MuchoGrande Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
83	I'm not gloating, but as a single dad today I celebrate a dramatic reduction in my monthly child support amount - from $720 to $50 per month!		MuchoGrande	/r/MensRights	31/10/14 08:55 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
158	Praise and preach. I was 45 years old, single, childless and intent on staying that way when my 35-year-old date put out, insisting she was on the pill, insisting she had no STDs, insisting that I rail her bareback. So I did. That was 15 years ago. I have a 14-year-old daughter now. I never married her mother. I lost everything -- twice -- in a series of custody and child support actions initiated by her designed to A) deny me any custodial rights and B) take as much money as possible in child support. I told her …	/r/MensRights	15/02/20 02:29 PM
7	New dating app allows height filter but no weight filter. I can't do fatties any more. If I can't screen them out I ain't playin'.	/r/MensRights	08/12/18 02:41 PM
6	World number one Novak Djokovic has questioned equal prize money in tennis, suggesting men should get better awards as they have more spectators Female porn stars earn more than male porn stars. I don't hear the male porn stars complaining!	/r/MensRights	21/03/16 06:41 PM
2	A man in the midst of custody battle is interrogated by CPS over every minute detail of his life in attempt to find evidence of bad parenting. This happened to me, but the CWS lady was not overtly intimidating like this one. I came out on top pretty quickly with an "abuse unfounded" result, thankfully.	/r/MensRights	25/10/15 04:28 PM
-1	Unmarried Dads: How did you gain custody of your child? [x-post from /r/daddit] Are you an attorney licensed in every state of the U.S.?	/r/MensRights	17/10/15 03:42 PM
1	Unmarried Dads: How did you gain custody of your child? [x-post from /r/daddit] Under the laws of the state I live in (CA), father's rights are EQUAL to mother's rights in this situation. Get a GOOD, REPUTABLE family law attorney who's comfortable in whichever court has jurisdiction. Do not allow the mother of your child to make false claims that would empower a judge to negate your rights. Insist on 50/50 physical and legal custody, at a minimum. Best of luck.	/r/MensRights	16/10/15 04:38 PM
36	Justin Bieber's penis has held a mirror up to our alarming double standards on privacy. If this hadn't been Bieber, but a female celebrity, would the reaction have been the same? There doesn't seem to be anything there.	/r/MensRights	11/10/15 12:31 AM
2	I'm in court next week over custody of my son and my ex has lied and said I'm on drugs, aggressive, and a danger, what can I do? I have been exactly in this place. If 1) none of what she says is true, 2) you have no restraining order against you, 3) you're not on hard drugs, and 4) you have no criminal record you probably don't have anything to worry about. The court needs proof that you're a menace, or, more accurately, that your presence in your son's life is not in his best interests. Have you done anything at all that would enable her to make a case against you? No? Then you probably don't have too much to worry about…	/r/MensRights	27/09/15 03:24 AM
1	"Im tired. I just want to go home..." I would really like to see this on a bigger subreddit for more exposure.	/r/MensRights	19/09/15 04:43 PM
3	Helen Mirren: 'Men should get their arms off women's shoulders' The British actress gets annoyed when she sees a man slinging an arm around his girlfriend as she feels the gesture looks like "ownership" I can't imagine my wife NOT liking me putting my arms around her shoulders. I'd do it more often if she weren't so dang tall.	/r/MensRights	13/09/15 04:40 PM
0	Japan’s sexual apathy is endangering the global economy. Japanese women have complained of soshoku danshi or "herbivore men," so called for their lack of interest in the opposite sex. This is also sta I am not sure "blaming men" was part of an agenda here.	/r/MensRights	31/12/14 08:32 PM
1	Japan’s sexual apathy is endangering the global economy. Japanese women have complained of soshoku danshi or "herbivore men," so called for their lack of interest in the opposite sex. This is also sta http://www.washingtonexaminer.com/shock-study-marriage-rate-declines-with-porn-use-threatening-economy-society/article/2557461	/r/MensRights	30/12/14 11:24 PM
3	Currently completing my module on family law This is not the case in California. The law is gender neutral. The courts may not always be gender neutral, however.	/r/MensRights	07/11/14 01:53 PM
1	I'm not gloating, but as a single dad today I celebrate a dramatic reduction in my monthly child support amount - from $720 to $50 per month! OP here...Just to clarify, I used to make six figures plus and lived out of state, which tilted the scale heavily in favor of unemployed bio-mom. In my state (CA), child support is calculated mostly based on 1) % of time with minor child and 2) income. For the first five years (or so) of my daughter's life I lived in CO and visited once a month, meaning I had about 10% share of custody and a huge ($1,742 per month) payment. I had an inexperienced attorney who advised me to voluntarily quit my jo…	/r/MensRights	02/11/14 03:55 PM
59	24% of women would have a baby without their partner's consent My baby momma did exactly that when she was 36 years old. I was ten years her senior, in semi-retirement and I didn't want children. She told me she had no STDs and was on the pill. When she came up pregnant I assumed we'd be making a trip to the Family Planning clinic but she said "Oh no. I don't believe in abortion as a form of birth control. I'm having this baby whether you like it or not. I may not get another chance." This is a 36-year-old woman with no college education and no steady job. …	/r/MensRights	22/08/14 02:02 PM
2	The way police trick innocent men to arrest them Not a bad piece of local journalism, and by a TV station no less.	/r/MensRights	15/08/14 02:34 PM
3	How absence of a loving father can wreck a child's life: New study shows relationship with both parents is crucial As a single father who's had to fight my daughter's bio-mom for my custody rights I approve this post.	/r/MensRights	05/05/14 12:04 AM
18	Adam Kokesh's brilliant, articulate Libertarian girlfriend destroys the myth of modern feminism The title is a little overblown, but I enjoyed watching this. I can't say that about 60% of the YouTube links on Reddit.	/r/MensRights	19/03/14 02:40 PM
4	Forgotten Fathers: How the current broken child support and welfare system damages, even kills, poor and working class men I've been on the hook for child support since the day my eight year old daughter was born. I've made monthly payments ranging from $1,750 to $720 (decrease the result of going from 10%/90% custody to 50%/50%). I've paid her mother more than a quarter million dollars cash (after tax) in those eight years. Her mother has not worked since my daughter was born and to this day she refuses to seek employment. A month ago she called the cops and told them I was abusing my daughter. She did it TWICE in …	/r/MensRights	22/08/13 11:45 PM