Mugennsx Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	No support left I think for most people support isn't to keep discussing the same issues repeatedly. It's to hold your hand and help you make a decision. Because if you keep talking about the same things and remain inactive I've, they might feel you're not respecting their time or perspective. The harsher thing I want to say, with respect of course, is that as men we need to take a good look at ourselves and if our indecisiveness is something our spouses and others find unattractive. And then we make the necess…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/25 05:30 AM
2	Relationship after divorce Because you haven't had enough time to heal and really go through every hurt and reason the marriage didn't work out to become wiser and better.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/25 02:59 PM
1	How do you not think about what the ex (STBEX for me) is doing and with whom ?! That's evidence of infidelity in court, isn't it?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/25 12:47 PM
2	How do you not think about what the ex (STBEX for me) is doing and with whom ?! Yes, that is all you need to realize. Move on and don't look back.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/25 11:52 AM
5	How do you not think about what the ex (STBEX for me) is doing and with whom ?! It is possible that it is the wrong time to salvage anything, because she wanted the separation/divorce and the reasons she convinced herself of are all very strong at the moment. As a stranger, I do not know if you have processed those reasons, but do not go apologizing and convincing her if it's only been days or a few weeks. Those reasons are still very strong in her head. And you need to know if her reasons are real or made up. If she wants someone else she won't be convinced by anything you…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/25 09:57 AM
6	Unable to Move on- Ready to Die Her inhumane treatment of you should galvanize you instead of dragging you down further. Nobody deserves to be treated that way. One of your kids is an adult, the other will be in 1 year and can make their own choices about seeing you, just build those relationships. They are old enough to filter the BS from the ex, I believe. As for your finances, you can do whatever job you see fit. I don't know if you have to pay alimony since the kids are already so big and the wife chose to leave? If not yo…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/06/25 10:34 AM
2	Stock market Loss, she filed for Divorce No. She will do it again if your situation were to reverse on this stock or you lose on something else. Definite no.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/25 11:31 AM
3	Stock market Loss, she filed for Divorce My ex-wife was also feckless about money, huge spender. Had crazy high unobtainable standards at the same time about our businesses, which we co-ran. When all my savings and parent's contributions ran out, she also did. Trust me you are not losing by having her leave, you are winning for the long term. Man to man, you are going to come out of this better than you expected, I am loving life without her and the financial pressure.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/25 07:52 AM
3	It’s the little joys of being divorced I'd suggest with your next significant other that there be a portion of your income that remains totally personally discretionary spending without judgement for your hobbies, for helping others, etc. This keeps things healthy. She can have hers too.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/25 05:43 AM
9	Anyone ever remarry their ex…and had success? If divorces happen because two people believed they couldn't change enough and work things out, what makes them believe the differences can be bridged in a few years? People hardly ever change. In fact people tend to become more entrenched in their behaviors, and it takes some real soul searching to believe you should change and stick with it. And how many actually can achieve that?	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/25 05:59 AM
36	Why did she become so EVIL? My experience says that at some point they started wanting something different. They were bored and got stimulated by something or someone else. And the main reason they became vindictive and mean is they convinced themselves you are the villain so that they can feel better about themselves.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/25 07:02 AM
3	Sex drive messed up after separating. I had this exactly after I lost someone special. Give it a few months, you're rushing the healing process.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/25 04:39 AM
8	Can I make it or living a solitary life after divorce is only a fantasy? Yes you can. It only feels bleak in the beginning. Then you remember all the unhappiness and realize you are much better off alone. And then you start to feel hope and feel the courage to make new connections. But do remember to work on yourself and the areas which didn't work the first time. My own relationship after my divorce is so much better. Have faith.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/25 11:05 AM
1	I’m starting to think that being single is the way to go How did it go? Do update!	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/25 05:17 PM
6	Do you think they regret it? Women will always try to convince themselves it's nothing to do with them and it's the husband who has created all he misery....	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/23 02:39 PM
2	Fuck, this hurts. Agree, focus on yourself and your passion and mission in life. It will put your mind in a good place. There are no guarantees that love or a relationship will last in life, please stay strong. My own papers are coming..	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/23 02:08 PM