| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 51 | Looking for book/music/podcast recommendations on becoming a more surface-level-only person | MINDSET SHIFT | MsVioletCline | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:24 AM |
| 46 | Should I remind NVX about how much cash I sent him | DISCUSSION | MsVioletCline | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 07:24 AM |
| 9 | Hurt people hurt people. Stop the cycle or sink the scrote? | SEEKING ADVICE | MsVioletCline | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:46 AM |
| 1 | My nightly prayer. | MOOD FOR LIFE | MsVioletCline | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Happy Holidays, ladies. | MINDSET SHIFT | MsVioletCline | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Best “rule” I’ve learned here: Don’t Paragraph. Ever. | MINDSET SHIFT | MsVioletCline | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:56 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Imagine carrying this losers baby, and he has the audacity to number the toilet paper. 🤦🏻♀️Aw, I’m sorry you have to deal with that inside your own family. I sometimes reply to those snide little comments with “ANY WOMAN can get married if that’s the only goal.” And it’s so true, anyone can lower their standards enough and just stay with a loser or abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 11:43 AM |
| 16 | Imagine carrying this losers baby, and he has the audacity to number the toilet paper. 🤦🏻♀️I absolutely agree. These women who put up with trash like this and then want to look down on other women for being “alone”. Keep your shitty relationship to yourself or do something about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 11:59 PM |
| 19 | I always faked my orgasmsI didn’t even know women could cum until I’d been having sex for a couple years. Then didn’t actually discover the real thing until 26 or so. By myself. Almost every man I’ve been with has been very arrogant like all his girls cum so why don’t I. It doesn’t usually go well when I say, nope, at least half of them were faking it at least half the time. You’ll never convince me otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:44 PM |
| 17 | Pickme BRANDS herself with degrading tattoo ahead of marriage to LVM.Yep. And she completely ignored a designer she had hired because she was busy talking to her hockey player long distance boyfriend, and then the design wasn’t what she wanted and it delayed the open house and she got in trouble. I don’t know much about him either except that there was an incident involving a gun that happened right before his ex filed for divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 07:50 PM |
| 42 | Pickme BRANDS herself with degrading tattoo ahead of marriage to LVM.Anyone who has watched a couple episodes of the show can see that Heather defines herself by her relationship status. It’s the only thing she can talk about besides being vegan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 07:29 PM |
| 10 | All the best for 2021!I have declared that all the emotional leeches are not coming into my 2021! Happy New Year! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:20 PM |
| 15 | Don’t give away your love too easily.Honestly can’t see myself ever giving of myself again. The heartbreaks get harder to bounce back from instead of easier. I prefer to live in my own peaceful space both mentally and physically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:49 PM |
| 6 | Being bad at giving thoughtful gifts is a red flag. Stay away from any man like this. The comments are full of women buying their own presents because their partner doesn’t get them anything at all or gets them something they don’t want. 💀If her love language is gifts, she’s with the wrong man. I refuse to feel like a bitch for expecting thoughtful gifts from a man who claims to love me. Then men who were terrible at picking gifts were selfish in other areas as well. It’s a bad personality trait as far as I’m concerned | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 01:29 AM |
| 57 | Dating a gamer is never the move.Says no one who has ever dated a gamer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:25 PM |
| 3 | If you could go back and give your 23-year old self dating advice, what would it be ?Oooh. I love this don’t ask questions mantra. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:56 AM |
| 65 | If you could go back to your early 30s self, what dating advice would you give to yourself?The same advice I’d give 20-something Y/O me: The men don’t get better and even the ones you think are good guys will try to break you. Focus on yourself, little Ms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:31 AM |
| 43 | How do you get over the shame of having fallen for a LVM?I don’t have any real advice, just wanted to tell you that I absolutely relate. I’ve probably forgiven the men more than I’ve forgiven myself. I think the biggest thing that has helped me is just not talking about him anymore. (Any of them). So when I meet new people, no matter what happens, I don’t refer in any way to my past situationships. I figure the less people walking this planet who know how far I fell, the better. But if I could find a way to exact real revenge without making myself loo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:45 AM |
| 6 | You don't really miss him. Trust me.What is this automated block you speak of? My problem is that if they’re in the block list, I always have the number. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 01:22 AM |
| 6 | Don't EVER buy the lie that gaming is a 'cheap hobby'I let my ex put my credit card on his PlayStation account. Every couple of days there was a new charge. Sometimes $5, $7, $30. After we had broken up, getting it cancelled was horrible. PS kept putting the charges through the new card number when I’d block the old one. I didn’t know much about games but when I found out he was literally spending MY money so his little player could have a new knife, I was pissed. I thought it was a free hobby. 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:46 AM |
| 159 | Don't make the mistake of believing that men only use women for sex.This is such a big one and why I no longer entertain the bullshit excuse of “for the kids”. It’s pretty common knowledge in 2020 that kids don’t benefit from having both parents at home if their marriage is unhealthy AF. It sets the children up for failure in future relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 11:48 AM |
| 43 | *internal screaming, forever*This is more common that I needed to know. Had a guy stay with me for a couple weeks. About a week in, someone else was using the guest bath (his bath) and came to ask me for toothpaste. We (both women) were both like, wth, what has he been using? He just shrugged it off like nothing. The man didn’t brush his teeth for at least a week. 32 y/o man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:00 PM |
| 32 | Narc-sounding BF goes on and on about strange woman he met. Comments call her paranoid and are frankly insulting.Well damn. How have I never thought of this before. The number of times I’ve told myself my guy was a good person deep down ... made excuses that he didn’t want to be vulnerable... you’re so right. We shouldn’t be digging DEEP DOWN to find the good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:59 AM |
| 17 | From SATC.. blood test and ATM receipt sound good to me — would you add anything else?Don’t forget all previous arrest reports. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:51 AM |
| 9 | Oops....My sad truth is that the few times I’ve told the wife/girlfriend upon my discovery of their existence, they stay together and collectively blame me for being a homewrecker. I truly wish that all women would learn to stick together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 11:10 PM |
| 143 | American murder, family next doorThe most interesting takeaway for me was when chris told the police that had he never met the new girl, he probably wouldn’t have realized he was unhappy in his marriage. So, what, like these men are one young and happy-go-lucky coworker away from murdering their families? It’s definitely eye opening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 10:50 PM |
| 11 | Looking for book/music/podcast recommendations on becoming a more surface-level-only personI like what you said about wearing the social mask that isn’t permanent. I need my quiet social mask on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Looking for book/music/podcast recommendations on becoming a more surface-level-only personThis is literally what I say to myself - shut up! Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:16 AM |
| 20 | We have a list of demands. 1. Clean sheets.My poor, misguided self in my 20s and 30s bought amazing sheets for every man I dated seriously enough to spend the night with. 🤡 but I’m serious about my sheets, y’all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:02 AM |
| 13 | Is he HV? Always pays on dates, doesn’t push for sex, is intelligent & excites me, but recently moved to a different city, so it would be long distance.Why is he telling you to come see him? Seems he should find a restaurant to dress up for in your area and he should come to you if it’s the first date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:00 AM |
| -2 | MOD UPDATE: No more LVM ex-boyfriend collages. They are all pretty much the same and we don't want LVM stank all over our subreddit. Effective immediately, any collages about substandard men will be removed.Who actually has experienced a collage of hvm, though? That’s fairytales. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:11 PM |
| 0 | Hurt people hurt people. Stop the cycle or sink the scrote?Do you know what a troll post is? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 11:40 PM |
| 69 | Ask WHY a guy likes you - and pay attention to the answer.I almost think men are wise to this “test and observation period”. I’ve had some really specific and flattering answers to this question, but the men turn out the same. It’s like they told me this nonsense and it allowed me to let my guard down (stupid!) and then they just showed themselves. Can we just normalize NOT needing or wanting men anymore? It’s the only way they’ll truly learn. (Or they’ll kill us out of spite and anger, but doesn’t that just show who they are?) This is why the Level Up… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:41 PM |
| 7 | Hurt people hurt people. Stop the cycle or sink the scrote?You’re right. Cruel. And I don’t want to be cruel. Thank you for taking time to respond | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Hurt people hurt people. Stop the cycle or sink the scrote?Definitely without. But clearly I have zero self-control and just respond and react any time they contact me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:58 AM |
| 147 | 😂 they're watching us 👀Baby steps for the man-babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:54 AM |
| 17 | I messed upI wish I knew how to make you feel better and not discarded. But truly, the trash took itself out. It’s said probably too much here, but this is absolutely the case with him. I really hope you see this sooner than later. Take care of yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:53 AM |
| 23 | I messed upI doubt she sees it that way, but it’s the damn truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 92 | I messed upI know you’re looking for supportive and nurturing and understanding, but what the hell did I just read? I am not even kink shaming, but this person choked you until you had broken capillaries? People get arrested for attempted murder for less than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:07 PM |
| 38 | Cute, but they'll never get itHow to dress your penis: a rough guide to pants! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:31 PM |
| 4 | And I can see why you have not landed a single date in the past 5 yearsWOW. You have almost perfectly described someone I know. There are clones of the same scrotes walking among us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 8 | Help from older FDSers: how to not get down about my ageThis response is so inspiring. So kind of you to take the time to write it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:03 PM |
| 30 | This is how a queen ends it with a cheating LVMThis is amazing. Unfortunately, in my state, it isn’t even possible to do this to a super LV scrote. Even though I own my home, if he receives mail here or has stayed 7 consecutive nights, he has to be legally evicted. Any decent human would leave as soon as a they’re asked if they aren’t paying any bills, but not my special super LV scrote. The takeaway is that no one will ever stay at my house for a week or have mail here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:04 PM |
| 43 | And that’s on periodtThey’re now married and miserable together. Karma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 07:55 PM |
| 19 | Divorce filings have soared in the United States since covid. IS ANYBODY SURPRISED?Got rid of mine in February, right before the lockdown! The universe was looking out for me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:44 PM |
| 1 | All the money I sent to my NVM ex in 2 months. Green is him. Don’t be a 🤡🤡🤡Fellow former 🤡 here. I have to tell myself I was helping his children so that I’m not filled with rage over all the cash I sent the NVM. Good freakin riddance. So happy to hear you’ve got a good one now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:07 PM |
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