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| 14 | LVM blocked by ex decides to plaster self-indulgent hoover letter all over her new neighbourhood (French)This is fucking scary. He states he doesn’t care about consequences to get to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 10:47 PM |
| 58 | First datesI am not a tall woman. Or particularly strong. And I live in Canada so no mace allowed. most women are where I live aren’t worried a man is going to pull out a gun or anything since you can’t carry legally. But being overpowered is still a huge fear. 1) My BFF and I are always location sharing and have been for 10 years. She’s married and I’m engaged and we have always kept it on. We always kept each other in the loop. Heck we keep it on now in case because being a woman is scary shit. 2) Back w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 11:56 PM |
| 2 | PSA!!!!!The pile of dog blood clotting powder I pressed into my helped slow the bleeding so yay? Although apparently it’s a lot of aluminium for a tiny person to take in one sitting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:08 PM |
| 14 | What do you tell guys if they ask if you’re still dating other people?You’re welcome to it. It took me years to gain the confidence. I will tell you. Deliver it with the confidence you deserve to have, it’s they’re a PUA or a LVM and it shut them up or ends the bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:42 AM |
| 7 | Should I (23f) end a 2 month situationship with (24M) or attempt to DTR?This is the only answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:47 AM |
| 61 | What do you tell guys if they ask if you’re still dating other people?I see that you haven’t quite seen the answer you’re looking for. Did he specifically ask? Why? What are his intentions.? Why is he putting you on the spot with what your doing with your vagina? That’s what he’s asking no? Is he asking because he wants to know if you have other options? Is he the 1/1000 that is not doing the same as every other male? You can be honest, “I’m currently looking for X” but don’t be on the defensive. If it was me. And I was still dating, I would just look at him at be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:46 AM |
| 93 | Process Changes to the Sub, Flair, and other AnnouncementsThis is currently the last great female dynasty. Long may she reign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:29 AM |
| 4 | Should I have said something more? Idk...honestly I didn’t know what to say more. If you were in this situation, would you have asked something more to keep the convo? Or wait for him to say something longer? I might be too sensitive if I think he is putting a low effort?Let him come up with something. Omg. I am bored so quickly. I barely got to the end of you’re own chat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:22 AM |
| 3 | 👸🏻❤Female friendships. Good ones. My two best friends saved me. One by just being there at my worst at never leaving me. I don’t mean I was mean. I was a shell, destroyed. No personality or soul. When my ex left me at the altar at I lost my house and at the time I thought my future, she stayed steady. She’s hang out in my new shitty basement apartment. Sometimes for hours and in silence for hours. Eventually she coaxed me out. An hour. Two hours. A party we’d leave early. A dinner I would fake the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:59 AM |
| 33 | PSA!!!!!A lifetime ago I was living with a man. I was prepping dinner listening to music and not paying attention I guess. I cleaned sliced a good part of my palm off with a mandolin. Like an inch of my skin was flapping. And blood was fucking spurting. Blood was pouring. Gushing. Literally pouring everywhere. I was calling my ex by Bluetooth screaming. Hand in sink. And a towel pressed against it. No idea what to do. He said he was in a business meeting and to stop calling. He wouldn’t even listen to m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:44 AM |
| 14 | In Memoriam 💔😢Lady Grimes, you know all he wanted was to know you are there. and that after. You live a life of glory. Take your time. Grieve that love. And make sure you live your life that would glorify everything he and your wanted for you. I’m here sister. Life a beautiful life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 11:55 PM |
| 34 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣I wish I could say he got better. He spent years bitching about child support (250 a month!) and that he couldn’t save and buy a house and I was stealing and that’s why I owned my own home later in life. Not the 4 years I spent in university. Or the great job I landed. No. It was his 250/m I was “stealing”. He eventually found someone to marry him. It ducks because I actually like her. I now filter all my messages through her instead of ever talking to him. In another life, we would be friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:21 AM |
| 65 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?Can women just not have ONE FUCKING SPACE seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:33 PM |
| 143 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣You’re life will grow so much. I left my sons father at 16-18 months (can remember exactly). My doctor put me on meds thinking I might have had a delayed post partum disorder... No. I was struggling. My ex was fired not once but twice. I had to go back to work at 10 months because I was the only one who could hold a fucking job. Then I would come home and the house was a mess. We would get fruit flies. The laundry wasn’t done. My son was permanent just in a diaper. No dinner. It went on for mont… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:27 PM |
| 57 | Boyfriend suggests a prenup to “protect” his house, OP drafts her own prenup that also protects her assets and investments. BF doesn’t like a prenup that doesn’t solely favor him and they break up.My fiancé didn’t want a prenup. He actually makes more. Has zero debt, no student debt or hidden debt (i see all the bills and I have still have quite a bit to go on mine). But I wanted to make sure at the end of the day we laid it open. I have a pretty big student loan. I didn’t want him to be responsible for my choices. Because I also don’t want him to always be included in my choices later. What happened is we talked about our stupid dreams. He wanted a large 150k sailboat. I wanted to have a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:21 AM |
| 37 | Instead of holding rapists/harassers accountable, he mocks women for trying to protect themselves. A true POSDon’t talk to a woman walking alone. All you fucking men leave her alone. What’s so hard to process? I don’t care if it’s 3pm broad daylight is a busy street. That woman has looked behind herself 2-3 times a minute because she’s always on alert. It’s all about their fucking ego. They don’t give a shit about us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:55 AM |
| 94 | Instead of holding rapists/harassers accountable, he mocks women for trying to protect themselves. A true POS100% that guy is a guy that is, or has taken a women without consent. I used to walk home from the bars every weekend. I lived 1km from downtown. In a small city in Canada with the lowest crime rate in the country. After a year on this sub. I take a cab. Not Uber. Every time I can’t drive myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:52 AM |
| 13 | Some of them really think that shits cute for their age...I was about to say. From toddler age he had to clean up after himself. When we was done with a toy it went away before the next was brought out. When my son was 4-5 he was helping load the dishwasher and help doing his own laundry. As time grew so did my expectations. At 13, he’s expected to clean the kitchen daily after dinner, his own laundry. Feed the cats and do their cats litter boxes. Take out the garbage. Obviously manage his own bedroom. He’s clean, he knows how to cook basic meals. I us… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 08:35 PM |
| 2 | never ceases to amaze what men will demandI had all the same rules as you. We ended up hyphenating my sons name, name last name first. He’s going into high school this Sept and has all but dropped his dads last name. And it’s not even malicious. My last name is just better. Looks better and sounds nicer to the ear. For myself, I have spent decades building myself into the woman I am. I don’t want to be erased. My hubby supports my decision on that and to be honest, he never brought it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 11:40 AM |
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