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Incels want the ego boost of casual sex. Men needing a woman’s desire to want sex with them is a very recent and parochial phenomenon. I agree that physiologically sex isn’t a need and I’m a dude. Incels merely have a psychological dependency on female validation. So for them it’s a psychological need. It’s unhealthy to have that need but they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:11 PM
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In the same way that women excluding men from their bedrooms is something women do to men. You can justify feminism, but simply framing it as reactionary is not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:42 PM
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Honestly even most dudes who seriously lift won’t get much bigger than a swimmers body if they are lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:34 PM
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You could also use Dark Enlightenment to justify whites self deporting. In the end some folks are just super tribal and will latch on to whatever they can to bash the outgroup.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:50 AM
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I agree that it’s rare to find it systematized, but I think it’s the same for female dating advice; most people get a bunch of isolated advice that through experience they piece together. The closest to apolitical TRP would be PUAs, but even then most of them deny the Blank Slate to some degree or another. I think the issue is just that if you want to systematize female attraction, you have to come to grips with it generally being different to male attraction. If you look for the why, it natural…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:21 AM
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That’s the thing; it’s the Dark Enlightenment/Anti -Blank Slate stuff that makes TRP TRP. Without that philosophical background, it’s not TRP anymore. You can advice that is similar to TRP, such as lift and sexually escalate, in non-TRP sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:00 AM
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You know that’s bad stock when a ghost hand grabs your cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 06:15 AM
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I’m early 20s, so any women who arouse me and whose company I otherwise enjoy. I’m not looking for marriage right now so my standards don’t include long term financial/child raising stuff that complicates matters. Almost all complaints about high-value relate to marriage rather than relationships so the barrier for most people seems to be the second set of issues. I’m a professional, and most members of my class, if they want to, get married and reproduce. Outside of the working class and below,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:56 PM
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I’m a dude and haven’t had any issues getting with quality women. There are women who have no issues getting commitment. This is really only a problem if you are poor or if you just suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:28 PM
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Most women are sexually reactive, so they have to be actively seduced if you want to bed them. There are few women who would actually lead things forward. That being said, I think that once you can seduce women you’re not going to be much more successful by optimizing your technique there. You’re better off looksmaxxing, gaining power, and creating a more masculine presence. She either likes you or she doesn’t; you can fuck up with a bad seduction, but a great seduction won’t turn a no into a ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 01:21 AM
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I’m not really resentful over horniness per se, I’ve gone years without sex and had no mental issues from it, but especially when I was younger I envied women’s social capital*. I used to be a very isolated and shy guy and would envy how easy it was for women to be included in social groups in high school and college. Even then it was less anger and more sadness over social life being unfair. In the end I grew up, acquired value, and learned self pity is a disgusting vice so I’ve largely abandon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:19 AM
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Unless the lass had a kid or got a meth habit most women really only significantly age to my eyes in their thirties and beyond. Many often fill out in their 20s so their peak is late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 08:48 PM
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I walk how I usually do. Strangers don’t care about me so I don’t care about them beyond societally obligatory actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 08:51 PM
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Nah; I’m always on the ball with contraception and I mostly hang with UMC women. They aren’t interested in ruining their lives by bringing a bastard into the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 05:28 PM
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Make-up. For RMV a lot of it is obviously personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 05:10 PM
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I had a Christian friend who would pay a migrant farm worker to allow him to use his anus for pleasure. My friend didn’t hire women even though he was “straight” because he viewed that as sin. He terminated his relationship with the farm worker because he fingered himself and found the prostate orgasm to be so intense that he felt he shouldn’t have to pay for pounding this dude’s bum. In conclusion; prostate orgasms are powerful but have no relation to clitoral orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:40 PM
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If you believe women both have inherent value and can create their own value then it makes sense, as much as any envy does, do want both types of value rather than just one. Of course, reality far more complicated than this and individual men/women have varied experiences so the above paradigm is false, but if you buy it it makes sense to be envious of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 01:06 AM
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What you’re saying is mostly true, but RP only states it is bad for the guy if she waits. It doesn’t hurt her. If you believe RP, then an FDS adjacent strategy would be the best for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 11:15 PM
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You fucked up if she let you in her apartment but you didn’t smash. The only time that happened to me was when I had to evacuate in her sink.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:22 PM
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Men prefer having sex with hot women. When that is unavailable they go for ugly women, other men, children, farm animals, plants with holes, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 11:58 PM
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She gets to be my flesh light; wanting more is the definition of avarice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 04:13 PM
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You should
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 11:45 PM
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Straight men get boners from watching dicks. Don’t take identification seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 11:01 PM
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Have you met a gay man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 10:59 PM
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Planet gay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 08:14 PM
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I think she is referencing most women having a reactive sexuality; most women don’t get randomly horny like men and their sexuality is based off of responding to that of attractive men’s rather than actively lusting after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 02:12 AM
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I may live in a bubble, but I’m an early 20s professional and splitting the bill seems to be default. It just happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:21 AM
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Cummies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:43 PM
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This is where I got the numbers if you’re curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:01 AM
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I mean similar in the sense of mostly focusing on acts rather than body parts. I often also close mine if I’m fantasizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:46 AM
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For what it’s worth I’m a dude but when I masturbate using an image of a naked women I fantasize about sexual acts with her; the image is just used to start off but I’m actually using the fantasy. I’m not sure men and women are that different in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 12:54 AM
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Women, regardless of orientation, get genital responses when looking at any type of sexual photographs. Even monkeys! So if you show her a sexual male nude her body will respond even if she isn’t mentally attracted. For women mentally being turned on it depends on the woman. Some women are spontaneous arousal so just an attractive male/female body can turn them on depending on their orientation. Others, the majority, require being the object of lust and more foreplay. There are women of both aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 10:05 PM
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Yeah but no one here is talking about shitholeistan.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 06:41 PM
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Do you talk to them before your shits?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 01:12 AM
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At least until religious fundamentalists outbreed and take over society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 01:11 AM
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We face a chicken and the egg problem however; the types of women and men who gets married are not the same as those who don’t. For instance, men who marry tend to be more conscientious then those who don’t for instance. I’m not denying that a good marriage is a great boon to life, my parents have one, but just showing married men live longer isn’t enough to show that it’s the marriage that helped him vs. cofounders.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:17 PM
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That’s the thing though; there is more to attractiveness than looks, especially for men. As women here say, their attraction triggers are not just looks. I’ll admit I’m basing this more off of my own personal experience and what I’ve read than a concise meta analysis of research papers, but I bet when you combine looks, charisma, and status then you will find that while women may like different men and subcultures, each subculture has a few men that clean up. To give an example; your local punk …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 06:53 PM
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Upvoting this greatly. My profiles and game aren’t even that good and I get consistent action.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 07:37 PM
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I do not have to do I don’t pay. Women who can get away with it make men pay. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:31 AM
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Sneaky weasel behavior gets men laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 07:40 PM
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Being a cunthound is male sexuality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 08:46 PM
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My ideal is Shreking a new woman every week or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:14 PM
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You’re too hard on yourself; with the physique in the photos you would look conventionally fine if you dresses and groomed well. There’s also the thing that there is always a market for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 03:03 PM
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Male; I would rather be rendered impotent than raise another man’s spawn. So I pick the 10 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:56 AM
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Not so far but I’m only age 23. I love slangin’ dick at randoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:23 AM
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I’m a libertarian in a liberal city and politics never come up. This is rarely an issue in my experience. Additionally, most people aren’t that political so I bet this doesn’t affect many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 09:38 PM
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Do you think the changes in the future will primarily be driven by defections from the dominant sexually liberal culture to more conservative cultures or from the natural growth/importation of conservative cultures? Right now we have natural growth from patriarchal subcultures like the Amish and Haredim plus importation of conservative foreigners with most defections being toward liberal culture. I bet in the future there is a turning point where gravity shifts and most defections go from the li…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 10:47 PM
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It’s true; even the average boomer n count was only 11 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:50 PM
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Individual men and women like each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:50 PM
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Everywhere? You write like a man who is foreign to all and kin to none.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:41 AM
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Are you foreign?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:15 AM
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The core part of Red Pill is that if you’re Chad, a woman only thoughts will be putting a McDonalds straw in your butt and sucking. Doesn’t matter who she is or her past.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:38 AM
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FDS, which seems to basically be a rebranded “The Rules”, doesn’t really seem to be a left wing thing though. Aside from its rhetoric, most Tradcons would advocate for a slow, asexual courting process.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 07:40 PM
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They are horny and salty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 01:33 AM
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No you didn’t; you just claimed it again with more words.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 02:16 AM
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Conscious MGTOW is negligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 11:58 PM
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“Shall the religious inherit the earth” by Eric Kaufman delves into this. Patriarchal sub populations, such as Amish, Haredim, and Salafists, are set to overtake secular populations over the next centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:32 AM
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For me looks provide the bulk of sexual attraction. Her actions/personality make me fall for her though. It’s complex, but it’s a mixture of affection, charisma, and being interesting that gets me there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 04:01 AM
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I disagree; patriarchy is an emergent proper where societies that order themselves to make men make money and make women make children demographically outcompete those that don’t. Historically patriarchies tended to outcompete egalitarian societies because they had high economic and population growth. Makes sense; rather than optimizing for being sexually attractive to women men optimized wealth and caring for their kids and being pro social . Compare the patriarchal Han to the egalitarian Mosuo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 06:48 PM
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I’m a right winger/libertarian male and have so far only dated lefties in a big city. It’s never really been an issue or really discussed much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:40 AM
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I’ve been trying to suck my own dick for my whole life. I’m pretty great. Some girls agree with me, so I don’t think me being a woman would change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:48 PM
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While most reddit tradcon RP men are just sad they cant rape their hypothetical wives like back in the old country, that’s not charitable to most complaints about divorce. It’s kind of a motte-Bailey. The most defensible divorces are horrific abuse like your story. The problem is that most divorce tends to be generically unhappy parents separating. It’s typically good for the parents but bad for the kids. Overall I agree that liberalized divorce is a good thing that allows people a greater abili…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:31 PM
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Talking about women as a whole is kind of useless in this endeavor. If you look at the majority or caregivers, both personal and charitable, then they are women. At the same time there are selfish women. There are women all the way in between. While I agree that the female social worker who works with vulnerable people is far more empathetic to her male clients then almost anyone else, some random woman blasting “#killallmen” on Twitter would be less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:25 PM
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Emily Nagowski, a sex researcher, once estimated 10% or so of women have a primarily spontaneous arousal style. I’d imagine most chad fishing that is not fake would come from this unrepresentative segment of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:31 AM
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There is a meme in modern society that any cosmic inequality/unfairness is unjust. It’s unsurprising that people raised in such a society would apply this moral axiom to an inequality that gives them the shaft.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:28 AM
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Being bitter about life being unfair is unproductive but a human constant. There is a reason basically all religions condemn envy and covetousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:29 PM
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Only if we do stuff outside it. Any dude who bonds from sex alone is fem-brained
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:01 AM
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Man whore. So long as I’m aroused I’m good and I love novelty. I’m a late bloomer ironically; I lost my v at 19 and only started regularly dating at 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 12:42 AM
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I was speaking more metaphorically. I don’t know about how trans men experience attraction. What I’m saying is that if women were biologically sexually like gay men, so not women, the average guy would be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 04:09 AM
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If women had as much testosterone as men they would find the average man attractive enough for a nut like gay men do. As things stand, for an average man to be as sexually attractive to women as they are to him he would have to have multiple traits that make him well above average. In the end, I think this is an issue with culture. One of the core moral values of the modern Anglosphere is a pathological focus on equality, so when things are naturally unequal people go “WTF!” If you look historic…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 04:04 AM
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I don’t use the term because it’s mostly used to complain about having to be interesting, but it is grating when you put in the effort to be fun but the other person doesn’t even try. This isn’t a gendered phenomenon though; there are tons of fun women and boring men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 03:39 AM
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I have done that multiple times in the past, but men risking their life for booty is a historical constant. By date-date I mean a date with romantic escalation. I’ve done it over coffee, drinks, or ice cream in the past. I’ve just never had a date where it was just fact finding that I can recall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 11:33 PM
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That’s true but not really my question. I’ve always been able to go to the date-date directly from online or night game. I’m more asking what scenario you’re imagining starting off with a pre-date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 07:57 PM
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If you strongly prefer low sociosexuality women than that's a valid preference and you would want to jettison the above heuristic. A big issue is that a woman's libido and even willingness to do maintenance sex is highly correlated to her sociosexuality, so low sociosexuality women are far more uptight and less libidinous than sluttier ones. There are exceptions, but as a general rule you trade prudishness for lower libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 07:22 PM
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It's a sentiment I've seen around here. There is an example of it below automod. As far as I'm aware it's not considered RP "cannon", just a position many hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 07:18 PM
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I haven't had much experience with pre-dates like that. When you talk about a first date like that, are you imagining it to be relatively desexualized/unromantic? To give an example, two people meeting from OLD or a friends group to know more biographical information.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 07:08 PM
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I think that's a good point. A lot of women for emotional/strategic reasons delay sex if they are trying to get into a relationship, so as long as she indicates she's attracted to you it doesn't mean the world is over sex is held off on. I personally go for high sociosexuality girls, but for most men who don't share my preference early sex isn't that indicative of future libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 07:03 PM
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My first gf and I didn’t kiss on the first date. I was dead bedroomed in 3 months. I’ve learned my lesson lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 06:46 PM
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Not that early.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 06:30 PM
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First date sex is the best signal I agree. You are going to exclude a lot of otherwise sexual women however. It’s a trade off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 06:12 PM
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https://i0.wp.com/www.nationalreview.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/jessica-yaniv.jpg?fit=789%2C460&ssl=1 This nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 06:48 AM
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You’re well above average doing that. Most people don’t put that much work in. You’re right; you get out what you put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:19 PM
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TRP is not that looks are all that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:00 PM
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It’s true. I’m a straight guy but when I did nofap I busted in a few twinks to relieve the pressure. It did it’s job.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:55 AM
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Yes. That would be the result.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:21 PM
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I want to have sex based off of the lass having a pulse ideally. I fall in love with the personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 03:00 PM
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Bold assumption these homeless guys aren’t artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:45 AM
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That “sophisticated” woman is probably getting her colon poked at the local homeless shelter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 09:43 PM
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The slut shaming/trad con mentality is probably the single most self defeating and openly paradoxical part of modern TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 06:11 PM
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If you just want a relationship I agree. If you want to live a Casanova lifestyle, barring extreme cases like celebrities, the looks bar is decently high. I believe most men can achieve it via grooming, exercise, and style but neglecting that would make sleeping around regularly a dubious proposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:44 PM
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That viable if the guy has charisma and knows to to escalate as passes the minimum looks threshold. Humor and friendliness alone would be insufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 04:48 PM
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Teach👏women👏not👏to👏wallet👏rape
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:51 PM
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I think the high value men put on being sexually desired is a post-sexual revolution thing. Without that cultural influence, most men would be fine just having sex regardless of the woman’s desire level.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:12 PM
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It’s over for textcels
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:23 AM
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This is true. While there are few true idiots who go to ivys, none of them optimize for smarts. Most people there would be in the Dunning Kruger sweet spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 05:44 PM
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I like Hinge because the liking mechanic lets me use my online game. It’s interesting that you find tinder more difficult; I can get multiple dates a week easy on tinder while the only people on bumble who message me are transwomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:28 AM
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Bumble is awful; few women will both swipe and initiate convos. Tinder and Hinge women both have lower standards. Verdict: if you want cummies then get a Tinder or Hinge account.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:16 AM
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Less hope, but I expect the incel to MTF pipeline to greatly expand in the 2020s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:06 PM
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Cheat on him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:30 PM
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Doesn’t that vary per denomination though? It’s my understanding that Reform Judaism for instance is very liberal while the Haredim are highly patriarchal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 07:47 AM
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Just pay a professional to take them. Also have good fashion. Also don’t be deformed. Also keep healthy. Do those and you should be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 07:38 AM
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Ok boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 07:24 AM
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Gay men are willing to assume a very high risk of violence and disease for sex. If straight men faced the dangers women did, they would likely remain quite promiscuous as a group. Of course if men were women they wouldn’t be me so this hypothetical is incoherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:07 AM
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I think the only reason more shortcels don’t rope is that the ceiling is too high up :(.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 01:40 AM
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Because boipussy is too loose for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:34 PM
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I bet it’s because of opportunity cost. There is so much more to do now to avoid direct socialization compared to even 20 years ago. If people focus less on socializing, you will naturally see fewer relationships due to most relationships being from socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:32 AM
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I agree that extroverted hobbies that women like will get you around and socializing with women. That being said, it is also important for men to looksmax and learn seductive behaviors. Hobbies are good advice, but insufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:24 AM
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Does everyone here have shitty fathers? Honest question; there are some cultural milleus with generally good family structures and others with shitty ones. It seems a lot of angst on TRP/FDS comes from malsocialization in the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 08:20 AM
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Some people say that women’s sexuality is based on being desired by attractive men. They are wrong. Female sexuality is based on causing emotional harm to incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:26 AM
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Most female fantasies revolve around having sex with a chad that appeals to her while an incel masturbates in the corner with a pillow over his deformed face.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 10:39 PM
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Tbh a dude is still a virgin technically until he ruptures a cervix.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:31 AM
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Therapy is gay watching anime is far more effective if one wants a secure attachment style.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 09:22 PM
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That doesn’t jive with my experience. Most chads bone a mix of attractive to normal to sometimes ugly women from what I have seen .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 10:43 PM
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What you’re saying is true; you could get a 20+ n-count even being very strict with partners over a long enough time. To refine my point; most chads that I am aware of plus data above do exhibit the behavior of getting with less attractive women for sex even if they could still have high n without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 08:17 PM
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No it doesn’t. If you look at a guy who gets with women frequently through his own attractiveness then you’re going to see a guy where some of his lays are less desirable. You could only sleep with hotties consistently if you paid them ironically enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:44 PM
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https://www.girlschase.com/content/lower-your-standards-and-date-hotter-girls That article provides some data in addition to what I’ve seen. I agree with you that very attractive men don’t have to go for very unattractive women. At the same time, most chads don’t rack up high numbers solely by going after popular women. We are quibbling over where chad draws the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:34 PM
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Most high n men got there at least partially by getting with women they wouldn’t be seen fact. Having relaxed standards and being sexually promiscuous are very closely linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 10:57 AM
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A core part of being alpha is sexual disinhibition. Being fussy about where your dick goes is more of a beta trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 10:01 AM
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I dunno man I developed a porn addiction before I approached any women. While I’m sure some guys go down that dramatic route, I think most dudes just use it too much because it’s fun then realize they’ve done some damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 12:10 AM
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If dudes don’t want to deal with women romantically they can just develop a porn addiction. Thrice a day of extreme fetishes would cause any man to retreat from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:38 AM
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Gods gift tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:29 AM
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To narrow my argument; I posit that they main cause of the libido difference is testosterone. When gay men are told the sex acts they want to do are awful and may even lead to their deaths, most still do them and with many men. Transmen also mention that they have a strong spontaneous sex drive when they start using testosterone. There are straight men ashamed of their sexuality but who are still very randy. I agree that slut shaming does lower female promiscuity and often causes sexual disfunct…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:15 PM
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While shaking does affect behavior, I don’t think it’s the cause of the casual sex gap. Gay men, especially historically, received horrific sanction for having sex. They still did so with most having a higher sociosexuality than all but the most extreme women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 05:33 PM
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How do you become a sigma male?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:30 AM
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When selling anything, customer input is important but selling and basing your strategy solely based only upon customer input generally leads to failure due to customers stated preferences being different than their revealed preferences. A corollary or this is that if you’re dating a group of people, essentially selling yourself to them, you cannot rely solely upon their stated preferences if you want to know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:46 AM
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There a few tattoos that say more negative things about the wearer than a swastika. That is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:53 PM
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Notch. As in notches on your bedpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:09 PM
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Most reddit red pillers tend to be high inhibition types poorly LARPing as low-inhibition cads. Tattoos are 2edgy. Fwiw I’m pretty sure a supermajority of women I’ve been with have tats, so being disgusted by them seems like a bad strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:12 PM
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That’s still an open question however. You can see differences in employment, such as Germans being massively over represented in beer manufacturing wherever they live, without needing any discrimination. A gap between men and women or any two groups in employment, although it can be evidence of discrimination, isn’t conclusive proof of discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:49 PM
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I’d love to be a warlord if I wasn’t so cowardly and pampered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 11:56 PM
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I’d have my wife teach him. Hopefully the trauma/cringe would cause him to gain enough dark triad traits to be more attractive and to learn to ignore old people talking romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:35 AM
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I’d take it as that I’m a good guy morally and provider wise, but not attractive in a lover/cad way. I’d take the compliment, but would be a strike against any relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:32 AM
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Your chances of either being accused or shot are minuscule, especially if you’re innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:09 PM
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“The line between prude and slut lies in the heart of every woman” -Alexander Solzhenitsyn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 03:03 AM
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I have a fetish for chubby chicks on up until around BMI 35 or so. I’m UMC white so rather than it being a big part of my subculture growing up it just was a result of sexual experience as I didn’t have this fetish before getting sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:03 AM
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Wise men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:59 AM
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If I’m that hot I’ll probably just masturbate to my own greatness. Maybe get chlamydia, but that would just be a minor avocation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:17 AM
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I knew a dumb football player in high school. He Had a brain injury from childhood. Women loved him. He didn’t doubt himself, had a solid body, highly revered, and no inhibitions. Women love retard dick if it’s attached to a successful one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 04:59 AM
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I would pay for her dinner but only if her dinner was my asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 07:59 PM
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If she had AIDS most men wouldn’t want her. Some would though, so not much can be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 06:02 AM
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I’m what you call a Chad too but I invest in bonds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:42 PM
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I feel you but you’re wrong. I used to do casual a lot but realized it clouded my thoughts. I now mostly watch fetish porn that still clouds my thoughts but takes less time. Moral: you shouldn’t focus on n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 06:56 PM
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Narcissistic people have low standards for casual sex. Having high standards for casual sex is an artefact of high inhibition high chads don’t have. He would enthusiastically destroy dat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 10:21 PM
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This is likely a result of pornography. I’m a straight guy but started getting aroused by other men watching porn and several studies shows this happens to straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:52 PM
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This is true. I started watching normal porn but became desensitized. Im a straight guy but I started having to watch gay porn to get aroused. Porn is literal conversion therapy and very powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:46 PM
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Im a chubby chaser so I can’t complaint about anything tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 11:07 PM
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I look on Craigslist, find the second lowest price, and haggle from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:10 PM
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I’m straight though. If you look throughout history, straight men had tons of gay sex. Men find sodomy almost as self-actualizing as violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:15 PM
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It has certainly dampened my drive. After years of frequent 3x a week use I am no longer aroused by female nudity alone. Additionally to needing more and more stimuli, I have also started watching gay porn and fantasizing about men despite being a straight man. It’s made me addicted and kinda gay, so I’d give it a 5/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 07:32 PM
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“I eat ass”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:11 AM
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Easy threesome
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 09:49 PM
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I only masturbate to traps and gay porn because I don’t want to see another man having sex with a woman I find attractive. That this is considered strange or unhealthy for straight men is evidence of structural psychological/cultural/sexual issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:26 PM
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