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Lol I'm not mad or crying bud. i'm very happy in my life lately. you assume any of what she did on instagram has to do with why we broke up and i just told you it's not, nothing more to it
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:10 PM
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good post. thank you. we need more encouraging thoughtful posts like this. in this day and age we are too quick to judge ourselves (and others) without even giving things a chance and putting our best foot forward.
/r/seduction11/04/22 07:56 PM
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I generally didn't care about most of it but your comment is dumb because we have a whole child together and i broke up with her not she with me. but nice try
/r/seduction11/04/22 07:38 PM
1

you're going to get very different answers on this. some people are not cool at all with it. and some are. if the girl believes its for some feminist body positive bullshit then there's probably not stopping her or else you're just a "misogynist" in her eyes.
/r/seduction11/04/22 07:33 PM
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agreed i would throw a hail-mary out there and send a more assertive/risky text though. your first message was as if you went on a date and was too formal. tell her you will fuck her brains out like the dumb slut she is, but you won't chase her for it.
/r/seduction11/04/22 07:29 PM
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honestly, the power-move is to not text her back and act like it didn't bother you. go on with your life. no point in chasing people
/r/seduction11/04/22 07:08 PM
1

Well I think you've found your problem. Laziness. I don't even think you being skinny was that big of a deal breaker. I'm skinny too (and bald!) and I've still banged chubby girls who said that. The problem was you gave up and got hurt by it. This will sound almost barbaric but it's true. Women want a man who will take the lead, be confident, strong, and determined. If you start acting antsy or skiddish it will turn them off, BIG TIME! There are plenty of ugly men with hot girlfriends. It doesn'…
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:28 PM
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My ex had like 10k followers on Instagram and she'd post shit like that all the time. Sometimes it would actually make me look bad and I'd have to tell her to delete it. (And stop lying) But every time I confronted her she'd be really embarrassed and just say things like "oh it's just for Instagram you know I don't mean it"
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:19 PM
135

Lol don't take it serious. She is just posting it for content. It's just to get likes and make herself feel cool. TikTok =\= reality
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:16 PM
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Nobody has time. all your replies are: "but, _" "well I don't want to _" "I don't have time to __" "I'm not attractive" They're excuses.. If you want something - hard work is required. And if you don't put the time into making it happen, then you probably don't want it as bad as you think you do. But if you REALLY want it. You will MAKE time. And that goes for everything in life..girls, college, a nice car, a nice place to live, a nice dinner, new PS5, etc.
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:14 PM
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Good things in life don't come easy buddy.... How do expect to get a good job? You have to interview with at least 5-10 different companies to even get to the final interview.
/r/seduction11/04/22 05:45 PM
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Lol yeah. And? that's how dating works. but you have to work with what you got. I'm bald. And I have a kid. Anything is possible. But not with a loser attitude
/r/seduction11/04/22 05:32 PM
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You probably will but that's the whole point of dating. You will encounter more "no's" than "yes" It's up to you to not let that effect your self confidence. Everyone has preferences. Everyone is different. Don't give up. And don't cry about it
/r/seduction11/04/22 05:26 PM
1

I go on some dates with "average" women mostly as practice lol. I know that sounds strange but it works. Imagine if every date you went on was only with 10/10 girls. You would go on many less dates and probably be more nervous / off your game. If you're going on many dates regularly you're always warmed up ready for whatever question or situation comes your way. Helps boost your confidence overall too.
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:49 PM
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Try regular meditation. R/meditation has good resources and tips. I meditate 15-20mins per day and my anxiety doesn't control me anymore
/r/seduction10/04/22 04:19 PM
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I'm 25 and I have never once cared about a "streak" Sounds like some zoomer shit
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:11 PM
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Not sure what you want us to say. Either get tinder and try your best or go out and try to pick some girls up. If those two choices aren't possible due to your injury then just jerk off and get over it for now
/r/seduction08/04/22 06:52 PM
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Why would you feel inferior to anyone? If you are being the best version of yourself you have nothing to worry about
/r/seduction08/04/22 12:03 AM
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Just like in sales baby it might take 100 "no's" before you get that one "YES" that could change your life Nothing fruitful in life comes easily Thank you for this post
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:29 PM
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Haha yeah I agree. When discussions start to get into analysis of why she won't accept a date, or why this and that happened, a lot of the answers get way too unrealistic. "Oh she didn't want to accept the date because she could tell by the placement of your left hand and the hesitancy of your voice was off by 6.4 decibels" It's like, no. Women just suck at scheduling things. Have you ever asked a girl what she wants for lunch? They can barely make that decision themselves. Or, maybe, WOMEN GET …
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:27 PM
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I've never seen mods delete these kind of comments. I have, however, seen little nerds start arguing and take it personal whenever they are told things like this. So I guess they are reporting them.
/r/seduction06/04/22 05:54 PM
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Nice..this is the kind of quality content we need around here. With tools to practice.
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:50 PM
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People don't care about you as much as you think. Everyone is wrapped up in their own world, their own problems, and themselves.
/r/seduction05/04/22 01:28 PM
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That's a question only you can answer my friend. We know nothing about either of you other than you busted a nut on her titties. If you like her Personality and think you can get along with her. Either way you can always break up if it doesn't work out.
/r/seduction04/04/22 08:53 PM
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This was not a great video tbh. All it said was that he wears his emotions on his sleeve and he is vulnerable. That's cool and all. Good for him being in touch with his soft side. But you can connect with people on emotional levels without them wanting to fuck or date you. My question would be how he initiates these conversations and how he escalates this into getting intimate
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:11 PM
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Why are you asking us? This is completely up to you and whatever you're comfortable with. If you're cool with having something casual that may not lead into an actual relationship immediately, then just vibe and keep your expectations low. If you want a relationship with him and nothing else, this is just a recipe for disaster. He just got out of a relationship still probably processing emotions and you'd be rushing it. None of this has to do with seduction though.
/r/seduction04/04/22 04:51 PM
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She literally told you what she wants, and you're asking US what she wants? She already told you.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:04 PM
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I'm not understanding why you even made this post. Every reply you've gotten you just say, "no, that won't work. I think I should do this instead" So why are you even asking? Just do what you think is right if you're not open to advice
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:46 PM
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Its not that direct if he's already done it before. Not sure why you're even asking this
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:28 AM
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I've been in a similar situation. The best way to win her back is just to move on asap. If you're solid then she will miss you. If you're not solid - then there is some work to be done on yourself, alone. I made the mistake of begging, being needy, etc. And I lost her. She will never come back.
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:28 PM
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I think you already have her where you want her. You've seen what she'll do if you ignore her - she will come crawling back lol. Just play it cool and let her mind wander "OMG why doesn't he want meeee!"
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:05 PM
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I'll chime in and mention that this also really can depend on where you live and how old you are. 18-19 in a city with public transport? You don't need a car. Im 25 and live in a rural area, so not having a car is like a death sentence. You can't go anywhere or do anything. If I tried to go on a date with a girl and didn't have a car it would be way too embarrassing and she'd probably think I was a bum.
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:00 PM
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Lol I thought your original comment was spot on. Seems like these 2 goons replying to you are a bit insecure
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:12 PM
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I have been going on more dates since being bald and I've gotten a lot of compliments on it lol. I've been told I was hot and I hadn't heard that in awhile. Being bald is like so shocking to some people for some reason. When you go for it, and rock it with confidence. You earn people's respect. But, don't slack on your style, accessories, and hygiene. (Shape your eyebrows and beards fellas! No straggly stringy pube hairs. Women notice that shit. They have like 5 different lotions and moisturizer…
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:10 PM
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I don't think it's totally worthless but definitely don't rely solely on the apps
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:25 PM
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I'm actually bald irl and it's just a society thing towards baldness. They would clown him more if he had just gone bald compared to getting the transplant. Humans are very very attached to their hair.
/r/seduction29/03/22 09:25 PM
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I never said to not be yourself and be a different person. So yeah, you are lost.
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:58 PM
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trying to be something I’m not This is the part you're getting lost in lol. Doing things outside of your comfort zone does not make you "fake" or an "actor" . The FRUITFUL things of our lives don't come EASILY. What if Kanye west stayed in his comfort zone, in his room making beats, instead of cold calling record labels and playing his music in their office when they didn't want to listen?
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:08 PM
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I think your perception of like, some Alpha Chad dude is a bit off, too. Think of it more like this. You're at a party and there is 2 different guys (we'll assume they have very similar attractiveness levels. normal guys. ). One is standing off to the side of the dance floor, drink in hand, nodding his head to the music. The other one is doing crazy dance moves, laughing, smiling, having a great time. He's not even a great dancer. Who do you think the majority of the crowd at the party will be m…
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:13 PM
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Humans are not some special snowflakes. We're literally monkeys. To win a mate you have to hunt and present.
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:25 PM
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do you feel it's because you don't see the results yet
/r/seduction28/03/22 11:49 PM
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What actions are you taking that help your attractiveness? Are you going to the gym? Working on your style? Are you setting and achieving goals? These are what help self confidence. You can't just out-think yourself or out-think the negative thoughts. But if you're doing things that help toward it you will start to feel better
/r/seduction28/03/22 08:17 PM
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The point of all of this is not to turn yourself into someone you aren't. It's not to become a liar. The point is to sharpen your conversational skills and build your confidence. An introvert who goes out and approaches a woman is not being "fake". They are learning a new skill. If you prefer to be introverted and talk to less people. That's fine. But how will you ever meet a woman this way? Again the point is to meet a woman, sharpen your communication, and just be confident in yourself.
/r/seduction28/03/22 07:14 PM
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If you're asked this question by a woman you're trying to seduce, I'd keep it brief and switch back to flirting. I work in finance. Learning the ropes of finance, so our honeymoon will be in Hawaii. Unless there's somewhere more extravagant you'd prefer? ^ that might not be the BEST response but hopefully you see where I'm going with this. Avoid talking about spreadsheets whatever you do lol.
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:03 PM
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Great advice. Building that value is key. You must be a salesman
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:13 PM
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Does this have any long term effects such as infidelity and constantly searching for women while in a relationship? I understand the point of seduction is not to get laid every night but more so to be able to pursue relationships you otherwise wouldn’t have had access to. Answered your own question here when I do meet a girl who I connect very well with. I feel as tho, I’ll be scared to truly open up and show my true self… someone who You should always be authentic to your true self... Seduction…
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:37 PM
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Yeah definitely a weird scenario. I have hooked up with girls and just made out and they just didn't want to be penetrated on the first date. But the no kissing or making out thing is really weird. He probably just needs to communicate and ask wtf was up with that lol.
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:57 PM
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That's the "can't teach an old dog new tricks" mentality but we aren't dogs lol we are smarter and control our own destiny in a way. It's like a skinny kid who wants to get jacked in the gym. Probably been eating small portions, doesn't even know proper form. Lots of changes and adjustments to be made. Hard? Yes. Impossible? No.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:48 PM
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There's really no solution to improving your social skills besides putting yourself in social situations over and over until you eventually find your way
/r/seduction23/03/22 03:35 PM
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I'm not trying to hurt your feelings. But it's just the truth. Would you rather someone keep it honest with you so you can improve or would you rather me say "OMG don't worry man girls just suck and life is hard!"
/r/seduction22/03/22 08:19 PM
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Lol this is the most beta boy post I've ever read. Dude got a boner when a girl gave him the slightest bit of attention and got sad cause he had no game whatsoever
/r/seduction22/03/22 02:54 PM
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Well first of all you got lucky you only did one bump because cocaine in larger quantities has some serious negative effects. I had a bad coke phase in college is how I know. Irritability, paranoia, anxiety, and inability to sleep. Also your attention shifts from talking to girls to wanting more coke. Not to mention your dick doesn't even work right when you're tweaked out. My advice is to ignore that false sense of energy. Any substance that gives you a quick boost has side effects. The best po…
/r/seduction21/03/22 11:05 PM
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When I was a kid I kept falling off my bike when my mom took the training wheels off. Did I hurt myself and fail many times? Yes I did. But I kept learning. Nothing in life is easy, dude. Stop making excuses
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:19 PM
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Cap
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:13 PM
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Blue balls is just a term for not busting a nut. The nut doesn't actually stay stored at the tip of your balls dude. You're fine
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:44 PM
3

This sounds so complicated and sounds like a waste of your time
/r/seduction20/03/22 11:02 PM
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I work in sales, and this is the same thing. It's all a numbers game bro. With 8 billion people some won't like it but those who are receptive it's worth it. The point of it all is to put yourself out there and be confident and shoot your shot. What do you have to lose?
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:33 AM
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You just be playful and flirty. Why would you ask about what they do for work lol the goal is to get their number. "Hey i saw you down the aisle and thought I might regret not saying hey haha. I like your dress/outfit/style!" somethin like that. See how she reacts. Does she seem like she doesn't want to be bothered then buzz off. If she smiles and says OMG thank you that's so nice! "No problem, I wonder if your personality is nice as your looks, I've got plans in a hour but could I get your numb…
/r/seduction19/03/22 01:13 AM
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Go places where people are and talk to women.... Farmers markets. Malls. Restaurants. Library. Sporting events. Art galleries. You can even talk to girls at grocery stores.
/r/seduction18/03/22 10:40 PM
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Bruh what are you doing. Wasting your own time.
/r/seduction18/03/22 07:36 PM
1

How are we supposed to now? Youd be better off asking her directly instead of speculating and taking no action. If you don't make a move soon she might move on to whoever gives her attention next.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:25 PM
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Ok
/r/seduction18/03/22 04:23 PM
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No time for this nonsense a real relationship involves sex. Don't be rude about this and just ghost her but definitely spend your time more wisely. Don't let her turn you into a therapist.
/r/seduction18/03/22 03:13 PM
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He should at least talk about vaccines and presidents before asking what tribe she is from!
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:09 AM
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"not looking for life advice just some pointers" Well that seems a bit counterproductive. ;) But seriously don't sweat it too much everyone finds their path. When I was 20 I had a baby on the way in a toxic relationship and also was unemployed. There was many days where I would turn to alcohol or drugs just to shut my stressed brain up. But I guess I made it work and got through it. I worked random jobs for awhile until I got into sales and now I'm making good money. also, I'm 25 and bald. Girls…
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:04 AM
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When it comes to scheduling you need to offer her two different days and times. If she's in the lab late how about lunch? Friday at 1 or Saturday at 2. If she denies both of the day/times you decide to offer, she doesn't want to put the effort into seeing you.
/r/seduction16/03/22 02:51 PM
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Money clothes and cars does not buy happiness however they do make you feel accomplished and can help you feel more confident. You need to set yourself short term goals like, "next month, I want $200 in savings." Then when you hit that goal it will make you feel good. Then you say for the next month I want $225. Etc. Use this for the gym, appearance goals, career moves, dating, dieting, etc
/r/seduction15/03/22 08:56 PM
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You're overthinking way too much. Not a single employee would give a rats ass if they saw you there again. They will probably just think you are cool.
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:36 PM
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What lol
/r/seduction14/03/22 06:56 PM
1

Ok. Ass pic* Step-mom* Is that better. Lol
/r/seduction14/03/22 06:34 PM
1

I mean wtf do you want us to say? "Keep texting her! Send a dick pic!" It all just comes off as desperate anyway. If she wants YOU she will come back. Otherwise, all you were was a quick escape from reality. What do you want? To be a step-dad? Or to be the cheater? Either way you lose.
/r/seduction14/03/22 06:33 PM
1

In my opinion you should give two dates+times for a date and if they reject both, THEN they aren't interested. There's no possible way they're busy both times you offer.
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:36 PM
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She sounds like she has way too many requirements and ultimately doesn't know what she wants. It's a waste of your time. You will end up frustrated and confused.
/r/seduction14/03/22 03:17 PM
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There is quiet literally no way for us to know. All we can do is guess. Maybe she got nervous. Maybe she saw you in person and you looked different. Maybe she's secretly dating someone there and is avoiding being caught cheating. The list goes on, but fuck it. Who cares. Move on, and spare your mental energies.
/r/seduction12/03/22 07:00 PM
3

This should probably be one of the first things you mention lol.
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:48 PM
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I personally take Macklemore's advice and Walk up in the club like whaddup I got a big cock
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:46 PM
1

This is godlike advice
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:57 PM
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Honestly you should really lower your expectations and set the bar a bit lower. How about instead of your goal being to have sex with a girl while you're on vacation, you just approach and befriend 3 girls. Baby steps. Don't overwhelm yourself because if you fail to have sex you will just be really hard on yourself for no reason. You (and myself) are beginners after all
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:55 PM
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Women don't know how to plan a date and they don't want to. They want you to figure it all out and take the initiative. Even if you have to jump through 72 hoops to get there
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:15 PM
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Listening > talking Ask questions that aren't just yes or no answers.
/r/seduction10/03/22 04:28 PM
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Let her pick the girl ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS OR ELSE SHE WILL GET INSECURE!! ideally your girl would do most of the talking and try to kiss the girl playfully. But if she's shy y'all approach together and just make a friend and take it from there. LET HER PICK THE GIRL, IM WARNING YOU!! Lol
/r/seduction10/03/22 07:58 AM
2

Yeah that's a good way to view it. I work in sales and I sometimes just pretend I'm doing a prank call just like when I was in middle school. Loosens me up a bit
/r/seduction10/03/22 06:57 AM
1

She's overreacting but this is normal behavior for women. They take it very personally when they can't make you nut. There are used to sex being their only personality trait. If you take it away from them their life is in shambles. I had an ex who would literally have a meltdown if she started trying to hook up with me and I'd reject her because I wasn't in the mood. One time she even grabbed a razor blade and held it to her wrist and said if I didn't fuck her she would kill herself. . Absolute …
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:41 PM
1

Not with that defeatist attitude, dude. Things in life aren't easy but the things we work hard for are the most fruitful.
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:36 PM
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Cool just remember to be direct, be confident, and YOU are the prize!!
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:55 PM
3

So are you planning to ask her out again in person for a date to hang out alone? Otherwise you're setting yourself up to get friend zoned
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:51 PM
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Then reiterate your interest? It's not being pushy. And even if it is, so what? If she says no to your proposal about choosing a different day then she isn't interested and you will save your time. I work in sales and I sell $15,000 products. I have to set appointments for these people and I was trained to always offer two different times and dates. Never one. This is the same concept. It might just be a bad night for her and she is too socially unaware to offer another night herself.
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:48 PM
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You should've asked for another day. You can't just offer one day and time and give up? Say, "ok. Which day are you free then? I want to take you out."
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:33 PM
2

Just text her back and say "hey I'm glad I got the chance to talk with you for awhile, you are great. But my schedule is getting busy and I'm not looking for more friendships to juggle. Take care!"
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:24 PM
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Well there's literally no other option. Meet girls irl or on dating apps. The reasons that your approaches may not have worked can be improved through trial and error and taking criticism. The best you can do for online dating is... Checks notes take better pictures and cross your fingers. That's literally it.
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:51 PM
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The hair thing is just trivial some girls will like it and others won't. I'm bald and some girls don't care at all and some probably wouldn't even talk to me due to that. I'm in a similar boat though. I think the key is just to get off the dating apps and start approaching IRL
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:41 PM
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Being a good listener > being a good talker Conversation starters need to start a dialogue. Avoid yes or no questions
/r/seduction09/03/22 06:03 PM
1

Well there's a difference between monotone and deep. If you're just talking like an unenthused robot then yeah you come off as a weirdo. I work in sales and some simple voice inflection works wonders
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:47 PM
1

This is probably the strangest post I've read here so far.
/r/seduction08/03/22 07:06 AM
1

And in this case you probably won't find your type at a bar or club anyway
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:08 AM
3

It can work in your favor if you're going for a church girl lol
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:08 AM
1

I mean, the ball is in her court. But also give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she got distracted, forgot to text you asap, and then got nervous to text late? You can always text her again and say something
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:00 AM
6

Yup Girls like to be complimented on their LOOK not their LOOKS
/r/seduction08/03/22 01:56 AM
2

Trust me the only thing that makes it better is time. Yes you can talk to other girls to help distract yourself but it will be just that a distraction
/r/seduction07/03/22 03:23 PM
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"Feel free to say no" is not good. Not confident enough, and also you don't want to instill that doubt in their mind..
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:31 AM
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You already know he's faking it so why let him live rent free in your mind? You won't change him. Just learn to not take it personal.
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:35 PM
1

Yes. I'm actually a bit nervous about my upcoming second date with a girl for this reason lol. I didn't make a move my last 2 second dates and I think it's a huge reason why we never went on a 3rd
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:08 PM
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