MrsMayhem56 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Women Who Only Take You Seriously When You Lose Your Temper The title is “WOMEN who only take you seriously when you lose your temper”. Not PEOPLE, WOMEN. That’s redpill bullshit.	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/26 08:10 PM
60	Just discovered my BF of a year is red pill and can’t reconcile between his problematic views and how well he actually treats me… how bad are these views? Do not risk having a child with this person. Imagine trying to raise a daughter with someone who is going to teach her that her value is only in her appearance and youth? Or trying to raise a son with someone who will teach him his wife’s unpaid labor isn’t that valuable, and he doesn’t need to try to understand her because “they’re just wired differently”. It starts out sounding somewhat kind of reasonable from a distance and becomes sexist, paranoid delusion and suddenly they’re screaming at y…	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/26 06:14 PM
16	Boyfriend fell for the red pill. Do not attempt to navigate parenting with this man (assuming kids are even on your list of goals). Imagine trying to watch what he’ll do to your son’s views of the world and women (including you). Imagine how he’ll treat your daughter and the ways he’ll undermine her autonomy and self esteem. Imagine the fights if you try to introduce them to anything other than his ideologies? Imagine what he’ll say to them about you if you ever tried to leave? Do not risk getting pregnant by this person, you w…	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/26 01:51 AM
6	My boyfriend of 6 years is sexist\ redpill and it’s making me miserable I am thinking about leaving him soon I’ve been where you are. DO NOT RISK HAVING TO RAISE CHILDREN WITH A MAN LIKE THIS. Leave while you can, please!!	/r/ExRedPill	24/02/26 07:04 AM
6	My boyfriend of 6 years is sexist\ redpill and it’s making me miserable I am thinking about leaving him soon I highly recommend this book too! For all women but especially women dealing with this sort of man.	/r/ExRedPill	24/02/26 07:03 AM
7	Why ”quit” ”redpill”? “Biology?” 🙄 I knew this wouldn’t be good faith curiosity from the way you wrote the OP but you could at least be a little less obvious. Go kick rocks.	/r/ExRedPill	17/02/26 06:57 AM
2	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? No, men will expect their women to be ambitious in the home. Having children, making delicious meals, keeping things clean, organized and well decorated. You’re just pointing out sexism. And being willfully stagnant is different than being low income and pretending you don’t know that in order to defend red pill content is obtuse. Why are you in an ex-redpill forum defending redpill horseshit anyway?	/r/ExRedPill	15/02/26 08:47 PM
1	An extroverted woman can fall in love with an introverted or shy man. My husband? He’s nice. But you know, being an introvert and being nice aren’t mutually exclusive, it’s easy to be both. 😅 I was attracted to his sense of humor, his taste in music and movies, he was smart and ambitious and well traveled, and I could tell he’d be a good dad.	/r/ExRedPill	14/02/26 06:15 AM
1	An extroverted woman can fall in love with an introverted or shy man. I’m an extrovert who is basically incompatible with other extroverts 😅 I always loved pulling in a shy/introverted guy. I love being with someone who I encourage to come out of his bubble a little but who also encourages me to spend time just being chill and just the two of us. It’s a wonderful balance that has always appealed to me. I’ve been married to my final introvert for 13 years. 😊	/r/ExRedPill	13/02/26 08:34 PM
3	Why do older men like 40+ who are “happily married” still spread redpill stuff online? I find that happily married men who believe this stuff become convinced they “lucked out” and “found a unicorn”. All it takes is a couple of their friends convincing them that they got “screwed in the divorce” or that they lost custody unfairly (even if that’s not the truth) or that their ex cheated for the rest of redpill nonsense to make them believe “this is how the world is now”. You’ll hear many of them say “my wife isn’t like the others” or “if my wife ever dies I’m never dating again”. Th…	/r/ExRedPill	13/02/26 08:12 PM
25	Do you think a short, nerdy, or non-dominant man can be loved by a woman? That’s called rumination and you should definitely see a therapist. Rumination is really bad for your mental health.	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/26 09:57 AM
8	Do you think a short, nerdy, or non-dominant man can be loved by a woman? Original Poster - they mean you	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/26 09:56 AM
14	Do you know any man who has been mistreated by a woman, who has held a grudge against women, and whose grudge disappeared upon finding a woman who loves, protects, and supports him? No, but I have seen, and lived through, several examples of men who tried to do this but weren’t able to let it go and this made them hurt and then lose partners who were loving and supportive and protecting. If you’re mistreated by someone (and the same goes for women who have been mistreated by men, or any gender hurt by any gender of person) and it leaves you hurt and traumatized, you need to work through that (via therapy, usually) to get over it before you try to get into a relationship. Ot…	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/26 09:29 PM
2	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? That’s the most important part. Keep trying! 🫶🏻	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/26 02:31 PM
2	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? 100%, for me. However, as I said, women aren’t a monolith. I don’t speak for all of us, no one does, just like no man can say “all men want____” because men aren’t a monolith either. Maybe some men would say a chubby girl is a dealbreaker for them while other men wouldn’t care as long as she was loving and took good care of the home or kids or had incredible achievements or simply liked a woman with more curves. Women are the same way, about money, about body type, about all of it. I personally …	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/26 09:18 AM
3	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? What else does he have going on? I'd expect that he'd have charisma, emotional intelligence, and captivating interests; and like I said: taking care of his bills, his body, and his space. But really - it tends to be about matching energy, not matching incomes. Women who are super ambitious and driven are generally drawn to men who are the same, while women who are more laid back and okay in their own minimum wage jobs and just playing video games are going to be more satisfied with men who do th…	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 11:11 PM
4	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? Trying to better himself. Going to school (trade or college), working toward a promotion, apprenticeship, building his own business, chasing a side hustle, things like that. I wouldn’t be interested in a guy stagnating at minimum wage because that isn’t how I roll for myself either. If that’s where you’re at that’s ok as long as you’re making consistent moves to achieve better, instead of being ok with that level because it leaves you plenty of time to play video games or go to the bar. I don’t …	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 07:19 PM
9	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? Most women are like her.	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 03:08 PM
8	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? I’m the same way and I’ve been married for 13 years. I dated mostly men who earned less than me - not intentionally but just because I didn’t care. I had 3 long term relationships and a handful of shorter dating relationships that didn’t work out for one reason or another, all with men who earned less than I did. It just wasn’t a priority to me as long as he stayed ambitious and paid his bills.	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 03:07 PM
9	Falling down the incel pipeline has made me realize how unintelligent I really am. The belief that only stupid or mentally ill people can be radicalized or influenced by propaganda is incredibly wrong and incredibly harmful.	/r/ExRedPill	01/01/26 07:55 PM
2	It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat men Yah, I noticed the flip in one comment saying “I’m not talking about relationships, I want to have casual sex with lots of different women” to another comment saying “I’m not talking about casual sex, I’m talking about relationships” and I realized this is a still very actively redpill incel posting troll shit in an exredpill subreddit. These 13 year olds need better hobbies.	/r/ExRedPill	28/11/25 08:39 PM
33	Ex wife of a red pill husband I very much lived the same experience, I’m so sorry you had to be in it for so long. People from the outside see some of these redpill men having wives and think we’re just self-hating pick-me anti-feminists, but so many of these guys are decent human beings before they’re sucked into that lifestyle, and they married strong, sometimes feminist, women with careers and goals and thoughts and opinions. And then these groups teach them that in order to retain their value as men they need to break us…	/r/ExRedPill	19/11/25 10:19 PM
4	Dating red pill? Don’t try to raise children with this person. Imagine him raising a son? Imagine what he’d put on your daughter? If you want kids, leave now. Leave last week.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/25 01:53 PM
1	At this point, I want to just accept that I'm mediocre. Have you seen the Pixar movie Soul? You should. Most human beings are average. Even people who land a partner, get married, have kids, work at Fortune 500 companies, live in wealthy suburbs - they’re “mediocre” too. That doesn’t mean “stop trying” it means “stop hating yourself”. Always work to improve yourself as a person, a partner, a parent. Not for them, for you. You don’t have to be famous or a billionaire or a perfect 10 to matter.	/r/ExRedPill	28/09/25 07:56 AM
4	How do I stop getting upset that every girl I’ve been interested in is in a relationship You’ll see this coming from women when we say things like “why are all the good ones gay or married?” but you’ll notice we say it with a laugh or a bit tongue in cheek. It’s ok to maybe stop and sigh about it, but if you’re ruminating on that idea, or allowing yourself to go on and on about it, that’s an internal miswiring that you might want to talk to someone about. It’s not about being frustrated, that’s a normal human emotion, it’s what you do with your frustration that matters. If you’re ju…	/r/ExRedPill	12/09/25 07:52 PM