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Mr_Flim_Flam/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:23 AM
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Mr_Flim_Flam/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:20 PM
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Would you recommend that kind of periodization for some one who’s just got back into lifting again? Asking as I was a solid gym goer, of about 6 months, before covid. Lost all my gains, but started back 2 weeks ago on the stronglifts program 5 days a week. Was looking to change back into PPL 5 days a week on my upcoming third week.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 03:16 AM
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Based on some of you’re comments it seems like you’re operating in her frame. If you’re trying to please her and give her what she wants and when she asks for it, how are you the one leading the relationship
/r/askTRP21/04/21 08:28 PM
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Bro 25 isn’t old. You’ve still got plenty of prime time yrs left.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 07:28 PM
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Bro if you believe she didn’t know about his family then you’re falling for her game. It’s a possibility she didn’t know, but if anything that made the situation more taboo in her mind (making her want to do that even more).
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:29 PM
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If you’re looking for a history lesson, this isn’t the place.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 08:35 PM
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It doesn’t have to be sexual. You’re literally just vetting her. So realize what you don’t want in a woman and make a playful accusation that she does said thing. Don’t expect to get good at this overnight.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 09:16 PM
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Can you go into more detail about the subtle ways that woman try to walk over you? Or give an example.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 01:46 AM
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I’m someone who highly values my privacy as well. I simply don’t post my life on social media. Haven’t posted a pic in 2yrs, besides a view I’m seeing on my story once a year or so. I can see where you’re coming from, but if you really have this extreme view of social media maybe being used against you why even have it.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:15 AM
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I think you’re making it a bigger deal in your mind than the girls ever did in asking for it. It’s just your IG, and them having it shouldn’t put a damper on the rest of your life. I’ve had some plates for years that still currently don’t have my socials. And then I’ve had some plates that do have some of my socials. It’s up to you to decide if they have it. No need to d.e.e.r if they ask why they can’t have it if you tell them no.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:32 AM
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Don’t screw yourself over giving all your time to this one girl. She’ll smell the desperation and neediness. Go find/match with another girl and shoot the shots with her in the meantime. But to answer your initial question, I’d wait about 3/4 days before I set a future date with her.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:27 PM
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Well 1 billion dollars is a hell of a lot more valuable than one woman, unless she Mackenzie Scott or Oprah. But seriously, it can be used as a coping mechanism. And that’s not bad. You need to cope with the fact that she’s gone. Put some energy in having fun with some of your other plates. Even if they aren’t “the one”, once you engage in activities and convo/teasing/kino it’ll be fun. You’ve got to get out of your linger to the past mental space.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:06 AM
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I think it’s rude that you take the advice everyone gives you, and shove it up your ass so far that the girl you’re talking about reads it, (since she basically owns your ass at this point,) and improves herself instead. I had oneitis in the past myself. I had to internalize that I was the prize. You should do the same. P.S. In a reply to someone else you said, “abundance mentality isn’t reality.” It literally can become your reality as it has mine.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 03:58 AM
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I find that when I first get a girls number that I mix the mystery of my intentions with clear intentions. Some slight sex jokes helps a woman get used to my sexual frame before actually engaging in sex. I believe these jokes also relaxes them enough to get them to start showing their sexual side. Once I’ve laid then i find, a lot of the conversations are just naughty, when texting arranging a meet up.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 03:14 AM
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Do you literally say the first thing that comes to mind? I thought it was better to take a second and compose yourself before giving a response. Especially if it’s a shit test.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:46 PM
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In most U.S states they don’t have a total lockdown. Most of the U.S isn’t as densely populated as European countries. Because of this they’re saying don’t have a gathering of more than 10 people. I’m not saying I agree with that sentiment but people will do what they want until it’s lockdown and enforced. You can’t expect idiots to make smart decisions.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:28 PM
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Man I saw you on a thread earlier today getting mad at people for meeting girls on tinder. The truth is unless their government totally quarantines, people are still going to find a way to go out. It shouldn’t make you so angry. Go lift to let out some of that excess anger. Or maybe it’s because you can’t lift that your becoming triggered over other people’s life choices.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:18 PM
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Stop making new post about this shit damn.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:22 PM
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I’d say 15% or less. He’s just saying there is a noticeable difference in dropping about 5% body fat. I went from a below average height 230lbs, to same height 195lbs. Before I’d barely get looked at, now girls eye fuck me before I approach them. It’s a big difference. I’m still lifting to reach my goal of 180lbs but there’s already a huge difference in female attention. I got girls while I was fat too, but now it’s just even easier.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 04:53 PM
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And if she doesn’t answer, then that’s your answer. Aka she’s saying no.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 05:34 PM
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It seems like she broke up with you. Regardless move on with your life. Lift/keep lifting, get some plates, and continue on your mission.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 06:53 PM
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Just say “ still fucked” , if you care that much.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:26 AM
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You’re still supposed to have a goal to reach. If you have a goal, that should be all you need to push yourself hard. Whether it be something in school, career, or mental stoicism/game.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 11:59 AM
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Simply put tinder is a numbers game. It’s easy for girls to flake/not commit on tinder. But the response for that shit test that I’d say is “isn’t that what dates are for?”.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 04:02 PM
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Damn mate. You gonna angrily text back to everyone that’s calling you out. Yes she probably wants to fuck. But you shouldn’t escalate with her if you do stay in the room together.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 04:43 PM
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You’re lack of abundance is really showing. You shouldn’t care about her games. I’d next and get some other girls. If she really wants you, she’ll contact you but don’t wait on it man.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 09:57 PM
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Some men have a real scarcity mentality. So they believe doing whatever they’re wife wants gets them the cookie, and in the end she’ll still say I’m too tired tonight. Yes If they’re in that stage, she’s probably already dryer than a desert. And some men will always live in the their blue pill mindset. I don’t see why it would be.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 04:22 PM
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Are you saying that about the word should, because we don’t need to worry about what could be, and focus on what life is and how to navigate it?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 04:18 PM
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You sound like you’re developing oneitis for her. Also you claimed you don’t want to shit where you eat, yet are still asking us if you should take her out. But to answer your question, yes, you can do that. Just approach her as you would any other female. I wouldn’t recommend losing my job for a post wall lady though.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 09:20 PM
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I’m just curious, have you ever actually approached a girl and asked to waterfall her drink? How’d it go if you did? I remember doing stuff like that in like 7th/8th grade at gym.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 01:43 AM
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You need to listen to all the advice you’re being given. It’s perplexing that you don’t know if you’re being catfished, and you’re talking to her on Snapchat!
/r/askTRP20/07/19 12:27 AM
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His examples may not be as great to you. What do you enjoy outside of pussy? Before trp, females and sex were on my mind constantly. Now with a much higher n count, and a greater sense of myself, I know I enjoy learning different aspects to continue my life forward. I enjoy going out with my boys to play basketball. I could continue but you have to figure out what you want life to be besides getting laid.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 08:59 PM
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It amazes me how far some betas will go, just to be blue balled. I hope that guy wakes up one day.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 03:25 PM
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It can be difficult getting a girl to meet up with you on tinder. That’s why most people advise that it’s not your only way of getting a girl. If you’re only talking to girls on tinder, you probably don’t have an abundance mentality. Which makes it even harder to get a girl to meet you from tinder. They’ll see the desperation in your messages.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 10:35 PM
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Look up deer. If you think that applies to you work on internalizing dare instead.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 01:36 PM
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Simple, if you don’t want to be that guy then don’t. If you don’t care then ok do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 11:54 PM
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Ok I had this problem before with a milf I was fucking. I’d cum fast in the beginning and couldn’t even get it up for round 2. She’d be frustrated and shit test but I just always played it cool like it didn’t matter. But on the inside I was like what’s going on, just basically killing myself in my head and so it kept happening. I just realized I was causing this to happen from my state of mind. So I told myself next time you fuck her don’t get in your head and worry about what she thinks, why is…
/r/askTRP09/05/19 04:38 AM
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Best one so far. Use this or some variation of it. You’re new but hopefully soon you’ll just be able to come up with these on your own. You can’t come to reddit in a face to face convo.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 04:16 PM
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If you stress about it you’ll only end up getting in your head and make this cycle continue. When you actually have sex don’t worry about coming fast. If it happens it happens, just get ready for the next round. That’s where I have the most fun after my first nut. I last forever after the 1st nut and feel like I’m totally in control of everything.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:53 PM
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Never thought to correlate those things but I love it when a girl uses tongue more aggressively than passively/none at all. From my plates the one that uses tongue aggressively we fuck for hours. I’m aggressive, she takes it well, rides me good and forever when I tell her to. The other two plates don’t use tongue when kissing. One isn’t too good of a rider, while the other is the most submissive girl I’ve ever had she rides well when I say also.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 03:36 PM
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Nobody likes spoilers.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 03:17 PM
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It really shouldn’t matter to you. Take it like a shit test such as “ I’d be the best ugly father ever” or just show indifference “well this ugly man pulled you”. Either way it shouldn’t bother you that badly. DNGAF attitude, work on your insecurities.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 05:32 AM
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That’s why we have male friends.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 02:32 AM
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I see I was expecting to forgot about her because I could call different girls to drain me at anytime. I see I should just accept that these memories and emotions will pass one day, just live.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:32 PM
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I just need to start living more.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:30 PM
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That’s got be a fatality. Finish him!!!
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:19 AM
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True. Oh well I’m just gonna keep her on back burner for sex.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:55 PM
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No I broke up with her but either way I’m thinking so too. Maybe I can just keep her on back burner for sex.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:52 PM
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I was thinking that myself. Seemed like it.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:51 PM
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I think your spot on with the talking/tone. I’m gonna continue working on myself. I broke down in this LTR too much, they are hard work. But I won’t get back with her. I’ve been having a lot of fun on this “break” and all these other women just make me not care as much as when we were together and I was being beta.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:51 PM
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If she was really into you she wouldn’t care if your in a relationship or not. She might even find it more exciting. Had plenty of girls sucking me knowing I was also messing with other girls. Make sure you aren’t being too desperate when you talk to her. It’ll dry up the desire that was there.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:46 PM
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I broke up with her because we stopped having sex (we used to fuck for hrs but that’s my fault I was too beta for a bit), she never stops talking and interrupts me when I do speak, her mind was very complacent. She was totally happy living with the income we had (not much), couldn’t get her to try college I’m in college now. Both 21yrs old btw.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:28 PM
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