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To further clarify, my statement refers to what they respond to emotionally. Women say they want a nice guy, nice guy shows up and worships the ground they walk on and shocker, the woman isn’t attracted to them. The nice guy doesn’t stimulate their emotions. Asking for a kiss is more nice guy behavior than not. Can the “alpha” ask for a kiss? Sure, but’s it’s not standard in their behavior. They read the vibe and look for signs indicating receptiveness. You’re asking who says they just want a ni…
/r/seduction30/09/20 07:02 PM
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Oh please shut up. I wasn’t talking about the borderlines of consent. I was referring to all these women claiming “I just want a nice guy” or “I think it’s sooooo cute if they ask to kiss first” now who gets the kiss? The guy who READS the situation and sees that the vibe will warrant so. If she doesn’t want the kiss and sees him lean in say no simple as that. I’m not advocating for rape and it’s not an abusive sentence get tf out of here with your bs. It’s referring to the social dynamics betwe…
/r/seduction30/09/20 06:28 PM
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What women say they want and what they respond to are completely different.
/r/seduction30/09/20 06:01 PM
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Yeah the law already requires fair hiring and work policies. If you need to find a reason to rationalize why you’re not being paid a higher salary, then maybe look at your work ethic. I can assure you that yes the world will always have a small minute amount of discrimination (even against the standard white male). But on the grand scheme “institutional” scale, it is not taking place in the hiring or work policies. I’m all for women continuing to have children. The only time having a child hurts…
/r/seduction14/03/20 02:43 AM
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Call it what you want, but I studied economics. It’s laid out plain and simple when the data is broken down. Having a child is still a CHOICE. You don’t have to have kids it’s up to you. Yes it’s known that if you take time off work you’ll have less experience and thus get paid less. Are you really trying to make the claim that you should be paid more because you miss time because of a PERSONAL choice? Yeah no. It’s not the employer’s duty to pay more because you feel entitled. Also, even if you…
/r/seduction14/03/20 12:39 AM
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Just keep plugging away. Approach girls in person and then only text to meet up. The more you text in between seeing them in person, the more you shoot yourself in the foot. On ya side note: that job you’re starting hiring anymore candidates? Haha
/r/seduction14/03/20 12:10 AM
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Not the place for an economics lesson, but women by far do get equal pay. When you break down the numbers, men just on average work more hours and dedicate more years to their careers. But OP, she almost sounds like the standard college liberal chick that just wants to argue because she feels entitled. Move on to the next.
/r/seduction13/03/20 11:28 PM
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Understandable, sometimes it can be a shot in the dark. But, I’d say in those situations they should trust their gut if they don’t think they’re being genuine.
/r/seduction09/03/20 11:25 PM
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The trick is it takes multiple encounters. The initial encounter is when they’ll “perform” and act as though they’re a gentleman alpha. But after a couple encounters they typically fall off on keeping the facade up because they run out of their “material”. A gentleman alpha doesn’t have material, it’s who they are. So if the man is the same each day without change, I’d say he’s genuine.
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:34 PM
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I don’t think knowing/doing seduction makes someone an asshole. I think a proper gentleman with an alpha attitude is the most successful in terms of pickup. The reason “nice guys” don’t have success is because they don’t stimulate women. They’re too busy being a pleaser and letting the woman walk over them. The trick is to be a gentleman that is completely comfortable with who they are and not backing down or changing who they are for the woman. I think the assholes are the ones that are so narc…
/r/seduction07/03/20 06:45 PM
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My buddy and I were hanging out having some drinks just talking about the chicks we’ve been seeing. I’m the one that introduced him to mystery’s book and models so he said he’s had an awakening. He’s was just asking what things work what doesn’t. He said he sees now how he fucked up in the past throughout all of college and high school. I forget how the conversation went, but I said something along the lines “it’s hilarious that women always preach about wanting the nice guys but nice guys don’t…
/r/seduction02/03/20 08:25 PM
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Go up and talk to her. Don’t think just pull the fuckin trigger or you’ll psych yourself out of it. She’s not out of your league remember you’re the catch
/r/seduction26/02/20 11:30 PM
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The fact that they love it means that they’re not going to be attracted to someone who comes up and does the same shit those other schmucks are doing. Stimulate their minds and build attraction. I can almost guarantee that they won’t go for the guys that put them on a pedestal.
/r/seduction17/03/19 02:04 PM
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If you’re only going to lower your standards just to increase your quantity of women slept with then kiss goodbye future chances of sleeping with any of the 10’s. You’re never going to better your game if you don’t put yourself in uncomfortable positions. Remember quality over quantity. But once you improve so much you’ll be able to have a quantity OF quality. You say the 10’s are hard effort now that’s only because you haven’t learned how to build attraction with them. If you perfect the craft,…
/r/seduction17/03/19 01:11 PM
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I’m just curious as to how you’d open that. Not only that but down the line when you’re escalating and they possibly stop you to remind you that you got in contact because you’re distantly related, what would you say to that? 😂
/r/seduction15/12/18 09:32 PM
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I’d say just go for it and text her. Make sure to say something that will evoke an emotion from the conversation you guys had in person.
/r/seduction11/11/18 09:42 AM
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She asked for you number right? Or did she leave hers with you?
/r/seduction10/11/18 04:36 AM
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Go for it bud. You can just enjoy the time spent together and see what you’re both after. She might just be interested in a fling or an actual relationship. Either way plan something with her if she hits you up and see if you’re interested in the vibes you get.
/r/seduction09/11/18 10:05 AM
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Yeah text Monday and don’t even ask about whether you’re still on for Tuesday just text asking where you’re meeting or the time you’re picking her up.
/r/seduction14/10/18 10:01 PM
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Its definitely not a negative thing that she wanted to do Tuesday instead. Obviously it would’ve been better to do it in person but no worries. Make sure the plans for Tuesday are set up and then stop texting. Just see her in class and talk to her. If you have class with her on Tuesday you can confirm logistics in person. If not then it’s cool to text Tuesday to confirm where you’re picking her up/meeting her. Just remember to push pull and escalate when the time feels right when you guys hang o…
/r/seduction14/10/18 04:54 PM
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She’s definitely sending those obvious texts as an excuse to text you. She’s not sure what to say so she just figured bringing up something like class will be easy to talk about. Just remember don’t over text. Literally all you should text is about logistics for hanging out/dates unless you’re in a relationship. But don’t use the text as a means to ask her out either. Next day in class you absolutely need to mention about doing something with her. Take the action and then use the texting for log…
/r/seduction09/10/18 11:29 PM
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Get the fuck off this subreddit. No one wants to hear about your shit stories.
/r/seduction07/10/18 01:29 PM
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You could use an event to gauge interest. If there is a concert or big social event near you then you could just bring it up in conversation. If she’s agreeing with you that it does look/sound fun then tell her you two will go. The big key here is to tell her you’re going like “alright then it’s settled we’re going” then determine logistics. Don’t give her the opportunity to take control of the situation. That fact that you’re acting as such will definitely have her interested. Obviously if she’…
/r/seduction04/10/18 02:35 AM
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That’s what’ll always get guys screwed over, by overthinking. Only thinking you should do is in the seduction mindset.
/r/seduction03/10/18 11:17 PM
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For learning I’ve been varying a lot of my time watching old mystery videos and also rsd Tyler. I don’t focus too much on one style just trying to learn as much as possible along with this reddit too.
/r/seduction02/10/18 02:58 PM
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Working out you can find most of it on YouTube but mostly look up intermittent fasting and I would also jump rope for a good hiit exercise
/r/seduction02/10/18 02:39 PM
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Not at all. I just didn’t like that accusation. We’re here to help each other out with social interactions. There’s no need to try and point out things being manipulative when they aren’t. If your context isn’t meant to convey that, then I apologize. But try to refrain from saying these things if you don’t intend to convey them as such.
/r/seduction02/10/18 12:16 AM
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You said it in your comments above. Saying a sequence of lines or doing routines isn’t manipulative. The pick up artists are doing it because it gauges interest and conveys that they’re of value to the women. The thing is that most guys don’t know the right sequences or things to say so they screw it up and the woman sees them as boring or uninteresting when really they’re just anxious about approaching. Unless you’re able to convey that you’re that interesting and attract her then you’re not go…
/r/seduction02/10/18 12:11 AM
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You literally said it’s being calculated and manipulative. Are you able to keep up?
/r/seduction01/10/18 11:32 PM
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Force in general if you’re forcing the conversation then yes that is manipulative but just because you guide the conversation one way that isn’t forcing it.
/r/seduction01/10/18 11:20 PM
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This thread is for bettering the social skills of men and even women can benefit too. It’s not a place for someone to be self righteous and accuse someone of manipulating women. I never said it was manipulative to control a conversation I’m not saying it as actually “controlling” but rather just know what to say and steer the conversation a specific way. That’s not controlling, controlling would be to speak over the woman entirely and not even let her speak. Controlling would be literally trying…
/r/seduction01/10/18 10:35 PM
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Been there man I feel ya. The first time was because of the allure of the milf. The fact that you were mentally pressured to perform to a standard for this woman that you saw at a high value. Then because of that one time occurrence that put you in the headspace for the next time of trying to make sure you again come ready for game time. I had this happen back before I started learning seduction. I ended up netting a 10 but since I didn’t have as much confidence, I had the performance anxiety to…
/r/seduction01/10/18 10:11 PM
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It’s not manipulative and definitely not untrustworthy. It’s called the “game” because it can be seen as either winning(having a positive interaction with a woman) or failing(getting the rejection). It’s seduction. By learning this way of life not only can men talk to women but it entirely improves all aspects of their life. They better themselves physically and mentally as a person. This helps them interact socially even if they’re not trying to get together with a woman. The shit tests theory …
/r/seduction01/10/18 09:57 PM
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Yeah I wouldn’t worry too much about it she might’ve just had an off day
/r/seduction27/09/18 11:33 PM
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Could be any number of things. I wouldn’t assume that you did anything wrong. Never know what’s going through her life right now so if she keeps appearing off tomorrow you could ask again but I wouldn’t press the issue if she refuses to say anything.
/r/seduction27/09/18 11:22 PM
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You’re going to remain friends. She’s not interested in the relationship whether physically or emotionally. The messages sent when she didn’t answer probably is what shot your chances. When that “neediness” is conveyed simply from a lack of communication for a small period of time, then it completely turns off the woman. She’s thinking that even if you were to get back together then she would basically be required to keep up with communication as much as possible so she doesn’t receive those kin…
/r/seduction25/09/18 11:19 PM
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Best advice I can give is not give a shit about it. The best thing that pickup has taught me is that you have to know how amazing you are and that you are the shit. When you walk around knowing that you are a catch and every woman would be lucky to sleep with you (not acting cocky but rather confident) and you couple that with not giving a shit about the small stuff then you get a whole new dynamic of how your social interactions go. So let go of those negative emotions by knowing that this time…
/r/seduction22/09/18 12:04 AM
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Absolutely a good sign, she’s qualifying herself to you. Keep it up and start to escalate when you can. Get some kino involved ya know maybe if she’s talking about how badass she is you could say like “oh you’re so cute when you act tough” and then squeeze her arms since they’d be smaller. Something along those lines will work
/r/seduction21/09/18 04:33 PM
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I went to a small campus too, the school always had different events. It was usually like speakers or something bringing awareness or just a social gathering for something in general. Wouldn’t hurt to say it looked interesting and she should tag along. The smaller campuses have cliques but that’s because since it’s a small campus people REALLY don’t approach because they’re afraid everyone would know when they get rejected. All the more reason why you’d stand out and show higher value by being t…
/r/seduction19/09/18 10:28 PM
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Good keep up the banter. I haven’t looked at the sidebar lately maybe there’s a post there? If not just YouTube indicators of interest, you’ll find some good tips.
/r/seduction19/09/18 10:18 PM
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Usually campus has a ton of different events going on, just ask her to one of them.
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:42 PM
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Yeah that means you haven’t at least turned her off so that’s a plus. Occasionally it wouldn’t hurt for you to initiate conversation. But again just convey your high value. Don’t be afraid to playfully knock her for something keep some flirtatious banter in the conversations. Say for example you guys get your exams back and you scored higher you could poke fun at her saying that clearly you’re the smarter one or something like that. Just have fun with it and don’t try to take every interaction t…
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:41 PM
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She’s already opening communication by choosing to sit close to you. She knows full well that things ended how they did last time. Ask her out, she’s open to communication and you have good vibes with her. By NOT asking her out with good vibes, I’d dare say you’re close to being too reserved and same type of behavior you were before. Take action and show that your attention isn’t all focused on her. Agreed with Hunter, see other chicks but also just get out and do shit. Something fun or exciting…
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:16 PM
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Holy hell not you again
/r/seduction15/09/18 09:56 PM
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The friend zone is easy to get out of man. If you are in the friend zone pretty much treat them like such. Friends, still have sexual conversation but geared toward other women you find attractive. You’re out doing stuff together? Make sure you check out other chicks and make a little comment to your “friend” on how attractive the chick is or a quality you like about them. You have to make sure your “friend” sees you as a sexual being. Don’t wait hand and foot on them if they have something to t…
/r/seduction29/08/18 08:04 PM
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Display your higher value. If you’re friends with any of them on Instagram you can post pics of you having fun times with groups of friends and other chicks. Be the life of the party bring fun energy to everywhere in the house that you can. Show that you’re the catch and that they would miss out by not sleeping with you. Attracting all the women won’t cause problems. In fact by attracting a few in the frat that’ll already dhv to the others since you’re already “socially approved” by the other ch…
/r/seduction29/08/18 03:34 AM
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I see that you get off on your low self esteem. That or you’re looking for attention. Either way take your cuckold spam to another thread. We want productive conversations here.
/r/seduction19/08/18 05:22 AM
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She wants something serious no doubt, doesn’t mean the rules of seduction aren’t still active. Yes with the skirt thing that would’ve been perfect time to escalate but starting to rub the legs and ever so casually sliding them up further and further. Hopefully you still have a chance but don’t lose your head over her, on to the next.
/r/seduction16/08/18 08:08 PM
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Get out and do something. Send a text and go hang out with your buddies or something. When you cave over the phone and watch her active status on apps your tone in your texts will change. She’ll notice you getting desperate by your texts and I think you’ve already conveyed it. By asking for the next date in such urgency and then asking her if she’s alright since she hasn’t replied you’re showing that you and clinging to her. WIA20XX is right, you should’ve sex closed the first date. The 2nd date…
/r/seduction16/08/18 07:39 PM
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Do you get off on making new accounts and reposting shit on the daily?
/r/seduction12/08/18 10:16 AM
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Dude you literally have like 20 posts on different subreddits in the last 24 hours. All of them asking how to improve yourself, stop chasing women, or increase your self esteem. Are you fucking looking for attention or something? You even said in the one that everyone provided great advice but you don’t care about yourself so you’re not listening to them? Wtf you’re literally just looking for attention. You gonna man up and start listening to the advice? If not get off this subreddit and quit wa…
/r/seduction11/08/18 10:28 PM
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Yeah as long as you keep spending time actually getting to know each other and dating then the relationship should come naturally. The sex could honestly help solidify it quicker, but that’s not always a given.
/r/seduction11/08/18 05:56 PM
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Alright well just keep up with the dating. Let it flow naturally and when/if the time comes that you feel you’re both on the level that you’re interested in the commitment then bring it up. Rule of thumb for us guys is the girl always brings up the “so what are we” conversation. If you want to take it slow then take it slow. Just don’t be clingy, add some push pull to be flirtatious, and see if it continues. No reason you can’t keep having great sex after the dates or hanging out. I don’t think …
/r/seduction11/08/18 05:43 PM
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Wait so you’re saying that you want to turn it into an emotional relationship but you don’t want him to know that you’re actually in it just for the great sex? Sounds to me like you just need to tell him you’re looking for a friends with benefits situation, I’m not entirely sure that you’re 100% on what you want. It would be the safer route to go if you know you’ll only be dating this guy for a few months.
/r/seduction11/08/18 05:31 PM
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Only thing I’d add is don’t ask for a kiss in the future. If the vibe is right just go for it. If you keep asking permission for stuff like that, then she will be turned off.
/r/seduction09/08/18 07:45 PM
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Yep overthinking will destroy your chances. If it feels right and you escalate, shouldn’t have a problem nailing the kiss. Especially since she’s agreed to go on several dates.
/r/seduction09/08/18 04:18 AM
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Should’ve done it on the first date. But if you’re talking before the movie and it feels right go for it. If not wait until after the movie.
/r/seduction08/08/18 07:34 PM
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I wouldn’t even waste the time man. Move on to the next. If you have to entice with something like a fake bs secret to get her to talk to you then she’s not worth it.
/r/seduction08/08/18 07:01 PM
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Seriously read the SIDEBAR!!! Only kidding, if you have the free time, checkout RSD Tyler. He also has asperger and says all the time how socially awkward and out of touch he was. I think he states he even has autism. He has tons of videos where he focuses on having positive energy in his life and getting quality girls who have equal positive energy.
/r/seduction08/08/18 06:53 PM
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Like I said if you’re nervous she’ll feel it. Just calm down and keep reminding yourself that the hard part is out of the way. She’s into you so roll with it. Don’t overthink anything and just don’t over text or anything. Set up the date.
/r/seduction06/08/18 03:35 PM
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If she does like you why would she end up rejecting you? You’ve already got attraction built to get the date and move forward. Just go with the flow. If you’re nervous she’ll feel the difference. Remember she’s already into you so what’s to be nervous about? That’s a good thing just keep moving with it.
/r/seduction06/08/18 06:12 AM
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Absolutely
/r/seduction05/08/18 10:16 PM
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It hits the same alkaloid receptors as opiates but is not an opiate. It hits the receptors which is what causes that feeling of happiness and helps with any physical pain you might have. The biggest difference is that unlike opiates, this doesn’t inebriate you or cause you to pretty much lose any senses. The research shows that kratom also has cancer preventing antioxidants and is an immunostimulant meaning it jump starts your immune system to actively look for foreign bacteria or viruses. This …
/r/seduction05/08/18 07:29 PM
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Kratom is a natural plant that is from the Indonesia Malaysia region. It most definitely won’t negatively impact your logical thinking. A lot of people consider it a nootropic meaning it helps sharpen brain function. Check it out and read up on it. Don’t listen to some of the main stream media sources though since the fda wants to give it a bad name. It is harmless to take and actually very healthy for you.
/r/seduction05/08/18 05:47 PM
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Kratom for sure. I take kratom every day with a day break once a week. It practically makes me so talkative that I don’t have an ounce of anxiety. Read up on it and see if you’re interested. I can refer you to where I get it. I’ve also heard phenibut is a good choice for anxiety. I don’t take it myself but it’s a supplement you can only take once every few days.
/r/seduction05/08/18 05:28 PM
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Appreciate the input man, I’ll definitely try some of this out! Headed down next week so we’ll see how much I’ve learned that I can put to use.
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:35 PM
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I wouldn’t be pushy. But you can definitely show interest now. I’d say she was talking about that “illness” because she’s feeling guilty and she doesn’t want you to think anything of it if she looks like she’s guilty. I could be wrong but that’s just what I’m thinking. But at this point I’d just make sure you escalate it on the date. She should feel more relaxed once you start turning it more sexual. Just pace it right and don’t be overtly pushy and the conversation should flow smoothly. Sounds …
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:05 PM
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Not necessarily, they don’t always need validation that you’re interested. The chick in my story was also pretty shy, reserved, insecure, you name it. She was homeschooled literally all her life until college so she was as timid as they come. In terms of ways to indirectly game her it’d be tough in a solo environment with just her. I’d say you’re already at the stage where she’s feeling you out to see if you’re “worth” cheating. Honestly just don’t get too pushy or let her know that you’re inter…
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:34 AM
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Well I have a bit of past experience in this situation lol. Only difference is the chick I was sleeping with was unhappily married. Anyway, this was a chick that I worked with. The day she was hired I was ready to get in on her only to find out she was married. Now I am a guy that respects marriage, so I still had an inadvertent technique of not directly gaming her. This way the ball would be in her court to decide since I didn’t want to go in and break up a marriage. What I did was I would alwa…
/r/seduction12/05/18 02:09 AM
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Good move man if you don’t mind I’ll add that to my repertoire 🤘
/r/seduction30/04/18 02:19 PM
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Honestly the best thing I’ve found is trying to convey that you’re not wallowing in self pity. Not saying you are but covey you’re happy and doing well. Kind of what makes a woman attracted to you in the first place. Show that she doesn’t have value over you and even if possible try to go on a couple dates or hang out with other women. Showing that you’re a higher value and happy along with the fact that she could see or hear about you hanging out with other women. Don’t try and think you can ma…
/r/seduction28/04/18 11:31 PM
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You ask about getting all their numbers? Or just one specific. Obviously one would be easier than all. But I’d say just make sure you guys are giving well and don’t make it random. If conversation is flowing smooth and you get on a topic of say doing something fun, I’d just whip out your phone hand it to the girl and say “put your number in my phone and I’ll get a hold of you when I’m free to do this” or something along those lines. Shows you’re assertive to have her put her number in your phone…
/r/seduction14/04/18 08:48 PM
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I wouldn’t say this is the last minute resistance. Something likely did happen. With the chicks I’ve had the last minute resistance with they never gave an excuse they would always just say I think we should wait or not tonight or some shit. Sounds like she is sincere when she said something happened.
/r/seduction14/04/18 08:45 PM
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She already confirmed she’s into you just can’t convey it? Tell her you guys are going out tomorrow night or whenever. Tell her you’re taking her to dinner or some shit. Don’t give her the opportunity to throw up an anxiety defense because of her social awkwardness. (This would happen if you asked her if she wanted to go out and left it open ended). Take her to dinner or whatever and just make some physical advances, hugs, hand holding, kiss, etc. she’ll drop the restraints.
/r/seduction27/03/18 07:16 AM
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Check out my other comment if ya can. Let me know what you think.
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:10 AM
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Ok everyone, I texted her the day of the funeral. Obviously I waited until later in the day to just check up and see how she was doing. I told her to keep occupied if she could. She said she was awful and all she wanted to do was sleep all day. So I asked her if she wanted to meet up/hang out at some point of the week. She said maybe but she has to pick up at work since she practically took a week off. I then responded and said it didn’t have to be anything specific it could just be watching a m…
/r/seduction14/03/18 11:32 PM
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I’ll give it a shot. Hoping for the best with her, I got the ole oneitis with this one.
/r/seduction12/03/18 01:11 AM
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No she practically instantly replies a lot of the time. I just don’t know what to say half the time to keep the conversation flowing.
/r/seduction12/03/18 12:49 AM
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Oh no man I definitely don’t want to just mess around with her, i was hoping to get in a relationship with her. I’ll definitely keep the support up. Should I be the first to text her? Idk if you saw above or not but today it’s been all day and she hasn’t texted me so I’m not sure if I should text her first or not. It’s like the first day we’ve gone where we haven’t text yet. Just need advice so I don’t fuck this up or overthink anything.
/r/seduction12/03/18 12:42 AM
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I have said something that is literally spot on to that. Thanks for the input though! I’m mostly wondering if anyone thinks she’s just in a slump because if he family passing right now and I should try to stick with it or if I’m fucking up? Like I figured even if she was in a depressed move she’d still try to text? Or am I wrong?
/r/seduction12/03/18 12:33 AM
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