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LTR/MARRIAGEMrsK4eva1022/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 12:56 AM
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LTR/MARRIAGEMrsK4eva1022/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 03:36 PM
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I do say what he needs to do because I try to talk to him and I say things I don't like or whatever and if something is wrong I talk about it. I can't be the one doing all the talking and not having anyone respond or anyone to talk to. If that's the case I'd get more accomplished talking to a wall
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 08:26 PM
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I do get that but my family was not good to me. My mother was extremely controlling and manipulative and was forcing me to live a very Catholic oriented life and she didn't like the fact that I wanted to do something I wanted to do with my life. And there were threats from my sisters about my student loans they threatened to sue me and all that. So yes they were toxic and cutting them out is a good thing and I chose him because I love him and wanted to be with him and have a family with him. My …
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 03:08 PM
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Yes I did cut my family out to be with him because there was nothing good coming out of me being around my family. They were toxic and causing a lot of issues in my life and they weren't supportive of my decisions and what I wanted to do with my life and I made the decision that I wanted to be with him and I needed to decide if I wanted a relationship with my family or not so I chose him and haven't spoken with my family since
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 02:45 PM
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I know what I have to do and what I need to work on and I do that. I know I need to not be negative and show him love and affection and work on showing happiness and work on getting my finances in order. I know all of what I need to do and I take responsibility for a lot I'm just not saying it in here because this post was about how I feel about what he's doing not me
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 02:43 PM
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Then if that's the case he needs to say something so I can work on it because I have every time. Cheating is not the way to prove a point or to take your anger out on someone
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 02:18 PM
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I know he had had issues at work lately and we have talked about it and yes I have had money issues lately that have affected him seriously. I haven't accused him of cheating in a very long time. I do everything I can for him. He knew about my money issues before we got married and we agreed on things before we got married and if things changed he should have told me about it. He doesn't believe in divorce and doesn't want to get one he believes in working on things and having a successful marri…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 01:41 PM
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Yes he was...he didnt message anyone there or get any phone numbers...i saw the emails in his inbox one night when I went to shut off his computer...he knows it was stupid and he hurt me by doing it and that he broke my trust and he knows it will take awhile to get back....i had financial issues recently and our cell phone got shut off for a few days and he thought about leaving because he didnt know how we would have kids in the future if I had issues paying for things...ive been fine since the…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 02:13 AM
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He had never cheated on me, or so he says....he had in previous relationships and I had in one of my past relationships also but I learned from that and the karma came back to bite me in the ass three times over. I am the only woman he has ever loved and when we had our discussion a few weeks ago he was even tearing up when he was saying that he loves me and doesnt want to leave....so can you see why I am conflicted and why I have no idea what to do...I dont want to leave him because I dont have…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 02:08 AM
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He has told me many times he hasnt and that if he was going to he would have done it the first few months we were together because that was his MO with previous relationships....and by your logic then I was accusing him of cheating for awhile in the beginning but I never cheated on him and I never thought about it so how is your logic right?
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 01:18 AM
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Can you elaborate on what you mean by that?
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 01:01 AM
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We try to but some weeks it's harder and we usually have it 2times per week
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/18 08:34 PM
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I know what he eats he's very picky and prefers fast food I know what he likes and even when I cook for him he doesn't eat it because he isn't used to it I can make tacos for him everyday and he would eat that but who wants to eat the same thing everyday... That gets boring
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/18 08:32 PM
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Would you accept your husband behavior if he was on a dating site while married to you?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 09:11 PM
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I can see where you're coming from. And I know I can be negative sometimes but it's not as bad as in the beginning of the relationship. We used to always go out and go for walks or go to the park and now we don't do those things. Part of it being that it was winter and cold out but we still go to the gym together and we go out occasionally but since we both have more things pay for we try not to go out as much. I don't want to leave him because he is all I have, and I do love him and care a lot …
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 08:51 PM
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I agree. I'm not saying for you to tell me what he should be doing but as a rpw what do you think are common things that men and women should be doing when they are together? Respect and love are definitely two of them in my opinion but why should be the only one in the relationship doing those things. I am not negative like I used to be, I do everything for him and I show him and tell him I love him and I respect him and follow the rules he set for the relationship. If I am following the rules …
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 08:45 PM
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We were together for a year and a half. I have always had trust issues and I did in the beginning also have trust issues with him. But my trust issues don't just stem from nowhere they come from how he acts around me to who he talks to etc. We did live together before and living together beforehand doesn't always lead you to who they are cheating with especially if they are good at hiding things.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 07:37 PM
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I am fairly new here so I will work on replying the right way... It is helpful to me for you to say what he should be doing because if he set the rules of the relationship and expects me to follow them shouldn't he follow them as well instead of doing what he wants and threatening to leave me if I don't follow them? That makes no sense to me at all
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 07:24 PM
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He is beyond picky and prefers to eat food from take out. We have made his tomato sauce together but that's it. The only meal he actually eats that I make is tacos everything else he wouldn't eat. He never said I'm a bad cook and I know I'm not he just doesn't like a lot of foods that I do so it's hard to really make stuff for him because I don't want to eat tacos everyday
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 07:06 PM
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So he's allowed to ask me what I'm doing on my phone and look at my phone when I'm using it next to him but I'm not? Yeah where's your logic there. And if he is or he isn't is beside the point. If he's lying to me I have the right to know because if it was role reversed and it was me doing that and lying to him he would serve me divorce papers before I even had the chance to get out of bed, but just because hes a guy it's okay for him to do that and to break the rules he set for our marriage? Yo…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 07:02 PM
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Just my shirt and underwear. I don't seat pants around the apartment quite often
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 06:08 PM
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I do and I don't. There are times when I trust him completely and other times when I don't. Like now with the situation I mentioned above I want to trust him and know he isn't doing anything but at the same time I can't because he is acting suspicious around me and constantly texting numbers that he doesn't have saved in his phone which he claims is a coworker
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 05:38 PM
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I do show my love trust respect and admiration for him by always keeping the apartment clean and having his clothes laid out for him before he goes to work, and making sure he has clean laundry, and he always has a nice place to come home to. I don't nag him about anything or for any reason I don't ask him to do anything except show me he loves me and he doesn't do that.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 05:35 PM
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It is attributed to both of us. I never said no to sex with him ever. He even said yesterday that most days he thinks about it when he's at work and wants to but if he's too tired he doesn't want to because it won't be the good sex we are both used to. And if I'm tired he doesn't want to because he wants me to fully enjoy it and he knows that if we have sex I won't get off as much when I'm tired. And yes he is that way with blow jobs, he always has been even before he met me and even if it's goo…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 05:13 PM
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Our sex life has dwindled. In the beginning we used to have sex at least everyday but now im lucky if it's one or two days a week and I think that can be attributed to both of us working full time and being tired and hot wanting to have sex if it's not going to be good. Giving him a random blow job is pointless because he doesn't get off that way and it doesn't really do anything for him. I already walk around with no pants on when he's home, everything is always kept clean and organized and I w…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 04:09 PM
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An unrealistic expectation or requirement would be that they must be hot like zac efron and make a lot of money and drive a fancy car etc. Yes, there are guys out there that are as hot as zac efron and that make a lot of money and drive fancy cars but those shouldn't be the things that attract you to somebody. Of course physical attraction is important, that's what gets you in the door but actually being able to talk to them and relate to them and like them for who they are and what they stand f…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 02:55 AM
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I think nowadays a lot of men "fear" commitment. This comes from years of them getting the crap end of the stick when it comes to divorce and custody situations. In this regard, can you blame men for not wanting to commit if it might lead to them losing everything that they have worked hard for? I certainly don't. A lot of people close to my husband never thought he was going to get married because of the number of women that he had been with and the fact that he didnt really talk about wanting …
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 02:34 AM
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My husband and I lived together before we got married. We got engaged shortly after we started living together. In my experience living together with someone before your married is crucial to work out all the things that you might not like about the other person. That could be their physical habits all the way to their domestic habits. When I moved in with my husband, I did things very differently domestically than he did. All of my clothes were always organized and everything had a place, he wa…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 09:47 PM
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He is rejecting me because we have been through this before and he has gotten better and then it stops again. He knows how to show affection to me and show love to me because there have months on end where he has been great with it and it doesn't really have a lot to do with my mood because he would reject me even when things were going great. I know he was never like that with other people but it doesn't take two plus years for someone to figure out how to be affectionate and to work on it. Esp…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 03:18 AM
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I understand where you're coming from completely. And I have admitted to him recently that I haven't been as affectionate with him and that I will work on it. The issue I have is he makes it hard to be affectionate because he has times where he is not receptive to it at all. When we watch TV or a movie I'll lay my head on his chest and he will wrap an arm around me. And then every few minutes he asks me to get up and get him something or do something for him and by the time I return which isn't …
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 01:21 AM
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Some people only ever date one person and there's nothing wrong with that. Some people date a lot of people before they figure out what they want. Neither of those is wrong. You have found someone who makes you happy and who you want to be with. Everyone at some point will think the way you are about something in their past but if the guy you are with is genuine and you both have what each other looks for then only being with him will make you appreciate what he does for you and you won't have a…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 02:55 PM
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What are the best ways to not say everything that comes to my mind and how to remain positive when negativity comes easy and negative things keep happening?
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 11:54 AM
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I've been in love or what I thought was love several times. All those relationships ended and then I realized down the line when I met my husband what real love was. He was and is very attractive and much like a post below I was shocked he wanted me because I wasn't on the level of attractiveness that he was or of the other women that he dated before me. I fell in love with him pretty quick and that has always been a downfall for me because I never knew what to do with it. I didn't say it to him…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 04:44 AM
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