Mr_Tuts_7558 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
112	Does the UN only care about female victims of war?	discussion	Mr_Tuts_7558	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/26 04:03 PM

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6	Is hating feminine men misogyny? A flock is literally just a collection of birds doing bird things. A "patriarchy" in sociological terms is not just "a collection of dads". Patriarchy, as you claimed at first, is a hierarchical power structure designed to privilege men over women. If you define patriarchy as just "a collection of male heads of households", then you have stripped the word of its entire political definition as you first defined it. By your logic, five dads standing in a grocery store line is a "patriarchy". Offer…	/r/MensRights	25/07/26 11:09 AM
4	Is hating feminine men misogyny? You started by calling patriarchy “the broader system we all live under and within” that supposedly causes every male disadvantage. Now you're reducing it to “the male head of a household. Those are not the same thing, one is a grand structural claim while the other is a family role. Switching between them every time you’re pressed is textbook goalpost shifting. Also this: "What do you believe mens issues are caused by?" Specific, documented institutional policies, gendered legal frameworks, and…	/r/MensRights	25/07/26 10:25 AM
7	Is hating feminine men misogyny? I asked you what specific empirical evidence or scenario would prove men's issues aren't caused by patriarchy, and instead of giving an answer, you shifted the goalposts and redefined the word entirely. You claimed "data and statistics lead up to a much larger pattern", yet you didn't cite a single statistic, study, or piece of data. Stating the word data in a sentence is not presenting evidence. What specific data proves that systemically denying male rape victims or erasing male domestic viole…	/r/MensRights	25/07/26 09:25 AM
9	Is hating feminine men misogyny? If a system is intentionally constructed to benefit a specific group as a whole, it is logically impossible for that same system to inherently disadvantage that exact same group in the foundational ways we're talking about. Imagine if someone argued during nazi germany that the system of nazism actually backfired and harmed nazis just as much as it harmed the targeted groups. You would say that makes no sense because a system built for white supremacy doesn't systematically oppress white people.…	/r/MensRights	25/07/26 08:48 AM
1	Does anyone know where this "95-99% of rapists are men" idea comes from? The entire point of this thread, and your original claim, is that "99% of rapists are men". When I brought forward the data proving that in a 12 month period, there was near parity between men and women being raped, and 80% of those perpetrators of male victims were women, your 99% statistic magically disappeared and you completely abandoned the perpetrator data because you couldn't defend it, and pivoted entirely to lifetime victim counts to hide the text, did you not? Your underreporting claim…	/r/MensRights	10/07/26 07:00 PM
2	Does anyone know where this "95-99% of rapists are men" idea comes from? You just completely misread a statistic from my own link because you don't know how to read a data table, and then you had the nerve to call me a reactionary. Go look at table 2.1 and table 2.2 of the report. If you actually combine the numbers for men who experienced forced penetration, "rape" (1.58M) and "made to penetrate" (5.45M), it equals exactly 7.03 million men. This 7 million figure is purely forced penetration, not coercion. The concrete lifetime report for men who were coerced (non-ph…	/r/MensRights	10/07/26 03:56 PM
2	Does anyone know where this "95-99% of rapists are men" idea comes from? You're looking at a legal framework that has historically made it definitionally impossible for a man to be a victim of rape when a woman is the perpetrator, and then using that resulting lopsided police data to claim women are the primary victims of rape and that women don't do it. When the law defines a crime as "a man inserting his penis into the victim", then automatically by legal definition a woman can't be a rapist. Did you drop the dictionary definition from Cambridge to prove anything? …	/r/MensRights	10/07/26 12:12 PM
3	Yes I'm a misandrist, what about it? Christina Hoff Sommers, but that's it from what I know... I've not seen or read about any other feminist doing the same.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/07/26 06:59 AM
1	Burnham after Starmer: One sh*tbag replacing another. Erin Pizzey is an MRA	/r/MensRights	24/06/26 09:12 AM
2	Does the UN only care about female victims of war? I hope this is sarcasm	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/06/26 08:25 PM
16	All feminists are the same and they all oppose Men having basic human rights None of my friends have faced racism in their lives, like ever. Does that mean racism doesn't exist or is rare? Go check CDC's reports if you haven't already. 1 in 4 men have experienced some form of sexual harm in their lifetimes.	/r/MensRights	28/05/26 10:11 PM
12	All feminists are the same and they all oppose Men having basic human rights Rape laws... In India feminist groups actively protested against gender neutral rape laws that would've included male victims of said crime. That's one of the many...	/r/MensRights	28/05/26 10:08 PM
3	Sexual Assault of Men Played for Laughs - Part 2 Female Perpetrators NISVS 2012?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/26 05:02 AM
11	Do you think female on male sexual harassment is usually not taken seriously? It is, it should be. Sex without consent is rape, method doesn't matter...	/r/MensRights	06/05/26 03:03 AM
2	In the same time a woman can get an abortion a man should be able to completely sign his rights away Feminism is not "equality between sexes". By pure dictionary definition, it is equality for women, in the sense of equal rights for women, which men have. But in reality, it is a hate movement. I'll just leave this here: https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/s/WPdxxJZJIR Your logic of "but you're generalizing feminists because of a few bad actors" fails because it is not "a few" bad actors. If you believe in patriarchy, which every feminist does, you are already painting all men as mons…	/r/MensRights	28/04/26 05:14 PM
1	Yeah. Apparently, men are immune from danger at night. Right right. /s You're wrong. Men are just as likely to be raped as women are. CDC's NISVS reports have showed 1 in 7 men are raped by a woman in their lifetime compared to 1 in 5 women. The gap isn't high enough for you to say that "oh but it's common knowledge women are raped more than men are". Men are more likely to be victims of violent crimes, including kidnapping, being mugged, and murdered, etc. Men make up for 79% of victims of all homicides globally, and 75% just in North America, 80% of the victims o…	/r/MensRights	22/04/26 12:09 AM
1	Yeah. Apparently, men are immune from danger at night. Right right. /s Um I don't know about kidnapped statistics... But yea, men do get raped as much as women do.	/r/MensRights	20/04/26 02:23 PM
3	As an egalitarian woman, I absolutely cannot support the manopshere As an egalitarian young woman First off, you're not really egalitarian. You don't care about men's issues when the first thing you do is minimise how awful and horrible those are. There might be real male-specific issues, however when it comes to rape and murders in a relationship, women are totally over-represented Women don't over represent rape victims. It looks that way because you're looking at one side of a coin while completely ignoring the other one. According to CDC reports, 1.6 million…	/r/MensRights	19/04/26 11:00 AM
6	If they ask you what inequalities do men face?(Summary) Men have always been the primary casualty in wars for centuries. Should we now start forcefully sending women in place of men like men have been? Do you hear yourself?	/r/MensRights	19/04/26 09:24 AM
5	Are there any proper anti-feminist and Men's Rights creators and figures that I don't know about? From Wikipedia: "Patriarchy is a social system where men hold primary power, dominating in roles of political leadership, moral authority, social privilege, and control of property. It structures society to favor men, placing women in submissive or subordinate positions regarding decision-making and opportunities." Show me, as you've claimed, the proof of those "good ones" that called out and opposed the "bad ones". And you're moving the goalposts. The original comment did give you specific docu…	/r/MensRights	18/04/26 09:56 AM
5	Are there any proper anti-feminist and Men's Rights creators and figures that I don't know about? Every feminist believes in patriarchy which by definition paints all men as monsters and every woman as a victim. Mary P Koss, or whatever her name was... Actively promotes the idea that men can't be raped or that when they are, it's not as bad as when women are. Every feminist group, bar one, opposed the gender neutral rape laws bill proposed in India (the one feminist group that did support it, did it for the LGBT community, not men). Till date the rape laws in the country is gendered. The Dul…	/r/MensRights	18/04/26 08:29 AM
5	Are there any proper anti-feminist and Men's Rights creators and figures that I don't know about? How is taking away men's rights not hating men?	/r/MensRights	18/04/26 08:18 AM
14	Yes, it's all of them MRAs don't have the power to change or make laws, feminists do, and they've made laws that actively harm men as a whole.	/r/MensRights	27/03/26 10:35 PM
13	Yeah. Apparently, men are immune from danger at night. Right right. /s beaten and robbed Murdered	/r/MensRights	27/03/26 04:55 PM
10	I'm so beyond tired of hearing people say that I should get offline if I want to escape misandry. Misandry is online and offline in abundance. "No one has been racist towards me, so racism must not exist! I only see it online, maybe log off and you'll not face racism!"	/r/MensRights	13/03/26 04:52 PM
13	Are indian boys really living a safer life? Or are we just ignoring their problems? India has created a system that turns a blind eye towards boys in general. Take education for example, right now more boys are out of school than girls, yet there are so many policies for girls yet so little for boys (non existent I believe, I didn't go that deep into it so lemme know if I'm wrong). Indian society is pretty gynocentric... Boys who are SAed and raped are pressured to keep quiet about it. And even if they do come out, they're seen as the perpetrators, not the victims. Take the exa…	/r/MensRights	28/02/26 02:12 PM
6	the amazing incoherence at the heart of feminist ideology Violation is not defined by physical contact or biological accuracy. It is defined by the lack of consent, sexualized use of someone’s likeness, loss of control over one’s sexual representation, and foreseeable harm (reputational, psychological, or social). By your logic, deepfake porn is harmless, revenge porn is harmless if edited, false sexual allegations are harmless if untrue, or sexual rumors are harmless if “fake”. Every modern legal system rejects this logic. That’s why image-based sexua…	/r/MensRights	02/01/26 11:21 AM
11	the amazing incoherence at the heart of feminist ideology Creating sexualized deepfakes of real people without consent is not teasing, mockery, humor, or “being laughed at”, it is sexual violation. Jurisdictions classify non-consensual sexual deepfakes as sexual abuse, image-based sexual exploitation, or sexual harassment. And victims suffer because of it. So when you reframe this as “men laughing at women”, it is just a gross minimization of harm. Any normal person, male or female, should pursue legal action if fake sexual imagery of them was created.…	/r/MensRights	02/01/26 10:08 AM
7	If this sub is about men’s rights why is nearly every post about feminists and women..? Shouldn’t you be focused on yk.. men’s rights??? Do you know what feminism is? I guarantee it does impair men's rights. Whether something intends to promote equality is irrelevant, what matters is what it does in law, policy, and practice. There are multiple documented cases where feminist advocacy has directly opposed gender-neutral rights and protections for men. There are still no gender neutral rape laws in a lot of countries because of feminist backlash. The CDC’s NISVS data shows that when “forced to penetrate” is included, male victimiz…	/r/MensRights	30/12/25 01:24 PM
4	Reclaiming female serial killers as victims. It's like saying Ed Kemper did all that because of being abused by his mother. It's so stupid... And gross.	/r/MensRights	26/12/25 11:51 AM
1	AI and the Collapse of Female Leverage Replacing human connection with AI is... withdrawal(?) AI companionship doesn’t “solve” loneliness, it just numbs it. Human relationships are difficult because they involve boundaries, conflict, accountability, and growth, and AI removes all of that. It doesn’t challenge you, reject you, or force you to mature. That might feel comforting, but it leads to emotional atrophy. Men don’t become fulfilled by opting out of humanity. They become isolated. Attraction might open some doors, but it doesn’t…	/r/MensRights	18/12/25 10:43 AM
3	Why people think misandry doesn't exist, and why many feminists don't acknowledge it “You are mistaking misandry for patriarchy.” No, misandry is hatred, prejudice, and discrimination toward men. It’s not “patriarchy,” and it’s not about “mistaking” anything. Women (and men) can and do express explicit, harmful anti-male prejudice. The existence of misandry does not depend on a theory of patriarchy. Calling men’s documented suffering “patriarchy” is simply your way to avoid acknowledging misandry. “Misandry exists but isn’t as harmful as misogyny.” The harm of discrimination is …	/r/MensRights	29/11/25 09:29 AM
2	Men I need your experiences. Sure go ahead!	/r/MensRights	12/11/25 07:34 PM
4	Men I need your experiences. What are you in the mediaeval era? Modern feminist theory defines patriarchy as a system that privileges men and oppresses women. If that were truly the case, then men wouldn’t suffer most of the world’s social, physical, and institutional harms. You can’t claim there’s a system that benefits men by design and then say “it hurts men too.” It’s just… I don't know how the logic works here. Historically, the so-called “patriarchal” structures weren’t male-exclusive power clubs. They were hierarchie…	/r/MensRights	12/11/25 10:10 AM
4	TV Shows with no misandy in them? Spoiler! Yes the comic does, the show hasn't gotten to that point in the story yet. They actually handled it really well in the comic.	/r/MensRights	02/10/25 12:17 PM
2	I think most men are blind to the terrible fate which might be in store for us Volunteering stats don’t determine whether men suffer systemic neglect. Men are 75% of suicide victims, 60 to 70% of the homeless, and 92% of workplace deaths. Harvard and Lancet have both published on how men are underserved in healthcare policy. If your counter to that is 'but who hands out coats at shelters?'... it says more about your bias than about reality.	/r/MensRights	16/09/25 10:03 AM
3	Stop apologizing for being physically stronger than half the population. #NotOurProblemGirls Yes, that it is and I'm not disagreeing with that. Well the 76% of DV homicide victims being female refers to the... "76% of female homicide victims were killed by someone they knew, while 56% of male victims were killed by someone known to them" (which could be a family member, acquaintance, etc.) according to the Bureau of Justice Statistics. Idk why my last comment got removed for some reason.	/r/MensRights	20/08/25 04:24 PM
4	Stop apologizing for being physically stronger than half the population. #NotOurProblemGirls Abuse isn’t only about raw strength, it’s about power, control, manipulation, and circumstance. Men have been socialized never to hit women, they sometimes fear escalation (if they defend themselves, she can call the police and he’s the one arrested), worry about their children witnessing violence, fear being mocked or dismissed if they seek help, etc. and the list goes on. Studies show women use psychological aggression at similar or higher rates than men (shouting, humiliation, threats, contro…	/r/MensRights	20/08/25 03:59 PM
5	The false narrative around the so-called male loneliness epidemic The idea isn’t new. Men have always faced social pressures that discourage vulnerability, reliance on friends, or open emotional connection. What’s “new” is that recent surveys show it’s getting worse... It’s hard to put a single date, but research suggests it’s been worsening since the 1980s–90s, when divorce rates went up, more women joined the workforce (a positive thing, but it also shifted traditional support systems), technology replaced face-to-face connections, and “toughness” culture st…	/r/MensRights	20/08/25 03:30 PM
14	Stop apologizing for being physically stronger than half the population. #NotOurProblemGirls Oh boy, here we go again... The CDC’s National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey (NISVS) found that 42.3% of men and 42.0% of women report experiencing physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime. Severe violence is divided in 24.6% of men, 32.5% of women. In relationships with non-reciprocal IPV, women were the primary aggressors in over 70% of those cases. At the same time reciprocal violence is also common... About half of violent relationships involve mutual aggressi…	/r/MensRights	20/08/25 11:55 AM
5	Gates Foundation ignores men's health, commits $2.5 billion to 'ignored' women's health You just glossed over the sources I mentioned and cherry-picked something that comforts your biased views and hatred towards men. But I'll still link a few more studies for you — and I’ll keep them short because you clearly won't read them... "Traditional masculinity discourages help-seeking. Men avoid doctors because it feels like admitting weakness. Clinic hours, lack of male-friendly environments, and limited outreach make primary care inconvenient for working men." Harvard "Men have been sub…	/r/MensRights	08/08/25 08:43 AM
31	Gates Foundation ignores men's health, commits $2.5 billion to 'ignored' women's health When men die earlier, it’s their fault, but when women face disparities, it’s ‘systemic injustice’? Smoking & drinking rates are literally converging. According to the WHO and CDC, the gender gap in substance use has narrowed significantly over the last 20 years. And ccupational danger? Yup, men work 92% of workplace deaths (U.S. BLS), often out of necessity, not choice. It’s not a hobby mate. The American Journal of Public Health found men’s health issues are underfunded relative to burden of d…	/r/MensRights	05/08/25 08:39 AM
2	If a married man gets drunk and has sex with a woman, did he get r*ped or did he cheat? No, that’s not how this works... Rape is the lack of consent, period. If a man is too drunk to legally consent, just like a woman, it’s rape. Regret is not equal to rape, but non-consensual sex due to incapacity IS rape. Your “as a mature man” flex doesn’t change the law or reality. Men can’t “accidentally” get raped? Disbelief in male victims is why men rarely come forward. And you're part of the problem...	/r/MensRights	24/07/25 02:54 PM
4	My uncle took his own life due to false accusations Brian Banks (USA): Star athlete falsely accused of rape, spent 5 years in prison, and another 5 on probation before his accuser admitted on hidden camera she lied. Walter Swift (USA): Falsely convicted of rape, spent 26 years in prison before being exonerated by DNA evidence. The accuser misidentified him in a flawed lineup, and even after exoneration, Walter struggled to rebuild his life. (Innocence Project) James Calvin Tillman (USA): Spent nearly 19 years in prison before being proven innocen…	/r/MensRights	23/07/25 11:30 PM
3	My uncle took his own life due to false accusations A system that discards men’s humanity in the name of “believe all women” is not justice. I'm so sorry for your loss man...	/r/MensRights	23/07/25 06:08 PM
3	My uncle took his own life due to false accusations “Where’s the evidence for this?” Ugh... The irony of demanding evidence in the comments of a post about a man who was denied due process and the presumption of innocence until he took his own life because evidence didn’t matter... The point of OP’s post is that men in India are assumed guilty on accusation alone, without trial, without evidence, without due process, and when they do bring evidence, it’s ignored because the system, media, and public opinion are biased against them. NCRB data lite…	/r/MensRights	23/07/25 06:06 PM
2	What’s your reaction when someone tells you that misandry doesn’t exist? And what’s a good counter argument? “Patriarchy hurts men too” is one of the laziest, most circular copes feminism uses to avoid accountability for how society treats men. If “patriarchy” benefits men, how can it also be the reason men suffer disproportionately? You can’t claim a system both privileges and oppresses the same group for being that group. That’s logically incoherent lmao. Men are overwhelmingly harmed by the very systems that feminism calls “patriarchy”, Men are 93% of workplace deaths (BLS) Men are 80%+ of suicides …	/r/MensRights	23/07/25 11:43 AM
4	Woman teacher gets jail time and probation for stalking ex-bf. Judges having ‘wiggle room’ isn’t a free pass for gendered bias. Sentencing should reflect the actual crime committed, not statistical fears about what might happen based on gender. “There are holistic things to look at.” Holistic ≠ pre-crime punishment based on stereotypes. Courts can and do consider individual threats, past violent behavior, or restraining order violations when relevant, regardless of gender. That is already covered without blanket gender-based assumptions. Your argument boils…	/r/MensRights	22/07/25 09:07 PM
4	Woman teacher gets jail time and probation for stalking ex-bf. So let me get this straight... You agree women are treated less harshly for the same crime, you admit women should not be absolved, yet you justify systemic leniency because you assume men might escalate to sexual assault or murder in the future? You’re literally saying that we punish men more harshly for the same crime not because of what they did, but because of what they might do in the future. That is collective punishment based on a sexist mindset. If “men stalk women, so it might escalate”…	/r/MensRights	22/07/25 05:47 PM
12	Prosecutor - About 15% of Convicted Rapists are Underage Boys Who Had Sex With Underage Girls "I don’t know the details of these cases…” Exactly! You don’t know the details, yet you’re trying to dismiss what’s happening to real boys. “India has egregious rape laws and gang rape problems, so it’s no paradise for women.” Nobody claimed India is a “paradise for women.” However, acknowledging female suffering does not require denying or dismissing male suffering. It’s not “classism or misandry.” It’s both. And pretending misandry doesn’t exist simply because women suffer too is a lazy deflec…	/r/MensRights	15/07/25 06:56 PM
26	Prosecutor - About 15% of Convicted Rapists are Underage Boys Who Had Sex With Underage Girls Stop the strawman. Nobody claimed "older = predator." What was actually stated was that in India, under POCSO, if two minors have consensual sex, the boy is arrested for rape regardless of context. It doesn't matter if the girl is older, the girl forced or coerced him, the boy is physically smaller or weaker, or the boy is an actual victim. The outrage is not about "who is older" but about how the system automatically labels boys as rapists while ignoring them as victims. "No one with a brain be…	/r/MensRights	15/07/25 12:55 PM
1	A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhood Parenthood can indeed bring joy, but that is irrelevant to legal obligations and consent. A man’s personal growth or emotional shift later in life does not justify forcing fatherhood on men who do not want it. A woman has the right to choose motherhood regardless of future regret. Men deserve the same. If a man changes his mind later, nothing stops him from building a relationship with the child IF the mother agrees. But forcing fatherhood under penalty of law because “you might like it later” i…	/r/MensRights	10/07/25 12:02 PM
1	A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhood Saying ‘life isn’t fair’ isn’t an argument. You're making an excuse for maintaining legal inequality. If you believe accountability matters, it should apply equally... Women can opt out of motherhood via abortion or safe-haven laws. While men currently have zero legal means to opt out of parenthood if the woman decides to keep the child. Both parties consented to sex, but only one gets to choose post-conception whether they want to be a parent. If she keeps the child, the man is legally forced i…	/r/MensRights	10/07/25 11:58 AM
3	If women hate men more than men hate women then why we men should not start hating women more? No, you don’t fight misandry with misogyny. You fight misandry by holding individuals accountable and pushing for equality and justice, not by blaming all women. Most women don’t hate men, just like most men don’t hate women. Be better than that...	/r/MensRights	10/07/25 11:49 AM
3	Circumcision is Pretty Much Sexual Abuse "Circumcision is just a medical procedure." No, removing healthy, functional genital tissue from a non-consenting infant for non-therapeutic reasons is not “just” anything. The foreskin contains tens of thousands of nerve endings, provides natural lubrication, and protects the glans, all of which are lost forever. That’s amputation of a working body part. "It helps with hygiene and prevents issues like phimosis." That’s like saying we should pull out baby teeth so no one ever gets a cavity mate.…	/r/MensRights	25/06/25 08:31 PM
1	What does society need to make men's rights appreciated? If you're going to accuse someone of misinformation, the bare minimum is to actually point out what you think is false, and then back it up with evidence. Otherwise, it’s just lazy gaslighting which you're doing... June is Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month. (It’s not even officially recognized by many countries or media outlets. Most people don't even know it exists.) There is no second month dedicated exclusively to men’s mental health. In contrast, International Women’s Day, Women’s History …	/r/MensRights	05/06/25 10:13 AM
1	What does society need to make men's rights appreciated? Glad you asked. While female genital mutilation has been criminalized in most countries and called out internationally as a human rights violation, male circumcision is still routinely performed on babies without consent. Imagine if any other group had a part of their body cut off at birth without consent and everyone just shrugged. In many countries, only men are required by law to register for military service or face punishment. Even in countries without active drafts, like the U.S., only men…	/r/MensRights	04/06/25 09:43 AM
3	Trying to Find 10 Examples Where Feminism Fought for Men. Help? Feminism by definition says it's fighting for gender equality. How is it equality if you're uplifting one gender while the other is going down the drain?	/r/MensRights	04/06/25 09:08 AM
17	Why is a Woman’s Body Her Own, But a Man’s Body Belongs to the Country? If there's some secret all-powerful system made by men, for men, it’s doing a hilariously awful job, especially for men. If this “patriarchy” exists, why do men, account for 76% of suicides globally, make up 95% of workplace deaths, die 7–10 years earlier on average, and serve >96% of combat deaths in war? How does that benefit men? If patriarchy controls society, why are men, almost always on the losing side of custody battles (even in equal parenting nations), more likely to pay alimony and ch…	/r/MensRights	03/06/25 10:07 PM
25	Why is a Woman’s Body Her Own, But a Man’s Body Belongs to the Country? Yea sure the "truth" being the "pAtRiArChY". Every religion has its own set of atrocities. And the patriarchy isn't a real thing like you guys make it seem.	/r/MensRights	03/06/25 09:46 PM
7	Violence against men is apparently not punishable by law in India. Did you forget that men can get raped too? Did you forget that men can be victims of domestic abuse as well? Or do you only consider it rape and domestic abuse when it's happening to a specific gender?	/r/MensRights	03/06/25 01:41 PM
2	Why do some men mock male victims? TW: SA “Simple. Because patriarchy harms everyone.” No, the only thing simple here is your understanding of how stuff work. The so-called "patriarchy" is a buzzword people like you use to explain every bad thing while conveniently ignoring the actual suffering men face, usually at the hands of the very system you pretend protects them. “It creates rigid ideas about masculinity that discourage vulnerability and empathy.” And yet, who enforces those rigid ideas the most in modern society? It's not some a…	/r/MensRights	22/05/25 03:22 PM
8	Women: "Why are all men leaning right-wing?" And there it is folks, when you have no argument, mock the concern as if it’s ridiculous for someone to want basic recognition. if deliberately omitting a demographic while claiming to be "inclusive" isn't a problem to you, maybe you're not actually for inclusion, just favoritism dressed up in buzzwords. You don’t fix inequality by pretending certain groups don’t exist or don’t matter. That’s basically a narrative-driven erasure. But if chuckling behind your emoji while men's issues pile up like…	/r/MensRights	21/05/25 12:24 AM
9	Women: "Why are all men leaning right-wing?" "Straight white men aren’t actually oppressed." Great, so now we decide who gets basic recognition based on an oppression scorecard? If someone’s struggles aren’t fashionably marginalized, they don’t get a seat at the table. It's not about privilege anymore, it's about narrative convenience. "Serving them is assumed to be the default." Translation: We’re totally inclusive… except we’ll go out of our way to name every group except yours, and if you notice, we’ll shame you for asking why. This att…	/r/MensRights	21/05/25 12:14 AM
48	Microfeminism - feminism gets even sadder You're probably not even gonna read this judging from your previous comments but... Did you mean that ‘patriarchy’ where men make up the majority of suicides, workplace deaths, homicide victims, are more likely to be homeless, get harsher prison sentences, and die earlier? Damn, your coffee shop micro-feminism is fighting the ‘real oppression.’ Well I'll be the one to tell you, you’re not fighting oppression... you’re just cosplaying activism because introspection is too hard and TikTok told you…	/r/MensRights	20/05/25 04:00 AM
6	Russia: 'Dream' female teacher is jailed for violent sex acts on male pupil, 11, after victim's mother discovers naked selfies she sent the child. OP: WTF is going on with female teachers. By some horrid offspring, you mean yourself right? I don't see anybody wanting to be in the position of that CHILD, just you...	/r/MensRights	15/05/25 06:05 PM
4	Something Happened to a Woman? Nearest Man Must be Guilty! Statistically, the 'significant other' is just as likely to be the victim, not just the perpetrator. The CDC’s National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey (NISVS) found that men experience intimate partner violence (IPV) at nearly the same rates as women, but male victims are significantly underreported due to societal stigma. In some forms of IPV, like being made to engage in non-consensual acts, men actually report experiencing it at rates comparable to women. Men aren’t just the perp…	/r/MensRights	16/03/25 05:22 PM
1	Girls will no longer be sent to youth prisons in UK If self-harm stats are your justification, why not push for better mental health support and safer conditions for everyone instead of cherry-picking who gets compassion? Boys self-harm too, they just suffer quietly because nobody's bending over backwards to shield them. The whole point of justice is supposed to be fairness, not playing favorites. If the system's broken, you don't patch it up by carving out special treatment for one group, you fix it from the ground up so everyone gets a shot at …	/r/MensRights	06/03/25 04:57 AM
61	Girls will no longer be sent to youth prisons in UK So the logic is... girls deserve better treatment because there are fewer of them? Vulnerability isn't a gender-exclusive trait, prison is hell for everyone. If the system is broken, fix it for everyone, not just the group society plays favorites with. Funny how 'equality' always seems to mean special treatment for one side while the other gets told to suck it up.	/r/MensRights	05/03/25 05:54 PM
31	The “Toxic Masculinity” Lie: How Colleges Are Waging War on Men "Nobody is waging war on men"? Yeah, and I guess the Titanic "just had a bit of a leak." You don't need explicit anti-male laws when the system operates through bias, cultural shaming, and institutional double standards. Women dominate college enrollment (60% vs. 40% men), yet all the "equity" programs are still focused on boosting women while male struggles are ignored. Where’s the Male Empowerment Initiative? Oh, right, that’d be “sexist.” Colleges routinely expel men over flimsy accusations w…	/r/MensRights	24/02/25 11:41 PM
6	Why is femicide a thing Thinking critically? Sure. The issue isn't the existence of initiatives targeting gender violence but the imbalance in societal attention and resources... When 81% of global homicide victims are men, it raises a valid concern, why isn’t their victimization treated with the same urgency? It’s not about downplaying violence against women, it’s about recognizing that violence is a human issue, not just a gendered one... Selective advocacy can inadvertently devalue other lives. Shouldn’t people aim …	/r/MensRights	21/12/24 06:55 PM
17	Why is femicide a thing But people are dying. It's not a gender thing. It's a human thing. They're putting more emphasis on protecting women which literally makes men feel like lesser beings.	/r/MensRights	21/12/24 05:45 PM
3	All men hold responsible for some mens crimes but the women aren't even held responsible for their own crimes Sarcasm on the internet is very hard to decipher lol my bad...	/r/MensRights	12/12/24 07:55 AM
8	All men hold responsible for some mens crimes but the women aren't even held responsible for their own crimes Did you miss the /s? Because I really don't know how to take your comment seriously...	/r/MensRights	11/12/24 09:29 PM
11	"Your body my choice" I’ve rarely seen feminists actively campaign against circumcision or the draft, even though both issues involve bodily autonomy and systemic inequalities. These topics tend to be addressed more by other advocacy groups, like MRAs or bodily autonomy movements. If most feminists are opposed, as you claim, where's the evidence of organized feminist efforts to address these?	/r/MensRights	07/12/24 08:23 PM
6	Women are not punished for objectifying men and even receive praise for it. "Bro, you're thinking way too much for under 18." If the OP is under 18 and capable of initiating nuanced conversations about societal double standards, they’re probably not “thinking too much”—they’re engaging with important issues many adults ignore. Dismissing critical thinking as “too much” says more about your inability to handle the topic than it does about the OP. "Are you on ADHD meds?" Is that your go-to insult when you have no meaningful counterpoint? Bringing up ADHD as a jab is outda…	/r/MensRights	04/12/24 05:36 AM
1	How many men here have been falsely accused of rape? Bro, your strategy manual reads like a spy novel, but James Bond didn’t have to live this scared of coworkers or casual conversations. Who hurt you to make you this paranoid? Living 10 steps ahead and treating everyone like a potential threat isn’t protecting yourself; it’s isolating yourself. If you see danger in every interaction, you’re not free—you’re trapped by your own mindset. Isn’t life about connection, not constant suspicion? You’re painting all women as potential false accusers, but f…	/r/MensRights	03/12/24 03:44 AM
16	Female teachers on how they treat male students. They have near unlimited discretion and almost no oversight. Pardon me I confused you with someone else. However, is your only solution to inequality flipping the script and blaming boys for everything? The mental gymnastics you're pulling to justify this bias is Olympic-level. Instead of addressing actual issues or suggesting constructive solutions, you’ve resorted to the lowest form of discourse — painting half the population as inherently 'annoying.' Here’s the reality: respect isn’t gender-specific, and perpetuating this narrative of ‘boys bad, girls …	/r/MensRights	02/12/24 09:19 AM
16	Female teachers on how they treat male students. They have near unlimited discretion and almost no oversight. It doesn't really seem like it, when people look through your account... You seem like a man hater to me...	/r/MensRights	02/12/24 09:11 AM
29	Female teachers on how they treat male students. They have near unlimited discretion and almost no oversight. And girls aren't?	/r/MensRights	02/12/24 08:31 AM
22	Make no mistake, feminists support domestic abuse and assault against men Where did you get your data from? Men account for 81% of homicide victims. However terminology and classification issues play a significant role in how statistics are reported, often leading to the minimization of male victimization in key areas such as sexual violence and homicide. This is particularly evident in cases like "forced to penetrate," which the CDC includes in its reports but often excludes from the legal definitions of "rape". Studies indicate that men account for about 40% of dome…	/r/MensRights	24/11/24 04:54 AM
1	As a Korean, I apologize for my country Yea sure sarcasm... And a bad attempt at that. "99% of people are comforted by false statistics"? Sounds like you're the one clutching onto false comfort to avoid accepting real evidence. It's amazing how statistics are suddenly "comforting lies" when they challenge your point of view. Instead of engaging with real data, dismissing it as "false" seems like the easy way out. Dismissing an entire body of research with a fake, feel-good stat just because it challenges your narrative. That’s intelle…	/r/MensRights	12/11/24 06:28 PM
5	As a Korean, I apologize for my country So you're telling me raping is fine until they get pregnant? It doesn't matter who it is done to it's just as disgusting mate. A survey in 2010-2012 found a wild difference between the number of women and men who reported being raped. For women it was around 1.27 mil and for men it was 219 k. But that's half the story. However these 219 k reported being raped by another man. What about those situations where the man was forced to penetrate? The numbers are 1.26 mil. I don't know why you think th…	/r/MensRights	12/11/24 12:51 PM
2	4 women have died since 2021 because of the abortion ban. By the lowest estimates (CDC refuses to track cases) circumcisions kill 10 boys a year. We need to stop allowing women to control the narrative. Mens rights are human rights. Did you not read the part where he said "died from circumcision"? Dude it's not tough it's fatal. Why do women get to have a say over how our bodies should look? Do they take our advice on theirs?	/r/MensRights	09/11/24 08:10 AM
7	This toxic neofeminism have to end I think that even if men stop giving it attention they'll still be affected in some way or another. Literally the other day a passing by biker got beat up by a feminist mob just because he was minding his own business passing through the crowd, was in Mexico i believe? I could be wrong about the country tho. It's a sad world we live in...	/r/MensRights	08/11/24 08:39 PM
7	whenever a man murders his a monster, whenever a women does it she is a victim because she was "forced" to do it. Where the hell are you getting your sources from?	/r/MensRights	03/11/24 04:36 PM
5	“Movie critic” Redditor offers apologetics for the woman who ruined Forrest Gump’s life You sure are mature while you keep coming to this sub to whine about how it doesn't post stuff you're interested in... Oh wait you are interested in these...	/r/MensRights	17/10/24 09:42 PM
17	ChatGPT on gender violence Where are you getting those stats from?	/r/MensRights	29/09/24 05:13 PM
4	Reality check: better off dead than to live with only men? Just went through the comments and found a guy saying "The last man would be equally tortured and milked every day in a lock up cell"... He had 156 downvotes while a reply to his saying "Women would suffer more in this case" had 204 upvotes. Really says something...	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 06:30 AM