| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 852 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized! | Legal Rights | Mr_Jadien | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 07:40 PM |
| 260 | Creator of "Are We Dating the Same Guy" now has a GoFundMe campaign well on its way to the goal of $50,000. Scam or no? | General | Mr_Jadien | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 05:50 PM |
| 202 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized! | social issues | Mr_Jadien | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/02/23 08:28 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!WAHOOOOOOOOOOoooOOOOO! I'm in a committed relationship now, so I have no need to worry, but I am happy that my MPLS brothers no longer have to worry about having their reputation unknowingly napalmed by a bunch of man-hating, hopelessly single women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/05/24 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!LOL, the fact that you just used "toy" unironically shows how gay and retarded you are. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/23 04:46 PM |
| 13 | Creator of "Are We Dating the Same Guy" now has a GoFundMe campaign well on its way to the goal of $50,000. Scam or no?I reported them to GoFundMe. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 07:20 PM |
| 8 | Creator of "Are We Dating the Same Guy" now has a GoFundMe campaign well on its way to the goal of $50,000. Scam or no?That's insane. Apple would shut down an app like that so quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:54 PM |
| 6 | In the Old days the Redpill claimed that "Game" was the most important thing, in my observation the Manosphere transitioned hard to Looks/Money/Status maxxing theory, why did the Manosphere abonden game?You either have "W rizz" or "L rizz" Source: I'm a 9th grade English teacher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Yeah, I’m doing alright. This came at a pretty bad time, so I’m kinda havin a rough couple weeks. Things are turning around tho. Thanks for askin! | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!The post is on a private Facebook group that I cannot access. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Link? | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 05:08 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups?I got posted in one of these groups and my car got vandalized. Long story short, I was "seeing" someone for two and a half months (we'll call her Lady A). We were not "exclusive" but we were hanging out regularly. On the tail end of that, I was contacted by a woman I had gone out with for a short while last year (Lady B). Lady B and I would text back and forth, and our conversations consisted solely of, "Hey let's grab a drink and catch up" and then one of us canceled on the other. Lady B then p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!I can’t believe I got my car spray painted… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Facebook will not do anything about it, unfortunately | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 11:37 AM |
| 13 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!I posted this on r/dating The banned me because I participated in the r/mensrights group, apparently Now I can’t speak on my own behalf on that r/dating post | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 05:21 AM |
| 14 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Well said! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/02/23 02:37 AM |
| 4 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Its in an outdoor parking lot. I contacted the police and they informed me that they can pretty much do nothing without video evidence. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 01:46 AM |
| 4 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!I did, when I got outside, he was gone. Not going to lie, he was about to get grappled and interrogated. Also, now I know what her ex looks like (I did not at the time), and it 100% was him. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 01:24 AM |
| 4 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Valid perspective. Appreciated. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 01:08 AM |
| 6 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Plan is only evidence if explicitly articulated and capable of being pinned on someone. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 12:41 AM |
| 4 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Yes, they won't do anything | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!I literally have to try to sleep and wake up in the morning in fear of someone fucking with my car, as I do not have indoor parking. If they fuck with my car again, I will lose my fucking mind and retaliate. I have a contingency plan in place already if they want war. My hands will remain clean according to my plan as well. She definitely does not want me to take the measures I have in mind. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 12:23 AM |
| 14 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!I stated in my original post, I am not 1000% innocent here. A woman I short term dated the year before texted me and I started conversing back and forth with her. I did not hook up with her during this time, but I admit that I was wrong in entertaining the idea. At no point did I deserve to have my property destroyed. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/02/23 12:20 AM |
| 8 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!I agree. Big time. I've reported the group and Facebook just sends an auto-reply saying that these groups do not violate their ToS. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/23 12:08 AM |
| 11 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Probably a week. I did delete my apps, as well. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/02/23 12:04 AM |
| 17 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Plenty more in the sea, I always say. I just want her and her loser, graffiti artist ex boyfriend to leave my car alone. I swear to Christ if they touch it again I'm going to lose my fucking mind and do something about it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/02/23 12:01 AM |
| 21 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!We said that we liked each other and that we would delete our dating apps. The terms of exclusivity were loosely defined, though. We also had KNOWN each other for about 2.5 months. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/02/23 11:59 PM |
| 15 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!The cops won't do anything. I talked to them. She or he would have basically had to total my car for them to do anything other than put it in a "graffiti file". Which basically means: WE AIN'T GUNNA DO SHIT. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 11:41 PM |
| 28 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!BIG FACTS | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/02/23 11:40 PM |
| 17 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Thanks! I got it off with Goo Gone. It took about a half hour. Also gave me a reason to polish and wax the car. Looks better than it did before this bullshit happened. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 11:38 PM |
| 27 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!I actually used Goo Gone and some hot water, it worked perfectly. Took about a half hour. Gave me a reason to polish my car. Looks better than it did before this fiasco, tbh. Appreciate the advice tho, homie! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/02/23 11:36 PM |
| 30 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Agreed! The only reason I know that it was him is that "Toy" is a graffiti culture slang term for "bitch" or "poser" or "loser" or something along those lines. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/02/23 11:22 PM |
| 26 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!"Toy" is a graffiti slang term for a "bitch" or a "poser" or something along those lines. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 11:10 PM |
| 16 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!My car wasn’t on camera. The cops basically told me that they won’t do anything except put it in a “graffiti file” which would only be effective in any way if the dude used his actual graffiti name. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 10:16 PM |
| 44 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Excellent point. I had a woman sleep with my friend behind my back last year. I had dated her on and off for 8-9 months. It was another situationship type of thing. Did I lose my mind about it? Nope. Didn’t fuckin care. Moved on. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 09:43 PM |
| 8 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Link? Lol | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 09:30 PM |
| 213 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Correct. If we made these groups about women looking for info like "she's a psycho" or "she's slutty" or even "she cheated on my friend" we would be considered misogynistic slut-shamers. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 08:51 PM |
| 94 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!And when I called the police, they essentially said they can't and won't do anything (other than throw it in a "graffiti file" to collect dust for all of eternity). Standard Minneapolis PD procedure, lolol | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 08:48 PM |
| 101 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!I'd say that our exclusivity was very loosely defined, if defined at all. She *felt* that we were exclusive, so maybe I feel like I'm a little in the wrong because I kept the terms of our relationship so vague and was carrying clandestine conversations with a girl from my past. But to reiterate, I DID NOT DESERVE TO HAVE TO GO TO MY TEACHING JOB THE NEXT MORNING WITH "TOY" SPRAY PAINTED ON MY CAR. Fucking hell that's insane. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 08:36 PM |
| 20 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Probably sex or the promise of a re-kindling of their relationship, to be honest. "Hey babe, I spray painted his car. Can we work this out?" | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 08:32 PM |
| 41 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!FUNNY THING IS: I parked my car in front of my apartment window the next day, after I cleaned the spray paint off in order to keep an eye on it. I also taped a note on my driver side window which read, "YOU'RE ON CAMERA If you touch my car one more time, I will break both of your arms and you will never do graffiti again." The camera thing was a lie, but I felt the need to psy-op this fucker a little bit. I then, coincidentally, saw a man pull up, park in front of my car, get out, read the n… | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups?Long story short, I was "seeing" someone for two and a half months (we'll call her Lady A). We were not "exclusive" but we were hanging out regularly. On the tail end of that, I was contacted by a woman I had gone out with for a short while last year (Lady B). Lady B and I would text back and forth, and our conversations consisted solely of, "Hey let's grab a drink and catch up" and then one of us canceled on the other. Lady B then posted me on a "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" Facebook group with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Are we dating the same guy/girlI was "seeing" someone for two and a half months (we'll call her Lady A). We were not "exclusive" but we were hanging out regularly. On the tail end of that, I was contacted by a woman I had gone out with for a short while last year (Lady B). Lady B and I would text back and forth, and our conversations consisted solely of, "Hey let's grab a drink and catch up" and then one of us canceled on the other. Lady B then posted me on a "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" Facebook group with a photo of me and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone heard of these Facebook groups called “are we dating the same guy”?Just found out that I was posted on one of these. A girl I'm currently seeing found out about it. I am not dating anyone else, and all the post said was, "The *tea emoji* on (my name)? He lives in southeast." It's fucking violating. I do not want my picture posted on these groups, and I don't want these private Facebook groups to be able to have discussions about me without my knowledge. I am not a predator and I pose no threat to women. There is no reason for me to become a topic of discussion … | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups?Just found out that I was posted on one of these. A girl I'm currently seeing found out about it. I am not dating anyone else, and all the post said was, "The *tea emoji* on (my name)? He lives in southeast." It's fucking violating. I do not want my picture posted on these groups, and I don't want these private Facebook groups to be able to have discussions about me without my knowledge. I am not a predator and I pose no threat to women. There is no reason for me to become a topic of discussion … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 09:41 PM |
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