Muffassa Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Narcissistic Ex? Why People with Narcissistic Personality Disorder Try to Take Everything in Divorce I'm in my early 50s. So it's not too draining on me.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/26 02:38 PM
-2	STBXW wants to turn in paperwork together and get a drink after I had dinner with my x and legal aid, I was served my divorce papers by our waitress. After dinner my ex and I had some shenanigans in the parking lot. We were amicable thru most of the divorce and still talk occasionally after 20 years of being divorced.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/26 03:31 PM
3	Narcissistic Ex? Why People with Narcissistic Personality Disorder Try to Take Everything in Divorce My son is going thru this exact thing right now. She attempted to "flee the state for her saftey," He filed for divorce and she was served in the state she fled to. in 2 different courts now she has claimed that she was not served properly or timely. The 1st court has already rejected that claim. Now that she is behind the 8 ball she is doing everything in her power to make my son look like the bad guy. He has provided for them the entire time of their marriage and even accepted a child she had …	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/26 01:56 PM
3	😩 I know my son pretty damn well. I also trust the 2 lawyers he's had to hire, that both said nothing in her RO complaint shows any violence or abuse, and wonder why it was granted. Both of them said it's all typical end of marriage arguments. She also had an RO rejected on Father's Day, because what she had in there was not substantial enough. Also he was not served with the RO until 4 days after she reported the violation.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/26 01:19 AM
7	😩 My son is going thru this bullshit right now. She hit him with an RO for abuse and violence that didn't exist. She violated him because he forwarded an email to her with a past due bill in her name. I'm currently sitting outside corrections waiting for him to be released.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/26 08:10 PM
2	HOW DO I LET GO? Relearning yourself is the hard part. I'm coaching my son thru this currently. Unfortunately he is in the very beginning stages of divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/26 02:58 PM
2	HOW DO I LET GO? You have to take time to learn about yourself, Some quiet time alone is a good thing. Figure out what healthy outlets you enjoy and start doing them. No need to find a new friend group or relationship immediately, figure your damn self first. I was in a 13 year relationship that ended 8 years ago. I took the time to see what I had lost or given up in those 13 years. I loved, cycling, snowboarding and playing volleyball. We had to live together for a year before we could get the house on the mark…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/26 02:43 PM
5	Men who are separated but still in the same house My son will be going through this in the near future. His wife took off to her home state with the kids in June, and tried to relocate there permenately. When the kids asked to go home to my son, she took out a Restraining Order. Now that the kids should be returning to school in a few weeks she is planning to come back to the house. He is in the military and neither of them will be able to afford another place to live. Currently he has to drive 16 hours from where he is stationed to the state s…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/26 12:37 PM