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Moreover....even if you change the situation up a bit....say she was focused on her career, savings, network, etc....and he wanted to move in with HER...he can basically become a squatter in your house. There are soo many scenarios and true stories of why it's just not a good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 07:35 PM
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yeah...he should take you on the real green....carts, clubs, and a dinner at the club afterwards. I've done that and loved it. Lots of time to talk and get to know each other. But definitely too long for a first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:19 PM
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As an American...I was obsessed with Nandos when I lived in the UK. That and Dishoom were the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:56 PM
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Do they really have a taste of money though? The vast majority did not make a livable wage from OF...due to the MLM structure of their upline taking a percent and the platform taking a percent...and men who just sub once for $5, download as much as they can and unsub...it seems a very small group of women were making bank while everyone else was watching and hoping to become that. Like a YT or influencer...everyone is trying to make it but very few are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:40 PM
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Not many actually were successful with the platform...but yes, those who were may not have prepared for their future. My wish was that the "content creators" would see that even a platform created by SW treats them like an object...have some self-awareness...take a step back and think about it...maybe then they would see what people have been saying since the 60s...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:58 PM
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Most of the platforms reporting on it are not places I want to link to/provide traffic to but I can add a screenshot of the articles!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:05 PM
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everyone and their dog have precheck now...my (recent) ex and I flew last month...he INSISTED on going through precheck...I laughed and went through the "normie" line...or lackthereof....there were 20 people in precheck and ZERO in any other lane!!! So I went through...got a coffee and sat down to read while I waited 20m for him to get through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:20 PM
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I think they are mostly pickmes who convince themselves it's enjoyable because it makes them feel wanted. Just like a drug... afterwards is the downward spiral. It's great feeling like this man connected to you during this time (or that since you did this there's something more between you) but in the end, he rolls over and leaves and you feel shitty. It wasn't a real high. They like being liked. And the positive attention feeds something into them...but it's not lasting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:08 PM
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Let me get this straight. He's seeing a woman. She repeatedly makes it clear she doesn't want to have a talk about bring exclusive. She tells him he is baking her uncomfortable. She then breaks it off with him. He doesn't respect this because he calls it her ignoring him and belittles her needing space. She tells him many times he's being jealous and not what she's looking for. He acts like a pickme. Then gets upset when she breaks it off entirely and dates someone else. Oookay. This guy is an i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:04 PM
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Don't meet in person 🤦🏻‍♀️ totally agree. This is a great time to work on yourself... Though I think it's also a great time to talk to a bunch of different guys and go on virtual dates. However, it's up to you to set the standard that when things are back to normal, you expect real dates. I think you can build a great foundation right now. My therapist told me this was great for people who struggle with emotional connection or who fear intimacy (like I do).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:36 PM
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Maybe he should go force himself to do gay porn if he needs money that badly. Perhaps then he'd understand these women aren't just sitting back and enjoying getting laid. They are forced and coerced to do drugs and things that are unsafe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:49 PM
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Is there a process to get out of the newbie tag 😅 I feel like I meet the requirements listed in the handbook. I definitely don't want to be associated with this wave of newbies that seem to have a skewed idea on FDS... there has been an influx or really young girls in the community and a lot of them are bullying other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 10:00 PM
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👏 yes, this guy in my friend group liked me. I'm fit, successful, and pretty. He doesn't take care of himself at all (like to the point it's a medical detriment) and calls me shallow and neggs me all the time about how I know will date good looking men. Okay... Well, I put effort into myself, my looks, and my personality. I expect a partner to do the same. And that's NOT shameful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:46 PM
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I want to see the comments OMG I need to see the stupidity because it honestly helps me realize how crappy the majority are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 06:26 AM
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At least you can report them on the dating apps. I get this wasn't your SS but for you or anyone else...REPORT MEN THAT TALK TO YOU LIKE THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:28 PM
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I'm on the hardest part now... mental/emotional health. The right men have started coming but until I'm really ready it's not going to work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:06 PM
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Btw when you link things like this, it comments on the original post. If we are trying to stay on the DL then we may want to restrict this to the discord channel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 02:36 AM
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Btw when you link things like this, it comments on the original post. If we are trying to stay on the DL then we may want to restrict this to the discord channel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 02:36 AM
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And creepy/scary. I would block and report.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 01:50 PM
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https://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/celebs/a32051634/why-adele-ex-husband-simon-konecki-171-million-divorce-private-details/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 01:42 PM
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You shouldd create a separate post. This is kind of lost here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:11 PM
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That's why you should always understand the first 90 days are all about vetting. He can't pick up artist his way through it all. And generally those pick up artist have a stench about them. You can feel it in your gut. You just need to listen to your gut that his words and actions do not align with a HVM even if he is a wolf in sheep's clothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:07 PM
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But that tactic has already been widely popularized. So I think some lvm will still be too dumb to beat us in all this. It's the sociopaths I'm worried about 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:04 PM
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Thank you! Yes, I've read a lot of the links but feel a little overwhelmed with the info. It's great and I see how a lot of it is similar to what I'm experiencing but not quite the solution (if that makes sense).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 04:21 AM
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In my opinion, raise the bar earlier. I match with around 10 men per OLD app per day. No matter how attractive he is, I have to be willing to easily let him go if he's not willing to put in effort up front in messaging. If he can't even do that then he's going to waste my time. Just be sure to move on faster when a guy starts giving red flags. Keep faith and lean on you women who make and support good decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:10 PM
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Research shows that women are worse off and men better off in marriage. I think it depends based on specific details of your life. I'm an attractive, highly educated, successful woman. Because men of my equal have so many pickmes throwing themselves at them, it's hard to find HVM that are mature enough to look for an equal instead of the pickmes that bolster egos. I'm not sure I will ever find a partner that is worth it. I was engaged to a HVM once and that has raised my bar not to settle becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:01 PM
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I don't understand how men can enjoy and be proud of these hook ups. Wow, you got off by treating a woman like a glory hole. You couldn't even get her off with your hit it and quit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:43 PM
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Because it was so often normalized...I didn't realize until much later in life...I grew up naive. Still an somewhat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:09 AM
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Glad you had this realization. I recently discovered in therapy that the mean things I say to myself aren't really my words but things I've been told by other people. It's helped me to be kinder to myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:19 PM
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♥️ I had the same experience. We were together 4yrs, engaged, and I supported him financially while he was chasing dreams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 01:22 PM
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