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| – | What advice should be given to kind traditional men who seek relationships do in this dating world?I got one. I was 44, we are still together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationsBecause photos are not real men standing in front of them and flirting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Do people not date based on their romantic feelings?Because there are no single men at church? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 08:31 PM |
| – | Women are in competition with each other much more than men, height of their partner Is another status symbolIt sounds more like a crappy girlfriend. Pick better next time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:18 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe response is to dump a guy who does that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:14 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:04 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat if he likes men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Can you count the amount of times you’ve been insulted ? Q4WI have been insulted most in middle school, some in high School, a lot in college, and A LOT in a certain nerd fandom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 01:23 AM |
| 1 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Uh, weird way of looking at success. But yes he is the alpha chad of my dreams and I am incredibly thankful for him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 02:12 AM |
| 2 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.No one is perfectly healthy. I am pretty honest about my flaws | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 02:11 AM |
| 1 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.What's not true? That women my age have fewer options or something? All I can tell you is that I have never struggled to find a boyfriend and I finally fell in love at age 44. Maybe other people have different stories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 01:15 AM |
| 1 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.going on 8 years, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 01:08 AM |
| 2 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Yes, I had issues. I got therapy and now I am better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.No. My man and I are going on 8 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 01:00 AM |
| 3 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Any non personal tips on coping with PTSD? First thing you need to know- it's not your fault. Then you need to recognize which symptoms you are assumed were normal habits, are not. A therapist can explain it better. I had a psychiatrist who could prescribe sedatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 11:21 PM |
| 2 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Understanding how and why, and what to do about it. I am being purposely vague because it's personal. But the main takeaway was how to cope with PTSD and other issues from childhood. And how to recognize bad people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Why my amygdala is all messed up from childhood trauma, among other things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 08:26 PM |
| 1 | How will mass immigration affect dating and relationships?But are you cute? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 08:23 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen with natural big boobs usually do not stay thin. I know one woman like this. Toothpick with jugs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 08:22 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDoes he shred on the guitar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 08:21 PM |
| 4 | The issue with this subreddit is the fact that blue pillers just simply ignore factsDivorce, most of the time is a bad thing as is only present so one doesn't murder their husband or wife. So...remove divorce and let the murder just happen?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 08:11 PM |
| 2 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Exactly! I don't get why more of the people here think therapy is bad, it helped me more than years of World of Warcraft ever did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 08:06 PM |
| 2 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.What steps did you do to make yourself better to get better men? Did you approach these better men? Go to the gym? Learn good game to get the amazing men to date you? I'm actually curious what women do when they struggle to find decent men. Real answer? I got therapy. Once the shrink explained everything to me it made sense and I got better. Still had a few years before I met the love of my life at age 44, but it all worked out. So glad I never married the wrong guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 08:00 PM |
| 1 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.LOL no :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 07:58 PM |
| 3 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Why do you doubt me? I was not picky and I didn't know how to vet. So if a relationship was bad, I ended it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 07:58 PM |
| 2 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Sotyou would give up everything you have experienced? No right? So what else is there to life? Pray enlighten this miserable soul Life has been good to you hasnt it? I have had my own problems, thank you very much. Just be glad for all the things YOU have the others do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 07:57 PM |
| 2 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.I mean, there is more to life. You also make some weird assumptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.the only place all this old ass broads are happy are on Internet comment section Menopause can cause depression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 06:07 PM |
| 8 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.All women have different types. I like dark ethnic men with beaky noses. My best friend finds that repulsive. She likes blonde men with beards and button noses. I find that boring. My other best friend likes tall men who are always white. Yawn. Another gal pal likes Jason Momoa. See how all of us have different tastes? So even if we find most men unattractive we all like the guys the other woman passes up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 05:42 PM |
| 3 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Or maybe they find certain guys wildly attractive who are not Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 05:27 PM |
| 6 | What do people in relationship talk about all the time?I yammer on and on about the Ice Ages or Napoleon. He thinks that's awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh sorry, I skipped breakfast and got dumb. Yeah she is being greedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:58 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe paid to be at the aquarium and gave him a painting. That is the gift, so I don't see his problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:54 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNone of these describe my man. I had a flirty ex? OK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:39 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf my husband is the guy I am currently with, then sure. He is loyal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:35 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou are religious like me. Volcel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:34 PM |
| 4 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Oh right! I forgot about the robot girlfriends who definitely will not murder anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:30 PM |
| 3 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Also being 50 now is much better than what will happen in your fifties during 2040s Why is that? Society going up in flames? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:25 PM |
| 10 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.And what benefit is there to a woman who settles for a man she does not like? Wouldn't it be preferable to live with "box wine and cats" than have to French kiss some guy she finds yucky? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:22 PM |
| 9 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.No, I am 51 and trust me when I say this is not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:02 PM |
| 30 | "more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single.Since I began dating at age 15 I have hardly ever been single for more than a few months, and always by choice. Getting a relationship is super duper easy, so if I wanted one it was a gimme. Does that mean the boyfriends were all Prizes? No. It was better to be single than continue dating him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:01 PM |
| -1 | Q4W what is the root cause of men's dating complaints?Of course. Every man here is Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 04:27 AM |
| 2 | How will mass immigration affect dating and relationships?Is this a massive problem somehow? Plenty of women don’t care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 12:49 AM |
| 1 | How will mass immigration affect dating and relationships?He is not tall. I don't care about such things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 12:40 AM |
| -8 | Q4W what is the root cause of men's dating complaints?::shrug:: Men here are the ones complaining about the disparity in political views. Maybe the ones who cannot get women could change their views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 12:11 AM |
| -6 | Q4W what is the root cause of men's dating complaints?Or maybe you guys could change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 11:48 PM |
| 4 | How will mass immigration affect dating and relationships?Yup. My boyfriend grew up in Kuwait and he is pretty much American. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 09:45 PM |
| 3 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?Could you provide an example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Q4W what is the root cause of men's dating complaints?Yes, and those people will not be compatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 09:25 PM |
| 7 | How will mass immigration affect dating and relationships?I know a lot of guys from the Middle East and it varies. If the values do not westernize, women will figure that out pretty quick and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 09:22 PM |
| 4 | How will mass immigration affect dating and relationships?Sure why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 08:58 PM |
| 10 | How will mass immigration affect dating and relationships?I look forward to all the hot ethnic men, no lie. That is where I got my SO and many other women will do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:44 PM |
| – | A case for hypergamy: it makes sense to have a unique word for how women tend to be shallow in dating.Try sparkling more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 05:24 PM |
| – | A case for hypergamy: it makes sense to have a unique word for how women tend to be shallow in dating.I am a sparkling wit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 05:20 PM |
| – | A case for hypergamy: it makes sense to have a unique word for how women tend to be shallow in dating.Hell to the yes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 05:13 PM |
| – | A case for hypergamy: it makes sense to have a unique word for how women tend to be shallow in dating.What if I am the fun dispenser? Ever think of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 04:36 PM |
| – | Why do people not want to accept the reasons modern dating isn’t working?Having known enough homeschool kids, this makes me sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 06:53 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOnly if it's horseback riding trips. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 06:11 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn that case, I can spend my own money on cool stuff. He can save. I have dated poor dudes before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 06:08 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI would put on a mustache and apply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 04:42 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo you enjoy this dynamic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 04:35 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy can't she take an Uber to pick up the car? Why do you have to do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 04:17 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLiterally no one cares about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 07:50 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNaw, maybe it was the other guy from yesterday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 06:09 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSilver Post or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 06:04 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, I can see his comments with his name deleted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 06:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAll he could talk about was having babies and how men denied fatherhood unalive themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 06:00 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLooks like the guy with the breeding fetish deleted his account. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 05:57 PM |
| 4 | Is dating a "free market"?I get my sexuality funded at the welfare office, obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 04:07 AM |
| 23 | At a 50/50 male to female ratio, why are there so many men left out?Yeah, I would remain celibate to avoid pregnancy risk on a desert island. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 05:14 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe chews chaw and spits a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Women, what do you bring to the table?Go for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you bring to the table?I bring him joy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Do you think online dating has been a net positive or a net negative for the average women?Positive all the way! I met my SO on Match and we are very much in love. I was never going to meet him otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 04:41 PM |
| – | Dating doesn’t actually have to be fairNot really. If we applied the Vonnegut story here, men would have to experience monthly crippling pain and constant weakness. Men would be handicapped physically to make them even with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 03:22 PM |
| 6 | Dating doesn’t actually have to be fairWhat does fairness even mean here? It's like the Vonnegut story where all the smart people have to wear noisy headphones and all the beautiful women have to wear ugly things, etc. So everyone is handicapped to the same level. Why? Do guys here want all people to be the exact same thing in order to achieve the result of fair outcome? What a gross world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 07:42 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor, as Reik points out, when men speak of "love" they are really talking about "scrotal frenzy." genuine LOL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 09:36 PM |
| – | If female hypergamy is real, how can elite women be in a relationship?This is exactly it. Hypergamy could mean literally anything- if I am smarter and better looking and more charming than my boyfriend, they will yap that he makes more money. If I make more money and own my own house and won a beauty contest, they will yammer that he must be more educated. It never ends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 05:39 PM |
| 7 | When it comes to romantic, or frankly any kind of relationship, love must be conditional.Say your met the partner of your dreams. So good looking, great personality, you are in love. After 5 years of pure bliss and plans for the future, you learn that your partner murdered someone ten years ago. Not self defense, but a disturbing murder of a child. Creepy and alarming. Does your love for this person shine through and you stay together? Of course not. You immediately stop liking them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 05:35 PM |
| – | Q4W: How much do you value factors like what your friends think or how he looks on paper to other people when it comes to choosing a man?I never cared what anyone else thought of the guys I liked. My first boyfriend was a huge crush of mine and all my friends though the was an embarrassment. Who cares. Even now I like the men I like, no one else matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 05:26 PM |
| 4 | What turned you off dating people you were initially interested in or had dates with?‘let the games begin’ Let the games end. LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 03:59 PM |
| 2 | What turned you off dating people you were initially interested in or had dates with?This is pure entertainment, I love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 03:57 PM |
| 3 | What turned you off dating people you were initially interested in or had dates with?Talked with food in their mouth Oh man, I would be out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 03:54 PM |
| – | Have you ever heard a woman say of her male partner "He makes me a better person."?Women don't even love men Excuse me??? Why would you ever think this?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub really need to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"BTW I think it's cute this got downvoted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Women on this sub really need to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"They mocked me, ridiculed me, gaslit, patronised and friendzoned me; they destroyed my mental health, crushed my self-esteem and pushed me to the brink of suicide. People have done all these things to me. I am not unique, this is pretty common for ND people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Women on this sub really need to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Why did you date such men? I am on the spectrum and have a hard time vetting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub really need to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Why lie? I was a smokeshow and men wanted to be seen with me. It explains why certain boyfriends treated me like an accessory instead of a person, why they did not seem to like my personality at all, yet did not want to lose me. They got to parade me around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Women on this sub really need to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Did they run over your cat or steal your car? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 05:10 PM |
| 6 | Women on this sub really need to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Why would you want to hate a group of people who did you no wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Women on this sub really need to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"This is surprisingly insightful. And yes, some men I dated absolutely dated me just to make other men jealous. It was all about rankings and nothing about love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 05:04 PM |
| – | Women on this sub really need to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Agreed on all points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 04:54 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHistorically speaking the 13th and the 15th are the days for the sidechick, because wifey gets the 14th. I never knew any of this, we just wait until the weekend when the restaurants are less crowded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 05:34 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen in India hold hands with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 05:32 PM |
| 6 | Doesn't being "on guard" with all men just drive away good men and leave only predators?Yup, when I met guys off of OLD I set up places and times where he was nowhere near my house and I made sure people knew where I was in case I vanished. You have to be safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Women punching too high in datingIt was not dark triad, it was teenagers being teenagers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Women punching too high in datingAre you ok? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Women punching too high in datingI am just talking about me and my own experience, not about attachment style | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 03:09 PM |
| – | It's totally justified for "nice guys" to feel a bit frustrated.Usually they aren't doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Women punching too high in datingBingo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 12:48 AM |
| – | Why do some women have an issue with men going overseas to find romance?Do they though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Women punching too high in datingWhen we are honest to a fault we are accused of gaslighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 06:12 PM |
| – | Why do some women have an issue with men going overseas to find romance?We don't actually care if you do this. Men en masse will never bother doing this either. What we find irritating is the "Western women are all whores" narrative you use to justify getting a Filipina wife or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 06:10 PM |
| 46 | What is the logic behind dating knowingly bad men?Childhood trauma and parental relationships have a huge impact on the mates we choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 05:20 PM |
| 34 | Women punching too high in datingEh, in my experience it's not about leagues or who is above the other person, it's about psychological issues and childhood experiences with distant parents. I simped HARD for my first boyfriend in high school even though everyone else thought he was a huge dork. He was not above me, but he broke my heart because I have issues with my avoidant dad and he was avoidant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 05:00 PM |
| 10 | Are women planning their lives backwards? Or is society just in an economic death spiral?They couldn’t give a fuck about that In reality all this crying is just about taking a swing at women—it’s about control. Spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 08:37 PM |
| 9 | Do you think the current dating problems contribute largely to the mental health crisis seen in young adults?When I was in high school there were constant talks about drinking and driving, sober graduation, teen pregnancy, drugs, you name it. It was assumed that high school teens were partying hard and driving into trees. Now? No one goes out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 05:40 PM |
| 5 | What is your idea of an action that is ABOVE the "bare minimum"?Once my boyfriend drove me all the way to a concert downtown that he was not even attending and waited until it was over to drive me back home after midnight. It was a lot of freeways. I will always remember he did that for me so I would not get an Uber. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 07:41 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGah, same here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 06:15 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI am trying to figure out why he is crying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 03:33 AM |
| 1 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"That rarely happens in western countries. This is not India where people accept loveless marriages, in most societies it would be shocking if a woman got married to a man she did not love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women.So you copy pasted someone else's rant from another subreddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 11:09 PM |
| 1 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"Women here admitted to act after the dual mating strategy Who? Who here said they did this? I certainly never did anything so stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 11:00 PM |
| 9 | Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women.Yeah it's his other account. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 08:37 PM |
| 1 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"The number of women who lead with claims of demisexuality and forbidding hookups that somehow still have a storied sexual past is nauseating. Why is it nauseating if you are not religious? Is sex a sin to you? No? Then why care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 08:33 PM |
| 3 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"The guys here act like all women are playing some AFBB con game. In reality people are just dating and forming relationships and looking for love like we have for decades now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 08:20 PM |
| 12 | What have you guys learned from this subreddit?This is what I learned as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Are most men "low quality"? If so, why?That's fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Are most men "low quality"? If so, why?Marilyn Monroe was the highest quality woman of her time, according to men back then. She had a HUGE n count. What men say they want on PPD is not reflective of most dudes. Even trad men lusted after Marilyn Monroe and wanted to marry her. What we can conclude is that men want a beautiful sexy woman who behaves in feminine ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Are most men "low quality"? If so, why?I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 05:04 PM |
| – | Women dress provocatively for male attentionI am curious how they want women to dress, for reals. Like she wears frumpy dumpy in public and comes home to whip it off, wearing only Little French Maid around the house? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 06:18 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI had this happen, and I let him down easy. Sometimes it's the pheromones, or they look too much like a close relative, or he reminds you of someone. You cannot force attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 05:39 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about the SMV flip?True. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 06:13 PM |
| 8 | What do you think about the SMV flip?I really do think its a scare tactic to convince women to get married young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 09:00 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI was raised with a workaholic dad and no work life balance. High achieving honor student who blew every one away with my glory. Then I broke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 08:38 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI wouldn't work at all if I had a billion dollars, I would be on a yacht with my family. She kept going on about working being a badge of honor. I am a lot like this, Protestant work ethic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 07:47 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathread::shrug:: Enjoy your next woman, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 07:32 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI am from a UMC background and I work blue collar jobs. Oh noes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 07:26 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadmost people from an UMC background with a professional career aren't going to want their wife working in electrical/construction trade Don't be a snob. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 07:22 PM |
| – | What does the "Stanley Cup" craze tell us about women as a whole?Fads are fads. Remember spinning rims? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 06:05 PM |
| 7 | What do you think about the SMV flip?She will cry a lot, there's that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 06:02 PM |
| 30 | What do you think about the SMV flip?I am 51 and there has been no SMV flip. It's a revenge fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 05:30 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOnly on the internet. IRL I know gobs of normal people and the only ones pushing purity culture are hard core Christians. But never forget that the Christian men all push for sex with their girlfriends. I agree that this is confusing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 08:31 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat's weirder is atheist guys expecting purity culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 08:18 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYup. I did that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 08:04 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadImagine being religious and knowing something is a sin and still pestering your girlfriend to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 08:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI am honestly flabbergasted at the expectations some dudes have. Do they really believe what they write? Normally I would have compassion for the downtrodden but they talk about "n-counts" of three being promiscuous and "for the streets" and beneath them. They wud be LUCKY to get that girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 07:54 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI should do this. Seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 07:51 PM |
| 6 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADHe keeps making new accounts to post the same five words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 07:35 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPJdepressivo [score hidden] 54 minutes ago I ain't gonna seriously date a non-virgin lmaooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 07:27 PM |
| 4 | Why don't we talk more about "female sexuality"? Where has it gone?For testosterone to peak? For what exactly? You mean rage and yelling and throwing things like men do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 07:25 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIts too much hassle, so I do it once a month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSome men on PPD seem determined to burn themselves to the ground. I am sympathetic to normal guys who struggle, but the unrealistic standards and expectations I see here? What they want is never going to work, and when we try to steer them clear we get downvoted. If she is a virgin in her mid twenties she is either not interested in sex at all for whatever reason, or she's super religious like me. I was a virgin until almost 30 and men HATED waiting. Even religious trads hate virgins who make th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:58 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow long? Marriage? What if she is asexual and never wants it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Why don't we talk more about "female sexuality"? Where has it gone?Is anger an emotion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:37 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEnjoy celibacy. Not because there are no virgins your age, but because this attitude will kill your relationship. What will happen is this: you guys go out, maybe become a couple. Maybe make out. She puts the brakes on and you get pissy. "Why you make me wait for the sex??" She explains she is not comfortable with it, virgin or no, who can say. Maybe she was molested. Whatever, none of your business. You get sulky and she feels bad. She asks her friends and they are alarmed at your attitude. She… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:36 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat is assuming a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:30 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust don't ask it. So rude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:29 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadModern men are literally planning on leaving the entire country to find a decent woman Weird, I imported my boyfriend from another country. (kidding, but he was an immigrant from Asia.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:28 PM |
| 8 | Committed relationship with a man is a net loss for most women?Where are you from? I would like to know as well. Women there are all alcoholic teenagers who Party Hard. And don't. plan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 06:21 PM |
| 8 | Why don't we talk more about "female sexuality"? Where has it gone?Women tend to be emotional creatures No more emotional than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 04:51 PM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?Do you work with the elderly? Do you see how they live? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 01:28 AM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?Exactly, you need a witness to your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 12:23 AM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?I don't care if you get married or not. I care that you isolate and live a life where no one knows you died. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 12:22 AM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?I would rather love someone who dies than never love anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 12:21 AM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?This is more common than people know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 12:21 AM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?Anyone who lives long enough will experience the loss of everyone you love. But for the men who have children and grandchildren and wives have greater odds of not dying alone. Since men live shorter lives than women and typically marry younger partners, the odds of the wife outliving him are high. Kids usually outlive parents. Old men need taking care of, trust me. I work in elder care and I can tell you flat out, if I did not cook their meals they just eat cookies and drink coffee. Who will see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 12:19 AM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?You can do that without marrying lmao. I never married. I am not alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 12:13 AM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?And it seems men are just more prone to isolation in general for whatever reason. All the more reason to fight it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 12:12 AM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 12:11 AM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?I am 51 and I have a lot of friends from a bohemian life who are now dying. We just learned recently of another one, dead from diabetes. At least he had his father. Tiring to see so much preventable depression and death. To see red pill advocate for the bachelor life as if that is some Valhalla escape is enough to post my warnings here for the young men- DON'T DO THIS. Gay or straight, find someone to love you. Hold onto friends. Call your siblings. You are not made for solitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 10:01 PM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?Regardless of women's desires or a female agenda, it is in men's best interest not to live alone. You could be gay, or live with family or close friends. No women required, just don't isolate. The problem is years turn into decades and you lose friends to every reason and before you realize it, there is no one on earth who cares if you live or die. Don't let that happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 09:49 PM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?If single men get regular check ups, eat right and exercise that gap would surely close. But humans are social animals and we need close loving relationships to thrive. It does not have to be romantic, you could have a brother who lives with you. Just don't live in a shack by yourself like the Unabomber. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 09:46 PM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?No one can tell you what to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 09:41 PM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?2015 When he died, who was gathered around his bed in the hospital crying over his swollen hands and feet as his heart failed? We were, his few friends left. After he died, no family claimed the body. The hospital started nagging his roommates to pay to pick up the corpse or they would mass cremate and throw him in a paupers grave. He had nothing but three friends in all the world. He was 61. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 09:32 PM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?You seem really young, so take it from an older gal- men don't do well alone. If they do not have roommates or family looking after them, they die young of preventable diseases. Or they drink themselves to death. EDIT to add- I work with the elderly and I see how the end game is. In your twenties you still have friends. Wait until you are older and see how lonely people get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 09:28 PM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?This is the correct answer. I know 3 or 4 bachelor men who died young of cancer or something else that they ignored and had they been nagged into the doctors office they would still be alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 09:22 PM |
| 0 | Your personality is mostly determined by factors outside your control and changing it fundamentally is EXTREMELY difficult, contrary to what other people might be espousingI wish I could quit my job to devote all my time at the pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 01:15 AM |
| 9 | Your personality is mostly determined by factors outside your control and changing it fundamentally is EXTREMELY difficult, contrary to what other people might be espousingSo I should hit on incels? What do you want done about this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 01:13 AM |
| – | Why do older women not understand that most guys who end up with younger women are just playing the odds?Spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Population collapse and datingLol Really? You are laughing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Population collapse and datingDamn straight it will. We are tough to eradicate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Population collapse and datingWell shit, I was hoping we had already topped off the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Population collapse and datingWhen did she say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Society is finished, terminal stageWrong on all counts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Society is finished, terminal stageWith way shorter lifespans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 11:17 PM |
| – | Being girlfriend zoned is worse than being sex zonedHe wants revenge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 11:12 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’Which is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Do people really want marriage or just the photo ops of marriage?If you are religious, you want marriage to have sex and not fornicate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Why are some women into 'bad boys'You seem like a mean person, so if women prefer bad boys who are abusive -- you should have great success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:19 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on settling? How many people do you think settle? Do you have an experience settling or being settled for?Believe it or not, you can still be in love with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 04:09 AM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on settling? How many people do you think settle? Do you have an experience settling or being settled for?I have been with my SO for 7 years and we are very much in love. Why else would I stick around? We are talking marriage and buying a house. I would never do this if I were not crazy for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 04:02 AM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on settling? How many people do you think settle? Do you have an experience settling or being settled for?Wrong . So very wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 03:52 AM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on settling? How many people do you think settle? Do you have an experience settling or being settled for?Yes. I'm 51 and I only want to be in love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 07:59 PM |
| 8 | Do you believe in the idea of "just be her first?"Correct. The boyfriends and crushes are merely symptoms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 10:21 PM |
| 7 | Artificial womb in the next decadesno microchirmerism, proven to exist at university of Boston in 2023. Male dna in her brain from her earlier fuckfest infused into the kid she gives birth to That micro Chimerism is not from fuckfests. It's from male fetuses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Artificial womb in the next decadesLOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 06:38 PM |
| – | The Past Does Matter.Go ahead, shame and bully everyone. See how far that gets you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 11:34 PM |
| – | The Past Does Matter.Exactly this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 07:54 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt was not that great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 05:27 AM |
| 3 | "You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse."Grifters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 04:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you explain the phenomenon of ‘high quality’ falling for absolute dregs?Low self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 04:12 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDoes anyone know what happened to Lewis Cross who used to post here in all caps and hated his wife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 09:12 PM |
| 4 | "You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse."Yeah that is very early menopause | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 08:57 PM |
| 5 | "You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse."I never took anything for perimenopause and every month I suffered a day or two of deep depression. Then it went away. Women are designed like this by nature and has nothing to do with marriage or children. Guys on PPD skew very young and inexperienced so they think women are just lah de dah happy go lucky. We're not. Hormones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 06:47 PM |
| 29 | "You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse."Having been on this sub for 7 years, you are correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Falling fertility rates seem to be a problem of falling marriage rates, which in turn seem to be due to lessening of the gap between male and female privilege. Hence it might be impossible to raise fertility rates unless egalitarianism is challenged.No lies detected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Falling fertility rates seem to be a problem of falling marriage rates, which in turn seem to be due to lessening of the gap between male and female privilege. Hence it might be impossible to raise fertility rates unless egalitarianism is challenged.At some point we need to start taxing the childless at a much higher rate. This will lead to the weirdest consequences ever. Adopting and fostering kids you do not want just to avoid that tax. More unwanted kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 06:27 PM |
| 4 | How true is the Madonna Whore complex for guys?Yup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:25 PM |
| 6 | How can men prevent sexless, transactional or “bait & switch” marriages or long term relationships?Marry a dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:44 PM |
| 5 | "You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse."Pre-sexual revolution was a better deal for them. Because of whorehouses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Would you leave a man you love if he refused to marry you?And if I conclude that he has a low opinion of me...I would leave. By leaving I don't only free myself to find a man who loves me, I free him to find a woman he actually loves. And that's the right thing to do. To leave. As soon as possible. For both our sakes. This is wise and I agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:07 AM |
| -3 | In the current year, do you think men should pay for dates? Why or why not?Gay people date too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Work on yourself in your 20s, reap the rewards in your 30sSo at 30 I should be a high value male Are you hot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 06:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe video of his arrest was all over the internet and made him look like a disheveled middle aged man living in squalor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:47 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe was out on bail, since Ukraine is a nice country that does not execute people for showing up. But he tried to skip bail by leaving Ukraine and they caught him again, and he died of pneumonia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:41 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI just learned that Coach Red Pill died in a Ukrainian prison recently and I am conflicted. It's sad when someone passes, but he posted some of the worst videos on YouTube and he doxed journalists in the Russian war. I also found his wife's divorce allegations disturbing. Just sad how much he wasted his entire life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:38 PM |
| 0 | The fact that the rest of Reddit thinks PPD is “toxic” shows how messed up things are rnWell said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 02:48 AM |
| 3 | What's the difference, in principle and in morals, between pump-and-dump and serial monogamy?who ultimately end up strangers and never progressing in life. Why aren't they progressing in life just because of a relationship that ended? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 01:50 AM |
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