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And this is why guys have trouble finding women...
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:42 PM
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Wow. Hopefully that was a poor taste joke. If not, I hope they put you away soon.
/r/seduction25/12/20 03:39 AM
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Profile name checks out
/r/seduction22/12/20 06:19 PM
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There are guys turned on by the idea of being a Beta to a dominant woman. He said she's dominant with other guys, that means their relationship with her could be arranged. Based on what OP said, I was saying they might not be orbiting. They might be her subs and this is their fetish.
/r/seduction17/12/20 06:58 PM
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I had an ex who stalked me by leaving me gifts. I did not like it. I told him to stop and he didn't listen to me. It took three months for my family to scare him off. Stalking is stalking. Unfortunately society thinks women like the attention so they're less likely to help us. The reality is being stalked is a helpless feeling situation that other people don't seem to understand. He would show up at my house unannounced. It was terrifying.
/r/seduction17/12/20 06:52 PM
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Actually you can call the cops over that. It's called stalking and harassment. It's a crime.
/r/seduction16/12/20 08:44 AM
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So they're harassing her. That's totally different. She should get a restraining order. Edit: those are not orbiters if she told them to stop. Those are stalkers.
/r/seduction16/12/20 08:33 AM
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I'm sensing OP has never hear of a cuckolding fetish, because it sounds like those guys were into it to follow her around while another guy was having sex with her.
/r/seduction16/12/20 04:24 AM
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Because it suggested he's not loyal. Which is not a great quality in a guy.
/r/seduction10/12/20 07:55 PM
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This of course does not apply in situations like fire drills.
/r/seduction10/12/20 07:51 PM
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This is the best advice I've seen on this subreddit. Expanding your social circle, having female friends you're not trying to f*ck, and joining small groups will help you find a girlfriend
/r/seduction09/12/20 09:55 PM
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Usually the only guys I slept with from bars and clubs were bouncers and bartenders. They played the long game and weren't desperate to get me into bed by the end of the night. They asked me out on dates for that week after the club night. And after the dates a sexual relationship would start. Only three guys trying to hookup were able to almost take me home because they were low pressure and super nice. But two of them still turned me off when I got to their place and I left before anything hap…
/r/seduction07/12/20 07:51 PM
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That doesn't even make sense. 😂 Every time you have sex with her, that's another 3 months you'd have to "watch her" to make sure she's not pregnant.
/r/seduction30/11/20 06:08 PM
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How would you know no kids? Did you call everyone 5 years later to make sure?
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:34 PM
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If you're calling people names you definitely don't know what you're doing. I pray all the pregnancy tests are negative for your sake.
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:25 PM
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You test for crazy/condom pricking. I'm sure your lab is state of the art 😂
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:12 PM
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This is why men get caught up and have baby mama drama.
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:08 PM
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Some women prick condoms. And OP is talking about crazy. So nothing is off the table. Don't stick your dick in anyone you don't want to share genes with.
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:07 PM
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That's why she was so controlling about other girls. She cheats.
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:05 PM
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Why would you risk impregnating crazy? Some women prick condoms boys. Bitches be crazy.
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:03 PM
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Why would you risk impregnating crazy?
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:02 PM
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Yes! For the people in the back!
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:00 PM
5

Well I like to talk about nerdy topics. Like philosophy, history, psychology, economics, etc. I've had issues with guys who couldn't talk about that stuff.
/r/seduction28/11/20 09:30 PM
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I totally disagree. I've been turned off by guys I was attracted to because they couldn't hold their own in a conversation.
/r/seduction28/11/20 07:53 PM
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As a woman, being attractive is not always great. I got picked on (violently) for being attractive by other girls in school who were jealous. I had less friends, and guys tried to treat me more like a hood ornament than a person. It's not always fun either.
/r/seduction28/11/20 07:47 PM
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Not advocating for ghosting. But also: she's been cursed out too many times or had too many physical threats when being honest with people about not being into them...
/r/seduction20/11/20 10:45 PM
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For sure, both sides have a right to end the relationship at any time. I just don't want some of the guys who come here to get relationship advice to think that she's somehow "damaged goods" because she's had a rough past. She might not have been able to control what happened to her, and she might not want to talk about it. He's not a therapist so that response isn't unreasonable.
/r/seduction18/11/20 07:12 PM
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I don't know any man who does that. Why are you expecting a woman to?
/r/seduction18/11/20 06:45 PM
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We don't have a right to other people's emotional experience. She may not talk about it with the guy she's with. Honestly I don't think it's super healthy for her to "work through the issue" by telling him. It's kind of a therapist only situation. So his comment on one about "not being her therapist" while also saying "tell me your trauma" is a contradiction.
/r/seduction18/11/20 06:42 PM
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The problem is some guys might, and it narrows their dating pool of good candidates. Like at least two of them are often done by attractive women. So is he saying don't date an attractive woman? It gets complicated.
/r/seduction18/11/20 06:40 PM
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They may not tell you. Again, a lot of women don't like talking about it, but will tell close female friends or female family members. There's a lot of shame attached to the situation. And unfortunately many people start the conversation with questions that attach blame like "what were you wearing?" So many are less likely to share.
/r/seduction18/11/20 06:36 PM
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I'm sorry you don't like statistics, unfortunately it's the truth. More women I know have been than haven't been.
/r/seduction18/11/20 08:45 AM
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I know women who literally don't talk about their assault and that's how they choose to process it. Everyone processes trauma differently. In my relationships I was an over-sharer. It totally depends on the woman, and more women than you'd like to know about have been assaulted. Assume out of every three women you know that 1-2 have been assaulted and that's the reality. So that standard doesn't make sense. It's like a woman saying "it's a red flag for me to date a man who doesn't openly talk ab…
/r/seduction18/11/20 08:15 AM
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I think u/Tremaparagon was saying that some of these "red flags" are unrealistic for the cruel world we live in. Things like the lying and "already having a boyfriend" I agree with, but you're asking her to have no bad past experience, and no cell phone. Thus my "date an Amish girl" joke. Though she probably has bad trauma she doesn't want to talk about too.
/r/seduction18/11/20 07:13 AM
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Honey, some people are never able to talk about their trauma. Some even struggle with a therapist and have to take days off work to process it. That doesn't mean that they can't be a good partner to someone. I think you're expecting too much of women when 1 in 3 gets sexually assaulted.
/r/seduction18/11/20 07:07 AM
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So in the first month you want to go through the intimate details of her sexual assault and hold her as she cries for two weeks?
/r/seduction18/11/20 07:02 AM
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Yep, you should totally date an Amish girl.
/r/seduction18/11/20 06:39 AM
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A lot of attractive women are like me. I'm actually more the rule than the exception on that. Most of my friends growing up were models and pageant queens. OP started this conversation explaining realizations he had based on talking to his girlfriend. I'm responding to his perspective and explaining how some of that works from a primal view. And I don't know a cishet woman who wouldn't be attracted to a nonaggressive masculine man. And I married a sweet guy who is not an asshole like the guys I …
/r/seduction13/11/20 12:00 AM
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Then just move on. It sounds like you weren't that invested in getting to know her.
/r/seduction10/11/20 07:05 PM
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With the "realizations" I only agree with 4, 5, and 6. I found three books together that explain the logic of women and are helping me learn about myself. I agree with all the quick tips. Book Links: Open Her She Comes First Come as You Are (new research about how female arousal works) But I dumped people for drug habits. I would date assholes because they were more primal. They told me what they wanted and expected from me in a masculine non-aggressive/non-desperate way. I'm very submissive so …
/r/seduction10/11/20 06:25 PM
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A great book that helps with seduction and social skills for men is Open Her: Activate 7 Masculine Powers to Arouse Your Woman's Love & Desire by Karen Brody https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00N17DZXS?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title
/r/seduction06/11/20 11:17 PM
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I did, ask her to brunch.
/r/seduction29/10/20 05:01 PM
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I don't recommend this
/r/seduction29/10/20 09:15 AM
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Ask her out for Brunch. Omg men should be asking women to brunch. It's fun, low pressure, and you get to know each other way better.
/r/seduction29/10/20 09:14 AM
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He's crazy charming too. "That's long enough for a short intense romance..." such a good line.
/r/seduction28/10/20 04:55 PM
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If you never had one, imagine that you already do have one. Then talk to women with that image mentally like "she's cute but I already have a girlfriend. I'll say hi because she's in the same class as me..."
/r/seduction25/10/20 10:20 AM
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So this about low quality women ruining the relationship!!!
/r/seduction25/10/20 04:56 AM
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What happens when she locks you out of the bathroom and uses a toy she brought with her instead?
/r/seduction25/10/20 04:54 AM
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This is actually great advice and I can see how this would work. A part of a video in another thread fills in the part of this I think is missing. In that video the guy says to act mentally like you already have a girlfriend. It kind of prepares you to have a normal conversation with someone because the pressure of being single evaporates.
/r/seduction25/10/20 04:48 AM
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