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| – | How different would historical gender dynamics and modern dating be if the size/strength difference between males and females were reversed, but everything else had remained the same?Holy thread Necro Imagine being this ignorant when information is free. All you have to do is type in "closest human DNA relative", it's that easy. Bonobos AND chimps are our closest relatives, with some sources saying bonobos share slightly more. And do you not know how evolution works? We didn't evolve from bonobos nor chimps. We diverged from a similar ancestor long before that. Yet we still share something like 97% with both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 04:00 PM |
| 2 | How different would historical gender dynamics and modern dating be if the size/strength difference between males and females were reversed, but everything else had remained the same?The easier access and use of sex as conflict resolution is enabled by female bonobos being in their position. If women were in the theoretical position OP suggests, they'd be afforded the same. I don't bring up subjugation as suffering Olympics points, it's very simple psychology. If one is living in oppression, they have less capacity to care for others. In an alternate timeline where women had never known the effects of sexism, they'd be more trusting of random men in society, and a theoretica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 11:53 PM |
| 4 | How different would historical gender dynamics and modern dating be if the size/strength difference between males and females were reversed, but everything else had remained the same?But what about how many kindergarteners you can take at once. That's always the true mark to go by | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 10:40 PM |
| 2 | How different would historical gender dynamics and modern dating be if the size/strength difference between males and females were reversed, but everything else had remained the same?How is mentioning a fact about bonobos misandrist, legit question? Does the phrase "female led" just trigger you? Is it misogynist that the article said "male-led societies" for chimps? Similarly, how does mention of past events mean misandry? Women were subjugated for a large portion of history. That's not some personal opinion, it's a fact of the past. And seeing how the topic of this thread is "how would history have changed", its relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 10:35 PM |
| 0 | How different would historical gender dynamics and modern dating be if the size/strength difference between males and females were reversed, but everything else had remained the same?So you just copypastad bonobo facts, restating exactly what I said, and threw in a "muh misandry". Wut. Absolutely nothing I said was misandric, in fact it was mostly what you just said, less long-winded. How exhausting to constantly want to be agro and start fights. People always wanna engage to be right, rather than discuss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:51 PM |
| 11 | How different would historical gender dynamics and modern dating be if the size/strength difference between males and females were reversed, but everything else had remained the same?Bonobos are our closest DNA relatives and have female led societies, we have a glimpse of what it could potentially look like: A whopping 99% of our human DNA is the same as that of our closest primate cousins – chimps and bonobos. But while chimps tend to be male-led, bonobos take their lead from females. Females make the travel plans, explains Takeshi Furuichi at Kyoto University, who studies bonobos in the Democratic Republic of Congo. Females eat first, because they organize dinner. Conflict… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women?Because I want to have a good life together with my husband. I want to take care of our home, cook meals together, take care of my elderly parents, visit family, go on trips and see the world together, raise a family. Don't have groceries to cook or a home to take care of if we can't pay for them. Society doesn't work on bartering and requires fiat for all of those things, and the current financial climate means dual income is more effective. That's why it's important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?I feel like environment probably plays a big role, for both genders honestly. Idk if you're in a more rural area of Texas or what, but personalities and interests can vary a ton by location. I'm in a tech hub and women here are into anime, sports, outdoor activities, gaming, fashion, etc. Which is a stark difference from like, my extended family in the south. I couldn't relate to a single thing with my cousin, her whole personality was gossip, magazines and fox news | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?I actually hard agree with this. I'm probably biased because that's my life story, but it makes sense. I struggled growing up cause I focused so much on my hobbies and interests that I didn't take care of my appearance. But all those interests and hobbies continued to grow with me while simultaneously growing out of ugly duck phase Definitely seen some Karen's come from the "peaked in school" also | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:18 AM |
| 10 | How much resistance to the Red Pill is just resistance to the politics and presentation of the Red Pill i.e. how would you feel if concepts like looksmaxxing, preselection, The Wall, etc. came from a neutral or left-wing perspective?What the pickme bullshit is that lmao, yes I believe it, I said what I said. Women generally fair better emotionally and socially and can be content alone. Also less testosterone and sex drive which allow women to be patient and choose for quality, because being single is better than being in a bad relationship as most women know. And before anecdotes are thrown around, key word is GENERALLY. Women can be happy single, most men aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 02:51 AM |
| 23 | How much resistance to the Red Pill is just resistance to the politics and presentation of the Red Pill i.e. how would you feel if concepts like looksmaxxing, preselection, The Wall, etc. came from a neutral or left-wing perspective?Presentation is everything. Even with an objective truth, if you present it in a douchey way, the odds of people listening are much lower. "Stopping at stop signs is safe" people will all generally agree with, vs "If you don't stop at stop signs you're a dumb fuckstick" will get a lot of resistance, despite still being true. I agree that dating is harder for guys and arguably more difficult today. Most of the RP tenets aren't anything new, they've just been repackaged and the problem is a lot of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is an L for menLiterally nothing I said was close to a threat of sex. Your lack of reading comprehension is not an argument nor my problem. Enjoy your lonely, empty existence full of superficial physical ties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Marriage is an L for menMarriage > Single > Bad Marriage. Yes it's better to be single than in a bad relationship, but you're kidding yourself with this copium of marriage in general being worse for men. Loneliness is an epidemic and the vast majority of men won't be living the forever-bachelor-life "have a younger woman whenever you want" life you're spouting. They will be growing old and going down to their usual pub, having the same beers with the same crowd, going to the same empty home at night with a suffering me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 06:47 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: What do you think when the less attractive friend prevents men from talking to you?It's happened to me a couple times, I didn't ask her to (also wasnt unattractive, so nothing to do with that). Once she did it because she thought I looked uncomfortable (I wasn't, but also wasn't feeling it anyway). Another time I think it was pretty obvious she was just bored and wanted to leave lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 12:46 AM |
| 7 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.As someone that had an ugly duckling glowup, I've always thought the narrative that "only ugly men are invisible to women" was whack. I witnessed it from both ends, definitely happens. Few years ago I ran into a guy who bullied me back in school, he was hitting on me and didn't even remember me lmao... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:27 PM |
| 13 | You should "choose better" aswellSeriously. If guys choices were no sex or "chafed, sore, bleeding dick the next day" sex, they would go for no sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 05:28 AM |
| 15 | You should "choose better" aswellBad sex for men is just "could be better" sex Bad sex for women is PAINFUL sex So obviously there's a vast difference in preference when it comes to "is bad sex worse than no sex" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 04:18 AM |
| 9 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.In an ideal world, you'd already have your partner by the time you're ready to start trying. Go to college, meet someone, gain some years in your careers, build networth, get married and have a family a few years later. Unfortunately, people change a lot throughout their 20s and the person you were with when you you're a young adult isn't necessarily the person that fits you as an adult. Getting caught in bad dating cycles is what can run people out of time. But if you have your shit together an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 05:46 PM |
| 20 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.No, you just wait until you're ready, and for most people that's now late 20s early 30s. You wildly blow out of proportion "late" pregnancy issues (and ironically act like older men don't contribute even though sperm is the predictor of development issues). Have you spoken to a gynecologist ever in your life? Because 30s doesn't automatically mean fertility issues. And no, majority of people aren't waiting until 40. 27-30 is still the most common range of first births, which allows time to devel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 03:34 PM |
| 44 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.It's weird you assume women DON'T take this seriously. Because they do, much more than yourself. Unfortunately society isn't structured towards making family raising easy despite being desperate for us to keep spewing out worker drones. And how easy do you think it is to just hold off a career and casually start in your 30s? That's a good way to be passed up for every worthwhile opportunity and have 0 retirement or life plan. I probably could have had a kid in my mid-late 20s, but our quality of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 03:09 PM |
| 17 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.You have mentioned development issues a few times and now say men don't have fertility issues. You do realize sperm quality is the bigger predictor for autism and mental disabilities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:52 PM |
| 2 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.You don't look to governments or private corporations for this. This is a collective societal issue, and there are countless mens advocacy groups that prove the awareness is out there. The fact this subreddit and other 'manosphere' sites exist, Mens Health Network, American Society for Mens Health, Movember, Male Awareness Foundation, ManKind Project, Distinguished Gentleman, local organizations all over. Also, as problematic as some of them may be (Tate for instance), social media influencers h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:38 PM |
| 0 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.I don't know how young you are, but that is all within the last decade or so. Being a woman growing up in the 90s and early 00s, every magazine staring you in the face walking down the store aisles was bone-thin, white women with headlines like "THE ONLY WAY TO BE SEXY", "ALL THE PRODUCTS YOU NEED TO BE LOVED", "BE THIN", You HAVE to look this way, that way, etc etc etc. It is only very recently in history that the pendulum has swung the other direction into "fuck what other people think, live h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:54 PM |
| – | Would you date a man that refused to raise kids that weren't his own?No I would not. My dad isn't my biological father, but he raised us as his own. He's the best man I have ever and will ever know in my life. Thankfully my husband shares the sentiment, adores and sees my dad as a role model. Adoption or fostering is even something we've both thought about and he's onboard with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Male Delusion Calculator!Too much FF?? Not even possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:57 AM |
| 8 | Male Delusion Calculator!I just put myself in it, apparently in the .035 percentile. Neat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Do most single women have a "Steve"?Weird terminology, but I've had looooots over the years. Most I was friends with and simply didn't have any deeper feelings for. Also, I've been in LTRs for most of my adult life so never had much single opportunity. One guy I was close friends with for years. We shared a lot of interests, gamed together, same sense of humor. He was a decently attractive guy, but could look a lot better if he put in effort. But when I eventually broke up and was single, he made me really uncomfortable with his a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 07:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things costSeriously, $15 at the door for an entire event? 15 where I live is a single cocktail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Scenario. Imagine you’re with your EX boyfriend, and your CURRENT boyfriend comes into your life at work or a social event etc. Now what do you do?So this actually happened to me. I was still in another relationship the very first time I met my now husband. We worked in the same building, we started chatting after work one day walking down to the garage. Found out we both worked in the same industry, shared some similar interests, he seemed funny. Super extroverted fit dudebro type. Very obviously flirting with me, but I thought nothing of it at the time as I was happy in my relationship (which had that emotional connection). We didn't mee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Do you plan on having children?I grew up being defiantly against having kids for all those stated reasons, and also just not wanting to have to go through pregnancy. That part still kind of turns me off to it, but it's just a fact of the matter. As for the other worldly issues, as another commenter said there's never a "right" time; throughout history there's always going to be something terrible going on that people just have to live through. We're trying now, I think we're both in the mindset of "happy if it happens, still … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Do you plan on having children?What has your experience been with fostering? It's something we've considered, but also one of those very polarizing topics where you hear either stories of love or tragedy. I worry about getting tangled in another family's drama when all I want to do is help the kid. I've heard/read all kinds of things like the parents coming around harassing foster families, stalking, the children themselves having scary issues, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't marriages becoming more stable?I occasionally remind them that there are also implications that they wouldn't like if this standard is applied consistently. Such as raising the age of consent, or marriage, or getting a driver's license, or voting, or getting tattoos and piercings, etc. There's a massive difference between hard barriers like banning, and a soft barrier with requirements. You don't ban a young adult from driving, you just require them to take lessons first. With marriage and consent, the soft barrier is usually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 04:02 AM |
| 6 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?Large portion of dudes in these spheres are young adults and teenagers. At that age, anyone over 30 feels like they belong in a care facility. Then you grow up and hit 30 yourself and perspective changes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Question about the nuclear familyIt's hyperbole, but is it really a stretch? Trickle down economics, ever worsening education, among many other issues. People today were born into this mess, which didn't exist before boomers, because the silent generation actually worked to set them up for success. It's also hard to make change because boomers continue to influence most of the political landscape, and not in favor of those that will inherit the future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Question about the nuclear familyTrue, I generally agree. Also points out a glaring issue with people willfully choosing not to get married these days. In the eyes of the law, you cannot make choices for one another. Even during the early pandemic, you had people suffering alone in the hospital, because their partner was not legally recognized and allowed to visit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 11:02 AM |
| 5 | Question about the nuclear familyAnd that's definitely an issue, too. Multigenerational housing is probably the ideal solution, either with inlaw units or multiple homes per property. But those are both less common and more expensive. I don't think I could live with my mother 24/7 either, but in a living situation like that would be totally doable. My parents are 3 minutes away though, so still works out. I just wish we'd do away with this "kids gotta go at 18, and send gramps and granny off to a care home". It's so against eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 10:58 AM |
| 10 | Question about the nuclear familyThat feels set up for failure, because it is heavily rooted in submissive/oppressive dynamics. I'm a grown adult with responsibilities and equal ownership of this house. I'm not giving up my say in how it's run, we come to a decision together or compromise. My father raised me specifically to be self sufficient and not be walked over by men. Coming from that generation, there's a reason father's did this for their daughters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 10:47 AM |
| 7 | Question about the nuclear familyNuclear family era really wasnt as nurturing as you might be imagining. Look how fucked up the boomer generation turned out, one of the most sociopathic in history. My parents are boomers, I heard stories of my dad's old man regularly beating him and his siblings, being a drunkard; and that was the norm, along with depressed housewives on pills. Multigenerational is the ideal way to raise a family, and it's what has happened through most of human history. My parents live minutes away, so thankfu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 10:24 AM |
| 15 | Question about the nuclear familyIts a capitalist construct that worsened the family dynamic. Previously, households were often multi generational. Kids were growing up not only with their parents, but also grandparents. This enabled both parents to provide resources, gave more purpose to grandparents without having to ship them off to a care home, and children always had family around to care for them. "It takes a village" to raise a family, and it used to be that way. But what do you think gains companies more profits, a sing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 10:00 AM |
| 3 | Why is attraction important when selecting a life partner you will spend 50+ years with?por que no los dos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 07:12 PM |
| 3 | The blue pill gives advice on how to get women, the red pill gives advice on how to get attractive womenDifferent strategies for different stages. People conflate Lust and Love, 2 stages of attraction with different dynamics. Yes, you need to be attractive to date. But being nice and having a good personality matters also, for a relationship However you might not get a relationship where personality matters more, without being initially attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 06:57 PM |
| 6 | I am glad that I discovered red pill and I regret that I didn't discover it earlier in my early 20s.Not even that, 80% of weight management is just what you eat. You don't need to swallow the redpill, you just need to stop swallowing garbage. Put down dem doritos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Is It Ever OK To Romantically Approach A Woman On An Online VideogameMy very first serious relationship was with a guy I met on a MMO. We were both in high school, lived in different states, we met up a couple times. He moved nearby for college and we started dating irl, lasted about a year. My 2nd relationship I met through LoL. That lasted about 6 years, but inevitably didn't work out. In both cases I was very young and still developing as a person; at the time I just thought it was so cool to have a relationship that started from online gaming. But priorities … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 11:04 PM |
| 9 | Valentines Day WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWe got a "Valentines special" reservation at a michelin restaurant. Probably going to be completely overpriced for the hallmark holiday, but we like the experiences together. Then probably end the night gaming and other fun ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Women Aren't Lying, They are just being PoliteIt's called a white lie, people do it in every aspect of life. Would you rather tell your boss "you look fat in that suit" or "I don't think that suit matches your outfit" Honest? No, but avoids negative outcomes which is what most people desire in day to day life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manI love masculine traits; confident, assertive, "dominant" men are attractive, no doubt. But people misunderstand the dynamic in which women enjoy it: I like my man to have those traits and display it in his life in a general sense, not specifically towards me. I want him to be the aggressive warrior out in the world, but returns home where I am his queen whom he loves and is kind and husbandly to. I want a man who dominates his life, not his wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?1/5, my now husband. Handsome, extroverted, muscled and works out, mans-man, makes good money, 6ft, successful past with women. 3 of my past LTRs were "betas" by pill standards; unfit, introverted, nerdy, unambitious, short-ish (they of course had their own qualities I was attracted to, dated each one for more than a year). I went the opposite direction to pill-lore, dated betabux, settled alphafucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive.Personality is a slow burn; it can eventually get to an attraction boiling point but takes longer. Looks is obviously a flashfire that can build attraction instantly. But it's absolutely possible to build attraction solely on personality, majority of people just won't be in a situation to make that happen I worked with a guy years ago that would likely be considered low in the looks department to most. If he approached me on the street, knowing nothing about him, it would be a hard pass. But ove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Gifting a massage and saying the therapist has to be a certain genderThis was “I’ll pay for massages but it has to be with a female therapist.” Obviously there's other context and events which made this particular person controlling, but this alone wouldn't be alarming to me. There's plenty of conditional gifting in society and within relationships. College money for your kid, wills, giving your friend money to fix their car. It's acceptable to give someone a gift under the condition they use it a certain way. I think controlling would be like if you were getting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 11:14 PM |
| 12 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]It absolutely works out sometimes, great when it does. These 2 look like they could be truly happy. But so many times it's built on a superficial foundation. I'm filipina-american, I've seen both sides of the dynamic in my own family. Had like 5 aunts with white husbands (probably more but those are the ones I remember). I know for a fact 3 of them just wanted a green card; love grew over time, but it wasn't the basis. My own mom married white (though she already lived here and had become a citi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Traditional 1950s was economic slavery for women.Marriages worked? no , the average age a woman married was 20 in the 1950s, no unilateral divorce until Reagen, no birth control and financially dependent on the man.Women were economic slavesAs I said elsewhere, quality of said education is a different subject entirely. Point still stands, as far as the law is concerned you can vote at 18 because you have completed X years of whatever arbitrary education. But there is no mandated years of education on how healthy relationships work, hence why adults have opinions like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Traditional 1950s was economic slavery for women.Marriages worked? no , the average age a woman married was 20 in the 1950s, no unilateral divorce until Reagen, no birth control and financially dependent on the man.Women were economic slaves People can learn about it from their parents and other older people they know. They do, which is precisely why older people recommend young adults avoid serious relationships at that age. Whether or not they "really know" how society works, those are things they learn in school, which is why they are legally able to vote, take out loans, etc. Quality of said education is an entirely different subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Traditional 1950s was economic slavery for women.Marriages worked? no , the average age a woman married was 20 in the 1950s, no unilateral divorce until Reagen, no birth control and financially dependent on the man.Women were economic slavesYou learn about voting and careers and "other adult stuff" in school. That's why you can vote at 18, after school You don't learn about adult relationships in school. That comes with time and experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenThose are your anecdotal experiences and they are different from the majority. Most adults consider teens to be children, usually from their own life experiences and especially once they have children of their own. If you ever have a son of your own, guaranteed he will do some shit that will give you a healthy reminder of how immature teens are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 10:23 PM |
| 7 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenBut they still see the younger women as children, right? By the time most people hit 30, teenagers look like children, so yes. People in their young 20s, which is a big chunk of reddit, don't quite grasp this yet. That part comes with experience, but most well adjusted humans eventually hit that moment of self-reflection and realize teenagers are cringey and immature. And making choices =/= making good choices. I made plenty of choices as a teen. Doesn't mean they were smart choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 10:08 PM |
| 6 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenYea, I was equally confused on the list of other things people historically advise against. Like, you use debt to make a point? One of the current biggest talking points about how young, uninformed people are being taken advantage of? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 09:38 PM |
| 19 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenNo, they look at THEMSELVES in the past and see children. Its experience. Idk how old you are but I find it hard to believe you can look back at your teens or young 20s and think "yup I was a smart adult that made good decisions" Looking back at myself at 18, I cringe and see a child. At the time I felt mature though. This is a very widespread mentality, even among men, and if you don't share it you are probably still young. Teens are dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 09:33 PM |
| 7 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenIf he's looking for an 18 year old, that 30yo man is CLEARLY traumatized 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 09:04 PM |
| 4 | What is the purpose of marriage to you?It has benefits when it comes to hospital visits Just look to the early pandemic to see a tragic example of this; people dying alone in hospitals, because only spouses were legally allowed to visit early on. My nurse cousin had sad stories of patients begging to see their partners, but they were unmarried and not allowed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 06:42 PM |
| -1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Russia /s (maybe?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 09:31 PM |
| 8 | What does a modern woman bring to a relationship?The only problem here is your view. Women provide the same things they have always provided, nothing has changed except people that have weird expectations like you. The 1950s "housewife" was a brief blip in human history that needs to be purged from mindsets. Women through history have always provided as much as men. What do you think happened when men inevitably failed the hunt? They didn't return to their caves and starve, because the woman was out gathering resources. What you get is a partn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 11:39 PM |
| 12 | What are some behaviours that make you distrustful of your sex?This. Basically any behavior that would land them in r/notliketheothergirls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 09:10 PM |
| 8 | Q4W Is there anything you like about men?Lmao when it's pointed out you can't pick traits because it's too broad a group and not all are the same, you get butthurt. When other posters comment with traits, you reply "but not all are like that" Talk about double standards. Drop the shit testing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Nevermind red flags, what's your biggest yellow flag?That's fine, I have a collection going back to Magnavox Odyssey 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Nevermind red flags, what's your biggest yellow flag?Not being into video games was one for me when I was dating. Maybe we'd have enough other common interests that it would be fine, but being my biggest pastime we probably wouldn't mesh well. Being religious would be yellow also. Most of my family is heavily religious, not extreme, but going to church every Sunday, weird artifacts around the house, etc. Just not for me. It would depend on how into it he was I suppose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?What sounds no different? Like what kind of weak clapback is this, I was agreeing with the guy ffs rofl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 04:54 AM |
| 3 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?Same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 06:41 PM |
| 6 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?I don't know how you gleaned that from my response, but go take a chill pill and have a nice day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 06:37 PM |
| 18 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?The universe is full of statistic "cans". But that's not the norm and if you have lived a life where you have been led to believe that, I am sorry you've been surrounded by shitty people. Most women are not like that and most people are in healthy relationships out of the billions that exist outside your life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 05:09 PM |
| 4 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?I mentioned that. How about "less" misogynistic than what's usually found here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:55 PM |
| 46 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?This is one of the better answers I've seen. Truthful without the misogynistic butthurt. People can't be coddled, and we do too much of it (though it's understandable when it's your own kid) Though I wouldn't say nobody\women don't give a fuck about your feelings. 'Strangers with no vested interest in you' don't give a fuck about you. Women in their own life care, they just tend to give bad dating advice lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:33 PM |
| 6 | Her education and income matter, and will matter even more in the future.90% of the job is just being able to show up If they have a GED they couldn't even show up for high school lmao. Person like that is really gonna be responsible partner material | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 03:49 PM |
| 5 | Her education and income matter, and will matter even more in the future.One of the biggest complaints in the sphere is loneliness, too. So you have guys who simultaneously want a woman in their life to solve their loneliness, but... Also want them to be uneducated? What enthralling interactions they would have lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 03:40 PM |
| 5 | Relatively speaking, loneliness is not worse for men because they do not need to be as social as womenEh, I don't think men are naturally lonelier. And loneliness isn't a gender split issue, the pain induced by loneliness feels the same to everyone. Men just happen to experience it more often, but that doesn't make it natural. Humans are social animals, loneliness is unnatural if anything. Humans need interaction, it's sad so many are feeling isolated these days. We need to do better by our fellow humans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | If you were to live with a boyfriend or husband who earns significantly more than you, how would you feel about splitting living expenses 50/50?My husband makes slightly more than me currently, we split at roughly 40/60. We have a joint account that we both dump a percentage of our checks into each month, the rest goes to our personal accounts for ourselves. All bills are drawn from the joint account, but we also tend to pay for certain things more than the other out of our personal accounts; he pays for more dates/outings, I pay for most recurring home expenses If he wanted to have a sit down and make it an exact 50/50 split into our j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:03 PM |
| 3 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?I don't want to do housework after work either. I spent years training for my specialty, do complex computer work, and make 6 figures. Why should I have to come home and do all the cleaning? I shouldnt, which is why we both take a bit of time each night for home care, then both spend the same amount of time with each other. I would feel fucking embarrassed sitting on my ass watching TV while he works more than me, it's weird men don't feel the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 05:06 PM |
| 5 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?A relationship isn't supposed to be tit for tat, no "I worked harder than you in my life so you need to do more for me now". If you are both currently working to provide for the home, you should both be taking care of your home. You have no business sharing a life with someone if you believe they owe you for everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 08:25 AM |
| 13 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?Why are you with someone who would be lazy and disingenuous? People keep painting these situations with awful people, sorry it's foreign to me. Sort your shit out with your partner if that's the life you're living. My husband and I both work full time, we both try to equally maintain our home. Shit ain't rocket science | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 03:00 AM |
| 11 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?Why are you assuming your partner didn't also spend the last few years of their life working? Why are you getting into a relationship with someone like that if you loathe it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 02:51 AM |
| 7 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?Nice cop out reply though. Sorry the idea of little blue arrows hurts you so much, didn't do it though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 01:20 AM |
| 6 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?I use a chrome addon to hide vote functions on reddit. I can't even downvote | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 01:18 AM |
| 14 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?Your problem is viewing it as "punishment" in the first place. Should your partner be punished for your choice in job? I work from home and similarly can often finish tasks far under estimation. My husband also works from home but isn't task based, he is expected to be available at all times. Sometimes I'll do some cleaning or chores sprinkled throughout the day, my husband is incredibly appreciative that I choose to do extra work. But EXPECTATION is the key to this entire issue. He doesn't expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 01:08 AM |
| 32 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?Because 8 hours is 8 hours. Don't you want to both have the same amount of free time to, I don't know, enjoy each others company? People are so weirdly cold and calculating about relationships here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 12:34 AM |
| 33 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?Time is the number to base this off of, not salary. Do you both work 8 hours a day? Then both should take care of the home equally. If one works part-time or stays home, they can put in more work at home. In that same scenario, if his wife got a promotion the next day and suddenly earned more than him, would he be expected to suddenly increase his workload at home? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys on Reddit love to claim that only an incredibly low amount of women can cum from penetration because they don't want to blame themselves.Lmao none of this really matters, women know their bodies better than any study and you're not one. Women the world over disagree with what you're saying, so that's that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys on Reddit love to claim that only an incredibly low amount of women can cum from penetration because they don't want to blame themselves.Because you're completely ignoring everything else I just said. Female orgasm always involves clitoral stimulation, full stop. Humans are also notoriously bad at self reporting and estimations such as this. Women taking this survey very well may: consider PIV with grinding as "PIV only" (even though grinding is clitoral stimulation), doggystyle and positions that hit the clitoral nerves as "PIV only", foreplay involving the clitoris but then finishing with PIV as "PIV only". Also, over 50% of wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys on Reddit love to claim that only an incredibly low amount of women can cum from penetration because they don't want to blame themselves.You do realize that orgasming from PIV is still clitoral stimulation, so your entire point is moot? 90% of nerve endings are in the clitoris, with the rest being found adjacent throughout the labia and the location and amount can vary between women. So even for the small amount of women who can orgasm from PIV alone, it is still indirect clitoral stimulation. A proper study would present it in boolean, do you orgasm from PIV alone, True or False. You wouldn't add that 18% and 36% together, becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 09:27 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Guys on Reddit love to claim that only an incredibly low amount of women can cum from penetration because they don't want to blame themselves.KnowsPenisesWell clearly knows more about vaginas than people that have them. Didn't you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 07:00 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Guys on Reddit love to claim that only an incredibly low amount of women can cum from penetration because they don't want to blame themselves.You can throw studies around all you want. In fact, if you search in an unbiased fashion, you can see even more studies that say women don't cum from PIV alone. Obviously if you throw what you want to see into Google, that's what you're going to find. Dudes literally mansplaining womens orgasms to... women. lmao. Majority of us do not orgasm from PIV alone, period. Stick to your username, that's clearly all your have an understanding on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 06:56 PM |
| 10 | CMV: A lot of men struggling are in their situations because they live in male dominated, rural or suburban areas.You can clearly see this on a large scale here in Silicon Valley with all the sausagefest male-dominated industries. Dating is a known issue just because a lot of the cities have a pretty big gap in the man-to-woman ratio. It's so bad we have names for the cities like 'Man Jose', 'Milpenis', 'Man Mateo', 'Man Francisco' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 07:00 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill has gone mainstreamAnd the Lions are making it to the Super Bowl this year! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 01:09 AM |
| 23 | "Responsive drive" is just a politically correct way of saying "women do not have sex drives"That's a really longwinded way to say you don't know where the clit is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Could this prescient Sydney Morning Herald article about dating be published today? Did this article make the right prediction?I mean, sure. I'd agree its best for men to get advice from other men. The problem is which men TRP gets advice from. You can't scrape much off the bottom of the barrel. The world is full of good and successful men. The real world, not online spewing garbage and trying to sell you something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Could this prescient Sydney Morning Herald article about dating be published today? Did this article make the right prediction?Dude, he has SO many hot young women after him. That's why he's on PPD, duh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | men who think "if a woman can get an abortion, I should be able to not pay child support or to not be a father for them"Those laws came to be because babies were being abandoned and killed. The fact that it needs to exist at all is sad, but some people are messed up. But the primary purpose is to save the child's life, and only 120 were surrendered in 2020 so it's not the "women get out of parenting" gotcha you think it is And all this is moot anyways because something like 60% of fathers dont pay child support anyways, law or not it's incredibly easy to just walk away with no repercussions. Mine did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.I think this is a fair point and, honestly, probably accurate to most things in life. I like to believe that the majority of people aren't inherently bad, they just... don't even think. The driver who cuts you off in traffic isn't thinking "I'm going to completely fuck that persons day and almost hit them". Other people don't even cross their mind, they're just doing what's best for them Only when confronted do they actually stop to think about it, and unfortunately like in this case, a lot of p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | men who think "if a woman can get an abortion, I should be able to not pay child support or to not be a father for them"That old anti abortion phrase doesn't really track. Nature gave women the sole ability of bearing life, if she doesn't want a baby she didnt have to keep her legs shut, she can just not continue carrying. But if a man doesn't want a baby after conception, his part had already ended, there's nothing for his body to do. In a literal sense the only thing he could have done was proactively, not fucked that woman And then of course a 3rd person is born with their own set of rights and here we are. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | men who think "if a woman can get an abortion, I should be able to not pay child support or to not be a father for them"No, but the point of those laws is a last resort to save the life of the child that now exists. Once again, it is about the childs rights, not the parent And "now exists" is core to the issue of financial abortion. Women's abortion happens before there is a 3rd human with rights. But once a child is born they are person with their own set of rights; that child deserves to be supported by their biological father. I'm a living example of what happens with financial abortion, and it sucks for the c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 03:02 PM |
| 0 | men who think "if a woman can get an abortion, I should be able to not pay child support or to not be a father for them"I get the concept of it, but it's an aspect of life that will never be fair, because reproduction by nature is unfair. A woman takes on the full risk and gets the say on if their body will continue to carry. A child born has a right to be supported by the man who led to their creation. At neither of those steps is it okay to take the rights away from the woman or child. The safest bet for men is vetting better, protection, vasectomy, abstinence, etc. Those 3 minutes of pleasure is biologically t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | men who think "if a woman can get an abortion, I should be able to not pay child support or to not be a father for them"People mistake child support as a Men vs Women issue. The point of child support has nothing to do with either parent... There's kind of this 3rd human that becomes involved in the mix. It is entirely based on the CHILDS RIGHTS. The issue of who has more rights in the pregnancy stage is entirely separate, but once the child is born, they have a right to be supported by both humans that brought them into existance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 12:51 AM |
| 2 | What's some shit you see on dating profiles that just makes you throw up your arms like "DUDE WHY?!"Oh yea, the hunting photos were pretty common and very meh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 09:40 PM |
| 10 | What's some shit you see on dating profiles that just makes you throw up your arms like "DUDE WHY?!"When I used it there were only a couple hard passes for me, and both were related to the written section. No bio, or short bio with no meaningful info ("Ask me"). If you're so uninteresting you can't come up with even a single paragraph about yourself, no thanks. And then randomly offensive bios, like trying to look badass or something? Shit like "Most of you on here are dumb and vapid". If you hate them so much, why are you trying to date them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Do you consider age gap relationships less creepy if the perceived age gap is less?Because we make laws with arbitrary numbers. There's a reason college loans are a huge topic right now, it's predatory on a group of undeveloped people who have no grasp on the concept of debt. Laws aren't always based on logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 07:33 PM |
| 8 | Do you consider age gap relationships less creepy if the perceived age gap is less?Age gaps are only creepy if the younger of the two isnt fully developed yet. So yes, a 40yo with a 19yo is creepy because it's taking advantage of an immature brain. My husband is 10 years older but we met when I was 26 and already established in life, I'm not dependent on him and no weird power dynamic. This scenario only changes first impression, had the parents not known already they likely wouldn't care. But they'd definitely still find it creepy sitting at dinner with this dude, doesn't mat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?If their only reasoning was hating men, yes I'd say the same thing. You don't solo raise children on the foundation of hating other humans. It's not fair to the child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?and there's nothing you can do about it. Are you like 12? Sound very immature and selfish. Selfishness does not beget a healthy childhood, and the fact you see nothing wrong with that is sad. This isn't a goldfish, you're talking about bringing another human into this world, an entirely separate being with their own desires. And basing their creation upon your selfish, hatred fueled design would be beyond fucked. Hopefully you do raise a kid and waste all that money until they turn 18, where the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 09:33 PM |
| 6 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?No one is entitled to reproduce or have a family. If you have this shitty of an outlook on love and family life, don't have children. Don't raise more humans to be as miserable as you. Can't imagine if some woman hating shit like you had a daughter. Poor thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Why do men shame women for wanting a man with money, but shamless profess how they want a beautiful woman?The "just be yourself/nice" stereotypical advice comes from a good place, but it's of course very surface level and not the entire package. I'm not sure if it's laziness or being uncomfortable, but most parents likely don't delve very deep into the grooming lessons aside from "take a shower and use deodorant". I'm sure it's also awkward and a nightmare trying to teach more than that to a teenager. Most guys are genuinely alright lookswise, they just put 0 effort into grooming whereas girls learn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 05:54 PM |
| 2 | what do women provide in a relationship?In the literal sense of "exclusively", the only thing each gender provides to a relationship is their biological function. Everything else is a social construct, and your examples of "men work, women take care of the home" are both old and defunct. Most households today have both partners working and providing. I'm my own, we both work and pay for bills. He tends to spend more on dates and vacations, I buy more of the home goods and monthly needs. I do most of the cleaning, he does the heavy lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Most women find very few men attractiveDefinitely not "always", because there's a difference in lust and love. Sure, at a club a hot guy may get the most attention, lust is superficial. But for love and relationships women find more attraction outside of appearance. A guy may not immediately trigger lust on first appearance, but if they become familiar attraction can develop over time. Its why women are more into erotic stories and men are more into visual porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Not wanting to date a guy that still lives with his mother isn't a hot takeIt's completely normal in many cultures to stay until marriage and have multi-generational homes. I honestly find it weird that America is so against the family unit and kicking kids out at 18. And it's rougher for men, they get a lot more stigma than women staying home tbh. I lived at home until 26F and it didn't affect my dating life whatsoever, while I witnessed guy friends struggle who also lived at home But there's really nothing wrong with it financially, as long as the plan is to actually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 05:58 AM |
| 5 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.That incel that was recently arrested, Johnny Deven Young, wasnt ugly. Many would consider him conventionally attractive. Buuuut he has a fucking HORRID personality and behavior. Looks don't make up for that, no one was lining up to fuck that dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Are men capable of raising kids by themselves?Along with what everyone else has said, what about how the child will feel. This is another human with their own wants and desires. Can you imagine how they would feel growing up as the "kid in class without a mom", missing out on that bond. And when they grow up and find out the truth? They missed out on having a mother because you "didn't feel like it". You could very well burn that bridge and not have a child anymore the moment they turn 18 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 05:40 AM |
| 7 | Women feel entitled to men liking themLiking and disliking is an opinion, but forming that judgement based on gender is a preconceived opinion, a prejudice. Women are entitled to not be judged because they are women. Just as a person of any race is entitled to not be judged for their race. If you don't like a person because they eat with their mouth open, fine. If you don't like that person because they're black, not fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Gynocentric?I'm not disagreeing, just stating why some people think it's unfair. With all the comforts of modern life I think people have forgotten that only 50 years ago women couldn't even open their own bank accounts. The last century was just playing catch up, women were so far behind that we NEEDED an extra boost. And still do in some aspects. But that's not going to go over well for a teen or 20 something guy who didn't witness or experience any of it. When everyone else is rising up around you it can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Gynocentric?We are an equitable society in some regards, the problem is equity can be mistaken for inequality. A short person might need a ladder to reach the same height as a taller person. They're now at an equal height. But some may look at it as "that's unfair, why doesn't the tall person get a ladder also" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 07:21 PM |
| 5 | Difference in perception and treatment of men and women who give up on love? Why is it a thing?The "concern" from your family/friends isn't out of fear, it's the type of concern of them not wanting you to die alone. Women get that same type of concern from their own family circle, usually even worse because it also comes with "when are you having a baby". At a societal level I don't think one has it necessarily worse than the other. We've been conditioned to think it's weird to live alone forever, regardless of gender. See: crazy cat and wine lady | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 05:52 PM |
| 11 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themThis is it. Plenty of women now go about their lives with a "nice if it happens, fine if it doesn't" outlook on relationships, it's certainly what I've seen in my own circles. Which I suppose can be seen as a double edged sword. Women now are marrying for love instead of necessity, which is a stronger bond, and the divorce rate has already hit a 50 year low. On the other hand, being that it's not a necessity, there's less marriage overall and probably more men feeling left out. Marriage today is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingSunglasses | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | If a maidenless man is a bad relationship choice because "there must be something wrong with him", then so is a woman who's had a string of failed relationships.Tarnished make bad boyfriends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.So high quality wants... high quality? Sounds rational | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.Average people have this luxury more than any other time in human history. More people than ever are getting higher education and careers. It might come with debt depending on where you life, but the option is still there and people have access. It's not perfection but progress, we just need to continue improving peoples quality of life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 11:29 PM |
| 10 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.Women should get education, careers and the ability to support themselves, in the same way a Healer should allocate some points to HP and not just dump everything into MP. Maybe a Tank says "I'm not attracted to/don't need a healer that can survive, that's my role" but both members of the party being able to take a hit and keep each other afloat is mutually beneficial. What happens when the Tank dies, or just leaves the party? You don't want to be stuck as the Healer that only focused on support… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | What would equity in dating look like?Hence why in this fantasy equitable world everyone would be free to change their appearance, including that kid. "Birth ugliness" wouldn't be a huge factor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:36 PM |
| 2 | What would equity in dating look like?Dating currently is mostly equal, everyone generally has the same opportunities. But if we're talking equitable where some need more help than others to reach an even ground, I suppose this fantasy world would encompass: The ability to choose appearances and traits. Plastic surgery destigmatized, body modification, gene selection, whatever. Appearance is probably the biggest factor in dating inequity, and being able to control that variable would in theory bring fairness. Choose how you look, Cy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The picture of what average means here is heavily distortedNot to mention geographic difference. LA average is going to be very different from say, Alabama average. Most people are perceiving dating issues with very different perspectives and individual biases | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:39 AM |
| 21 | What's in store for aging women?Combine efforts, play Stray and grow weed indoors together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:27 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Missionary position is the best for married sex.This guy doesn't fuck Also this reads like a wallstreetbets DD for sex. Which means it's terrible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:09 AM |
| 1 | I’m tired of this idea that men don’t know how to communicate, both men and women don’t.This isn't a gendered trait, it's a human one. Any one "introvert" or emotionally/socially stunted person can break out of their shell and engage in meaningful conversation if they feel like it, and with the right person. If you're seeing their poor communication side, it isn't you. Aaaand a lot of people out there aren't in well matched relationships hence communication woes being so common | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 06:14 AM |
| 2 | CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't.I see a lot of rationalizing with personality types or that being "feminine" behavior. But at the end of the day facts are facts and they have penises. They are MEN who love drama. It's a human trait. Both genders do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't.The AAA dev and corporate scene are vastly different from what you seem to be imagining if you think it's little nerds in glasses. There's even plenty of ex-army guys at this particular studio because of the genre of game they develop. There is no lack in ego and "get in line or fuck off" in this space. But guess what happens when you throw a line like that at another equally bravado guy? Male drama. There's no magical communication solution just because they're guys, and they will fight and sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 11:36 PM |
| 0 | CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't.A group of normal men usually have zero trouble communicating and almost zero drama (when it's just guys) and what drama there is, gets sorted efficiently, if bluntly I will never understand where this idea that men don't have drama comes from, but it is blatantly untrue. ESPECIALLY in the workplace. Working in the video game industry which is male dominated, I cannot tell you how much shit talking and random drama goes on between male peers. My husband also works in the industry, with prominent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.The above poster went into 0 detail other than "they are boring and do nothing aside from video games". I was going off of the details given, and that's a huge red flag that will scare potential partners away. No one wants to hear that shit, not even if it's self deprecating sarcasm Someone on a date says they take care of their home, work, exercise, and like to relax at night with tv/video games? Cool, sounds well adjusted and responsible. Unlike the type of people who literally do nothing but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.I play video games all the time. Shit I develop games 8 hours a day and then play them after work as my own hobby. Guess what? I'm not "boring" and have a life outside games, unlike the way that person was described. That's the problem. Having hobbies is fine. It's NOT fine if it takes over your life to the point you are 1 dimensional and there is nothing else about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.I literally work in the game industry and video games is my hobby. Yes I ride too. My husband and I both have the same hobbies. But guess what. Neither of us is BORING, the word the above poster used to describe his guy deserving a relationship lmao There's a huge difference between "person who has hobbies and their shit together" and person who is boring and does nothing but game at home | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 03:26 PM |
| -3 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Sits around at home playing lots of Xbox? Sounds like an adult child that has to be taken care of, not a caring partner. So yea, vetting process takes out someone like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 06:09 AM |
| 7 | What exactly makes women horny?Well that is where the quirks of humanity come in. Love, lust, and various other factors that animals don't bother with come into play. There's multiple ways for humans "needs" to be met. My cousin is a stay at home father, his wife brings in all the money. She is incredibly happy with him because he dotes on her and cares for the rest of the families needs. Her needs and requirements are being met, just in a reverse fashion. Humans have a lot more nuance and intricate factors compared to animal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 08:16 PM |
| 5 | What exactly makes women horny?Most of the animal kingdom is actually like this. The males will start doing their mating dance at the first sight of any female, while she will want to see them compete to pick the stronger mate. Obviously we have a few more quirks to our process being sentient and having higher intelligence, but those basic instincts are still at play. Females of any species have to be much pickier because they carry all the risk of reproduction. Males are on the low risk/high reward side of the scale | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Birth control and Women's PreferenceThis just feels like a huge reach. First of all, the sample size of the original study by Psychoneuroendocrinology was only 170. This is a more recent study with a sample size of 6482 which found no evidence of reduced preference for masculine men: https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0210162 Also, BC is typically started in young teen years. Young people are naturally more attracted to those their own age with similar features, i.e. youthful/"feminine" boyband look.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:23 PM |
| 13 | Is your current partner the best sex of your life?Bro I didn't phrase the question, this is all semantics now. Like, yes he is my other half, my family, we complete each other are in it together. Just so happens that I also consider him the best I've had. That's not a bad thing lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 07:10 AM |
| 15 | Is your current partner the best sex of your life?Because the OP asked "Is your current partner the best sex of your life?" which is a question that presumes a comparison. And when I think about it in terms of "best", my answer is yes for the reasons that came to mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 06:50 AM |
| 13 | Is your current partner the best sex of your life?It's a big factor, alright ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) But in seriousness, it's a factor. I would still be with him if it had been average or below average, because of all the rest of him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:46 AM |
| 15 | Is your current partner the best sex of your life?I mean it's a question about sex, so that's what I answered in regards to. But we have a strong partnership outside of that, with similar life goals, family values, etc. The number itself doesn't bother me, I don't lose any sleep thinking about it. It's an age gap relationship as well, so he's naturally had more experience. Would I prefer to not have the gap? Maybe, but I can't change that and he's my partner. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Is your current partner the best sex of your life?What part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:02 AM |
| 24 | Is your current partner the best sex of your life?Yes, for multiple reasons. He's more experienced and it shows (surpasses my partner number by an exponential amount). Focuses on my pleasure and I get off probably 9/10 times, whereas previous LTR was primarily focused on himself and I was closer to 3/10. He's very well endowed. Started as casual, surprised it turned into a relationship, we're married now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:55 PM |
| 0 | Are younger man/ older woman relationships a potential answer to the imbalanced SMP/ RMP that men here rail against?Enjoy a hobby or touching grass, not someones "youth" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 07:49 AM |
| 3 | Men care more about a woman’s career/social status than they like to admitYa see your problem is still conflating control and relationships. This is very much a 'you' problem and not a law of relationships that the rest of us on planet earth abide by. His wife buying him a Harley is not controlling. Her earning more is not controlling. By all measures it sounds like they have a healthy equal partnership from his replies. My husband has a dominant personality, is the epitome of masculinity, has a presence that commands attention, etc. Guess what, he's not scared of me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 05:46 PM |
| 9 | Men care more about a woman’s career/social status than they like to admitHead of the house? Boss around? Goddamn what a pathetic life you live. It's called a partnership, joined together to form a family, an equal effort. But either way, not sure why you're so butthurt over the idea of a gift. Gifts aren't flexes over one another. I bought my husband a $2k grill for his birthday. Because I could. ooohhhh noooo how tragic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Traditional or Modern: No in BetweenIt's not binary, one or the other. What's wrong with "the middle" as you call it? High ambition women get married and have families all the time, you can do both at the same time. Not sure where you are, but here in silicon valley there's highly accomplished women everywhere. Most I know personally are either married or in a relationship with the intention of getting married. My cousin is the only one working and her husband is a stay at home father, even. It's very common to have both partners … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Single straight/bisexual ladies, how would you describe your ideal future partner/husband?My previous serious relationships were pretty far off from the man I'm marrying. Previously I'd been with more introverted, stereotypical nerd types, average/skinnyfat body type, dark hair, one was younger than me, same interests. Now I'm with a very extroverted, blonde, jock type. Buff/lumberjack build, a "man's man", loud and outgoing, still share the same interests but more of a closet nerd. I don't think I ever had a specific type. The one constant has been interests and ideals, but physical… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 05:38 PM |
| – | What do you think about women who pursue extreme sports and women pilots in general? Why is there no equal amount of men who participate in traditinally feminine activities?There's tons of data that show otherwise, like that women make up over 50% of people playing games today. And it especially made a huge dent in development itself. Dev teams through early gaming commonly had no women whatsoever. Today the industry has a huge presence, women make up almost half the population in my studio of 100+. Professional gaming is a small population of gaming overall, not a good example to look at. When you look at it as a whole, it's a hell of a lot more than a dent. Becom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 07:01 PM |
| – | What do you think about women who pursue extreme sports and women pilots in general? Why is there no equal amount of men who participate in traditinally feminine activities?What? Even within my own lifetime I've seen societal changes. Growing up in the 90s, video games were still an uncool "boy" and "nerd" thing. I was made fun of because I was into that instead of traditionally girly things. Today it's so accepted it's even trendy. It's not something anyone even bats an eye at now whereas just 20+ years ago it was. It's not an activity that's gendered anymore, removing those barriers didn't increase amount of tomboys, it made tomboys not even a thing. It's an acti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 06:36 PM |
| – | What do you think about women who pursue extreme sports and women pilots in general? Why is there no equal amount of men who participate in traditinally feminine activities?Keyword: encouraged. Being seen as a tomboy wasn't a good thing most of the past century and society definitely didn't want women doing masculine things. Today we're in a world where playing video games or sports doesn't even have to have a word like 'tomboy' attached to it. It's just a thing women do now. Hopefully we can get to a place where men can do the same without being called gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 06:20 PM |
| 6 | What do you think about women who pursue extreme sports and women pilots in general? Why is there no equal amount of men who participate in traditinally feminine activities?I mean, you're pulling a begging the question logical fallacy. "Would people be unhappy if they're forced into doing something that makes them unhappy" no shit when you're framing it like that. I don't like snowboarding, and I definitely wouldn't like it if I was being pressured into it. People enjoy things when they are given free will to do so. If a man gave a feminine hobby a try and enjoyed it, yes he would likely continue doing that thing. But current society doesn't allow that to be an opt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 11:10 PM |
| 8 | What do you think about women who pursue extreme sports and women pilots in general? Why is there no equal amount of men who participate in traditinally feminine activities?Edited to add specifically straight males, since that matters apparently. Like someone else pointed out though, this is mostly where the problem lies. This strange obsessive fear of "gay" and "femininity". Your question was "why is there no men who participate in these things" but suddenly it's "woah, I meant straight men only". You got your answer, but gay men don't count for some reason? They're still men. And also, more straight men would participate in these things if it wasn't for this irra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 10:39 PM |
| 11 | What do you think about women who pursue extreme sports and women pilots in general? Why is there no equal amount of men who participate in traditinally feminine activities?But... a large percentage of high end fashion is men? Guccio Gucci, Michael Kors, Louis Vuitton, Cristóbal Balenciaga, Christian Dior, Mario Prada, the list goes on. Men have a long history in the fashion industry and I'm sure they enjoyed it with how successful they were at it Edit: since you seem to care about strictly straight males who occupy feminine hobbies, there's still plenty of straight male fashion designers. Tommy Hilfiger, Ralph Lauren, Roberto Cavalli, Calvin Klein, John Varvatos, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 10:21 PM |
| 11 | What do you think about women who pursue extreme sports and women pilots in general? Why is there no equal amount of men who participate in traditinally feminine activities?Because until recently in human history, we only encouraged genders to do their own gendered activities, and it's great that we're slowly moving past that. Not that it should be pushed onto them, but if they want to try something then fuck it, do it. No shaming. You only have one shot at living on this rock, why bar yourself from 50% of lifes experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Would you be supportive of your boyfriend getting a hair transplant or would you tell him to shave it off?My SO has been thinning since before we met and now we're about to get married, so it doesn't bother me. He's told me when it gets bad enough he'll go for a buzz, no interest in treatments. Won't change how I feel, so I support whatever he wants for himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 07:23 PM |
| 5 | How do you view women who raise another women's child?Sure, but does that really matter when we're a species of higher intelligence? Animals aren't on the same cognitive level, they have no concept of purpose in life. THEY live by biological instincts, we live by whatever we decide for ourselves. The idea that one must fulfill their "biological purpose" is silly for creatures with self-awareness. He's lived a fulfilling life, found love, and built a strong, caring family to carry on his memory and legacy. What does biological imperative really matt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 04:15 AM |
| 13 | How do you view women who raise another women's child?This. My dad isn't biological, but he stepped in and raised me as his own. He's the greatest father I could have asked for and my favorite man in the world. He's now older and his health is declining and I'd do anything to help him as he did through my life. Raising other people's children always has a bad stigma attached to it, but you're also gaining family from it. I love him immensely and will continue to care for him until the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Did you ever go to various dates with different guys at the same time?When you first meet someone and want to find out if you're compatible, you ask if they want to go on a date to get a bite or drink. You really going around asking people "madam, wouldst thou wish to court with me at thy local pub?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Did you ever go to various dates with different guys at the same time?Semantics. No one uses the term courting anymore. That early getting to know stage is just called dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 02:37 AM |
| 11 | Did you ever go to various dates with different guys at the same time?Okay? Same point stands. You've met a handful of assholes. For every one of those you've passed by thousands more regular people going about their lives. But those people aren't memorable if you go around life with a bias, specifically looking for reasons to hate. I've encountered plenty of disgusting men, but I also recognize there's infinitely more decent ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 08:48 AM |
| 12 | Did you ever go to various dates with different guys at the same time?So you've met a few asshole women out of 3.8 billion. It happens, humans are generally narcissistic douches across both sexes. It just happens that the worst aspects of people stand out more than the good, same reason news rarely broadcasts anything good. We feed on negativity and cling to it. It's why shit like AWALT or "all men are pigs" n whatever is dumb as shit. Look at how people crucify police, even though for every fuck up there's millions doing their job properly. We love to paint with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 08:20 AM |
| 24 | Did you ever go to various dates with different guys at the same time?Seriously, it's called chemistry. Just meeting people and seeing if you are compatible. Seems people here are conflating "hook up" and "date". Dating imo is much more akin to interviewing. You can interview at multiple jobs to better your chances at finding the right one, nothing wrong with that. Again, not fucking multiple people each night, that's hooking up not dating. Going out to dinner or a bar and getting to know the person is a date. Strange concept for people here I'm sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 05:01 AM |
| 18 | Did you ever go to various dates with different guys at the same time?What kind of question is this? You date to see IF you can be in a relationship. Relationships don't just appear out of thin air, dating is a precursor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 04:46 AM |
| 4 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?This is one thing I definitely agree with, OLD has changed the dating landscape mostly in a negative way. From personal experience, the brief time I used OLD I could feel the "maybe there's better" mentality creep in. I've only ever been in LTR and when my last one ended, I tried OLD for a few months before finding my current fiancé. Honestly, the ease of it being at my finger tips and just swiping made me more picky in retrospect. People I would have gladly chatted up in person I would pass bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Realistically, what type of damage can constant validation do to someone's brain?Hedonic treadmill. It's not a gender issue, it's a human one. Just so happens that this cycle is more vicious in the information age. Our brains all crave dopamine and there is a certain point where the more we get, the more we crave it and chase after it and it's right in out pockets now. It's not damaging in the sense you're thinking (not sure why you think people become r*tarded), but social media can definitely cause depression and general dissatisfaction when it's all people focus on. Young… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Women wear thong underwear because they want to look and feel sexy & feminineI 100% wear them for comfort. I can't even remember when I first tried one, though I do recall it feeling awkward at first. But eventually you don't even notice and it feels like going commando, just so comfortable and free. Regular underwear now irritates me because I hate the feeling of a band around my legs, or having all the extra fabric bunch up and make creases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Sex/relationships should be a reward for good behaviorWomen do have relationships with men that have socially positive traits. Sounds like you just aren't one of those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 12:54 AM |
| 6 | Good girls: a treatiseThe entire concept of AWALT has always been strange to me. Painting any group with a wide brush, really. Fact is, humans thrive on negativity and drama; you rarely hear feel good stories on the news, because it doesn't sell. You only see bad cops shooting people, so we assume "omg all cops are pigs", but that may be less than 1%. The rest are just trying to do their job. Similarly, people don't typically praise their good experiences in life, they hop online and complain about how awful everythi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Sexually unsuccessful men and the anger phaseWomen tend to internalize, men tend to externalize. When women are rejected, society tells them they need to go on a diet to get that guy, or buy new clothes, or get the right haircut. The blame is on them for not being good enough. When a man is rejected, society tells him "bitches are crazy", AWALT, etc., the onus is not on him but around him, which can lead to this outward anger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Are the top % of women (not just in terms of attractiveness, but intelligent, career-oriented, good personality) having trouble in today's dating market?I was single for a year awhile back, working in silicon valley and primarily looking for guys in similar fields/interests. I actually did find it difficult, but it may be a phenomenon of the "tech bro" culture here. In my experience, there was a lot of commitment-phobia from guys wanting to keep living their bachelor lifestyle. Living in hacker houses with all their dude friends, focusing on their careers, not wanting strings attached etc. It was surprising to me given that the area has nickname… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 09:47 AM |
| 0 | Understanding the Opposite Gender Causes Problems and Hatred of the Opposite GenderThe mistake here is saying they "understand". Neither of these groups have an understanding, they have prejudice. It's no different than any other stereotype; they have preconceived notions because of their experiences. But like any stereotype, they're over simplified ideas that are not always true, probably not even a majority of the time. Not all asians are good at math, not all tall people are good at basketball, and not "all men/women are like that". If anything, better understanding of a gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Women: If you’ve fallen out of love was it because of something he was, or something he was not?He was unambitious. It was a 6+ year relationship that started when I was 19. Back then I wasnt thinking about what's important in the long term. He was older than me but hadn't gone to college, wasn't pursuing a career, etc. But he was fun and that's all that mattered at the time. Over the years I graduated, started a career, moved up in my career, all the while he was in the same place. At some point I realized this wasn't what I wanted in a partner, I wanted someone with similar ambition that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 08:27 PM |
| 8 | Q4BP : What do the studies that show lower partner counts for attractive or healthy weight women say about high partner count women? And conversely why overweight or less attractive women show higher partner counts?I'd imagine it's much the same as rich people having cleaner homes with fewer things and poorer tending to be cluttered hoarders. When people have the means, they tend to go for quality over quantity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: Is it unwise to frame the ideal spouse as your best friend?The two are not mutually exclusive. It's best to visualize it as a venn diagram of "best friend" and "partner" spheres, that overlap in some relationships more than others. My SO and I overlap a lot; we consider each other best friends, and are able to maintain a healthy relationship because we recognize there is still also a "partner" dynamic at the same time. I've seen a lot of people with the opinion they should be kept completely separate, and honestly I think that's more a personal problem.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/19 07:20 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Like cars, women depreciate with age, but unlike cars, they don't think that they depreciateBelieving vaginas get looser from sex is right up there with thinking pee comes out of the same hole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 05:22 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Like cars, women depreciate with age, but unlike cars, they don't think that they depreciater/thatHappened | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 05:19 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Like cars, women depreciate with age, but unlike cars, they don't think that they depreciateImplying this person is actually dating or capable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 08:23 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Like cars, women depreciate with age, but unlike cars, they don't think that they depreciateIt's funny because he sounds so confident too "ima date at 25 and marry at 35!" Haaah that bitterness is there for a reason. Poor kid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 06:14 PM |
| 8 | What is the future of dating culture in the U.S. with marriage rates declining?I am sadly a loser, usin the tools I got | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/19 06:40 PM |
| 7 | What is the future of dating culture in the U.S. with marriage rates declining?This sounds like the kind of dude that thinks women pee out of the same hole, so probably not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/19 06:11 PM |
| 2 | I don’t understand the us against them mindsetThis isn't limited to just gender conflict. Tribalism is a stupid human instinct that many people can't get over. Grouping people into a broad group of "others" is a mechanism to have a sense of belonging. All women/men are the same, all Prius drivers are the same, all liberals are the same, all conservatives are the same, all X race are the same, etc etc ad nauseam. It's all the same bullshit, people can't fathom that the world is shades of grey and not black and white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/19 04:30 PM |
| 2 | CMV: seeing each gender as opposed to the other is an unhealthy and toxic way to live and not conducive to good interactions with the other gender.I agree. Its unfortunate, but people are easier to control when you can tell them "all your problems are caused by (other group of people)" It's a shitty scenario that repeats itself through all societal issues, from politics to gender. Too many thinking emotionally rather than attacking issues logically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 04:20 PM |
| 2 | CMV: seeing each gender as opposed to the other is an unhealthy and toxic way to live and not conducive to good interactions with the other gender.Tribalism keeps society in check, there's always an "other" to distract from making real progress. Just look at the two party system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 03:49 PM |
| 15 | Why are MLMs almost exclusively women?I mean scientology is the biggest mlm out there and plenty of men. Maybe even the majority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 03:45 PM |
| 1 | What affect did the "High School Cliche" movies ave on the current issues Red Pill, black pill males face?Daniel LaRusso is the real villain of Karate Kid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 06:59 PM |
| -1 | Q4All: Why do men marry women their age?My SO is 10~ years older than me. Early on I was admittedly unsure of how serious it would be, whether it was just a fling for him etc, but it developed into a relationship and we've been together over 2 years now, with a house and family of fur balls. We share our favorite hobbies and activities, video games and motorcycles which we're often doing together, while also having our own individual hobbies. We're both far along in high earning careers, and in the same industry. Our tastes in music, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: If You Were A Straight Woman, Would You Date Yourself?mmmm motorcycles. Instant plus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Why do women have an aversion towards men in STEM fields?The "nerd" stereotype; a lot of people who aren't familiar still picture the pimple faced geek wearing glasses, etc. At least in Silicon Valley, that stereotype is far from accurate. Tech bros frequent gyms, go bouldering, hiking, etc. Maybe it's not the same in other tech hubs, but they definitely aren't having trouble with women here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 08:25 AM |
| 8 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?I mean I'm not losing sleep over it or getting enraged like that, but it's definitely something that's real and I've noticed it. I've absolutely had those questions before, word for word, "so you play like mobile games? or the sims?" Maybe some don't say those things with the intention of being assholes, but it definitely comes across that way. Ignorant if anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 05:31 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?The awkwardness is something I relate to and still struggle with. My social anxiety/awkwardness come off as disinterest I think, or "stuck up", as I'm often nervous and giving one word answers or barely contributing to a conversation. Tends to make people walk the other way, even though internally I'm like "pls talk to me" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 05:26 PM |
| 24 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Shit, this description hits too close to home. Tomboy growing up, didn't care about appearance, nerd shut in that only stayed home playing games. Once college hit and I started giving a shit about appearances and getting out more people treated me way different, even more once I entered my career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 05:13 PM |
| 15 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Looks aside, this has always been very real with my career and hobbies. With male dominated spaces, there's always this assumption that a woman doesn't actually know anything about it or just doing it for attention. Being into video games my entire life, people sometimes didn't take my passion seriously. A lot of the "oh you mean candy crush?" type reactions. Now I'm 7 years into my game industry career and can garner a lot more respect. Same with motorcycling, when I still had my 300 starter bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 04:45 PM |
| 12 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?You know there are women who aren't born amazingly beautiful and privileged? I lived the ugly duckling life, nothing but teased and bullied growing up. Then as I grew up and worked on myself more that suddenly switched to a different kind of attention from men, but still unwanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 04:19 PM |
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