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| 15 | Once I officially decide I like a girl I kind of self destruct. Not sure how I do this. | Mrknivin | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 06:23 PM |
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| 1 | Once I officially decide I like a girl I kind of self destruct. Not sure how I do this.I believe in scarcity mentality specifically if you are looking for a women to be with for a long long time as long as you know what you want. If you are just dating and keeping things casual/having fun, then scarcity mentality is absolutely not the right play. I consider myself great at figuring out the type of woman they are and if that fits me. That said, your completely right with the second paragraph. I am very independent and my job/dog are my life. I am very ambitious and I follow a lot o… | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Once I officially decide I like a girl I kind of self destruct. Not sure how I do this.I understand you. My standards are ridiculous for a multitude of reasons that I won't get into, but the point is that I know what I want in a woman and who I can be with for a long time if not forever. I have learned this from dating many women and recognizing what my red flags are, flaws that I CAN handle, etc. I recognize that type of woman almost immediately because I am great at reading and assessing. I run across THOSE type of women once a month or two while I go out and talk/banter with mo… | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Once I officially decide I like a girl I kind of self destruct. Not sure how I do this.I appreciate you taking the time to write all of that and thank you. Seems like I need to work on continuing to be myself after the moment of deciding I want this woman. Just go with the flow and continue to live my life the way I want to. | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Once I officially decide I like a girl I kind of self destruct. Not sure how I do this.All of that is true. I like to think that I have always been genuine but I know there is a shift in my attitude once I like a girl. I just wish I could watch video of myself with a girl I am uninterested in then compare that with a girl I am interested in. Would love to see that difference because I would probably scream at myself. | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Online dating, is it successful for you? What have you done to succeed?I don't use these dating apps anymore because based on my personal experience, I'm much better in person. I have tried tinder and plenty of fish before, even the match.com app. We'll stick with tinder because it was the most used. I understand the abundance mentality but I know what I want and what I am attracted to, so before swiping right, I have to find them attractive, then I check the pics to see if there are any lower body or full body pics, generally a girl that only shows her face or cer… | /r/seduction | 02/03/16 04:05 PM |
| 15 | When a girl doesn't break eye contact?Haha. I had this happen once and I felt like it was never going to end after like 7 seconds so I stood up, walked over, leaned in without losing eye contact and whispered, "You're never going to win this war." She smiled and broke eye contact. This was awhile back and I was drunk and nothing came of it. Don't remember what happened from there. I just remember it was the only girl that lasted that long. This reminded me of that memory lol | /r/seduction | 23/02/16 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Random shit test buster I thought ofMy field tested response to that statement has always been. "Ok." Worked every time. Granted, I have only heard that kind of thing when we are already at one of our places. If this happened out and about, I don't know the answer. From my perspective, its a defense mechanism they use to make them feel like they are not a whore. You convince them that you are fine with doing nothing with them, and by that I mean DO NOT try to pursue doing anything with them. Do not verbally convince them you don't… | /r/seduction | 18/02/16 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Looking for advice on texting gameMy theory is that all of this is completely relative to how attracted the girl is to you. There is nothing to practice. Say what you want & do what you want. If she is attracted to you a girl will more than likely agree to meet the first time you ask. Put yourself in the other perspective. If a girl you arent THAT attracted to wants to hang out and you're feeling iffy about it you will make up an excuse. If you think the girl is hot you're going to make time to see her. It's the same for both se… | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 03:07 PM |
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