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| 1 | Separated yet not divorcedNot at all my new partner finds it comical, and just laughs at her bs. For example she called her a whore with multiple baby daddies one time, yet she’s only got one child from when she was also previously married, my ex just loves to make up stuff from thin air with out knowing her and or knowing anything about her . She’s just jealous things are going the right direction for me , and the stuff isn’t going for her as she planned chasing after a guy who only wants for one thing sex . | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/24 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Separated yet not divorcedAbsolutely, I'm done with my soon-to-be ex-wife! The divorce process is complicated due to her games, making it longer than necessary. I'm in a 20-year friendship-turned-relationship, and I've been upfront about my baggage. My new partner understands why it's not finalized yet. Despite my ex's derogatory name-calling, she refuses to meet her, even though we share a son. Sometimes delays are beyond our control, and it's crucial to ask your partner why it's taken so long – genuine commitment invol… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/24 02:46 AM |
| 11 | How do you feel about your wife keeping your surname after the divorce?She doesn’t deserved that is my view, my divorce in fl had a little box asking if I wanted her name changed back to her maiden name ? Did I check the box heck yeah I did! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Did counselling help any men?I actively engage in counseling, and I truly believe in its benefits. Finding the right counselor is crucial—I initially worked with a male counselor, who was good but not the right fit. Switching to a female counselor brought about positive changes. She was brutally honest, breaking through my comfort zone and prompting self-reflection. I realized justifying things doesn't foster personal growth. My failing marriage led to self-blame until I recognized the need for change. Ultimately, I ended t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/24 03:05 PM |
| 6 | AdviceBe honest, don’t ignore the little stuff , all the little things eventually pile up and make one big thing, have boundaries, let your significant other other know what your expectations are so later down the road there isn’t any confusion about what’s expected and not expected | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/24 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Put a lawyer on retainer todayYeah mine was $15k | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/24 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Put a lawyer on retainer todayWhat was your retainer out of curiosity? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/24 03:57 PM |
| 7 | Dating during divorce?Based on my personal experience, I attempted to dive back into dating hastily, and it didn’t go well. Every person I met seemed promising at first, but they all ended up being disappointing. Although I’m in a relationship now, it happened naturally. I’ve known the current girl for over 20 years; we dated briefly after high school, but I was overseas in the military, and it didn’t work out then. Fast forward to last February/March, we started talking again. Over time, our conversations deepened, … | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/24 09:11 PM |
| 4 | She’s moving on, why can’t I?Couples therapy for what reason ? She’s seeing someone else and you’re clearly wanting to move on yourself ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/24 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Sex before marriage- good or bad the second time around.Sexual compatibility is crucial in any relationship for me, but it's important not to solely base love on physical aspects. My current partner and I have known each other since 9th grade, dated briefly after high school, and then spent about 12-13 years apart before deciding to pursue a long-distance relationship. We fell in love on a deeper, more intimate level. When we finally reunited and had our first sexual experience, it was amazing – we're incredibly sexually compatible. It's reassuring b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/23 02:24 PM |
| 8 | Friends with your ex wifeDivorce happens for a reason, dude. There must have been something making you feel like she wasn't subconsciously fulfilled. Maybe some of your needs weren't being met, and that contributed to her dissatisfaction. It takes 2 to tango! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 04:51 AM |
| 1 | I don’t want a relationship again because I’m worried what it will do to my two boys.Consider taking it slow with your kids; start by dating without immediately involving them. If the person genuinely cares for you and desires a real relationship, they'll understand the need to wait before introducing your children. I can relate – I've been on my own journey for almost three years, carefully navigating dating without introducing my son until I found a meaningful connection. The woman I'm with now has been a friend for almost 20 years, and things are going well. However, I'm faci… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/23 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Who has gone to a female therapist during divorce and what was your exoerience like?I went to a male therapist for a while and he was ok , but I ended changing to a female therapist and to me she’s helped me more than the male therapist did. I don’t think the sex matter I think it comes down to who you connect more with | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/23 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Wife trying to come back after leaving me for affair partnerHey, I've been through a similar situation. My soon-to-be ex-wife had an affair with our neighbor, and she kept it hidden for a while. I suspected something was off, but I wasn't sure about our future. We ended up wanting different things, and she initiated a divorce. I tried to work on our issues, but she refused. Recently, I decided on a divorce, and she was surprisingly happy about it. I reconnected with a girl from my past, and things have been developing between us. I've been transparent wi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/23 06:28 PM |
| 2 | The forgive your ex crap really pisses me offI totally agree; she betrayed me, and that's the bottom line. I feel sorry for my son because we can't get along anymore. I make an effort to put our differences aside for his sake, but beyond that, I don't care to discuss or hear anything else. Lately, she's upset with me because I reconnected with a girl from high school after almost 20 years, and old feelings resurfaced. Things are developing between us, and his mom found out, becoming even more sour with me. Ironically, she's still with the … | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/23 01:41 AM |
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