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Those sound like dealbreakers. Its called a breakup cos its broken. Dont talk to him cos youre lonely. Men are in abundance. He isnt high value. His health and looks will deteriorate very quickly with those behaviours and you'll be in your 50s being a nursemaid to him rather than enjoying your retirement and grandbabies. Dont do it. You intuition is not wrong. Dont you dare question yourself. You were right the first time.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/20 01:53 PM
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Small talk is a good way for people to learn to trust you. I dislike going deep until I really know someone. Theres like 3 or 4 levels of conversation IIRC. Its interesting to read about but it makes you realise small talk can be a useful way to begin relationships with people. Third level is like telling stories about others and seeing their reactions. As if their reaction isnt favourable you can back track. So then the last level is opening up and saying something direct about yourself as ther…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/20 01:45 PM
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Yeah spas and all those places are not where you should be going
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/20 12:54 PM
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I do very low percent peels like 4 or 8 percent sal acid.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/20 10:39 PM
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I went to an expert. I have sensitive skin and rosacea and I was so scared to get it done. I had acne scarring etc. But its worked well with subscision. Laser and all interventions are more about the person who performs it and their ability to assess your skin. My derm tried the less intense lasers and didnt go as hard at first to see how my skin reacted. Then slowly went a bit harder. He thought for my last session I could handle a stronger laser for longer but I declined and kept the moderate …
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/20 08:16 AM
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Some kibd of jewellery she will wear - doesnt have to be expensive if its an original piece from the markets or etsy type deal. Cute earrings she can wear are always a hit.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/20 01:07 AM
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Youre in your early 20s. Your youth makes you beautiful. Gets a little harder as you go on but while you have it I say go make up free! I get laser and peels and only need light powder. In my 30s though.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/20 01:05 AM
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Everyone with balanced mind knows these statistics dude. Seriously no one is saying men have it easy but maybe youre just keen to show and tell something youve learned. Bondage isnt hate porn. Not what I was referring to. Also dont try and tell me more men use any genre of porn than women. They call us gold diggers but judge us on looks.. why do I have to explain this? Its hard for both sides. Looks fade and you can easily lose money. We all have it tough... seriously cant believe youre commenti…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/20 07:40 PM
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Is western society really gynocentric with all the hate porn genres. A big group of men out there kinda hate us. They are allowed to judge us on looks but we arent supposed to. I do agree with some rp stuff but there needs to be a balance.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 12:57 PM
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Second date. I have health issues and want to avoid having children. So this is when I bring it up. If you're OLD you could even put it on your profile. Im in my 30s so a lot of guys have kids already anyways so its not as much of an issue.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 12:53 PM
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Yeah, nah.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/20 05:55 AM
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You can't
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/20 02:18 AM
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Thank you for being brave enough to share. I hope people can be supportive as you already know where you went wrong. Good luck for the future you are here with us now!
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/20 06:51 AM
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Jackie got treated pretty bad at times too. Husband wasn't faithful if rumours are correct. Charlotte still had a few pick me behaviours going on. She knew old mate MacDougall wasnt compatible right before the wedding. She didnt vet properly, she went ahead with it anyway. Blew up in her face. We've all been there in some way. When she decided what she wanted in a Captain with personality over looks she got what she wanted. Though I still think in the real world she'd end up with someone a bit c…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/20 06:43 AM
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*intents and purposes
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/20 01:12 AM
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If he's good in bed who gives a shit. As long as he's up for what I want to do and vice versa we are a match.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/20 11:48 AM
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Sounds like you have massive control issues which probably contribute to your anxiety. I really hope you can sort it out cos its hard to do.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/20 11:46 AM
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Nice i like it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/20 11:44 AM
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Read the Surrended Single. You cant control anything. Which is hard. But surrendering to this makes it easier. You cant control who is attracted to you, when they'll contact you and what will happen. All you can do is be your best self, focus on how he makes you feel and receive receive receive.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/20 11:43 AM
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Yeah he doesnt know what hes talking about
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/20 09:53 AM
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Dont want to/can't have them due to many reasons but would enjoy being a step mother to some children and spoil them like crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/20 09:58 PM
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I get the idea but whoever scored it has no idea what they're doing
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/20 04:35 AM
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I am not talking about about any of what you just said. But it does relate to the original topic.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/20 04:16 AM
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Read the Surrended Single and then download Mars and Venus on a date. Approach him like you would a potential friend. Smile at him each time you see him. Eventually say hi as you walk past. Then maybe make a comment on something. Remember men will be flattered if you chase them but for them to grow in love you gotta let them persue you. But putting yourself in the way and being friendly and letting him know youd accept a date if he asked (in a subtle way) is all you can do. You cant control who …
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 09:23 AM
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'Boyfriend' isnt a serious commitment that you need to have sex before you decide to have one. Not sleeping with them isnt about how you feel. Its about how they will grow to feel about you and the connection you may prevent from happening. You are just cheating yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 09:19 AM
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Some women are just naturally hotter than average too.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 06:02 AM
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As millionaire matchmaker says "the penis does the picking." Some guy rejected her when she was younger and looking her besr because another woman was a bit skinnier. He literally said that to her. I feel the same as you sometimes. In my 30s so it gets harder with the same effort to feel as good.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 05:59 AM
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No man has ever asked me how many partners Ive had. Also this is ridiculous advice to keep sleeping with them early but look for a relationship. Change your standards, despite a high count you are still valuable and worth something. You stop sleeping with men early because having sex early prevents you from developing the emotional side of the relationship. Maybe the n count is more an issue with younger men. As they age they care slightly less. You can change yourself and be forgiven for your p…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/20 10:38 AM
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To me it seems like youre a great girl. He on the other hand not so great. When a man wants something he goes after it. I think he's keeping you around but he won't commit. "You aren't asking for much you're just asking the wrong person."
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 10:14 PM
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Came here to say this. Love a good dirty bulk
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 01:02 PM
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Ive got a schnozz and men find me attractive. Im in my 30s as well. Your youth makes you beautiful.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 10:52 PM
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Become exclusive before you have sex. Once Ive done some vetting the exclusiveness helps me focus on them and seeing further how Id feel. Ive said this on here before but read Mars and Venus on a date. Theres a free pdf you can download the whole book! Id say at at least 3 or 4 dates minimum. But wait a bit longer for sex. This is my opinion though. From my past mistakes and current knowledge in what works.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 03:12 AM
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Sometimes I wear those pressure stockings or socks. They really help with leg pain. I find the gentle ones help the most as I dont like tight things. Also this is weird but if I have a big cooking day I wear sneakers. A podiatrist I know does this too! Ive always had sore legs from standing jobs and Im a runner.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 10:42 AM
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For me I dont eat bread type foods but lots of potatoes, fat, meat and veg, cheese and occasionally chocolate. Im actually slightly underweight bmi wise despite the food I can eat now. Its super awesome. For someone in their 30s..
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 10:40 AM
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Yes thar for women only book and the surrended wife is really good at explaining why its shit. Also for me getting to know God and breaking free of bonds is what changed me. Things I carried around all the guilt shame etc which effected my relationships is melting away.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/20 03:06 AM
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I practice intuitive eating. And now I eat what I want and am super lean because I never over but eat what I like. And I do running.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/20 10:38 AM
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Ive just read John Grays book about mars and venus dating. I find it helpful in understanding relationship phases. One is uncertainty.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/20 10:35 AM
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No way. Theres something about everyone you can genuinely praise. I do think its nice you are kind hearted. And good of you to ask. You probably have realised. That being said I think sometimes Ive white lied to avoid having to cause someone major hurt if I told the truth. Not often but I still would if I had to. But I reflect on it later to make sure I can think of something next time to say. Often people accept avoidant answers or subject changes.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/20 10:30 AM
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Just how I talk. Im Australian. And we can be quite direct. Its not snark. Snark is weak and mean. I wasnt giving advice. Just my opinion. I agree with you both were wrong. I feel like OP is smarter than her friend and could probably see both side if pointed out to her.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 11:34 PM
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From disagreeing with her behaviour towards her friend? So really the serene attitude and kindness we are cultivating in ourselves is only allowed towards men. They are gonna see through that pretty quickly.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 09:27 PM
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You wanted opinions and you got mine. They are your babies and I think what youre doing is somewhat right. But I think you were rude to her. She doesn't get what its like to have children and the level of responsibility you have. You hurt her feelings. You would feel pretty rejected if someone didnt want you watching their kids after you offered. She probably is useless but we don't need to use the truth as a weapon. The book FW talks about this towards men in our relationships but the bible tal…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 02:34 PM
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Read the book "Attached" by Amir Levine.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 01:28 PM
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Ive had laser, botox, teeth whitening, hair straightening and I dont eat bread or grains. My day to day is minimal. I dont need an elaborate skin care routine. I get mani/pedis. But dont wear a lot of make up. Id like to do more day to day for my presentation. Will probably get a mini face and neck lift in my late 40s. Some can be natural looking. Will probably get my teeth capped. Would not get boob job or other surgery. Ive got a big nose but I like my shnozz.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 01:22 PM
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Id really hate to be your friend. Get over yourself. You feel upset by her difference in life choices and projected your own insecurities onto her. Youre lucky if she ever speaks to you again.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 01:18 PM
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I agree. A man wants someone he can trust to care for themselves when he isn't around.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/20 12:53 PM
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From your comments youre annoying me too. I really think you have no idea what youre doing or saying. You havent really grasped how men or the world works and how red pill works. I wish I could help you. But Im not sure how. Pretty much forget everything youre assuming. And start again. Read books on how to listen to others. And critical thinking. Read how to win friends and influence people. I have many male family members who I love and none of what youre saying is true of them. Talk to women …
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 07:57 PM
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Theres only a certain amount of time before he hits the wall its just a lot later the more well off he is. But an average well off guy can maybe date younger but not someone in their early 20s unless its luck. But then that would be the same as a well off woman attracting a younger guy
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/20 03:29 AM
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Balding potbellied aasholes that want 20 yr old
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/20 01:43 AM
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Amazing. I wish I could figure out casual fashion better than I am currently doing.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 05:47 AM
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I have fine hair with a wave with bits of frizz from baby hairs at the front. I pay to get it chemically straightened every 7 to 8 months. Worth the money. I can swim in the ocean and brush my hair and it will dry straight and you feel like a goddess. Its dark and a long and I always get compliments on my shiny hair. Even when I get hot my ponytail remains silky and straight. I just blow it and once it starts to grow out from the roots which actually give it a bit of body, I just straighten the …
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 01:46 AM
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Red flag. He will probably start to slowly pull away. This is how it starts. Ive been there. Prepare yourself. I hope he has a change of heart and it works out for you. Your intuition is probably correct.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 11:21 AM
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Lucy minerals does a sensitive skin powder. Make sure you pick that forumla. Its inexpensive too. I have dermatitis, rosacea and acne prone. Has never upset my skin. I can sleep it in. Although this inly happened once as i take care of my skin. You get a little stipling brush to apply it. And use vegetable glycerine as a moisturiser/primer.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 10:27 PM
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Why are you doing both.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 10:04 PM
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How do you let him know now?
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 09:20 PM
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Can someone tell me what LD is? Also thank you for your post its amazing.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 09:18 PM
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Makes me ashamed to be a woman.
/r/MensRights13/11/19 11:13 AM
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Children arent a guarantee you wont be alone. Its a one way love that isnt returned in the same way. The complexities of old age as we live longer means the average person wont be able to care for you anyway - youll need to be in a home. Also parents may feel anchored to their children but your children have their own lives and families they are anchored to. Not to you.
/r/MensRights03/11/19 09:34 PM
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I mean setting boundaries works with just about everyone. Dogs, children, adults - everyone. You havent discovered anything new. He who cares the least wins. You can easily put someone in their place when you've only been seeing them 4 dates. Its a lot harder when their bullshit appears when your feelings and finances are tied together - man or woman. Everyone should GTOW and stop the bullshit.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 02:12 PM
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She isnt in a relationship. And is enjoying sex. She isnt ripping anyone off. She isnt crying rape. And is enjoying her younger years. Nothing wrong with that. Im sure you'd enjoy female attention too. These women are vapid and annoying but so are gym bros. Just let them be together. Men hit the wall too. We all hit the wall. Enjoy it while it lasts. You sound super young and not experienced. Once you have a few more heart breaks women getting dick wont freak you out so much
/r/MGTOW02/06/19 11:45 AM
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As a woman here's my opinion - the worst. I wish I could work with mostly men. Do my work, have some jokes and no one gets butt hurt. Then go home.
/r/MGTOW02/06/19 11:39 AM
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She was chubby before. Anyone could see she would gain more.
/r/MGTOW21/05/19 12:46 PM
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Cheek and lip fillers. Maybe chin too.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/19 03:29 PM
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It evens out later in life. You should see the shit a woman in her 40s and 50s has to do and put up with if she wants a man. While a man is his 40s can date someone 10 years younger. As long as you're arent too hideous youll be fine.
/r/MGTOW12/01/19 10:27 AM
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Earnest living? Ha
/r/MGTOW12/01/19 10:22 AM
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It sounds like you have the desire to do it just not with someone you love/close to yoy. She has that same desire and carried it out. Women or men sometimes just get horny. If we all behaved before we settle down that would be super boring.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 11:55 AM
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Just buy an island. I've seen an island near me that a wealthy couple owns and it's not too far from the mainland should you need anything.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 11:19 AM
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You know a few weeks ago a girl posted on reddit about how she was on the train and there was creepy unhinged guy talking to another girl who was alone and she could see that girl was freaking out. (Fair enough I've been in that situation many times myself). The poster said she went and sat next to the other girl or something similar and the guy backed off. In the comments a male was commenting about what he might do but wouldn't get phsycially inovled. The other commenters who were female Im pr…
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 11:08 AM
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She has two sons. That might be her motivation? I have brothers and hope no one ever falsely accuses them of anything. Hearing how men have no reproductive rights and every other thing is very motivating to me to take an interest. Its so unfair. Other than I dislike most aspects of the modern self absorbed woman and would love for it to be stamped out. I can't even be friends with some any more the way they carry on. All this equality bullshit etc. They are ruining everything
/r/MensRights20/10/18 06:41 AM
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I'm a female but I have come to find those employed in another section of my work smoking next to my car resting their smokes and lighters on the bonnet. They tried to move them without me seeing as I walked up. I wish I could sit in my car and wait for them to do this
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/18 01:02 PM
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