyone to be with anyone they don't want to. We need more understanding between each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:15 AM
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Why do women complain about commitment then? Not only that but they complain while not caring about what male ideals for commitment are or even complaining while purposefully deviating from what male ideals for commitment are. Being held to a standard goes both ways. Even when you speak of approaches, you didn't really think of how being pickier would work for a man. It simply wouldn't work for most men because of sexual dynamics. To find a suitable woman to commit to our approach has to be wide…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:43 AM
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Women are the choosers so it's irrelevant if a guy wants to just date women more attractive than himself and he's likely not going to have a good experience trying to do that, it would be like running face first into a brick wall over and over again. The problem to me is what's seen as attractive or high value is judged through female ideals and it's treated as universal. Women do not have to nor do they want to conform to male ideals to get commitment all the while insisting that men must confo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:22 AM
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I'm not even short, bald nor fat. That's a really simple minded view of genetics. My father is actually a cheating chad with many children from different women, he's in the 50s and married to a girl in her 20s right now. My mother is good looking too but not as much as my father. What has damaged me the most is the instability of my upbringing and having no father figure during those years. Because my mother and all these women want to chase chad and make him commit, what's left in the wake of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:02 AM
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and you don't see a problem with that? We're the same species and evolved to be complementary to each other. If we divided and polarized at the point of sex then collapse is inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:12 AM
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Stop worrying about what society and popular culture thinks. It will do you a lot of good. As someone who has checked out, I just live my life trying to find things that make me happy and fulfilled as opposed to things that make me feel worthless and useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:41 AM
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What makes you think that the guy is dating exclusively out of his league? There are tons of men dating within their league and even below their league that have little to no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:46 PM
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To me the redpill itself is just uncomfortable truth and that what we've been told since childhood were just nice lies. What you choose to do with that information is up to you. I have been largely mgtow and trad. I've never really bought into the "game" and strategies side of the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:52 AM
0

It's not polygamy exactly. But there's definitely an experience gap opening up between a minority of men and the majority of men. There is a minority men that can go on dates regularly, get into relationships easier and hookup consistently. I think the decline of long term relationships is also fueling it. Options seem to be increasing for one group and decreasing for the other. Looking at OLD you can see that the window is small and the real life approaches are niche at the moment and have been…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:16 PM
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Let's not be like that, it hurts to see people suffering to survive. I really hope we don't end up disconnected and adversarial toward each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:35 AM
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Let's hope we don't go the way of the Japanese. There's massive social break down among the middle aged to young population. I don't seeing us being as bad but it's just getting harder and harder for those who aren't already successful at attracting others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:49 PM
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