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| 165 | Little simple reminders for everyone including myself | Mrscience- | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 04:21 AM | |
| 4 | How I’m learning slowly aligning my thoughts | Conversation | Mrscience- | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 01:56 AM |
| 1 | What are your go to tinder lines? | Mrscience- | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 09:30 AM | |
| 0 | Does anyone have any experience with insta or snap stories leading to dates? | Mrscience- | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 09:57 PM |
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| 1 | How do I show my value on a dateYou should show value but it should be more organic. They way you’ve worded it puts forward the idea that you believe she’s the prize, stop putting the girl on a pedestal. A good way to get yourself into a better frame for this is simply playing it as if she’s trying to win you, you’re trying to find out if she’s the right person for you. By doing this you’ll not only create a better playing field but show her that you aren’t out for any girl you want one that hits your checklist. If you want to… | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 12:40 AM |
| 2 | What advice would you give a virgin who has the opportunity to lose it in a three way?And mine! | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Start a new sub for intermediates and advanced?Has already been done | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How do i deal with physically agressive cockblockers??Mate like I’ve said you’re manipulating the situation and saying the OP has said certain things to support your argument which has no basis . You just said “In what universe does any girl make out with a guy she just met” we’re talking about this guy making out with girls at a party so clearly you did just say it’s not common. For what you said about once you’re making out you’re set reread what I just said about guys getting jealous. | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 12:47 AM |
| 2 | How do i deal with physically agressive cockblockers??Whether the OP is lying or not is another discussion. What you’re doing is simply lying and saying the OP has said certain things to validate your argument. Blatant lying isn’t the way to go about getting a point across. Now you’re saying it isn’t common for people to make out with people they just met at a party. This is still/was a pretty common thing before this whole corona virus situation. The details aren’t anything out of the ordinary. People get jealous, he mentioned random guys as well … | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 12:14 AM |
| 6 | How do i deal with physically agressive cockblockers??My question stands where are you seeing these comments from the OP? I’m going to give you the benefit of doubt and assume you aren’t a native English speaker/and or not from England. When the OP said “(who totally wants to be saved by said dude) from the clutches of my evil self who is already kissing her for a good hour” he was being sarcastic, it’s in the tone of the text. This also shows she’s comfortable with him. If a girls not comfortable with you then you won’t be kissing for “a good half… | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 11:50 PM |
| 7 | How do i deal with physically agressive cockblockers??The fact you’re so passive aggressive and the way your acting says more about you than it does about me. You’re just self projecting. Anyway, where are you seeing these things? He said the ex is at the same party not that the girl brought him along. It’s not uncommon for people to go to the same party as their ex if they’ve got their social circles tangled together. | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 11:36 PM |
| 7 | How do i deal with physically agressive cockblockers??He said “ex”. Where did you see him saying he was hitting on guys girlfriends? | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 10:58 PM |
| 3 | How to get rid of the AFC mindset. Is my plan alright?Any approach is a good approach. Progressively working yourself up is definitely a good method to use | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 08:14 PM |
| 21 | Never ever beg someone for attention, or beg for your exThen you’re begging for her love/attention and it isn’t mutual. | /r/seduction | 24/05/20 09:47 PM |
| – | Never ever beg someone for attention, or beg for your exNot OP. I’d class fighting for someone more so as you’ve done something wrong e.g cheating and are willing to make things right and show them you’re a better person vs begging where you’re constantly messaging,trying to get her to hangout etc | /r/seduction | 24/05/20 09:30 PM |
| 2 | How to revive attraction?Sounds like she only wants you for attention when she’s bored and never follows through with plans to take things further. Sounds to me like cutting your loses and finding a better girl would be recommend. If you do choose to stay and want to regain/create attraction I’d recommend removing some attention you have been giving. Get her to crave more of your attention. This should ideally then lead to a date in which she’ll want to meet up again and again. | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 11:43 PM |
| -1 | How do I know if I'm pursuing the right guys?The guys who are in the friendzone most likely belong there. Now yes you should try redefine dating, don’t go straight for sex get to know him well first. | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 12:32 AM |
| 24 | As my game has gotten better i have also noticed that I have become more of an asshole. Is that normal?I wouldn’t say you’ve become more of an asshole, seems like you’ve realised your inner value along with becoming better at flirting and so on. | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 09:25 PM |
| 4 | virtually flirting with a guy during quarantine & THEN he describes a past partners vagina as — *read disturbing texts in image* — this is an example of how NOT to seduce a woman. THOUGHTS? 🤦🏽♀️Seems extremely uncalibrated and just odd. | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | How I’m learning slowly aligning my thoughtsFair enough. You recommend his meditation videos? | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | How I’m learning slowly aligning my thoughtsNot sure what you mean mate | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 07:25 PM |
| 6 | I had one of the best dates I've ever had after months of self-improvement.Well done bro and nice post In general | /r/seduction | 31/03/20 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How can a guy become more confident with girls?All good bro. Just build on yourself and develop your conversational skills, the more you do it the better you’ll get!m. I do recommend memorising/learning some responses. Eventually it’ll become second nature and you won’t even think before saying it. | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | How can a guy become more confident with girls?I’d say you need to stop caring whether it keeps going or not. You want your mind to be relatively calm and not stressing. (Easier said than done but next time it happens don’t stress it and say whatever comes to mind whether it’s something logical or flirty) | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | How can a guy become more confident with girls?If you don’t feel confident when all of this corona virus goes away, think to yourself “3,2,1 go” then walk up and ask the time. (Should give you a boost) Well if they’re flirting back then off course it’s not weird. If you’re getting short answers then most likely they’re uncomfortable/want to keep it professional. (Depends largely on their bodily language). | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 12:21 AM |
| 1 | How can a guy become more confident with girls?Small steps. Start with something small and build it up E.g do you feel comfortable asking for the time | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 12:05 AM |
| – | Little simple reminders for everyone including myselfYou done yet? 😂 | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 08:41 PM |
| – | Little simple reminders for everyone including myselfYou’re clearly just a troll, so I’ll leave you to it. Have a good one brother | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 08:17 PM |
| – | Little simple reminders for everyone including myselfHopefully it becomes more prominent. | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Little simple reminders for everyone including myselfExactly bro! If it shows you are confident and can take a joke you’re all good. | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 06:38 PM |
| – | Little simple reminders for everyone including myselfYeah that’s along the right lines. Just don’t be defensive and take it lightly/turn it into a compliment about yourself. | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Little simple reminders for everyone including myselfBeing centred is when someone can’t push you off your centre. A woman will test you to see if you stay centred. An example could be a woman saying “I hate your beard!” a guy who’s not centred would take it and become defensive. A guy who’s centred wouldn’t be moved by the comment and would come back with something that shows that. E.g “Yeah but you like what’s underneath” | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 03:33 PM |
| – | Little simple reminders for everyone including myselfRecommend reading what the other guy mentioned. For a simpler explanation most women want a guy that allows them to go into their feminine energy and become submissive to him. | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Which emoticons :) :p etc do you feel are most useful for texting girls? How do you like to use them? I never texted girls until this year (old fashioned I guess), but I am finally getting into it and learning about different emoticons I can useDo whatever you like man! As long as you aren’t constantly using them i don’t think someone’s gonna relay care | /r/seduction | 05/03/20 07:52 AM |
| – | Which emoticons :) :p etc do you feel are most useful for texting girls? How do you like to use them? I never texted girls until this year (old fashioned I guess), but I am finally getting into it and learning about different emoticons I can use:)/;) are the only ones I’d consider using. The rest just give off old people vibes. | /r/seduction | 05/03/20 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Why Looks Don't Matter That Much (Infield)Thanks for the post was a good read! Slight question of topic why do you think looks are relevant at all? Looks don’t indicate survival chances so biologically it doesn’t make too much sense | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | How would you deal with this 11th hour confirmationTry setting it on the day of mentioning a date. Leaves more time for anticipation to build | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 11:06 AM |
| 2 | How would you deal with this 11th hour confirmationIf I’m understanding you correctly you’re saying you speak to her and say we’ll decide upon a time in a few days e.g Tuesday, Tuesday comes round and she won’t confirm a time for Friday? | /r/seduction | 22/02/20 02:55 AM |
| -1 | Why do girls respond well to being being called mean things?It’s because doing it shows youre alpha and don’t care. By saying mean things in a flirty tone they understand it’s a joke and that you don’t care about things leading into attraction in their eyes. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on texting habitsYou should aim to match her text time then gradually cut it down. If she takes one hour to respond do that for a few texts then half your reply time to 30 minutes. If she replies within around 30 minutes half again if she doesn’t go back to the previous time. This is rough and you don’t need to properly time it 😂 Should generate more interest from her | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 01:51 AM |
| 43 | How to stop being seen as a friend and become more attractive?Teases and not being serious. For example let’s say someone’s getting a toothpaste from the store you could say something like “Hey I was gonna get that one!!” sure there’s plenty of other boxes but the interaction is playful and not serious which is what you want. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 01:42 AM |
| 118 | How to stop being seen as a friend and become more attractive?Practice being playful to everyone no matter who. Then when you do see a girl you like you’re already playful/flirty naturally. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 01:37 AM |
| 2 | She’s way too comfortable how do I spice it up 🤔🤔I’d say it’s probably a bad idea to adopt it more often. Eventually she willl stop asking what’s wrong. Imagine she acted dull and “unreactive” and everytime you asked what’s wrong she said “nothing. Eventually you’d just think she’s in a weird mood and I’ll leave her be for a bit. Are you sure you want to be in a relationship with her if that’s how you feel? | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 01:32 AM |
| 4 | Do I address that I know she has a boyfriend?Acting oblivious is the way to go to have the chance of sleeping with her. If you do sleep with her it may come back to bite you in the ass. Saying you know she has a boyfriend will give worse odds of sleeping with her than being oblivious. Ultimately it’s up to you | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Do I address that I know she has a boyfriend?How do you know she has a boyfriend? | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 01:16 AM |
| 6 | Lacking confidenceAccept the feelings and just do. Saying 3,2,1 in your head then doing something can help too. Building confidence is all about exposing yourself to fears over and over again until it’s no longer a fear/hardly a fear | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | I feel like i got rejectedMessage or talk to her, set up a playful/flirty tone with her. If she’s seems receptive ask her out on a date. Don’t ask if she’s free on a set day. Give her a few options like “Are you free to come over Thursday or Saturday?” | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 12:16 AM |
| – | She’s way too comfortable how do I spice it up 🤔🤔Matching her effort would make sense. If she’s pulling away in the relationship what you do is pull away too. Most guys will instead try even harder to “win” there girl back all that does it put the guy in a worse position and her in a better one. By pulling back you’re showing you aren’t needy. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | What are your go to tinder lines?Ah yeah I got your sarcasm 😂Curious as to what he said | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 05:16 PM |
| 1 | What are your go to tinder lines?What was the line? | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Success through Ignoring her.Yeah. Especially through text can increase your value | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Im mind fuckedWhat’s your question? Sounds good only thing I think you shouldn’t of done is say your directly your feelings, she should be able to pick that up by your actions and by being direct your emotions are no longer vague which usually isn’t good for attraction. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 11:00 PM |
| 9 | Why do guys ghost?Seems like both your faults. He should be asking when you’re free so you can both find a date for the date/meet-up. But, you’re also saying “you can’t” etc without giving a day you can, so when you are finally free his attractions probably lower/toned down a bit. If he is serious and doesn’t feel like you’re serious logically it doesn’t make much sense for him to go on a date. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Day game slow progressGlad I helped! Yeah I agree, it’s a mental battle. I wouldn’t say I made an “excuse” not to approach more so I didn’t fully consider it in the moment. Was more curious whether she was trying to catch up to me or not 😂 Thanks bro, you too. I’m gonna give the 3,2,1 method a shot and make sure I think about approaching if the opportunity arises again | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Day game slow progressNice! Opens up a new area for me to work on. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Day game slow progressYeah it Really did feel like she wanted to speak but was too shy. Strangely enough two other girls kept looking at me with the “attracted/interested vibe”. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Day game slow progressAgreed. Thanks for feedback | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Day game slow progressRead the full thing. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Netflix and Chill Fail Advice?Kino escalation seems to be the best advice out there. Start small and slowly build. | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone have any experience with insta or snap stories leading to dates?Can you give an example of value? | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Need Text game adviceAlright, thanks bro | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Need Text game adviceI may be overthinking, but I feel like it is a subconscious thing rather than conscious. What I wrote helps break down my text game and make it easier for people to see where I need to improve or give advice. If you didn’t know the frame giving tips would become harder | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Need Text game adviceOnline | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Need Text game adviceAlright, so what’s a good approach In this scenario like An example phrase? | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Need Text game adviceBro I get you, but at the same time I guarantee 99% of the time if I did that After my example it wouldn’t lead to a beat Why would someone wanna smash after they’ve given pull back from a sexual joke? | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 07:17 PM |
| 0 | I made a huge personal victory yesterdayGood job brother! | /r/seduction | 27/12/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | I have a girl over to watch movies on my bed. What's my next move?Good luck bro! | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 11:33 PM |
| – | I have a girl over to watch movies on my bed. What's my next move?Kino basically means touch, when kino is mentioned it means physically escalation through touch. So you start small hand shake or hug and gradually escalate further based on their reaction. So instead of going straight for the kiss you’ve already been hugging her for a while making it more comfortable for you both | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 11:32 PM |
| 1 | I have a girl over to watch movies on my bed. What's my next move?Kino bro kino. Start small garage her response the go from there. Build comfort from the start e.g a hug then when you’re watching the movie arm around here etc | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Approaching is a lot easier than it seems, but i feel like there is something i am still missingAttempt to create your own version on the spot instead of repeating lines. It’ll help add more emotion. What conversion rate are getting from number to date? | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Text gameThanks bro | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Text gameBro you misunderstood my question. That was purely an example not one I’ve actively done. I’m asking what social calibration is | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Are short answers a go to sign to ignore the message?Already have, the question was more meant to be how | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Are short answers a go to sign to ignore the message?Whats rapport | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Are short answers a go to sign to ignore the message?Alright, how about if the message wasn’t boring? | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 02:49 PM |
| 6 | How to respond to this shit test?Where’s the shit test? | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 12:12 AM |
| 1 | How can I reschedule a date with her?No Problem. I’m not saying your previous convo was negative but if you try restart the convo it may be a negative frame which you will gradually need to push to positive. I’d say what you said wasn’t bad bro! | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How can I reschedule a date with her?Try restart a Conversation then if it goes well move into planning another date. Move the frame from most likely negative to neutral then positive. Don’t jump from negative to positive. It’s worth a shot but if it doesn’t work out you know you’ve done the best you can and try not to let it phase you | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | What is holding frame in online game vs irl? (Side note is this an example of holding frame?)Bro think about it like this, I gave something simple for her to do she said no, I didn’t get hung up about it and she ended up messaging again. I stuck with frame. Don’t get me wrong, I see the point you were making of I should’ve just added it. | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 11:41 PM |
| 1 | A girl invited me to a student party, should I go?You might as well go for the aspect of meeting new people along with getting to know her more. Also, go with the assumption she’s into you since she has invited you. (unless she has told you otherwise) | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | What is holding frame in online game vs irl? (Side note is this an example of holding frame?)I do see where you’re coming from but my stance right now isn’t the same. Recently started to understand that you should show interest but don’t chase. By adding it, in essence it’s a “chase”. | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What is holding frame in online game vs irl? (Side note is this an example of holding frame?)Understood. With her replying again do I go back to a neutral stance then see how she responds then gradually move her into the positive zone then arrange a meet-up? | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | What is holding frame in online game vs irl? (Side note is this an example of holding frame?)Purpose was more of a compliance a test, whether it’s phone or snap I don’t mind but I move to that then ideally shortly after go through logistics | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How to break down and analysis your text game?The problem I have is holding interest while asking these questions before they get bored and don’t reply. Unless you’re saying to get one or two contextual questions in before building a tease based on that? | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 12:19 AM |
| 1 | How to break down and analysis your text game?Thanks for the advice, I’m curious are you American? I intended calling her a chav to be more of a tease than insult; if you are english I’ll think more before using a phrase like that again. | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | How quick do you bring up meeting a girl in person after you match on a dating app?Yeah I completely get what you’re saying, do you mind doing a quick analysis for me? | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 10:48 PM |
| 2 | How quick do you bring up meeting a girl in person after you match on a dating app?Is with 5 messages under the assumption they comply with your ideas and don’t shit test? | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Day 5 of approaching: finally did it boys!Keep up the good work! Every little step is a step forward | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How to keep motivation when you have failure?Thanks | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 12:57 AM |
| 1 | How to apply Physical escalation?Sure, when this applies I’ll give it a go and tell you the result | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 12:37 AM |
| 1 | What are your best openers?What opener did you find worked well of course not including situational ones? | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 12:53 AM |
| 1 | If a girl denies your message to escalate over text how do you respond?The post was on the topic as a whole but the scenario was purely an example to help answer the question. | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 12:35 AM |
| 1 | If a girl denies your message to escalate over text how do you respond?Indeed. | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | If a girl denies your message to escalate over text how do you respond?What’s the idea behind that? (The goal is to flip non-compliance back to them?) | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | If a girl denies your message to escalate over text how do you respond?I’m referring to non-compliance | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How to correctly approach girls Seeking validation?What does the push pull part mean? | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How to handle a shit test over message?The teach you to cook was based on the fact she asked what I was doing and I told her I’m cooking, then she replied with saying that she’s horrible at cooking. For sure I’ll respond back to it next time instead of trying to push for a date. | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 01:00 AM |
| – | How to handle a shit test over message?Yeah that except “a drink” | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 12:43 AM |
| – | How to handle a shit test over message?Yeah, I agree: just tried something along those lines and after I said that their replies showed a lack of interest. | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 12:36 AM |
| – | How to handle a shit test over message?Thanks bro. Would trying to move on pushing for a date without addressing what they said properly be a bad move? E.g “how about I teach you how to cook and we grab and drink then I’ll fix my spelling”? | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 12:06 AM |
| 2 | How to handle a shit test over message?Ah thanks. my mind tends to go blank in those scenarios, any tips to help think something up on the spot quick without doing a cliché line? | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 11:57 PM |
| – | How to handle a shit test over message?Thanks, do you mind breaking that down and analysing it? What I got from it was that “spelling is the least of my issues” this gives you control by subtly saying that their point is wrong without directly saying that showing them that you’re not a pushover, then the rest is simply joking around playing dumb | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a shit test over message?So, if she said something along the lines of “are you always this boring” what would you say? | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 11:46 PM |
| – | How to handle a shit test over message?Ah right, I get exactly what you’re saying. What about in an example where you spelt something wrong then she proceeds to say something along the lines of “you need to fix your spelling”? How do you respond to that | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 11:43 PM |
| – | How to handle a shit test over message?When a girl tests to see how he handles himself when she tests the boundaries e.g “are you always this boring?” She’s testing to see how you respond. | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 11:30 PM |
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