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| 12 | experienced or young wives: for those of you who married younger and were not as financially sound, what were your first years of marriage like, and what tips can you give?My husband and I were engaged at 21, and married at 22. My biggest tip is AVOID DEBT and BUY A PAPER BUDGET BOOK. Start listening to and reading Dave Ramsey media. Know where every dollar goes. Have a 3-6 month emergency fund. 1 year of expenses is even better. Live with your parents or a roommate. Save as much as possible. Buy food in bulk at cheap prices, learn how to can, freeze excess produce and meat, buy food on sale. Invest in a chest freezer. Set goals for yourself. My husband and do not… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/21 07:30 AM |
| 5 | Q4Women: Have you ever experienced post nut clarity?I'll just post it straight on the sub because I've spoken about it openly on this account anyway. It is in my past and I've gone a year without looking back. As a child, maybe 10 or 11, I was exposed to very strange fetish porn on YouTube of all places. Basically, they were vore/feederism/weight gain related videos. I think I was already predisposed to these fetishes because of specific childhood trauma relating to my parent's divorce, and attachment issues. Before ever watching the porn, even a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 12:31 AM |
| 37 | Q4Women: Have you ever experienced post nut clarity?Me too. I am porn-free now, because of the messed up things I used to watch in order to get off. I am surprised most women on this thread are saying no. Note, I never have post nut clarity if I'm getting off to something normal, or after orgasmic sex with my husband. ONLY after I used to look at and orgasm to weird fetish porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 04:24 PM |
| 20 | Tv shows for kids with good role modelsAgain, an older show, but Bob the Builder. I used to be obsessed with that show as a child, and I am female. Bob is very level-headed and aims to problem solve in each episode. Definitely fine for 2+. The Star Wars: Clone Wars series is good for a slightly older child, maybe 7+. It is centered around Anakin Skywalker, and is animated. They go on missions and try to save the galaxy. Another good one is Dragons: Riders of Berk. It is based off of How to Train Your Dragon. The main Character is Hic… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/02/21 08:25 PM |
| 8 | I’m starting to feel bitter and coldNobody has mentioned this, but he seems a little abusive. Yelling over you cleaning the bathtub, and him saying you don't care about him? I am a redpill wife as well, but that would cross a huge boundary for me. There is a lot to unwrap here. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/21 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Case Study When Your Wife Doesnt Follow Your Lead: Red Pill Christian Podcast - Episode 28Props for him actually meeting his wife in real life rather than a dating app. That is refreshing. | /r/RPChristians | 23/01/21 06:17 AM |
| 3 | I’m getting married next week...I've been married for 6 months, so this is from a newlywed's perspective. Don't be surprised or afraid if you have blues the week after your wedding or honeymoon. It is a culmination of a lot of feelings, realizing your life will never be the same, dropping off the dopamine high that was caused by your ceremony/honeymoon, etc. Just ride it out because it will pass. Try to change your name for everything (bills, work, insurance, licenses, social security, banking) asap, or else you will procrasti… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/21 03:05 AM |
| 4 | Female nofap & being in a relationshipI haven't been single in many years, I was always a serial "dater" and had very short gaps between relationships. Take that for what you will, I'm not saying it is a good thing or bad thing. I certainly solo masturbated more before I lived with my husband. Now, sharing a space, he is able to participate with me, so masturbation is less common. I will say, I gave up porn a few months before I got married, and I have 0 regrets. I also participated in a complete nofap for about 3-4 months. I experi… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/01/21 03:50 AM |
| 4 | Will you circumcise your sons?My husband and I have decided to not circumcise our children. Circumcision of the heart is perfectly acceptable. If our sons want to be circumcised as adults to prove their devotion, they are obviously welcome to get the procedure done themselves. My husband is circumcised and says he feels as though something has been taken from him without his permission. His parents are good people, but aren't very concerned with Christianity or salvation, they just did it because it was the normal American t… | /r/RPChristians | 01/01/21 08:06 PM |
| 10 | Can y’all tell me your engagement stories while I patiently await for my turn?Mine was very unexpected, other than the fact that we'd spoken extensively about marriage and starting a family beforehand. My husband LOVES the coast. He booked a hotel on the Oregon coast, and we road tripped out there. He set up everything, all I had to do was pack a bag and go. He has great planning skills, and even packed us snacks for the 5 hour drive. Upon arrival to our room, there was a "romantic" package waiting for us, with champagne, chocolate, massage oil, flowers, etc., and I hones… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/20 07:54 PM |
| 3 | RP Advice on Attraction/ConversationI would say theology/morality/values are most important, yes. I will also say, not every relationship starts out with sparks. It is sometimes slow to heat up. Have you felt that "burning" feeling before? If not, it may be possible that you are matured past that adolescent, head over heels mindset. Also, do you feel as though you could easily do better, or have your pick of several potential women? | /r/RPChristians | 29/11/20 04:39 AM |
| 3 | RP Advice on Attraction/ConversationYep, I agree. There's a good chance that there is another earthy/athletic dude out there that would think she's a 10/10, and hates makeup/fancy clothes anyway. | /r/RPChristians | 29/11/20 02:32 AM |
| 2 | RP Advice on Attraction/ConversationHmm, yeah, it seems like the physical element isn't there for you two. If she had some extremely redeeming personality traits that could hold your attention, then I'd say stick it out. Personality plays a huge factor in attraction as well. Not as much as physical appearance though. I will say this: as a young married RP Christian, I KNEW my husband would be my husband within the first weeks of knowing him. Not that everyone has that experience, but the attraction was just there, and we "clicked"… | /r/RPChristians | 29/11/20 02:30 AM |
| 4 | RP Advice on Attraction/ConversationAt first, my initial reaction was to tell you to ask her more questions, and leave room for her to speak. Quiet time is also important when spending time together. However, you said she isn't hot. Coming from a female perspective, I am biased, as I am less driven by looks than the average male. On one hand, you could end the relationship and potentially find someone who is more engaging, stimulating, and you find to be incredibly attractive. On the other hand, you can stay, and attempt to alter … | /r/RPChristians | 29/11/20 01:42 AM |
| 20 | How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually?I started getting groomed by a pedo online at the age of 9. Uncle started when I was around the same age. In public, I noticed gawkers and looky-loos at 11. By 12, I was openly getting hit on. A lot of messed up things happened to me between about 9-19. Now I'm 23 and I have become very closed off in public and always feel like I'm in danger when I'm without my husband. I have nightmares about being targeted by predatory men, and this is also why I'm an extremely strong proponent to my right to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 03:00 AM |
| 4 | SecondwifeFirst off, where you're located, is it legal? To my understanding, there is no state in the US that legally recognizes more than one spouse. You would need to lawyer up in order to give more than one person rights to inheritance, if anything happens to your husband. Personally, I would consider plural marriage/polygamy, only if all 3 parties agreed on specific terms, and we met with a lawyer that specializes in family law. Also, keeping in mind the laws of my religion. Is it legal and aligns wit… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/20 08:34 PM |
| 3 | PSA: Stop thinking about dating non-Christian girls. It’s pointless.My husband was a self proclaimed neo-pagan when he proposed to me. A few months after he proposed, I converted to Christianity. Less than a year later, he did too, and denounced his old ways. People act like it is impossible to make a relationship work, it was actually quite easy for us. All I did was pray, and focus on what God wanted from me. A family member told me "Never become oppositional with him about his faith, just be an example." | /r/RPChristians | 14/11/20 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Easiest way to cook a well-done steak?It doesn't, because we use a mesh splatter screen, and it prevents a lot of the oil mess. We just spot clean with some cleaning spray and a paper towel if there are some oil spots. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/20 12:59 AM |
| 7 | Easiest way to cook a well-done steak?Low temp?? That's a surefire way for Gordon Ramsey to jump through your window and yell at you for making dry steak. We always do medium-high temp in a cast iron. It should only take a few minutes that way. Maybe add a little olive oil beforehand to crisp it, and butter to finish it. I'm not going to comment on your choice of doneness because that is what you're comfortable with. Higher temperature will yield better results and be faster, as well as searing the outside to retain moisture. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/20 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill EvangelismInteresting coincidence! My church had a sermon on this exact Bible story today, and spoke about "seeing" how God moves in our lives. My church service happened 2 hours after you posted this, so there's no way we could have attended the same one. I don't really have anything else to add here, but it's pretty cool seeing this pop up! | /r/RPChristians | 19/10/20 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Any interest in a discord server?I'm interested. I used Discord a lot for the past few years, but all the active servers I was in died. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/20 02:49 AM |
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