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The hedonistic treadmill extends into infinity. There is more pleasure than we can drink, but we only consume it more, drowning in it until we get burnt out and depressed that we aren't 5 tiers higher on the scale. People with the big fancy houses are eating the same foods and buying the same things. Most of them are are just sitting around, drowning in their accumulation in their bonus rooms, and watching the same brain rotting cable TV (ick). But we are here, being, existing, as a creative for…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 01:16 PM
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Cologne (scents in general) is a good psyche trigger as well. You wear it, you feel good, it'll set up a reoccurring state where that scent takes your mind where you would like for it to go. Incense is great too.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 12:01 PM
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Great post, poingant. Gets me excited for a meditative brain detoxing. There is so much more below the infinite surface level distractions.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 01:42 PM
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Word, why put all your energy into the "struggle" to earn/deserve something? That just uses your power to create problems and limitations(often invisible) on oneself. You are what you believe you are, the only thing getting in the way is the life long programming telling you that you aren't worthy yet. Your most powerful form is this form, all that arcane ancient knowledge that has been obscured and scattered has only lead you here, to be, a being, on the cutting edge of existence. Claim your po…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 01:38 PM
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You have to make your own fucking truth. You can soak up all this advice on the world, but until you take your personal judo onto this world, you're not practicing. School, job, money, women, so much of it is empty bullshit people try to cram down other people's throats like altruism because they stuffed themselves on the lies buffet and are addicted to its sugar. We're on the Internet now, 20 billion special butterflies are competing with you at all times. If you're not searching for and develo…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 05:38 PM
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That's what's on my mind. Gray hair.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 02:00 AM
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Enlightenment is a never ending process that extends beyond nirvana. But it's a totally different game at that point.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 11:57 AM
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If your destiny is isolation and to drink up this fever sleep virtual world then you'll find it. You'll be making passionate love to your VR waifu (boy) as a six winged angel(that's also a demon) and who the fuck can tell you that's not REAL? That you're genes didn't survive this long just to get lost in your own fantasy world and blow onto the spot between your legs on your computer chair? That's fuckin destiny, that's meant to be.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 11:43 AM
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Those are a lot of beginnings. It's nice to consider there are no endings. Only the evolution. That is the natural state, to be growing and exploring. Even once you discover how to discover your path, then you discover your path, then your path leaves you wondering if you're doing the right thing and you have doubts and you wonder if you're supposed to be more. You listen to your heart, and you continue your path, and it's fun.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 03:32 PM
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It can also be useful to set your ego aside and be one with everything. Whatever entity that you're interacting with came from the same set of consequences that generated this whole world. They may be different, but ultimately their difference is only there so one can mirror, reflect, and contemplate it to know one's own self. You are not an isolated, alien creature lost in time. You're here, everything is here, to explore. To try to "understand" would only be viable if we weren't on the edge of…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 03:46 PM
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There is something deeper than the game of man and resources. This entire system you see around you is based off of two types of energy, and exploration of such is integral to letting true beauty breathe into this planet. That being said though, most people (men and women) are too concerned about getting points in our klout-based economy to be concerned with magic.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 08:49 PM
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Also, you train your brain to actually enjoy existing instead of it being a constant struggle. And then you keep training it, to enjoy things even more.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 01:40 PM
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It's bigger than money, bigger than validation. The daily practice is bigger than words, bigger than plans.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 01:32 PM
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When you WANT girls can smell it on you and it gives them all the power. When you are about you, they want some of that awesome you that you got going on already.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 11:47 AM
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Money isn't real, it's a system to keep churning the butter until we figure out something better. But friends... Friends extend beyond all this illusion.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 02:23 PM
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It's important. It's really important. Atm they are basically skinner boxes that keep us clicking and cleaning. But there are people touching other people's VR faces,right now, as little anime girls and Ugandan knuckles. Yes, it's funny and silly, but it's also terrifying because it's THAT THING. That virtual reality thing that has never ACTUALLY existed before. Everything has built up to it, and it's just starting. It's going to explode into something, for sure.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 02:22 PM
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I believe most people aren't going anywhere, they are stuck "getting there". The irony is, you can go in any direction and it will be the right direction, if you are employing a suitable perspective.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 02:17 PM
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Before the eternal struggle, all that could exist was peace. When the battle is over, only peace will remain. Peace permeates eveything. Bottom line, if you act from peace you will have outcomes that are a result of your peace. If you act in fear you will have fear-produced outcomes. Again, goals are fine. But they won't carry your to peace. It's already here. Might have to look up that movie though sounds neat.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 02:15 PM
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Non. I'm not touting nihilism. I'm pointing toward the bhuddist principle dhukka which means never being satisfied. You can make goals and grind and define, and that's fine. That's the game, naming things. But it will never satisfy you. Not unless you have the tools in your mental toolbox to enjoy the silence. You're right, it is a problem that's existed with us forever. But a person can be happy and content, regardless of circumstance. A person can dwell in peace, regardless of circumstance. Mo…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 05:00 PM
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How much money and friends do you need until you're okay?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 03:34 PM
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Who hasn't? Video games are an amazing innovation that will shift culture and our view of reality permenately, forever. Problem is, they are fingering at something we don't know how to deal with yet. Video games, or any distraction, can't fill the void. The only thing that can fill a void, is nothingness.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 02:59 PM
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Yall know brianna wu is literally a tranny that makes worse-than-shovelware games with bratz characters right?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 03:21 PM
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Are you ready to GET YOUR LIFE STARTED? VALIDATIIIOOOOOOONNNNN
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 04:32 PM
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Feeling good is a part of the solution. If you leave a job and get into another job without changing your perspective, the new job probably won't save you. You'll find less and less outside stuff can save you. You change the inside, then it changes the world around you. Whatever pattern you perpetuate is going to be what grows inside you, including the feeling of never being satisfied and always wanting, despite what you may already have.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 03:22 PM
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When you are in the pattern of grooving with the universe, everything is pretty groovy. Pursuit of mastery in your perception brings you closer to beauty and truth.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 02:56 PM
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I've never made it to 90 days. It ain't easy.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 03:23 PM
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Round and round, gizu gizu. Let's spin it homie.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 05:26 PM
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Can't win em all. Were you attracted to her? Most importantly, were you enjoying yourself/having fun? People can sense that. If you're all caught up in your head with thinking about what they are thinking, then you aren't taking the lead and having a blast for yourself while bringing them on the ride. Don't sweat it though. I've endured a few hard shutdowns. The worst of which i encountered again when i was doing my own thing. They actually ended up cooking me and their female friend dinner. It …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 06:18 PM
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Growing mindfulness in each individual so they can operate from a base made of their most powerful form, free of fear and able to let their character and true self shine. Of course, if it were always perfect, there would be no journey. Suffering is unavoidable, but what that suffering means is for the awakened self to decide.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 05:53 PM
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Be peace in the noise. There will always be noise in this information overload era. There will always be low qaulity info pouring into people's eyes and filling their brain to capacity with things that are novel at best, but quite often fear based (videos of people fighting, acting a fool). It all keeps our system in a constant state of wired-ness. Being able to not look at your phone when around other people is now a practice. When people see you aren't glued to your phone, they'll be drawn to …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 12:45 PM
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Then I remember, words are words. Arcane amalgamations that point to a concept. Reliant on me to decipher, to make words make sense in a way that can feed this hunger inside me. Am i incomplete? Where is the path, the one that will show me the truth? I quite myself. I allow myself to be. I am not moving. I am not progressing. I have to do something, but I have no idea what, no idea how to find it. The pressure builds in me. I quiet myself. I feel the barrier that is my skin communicate with the …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 05:24 PM
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I suppose you could also consider that you are in this moment forever, and have been since before you took this form to have a swing at this scenario, and you'll be around after you are gone also. You are connected to everything. Everything flows through you. You're not an isolated being looking out into the world, locked away. You can play by the rules you've been taught, it is a functional way. But RP reveals many aspects of the game that don't serve us or our joy. Things that don't serve us, …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 03:21 PM
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Again, the water became the clouds. Never destroyed. Shifting from one form to the next. More cars go by, not the same cars. The rain falls on me again. Am I the same me?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 03:08 PM
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I'd leave more room for plausible deniability. They'd probably better enjoy being invited to a more intimate kind of date (say at your place). If they accept, they are into you. If they say "we're not having sex" they probably want to bang, but need to use their lmr. Saying "I'll give you the rough sex" when asking them out says "give me all of your game pieces and stop playing, I'm going to get what I want and you have no leverage." Of course, said the right way to the right girl, could work. B…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:02 PM
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The female is there for your pleasure. She wants you to be in charge and get what you want from her. This will make her happy. Yes, it does take practice. You don't always have to slam the lever down and try to kill 'em with it. Sometimes you do. Ultimately, focus on what you like, what feels good to you. That will ULTIMATELY lead to your girl feeling good. I imagine if you pay money to a prostitute, she is in charge of the experience. I honestly don't think it's what you're looking for homie.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 10:35 PM
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Historically. But if we were to advanced civilization into the future, the thing that has never happened before, doesn't it start with us?
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:40 AM
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You create your reality. If you want to experience being alone in the universe, you will. If you realize you agree the universe, you are. Whatever story you want to tell yourself, a good one a bad one a sad one. One where YOU REALIZE AND STRUGGLE AND MAKE IT. One where you realize, don't struggle, and make it. Watch your feelings. Follow the ones that guide you to peace and joy. Once this whole simulation is erased, the only thing remaining will be love.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 01:27 PM
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I spent a year or two wallowing in misery over breaking up with my first love. Feverish, painful. However it started me on the early early steps of my path. Today I only have the good feelings we shared. I don't think about her usually, and don't harbor any bad feelings. I've experienced other women, good and bad. I found myself, and how to be happy without needing another to validate me (this was a critical juncture). All that suffering was 100% somthing I was doing to myself, because I didn't …
/r/askTRP29/08/17 11:54 AM
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I was a daily smoker for about 2 years. I don't regret my time. It was a deeply introspective, spiritual, and healing time. But it served it's purpose, and was hogging my energy and time resources. I found a book that helped me a bunch, "The Potless Pot High". It helped me realize that the things smoking evokes in you are always there, it's just a matter of finding it yourself. One of the best analogies is being in a pool and not being able to swim. You can kick off the bottom and surface for a …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 11:47 AM
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Looking back at it, even the bad stuff gets more beautiful everyday. There was an epiphany moment where good became the default for me. I had been exploring philosophy and meditation, and it eventually just clicked. The world stopped being pain and fear and hunger and reaction. I had attained nirvana, and everything was prefect, the game had been won. Then things went back to normal. My fears overtook me again. But everything is a pattern. I thought I had reached the end, but really I was still …
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:30 PM
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My advice is don't bank on the validation from that first score. Sex is great, but it's probably best to find someone you can explore it with a few times. The first time with any new person is kind of an awkward mess until you can figure eachother out. Attraction is both a game and a skill, and it's natural for some face rolling to occur while you develop your style. I know the drive to get laid is a mighty force, but don't be afraid to fail. And remember, you are the prize. Do what makes you ha…
/r/askTRP11/02/17 01:27 PM
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Everything we do is just tiny little patterns repeated over time. The War of Art will help you understand "why" you run. I'd suggest another book "the slight edge", which will help you understand that the positive things you do today will have invisible benefits that won't pay out until the future. Media and technological culture have us trained and convinced that big effort moves make huge resolving life changes. The truth is, it has to be grown over time. In the beginning, we may not be able t…
/r/askTRP09/01/17 11:54 AM
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Sounds like really similar situations. I dig it. Thanks man, that's some solid input.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 07:38 PM
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I know man. It seems to be that big of a mental block. She's orgasmed from it before, but it took forever. But sometimes not even it can do the trick.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 05:23 PM
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I dig it. I've gotten her a few times with "I'll force you to cum" but I think your idea is worth trying.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 03:59 PM
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I got one man. The real deal. It still ain't gettin it.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 03:51 PM
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It sounds like that kind of situation. She's super eager to please and when she's trying to get off she seems like she's anxious about taking so long, which just exacerbates things.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 02:56 PM
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The LEAST I can do is quit smoking alone. I think you're right. Too much time locked up alone smoking myself wild. It's still amazing and I still love it, but I HAVE to try something else.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 04:21 PM
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Fuuuuuck you're probably right
/r/askTRP18/08/16 04:19 PM
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I agree. When I wake up at 3:45 am to hit the gym it's easy. It's something I wanted to make a part of me. I think now that I have a good thing going, self sabotage is trying to weasel it's way in. After more reflection I'm still suffering a lot from oneitis. I know how to cure it. Just gotta keep grinding.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 02:58 PM
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less self-loathing Probably a solid place to start. I do set goals, but it's a skill I should give more time to practice. I think more digestible goals will def help.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 02:51 PM
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Maybe I need to start working backwards with my goals. I want the final product, now. But you can only ever go through the door in front of you. I try to stay mindful and present. But I have trouble feeling like I'm growing and changing. Thinking it out, a fresh look and fresh faces might help me feel like I'm escaping the wheel. I am building habits, and being killed by routine. I'm probably okay. I probably just gotta keep going, but keep trying new things and meeting new people. I'm sick of c…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:29 PM
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Now I have 4 plates and 1 downvote. Stop victimizing yourself.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 02:44 PM
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Everything is change. I have three plates. They all have boyfriends. I am the prize. Live with abundance. Stop victimizing yourself.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 11:42 PM
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Tl;dr: be cool. Don't fight. Typically when you're doing good and someone "puts you down" it's because they are autistic/jealous/socially inept. If it's a friend I'll let them dangle for a moment. Let them think about what they just said. Then, spin it into a joke for them and laugh it off. Return to the status qou without getting butthurt. If it's someone I don't feel like protecting from themselves, just calmly mental judo them. Let them over extend themselves, hit nothing, fall off the cliff …
/r/askTRP17/05/16 11:42 AM
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For zen and peace, living a pleasing life enjoying the game and experience? Alan Watts. I suggest the audio book collections of "It's You!" And "out of your mind". There are also plenty of Alan Watts resources on youtube as well. Right now I'm enjoying my power trip by focusing on activation energy. I would suggest "Stop saying your fine!" It's a good source for productivity habits. For example: Try to follow through on an impulse in under 5 seconds of getting it. Longer than 5 seconds and the a…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 03:36 PM
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Recently my research has led me to understand I don't have to be miserable. You got the nail on the head and I'm not even done reading. I'm just so excited someone else gets it. It's not mysticism or feel good fluff, you operate inside of a mental model. Everything you perceive about reality is filtered through you're lens. You grow, change, and importantly let go of old parts of yourself. I've successfully lived the best day of my life like a fucking month in a row because I'm developing my per…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 11:38 AM
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Never underestimate the power of the perspective shift. That being said, I wouldn't rely on drugs for fucking someone. Or alcohol. Once you graduate from trp (and use it as a reference instead of a bible), you know what's going to get you fucking the chicks you want? You. And every single day will be a good, peaceful, beautiful day of progress because you turned happiness into a science. Life becomes something to immerse yourself into instead of escape from. Do drugs responsibly, because you're …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 11:58 AM
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That's disgusting and great.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:57 AM
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You are complete.
/r/askTRP27/03/16 05:03 PM
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Right. Because now that he made a HUGE EMOTIONAL LAND WHALE WITH NOT MUCH TO LOSE cry in public, this is totally over.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 03:39 PM
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Just take your feet off the counter bruh... some fights are not worth winning.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 11:59 AM
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I just have to throw myself off my path. Into the bush. I keep doing the same things, and while it has gotten me this far, it's just time to let a lot of my old self go. To wander into the unknown. Turning down the volume of the infinite hypotheticals in my mind. And rely on instinct. The things I built up are tumbling down. Sick of waiting for a better future. It's always at least one more day away, regardless of how close I get. I'm broke. I'm trading drugs for yoga lessons, literally. Until I…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 11:53 AM
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That's a really, really solid share. I think it would benefit people if you made a post with your thoughts on it. It really resonated with me. Uh... I'm actually terrified. To the core. I am the person who desperately needs to grab change. But I'm scared. It's my mission to confront it. I've never left the place I was born, and I'm terrified to try. To even imagine it's possible.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 09:56 PM
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Go on. How does one start the path?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 08:20 PM
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Wrap up: I dipped into a few more stores and didn't really see any chicks I was digging. That's what I get for doing daygame, mid-day on a tuesday in a fairly boring town. Friend called me up and we made plans for the evening. I definitely feel more "practiced", but I can't say I'm at the point where I can just approach any chick I want and take my swing at her. I did notice as I talked to more and more people (small interactions not worth reporting), I started to feel like needy. I was giving o…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 10:54 PM
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Bonus round/attempt 4: walked around an outdoor mall. Dropped into the large department store I used to work in and chatted up old acquaintances. One in particular is really into lolita fashion. When I met her, I went in hard but ended up just becoming "another fan". But against my better judgement I swung in on her to say hi. She's balls deep in an ltr, and is leaving to teach in Japan soon. Even still, she seemed genuinely happy to see me. "So what have you been doing today? " "Walking around …
/r/askTRP02/03/16 09:51 PM
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I'm a surreal guy. I've ended my conversations today with "well fellow traveller of Earth, I must continue my journey." Do I pull it off? ... who cares? Haha.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 09:42 PM
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Who has played his hand in why I'm even out here in the first place. I'm practicing. It's getting easier. But, I'm far from the people I aspire to.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 09:24 PM
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OmLaLa, if YOU tell me to approach I will.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 08:44 PM
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Attempt 3: was having a real hard time getting my balls together to approach again. Ran into a girl I used to have a big crush on. She used to be a 9/10 but then she went all tumblr and cut her hair super short and stopped wearing makeup. Even still, she is a good conversationalist and there are hopes maybe she still has an awesome body under the baggy clothes (she still works out). We talked for a while and eventually I was like "Do you still identify as female?" "Yes. I identify as female." "W…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 08:43 PM
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Attempt 2:another attractive nerd girl. It's my type. "I like your kyubey sherr shirt. " "thank you!" "BLEH" and I kept walking. Kinda spilled my spaghetti on that one.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:36 PM
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Update 1: Went to a college campus. Saw a group of about 6 nerdy people. They were surrounding an 8/10 queen bee with dyed hair, tats, and a good butt. My type, so I infiltrated and started yucking it up with the group. However, as I started to befriend the hive, someone grabbed the hottie and retreated. Still made friends with an artsy 4/10 and a submissive beta dude who clearly thought I was hot shit. Campus is pretty quiet. I feel like that group dive was easier than a 1 on 1. I'll keep at it…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:31 PM
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Maybe I'll do it just to see if the game can be won, at all.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 07:00 AM
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I'm at the bottom of the world and everyday my potential is swelling and becoming sharper. All of my fears are fading. I feel like everyday, something impossible becomes easy. I'm terrified of what this could mean. I'm terrified that I'll challenge life and win in ways impossible for someone "destined to be subpar" like me. That I could become that shining light of man's ability to grow and change himself. I'm not used to it. My head is telling me "chill bro look at porn and eat junk food, this …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 10:19 PM
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When in great emotional pain, I've been visualizing patterns. Recently I broke up with someone. Every missed beat of that pattern was like a gut punch at first. Now, less than a week later, it's just a tingle. I lifted, dieted, nofapped, and went to bed as early as I could force myself because I was sad and overwhelmed. Then when the old pattern started to lose its hold over my rythmn in life, everything is getting better at a rate that feels undeservedly good. Tl,dr: take care of yourself, curl…
/r/askTRP27/02/16 07:05 PM
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Bad news: The terrifying world you're being plunged into is real, and you're about to walk through Hell and be reborn. Good news: You can learn the tools here to survive and thrive. Look at my post history. I swallowed the pill, fell in love, then that love got destroyed (mostly my fault). The person I'm whining about is becoming a stranger to me. And I'm having to grapple with the fact that every aspect of my life is getting better now that they are gone.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 05:55 PM
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I agree. I believe an Alpha mindset changes how you perceive defeats. An Alpha is fine with losing, because he has the understanding that defeat is part of the game. Abundance mentality. Learn from the experience and adapt.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 05:46 PM
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Thanks. Red Pill destroys excuses. So when I look at how fucked up I let things get I just think "oh, I know what to do but I still fucked up. Guess having a lonely broken life of poverty is just my destiny." So then I just sit around feeling miserable, instead of breaking my patterns and investing in myself. I'm so deep in the hole those little victories feel like they don't even affect the big picture. Obviously this is flawed thinking, I just have to practice living in the moment again. The d…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:27 AM
2

You're right and I'm retarded. Literally brought this on myself. The girl leaving knows if she stays I'll just get clingier and fatter. I agree. I love this person. But I suffocated them when I stopped loving myself first and second, with her at third. She doesn't need a boyfriend right now. She's red pill and self aware that she can have whatever she wants from her orbiters. Why did I get comfy until I damn near decayed into full blue pill? Why did I force our dynamic into a box? Probably a com…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 01:56 AM
1

Funsies. Post redpill love. It was comfy. Ultimately I got too comfy. If I had kept lifting and spinning plates, instead of trying to hide from the world, me and her would both be in better places.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 11:36 PM
1

Thanks. I know you're right.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 11:01 PM
2

Thanks friend. I really do feel like it's back to basics.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 10:12 PM
1

And that's the thing man. We were together a long time before we started LTRing, and I knew what I was getting into. Her ex before me was leeeauges more attractive, especially before any RP knowledge. But she STILL cheated on him with me. I'm worried I won't know a cool person anymore because I forced her into an LTR I knew wouldn't last. But the dude she cheated with is... harmless. I can't stand I'm having to be this stressed because some furry Naruto handed gay boy banged a girl who honestly,…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 10:11 PM
1

Yeah. I'm dramatizing a little in case anyone else reads it and thinks "ah fuck I know that feel". In case it somehow helps someone else who is grappling with their oneitus over their unicorn. I'm going to be fine. I'm going to be better than ever. But it's still a struggle to understand that person who talked about having kids and getting old together is gone. Gone because the guy at gamestop has snake bites and does some shit called "threading" which look like fucking Naruto jutsus. And everyt…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 02:32 AM
1

It's like your asking me to say farewell to this world as I perceive it, again. To once again cast myself into the dark churning waters of the unknown. To let every missed repitition of my precious little pattern wash over me, pounding consciousness into me, that my world is gone. My fucking world is gone. I get it. It's a big place, buncha people's lives get fucked daily. But I am once again thrust into something new and empty. To begin building yet again. The pain one must endure to take contr…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 12:14 AM
2

We found eachother as garbage. I was unemployed for 5 years, obese, college graduate with a crippling fear of employment. She was a "lies about being 18 to the guys she meets on okcupid" mental ward regular. In that time, we both improved 10 fold, but still have a lot of catching up to do. I'm obsessed with chasing the meaning of life and seek a true passion. She went from being garbage (I nicknamed her garbage-chan), to being razor sharp witty, confident, sexy and legal. The time we spent toget…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 11:33 PM
6

Oh no my friend, I'm just high and thinking super hard about stuff. The reddit mail interupted me and reminded me I have a choice in how I feel. I'm really stewing in life and red pill philosophy. It felt good to be messaged.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 11:10 PM
5

Thank you for the suggestion. I was sinking into an existential crisis and you snapped me out of it.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 11:03 PM
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I need a massive redpill redose. Extreme oneitus for an amazing girl, who I enjoyed every minute of, but my life is falling apart. I lived in the dream of a happy LTR for a while. It was nice. Banged her super good, spent an hour cuddling her while she was asleep this morning, and decided the time was right. Grabbed her phone, took me 5 seconds to find in text of her fucking her orbiter, stood over her on the bed and said "you're cheating on me. " and dropped the phone next to her. I already kne…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 06:17 PM
1

That's the dream. I have to accept that I can't know the path, but I absolutely have to choose a direction to start heading in.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 01:38 AM
1

It's true. I worked hard for my shitty apartment after being a NEET. I absolutely need to appreciate certain things more.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 11:01 PM
1

Damn. Thank you. It's so simple but I think absolutely critical to understand.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 11:00 PM
1

You're right, man.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 12:09 AM
1

What's curious about that is how I struggle to express myself creatively. I've backed out of doing stand up comedy twice. But, I've been making strides torwards overcoming that life long fear, of creating flawed content and by extension reveal I'm a flawed person. But whether I'm a recluse or an eccentric, there is no need to hold back as long as it suits the context.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:54 PM
2

In that sense, life is a struggle over the mastery of fear. You pick a goal, and do what it takes to reach it. Failure doesn't matter, because you can keep trying and improving for as long as your alive.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:41 PM
2

That's what I'm chasing day and night. Trying to connect where self improvement meets enlightenment. It's become my obsession.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:37 PM
2

If you don't mind, could you expound on that? I'm relatively new to smoking, but it's become an everyday thing for me.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:35 PM
2

Downloading now. I guess what I'm trying to do is obtain or create a vehicle for financial freedom while I chase after my goals for a fulfilling and satisfying life. No more spending 80% of my life waiting to live for 20% of it.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 08:26 PM
1

It's like throwing a goldfish into the ocean.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 02:39 PM
3

Thanks man. I've deluded myself into thinking my weight wasn't that big of a deal, because I had some RP success. But holy shit what the fuck was I thinking. I'm starting fresh, and getting my body right is now my highest priority in life.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 03:18 PM
2

Something like "Life is lined on all sides by betrayal and dissapointment. But, if you lift, you can get your dick sucked. " It's just something I saw around here, wish I could give credit for it. It's really helped me swallow the red pill for the second time.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:59 PM
1

I'm reading this book now. This list is a super useful way to remind myself of the concepts. Super valuable share, man.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 09:44 PM
1

So, The Red Pill is amoral right? No good, no bad. Just the facts, man. So, sure, the fact that you CAN have a girl buy you tickets and then bail on her is totally red pill. However, it is not what I believe as alpha. Alphas are virtuous. Alphas take actions that move things forward, not backwards. Very recently, I was doing something really fucked up that I knew was wrong, but fuck it-- the world sucks right? Why should I even give a fuck? Even though deep down, it was fucking me up. So, I stop…
/r/askTRP03/10/15 12:39 PM
3

"I'll proooobably still be banging college age chicks."
/r/askTRP23/09/15 07:12 PM
1

Let's uncover the strings that control the system. I have some stories I think are worth telling.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 01:04 PM
0

"The one who calls the dork is the dork, you double dork. " Sounds to me like she's just being playful. I always have a "cute" nickname and a "cheeky" nickname for girls, they typically have them for me. They call me "papa" or some variation of my name. They also call me "fatfat" or "old man" (... I'm 26). It's just playful banter to get me to play with them.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 12:02 PM
2

I could totally see myself watching Rick and Morty over banging some chick. But, Rick and Morty ain't going no where, and new chicks are always fun. You were already in. You literally could have done anything and gotten laid. She put her butt on you? "Mmph. You kinda got a booty, don't ya?" Boom. Sets the sexual tone. Escalation naturally occurs.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 11:48 AM
0

The more you improve, the more you realize how alone you are. But, you don't necessarily get brought down by the loneliness.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 03:02 PM
1

Asd is a totally different beast than rejection. No girl wants to feel like a slut. Even if they want to fuck, almost all new girls will put up asd. I've had a girl outright tell me "I want to fuck super bad,but I refuse to on the first date". At the point a simple "let's fuck and say we didn't" was enough to bring the wall crashing down. As far as escalation goes, my strength comes from being funny. My physical escalation suuuucks, but you have to try anyway. You gotta find small ways to breach…
/r/askTRP12/09/15 08:43 PM
2

I'd go for some place you can walk around at. Some place she'll feel safe. The five times I walked around a bit with a girl as a first meeting, I got laid. Taking girls to a restaurant, for some reason, is a zero percent success rate for me. Also keep in mind, if it's not what you want to do, you can always just not go out with her. Like, if you have something more fun to do. Her seeing that you have options, and aren't going to bend your world around to suit her, will show her you value how you…
/r/askTRP12/09/15 08:04 PM
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Sounds to me like she wants to skip to the good stuff. Bring her on over to your place. Don't ask "Do you want to come to my place?", say "Aight, let's just do netflix at my place."
/r/askTRP12/09/15 01:38 PM
1

I feel ya man. I remember that feeling. For me, it was kinda like trying to not shit myself. I felt that way for 3 years everytime I saw a girl who LOOKED like my ex. Post-redpill, now when I see her it's kinda nice. She looks happy with life. I'm happy with life. I would have never gotten to be who I am today if I continued to validate myself with my relationship with her. It took a long time to break my oneitus, but redpill is like the chemo to a cancer that just grows and grows the more you d…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:24 PM
3

Wow. She outright told you that she was keeping it hostage. First thing to consider is it even worth getting back? Are these items you can't simply let go? If you choose this route, I'd say just drop contact. Don't say "You know what? Keep it." Because she is using your possessions as bargaining chips. If you absolutely need your stuff back, I'd just try to set up a window with an excuse. "Uh, okay. But I'm headed to a friend's/work/party/event." Then just get your hands on your stuff as fast as…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 10:51 AM
3

This post is so good I can't even properly put it into words. I'm exploring deep and hard to figure out how to escape from this system of grinding away just to get by. People spend their whole lives without even trying to challenge it. Sometimes it never even crosses their minds. You shared something with a massive amount of value for completely free, and it found it's way to me at the perfect time. While I don't have much to offer you that is of value in return, I can at least promise you that …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 04:07 PM
1

I too had this epiphany after getting high. It made me realize how deeply my ambitions are affected by the desire to be "too good to forget/leave". I can't say I've cured myself of it, but being aware and present about it makes it lose its power over you. Congrats on your progress homie.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 03:59 PM
2

I like to stop to consider if I've hit a point where I'm the kind of guy who deserves to be her first. Like, can I offer her the full emotional experience, instead of just being another pump and dump. My first time was amazing, and was with another virgin. I don't want to cheat someone that same feeling.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 03:54 PM
5

Sometimes when my eyes feel heavy, I look up a video called "last moments with Odin". It's a video of a reformed convict having to put down his rehab dog. Even just thinking about it is kinda making my eyes water. But, I'll watch it, cry my eyes out, and feel amazing. My eyes feel cleansed and bright. My emotions feel pure, because it's coming from a place of beauty instead of anger or spite. I do this about twice a year. But, angry and sad things never stand a chance at making me cry. If that w…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 10:33 PM
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I usually just make eye contact, but poker face enough that they get all curious about what's kicking around in my head. They normally squirm around a bit and repeat "What?!". Then, if the venue is right, I'll say "Come here." If they say "Why?" Just say nothing and they'll probably cave and scoot closer. Then escalate physically for a bit. Otherwise, I'll just bring up a topic that clearly has nothing to do with what I was just thinking about. Keep 'em guessing.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 03:30 PM
2

I know you're going to be bombarded with "No More Mr. Nice Guy", but, yeah. No More Mr. Nice Guy. I myself put off reading it for a looong time because I thought it would be "introduction fluffy stuff". I thought I had already progressed to the point where I'd be wasting my time, but it really does hit some core components that frankly no other resource really nails. Also, don't worry, you'll get to keep your "nice" side. You won't have to FORCE yourself to be cruel. The most critical aspect is …
/r/askTRP24/08/15 03:25 PM
1

Everyday I want the world to prove me wrong. I want to tell a girl I have hotter chicks than her, so I don't care if she is interested, and I want her to say: "You pig! You fuckin' pig! Have fun taking advantage of your low-self esteem sluts! You're disgusting! I don't want anything to do with you!" And most the time, yeah, they'll be a little heated. They'll react hastily and emotionally. Then, after their little barrage bounces off of my frame, they'll turn to "I'm so glad I was wrong about yo…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 02:48 PM
1

Are you dead? Then it's not over.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:43 PM
3

I dig your awareness, dude. I believe the more girls you have/have experienced, the easier it gets. There are girls I've hooked up with that I wouldn't brag about. But, I had my reasons for doing it at the time. Don't let people slut shame you and say "aw yeah you get girls sure, BUT THEY AREN'T CUTE GIRLS". A 4/10 that is down to slam any time has its uses over a 8/10 that makes you move the fucking planet for a hand beezy. Just remember to challenge your self limiting beliefs. Aim for the top.…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 01:42 PM
4

The end is never the end. This is the start of your new world. A new reality. I won't even bother encouraging you to continue, because I think you are already started down a path that is a one way trip to... well, what's next. I'm actually excited for you. I've had Internet girlfriends. I've had my life ruined by a toxic ltr that took me years to recover from. Looking back at what used to be the most cringey, gut churning experiences that I would have fever dreams over, it's all just a silly thi…
/r/askTRP09/08/15 03:07 PM
3

The part forward will be lonely at times. It's probably the most painful rp thing to accept on some level, you will always be alone in the universe. If people see you change and take control of your path in life, they will come at you like animals. Your absolute best friends will label you. Label you an asshole, a "user", a sociopath. This is just crab bucketing. If you are climbing up, they'll pull you down. This is subconscious, and they will feel completely justified in it. You have to show t…
/r/askTRP08/08/15 02:39 PM
1

I intend to do this with plates. Not drunk, drugged, or blown out post wall women. My plates, while not ltr material, are intelligent and kinky. They are girls that blue pillers would, and have, throw their lives away for. While I know how to wrangle them, they are anything but weak minded.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 01:01 PM
1

This is the most likely place to find other rp men who have experience with this. There may be other men who are interested in this. My aim is to do this in a fun, safe way for all parties involved. Once I have explored this, I'll make a field report, thus generating new content.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 12:55 PM
1

Thanks for the serious reply. Do you think video evidence of them agreeing would help suppliment a written agreement?
/r/askTRP08/08/15 12:51 PM
2

English might be your second language, so for the sake of explaining it's meant to be sarcastic/silly.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 08:58 PM
0

Oh my bad dude. It's just a prize box at the dentist. Like a pirate treasure box or something cute like that for kids. The "Prettiest Princess Box" is just what I call the prize box for my girls.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 08:57 PM
-2

There is no point in arguing with nerds about whether or not something happened. But, if I can share my experiences in an entertaining way that demonstrates RP fundamentals, I'd rather not have them discredited on the basis of "I don't want to believe it's real so it's not real!"
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 05:21 AM
-1

Sometimes you gotta develop your own RP tech, bro. The sidebar is just a starter pack. Even though you're kinda being a cunt, I'm going to drop what I've experienced on ya. OP is a minute man I'm not going to light candles and bust out the sexy cosplays for a quick and awkward bathroom fuck, homie. Catherine enjoyed herself, even if she didn't nut. I've come to learn that sex is most enjoyable for both partners if you just worry about taking care of yourself. You can go down on your girl, you ca…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 04:42 AM
2

Vivian would be down for threesomes with me just about anytime. But the novelty of two girls fades quick. Vivian and I typically just take care of business with eachother then go back to fun non-sex stuff. The sex is good, just not really theatrical. We both have other people for that kinda stuff. That being said, I think every RP man should have a Vivian.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 04:30 AM
1

The best thing to do would probably have been to not do it. That being said, I made my point. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 04:26 AM
3

Dude, after the red pill the real world is a trillion times more fucked up and strange than anything I could think up.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 04:25 AM
1

*Teleports behind you. Get in line and take your shot, kid...
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 04:24 AM
1

I agree with you. It's never smart to provoke women to be violent. Because not only do they feel zero remorse, but they also feel completely untouchable to the law. What I did very easily could have had someone get hurt, get the cops involved, or actually removed Vivian from my life. But shit man, I was horny.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 04:23 AM
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Because its a true story. So I can't tell if it's recieving negative feedback because what I did was fucked up or because people think I'm trolling.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 02:20 AM
-4

Would it be a good story if it was? Hypothetically, of course.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 01:55 AM
1

I wish I had seen the movie so I could get the context, but this mess still had me cracking up.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 11:57 PM
4

Eh, the context I didn't really explain is that I've been really lazy with plates as of late. Vivian was talking about her boyfriend a lot. I've been slipping in the gym and not approaching new girls. I kinda used this as an opportunity to announce I was back on my game. As for me and Vivian, we were both in really good moods and enjoying eachother afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 11:48 PM
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I've never submitted a field report before. Is there something particularly inappropriate about it?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 11:45 PM
-4

Are you genuinely complimenting my writing style? Because I was considering sharing more and I'm open to critiques.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 09:34 PM
-6

Kinda. I tell new girls that I see multiple girls and don't do LTRs. Girls are attracted to men who have options.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 09:33 PM
-7

If there was a karmic justice to the universe, you'd be right. But there isn't. So good things still happen even for me.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 09:18 PM
-9

What can I do to give the story credibility without risking sensitive information or just showing you something that could be forged?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 09:17 PM
28

Women civilize men I can barely get my BEST girl to put on pants and do the dishes.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:55 PM
1

I think you pointed out why this video seemed a little off to me. Do we really want women having casual sex like men do? Well they do, because of feminism.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:53 PM
3

My 7/10 nerd girl girlfriend branch swang to someone who literally has autism and (family) money. I was broke, obese, and fucked up at the time. Now it's the easiest fucking thing to see and make sense of, but back in the day beta me needed 2 or so years of "searching internally" to try to make sense of it all. Turns out trying to find answers inside yourself as a BP is bullshit and you just throw yourself a non-stop pity party. I eventually discovered that the only path is the path of self-love…
/r/askTRP02/08/15 03:39 PM
0

Why should they get a pussy pass?
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:14 PM
1

Do you think it'd be worth subtly dropping "other girls kinda tidy up while they are around here"?
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:13 PM
1

Thank you for a serious reply.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:12 PM
1

I enjoy cleaning my apartment. But if I just let my plates come over, fuck, then free load, is that actually red pill? Their pussy isn't so precious that it can pay their way into my world. If they want to hang around, and enjoy my company, then they need to support the ship captain and wash the dishes after I cook dinner. They need to make the bed after they roll out of it in the morning. Fucking me is not a favor. That's my gift to them.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:12 PM
1

Oh my god I've been thinking about all this completely wrong for years. You've completely changed my perspective. This is exactly the kind of quality I was hoping the RP community would be able to give me. Really, truly thank you man! ♂
/r/askTRP24/06/15 01:29 PM
1

Exactly both of those points you made got brought up in my interview today. I managed to play them fairly well. Hopefully stuff like this will be enough to eventually land that elusive entry-level position.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 02:27 AM
2

Very pragmatic advice for a very broad question. One thing Red Pill has convinced me is to aim for the top. To challenge the path I thought I was locked into. I'm tired of living my life safe. I'm ready to risk the power plays. Thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 02:21 AM
1

Thanks for the reply, I really appreciate your insights. Do you think in 6 months of online tutorials a person can develop skills that are worth paying money for? What technical skills are valuable to you? Which ones are valuable in the freelance market?
/r/askTRP24/06/15 02:17 AM
3

Thanks for the solid reply. When you changed your line of work, did you go for something more financially rewarding or something more personally rewarding?
/r/askTRP23/06/15 04:57 PM
1

I lack professional experience to put on my resume. I think that is the main thing that's just killing me out there. I've done graphics/album art/website (Just squarespace, but I did all the art) for an artist. I've repaired people's computers for money. I do a bit of game development (I released one project, it was well received, but it's not the kind of game I exactly want to bring up in an interview), but wouldn't want to try to make my living in the shit show that is the game industry. I wou…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 03:48 PM
2

I immediately made plans for tonight with a plate after she didn't propose another time. So, you are absolutely right.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 12:54 AM
6

That makes sense. Solid advice. When do you think I should hit her up again?
/r/askTRP06/06/15 08:01 PM
2

I'm baffled by the lack of ambition towards slaying pussy in the men around me. I suggest to my friends that we get out of our comfort zone and they just want to play video games. The one's that have girlfriends don't see the red flags (like outright saying they wanted to fuck their friends). And the absolute inability, the complete and total powerlessness to set boundaries or say no to a woman because "she'll get mad". Fuck.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 01:07 PM
2

Should I just try to accept the shit talking as something bound to happen when circles get jealous of eachother?
/r/askTRP18/05/15 02:11 PM
5

Gotta lift. I do strong lifts 5x5. I stay very conscious of how I'm treating my body and my mind. I slip up on my diet, I get stressed out. But, I stay very mindful of why I feel certain ways. "I feel pissy because I'm over caffeinated and didn't get enough sleep". The hardest part is always pushing new boundaries. But the more you expose yourself to the things that scare you, the less power it has over you. For example, I had a phobia of getting a job. Looking back on it now, it feels ridiculou…
/r/askTRP18/05/15 01:38 PM
2

I want to be a real human being. With my own car and place. With a job that doesn't make me dread waking up. With girls who see I have a lot going on, and approach me. With a body that is strong. I'm real close. Real close to all of these. Then after that, I'll just keep advancing.
/r/askTRP18/05/15 12:29 PM
3

No more mr. Nice Guy. I put it off for a long time because I thought it would be beginner stuff that I had already mastered. But it have me new, really deep insights that changed the game for me. Now I'm trying to figure it what's next. I'm half way through reading "Models" by Mark Manson. Thinking about picking up the audio book also.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 04:15 PM
1

I might throw together a quick cosplay or two. It would probably be sorta fun.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 10:38 PM
1

/r/nofap
/r/askTRP09/05/15 02:19 PM
1

Thin stuff breaks for me. I just go for trojan enz and I've never had a problem. Feels okay also.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 08:33 AM
1

I experienced this as well. For me it was a kind of cynicism sinking in. I'd fuck chicks with their boyfriends or orbiters texting/calling them. I'd feel like I was becoming a monster. I'd feel bad for them. I'd feel bad for old beta me. Now I just chuckle. Because fuck them.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 05:42 PM
1

Decent write up, great links. Your receiving a lot of criticism, but remember criticism is meant to be constructive. Disregard the people who are butt blasted and pulling rank with their imaginary reddit points. Being upvoted 10 times for "putting someone in there place online" won't make you a better person. Challenging yourself and evolving will. Keep going, homie.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 05:05 PM
2

Awesome read bro. Really fun story. At one point you mention you used to "validate yourself through fucking women". I do the same and it feels very toxic. Has this changed for you? Again, very well written.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 11:15 PM
1

Thanks man. Good stuff. I've started journaling again. It feels like a safe way to decompress. I'll start trying to give myself credit for how far I've come, while still moving forward.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 05:17 AM
1

Facing similar problems, man. I'd say I have fairly high self confidence. I do what I do, for me. But I can't pat myself on the back. I can't validate myself. I feel like I have to benchmark myself against almost every man and woman I meet. I've had plates, but it doesn't feel like an achievement. I need more. I crave to be craved. In my mind, I'd rather be wrapped up in my own grind. But I always feel pressure to be improving. And the only way to measure improvement is validation from others. I…
/r/askTRP29/04/15 04:15 PM
4

I feel ya. Sometimes I'll step back and realise how alone I really am. I feel like I'm wasting my time trying to articulate some of the things I feel to other people (ESPECIALLY women). I haven't done any dedicated reading into stoicism, but it seems to be the way to go. I recently had to lay the line down with a plate who was out of control. She said "I'm sorry I made you mad. I didn't think I could. You always seem 10 feet tall and bullet proof". I brought it up with another plate and she agre…
/r/askTRP27/04/15 05:06 PM
3

If you're jerking off still, try to go 90 days with out it. If you'd rather pour passion into something else, then do it instead. But don't allow yourself to fall into the trap of using "higher callings" as an excuse to avoid slaying pussy. Monk mode, when used correctly, takes discipline. However, it's completely "safe". Challenge yourself. Making the power plays it takes to get plates is thrilling.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 07:08 PM
1

As others said, "netflix nights" are gold. Theater first dates are garbage, and I'm trying to rework one at this very minute.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 07:46 PM
3

Nice one man. That's way better than "so?". It's divisive.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 04:51 PM
1

I'm practicing the vulnerability thing. It's helped me in regular relationships (friends) a lot. With plates... it usually just annoys them/makes them shit test more.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 03:05 PM
1

Awesome break down. Thanks man. I'm consciously trying to practice now. Pretty much if I see someone I want to talk to I go for it, man or woman. Like, I gave props to a dude I've seen come a long way in the gym.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 10:20 PM
1

I worded that poorly. I meant I was currently reading that and yes, it shares some themes and has also been helpful. Not that it was a superior book.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 10:12 PM
-1

I've been reading "Models" by Mark Manson and it covers the same stuff. Maybe I need more practice, and/or my smv is lower than I think.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 05:19 PM
4

You did the right thing. "2+ or none at all" has been an awesome rule to follow. The path to improvement will sometimes mean you gotta go at it alone.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 04:22 PM
1

Props for admitting you were acting out of jealousy. I feel for you homie. I've been craving the "LTR dream" for a while, but then my plates will do things to remind me that... Love isn't what we were taught it was. Sorry for your disappointment, bro.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 11:17 PM
1

Information systems.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 04:49 AM
5

Depression, anxiety, stupid shit like that. Reached out for help several times over the course of years. Went from being unemployed for 5 years to a shitty retail job, then a better shitty retail job. Going to start looking to move into my field of study soon. Not proud of how weak I used to be. But, I've come a long way since then. If anyone else struggled like I did, I would want them to at least know they aren't alone. Also, fuck you. Dick.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 04:42 AM
1

Do you want to bang her? Then do it. She is ready. Set a time and place and do it. If she changes her mind/backs down then she is just liking the attention and you should just next her. If she says "But you already have a girl/you're just a player" just say "Yep." and jump in.
/r/askTRP01/02/15 02:52 PM
2

It sounds to me like she was down to fuck that first date. I get that it had been a long day for you, and maybe you were too tired/busy to lay her out. From my (limited) experience: The time you spend not escalating is a kind of shit test. If a girl wants to bang, but you just keep saying words at her, then you rapidly come off as beta. The girls I fucked 1 hour into our first date ("Hey, wanna come over and listen to music?") all became happy plates. The girls I "got to know" first, I had wonde…
/r/askTRP01/02/15 02:44 PM
2

The reason I'd like to believe (male hamster): I'm just trying to get back with her for funsies. She is attractive. I don't have a lot of investment in if it works out or not, so it also kinda lets me practice. An underlying reason: Still fairly new to RP, still unconfident about picking up fresh new plates. So, it's easier to go back to something I know then put in the effort to cold approach. I'm not proud to admit to this, but someone else may read it and find themselves in a similar situatio…
/r/askTRP26/01/15 07:15 PM
3

Found a cute, nerdy girl that made me feel like I belonged in the world. One day, her love cut off like a switch and she jumped ship for an autistic (literally) rich kid. Oneitis made me tear myself apart trying to make sense of it all. Spoiler alert: Turns out, I was a morbidly obese asshole racking up student debt while failing classes, just so I could stay immersed in the escapism of video games, porn, and validating myself with my qt pie girlfriend. The years where I stayed miserable because…
/r/askTRP12/01/15 03:13 PM
2

"Doesn't matter had sex. " Or something goofy. Gotta practice amused mastery. Getting confrontational or "butt hurt" will just spur them on. Joke about it, but don't be self-defamating. What you say doesn't matter as much as how you say it. It should be no big deal, a funny thing that happened.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 12:56 PM
0

I explain rp strategy in vague terms, saying "from what I've seen so far with girls..." usually my bp friends agree, but at the same time cling to "BUT MY GIRL IS SPECIAL" on the inside. I want to help them, but it's not possible.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 08:05 PM
2

I've had good success with "wanna come to my place and listen to music? ". If they agree, it's pretty much a green light to go full throttle on escalation. Keep it simple and don't overthink things. Girls have a way of messing up plans.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 08:01 PM
0

I just tell girls up front that I see other girls. They usually respond with "I don't want to just be a game to you. I want it to mean something. Blah blah. Let's fuck so I can prove I'm best girl." It's like it sets my junk up to be a leader board, and they immediately get into a territorial and competitive mindset.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 08:12 PM
1

I'm super okay with 7/10 pursuing her other crush, because I can (and sort of want to) replace her. I'm also on friendly terms with the guy she is crushing on. She DID interpret me suggesting her hanging out with him as being butt-blasted though, but I think it would have been framed differently (being genuine) if it was in person instead of over text. But I just had an awesome night with my best plate. 7/10 texted me today apologizing for being so childish. And yeah, I've banged 7/10 a few time…
/r/askTRP07/12/14 08:07 PM
0

I may have come off kind of "cunty", like I was insecure. But typically I encourage her to talk to other guys because I have zero interest in going exclusive. This "passing her off" frame typically drives her wild. Like the hamster goes nuts. And in the end, I got other girls to pursue if she drops to "date" someone.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 10:08 PM
0

What do you think about not responding at all and just going with plan b?
/r/askTRP06/12/14 06:58 PM
5

Aaah. She copied me.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 06:55 PM
1

My research has never turned up an answer. I just can't bring myself to add "HB". Maybe if it denoted like, characteristics beyond looks. Like if a girl is a 7 but the sex is a 9 she'd be an HB 8. It doesn't mean that. But in my world it would.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 06:06 PM
1

True. But men and women don't set aside their genders when they take on a management role. This woman in particular is fantastic at her job, just bad at not taking out her frustrations on others. If it were a man, I feel I could confront him directly and speak frankly. I feel like doing this with her would make her feel "attacked", despite how logical I was being. I feel this question kinda infers that women can't be good leaders. They can. But it may be worth taking into consideration how they …
/r/askTRP05/12/14 06:52 PM
1

You're right. I guess with this post I'm trying to understand dealing with female managers through the red pill. Like with dating women, the logical/obvious/normal ways aren't always the best. When dating women, I always have the power to walk away. Whether it be to other girls, or to just do things I want to do. This non-investment drives girls crazy. I guess I'm just not seeing that same power in my professional life.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 07:59 PM
3

I've actually been rolling this over in my mind in regards to this situation. Does this mean I should "act" supplicating? Manipulate the situation instead of laying down the law? Acknowledging their "grand power" of being a retail manager, and try to guide them instead of stand against them? Like, if the situation got brought up again, be like "Hey, you aren't wrong. I'm gonna see what I can do to make sure this isn't a problem anymore. If you see something like that again, let me know and we'll…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 07:35 PM
1

You are "special enough" if she is saying that. If she is hot and bothered enough in the moment, you won't have to (and shouldn't) say anything.
/r/trpGAME21/11/14 02:18 PM
1

Female coworkers seem to have an easier time opening up customers. Customers see them as more approachable. Oddly, the less attractive the female coworker, the more customers approach ask for help from them. They seem better at tedious jobs, like recovering areas wrecked by customers. They seem to take every interaction personally. They are way more likely to get into shit fits with customers. Almost never "hold frame", and let rude customers mess up their performance. Also lady managers are way…
/r/askTRP07/11/14 02:44 PM
1

In the same situation. If things go well, let me know.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 05:38 PM
2

Luckily that wouldn't make me homeless. My folks live nearby so I could just go home until I find a new place. I intend on moving in with my best friend when he gets back from afghanistan, so this place is more like a disposable base of operations.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 06:44 PM
3

/r/nofap
/r/askTRP16/09/14 01:36 PM
3

I just ran across the quote: "Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go." - T.S. Eliot It's clear to me now, that I'm afraid of failure. Compared to the things I want to achieve in my life, being turned down by a woman is such a tiny thing to be afraid of. I see now the real challenge is getting myself to take risks. To practice putting myself in situations where it's possible to fail, and taking that failure in stride. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 06:16 PM
1

"One step closer to finally being the little girl...". Laugh it off. Go do stuff I like to do.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 06:56 PM
1

I feel overwhelmed by it sometimes. When shit goes bad in relationships, I used to have the luxury of hamstering it all away. Now when a chick blows me off to hang with another dude, I know why. It's because he's better than me. Now I can look at him, and see that. I have a shitty station in life, probably SMV that is in the negative. When my "feelings get hurt", I have no other option than to face reality, in women/money/life. I feel like garbage. I know there isn't anyone out there who can ste…
/r/askTRP01/07/14 12:48 PM
1

I had an issue with this after two years of celibacy. I was all up in my head. Super anxious. Either I'd have zero erection or I'd fly half-mast and finish almost instantly. The whole time I'd be having a mini-panic attack. I tried anti-depressants, and it took me on an emotional ride and didn't help the ED at all. I took one of those extenze shots. Hahaha. Jesus christ I was so desperate to put on a good show. The only thing that thing did was give me literal, uncontrollable diarrhea. I shit my…
/r/askTRP03/06/14 03:57 AM
2

Never again. Never ever ever again. I don't even have "online friends" anymore.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 05:24 PM
1

"It wasn't a matter of how far he still had to go, but rather of how far he had come." Your post gave me chills, man.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 01:53 AM
3

I agree that flirting with girls that I -know- are in relationships is a bad thing to do. I've done it more, since that first time. Every time the girl always reacts positively, even when I talk directly about their boyfriend. Shit man, ESPECIALLY when I talk about their boyfriends. I haven't taken it past flirting yet, and don't intend to. I'm just shocked that so many girls, especially "nice" girls, go right for it. It's been enough that I'll never look at having a girlfriend the same again.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 07:03 AM
1

Thanks man. Totally agree on cutting out porn. I would have never even made it this far if I didn't start up NoFap.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 07:14 PM
1

NOPE. CAN'T SLAP HER. STILL TOO BLUE PILL. But, once I'm ready to level up, I think she's the kinda chick who'd get off on that. NoFap is amazing. I had a 36 day streak. Then I was hanging around this girl (who is now my plate) so much, that like, I just lost it. Spent two days whackin' it. Had a very physically intense day. Was exhausted and up 36 hours. Then bam... I finally break into this chick, and I'm fuckin' SPENT before I even begin. It was a cruel, ironic situation.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:56 PM
1

That sounds like it could be fun, but I've never tried anything like that before. I don't even know how to obtain something like that. Does that sort of thing require a prescription in the US? I'll check into it. It sounds like fun to pop a pill and then just go beast mode. Fuck emotions, fuck trying to be sexy, just slam it. But, I think it'd be a short-term solution to a long term problem. Maybe it would help me push past my block, or maybe I'd start thinking "Oh man, I can't fuck her good if …
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:51 PM
3

You're right. I was overthinking it.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:48 PM
1

I was as confused as you are. It's partly still the blue pill working it's way out of my system, partly the surprise of her sudden transformation, and I was already completely exhausted when we started. I had been up like 36 hours, which probably put me in the frame of mind that let me push forward when my mind was screaming no.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:47 PM
1

You're absolutely right. I built myself up way too much in my head. I was able to keep the act up until she just switched on me out of nowhere, and turned into a cock-crazed beast. Next time, if I don't get what I want, then she won't get what she wants. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:43 PM
1

Word. I actually just finished Sex God Method, fantastic read, and it gave me the balls to open the gate. I think your post has helped me out the very most. I'm gonna set the pace next time. If I want it slow, it'll be slow. If I want it fast, it'll be fast. She can scream and beg and cuss, but next time I'm gonna make it all about me. Once I'm in control, then I'll be able to take care of her also. Thanks again dude.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:41 PM
3

I'm down 85 lbs on keto in about a year. Could have done better, but I lacked will power. No exercise.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 04:57 PM
6

All those subs. I also suggest /r/nofap . It gave me the strength to take back my life.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 04:07 PM
1

Good shit man, good shit. Hell of a story. Thanks. How has the whole "talk about your (fake) girlfriend" stuff worked out for you? I may try that soon. Any reason to not tell real stories?
/r/askTRP26/04/14 06:16 PM
1

No real valuable info, as I'm still starting out. But just an anecdote from what I've been experimenting with. Back when I was still really blue pill, there was this one dude also talkin' to this girl. At the time I thought the dude was a total skeez bag, and I was the big tough white knight, so I threatened him and told him to take off. He did. And it felt amaaaazing. The girl was super impressed. Didn't get me laid though. Few weeks later, after trying to become more RP, she asks me to take he…
/r/askTRP26/04/14 05:25 PM
2

I had the same reaction as the person in OP's post. 95% of redpill is garbage and masturbatory fiction. But it did teach me the importance of boundaries, maintaining composure, and having a mindset that is constructive for myself instead of sacrificial for women. It's super important to be able to decipher what will, and what won't work for you on this subreddit. Not everyone has the same endgame here.
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