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| 9 | If woman have the choice over abortion, should men have the choice over child support?The only response to this is that men always wear a condom to prevent pregnancy. Full stop. It creates a barrier that isn’t 100% effective but when used properly has a pretty high rate of effectiveness. Hormonal birth control is influenced by many things from cold medicine to other hormone level so it is reliant on other factors. It’s like teaching kids about the locus of control - you take ownership of what you can control and let the other person do the same. Men who don’t want babies should b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 06:37 AM |
| 4 | What are the most common reasons women get divorced?I have no idea really but in my own friend circle it seems that we are the ones who are ready to begin the independence aspect of moving on. We get the paperwork together, we have strong support systems for each other, and most of us are leaving dependent men who want us to be everything - working, cleaning, caregiving, and doing the emotional work for everyone. We tend to be navigating the emotions of our kids and want to help them start processing. My spouse does have a good group of friends b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 04:30 PM |
| – | What are the most common reasons women get divorced?I am a woman, a special educator and a researcher so some of my doctoral work is in the area of teacher gender and identity. I also study inclusion, UDL, and adjacent to that, neurodivergent student experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 03:40 PM |
| 8 | What are the most common reasons women get divorced?I (46F) am the one filing for us. He (48 M) initiated the separation and divorce but we’ve been headed here for years. My lawyer is cheaper to file with so we’ll split the cost but have a lower overall invoice if I file. I’m also the one with all my paperwork completed - separation agreement, mortgage refinancing, and changes to any accounts we have. He hasn’t done any of it yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 06:01 AM |
| 3 | What are the most common reasons women get divorced?Or they’re new here - this sub or reddit in general. I’m new and learn a lot from these posts. I appreciate the post and the responses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 05:48 AM |
| 7 | CMV: It is sad that it has become so normalized to not settle down until you're 30+Men do experience a form of menopause called Andropause and it does impact the quality of their sperm, not just the number. The effects are also felt in energy levels, hormone balances, heart health, cancer rates, and libido and erectile dysfunction. All of which can affect emotional well-being, confidence, stamina, health, strength, and appearance, similar to women going through menopause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?You paint with with very broad strokes. The single women I know aren’t asking where the good men are, they are explaining that they’re single because they aren’t willing to settle in a relationship. I don’t think you understand what many women want at all. Many are super happy with a partner who shares the work and chore load as well as parenting load. That’s super appealing. Some may want to be spoiled but that’s specific women and you don’t have to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?It’s not the women complaining though, it’s the men. As a collective, most women are happy to work, have identity outside of men and children, and to have disposable income to spend on hobbies, travel, socializing. We’re also really happy to have partners who are supportive of a more balanced family and work dynamic. The men who’ve taken it up as a positive aren’t out there complaining a ton… it’s the men who are annoyed that they have to “pander” to women who are annoyed but they’ve put themsel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:06 PM |
| – | Should it be acceptable to take actions at the personal level which destroy society at the macro level?I don’t think you realize how much your own world view makes you assume some universals. There are cultures that respect the agency of a child nearly as much as an adult. There is choice in education, including homeschool and alternative school settings, which isn’t so much about making rules about children but trying to stand for the future adult child when their parents make decisions that affect their readiness for the society they’re in. Parents are also required to provide feed and shelter … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Women, can you date someone who has absolutely zero dating / sex / relationship experience? And is over the age of 30? With next to no libido?I’m only going to address the libido part because the others have been addressed well. The A in LGBTQAI2S+ is for Asexual. Just be sure to communicate that you’re asexual at an appropriate and early enough time or in a community and you’ll find your people. You may present as asexual because of lack of intimate relationships but you also might be naturally asexual regardless. Some partners value non-sex relationships for a variety of reasons such as hormonal imbalance, pain during sex, trauma, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 05:57 AM |
| 0 | What solutions are there for older virgin men?Or maybe a trusted female friend who would be up for being a friend with a benefit? 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 05:15 AM |
| 6 | What solutions are there for older virgin men?This is the old way of giving boys / men their first experiences. Makes sense to me. I imagine in urban areas there would be escorts who are good with this role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 05:12 AM |
| 8 | How can I stop feeling envious or in competition with the girl my ex cheated with?I was going to say this too - be inspired instead of jealous. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/22 04:43 PM |
| 16 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?For me the underlying question is how do you treat women you have sex with - casually and discard them, develop relationships or get committed? Or whatever is in between those…. It isn’t actually about the number. Some women don’t want to feel like the next number that gets forgotten and some women don’t want you to feel connected. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 05:39 AM |
| 20 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?She’s letting you know she doesn’t trust you yet and you’re just brushing it off. You either need to drop your extra-curriculars or accept that she’s reading you right and you’re not going to get where you want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?Marriage as we know it today is fairly new and more about civil and property rights than religious doctrine. Biblical marriage is obviously very different and rooted in a culture of the time. Many of the rules expressed there are not continued today so I wouldn’t say you could use that reasoning…. but let’s say we go by the scripture mentioned - buddy has all three going on … I imagine the girl he wants to start having sex with would think it’s immoral for him to be sleeping with 2 other girls w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Ladies - how do you feel about the supposed trend that men are cold approaching less often these days?😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 12:05 AM |
| 5 | Ladies - how do you feel about the supposed trend that men are cold approaching less often these days?🙌🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 11:58 PM |
| 34 | Ladies - how do you feel about the supposed trend that men are cold approaching less often these days?I love it. I’m not out in the world to be approached by men, I am out shopping, walking, sometimes reading and sometimes reading or eating alone. Intentionally. Those are my spaces to lose myself in my own world and take a break from my very human-oriented helping job and my family life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | I asked this for women the other day so I’ll ask this for men now. And same thing guys, I want you to genuinely think about it before impulsively answering.I work with 6 women (we’re all in academia). I am the only one with kids. All are in their mid 40’s to early 60’s and are childless by choice. I had kids in my late 20’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do women put up with abusive relationships?The social stigma of being a single woman is hard. The social stigma of being a single mother is brutal. Everyone thinks they’d leave and it would be an easy exit but it’s much harder than many people understand. When you enter into a relationship as a female your identification is often through relationship to men … you become x’s girlfriend or x’s wife. Abusive men don’t often make it easy for their partners to have their own social networks so the females know that leaving means they are soci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 06:52 PM |
| 90 | Fiance wants to exercise his options but I don't want to be cheated onI would go with the assumption that drunk talk is real talk, unfiltered. That’s when he’s telling you the truth. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/22 02:58 AM |
| 4 | Single motherhood creates violent criminal men which leads to more single motherhood which leads to more violent criminal men. This downward spiral is going to cause violent men to dominate the sexual marketplace creating a much more dystopian future.Holy f*ck no. This is not it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:44 PM |
| 11 | Single motherhood creates violent criminal men which leads to more single motherhood which leads to more violent criminal men. This downward spiral is going to cause violent men to dominate the sexual marketplace creating a much more dystopian future.I hate the focus is on the single mom, who is often the one present to do all the second shift work. Perhaps it’s the absent parent that causes inter generational trauma more than the one who is present? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | What would you/ will you teach your daughters ?I work in a field with a lot of single and childless women in their 40-50’s and they are happy. They aren’t lonely, their lives are really fulfilling. They volunteer often, travel, have disposable income for hobbies and interests, they sometimes date but it’s not central to their identity or sense of belonging. Not everyone finds relationships fulfilling, especially when many of them asked the woman to sacrifice her career, education, interests, and so on which happens often. These women have be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | What would you/ will you teach your daughters ?Your view of women is just bizarre and quite limited. Maybe being true to herself is having long term monogamous relationships while being an international human rights lawyer or a professor whose positions change every once in a while. Maybe the men in her life don’t want to support her frequent moving and international travel by changing their jobs as needed and being a primary parent. So she chooses not to marry and have kids. Maybe she has wild and crazy sex with those partners, which doesn’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:34 PM |
| 7 | What would you/ will you teach your daughters ?What about being the kind of woman she wants to be and going for that with everything they have? Why is it about her value to a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 02:04 AM |
| 4 | What would you/ will you teach your daughters ?“They defy orders but you can manipulate their decisions” I’ll be preparing my daughters for men who believe this is okay. No person’s decisions should be manipulated and defying orders is a sign of autonomy that will hopefully keep them true to themselves 🚩 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | What would you/ will you teach your daughters ?They need to be taught to hold other men accountable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 01:54 AM |
| 4 | Choosing to adopt or notThis is a cautionary story - My mom is the only adopted kid in a family with 5 children and she has never felt like she belongs. Her dad loved her most, her mom struggled to love her. Her siblings often forget to include her in the kid count and she perceives that she was treated very differently than her siblings. That has had consequences for her in most relationships - she always assumes she’ll be an outsider and she carries a lot of trauma from her childhood and adult interactions with famil… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/22 03:40 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on lying about sexual inexperience to avoid a catch 22?In some areas of the world men lose their virginity to a sex worker to avoid this very situation. Makes sense based in a lot of ways - they would be there to provide guidance and the situation would be out in the open. One of my exes was a virgin when I had a previous partner it is was very obvious - there was very little stimulation on me, he wasn’t smooth putting the condom on and he didn’t last long. I felt bad for him because it felt awkward for him (I was okay with it, first times are what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 06:29 AM |
| 2 | True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here AREFeigning* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 07:52 PM |
| 4 | True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here ARE😳. I’m pretty good looking, I have my doctorate and am a professor and I have a whole bunch of female friends who love to engage in critical conversation about complex issues. I know a lot who don’t like to engage in online debates because of the tone and when we deal with that on the regular in real life why would they want to willingly? Also, many women are doing the second shift that women tend to have to take up as it relates to parent or child care, house work, volunteering, and all the oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 07:51 PM |
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