MsJenX Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	She’s telling you about her problems with another guy? Bro, you’re already in the friendzone. I disagree. I know some women who meet their cheat partners, they become close when he becomes a sort of shoulder for her and listens to her current relationship issues. In fact, I think it’s a red flag when both men and women open up to a person of the opposite sex about their current relationship issues.	/r/seduction	21/10/25 07:03 AM
2	Why do dating coaches advise against approaching in the gym? Thank you!	/r/seduction	13/10/25 05:39 AM
1	Why do dating coaches advise against approaching in the gym? Yes, but you also said that isn’t a valid reason since it can apply to a daytime venue or club, and Im saying that those locations are different since we are not in compromising positions. While we may not always want to be bother there, it’s a little different. In the street or club we can turn down a man and never have to see him again. But at the gym we may see him again. It will be uncomfortable doing squats with our butts up in the air, or whatever other awkward position because we don’t wa…	/r/seduction	13/10/25 02:21 AM
1	Why do dating coaches advise against approaching in the gym? You are micro focusing on sentence instead of looking at the big picture which I tried to unsuccessfully convey. Yes, you are right, but in a daytime venue we are not bending down in tight outfits making odd sounds that can be easily sexualized when that’s not the message we women are sending out. But if that’s hard to understand why, of all places, the gym is not a place women generally don’t want to be approached because I somehow am doing a bad job at explaining it in a way you can understand…	/r/seduction	13/10/25 02:02 AM
3	Why do dating coaches advise against approaching in the gym? Here’s kind of involved take. So I know that seduction, dating, love, and relationships includes sex and dating someone that turns you on but for some women they don’t want to be seen as sex objects. So at the gym we are wearing tight clothing, we are bending and moving awkwardly, and sometimes breathing hard or making grunts or other weird noises. The gym is where we go with a goal in mind and it’s not sex, generally. So if a guy approaches us to ask us out some women may not appreciate being s…	/r/seduction	13/10/25 12:39 AM
1	How to date without drinking You can go to a coffee shop instead.	/r/seduction	01/10/25 05:41 AM
3	How much do you think weight and fitness plays a role in seduction? A high percentage. Ive been on both sides of the spectrum and it’s like night and day when choosing who I date and who wants to date me and the ease in getting my pick.	/r/seduction	27/09/25 04:53 PM
1	Seduction/Sex novels that helps you understand the mind of women? Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.	/r/seduction	27/09/25 03:56 AM
1	How do you guys start conversations at the gym with pretty women? Don’t ! A lot of women find it creepy when men try talking to them at the gym. Sure maybe one or two are ok with it. Maybe your buddy met a girl there, but just because Joe Blow did doesn’t mean it’s generally accepted. Most women are there to work out. We are wearing tight clothing, we don’t want to be lusted over when all we want to do is work out.	/r/seduction	24/09/25 05:35 AM
5	What's with girls telling me they're busy? They are not into you if they say they are busy but don’t try to schedule a different day. They will continue to be busy a different day. Girls that are into you CAN be busy but will look at their calendars and offer a different day when they are available.	/r/seduction	09/09/25 12:15 AM
1	How do I pull women that are older than me? Just talk to them. Older women are a lot more receptive to chatting with younger men because, also younger men are still physically stronger, they are less intimidating. If an older woman doesn’t want to chat it’s no big deal. But you’ll find they are more mature, cerebral, logical than younger ones.	/r/seduction	18/08/25 06:00 AM
28	Bros, give me some proven tips for fun ways to approach group of girls in bars sitting on a table Pick the least attractive and send her a drink	/r/seduction	04/08/25 09:46 PM
0	Do women really like men who are players, or have opinions? I think there may be more to the answer than a simple yes. While I think there are definitely girls that somehow like guys that are hard to get, the behaviour may stem from her upbringing. Im no psychologist. I just play one in my head. So it she grew up in an unstable household she may chase relationships that stimulate that part of her brain. A simple example is if she witnessed abuse, she is more likely to seek and stay in physically abusive relationship because that’s her baseline and everyt…	/r/seduction	16/07/25 05:20 AM
1	I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuing Don’t be sorry, I need to hear this.	/r/seduction	06/09/23 12:00 AM
20	I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuing This is me now. There’s a guy I’m totally interested in, but he’s confusing me. He generally replies to my text, but when I invite him to join me to, for example, go kayaking he always says no. We’ve hung out a few times but we never call it a date. I’ve taken advice from Reddit men to not hint around and be forward with my feelings and I have. We finally made plans to go out and he called it a date, but on the day of he canceled due to work according to him. I told him I was sad and had been lo…	/r/seduction	11/08/23 11:01 PM
3	Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about. Sugar daddy’s aren’t photo friendly.	/r/seduction	05/08/22 03:35 AM
17	If a date with a girl is not for another week, should I text to keep attraction? Sure, but nothing that sounds desperate like “I’m looking forward to Saturday”. Avoid saying anything that sounds needy.	/r/seduction	10/07/22 09:02 AM
3	any advice on how to better my chances with white women? Offer them pumpkin spice lattes in the fall	/r/seduction	07/07/22 10:59 AM
1	When a lady is bending over in front of you, is she giving a sign or am I overthinking? It’s unlikely a girl at the gym who is bending down is giving anyone a sign. Most women to there to work out and don’t want to be bothered. The safe thing is to assume that women at the gym are not there to flirt but rather to work out. Don’t pick-up women at the gym, you’re likely to come off as creepy if it turns out you read “the signs” incorrectly in a gym setting.	/r/seduction	07/05/22 02:34 PM
28	Why do girls come back to my place but leave instantly? Do you have bad breath? Did you shower before they got there? Is this the first time you met them? Is this a 3rd date? What’s your place like (clean/neat/smells good)	/r/seduction	21/04/22 05:23 AM
2	Is it a bad idea to give women an "easy out" if they have an excuse for not going on a date? One time I went out with a guy and by the end of the date I knew we were not compatible. He asked if I wanted to see him again. I decided to be honest rather than give false hope and I said no. It was kind but clear. I guess he wasn’t expecting that because he looked at me as if I just punched him. He starred in shock, then he made a fists. I began walking away and he followed. We were at a mall so I quickly walked into a busy store to make sure and have witnesses in case something happened to m…	/r/seduction	16/04/22 05:01 AM
5	If you have sex with a girl but don’t orgasm did you still lose your virginity? Grandma just became a virgin	/r/seduction	24/01/22 08:16 AM
1	What practical techniques can be used to pull a girl who has a big attitude/ego?? Treat them as friends and your your attention to the less attractive friend.	/r/seduction	20/12/21 05:52 PM
5	For guys what piece of advice has always worked with you? It was. It was funny.	/r/seduction	04/09/21 08:34 PM
4	I understand the whole "don't put pussy on a pedestal" idea, but, how do you actually put that idea into action? There’s lots of examples, but before I try to elaborate I have to ask, do you think you put women on a pedestal? Is that why you would like examples of how not to do it?	/r/seduction	08/04/20 08:55 PM
7	I understand the whole "don't put pussy on a pedestal" idea, but, how do you actually put that idea into action? Treat her like you would treat your sister.	/r/seduction	08/04/20 08:36 PM