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I don't care much about Hillary but taking out that serial rapist Gaddafi who would do evil things to women in his basement bunkers was the right thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:29 AM
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Sure but it pretty much boils down to this: do you want to hold her accountable or do you want her pussy? Choose one! Women who don't take offense when you hold them accountable are hard to come by, majority of women think they are right and the man is wrong any situation possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:48 PM
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we men need to do some serious collective bargaining Yeah, that's never going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:26 PM
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Unfortunately if you want access to the hole that's between a woman's legs, she gets to dictate how you are supposed to act. Your options are to find a woman who you can open up to or be without women completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:50 PM
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Absolutely, any women who uses phrases like "man up" is an automatic no from me. These kinds of women almost always seem to be full of themselves and with a big ego...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:19 PM
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You are coping bro, and lying to yourself how you are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:32 PM
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Keep on coping, bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:53 AM
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Rejection is supposed to be painful and will destroy your confidence. There's no magical advice that is going to change that. Mind you the women who suggesting you to reframe rejection are people who are never asked a man on a date, they don't know what it feels like. The men who are giving advice on this are coping hard. They want to seem like that rejection doesn't faze them because they have the right mindset or whatever are lying through their teeth to themselves and to you about how rejecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:44 AM
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Yeah bro "I have all the courage in the world and rejection doesn't hurt me. The thing is I just don't when it's appropriate to approach women" What a lame ass excuse! Pathetic A handsome guy can approach at the worse possible time and still not get rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:12 AM
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LOL, you are exactly the guy my post is describing. You want to pretend that you aren't approaching women and asking them out because it would bring horrible consequences to you but that's not true and the real reason is because you are scared to talk to women and don't want to get rejected. Get real buddy! Start being honest with yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:50 AM
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But this post isn't about the points you are making. This post is about guys who claim they aren't scared to talk to women and rejection doesn't hurt them but say they don't approach because we live in the #metoo era. Do you agree that the excuse they are making is false and the real reason is because they are scared and don't want to get rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:43 AM
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I didn't mean guys are saying that to themselves What makes you think that guys can't lie to themselves and believe their own lies? And the problem isn't that guys don't approach because they're scared to approach The problem is that guys stop approaching after realizing how low their success rate is, if it even exists That's is why I gave two reasons why they won't approach: they are scared to talk to women or they hate getting rejected. Guys stop approaching because they hate getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:34 AM
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What was your other point? That I want men to keep trying something that has never gotten them a positive result? No I don't want that. All I want is that men are honest with themselves and others. Approaching girls is scary and rejection hurts like a motherfucker. Just keep it real and don't make excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:25 AM
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I don't think guys are lying when they say they're fine with rejection, Hard disagree right there. They lie to themselves and others about rejection not hurting that much. That's just typical behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:16 AM
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Sex isn't anywhere near a need as interpersonal relationships are Science disagrees with you. Maslow's hierarchy places sex in the physiological needs category(the most important, first level), alongside food and breathing. Initmacy along side with family and friendship is placed in the third level of importance. Therefore sex is way more important than intimacy. With that said, it's okay to want something, but it's very sad and pathetic when you have to debase yourself into doing something you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:59 AM
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Perhaps #metoo hasn't stopped approaches but it has given a lot of guys a convenient excuse to why they can't approach. The real reason why they aren't approaching is not because of #metoo but because they are simply scared to talk to women and hate getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:46 AM
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If it still "sucks" then you aren't handling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:13 AM
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You sound like those women who are saying that they don't need a man. We all know they are just straight up lying and so are you when you say you don't need a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:06 AM
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Yeah handling rejection will become easier the more you do it but don't try to feed me bs by saying it won't ruin your day. That's a lie and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:04 AM
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Yeah great if you want to be single and don't want to get laid you don't have to play by their rules. But if you want to get laid(which most guys do) then you do have to play by their rules. If you don't know already but having sex is a very important need for an adult, especially for guys. You saying that men don't have to play by womans rules if they choose to stay single is asking guys just ignore that very important need which is very hard to do for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:58 AM
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Cope in terms of lying to yourself how much much rejection still hurts after getting rejected so much already
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:42 AM
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If you aren't handsome and want to get laid you actually do have to play by their rules but my ears are open if you have any ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:29 AM
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You can keep on screaming that to the void but that won't change anything. Women like the dynamic of guys asking girls out and they are going to make their best effort to keep it that way! That's just the way it is. Sorry boss!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:11 AM
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What guy in his right mind is going to say: "I don't approach because I always get rejected" ? Well how are you going to solve the problem of being scared to approach girls without being honest with yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:09 AM
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Keep on coping bro, whatever to keep you admitting how you really feel about yourself after getting rejected, am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:04 AM
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Yeah it's easy puff your self up and to lie on the internet saying that a rejection wouldn't ruin your day but both you and I know the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:55 PM
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Doxxing and reporting to the police just for approaching and asking somebody out? Maybe that has happened but I don't want to believe it happens more than super rarely. No they aren't scared of what women will do. They are scared to talk to women and scare of getting rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:51 PM
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Any women who thinks that a girl asking a guy out is a red flag is herself a red flag. I guess in your world only women are allowed to be scared. Me as a man can't afford to be scared or timid or women will make fun of me. You have no idea how much courage it takes to approach somebody and ask her out. You have no idea what getting rejected does to your confidence and self esteem. You just live in your own bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:46 PM
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I'm not the one who is making those excuses. I'm saying there are a lot of guys who would make those kinds of excuses. Of course the chance of getting reported to the police is super low if you aren't doing things you shouldn't but that doesn't matter to those guys, they still want to have that excuse to lean on and never going to admit they are just scared to talk to girls and don't want to get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:36 PM
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WOW! You don't think women make fun of men who ask them out all the time? Men have to put their ego on the line all the time, actually that's what's expected of us. It is expected that we risk out ego and ask a girl out. You make thousand excuses why you can't ask a guy out. You want me to believe you could if you wanted to, the truth is you can't because you are scared of rejection. Again work on that fragile ego. This is just amazing. This is just projection at it's purest form. You are the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:32 PM
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Yes, that was my point I was trying to make. These guys are inventing excuses why they can't approach like getting called a creep and getting reported to the police but that's just an excuse made my them. The real reason is they are just scared and don't want to get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:21 PM
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It's not contradictory if it wouldn't actually ruin your day. Getting rejected would ruin my day and if you said it wouldn't ruin yours then I would say I just don't believe you buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:18 PM
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Thank you for your honesty but saying "it doesn't affect me much" and "Rejection still sucks" is kind of contradictory don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:15 PM
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You might be an exception but you might also be just lying to yourself and me about how it "doesn't affect you". Are you being honest about that? Don't answer that. It's more of a rhetorical question. Only you know the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:11 PM
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Yeah you always wait for the guy to ask you out. Why can't you do it yourself? It's not rocket science you said. I'll tell you why you won't, its because you are scared and don't want to take the risk of getting rejected. Same as most guys. I still adhere to some gender roles because that's the best strategy for me. In the case of gender roles of guy asking the girl out and not vice versa, you don't have to adhere to that. Police aren't going to send you to jail for that. You are just looking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:07 PM
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I can't make my point clearer as I stated in my comment. You are misunderstanding me. I have no problems with the #metoo movement. This post isn't trying to critique the #metoo movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:02 PM
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I would consider coping and pasting the same answer to everyone as "changing the lyrics". I even added that same comment to my post, what do you want from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:00 PM
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Approaching people because of your job is not the same as approaching people for a date. If you think it's so easy go on and approach that handsome guy and ask him out on a date. You will give 5000 ecxuses why you are not going to do that but the real reason is you are scared and don't want to get rejected, the same reason why a lot of guys don't approach
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:58 PM
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Easy for you to say it's not rocket science, you are the one getting approached. Go and try approach a handsome guy and see how your whole perspective changes about how easy it is to how hard it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:52 PM
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Well everybody misunderstood me so I had no other option.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:50 PM
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Well of course I can't factually prove it at the end of the day but I can guess and my guess is these guys do use that excuse as a crutch. I have no problem admitting that approaching women is super scary and makes my heart beat fast and getting rejected hurts my soul. How can you even overcome this obstacle if you aren't being honest with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:48 PM
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How many women who are strangers have you approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:41 PM
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I guess I wasn't able to articulate what my point was: There are guys who claim that they have all the courage in the world to approach a girl and getting rejected wont affect them but they can't approach because we live in the #metoo era where they would be called a creep and possibly be reported to the police. I think this is a lame excuse by those guys. The real reason they won't approach is because they ARE scared to approach(not because they would be called a creep but because they are scar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:36 PM
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I guess I wasn't able to articulate what my point was: There are guys who claim that they have all the courage in the world to approach a girl and getting rejected wont affect them but they can't approach because we live in the #metoo era where they would be called a creep and possibly be reported to the police. I think this is a lame excuse by those guys. The real reason they won't approach is because they ARE scared to approach(not because they would be called a creep but because they are scar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:36 PM
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I guess I wasn't able to articulate what my point was: There are guys who claim that they have all the courage in the world to approach a girl and getting rejected wont affect them but they can't approach because we live in the #metoo era where they would be called a creep and possibly be reported to the police. I think this is a lame excuse by those guys. The real reason they won't approach is because they ARE scared to approach(not because they would be called a creep but because they are scar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:35 PM
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I guess I wasn't able to articulate what my point was: There are guys who claim that they have all the courage in the world to approach a girl and getting rejected wont affect them but they can't approach because we live in the #metoo era where they would be called a creep and possibly be reported to the police. I think this is a lame excuse by those guys. The real reason they won't approach is because they ARE scared to approach(not because they would be called a creep but because they are scar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:31 PM
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I guess I wasn't able to articulate what my point was: There are guys who claim that they have all the courage in the world to approach a girl and getting rejected wont affect them but they can't approach because we live in the #metoo era where they would be called a creep and possibly be reported to the police. I think this is a lame excuse by those guys. The real reason they won't approach is because they ARE scared to approach(not because they would be called a creep but because they are scar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:31 PM
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I guess I wasn't able to articulate what my point was: There are guys who claim that they have all the courage in the world to approach a girl and getting rejected wont affect them but they can't approach because we live in the #metoo era where they would be called a creep and possibly be reported to the police. I think this is a lame excuse by those guys. The real reason they won't approach is because they ARE scared to approach(not because they get would get called a creep but because they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:31 PM
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I guess I wasn't able to articulate what my point was: There are guys who claim that they have all the courage in the world to approach a girl and getting rejected wont affect them but they can't approach because we live in the #metoo era where they would be called a creep and possibly be reported to the police. I think this is a lame excuse by those guys. The real reason they won't approach is because they ARE scared to approach(not because they get would get called a creep but because they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:31 PM
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I guess I wasn't able to articulate what my point was: There are guys who claim that they have all the courage in the world to approach a girl and getting rejected wont affect them but they can't approach because we live in the #metoo era where they would be called a creep and possibly be reported to the police. I think this is a lame excuse by those guys. The real reason they won't approach is because they ARE scared to approach(not because they get would get called a creep but because they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:30 PM
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I guess I wasn't able to articulate what my point was: There are guys who claim that they have all the courage in the world to approach a girl and getting rejected wont affect them but they can't approach because we live in the #metoo era where they would be called a creep and possibly be reported to the police. I think this is a lame excuse by those guys. The real reason they won't approach is because they ARE scared to approach(not because they get would get called a creep but because they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:30 PM
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I guess I wasn't able to articulate what my point was: There are guys who claim that they have all the courage in the world to approach a girl and getting rejected wont affect them but they can't approach because we live in the #metoo era where they would be called a creep and possibly be reported to the police. I think this is a lame excuse by those guys. The real reason they won't approach is because they ARE scared to approach(not because they would be called a creep but because they are scar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:30 PM
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I guess I wasn't able to articulate what my point was: There are guys who claim that they have all the courage in the world to approach a girl and getting rejected wont affect them but they can't approach because we live in the #metoo era where they would be called a creep and possibly be reported to the police. I think this is a lame excuse by those guys. The real reason they won't approach is because they ARE scared to approach(not because they would be called a creep but because they are scar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:30 PM
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I guess I wasn't able to articulate what my point was: There are guys who claim that they have all the courage in the world to approach a girl and getting rejected wont affect them but they can't approach because we live in the #metoo era where they would be called a creep and possibly be reported to the police. I think this is a lame excuse by those guys. The real reason they won't approach is because they ARE scared to approach(not because they would be called a creep but because they are scar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:29 PM
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Women don’t want any man approaching unless that man is Giga Chad Thundercock Esq. Nah, that's a hyperbole. Most women wouldn't mind a cold approach from at least a 7/10 guy. The thing is most men believe they are at least 7/10 but they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:04 PM
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Yeah, what a wild take.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:26 PM
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Dunno man, maybe because they want the continued access to the hole that's between women's legs and if a women is mad at a man that access is denied until man comes and apologizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:39 PM
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You right on that but my point of it being "much less prone to emotional bias" At the end of the day girls for some reason always are intrested in that typically attractive guy. Must be a coincidence or just that handsome guys have great personalities, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:01 PM
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You want me to belive those guys who begged you were some tall hunks but in reality they were average looking losers. No I don't need a therapist. I've worked women out. They are the masters of the facade, they bluff every day of their lives. Women absoulutely despise the ugly truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:53 PM
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Im sure it has happened. It's just like my case: every day when I go for a walk these hot supermodels show up and start begging to blow me. I politely refuse naturally, I need a deeper connection for a blowjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:33 PM
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LMAO " I have men 5’10 - 6’5 grovel over me, " you actually typed that out. Sad, thats really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:14 PM
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Yeah I know what it means: it means Chad doesen't want you and at the end of the day you have to compromise for a boring average beta male.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:12 PM
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" which do you care MORE about ".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:10 PM
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Well it seems you're saying whole lot of nothing to be honest. "rooted in assumptions, and doesn’t show causality. " wow fancy words, you must be right if you use vocabulary like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:08 PM
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"It does not matter. I have men 5’10 - 6’5 grovel over me, fit, educated, well dressed come to me not for sex, but for deeper connections/relationships. " Jesus, what a pathetic lie. When people exaggerate or use hyperbole, you just know for fact they are lying. You just played yourself. Bozo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:06 PM
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Yes yes we all know, the study is wrong, women aren't shallow, they get turned on by the man's personality not his looks or height.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:00 PM
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Well that study obviously has to be based on women's own reports. The reason I take it as truth is because the answer to the question(probably was something like: On a scale of 1-10 how big was your orgasm) was quantifiable and much less prone to emotional bias. On the other hand when those same women would be asked the REASON why was your orgasm bigger with the more handsome men the question would be more prone to emotional bias and then lying would start. They would probably say something like…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:51 PM
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How about debunking that study I just linked, not getting so hung up on that primitive thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:31 PM
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You could be a 6/10 woman so your looks threshold should probably be around that also. Very handsome guys aren't intrested in average or even above average looking girls. If a 8-9/10 who was an asshole showed intrest in you, you would sing a different song.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:13 PM
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Maybe you misunderstood me: Im not saying personality holds absolutely no weight, I'm saying to holds far less weight then women like to admit. I mean for men girls personality hold weight too, but we admit it: girls looks holds FAR moret han personality, when you average all men. " Sure there are SOME WOMEN who would stay ". Nope it's the exact opposite: if the guy is super handsome but an asshole, only SOME WOMEN would leave. Probability is you would stay too because you would say to yourself,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:53 PM
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No you are wrong. I have study that backs it up:" Accordingly, R. Thornhill, S. W. Gangestad, and R. Comer (1995) found that women mated to more attractive men reported an orgasm during a greater proportion of copulations than did women mated to less attractive men. " https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12110-000-1015-1 You'd like to think you are not as primitive as we men are, but you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:43 PM
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I have psychic powers my brother. I can sense these things, I don't need to make it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:34 PM
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Yes I agree, most women probably do like confidence and dominance in bed. But they would rather have sex with handsome guy who is average in bed than average looking guy that is super great in bed. Thats because the more handsome you are the more pleasurable it is for woman. The confidence and dominance is just the cherry on top. My main point is men's and woman's sexuality aint that different, but women keep telling themselves that their sexuality is different(aka " more sophisticated") than me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:29 PM
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Lol you are trying to make me believe that you are great with women and have been with super hot women. Well I know you haven't been with hot women, at best the best looking girl you have been with is a 6.5, don't try to deny. You said it first. Women are like people. That's right they are the same as men, they just have a good facade to make you believe they are not as shallow, but they are. LOL "Chads become good husbands", who the hell are you kidding?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:28 PM
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What ever bro. The fact remains the same: Chad runs through all the hot chicks first(hits it and quits it), then the rest of us get sloppy seconds. Thats evolution in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:13 PM
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"Some of the factors that affect how females select their potential mates for reproduction include voice pitch, facial shape, muscular appearance, and height" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_selection_in_humans I think this is the end of the argument, cause clearly this wikipedia page proves I'm right, you're wrong and wont reply to you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:51 PM
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Well I'm not going to take what people tell about themselves as the truth. Most people lie to themselves and others all the time, thinking it's the truth. The turth is most often times ugly and bitter not beautiful. On average women are just as shallow as men and that is a hard to swallow pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:40 PM
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Of course we are different from cavemen, but don't kid yourself, this evolutionary rewiring takes tens of thousand of years(even more). On the surface we are different, but on the inside we are more alike than we'd like to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:26 PM
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Hey asswipe don't take that patronizing tone with me, thinking you are smarter and wiser than me, you aint. Women choose tall handsome muscular men because of evolution. When we were cavemen it didn't really matter whether as a man you were nurturing or supportive and a good father. What mattered was physical strength and fitness. Opposite of profound is shallow. Women are just as shallow as men, but they tell themselves they are the "profound" gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:09 PM
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It's the circle of life. Women wants the handsome bad boy. They have sex, maybe couple times. The bad boy moves on to the next girl and doesn't want a relationship. Woman thinks hmm maybe the guy was just an asshole. Women wants another bad boy thinking this next one is going to want a relationship. Newsflash: he doesn't, he just hits it and quits it. So the only option to have a relationship is to have it with the boring average guy, the woman settles, but to keep her ego she tells herself she'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:57 PM
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"evolutionary factors " pretty much equal looks A tall handsome muscular man pretty much maxes the "evolutionary factors". A man can also say that he wants that big ass and breasted bimbo because that indicates fertility
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:44 PM
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"not many are staying just FOR looks" When a woman meets an asshole who is handsome and is intrested in her, what a women often does is she "decorates" the negatives. "Asshole and douchebag" becomes assertive and independent. "Aggressive" becomes confident. And so on So at the end of the day she can tell herself she's not dating an aggressive douchebag, but a confident and assertive one, but she only does that because he is handsome, but she can never admit that to herself that she's as shallow …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:35 PM
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I talking about regular sex not blowjobs. Yes for men its better with 10/10 starfish and for women its better with a handsome man. Somebody even posted a study here that confirms that. All else being equal of course. Female coital orgasm and male attractiveness: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26193479/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:20 PM
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So are you saying women in genral are more profound than men? When all alse being equal(status and money) women will choose looks over personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:14 PM
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That guys wife doesn't seem very average to me especially when I look at pictures of her when she was young. That aint average. And again I forgot to add there are always exceptions to the rule. You ignore all the Hollywood hunks who do have hot wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:43 PM
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Well tall handsome men dont go for "above average" looking girls, they go for hot bimbos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:28 PM
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" sexual allure of young 5/10 ". A young 5/10 doesn't have that much of a "sexual allure" bro. Close to none. 5 out of 10 is no where near "hot" level irregardless if he's old or young.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:10 PM
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No, INSIDE your mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:07 PM
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Well you are just not being honest with yourself. You want to believe you would pick the guy with a good personality and with average looks over a handsome douchebag but in real life, faced with the same decision, you will go with the handsome douchebag, saying to yourself "he not that much of a douchebag, I know hes got a good heart" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:04 PM
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Who cares how old he is. What matters is how he looks right now. He was a seven when young, you wont drop to a 2 or 3 from a 7 just because you hit 70, hes still in shape, got a good tan going on. Thats a 5.5 from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:48 AM
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Well for men a sex with a women who is hot but who also has a bad personality is much more pleasurable compared with an average looking woman with a great personality. Women keep telling themselves they are different from men in that case, but what I'm saying they aren't different at all,they are same as men but lie to themselves because they see themselves as the "higher" gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:41 AM
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Well you were talking about "learning" and trust me you will learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:30 AM
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Yep I agree. But a women will not leave a handsome looking tall guy for being too nice, but handsome looking tall guys who are actually nice are very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:28 AM
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No I promise you sweetheart in 10 years when you have lost your looks, you will see the world how it really is and you will learn a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:23 AM
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This thread is not about admiting you care about looks, it's about admitting you care MORE about looks than personality, just like men do. " But don't think we don't have empathy for less attractive men. " A reply from a woman in this thread disagrees with you on that. " I will go with personality then, but if the guy is truthfully ugly then I will skip him entirely and won’t even consider him. Therefore ugly men don’t even qualify. Mid to hot guys and it’s personality. "
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:18 AM
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"Yes but I also will skip the hot guy with a terrible personality." If a guy is at least an 8 looks wise he has to be a literal psychopath for you to skip him. If by "terrible personality" you mean just a douchebag and a jerk, you will never skip him, if he shows intrest in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:16 AM
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Most of the time they say yeah looks are important, but when you ask which is more important looks or personality, they say personality. I dont buy that one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:12 AM
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What do you mean I cant over-generalize one gender. I just did that, but I added there are exceptions of course. How can I even have this argument if I can't make a generalisation? There are 4 billion women in this world, of course everybody is different, but you can always take the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:08 AM
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Im talking about experience I had with your mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:41 AM
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Well when you say personality, I think you are lying not only to me but to yourself. You don't want to see yourself as a shallow person but you are. Just like we men are. Thats what this whole thread is about. Ego and self worth. You see yourself higher than us men, but you ain't. It's actually kinda ridiculous to say you care more about personality but in the next sentance you say " but if the guy is truthfully ugly then I will skip him entirely and won’t even consider him. " What about when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:36 AM
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Oh you have a problem admitting it alright. Which is more imprtant when considering only these two factors: personality or looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:31 AM
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Man who kicks puppies - thats a psychopath. What about a tall handsome looking douchebag who doesen't kick puppies? Women aren't going to dump him, maybe even if he cheats openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:22 AM
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No it's not hard to quantify you just don't want to quantify that and be honest and answer the question in a clear way: which has more "weight" to it personality or looks: some women would answer they are equal, some answer personality, some try to answer the question indirectly and spin their way out of a uncomfortable answer just like you did right now. For me and for most men its LOOKS. We don't have a problem admitting that. But for you and most women, you will never admit that truth cause y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:17 AM
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Ok but which do you care more about: personality or looks. If you say personality, that means pretty much you are lying not only to me but to yourself cause you dont want to see yourself as shallow. Be honest with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:06 AM
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Women care more about personality than men care about personality. Men care more about looks than women care about looks. Yeah thats what women keep on saying. What I am saying that this is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:04 AM
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Well you can say a Ford and a Ferrari are just "different" cars too but one is clearly much more sophisticated and desirable. It's clear that women not only think that their sexuality is not just diffrent but much more sophisticated than then these primitive cave-men who dont need any emotional connection to get hard and have sex(which is pretty much true). When a guy is hot, women dont need any emotional connection neither they just make it up on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:57 PM
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Why do I accuse you? Well thats what this whole thread is about. Women can't admit they are just as shallow as men because they see themselves as the "higher" gender who cares more about personality than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:29 PM
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All im saying the 7/10 looking guy would only win over the 9/10 if he was a literal psycho or a sex offender or something like that, maybe not even then with some women to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:23 PM
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I can guarantee the "asshole" you punched wasn't handsome looking. Dont even try to lie. If he was handsome you definitely would have been intrested. No I don't think being an asshole will get you better experience with women, being tall and handsome looking gives you a better experience, no doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:20 PM
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Im talking about douchebags and jerks not psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:16 PM
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Sure nobody likes assholes, but you will tolerate that because he is handsome and sex is much more pleasurable. You are just as primitive as we men are. Don't think for a second you are the better gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:13 PM
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Dude screw your social constructs. Women care just as much about looks then men, but won't admit that to THEMSELVES because they think they are better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:10 PM
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I think when you would meet a Chad who is a class A douchebag and a jerk, but was intrested in you, you would go for him not doubt, thinking to yourself that he's "really not that much of a jerk." Basically you will tolrate the biggest douchebaggery because you are are just as shallow as men, but once again you can never admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:07 PM
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No It's quite simple really, Chad doesn't want a relationship so he just hits it and quits it. It hard to find a Chad who wants a relationship and doesn't cheat. Most women will happily want a relationship with a Chad even if he's a douchbag but doesn't cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:02 PM
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Why don't you go suck on a lemon once in a while, friendo. I disagree about the optimal baseline. Ok lets have a another choice. 9/10 looks and 4/10 personality OR 7/10 looks and 8/10 personality. Looks have more "weight" when compared to personality. And mind you this is a hypothical and women never will have a choice in real life and if he really had a choice like that she would go for the better looking douchebag and say that: "he has a good heart I know it and I can change him."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:53 PM
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Yeah.....Well thats just like your opinion man. Lets agree to degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:43 PM
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Well if the economy tanks, people start losing their jobs. Thats not in their control. Andyou seem to forget that there are times when the women herself spends all the money and leaves the man in a dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:39 PM
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Is there even a need to have a study on that? The answer is obvious already.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:36 PM
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WOW that has got to be the dumbest reply yet. Your analogy is like asking what would your rather want 1 million dollars or 1 million and 1 hundred thousand dollars. Who would most women rather choose: 5/10 looks wise and 10/10 personality OR 10/10 looks and 5/10 personality. I think the answer is obvious. LOOKS MATTER MORE THAN PERSONALITY!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:32 PM
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Take that condescending attitude and shove it right where the sun don't shine buddy Good day to you SIR!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:24 PM
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How do you know that for a fact that she could be in a relationship with a Chad? She maybe could get Chad. But heres the thing she cant get Chad commit to a relationship because that what Chads to. They hit it and quit. So she has the choice between one night stands with Chad or relationship with Jelly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:17 PM
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Thats all great but do you honestly think Jelly Roll's wife wouldn't leave him in a hearbeat when a broke Chad genuinely was intrested in her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:05 PM
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Yeah even in this thread they all reply "looks matter" but the question is HOW MUCH it matters when compared to other factors(personality,status,money). Looks are absolute king by a factor of atleast 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:00 PM
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Stallone was at least a 7 when he was young, now hes a 5. Calling him a solid 2 shows that you totally lack objectivity. Yeah personality, status, money matters.But you know what matters more by atleast a factor of 2: looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:57 PM
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Of course he can't admit to the bombshell the only reason they are together is because she's hot. You can't get girls if you are being that honest. On the contrary if a hot women tells a handsome man the only reason we are together is because you are handsome, that would not faze that man and they could continue as a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:51 PM
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What I am trying to say is you ain't attracted to him because he's "confident", you are attracted to him because he is handsome and tall. You wouldn't be attracted to him if he was average looking and short but still "confident". Would you believe a man who says the reason she likes that hot looking bimbo with great ass because she has that "sensitive feminine" vibe going on. You wouldn't believe him, you would think he likes her because she's hot and wants to bang her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:45 PM
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Yes, just as some men also genuinely do not gaf about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:08 PM
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I agree, guy who abandons his sick wife is a piece of shit. But what about women who leave their men when they lose their job/money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:46 PM
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Mostly if you see a hot women with an average man, its about money, not the charm or being smart. Get real buddy!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:42 PM
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Well this post is me saying that it is mostly a women-specific flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:38 PM
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I would rate 70+ Sylvester Stallone more like a 5.5. You saying he's a solid 2 is just ridiculous. A solid 2 is real life quasimodo, so don't be silly saying Sylvester is a solid 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:35 PM
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" I'm smart, charming, good looking, " The reality is if you weren't good looking but only charming and smart you would only get average looking at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:31 PM
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Yeah but when you ask why does she like that handsome tall guy, I guarantee the answer won't be "cause he's handsome". Its going to be more like " I dunno he's got that confidence vibe going on"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:21 PM
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I don't specifically hate the gender, I just hate people who can't be honest with others and with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:19 PM
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Trust me bro, If you are super handsome this "pickiness" in women vanishes real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:15 PM
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"Men often ignores red flag after red flag if she is pretty enough. You wont see the same thing happening with men." I disagree women also ignore the most blatant red flags there are, if he is very handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:12 PM
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"People aren’t walls, you don’t keep one just because it’s pretty " I am sure you'd like to think that, but most relationships are nothing more than transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:01 PM
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What reality is that? That you have banged model-level hot women. The probability of that is very low already and that probability comes down to pretty much a zero when it comes from a redditor who is bragging about it. Liar on the internet. I can't believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:36 PM
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What I am saying is most majority of women want the chad, but Chad doesen't want average looking women. So you just get what the market offers(the average looking guy).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:31 PM
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OMG read the literal replies, some girl literally says "men are more looks based".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:18 PM
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I believe you have banged several women, but none of them were even close to a 9 or even an 8. What you call a 9 is more like a 7.5 for me. If a had a girl who as an actual 9, I wouldn't be writing on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:14 PM
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Hey buddy read the title one again. " Most women can’t admit that they care about looks JUST/NEARLY AS MUCH as men. "The point im trying to make is in caps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:12 PM
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You aren't getting it.Society and women think(read replies to this thread) that men are more look based than women. I think that is a lie. We are equally looks based.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:10 PM
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Hmm another redditor who has banged several " model-level hot " women. Yep seems legit bro. Im sure that happened. I also bang multiple model level hot women daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:00 PM
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No what makes me mad is women can never admit looks matter more then personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:49 PM
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Don't tell me what I am or aren't ready for. You act like you know more then me just because I am a man. Thats sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:48 PM
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Ok whatever Im not going to debate semantics as to the word shallow. You say " women’s attraction isn’t as looks-based as men’s ", I disagree, womens attractions is equally based in looks as compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:44 PM
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If you average it out I think they care slightly less IMO, but just slightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:41 PM
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HEY LADY you are getting off topic. Who is more shallow on average men or women? My opinion is its pretty much equal, BUT women dont want to admit that we are equally shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:36 PM
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No my point is we are equal. No gender is better than the other. I care about looks just as much as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:31 PM
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"but a good or bad personality can trump good looks " OMG who the hell are you kidding. Wake up and smell the roses. Yeah there are exceptions where that can be true, but it has to be true for both genders: There are women who think that good personality can trump bad looks, but there are also men who think good personality trumps bad looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:28 PM
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"Women dont work like that" I mean you are just proving my point that women see themselves as more superior and evolved then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:21 PM
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I dont know what your point was. The question is do you agree that most women on average care about looks just/nearly as much as men? Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:11 PM
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Yeah but you can also say when a men says he likes personality, he talks about girls who already PASSED the looks threshold. This thread is just about the fact women are just as shallow as men, but they will never admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:08 PM
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I agree but I have to add there are exceptions of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:50 PM
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" they just don’t care more than men do. " wasn't saying that they care more then men. Was saying women care about looks just/nearly as much as men and that you can never admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:45 PM
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So are you saying that all the virtue signalling done by women is done on the internet and in real life virtue signalling all of sudden stops. It doesen't stop. There is even more virtue signalling in real life than anonymously on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:42 PM
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Well if there is something you don't want admit anonymously on the internet then certainly you will not admit in real life in front of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:37 PM
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Hmm smells like cope to me. Probably you are average looking and not hot so you tell yourself you prefer these skinny short dudes with big forehead because that is the best you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:33 PM
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The point here is not that you care about looks. You care about looks just as much as men and that you can never admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:31 PM
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You said it yourself: Probably cause I'm not handsome. You do care about looks, you just can't get hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:28 PM
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No the point is to admit that you care about looks just as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:26 PM
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If we are comparing apples to apples meaning an average looking guy who sucks in bed and handsome and tall looking guy who sucks in bed then it still is going to be more pleasurable with the handsome guy. "female sexuality" yeah here we go again: women are more evolved and superior than these asshole caveman. B.S
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:25 PM
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Well first sorry for getting ugly and personal but I think it's not that you don't like casual sex, you are just saying that because you are not hot enough to get casual sex from hot guys. I still cant get over you saying " i also would never have sex with someone off looks alone" that pretty much sums it up. Yeah sure you wouldn't have one night stand with Henry Cavill if he wasnt famous, rich and was a douchbag. Once again you can't be honest with others and you can't be honest with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:18 PM
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That just doesen't add up sweetheart. Why would women lie on the internet where there is anonymity and be brutally honest in real life where they would have to face ramification for doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:12 PM
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First its not about admiting whether women admit they like hot guys. Its about the reason they say they like the hot guy: most women say because they are "confident". Rarely they admit that the only reason they like him is because they are good-looking. Secondly I don't think you are getting the point. I am not saying that women are saying that looks don't matter. Doesent matter what they say really. My point is for women looks matter just as much as it does for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:09 PM
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Yeah "vocal about looks" meaning first they say looks matter and then they say but personality matters just as much or even more. Im saying for women looks matter nearly/just as much as it matters for men. If only considering these two factors to put in numbers: For men on average it is 80% looks and 20% personality For women on average it is 70% looks and 30% personality These numbers are just my opinion and not backed by any study.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:00 PM
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"i also would never have sex with someone off looks alone" I call B.S on that. What if he looks like a literal model? There you go lying again because you see yourself as more evolved then men. Read my post again, you can never admit that because most of your ego relies on that lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:52 PM
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First of all even if there is a study that shows that, that study has to be self reported, meaning women would lie on the study when asked why did you leave your last husband. Second when a couple has kids, its much harder for woman to leave because of the kids. So I think that has to do more to the fact that its much harder for women to do that and not because she doesen't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:44 PM
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Yes I agree that confirms it, but most of them still wont admit it when you ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:44 PM
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