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Not arranged but expected to ensure we did not "pollute ourselves and our german Families with unsavory influences"
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/19 07:16 PM
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the leader of the business has called a meeting at a ridiculous time Some people do not seem to have a life of their own - or are unable to make schedules work.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/19 03:49 PM
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He is not only a skilled liar as it seems - but we were also basically raised by our parents to marry one day. They saw a match that was full of advantages and would be good to show off to fellow patriotic Friends and Family.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/19 03:46 PM
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In three days. But I will probably go over it - I am all firm and closed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/19 12:05 PM
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He has to show me that he can change first!!! When I have healed enough we might look at pre - A. Not one moment before!!!
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/19 09:27 AM
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You are training the underlying muscles, very near your upper core, to become stronger and more active.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 09:05 AM
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You can have a garden in the city too, or join a rent- a - plot club. (In germany called schrebergarten)
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 08:33 AM
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In regards to saggy breasts, go to sleep without bra, and try to keep it off at home as well.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 08:29 AM
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any Reason would only be an excuse, he cheated out of selfishness and disrespect for me!!!
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 08:27 AM
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not only will your husband feel partly responsible (and likely come to resent you Why should he care? MY well being should be paramount in his thoughts. If he does not burn all bridges and keeps me as his top priority he does not deserve the amazing woman I am!!!
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 08:26 AM
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I love hairsticks as I wear my hair up most of the time. I have some really dramatic pieces.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 10:21 AM
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Please tell that to my Husband ;)
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/19 09:41 AM
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Toast Hawaii with good whole-grain bread, a big bowl of salad with cucumbers in it and a big bowl of fruit - quark. I also make a whole batch of fruit juice- ice for the men to enjoy later on as well.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 11:48 AM
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I'm sure if you try to, you will not fail to see the positive things and caring things your husband is still doing I think you are unwilling to consider the possibility that my DH is less then the best husband I could ask for. I have written down gratitude lists for close to 3 years now, but recently I came up with nothing in regards to him, that goes beyond working for our household and its upkeep.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 11:40 AM
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BBQ does not work for them. The evenings are used to renovate as the midday temperatures are dangerous. DH also does not enjoyx grilling as it would involve preparing. Any sort of food preparation/cooking is considered unmanly lately. I borrowed my MIL´s camping stove and did a dish DH loves at around 2:00. I am now night - active, have been for the last 3 days.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 11:27 AM
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I was raised to consider mind over mood in many things. My Parents are some of the most rational people I know. Control over mind body and heart was expected. At all times. I am also very in tune with my body, it was hard learning process but I am so much more attuned to the wonder that is the female body and its rythm. Body is sending me signals to slow down, keep cool and care for myself. Not respecting him is a serious blow to the relationship. Not loving me is as well. I do not disrespect hi…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 11:22 AM
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I am still an adult woman with a healthy and capable brain. Worthy of being treated decently and with respect. I feel surprisingly good with the pregnancy, most likely because I have a very strong will to keep myself in check and heed my bodys signals. You are completely right, I should focus on ensuring I am healthy and well.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 02:45 PM
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I will do that!
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 01:59 PM
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I have no idea.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 11:49 AM
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During Summer I always put the whole bedding (pillow and blackets) out into the sun to fresh it up. When the berries are ripe I pick some for breakfast when I take my evening walk.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/19 09:37 AM
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I remember when I had a female coworker back when I was working as a secretary. That woman was super beautiful and attractive. But she just did not accomplish much. she was always tired, asked male coworkers for "help" and flirted while we others gave our best. Luckily she was fired after beginning an affair with our boss and exposing it at a conference.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/19 10:45 AM
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Perspective flip, I noticed time and time again that beautiful, feminine women turned into petty cows when they feel like their territory and influence is diminished by women who are professionell, serious and eager to give 200% to be taken seriously by male coworkers. They know they often come across as sneaky, sometimes slightly too "open hearted" and manipulative. I think you need to disengage and become more approachable.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/19 10:40 AM
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I never used the social media platforms very much, only to stay in contact with old schoolmates and for staying current at work. I would ask him to put the phone down at mealtime and for two hours before you want to sleep. Get busy, pamper yourself, take up an evening- hobby. Show him that you enjoy the world. He might want to join.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/19 01:33 PM
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I was alpha widowed a little over two years ago. Bullshit, you choose to be alpha widowed, or to be more precise, you lack the willpower to resist it! Become awesome and develop a more mature, feminine and easy to love and commit to persona.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/19 12:16 PM
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Why do we assume that one will "fall into the alpha widow trap" when it is a matter of willpower and a concious decision to not be one. Are you willing to not be that woman or are you purely led by instinct?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/19 12:12 PM
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She showed loyalty and commitment to her husband.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 12:11 PM
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it hurts him they are like this Has he told them that? This is all after a fight with their mom about her disrespecting her son to her friends, and freaking out at me for telling her I didn’t appreciate it. Depending on how you worded it and how combative this woman is it might have put fuel into the fire. But that aside, has your Husband shown his appreciation for you fighting for him and his good name?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 12:10 PM
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Our home is coming along nicely. The roof is in a pretty bad condition and we are employing some carpenters now. The state has the main house as a listed building and we try to remain as true as possible with the repair. We profit from some subsidizing and a fond for people taking on such a building. LO appears to be healthy and active. My bladder is already sore from doubling as a hopping pad.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/19 06:24 PM
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IO think when he is already too rowdy or worse violent he does not need pampering and further encouragement but swift discipline. Ideally he is able to power himself out with a hobby/sport and able to use his activity level and power in a measured way.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 04:19 PM
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If he has a hobby that can act as an outlet that would be good. Running, martial arts etc. Something that exhausts his power but also challenges his mind. He most likely needs focus and awareness of his power. He will need strict and nonnegotiable boundaries in order to let your daughter bloom in her own way. She is younger, weaker and most likely not as active and physical. She needs to feel safe and secure in her home - just as much as your son.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 04:16 PM
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I am currently discussing the layout of our new home with DH. We have a few niches that just beg to be filled with storage solutions. (DH is currently proud owner of 27 Folders filled with work stuff and I am at my 4th with my own Paperwork) Smart use of space and storage is key. I suggested an under - sink drawer with compartements for small stuff and while DH was a bit skeptical he agreed when his mother showed him the one in their home;)
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 06:45 PM
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No topic of Science is unfeminine - it is what you make of it that matters!
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 06:38 PM
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Shame is never productive! Change yourself and become amazing instead! STEM is not only for men! Yes, Men do not care if you studied Law, Education or Electronical engineering - but it doesx show you are smart and knowledgable in general.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 06:37 PM
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He displays poor boundaries and is proud of the fact that it gets a rise out of you! Big Red Flag! Apologises immediately and lists all the things he’s done wrong and how sorry he is that he’s done them. Words are cheap. Set your expectations and follow through.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/19 01:36 PM
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scarves are found plenty in $Stores.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/19 01:31 PM
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It was too late - his offer got accepted immediately. I did make my displeasure known beforehand but he was not listening to reason. Now I need to hatch a plan that lets me keep my head on.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/19 01:29 PM
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I looked it up on google drive, the new commute would be 45 Minutes each tour so 90minutes each day. That is alright as the house is lying in a rural area. Our finances are solid and the house is a forever home. Edit: Now we wait for the agent to tell us if DH got the house or not. I tried to reason with DH but ultimatively decided to be a respectful and encouraging wife.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 07:09 PM
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I think that you should consider doing a lot of work on your personality that is obviously flawed. Some good articles to follow up on: https://lifelabs.psychologies.co.uk/users/3881-maxine-harley/posts/17933-how-to-heal-and-re-parent-your-inner-child https://www.theodysseyonline.com/path-of-self-discovery-series-fortes-flaws https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/shift-mind/201704/detoxing-your-mind
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 05:44 PM
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Suspecting that foreign DNA is contaminating her uterus? Really? To me that signifies being uneducated and easily influenced. That might also contribute to the CCing.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 05:29 PM
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You sound kind of uneducated and easily influenced. That would be a good starting point to work on a better you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 11:17 AM
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Today is Tomato soup. Might sound lame but I love it and DH will enjoy the sausages too. For dessert we will have a Apple cobbler.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 01:29 PM
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how much are you worth? Be realistic about both SMV and RMV. You might be better off with someone better.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 01:26 PM
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Housing Prices are going through the roof here. Most People rent but still. Rent might even eat up 50 -60% of the whole income.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 03:25 PM
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Why would it be deceptive? People change. Sometimes even for better.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 01:08 PM
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I will not reas a Book wich is deeply rooted in christianity. I am a heathen. As is my Husband.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 10:43 AM
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Make a list of the men who cheat, are abusive, alcoholics. So women can inform themselves Wives whos men deserted them should be called heroes The ones who falsely avccuse someone should be in jail for at least a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 10:03 AM
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Well, to me, yes. I left him after a year. Such aman is only a butden, and adds no value.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 11:26 PM
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How often have I seen men flip script. Or he started on the path of alcohol or betting. Those things are hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 10:59 AM
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Do not expect men not to flip script. They do it too, but women are more willing to put up with it. Do not be the one.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/16 10:39 AM
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But this is not always wrong. Men are not infailable. Thinking one is without fault leads to arrogance. Men should be thankfull for a wife that is not only vagina, maid and cook but also partner who strives to help them advance. After all that is adding value. And , if helpful advise is seen as emasculation then we really need to rethink masculinity and tolerance level. Accepting help is something young boys need to be taught early on. After all, no one is born as master. To me , aman that feels…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/16 10:29 AM
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Does your partner know you have adhd? Cause I think you are doing great. People with adhd are unfortunately more prone to phases of no energy and will. I believethat it is indeed a very good think for a woan to be on top of the finances. Can you pinpoint what exactly are things you struggle with? I also wonder if you feel like he is not being appreciative of your efforts. After all now it is not only ecpexted but also routine. No reason for him to see the value you add to his life.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/16 05:08 PM
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Ok. But women are the ones giving up their jobs. At least for three years. Some employees are ok with that, others are not even hiring mothers anymore. She loses qualification. And in the end her pension. She will not be able to bounce baxk. She did the ultimate sacrifice. For her children and the father. She deserves compensation. I get the kindergeld as my loan. About 140 euros monthly. At least until the child turns 10. It goes straight to my account. It will build up over time and hopefully …
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/16 10:39 AM
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She gave up everything. She raised his children. She deserves the wage she earned. And I do not trust statistics. We do not know the markers for them. And many a divorce might be initiated by women because they are being cheated on, get no sex, ate being abused or so on. Furthermore, women are more likely to initiate because men do not. The breakup might have been amiciable but she is the one doing the deed. Also I find it outragous how everyone here seems to see women at fault for everything. W…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 09:30 PM
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Ok, I try again. Women sacrifice so much by having her partners children that in my opinion they deserve repayment. She might have spend years raising his children. Then something goes wrong and she is supposed to get nothing? She will never get the working years back. She deserves what she earned, her wage for those years. Custody shouuld be fityfifty by default. But thats another matter.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 09:11 PM
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Think of it like it is the repaiment for her giving up her rent or pension. The repaiment for raising his children!
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 08:33 PM
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Men always complain about alimony for children. But men do not normaly have to give up working for years. Women are so much more likely to fall into the trap of becoming poor seniors. So child support should be called child raising wage. It is the wage for us raising their children. We sacrifice our rent, our pension or something like this for our men. This kind of opinion might not be shared here but I was raised to believe in this system.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 05:46 PM
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I do not agree with the statement we women are required to make men happy. It should go both ways.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 05:30 PM
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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/science-news/11357662/Fathers-in-delivery-room-could-make-pain-of-childbirth-worse-study-suggests.html Not the original article from the german magazine but ok.
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 05:47 PM
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If I can find it again. I saw it by chance in the journal Erziehungskunst. It is an anthroposophy journal wich my MIL reads.
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 05:38 PM
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Men should only be allowed in the delivery room if the woman wants it. Even personnell. Their testosterone makes giving birth harder. That is scientifically proven.
/r/RedPillWives16/11/16 10:34 AM
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He wants it often. But I noticed he is way more horny during waxing moon. (No, normally I am not into esoteric` s but my menstruation calendar has the moon times on it) Does anyone else notice that libido is time sensitive? My Partners Libido spikes in the afternoon. I try to be accommodating. Unfortunately with a little one and a baby on the way it is hard to. I only say no if I can also say: No, but later in the day for sure. Of course, when I feel ill, have cramps, or just do not want to (I v…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 12:21 PM
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She only needs assistance while living in a male dominated realm. Women are not half, they are whole. Able of existing out there just fine. Maybe a male centered world cannot appreciate the feelings of women. But that does not make them faulty. We might not yet know what these , sometimes extreme emotions are good for - but they are good. That is one point where I do not agree with the red pill. Because to me Women are just as good, worthy and equal as men. In their own way.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 11:27 AM
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