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| 4 | The Right Kind of Vibe | Fundamentals | Multi_Trillionaire | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 02:48 PM |
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| 1 | Need help with a GirlWhat do you mean? You use double entendres, tease them, misinterpret what she's saying, and make subtle suggestive jokes while having conversation. The point of meeting and starting a chat with a girl is to flirt and subtly convey your interest to her. So are you asking for examples or do you not know what flirting means? | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Clout vs cold approachOr you could just pay them like he does... He has a model casting agency as part of his marketing arm in his business. His Instagram is just a funnel for his products and course. The models he features on IG are cast as "brand ambassadors" to promote "his products", and each sign NDAs of course. And because of the culture within the company, girls know if they want to get selected for higher paying contracts, they're gonna have to sleep with Dan and be open to nude shoots. It's no different to w… | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Rapid escalation?Kissing is different to going home with you and having a one night stand. One is common behavior in clubs, the other, much less so. Sure, you can make it happen, but you'll have to spend at least several hours with the girl that night, and the success rate will be a lot lower compared to kissing. That being said, over time, you might be able to pick up which type of girls are more willing vs less willing, and probably increase your chances by only testing with the girls you already filtered out.… | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Questions to askWhat do you wanna know about her? Then...ask her that. If you don't know how to phrase it, then post about that, but no one's gonna tell you how to "want to get to know her". | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 09:59 AM |
| 1 | How to not have the girls get attached?The only thing you're stroking is your own ego by posting in this sub lol. If you don't want them attached, then don't lead them on. If you're gonna sleep with them and then ghost that's not gonna be a good look and your rep will soon catch up. You know what to do already. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaches in shopping malls are hard as fuckThere are a few streamers who are good. They usually do it as their main niche of content but they don't sell anything. They've also been naturally gaming and comfortable flirting with girls since they were in their teens. JasonTheWeen and Marlon are the first two that came to my mind. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaches in shopping malls are hard as fuckThose Instagram influencers are also not doing it for the girls, they're doing it to create content to get views, which they leverage to sell their course down the line or to build a following. Even if they fail, it's content. So they win regardless of what happens. They also have total editorial control and a single video can be filmed across multiple days and then take only the best clips that get views. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 03:27 AM |
| 1 | What would be the best phrases to talk to a woman?If you want lines, here's some: Hey, I saw you looked cute so I thought I'd come and say hi. Hey I have a quick question... Hey need a quick female advice on something... Any of these would work, but if you don't know how to continue it, then what you're missing is not lines, it's conversation skills. Your goal is to get into conversation, then flirt a little, and then find a reason to get her number if you wanna keep in contact. If there's no reason to keep in contact or you've barely talked, t… | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 02:44 AM |
| 2 | What would be the best phrases to talk to a woman?If the guy is asking for a line, then he probably won't know how to properly deliver the line you gave. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Need help with a GirlWhat are you gonna do once you get her snap? Suddenly get the confidence to text her? Dude, the first step is to open your mouth and say hi. The second step is to start a conversation and keep it going. The third, flirt and make her laugh. The snap is the 4th step after you've done all that and have an actual reason to continue talking to her. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 02:24 AM |
| 1 | How to approach girl through linkdinGive her your CV. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 02:14 AM |
| 5 | How to escalate on first date?A couple would never go to a club for a date lol. Why would a guy want his girl to be around other dudes who's gonna be eyeing her up and down? If she likes you, she's not gonna feel comfortable with other guys potentially approaching her in front of you. If she's barely interested in you, then taking her to a club is the same as giving her away to other guys. Generally, the first date I'd normally do a daytime activity, that way you have a lot more time to hang out, and flirt and be casual and … | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 02:11 AM |
| 2 | How Do I Let Go of Outcomes and Completely Internalize Non-Neediness?Easiest and most effective strategy -> lower your standards. If you normally approach a 8/9, go for a 5 or 6. If you normally go for 5/6, then go for a 2 or 3. Sorry to say this but unless you have some success you're not going to know what being "non-needy" feels like. But if you do this you have to actually like the girl, even if she is a 5. Find a reason to like her, be it she's sweet, she's kind, she's intelligent, she's open, she's non-judgemental, whatever it is, you have to like her for t… | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 01:19 AM |
| 1 | How to respond when girls compliment you?😂 | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 01:04 AM |
| 1 | How to respond when girls compliment you?If it was something like how you look or how you're dressed, I go "Thank you! You look really cute as well." If it's about something you did for her like "That's so sweet, you didn't have to do that for me, thanks!", you could go one of two ways: "It's all good. You don't have to worry about it." "It's all good. Bet you didn't think you'd have enjoyed the date this much did you?" Or "Bet you didn't think I'd be such a gentleman did you?" (Say it with a smile and raised eyebrows). | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 12:15 AM |
| 18 | Guys, how should a girl initiate the touch?I don't think he'd mind whatever way you do it, just probably not in public. Lean in his shoulder. Say you're cold and cuddle up. Lean in to kiss him. Kiss him on the neck. Tell him you're in the mood. Sit on his lap. If you're completely out of ideas, just walk out of the bathroom in lingerie 😂 | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 06:15 PM |
| 2 | How do you keep the “spark” alive after the first few dates?The "spark", is just the honeymoon phase. Once you get into a relationship with a girl, the spark naturally goes away. Not necessarily a bad thing since at that point you should already be close with each other and be physically intimate and have spent a bunch of time together already. So it's emotional investment and connection that holds the relationship together, not the "sparks". But if you're not at that point, then the goal should be to move towards that point as soon as you can. If the sp… | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Your most useful seduction tip?It depends on the delivery. If he was saying it looking like 😏. Then he's basically telling them "You wanna come back to our place afterwards for a hookup?" That's completely different to "Hey, I thought you looked really cute, so I wanted to come and say hi." where you're just telling her she looked cute and wanted to start a conversation to see if it might lead anywhere. If he phrased it like "Oh, by the way, I'm having an after-party with food at my spot. You're welcome to swing by for a bit … | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 06:56 PM |
| 1 | The Right Kind of VibeThanks man, appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Your most useful seduction tip?I don't think there's anything wrong with saying "Hi, I thought you're cute I just wanted to greet" either. You can still create a natural convo that way, you'll just have to carry the convo at the start for a bit if she doesn't know what to say after "Thank you". | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 05:23 PM |
| 1 | The Right Kind of VibeWeren't you the guy who said it was a waste of your time if you asked a girl to come to your place and she didn't have sex with you? | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 04:07 PM |
| 0 | The Right Kind of VibeYeah and for guys who get it, they wouldn't be commenting under this post in this sub. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 03:45 PM |
| 2 | The Right Kind of VibeReally, you're gonna compare yourself to someone who has years of acting experience and studies mannerisms and facial expressions professionally? Top Hollywood actors literally work with acting coaches, choreographers, intimacy coordinators, body language experts, voice coaches, movement coaches, improv classes, etc. For every single scene in vampire diaries, he does dozens of takes of the same line over and over and a director only picks the best one. Of course every line is gonna land on scree… | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".If you need to approach, then you have lost. Sounds like you just called yourself a loser and defended that position. She didn't call you ugly. Instead, she said she didn't feel a connection with you, likely because she didn't think you flirted enough or was being romantic or playful enough and you interpreted that as you being ugly. So now, instead of doing something in your control to change your behaviour and increase the chance of future success (which you can directly test and verify on fut… | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".How has that theory been working out for you with this chick? 😂 If everyone thinks that way, then girls wouldn't approach guys for the same reason lol. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 11:03 PM |
| 2 | When she says “im going home” during night gameI mean, I wasn't the one who was asking for advice but ok 😂 There's a difference between subtlety and lying. And there's a difference between honesty and crude. Learn to tell the difference my guy. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".Boosting their egos by approaching? How? | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 10:52 PM |
| 2 | When she says “im going home” during night gameOk dude. Sounds like you're not gonna listen so I got nothing else to tell you. Keep doing what you are doing I guess. You'll see how it works out for you. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 10:30 PM |
| 2 | How to proceedDon't ask her why she's giving you cold shoulder, it's probably something you did wrong. But just ask her out on a casual date together where it's just you two hanging out. Say "Hey I was thinking back to the first time we met a month ago and I had a great time then. At the time I was quite busy so I'm sorry if I led you on that night. I've got a lot sorted since then and I did want to get to know you more but you seemed a bit distant the past weekend at the rodeo, so I didn't know if you'd stil… | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How can I seduce a milf?Idk, maybe ask her out on a date? That's kinda how courtship usually starts... | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Scared of second meetingIf it's been a week you haven't spoken, then you're gonna have to start again light. Focus on teasing, and being playful and fun and talk to her during break and if you can, after school. Chat about the most random topics. Show her you're interested. You don't need to say you like her to her face, but just show it in your actions. Spend more time with her. The more time you spend together having a good time, the more you should feel excited about talking with her. Text her and arrange a meetup a… | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl has stopped texting me after we hooked up after texting me non stop for two days?It depends if you're into her or not. But either way, I'd still try and get in touch with her and talk it through to try and figure out what went wrong. Try calling her a couple of times. It might seem desperate on the outside, but it's not - you're just tryna figure out what happend. Even if it doesn't lead anywhere, you would at least know if it was something you've done wrong (though she probably won't say it straight up so you're gonna have to read between the lines) or if it was something o… | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 09:18 PM |
| 2 | When she says “im going home” during night gameThing is, I'd like to think that OP isn't a bad guy at heart. Subtlety can be super hard for some guys to learn, especially if they received bad advice in the past. Looking back, I was god awful at interacting with women myself just a few years ago 😅, plenty of awkward and cringy moments. It took me a while for it to click so I know what it felt like to have the wrong mental model in your head. I just hope OP doesn't fall down the toxic manosphere rabbit hole and end up a misogynist who hates wo… | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".Firstly, it SHOULD bother you if they think you're disinterested. Why would a woman waste her time chasing a man that's not into her? "If you like her, tell her you like her. Don't try to pretend like you don't." Why would I do that? You don't have to tell her out of nowhere or explicitly, my point is that you're not displaying your intentions enough. If she thinks you're disinterested, then you're being wayyy too platonic and friendly. If you're casually flirting, teasing, and making playful jo… | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".You're not teasing and flirting and being playful enough. Why would you act disinterested on a date? Smile. Stop trying to act tough, or nonchalant - you're not in middle school. Be more vulnerable and up front with how you feel about her (just as long as you put her comfort first before yours). If you like her, tell her you like her. Don't try to pretend like you don't. Also, I'm assuming you're labelling it a date, so if you're not -> get comfortable doing so. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 08:12 PM |
| 14 | Your most useful seduction tip?If you approach with a smile and start talking with her and being light-hearted, and playful and teasing and not taking things too seriously. The worst she CAN say is no, or I have a boyfriend. If she insults you or mocks your height, your weight, how you're dressed or anything else, then she's the one who's being disrespectful and gonna look bad, not you. Just don't be bitter or angry or react in any negative way if she does reject you. Just smile and go " *Ah, that's too bad. Well..hope you ha… | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Your most useful seduction tip?Not if I make it first ;) | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 07:47 PM |
| 5 | When she says “im going home” during night gameBro, do you even hear yourself right now? "Potentially wasting my time" - dude, the risk that women won't always say yes is a fucking given. If there was no risk, then it wouldn't be valued in the first place. If you're the type of guy that treats each rejection as a waste of time, then no woman would ever want to be around you (or at least for long), except as friends. Courtship is a process that takes experience and time to build the skills and judgement to get good at. If all you want is to g… | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 07:16 PM |
| 2 | When she says “im going home” during night gameNah, those lines are trash lol. They're too gamey and tryhard. Women see through that shit instantly. Why would you ever think that watching a kids Disney show would be romantic lol? And don't say "ooo, I wanna go to your home too", makes you sound like a creep, no matter how you say it. Normal reasons that would be more sensible: "I just learnt to make this new cocktail recently, it's called (insert difficult to make cocktail name), ever tried it? I've got the shakers and mixes at mine, we can … | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 02:38 PM |
| 7 | When she says “im going home” during night gameWhat do you expect her to say lol? "I'm going home with you?" Dude, don't ask girls obvious questions you already know the reasonable answers to. You're only asking cuz you're fantasizing a non-realistic response. Always assume the girl will say the response that's in her best interests. And it's in her best interest to not openly agree to go home with some guy she just randomly met (she makes herself seem like a slut, and who knows, you might end up being a serial killer or something creep). Th… | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Frat Game for a complete beginnerIf you want one thing that is memorable: https://youtu.be/Ope1tNwRNO4?si=kNbYM-Fuu6hFgvOS This is what a low key flirty vibe should look like. If you want to be more playful and higher energy, use JasonTheWeen's smile while making flirty remarks, innuendos and double entendres. Zach Justice is another person to watch, especially the Dropouts Podcast. Family Friendly is a good reference too, in particular, watch how Makane interacts with girls (when he's not being overly performative for the came… | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How to tell if a girl is looking at you with a interest or just looking aroundYou don't. If this is at a bar or club, you go up and assume she's interested and say with a flirty-innocent smile "Hey. Were you just glancing over at me just now?" Even if she did like you, she's likely still gonna say "Oh, no I was just looking around." or "Sorry I meant to look over there." So then you just respond with "Oh...well I was about to say you looked pretty cute as well so I thought I'd come over and say hi. 😂" Most likely she's just gonna laugh to prevent awkwardness and just say … | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How can I approach a girl in a club that has a group of friends and isn’t willing to roll away alone?Go up to the ugliest girl in the group and open her first, but be friendly, and then open the rest of the group. Befriend the group but be more flirty with the girl I want. Then ask one of her friends quietly if the girl I want has got a boyfriend. I'd then work the friends first to build up their trust with me, and then I'll ask the girl if she wants to grab a drink at the bar with me in a bit, and if she agrees, I'll tell her friends we're going to the bar for drinks. | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | At a bar, a girl gets tons of approaches, you're 3rd or 4th in line. What's your move?If I sense she's not into the guys that approached thus far: Go up to the guy currently talking to her, dap him up and say to the girl with a cheeky smile "Hey, are you trying to hit on my friend over here?" If she says something like "No, he's the one who came up to me!" Now the other guy just looks tryhard and awkward. If she's somewhat into the guy or if she thinks I'm trying this just to talk to her, she'll say something like "Yeah, we were actually having a lovely conversation just now." So… | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 06:19 PM |
| 1 | How to tease and flirt without being offensive or sleazy?Your vibe is wrong. You're trying to hard to be like 😏 or you're trying to use negs when you don't know how to. Even something like "I didn't think you'd know that" can be interpreted by the girl to me "I didn't think you'd be this smart, I originally thought you'd be dumb". Said that once to a girl without much thought and she went "Hey, don't be an asshole. Did you think I was blonde or something?" and got a little offended (blonde means a dumb girl). Luckily, I was able to reframe it because … | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting?Your vibe sounds like mine lol, though I'm not brave enough for the skipping 😂 | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting?Put out one arm for a hug, and then smile and say "Hey, you look really cute today by the way." (Be genuine, and they'll say thank you) Then... If it's your first time meeting irl, and you met on a dating app, just say "I was worried I wasn't going to recognise you for a sec. But yeah how's your day been?" If you've met before but only briefly like you opened up initially irl, then say "I was just thinking back to last time we met at the X location and you mentioned Z thing..." and then ask her … | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How to get the girl the gets all the attention from all the guysIf everyone is talking to her, go up and say with a smile "Wow, looks like you're the life of the party. What's your secret?" | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone tried AI dating assistants? How effective are they?Chatgpt can give you some good ideas, but most of it is trash and you really need to be able to tell the difference if you use AI or else it might actually work against you. | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 03:42 PM |
| 1 | What are some good openers/approaches in grocery storeGrocery store probably isn't the best place to open. There's tons of people walking up and down the isle and her attention is occupied on buying stuff. The most you can probably do is ask her for her opinion about what you should get. Something like "Hey, I need a quick female opinion on something. I was planning on getting my mom some flowers. I haven't visited her in a while, which do you think I should get? I was thinking this one but I'm not really sure." and then show her 2 pictures of flow… | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 03:27 PM |
| 2 | How do you build self worth?What's funny is that when I felt my most confident self, I wasn't thinking about anyone else, except whatever goal I had mind. I was not confident because I saw everyone as below me. I saw everyone with mutual respect. Notice that the most confident people you hang out with will never say or act like they are above you. That's actually a sign of insecurity if they do that, so most avoid it. What made the biggest difference for me is studying how politicians and state leaders communicate and talk… | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Why some men are "romantically invisible" to women?Maybe you haven't displayed your intent? If you've never flirted with her or made playful jokes or acted like you'd be interested in her or asked her out on a date, how would she know you are interested in her? It's not like girls are mind readers. Society expects men to make the first move, to approach, to initiate conversation, etc. Women are expected to be polite, understanding, caring and sweet and not take action on assumptions, even if they have a feeling you like them. You gotta be willin… | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Best Resources for Beginners?The best resource is to go out. I've read the books and watch the infields and pretty much most of the resources there are, and all of them are opinionated and circumstantial advice that only works (if at all) in certain contexts and situations. The skill of playing the game is a tacit skill, not an explicit one. The most efficient way to learn is by lived experience and failure, not by reading books, or by watching videos. Would you learn more about what a chicken tasted like if I described it … | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Cold approached and took her homeBit short for Wattpad | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 12:14 PM |
| 1 | How to flirtDepends on what stage you're at. Flirting on a date is different to escalating to sex. What flirting looks like on a date is playful banter and teasing and making jokes. One trick I like to do is pretend to check myself out in a mirror and exaggeratingly mogging. Make playful innuendos, but don't make it explicit or crude. Like this: Her: [grabs an orange] That's huge. You: [Glance over to the orange] Oh, thought you were talking about something else. (Acting innocent) Not this: Her: [grabs an o… | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 12:06 PM |
| 2 | What's with girls telling me they're busy?This 100% lol 😂 But its not just they're worried about you physically attacking them, but also they don't want to reject you in person if they sense you're going to be bitter about it or react in a bitter way. You might think they're lying to you by coming up with excuses, but to them they're just trying to be polite. It actually works to your advantage IMO, because the fake reason can be used as a pulse check once you build up more attraction. Example: Her: I'm not feeling well. You: Oh, it's o… | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 11:41 AM |
| 1 | What's with girls telling me they're busy?If she's saying she doesn't have time to date or isn't looking to date, then she's saying she's not attracted to you. If she has to tell you that, it already means you asked too soon for the date before you built enough attraction through flirting and playfulness. If she's saying she's just busy but not giving a reason, then she's being polite while also keeping the option open. She's essentially saying "Not yet". This is actually a good sign. You don't want to force her to give you a reason bec… | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 11:21 AM |
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