TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

MuchAdoAboutNada Archive

View 27 posts and 101 comments by MuchAdoAboutNada on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
29

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/seduction24/05/14 07:50 AM
15

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/seduction18/06/14 10:09 PM
12

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/seduction26/05/14 09:22 AM
11

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/askTRP07/01/16 07:51 PM
10

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/seduction26/04/14 11:01 PM
9

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:08 AM
6

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/seduction06/04/14 04:39 PM
5

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/askTRP22/01/15 05:24 PM
5

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:33 AM
5

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/askTRP07/01/16 07:41 PM
5

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/askTRP07/05/15 05:32 PM
4

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/askTRP25/07/15 08:36 AM
4

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/askTRP16/02/16 12:05 AM
4

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/askTRP26/03/15 06:33 PM
4

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/seduction20/04/14 02:54 PM
3

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/askTRP28/04/16 11:24 PM
3

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:31 PM
3

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/seduction23/07/14 11:34 PM
2

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/seduction21/06/14 07:54 PM
2

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/askTRP20/04/20 10:19 AM
2

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/seduction29/10/14 10:32 PM
2

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/seduction02/06/14 08:58 PM
1

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/askTRP26/11/16 08:55 AM
1

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/seduction31/05/14 11:41 AM
1

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/seduction06/03/15 08:51 PM
0

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/askTRP05/01/16 06:09 PM
0

MuchAdoAboutNada/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 02:42 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
3

Make sure to also listen to the Beige Phillip Show (now called Man School 202). It is hosted by Dante Nero who was also the co-host on the Black Phillip Show with Patrice. Most of what Patrice learnt actually came from Dante. It is also important to note that Dante now says that you should listen to the Black Phillip Show mainly from enjoyment. Be careful what you take from it as it mainly comes from a place of anger. His new show is much more refined
/r/TheRedPill11/06/20 08:43 AM
1

Brilliant advice! Taking all this on board. Thanks!
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:02 PM
1

I'll do this. Keep busy with exercise and work, then provide comfort when I'm available. Thanks for the advice!
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:44 PM
1

I would not say he was an Alpha at all... She stopped having sex with him for the last whole year of their relationship. He wrote her a soppy breakup note and was scared that she was going to hit him when she went round to get her stuff (doubt she'd hit anyone). Does this change anything?
/r/askTRP08/01/16 12:23 PM
1

Good point. I've told her I couldn't give a fuck about her ex and that she shouldn't talk to me about him? Is that a good idea? Also, she asked me if I text my past 'friend with benefits'. I told her the truth, which is that I hadn't spoken to her in like 3 months. Bad idea?
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:59 PM
0

I told her not to show me her texts but she got her phone out and put it in my face so I read like two of them. Is this considered loosing frame?
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:56 PM
1

Regarding the boundary thing. I found out that she had texted him but like a week before I told her it would piss me off. So although I set the boundary, bluntly, after she had done it I still think it's a weird thing to do if 'she hates him so much'?? Yes I agree there's no reason for them to text. She said that she thinks that he still likes her...!? Is that a cause for concern? I guess she might like the fact that people care about her? I can sort of understand replying to him when he told he…
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:18 PM
19

Shit your pants and then die? Sound advice, that's how I'd like to go
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 03:33 PM
6

This is a strange one I think... I don't think it is a shit test at all. It seems as if that if she were healthy she would be a good LTR. I'd say comfort her and talk to her but at the same time your life is bigger than her... You want to fuck people so go out and fuck some other girls. I wouldn't say she is a bad person to just chat to so don't go burning bridges but go out there and fuck other girls
/r/askTRP19/06/15 12:24 PM
1

"We will ban subreddits that allow their communities to use the subreddit as a platform to harass individuals when moderators don’t take action. We’re banning behavior, not ideas,"
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:41 PM
4

I've heard that you get paid a fuck-ton for hanging lines from a helicopter. Would you say that is true?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 09:28 PM
3

Amazing FR mate! Definitely inspiring
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 07:05 PM
1

You would have been a white knight if your intent was to save the girls... But your intent was get away quicker and make more money. So no, you are not a white knight
/r/askTRP30/05/15 07:17 AM
1

I don't come here to hate... I come here to better myself... Ffs
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:26 AM
2

I do this and sometimes it can get pretty annoying. I was visiting a lot of universities to see which one I'd like to go to and at every open day I turned in to my mum's personal tour guide. She was absolutely lost without me. What made it annoying is that I was the one meant to be getting a tour around the university but instead I spent most of the day making sure my mum didn't get lost.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 03:16 PM
1

I think out of all the YouTube pick up people, such as RSD, Simple Pickup etc. I think he's the one I most aspire to be like
/r/seduction25/05/15 01:19 PM
4

Honest Signalz is pretty awesome
/r/seduction23/05/15 06:35 AM
7

I say don't sit around thinking she'll text you. She probably won't. Forget about her. If you see her at the gym act as if nothing has happened.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 07:21 AM
18

Talk slower. Fill "erms" and "ahhs" with pauses. Even if you think you're speaking loud 99% of the time you still need to speak louder
/r/seduction03/05/15 02:05 PM
3

Some of the guests Jordan get's on the Art of Charm are amazing! I remember when they used to just do dating and relationship advice but I like how they've transitioned to include networking; financing; health etc...
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 05:21 PM
1

You can't fuck a personality
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 05:16 PM
2

I'm doing the Bogle Heads route. Got me some S&P 500. It's a bit boring but it's nice knowing you're going to beat 99% of active fund managers in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 09:50 PM
1

You're not straight laced, you're just like the majority of guys. You're experiencing the beautifully evil chemical called Oxytocin. Accept that you're not actually obliged and it's just some random chemicals making you feel as if you are
/r/askTRP29/04/15 01:30 PM
1

I'd say take the job but be prepared for something to happen. Don't go out and get a ton of loans thinking you'll be able to pay them off because you might loose your job and then you'd be really fucked
/r/askTRP29/04/15 11:01 AM
2

Fuck dude... It's weird knowing that the world is basically controlled by dopamine
/r/askTRP20/04/15 09:14 PM
4

I'd just say that be ready for her 'boyfriend' to freak out if he finds out... I doubt he knows it's an open relationship
/r/askTRP16/04/15 07:33 AM
1

Can't really fault what you did, nice work. However, I wouldn't stay in contact with any of them as it sounds too complicated and will probably not end well...
/r/askTRP04/04/15 09:29 PM
186

You really have to practice this. It's very easy to randomly make eye contact and automatically you divert your gaze. You have to engrave in your mind, and make it natural, not to look away. Once you do do it though you definitely feel like a boss and girls admire the confidence
/r/seduction30/03/15 03:34 PM
1

I just told her not to tell me about her ex again. You're definitely right about escalating, if she is quite hesitant I'll have my answer about whether she's over him I guess
/r/askTRP26/03/15 06:47 PM
1

Yeah I am. She was telling me that she doesn't usually get intimate with guys and then proceeded to explain why by saying her last boyfriend was a dick etc...
/r/askTRP26/03/15 06:45 PM
1

Haha I obviously wouldn't say any of the stuff but I think that's what she's trying to make me do. I just told her to not tell me about her ex again as I just do not care about him
/r/askTRP26/03/15 06:43 PM
1

What exactly is a cool Instagram? I know it sounds creepy but would you mind PMing your Instagram name? I actually looked round Birmingham University and Aston University. I thought they looked pretty great. What's day game like there? Have you cold approached girls on the campus?
/r/seduction21/03/15 07:37 AM
1

Any tips on becoming well known?
/r/seduction19/03/15 02:23 PM
1

The UK. Around London. It's weird... We're so educated on why not to smoke and what the consequences of drugs are but no one cares. I don't even live in a deprived area where everyone is bored. There are things to do. Half my mates have a tracker on their car so the police can see where they go
/r/seduction19/03/15 02:11 PM
2

I think when you're young social proof in school plays a massive part of being attractive. Drugs usually bring you a pretty big social circle. I guess when you turn 18 and go to a big university or workplace it becomes harder to know everyone and so the power of social proof reduces?
/r/seduction19/03/15 11:51 AM
3

Yeah. I think the benefit is the large social circle you build from doing drugs. The guys end up knowing everyone and so their social proof goes through the roof
/r/seduction19/03/15 11:48 AM
1

Nope. It seems as if the better you know a dealer the more popular you are.
/r/seduction19/03/15 11:45 AM
10

I'm 17 and I've noticed that the most popular guys don't do anything other than get high and do drugs... Would you say that as you get older this sort of behaviour becomes less attractive?
/r/seduction19/03/15 08:48 AM
5

I go to college in the UK and know lots of Indians, Chinese and Pakistani guys. What I've noticed is that a lot of them are successful with women but only when they integrate! They hang around with us British guys, Australians, French, Spanish etc... Unfortunately women do not find most Asian traits attractive and so you have to interact and learn from more attractive cultures. Obviously this may take time but see how passionate the Spanish are, see how funny the British are... I guarantee that …
/r/askTRP14/03/15 07:46 AM
1

I know what she said was harsh but maybe you should take this as a wake up call... I would try and start improving things I can change. I know it's cliché but going to the gym and getting in shape is great. Get some decent clothes, this doesn't mean spending a lot but just getting some well fitted clothes. Lastly, looks play a very little role I think. At my college some of the most popular guys are some of the ugliest I've met... The one thing they do well though is that they are either funny, …
/r/seduction11/03/15 07:52 AM
2

I think I'm currently in between those two mindsets... I'm trying to make the transition to being more social. It's definitely hard but also quite fun. Do you think that being social and adding anyone to your social circle helps with abundance mentality? I guess if you do it for everyone and not just especially for her it should show abundance?
/r/askTRP06/03/15 11:36 PM
1

Dude, that Honest Signals guy is awesome! Why have I only just found him...? You know that girl who was 'waiting for her boyfriend' and was dressed in all black how do you think he realised he could kiss her? I was pretty certain she was not enjoying his company
/r/askTRP06/03/15 10:02 PM
2

Ah I understand now, thanks! I guess it is kind of obvious... If she doesn't want to be approached by me she is unlikely to be receptive. One question though, say I saw a girl walking with her face down and headphones in on the college campus or a girl at a posh nightclub what could I do that would quickly make them receptive? Or is it all simply down to SMV?
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:47 PM
1

I guess you're right. The girls I want to be talking to are the ones who are friendly and fun! However, say a girl was not receptive the first time you talked to her would you try and talk to her again? Maybe this time she might be more receptive?
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:42 PM
1

Hmm I guess I open indirectly but with a smile... Maybe this is annoying as girls know my real intentions but I am too pussy to say it? However, say I was to open directly on a college campus would this result in me becoming the guy who thinks half of the girls in the college or 'cute'?
/r/seduction06/03/15 09:20 PM
3

How would you have felt if she had gone through with suicide? Obviously I don't agree with her manipulation but I'm just wondering. What would you have thought of it?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 08:56 PM
2

No I don't work there. It's just my student card. Everyday that card allows me to get a McFlurry, small cheeseburger or small fries.
/r/seduction05/02/15 07:51 AM
9

Well I do actually get the McFlurry and joke about her choosing the right topping. But, I don't eat it in McDonalds. We walk round the park or the mall and then sit down somewhere. If she really did seem distraught about getting a McFlurry and I still like her then I can always go and get a coffee with them. Besides, going on a date is about creating a memory and for some girls it's a really cute and fun memory and for others it's a memory where they got to hang out with a weird cheap guy. Howev…
/r/seduction05/02/15 07:50 AM
37

I like to joke and say "I'ma take you for a romantic McFlurry". The ones who laugh and go along with it are the ones I like. The ones that don't find it funny I 'next'. I love doing this as it's low pressure and for some reason girls actually find it really cute as we share a joke about going on a date to buy a McDonalds ice-cream. Also, I get McFlurries for free with my student card so I spend no money! :D
/r/seduction04/02/15 08:16 PM
1

I just checked in my browser and I have no idea how that happened. I made this post on an iPad app
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:49 PM
1

I meant the book 'Models' suggests to be vulnerable
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:41 PM
0

What's wrong with the formatting? Anyway, I think you're right about the big fish little pond. I think school is all social circles and social proofing. These high SMV guys only seem to act confident if they're around their circle, put them outside it and you'll see how they'll function when outside of school... Not well...
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:40 PM
3

What does LMR stand for? I've looked in the glossary but I can't find it... Thanks
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 06:47 PM
1

Haha love that response
/r/askTRP19/12/14 08:20 AM
20

You need to look deeper
/r/seduction01/12/14 04:17 PM
8

Do what you want, not what the Red Pill wants. If you like her then cool, if you don't then cool! I think doing what you want is more Red Pill than anything
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 09:48 AM
2

I definitely think you and your brothers need to bond with him. Tell him that he's not cooking dinner tonight and go to the gym or a bar with him
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 08:48 AM
2

Okay I personally feel that some of the guys were a bit creepy but to be pissed off when they just say hello?! That's stupid
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 07:57 AM
1

Wow, I think I'm the complete opposite... When I'm in a big group I just either go silent or I try and find someone that is also intimidated and thus connects with me. However, when I'm in a small group I am much more active and find that I become the leader, somewhat... I feel that I talk more in smaller groups because I think there's more pressure to contribute to the conversation whereas in a large group I don't have to put in any work as I'll just get lost in the group.
/r/seduction23/08/14 01:38 PM
24

Taking a random girl out to dinner can be intimidating for her and for you. I'd suggest something more fun and laid back. Coffee and a walk round the park? Otherwise I feel that she may flake, not saying she will though... Hope this helps OP :)
/r/seduction15/07/14 08:15 AM
1

I usually text "Hey, let's go for coffee tomorrow at 4.00. Let me know if there's a problem x". That usually works for me and if she does say she can't do 4.00 and doesn't offer another time then reply with "Ahh that's a shame. We'll sought something out ;)". Next day I would call her and ask her what time she wants to go. Hope that helps a bit! :)
/r/seduction08/07/14 03:10 PM
3

Okay, I'm going to ask, I know you're thanking Seddit and all but did you really utilise any of the tips? I sometimes find that some of my best approaches have been ones where I just forgot what Seddit said and was just natural? Thanks for the field report though OP! :)
/r/seduction30/06/14 06:07 PM
2

All I'm going to say is that I personally find that you're not just trying to win the girl over you have to win her and her friends. The girl will look at her friends for guidance and to see if her friends are cool with it, because if they're not they'll use all their power to pull her away. Obviously, RSD's method could work but being in the same mindset as Owen can be tough and if you're not then you're fucked. Not saying you're wrong though :)
/r/seduction25/06/14 10:20 PM
7

You need to befriend her friends too. If her friends don't like you then unfortunately they'll try their best to take the girl from you. Go talk to her friends. I'd say just do exactly the same things you'd do to the girl you wanted apart from being too forward and a lot less kino. Hope this helps somewhat :)
/r/seduction25/06/14 05:49 PM
1

Nice article dude! Can I ask how good Birmingham is for game? Day game and night game? Is there a good nightlife? I might be going to the university and I was wondering how good the area is for practicing? Thanks :)
/r/seduction24/06/14 06:59 AM
2

What do you find fun? Standing? Sitting? Walking around? Talking? You see people dance because they find it fun! Women are attracted to fun. The easiest way to portray being fun is to dance but if you don't find it fun then do something that you do find fun. You're there to have a good time. However, I would suggest trying to learn how to dance because once you become better you might love it! Good luck man :)
/r/seduction23/06/14 05:00 PM
3

My first approach was going up to 4 HB 9s at a mates party. It was at the start and 4 of the hottest girls I've ever seen just walked in. No one really knew who they where. They where just these girls that turned up for parties. No one was complaining. So the night goes on and no one has talked to them yet... They're just sitting by themselves in the corner of the room. Everyone was talking about them but no ones was talking to them. I even heard the most (I hate saying this) popular guys saying…
/r/seduction14/06/14 08:55 AM
19

Ahh... I look confident but never feel it... Trying to work on that.
/r/seduction07/06/14 08:33 PM
1

Drinks first. Hopefully you'll get too drunk to got to dinner. But, if you decide to go to dinner at least it will be funny as you'll both be drunk ;)
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:47 PM
1

Drinks first. Hopefully you'll get too drunk to got to dinner. But, if you decide to go to dinner at least it will be funny as you'll both be drunk ;)
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:47 PM
3

The one thing you did wrong is not asking for her number or something. What do you have to loose? You may never see her again anyway! And from what you said I think she was up for giving you her number! Conversation wise I'd suggest going on YouTube and watching 'Nick Sparks, how to hold a conversation like a man'. It's what I follow and seems to work for me :) Nice job though OP! Hope this helps :)
/r/seduction02/06/14 05:52 PM
1

Haha love it! Adding on to fryestone though, it is important to keep connections but don't talk too much! You don't want to meet her and have nothing to say ;)
/r/seduction29/05/14 09:41 PM
2

Nice dude! Yeah being that 1% of guys that actually approach will do wonders! Now, you've got her don't stop 'practicing' though!
/r/seduction29/05/14 09:39 PM
3

With #Close 1: I definitely admire the perseverance and the way you played it out in a fun way, but I do also feel that she may have been using you... I'm not saying she will but that's what it looks like. However, got some good points though! Thanks!
/r/seduction29/05/14 09:37 PM
1

My dad met my mum in a bar
/r/seduction29/05/14 03:58 PM
1

It's the taking advantage that I'm asking about... Not sure how to do that without coming off weird. I get where you're coming from though
/r/seduction26/05/14 06:57 PM
1

Tried that... Sought of worked but I ended up doing most of the talking
/r/seduction26/05/14 02:24 PM
3

Haha love that last bit! That's the exact approach I want to go just didn't know how to go about it
/r/seduction26/05/14 02:23 PM
0

High school is all about social circles and just how popular you are.. It's sad but true... I don't think you did anything wrong to be honest. I feel that because she had no idea who you where and you had no social proof you would unfortunately come off as a burden. If, however, she noticed you with cool friends and girls then this whole thing would probably come off differently. She knows you're a cool guy and therefore would want to get to know you and thus improve her popularity... I'm in 6th…
/r/seduction25/05/14 01:52 PM
1

"Due to being inexperienced". How do you think you get past that? Nice start though! :)
/r/seduction22/05/14 11:47 AM
3

As previously stated, your opener was weak. You came across as a burden. Invite them to you. Cold girls are difficult. I'd say that if she isn't receptive and doesn't like you then stop trying to win her over. Instead include her in the general conversation. Don't make the conversation about her, just include her a bit. Hope this helps :)
/r/seduction21/05/14 10:20 PM
1

Well done!
/r/seduction18/05/14 08:35 PM
1

Thank you for the advice :) Yeah, I love those types of stories. I will definitely give it a read!
/r/seduction27/04/14 11:20 AM
1

Thanks for the book. I will probably buy it :) And yes, I will call now
/r/seduction27/04/14 11:16 AM
2

Well I'm still not invited to most parties but I am now invited to more and more. I honestly feel that the reason is that I now talk to the 'popular' people more. I don't like most of them but they host most parties and get you in to most parties. If they feel that I'm 'cool' and that I'm up for a party they're more likely to want me to come.
/r/seduction27/04/14 11:16 AM
3

The shoulder spin to separate her from a group. Get's you alone and close immediately.
/r/seduction24/04/14 05:10 PM
5

I don't see where you went wrong. The problem is definitely on her end...
/r/seduction22/04/14 08:53 AM
3

So would we all analyse each other's field reports? Showing what they did well and what they should improve? Helping each other out? If so then yes! This sounds like a great idea :)
/r/seduction22/04/14 08:49 AM
1

I am 17, so yes they're sought of crazy alcohol parties. Wow, thanks for the advice. The 'Social Proof' bit is exactly what I am looking for :)
/r/seduction20/04/14 10:25 PM
1

Thank you :) Outside parties my confidence is pretty great. However, the party scene just throws me. I have no idea how these guys are getting the girls. Seems like some solid advice. I've got a house party soon so I will put it to good use. And yes, I am 17. I don't know if these means 'College' in America though?
/r/seduction20/04/14 10:20 PM
1

I've watched a few of these YouTube videos. https://www.youtube.com/user/HowToDanceForMen It is useful if you actually want to know how to actually dance but I agree with previous posts by saying that you just need to be having fun :)
/r/seduction19/04/14 10:10 AM
5

Erm, seeing how far and quick you can escalate kino? I don't really know, waiting for a good answer ;)
/r/seduction06/04/14 10:30 PM
2

Yeah they're quite pointless but I just find them funny. If you try to actually have a 'conversation' with a girl you're going to have a baaad time. I usually just message them questions that help for real life situations like "Do you get approached a lot and what do you think of it?" I've actually got quite a few tips from girls. I do see your point though :)
/r/seduction06/04/14 07:31 PM
1

When you say met, do you mean like a date or just met on the app?
/r/seduction06/04/14 06:39 PM
3

Gotta love the drama. Yeah, I have like a million numbers but no one wants to meet?!?
/r/seduction06/04/14 05:15 PM
1

Yeah that's fair enough. I guess you're right. I mean I do have the confidence. I do go up and get numbers now and then. But, I am in a weird situation. I can get a number but not a friend. Maybe I'll start off with social skills and then move on to seduction? Thanks though :)
/r/seduction29/03/14 02:50 PM
–

What's your aim with your question?
/r/askTRP
–

"Carpe diem" - My boxing coach. After every session he would ask me what I'm doing today and every time I would say I wasn't doing anything... One day he asked me and I once again responded by saying I wan't doing anything. He stopped me and asked me if I knew what 'Carpe Diem' meant. I said no. He looked at me and said "It means seize the day, now go out there and run until you think of something useful to do"
/r/askTRP
–

Nay. There's plenty of other girls who can cook and fuck that aren't going to have as many cons as her. Don't settle.
/r/askTRP
–

I'd just say be ready for her to also try and get you fired... Hopefully this is just a friendly favour but if it's more and you annoy her by not going in to a LTR with her then expect some bullshit like her trying to get you fired
/r/askTRP
–

Noob question but... How come you want a girl to be fucking other guys before you get in to a LTR?
/r/askTRP
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter