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Field ReportMundane_Natural5131/r/seduction07/02/26 06:07 PM
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Inner Game Mundane_Natural5131/r/seduction08/04/22 05:53 PM
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I make out on the 1st date like 90% of the time and have sex like 50% of the time but i do things like hold their hand as we walk inside of a building or as we walk up the stairs in the theatre and also things like sit close to where our legs touch and hold their their hand or softly rub their back & make prolonged eye contact when we talk and things like that also i go for the hug as soon as i first see them and open doors etc idk if you’re doing that or playing it safe. And for the conversatio…
/r/seduction01/04/26 02:24 PM
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Yea it definitely helps i have a guy friend with 2,000 followers and gets 200 likes and he was able to set up dates with girls just through dms
/r/seduction28/03/26 11:20 PM
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Ok i will do that i will just invest in a good camera and take photos at views or doing activities well dressed
/r/seduction26/03/26 10:16 PM
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Well they will know its not fake because i can approach them at the store or gym and exchange instagrams but don’t know if my profile has a negative effect i got a girls ig yesterday she has 3k followrrs over 1k likes etc
/r/seduction26/03/26 09:09 PM
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Would you recommend ‘hiding’ the like counts then? I can easily get a girls number or instagram from cold approach but my instagram profile is trash i have like 3 photos from 5 years ago and was thinking of uploading new ones
/r/seduction26/03/26 09:07 PM
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What if you only get like 10-15 likes and no comments would that have any negative effect? Or will a high quality photo with “swag” over ride that
/r/seduction26/03/26 08:30 PM
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I got no results on hinge but i did get one on facebook dating we are supposedly hanging out this Saturday but i have given up on the apps it literally took me like 30 matches and 20 failed texting phases just to get this date and i still feel its a 50/50 she lags. The problem is IRL a lot of ppl are anti social and its somehow viewed as creepy just to have basic human interaction all the guys were starring when j approached a chick
/r/seduction05/03/26 09:16 PM
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I did last year and by the time i noticed it was too late and she blocked me on instagram:(
/r/seduction25/02/26 12:55 PM
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Isnt gym pick up a slow game tho? Like first ask a question about a workout then next time about her day then her plans for the weekend etc?
/r/seduction24/02/26 09:53 PM
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Ok thanks for the tip also i had another question so i work in construction every day and sometimes do 12 hour shifts so realistically the only place i can do it is at the grocery store or at the gym yesterday i did it at target with work clothes on after work do you think i should be dressing up nice before doing them? or does the clothes not make any difference. Also don’t want to just do it at my gym and be stuck having to see them if it goes wrong
/r/seduction21/02/26 06:52 PM
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but at the end of the day the whole purpose of doing it is to meet someone but everyone seems anti social nowadays and like its creepy just to approach someone which sucks but i noticed that most of girls it makes their day and they get flattered but i would say 25% get angry or something like its an insult that you thought you had a chance since they date up and not down or equal
/r/seduction21/02/26 07:41 AM
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I got 3 reps in today and got rejected on all 3 but only 1 was rude the other 2 were sweet. i was bold and direct with my intention since it was at walmart/target i am aiming at 1 instagram or number a day i just started the journey today but it was a fail
/r/seduction21/02/26 02:55 AM
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Thank you man i will try to approach a new one soon and make a new post i want to have some success stories i can out here for others can use as well
/r/seduction15/02/26 03:29 PM
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Update #2: Before telling you guys what happened I want to start off by mentioning that I have been working on my confidence and approaches these past 2 days by doing a few practice cold approaches over the weekend and I can say that my confidence has went up good Alright now This is what happened I came to the gym ready to make my 2nd move on my gym crush and unfortunately she was not here only her friend was there. After a short while i approached the friend and told her Me: Hey what’s up wher…
/r/seduction10/02/26 07:01 AM
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Thanks man I appreciate it and I’m glad it worked out for you that night. I will leave this thread hanging for now until I come up with the update
/r/seduction09/02/26 04:18 PM
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Because she and her friend were taking turns on the machine so i didn’t want to stick around so long. My goal was to just break the ice with a low pressure approach and not pressure her to make a decision on the spot I made 2 cold approaches yesterday at the mall to gained some momentum and i was a lot smoother and had the girl at the mall smiling and her friend was giggling from afar(I asked for her # but she had a man) but she liked my approach I wont be as nervous as last time and therefore w…
/r/seduction09/02/26 03:58 PM
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Oh haha sorry sister*😅
/r/seduction08/02/26 08:21 PM
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Thanks brother I still got a lot to learn i depended on these dating apps too long smh. I did get a several dates from apps but now i am basically on training wheels when it comes to person
/r/seduction08/02/26 04:50 PM
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The one i gave the look to i thought she was cute so i gave her the look to gauge her interest level but that was before I even noticed my gym crush and after that I completely changed trajectory I picked the trick up from a video on youtube and how many women in the comments saying how they would love to be looked at like that and i just decided to randomly try it out https://youtu.be/orxrkiPhCQM?si=9iu40mws9H1l1jgs
/r/seduction08/02/26 04:45 AM
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Thanks man👊 I will pay attention to it next time to see how receptive she is i will be persistent but not rushing either
/r/seduction08/02/26 04:10 AM
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No I haven’t went to that gym in 3 days because i work in construction and i have been getting home late the past 3 days
/r/seduction08/02/26 04:07 AM
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She was indeed smiling the whole time like that
/r/seduction08/02/26 04:06 AM
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Thanks for the advice man🤝 I appreciate it
/r/seduction08/02/26 04:06 AM
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You’re right man i didn’t think it through i went up to her not knowing what to say and i was nervous as hell bcz she is a 10/10 to me and i did it while her friend was mid set shortly after that her friend finished her set and was looking at us both so i didnt want to hold her from her set it was her turn now so i left it at that but I will stand on business next time and not leave her hanging again
/r/seduction08/02/26 04:04 AM
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Thanks man I just didnt want to seem like i was trying to get into her pants asap and more like build familiarity first but i will try to take things forward next time
/r/seduction08/02/26 04:03 AM
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I will take your advice man👊I came today but she is not here but i will be prepared for next week
/r/seduction08/02/26 04:02 AM
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You know whats funny? I actually have a gym by my house i go to and this one where my gym crush is my field work gym where i dont care if i get rejected i can just head back to base if it fails
/r/seduction08/02/26 03:58 AM
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Yeah thats what I was thinking too that the gym is a slow game and not a right away pull like the bar or night club but apparently everyone here thinks otherwise
/r/seduction08/02/26 03:56 AM
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Yeah i know i wasn’t that smooth as i should have this was my first approach of the year I just didn’t even think about what I was going to say or anything i just went in for it without planning first If she chooses someone else then oh well my approach wouldn’t have saved me bcz at the end of the day the girl is the one that chooses🤷‍♂️ I wont let a loss discourage me and next time i approach a different one i will learn from this and be more prepared
/r/seduction08/02/26 03:54 AM
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Ok thanks for the advice I will do that after work. Also there is another girl at the same gym that has starred at me 4 times already(after i gave her the look last week) so if it doesn’t work with her i’m moving on to that one
/r/seduction07/02/26 08:48 PM
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Maybe you’re right man we’ll see how this plays out and worst case scenario at least you guys will know not to make the same mistake
/r/seduction07/02/26 07:58 PM
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Thanks man I will definitely do that and keep it gym related there is an in n out in front of my gym so maybe i will invite her to go there on my motorcycle
/r/seduction07/02/26 07:24 PM
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thanks man:) i thought so too maybe i caught her off guard so she was nervous too but will definitely approach her again if i see her today do you think i should keep it casual again and workout related or go for the number this time?
/r/seduction07/02/26 07:20 PM
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Thanks I will approach her again when i see her at the gym i just felt like it was too early to ask and like I said, i’m not 100% sure if she was just being polite so i wanted to “feel” it out first before asking her to hangout and asking for the number.
/r/seduction07/02/26 07:14 PM
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I wanted to try a different approach this time and instead of going up to her trying to “get” something from her i “gave” without asking for anything back which makes it seem more genuine. Also she is a regular at that gym so my plan was to break the ice and once she is comfortable i was going to ask her to hangout and the number would then come naturally. I will go to that gym today if i see her I will update you guys again
/r/seduction07/02/26 07:08 PM
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Which dating app did you use? I never got even a single date from bumble but from hinge and chispa i did i got off them tho and started approaching girls at my gym
/r/seduction07/02/26 04:52 AM
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Tale her with you to the bathroom and tell her to wait outside problem solved
/r/seduction18/05/24 08:33 PM
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She did she was in the phone with him when I made the approach
/r/seduction17/05/24 07:33 PM
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Thats crazy man because i passed that test once without realizing it. This chick i was talking to started acting dry and taking hours to text back so i deleted her number and never contacted her again. She then sent me a follow request 7 months later and I accepted it but i didn’t text her and she would never post anything. A few weeks after that she came to my house to visit my step mom with her new boyfriend and her mom and as soon as i got home from the gym(they were already there) she sat on…
/r/seduction30/04/24 01:40 PM
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Not from first hand experience but one of my cousins is 6’ 1 tall and he doesn’t work he is unemployed and he is 22 right now so he has all day to go to the gym so he is really in shape right now. and a 28 year old therapist that makes 130k a year approached him first one day when he was taking his mom to the clinic. he dated her for 2 years he told me all the crazy stories that she gave him head on the second date let him nit in her mouth, let him hit raw and even let him do her anal, she let h…
/r/seduction29/04/24 03:08 PM
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Looks or status. if you have that girls will make the first move or make it obvious and easy for you can literally talk about the alphabets and she will be entertained
/r/seduction29/04/24 02:39 AM
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I fumbled a ONS once at the bar because of logistics she was with her female friend and the girl called me later that night 2 hours after i left the bar she called me and said her and her friend had a bottle and she wanted to come over but my mom and 2 little brothers were home it was 4am so i couldn’t be done it sucked because she was really hot to me like a 8+ on the scale and i never successfully landed a ons before that. As far as what i said i just sparked a conversation with the girl with …
/r/seduction28/04/24 03:24 AM
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Its crazy the amount of people telling you he only wants to use you like they know him personally lol
/r/seduction27/04/24 01:53 AM
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Bro broke the bro code
/r/seduction16/04/24 05:35 PM
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Unfortunately only the big fat ones put themselves in positions for me to make a move😟
/r/seduction19/03/24 11:28 PM
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That is not the same thing dude if i seen a 40 year old man talking to my 20 year old daughter i’d surely be catching a homicide case shortly after. But that’s just me tho🤷‍♂️ there was this really cute girl at my job (20 y/o) that all the guys wanted she rejected everyone of the guys her age acted like she was all that and ended up sucking off the 48 year old guy from our job so its definitely possible. And the guy was very ugly didn’t work out at all but one thing he did have was that he would…
/r/seduction18/02/24 06:48 AM
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Just move on bro
/r/seduction10/02/24 09:12 PM
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Thats why its good to get girl that smokes weed too i invite them over i have a ounce at home you want to go smoke for a little? Or pets if she doesnt smoke i got a cat a dog and a pet mongoose lookin creature thingy
/r/seduction31/01/24 06:00 AM
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Yes i almost had a one night stand last week at the club but couldn’t because of bad logistics. she called me like 3 hours after i got her number around 4 am and she wanted to come over with her friend she told me they bought a bottle but i didn’t have my own place to bring her over and nor did she so it died off. I didn’t want to invite her to a hotel because that would have ruined the plausible deniability. I didn’t even try to be smooth/funny or anything either it was maybe a 10 minute long c…
/r/seduction31/01/24 04:46 AM
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What changed the game for me was trying to actually have a conversation with them for as long as you possibly can, instead of trying to ask for their number asap. In a bar setting
/r/seduction30/01/24 12:30 AM
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You look cool man i wouldnt post any shirtless pics though unless you are at the beach or something where it seems natural also take more pics places other than the bathroom doing interesting shit or traveling
/r/seduction13/01/24 07:51 PM
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Yeah i told the birthday girl at the club happy birthday she told me to F off😂 all the other ones that were cool have boyfriends🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction01/06/23 02:40 PM
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I wish that was the case that’d be really nice😂 but dating apps have told me otherwise
/r/seduction23/05/23 02:05 AM
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I wish that was the case im 5’11.5 with air forces still nothing🤷‍♂️ even in the bar when i make the approach i doubt .5 inches would help
/r/seduction23/05/23 01:56 AM
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Damn i guess im ugly asf all the women avoid eye contact😂
/r/seduction23/05/23 01:12 AM
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Damn man I never thought that mattered that much i have rounded shoulders i kinda slouch when im not focused im going to work on that and il check out your post too maybe that could be another reason
/r/seduction16/04/23 05:18 AM
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But how would a chick at the club know your smv if she doesn’t know your status? Am I supposed to pull up with female friends pretending to be into me to the club. Im already hitting the gym and working on the diet so hopefully that helps too
/r/seduction16/04/23 12:04 AM
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Nice tip but I doubt I’d even make it that far to use lol. Im struggling with the beginning part where you are barely having the first conversation ever. I tried to stop being a pussy and get out of my comfort zone and make the approach, but somehow i keep on running into rude stuck up females. i was at the bar and said hi to a girl and asked what her name was she waved me like get tf out of here and the worst part is that she was horrendous i wanted to “start off slow” with someone less attract…
/r/seduction15/04/23 09:31 PM
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Coulda got a threesome cheaper
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:27 AM
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What if i have no body to go with to the club alone works too?
/r/seduction21/10/22 02:52 AM
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I think what they mean by be yourself is to talk to the girl you are attracted to the same way you’d speak to a relative a sister or whatever and not try to act smooth and funny and all that good stuff
/r/seduction19/10/22 01:58 AM
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Most of it is non verbal like the prolonged deep eye contact with the little smirk and talking in a seductive tone etc. its not about being funny or smooth more like non verbally displaying your interest and desire. A goodway to do it is to hold eye contact and think of the things you’d like to do to that person
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:43 PM
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🖨
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:37 AM
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Yea you should make a trip to go pursue another chick
/r/seduction10/10/22 03:27 AM
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🖨
/r/seduction10/10/22 01:50 AM
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I don’t want to come off as a creep that just wants one thing or embarrass myself. At the same time i also feel like a lot of women don’t want to be hit on/bothered as far as i seen online on reddit and tiktok. when i see someone im attracted to i feel like she must get approached alot i dont want to be just another guy out of the dozens approaching her i’d rather wait for a sign or something otherwise i don’t feel good about approaching or even asking any questions
/r/seduction09/10/22 04:13 PM
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Yea thats what i was thinking that there are less girls that like skinny guys, i never really get looks like that from woman only from the obese ones. its rare if i get looks from attractive ones i get surprised when i do . I am 5,11 132 pounds my arms and legs are very thin i dont know if that could be the reason. I feel like if i gained 20 pounds or something and gained some muscle i would probably get more options
/r/seduction09/10/22 04:22 AM
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Did you tell her it was also the same distance or did you just say another city i woulda passed too if a female just said im at a another city that sounds far. she sounded upset to me tho she probably thought you were flaking i wouldn’t give up yet tho you should try again in a few days she was definitely somewhat interested if she was willing to drive 30 minutes
/r/seduction09/10/22 12:57 AM
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You got treated better when you gained weight? Im pretty scrawny right now i was wondering if i gained 20 pounds if id have more chances
/r/seduction08/10/22 03:43 PM
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Bro id leave she still has an emotional attachment to him time to bounce
/r/seduction08/10/22 05:28 AM
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Yeah it is better to show interest early on like by the second interaction i think you should have atleast tried to put your arm around her or get closer to her to where your legs were touching and see how she reacted and then proceeded from there or something but you should try to set up a second one dont give up
/r/seduction08/10/22 12:53 AM
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I used to get a shit ton in highschool but after i graduated i never get any on the outside world. makes me regret all the opportunities in highschool i ignored and didn’t take
/r/seduction07/10/22 11:01 PM
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Even after the self improvement, workout and all that good stuff at the end of the day what matters most is your confidence to go up to a beautiful woman and spark up a conversation your looks will only raise your success rate after consistently trying even after failure which takes confidence
/r/seduction06/10/22 12:43 AM
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A guy not overthinking
/r/seduction05/10/22 02:29 AM
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Just learn to eat pussy better and finger them better than her ex u can make them squirt from that alone
/r/seduction04/10/22 07:35 AM
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🖨
/r/seduction04/10/22 12:49 AM
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You got to make a move by the 2nd or 3rd time you’re hanging out and you will find out fast also the way she dresses and if she reaches out first are also good signs
/r/seduction02/10/22 09:57 PM
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Yeah you’re right man i feel like even if you are goodlooking if you are not confident enough to even break the ice or make the approach then the looks wont mean anything because you are not taking advantage of it. But at the same time i feel like if the girl finds you ugly then no amount of confidence can change that
/r/seduction30/09/22 01:48 AM
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No I’m just implying that looks are a bigger factor than you think. i know confidence does matter but you cant say its 100% only about confidence you also have to be attractive enough to turn them on. You know damn well you wouldn’t date an obese unhygienic woman thats missing all her teeth even if she was the most confident, charismatic, smooth and funny person you ever met
/r/seduction30/09/22 01:02 AM
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So you’ll date a gorilla that feels good about itself?
/r/seduction30/09/22 12:52 AM
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Go for it bro don’t hesitate i had like 4 chances to approach my gym crush i kept making excuses to not make the approach like i’l do it next time i see her, she gots her AirPods in, she never even looks at me etc and now shes gone from the gym haven’t seen her in a week I’m now living with the regret and wont have another shot.
/r/seduction28/09/22 02:08 PM
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Yea man it works I remember one time in college there was this girl sitting alone in the computer class I went out of my way to sit right next to her I’m not gonna lie i was kinda nervous she had like 10 piercings on her face i just asked for her name then gave her mine to break the ice then i tuned the convo into her piercings and which one she got first and so on and why she decided to get them it turned into like a 20 minute convo just abut her she gave me head a week later
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:12 AM
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From what ive heard its best to make the conversation about her if she asks something always be like what about you, you have to be curious about her try to get her to talk about herself more avoid talking about yourself alot
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:53 AM
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What do you think is better? Im thinking about approaching this girl at the gym and just being honest and telling her i find her attractive so i can get the doubt out the way and not pretend to be her friend for a month just to get a no later when i could have gotten it in the beginning
/r/seduction22/09/22 12:57 AM
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Jokes on you, you forgot to put a period at the end of both your responses Mr genius. 🥸
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:54 PM
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Why you so stressed out lol ? And you should start with common sense how does punctuation have anything to do with or help with what i asked this is a seduction thread not a english teacher thread genius and maybe you should start hitting the gym if you’re getting strokes
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:24 PM
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There’s this girl at the gym that always works out right next to me almost every time i go idk if it is a coincidence or not i seen another guy handling her she gave him her number and they talked for a long and left together when the gym closed she took him on her charger but still works out next to me after that i havent seen the guy you guys think i should still try and if i do should just start off with hi whats your name im etc or should i try something else also should i pretend to use the…
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:57 PM
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Nah girls make guys wait because they dont want to be perceived as a slut or easy so it is a sort of anti slut defense mechanism but i don believe that women get horny too when they are ovulating guys dint give a hell if they are perceived as a slit or easy because it is not as bad in social norms for a man to be a hoe
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:56 PM
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Their looks is the missing ingredient
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:30 PM
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You’re right man i should be doing it as i am now i am going to try to do it im still kinda nervous to do it my own damn mind talks me out it and goes blank i havent cold approached since 2019 in college but ama try to push through the nerves dont you think it is better to do both tho? Approach and work on my physique at the same time to increase chances of success and more opportunities
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:27 PM
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What kind of surgeries like hair transplant? I don’t think you need all that man theres always a women out their that will like you as is. Im focusing right now on diet because i am skinny and under weight also on working out so i can get in shape once i gain like 20 lbs i wont be boney nomore and i will start i honestly dont like catfishing women i want to look the best possible so they can be happy too and i can feel better at the same time
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:49 PM
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So just hit the gym and diet hard for a year before starting
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:21 PM
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I want to start too but i always see women complaining on reddit about it saying its annoying that a guy wants to talk to them “just because their cute and doesn’t work and creep so im still iffy its the only thing stopping me but i feel like mostly women on reddit are feminists i can be wrong
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:21 PM
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Where do you find all the woman from cold approach at clubs/street or all only dating app
/r/seduction12/09/22 01:58 AM
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Ive got anxiety from a messed up childhood i never had a social life as a child as i was always home getting beat by my stepdad i was in class worried thinking of what was gonna happen next when i got home today instead of socializing and making friends in school like all the other kids now as an adult when i try to socialize my mind is blank and empty like idk what to say i hate my own mind i wish i could get shot in the head survive and lose all my memory and start over and see if it helped
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:53 PM
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Alright thanks for the tip man so basically try to be funny or chrasmatic with everyone tbh i dont even talk to women at the gym unless they are making obvious signals i feel like they automatically know i want in their pants. And cashiers where im at always look in a rush or like they dont want to talk i always say how are u doing some dont answer sometimes
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:26 PM
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How do you practice charm
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:06 PM
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I was once drinking out the water fountain as soon as i started sippin the girl came and started drinking on the other one theres only 2 fountains but idk if that was a indicator idont want to misinterpret sometimes
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:06 PM
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Unless theres like 10 open mills and she gets to the one right next to you
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:04 PM
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So if a girl ever invites me and she will be with a friend you guys think i should not go alright il remember that one i never had a girl invite me while with her friend
/r/seduction08/09/22 01:04 AM
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It won’t let me send the pictures to you man it keeps saying failed to send il probably make a post or a link that has the pics and post it on this thread
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:19 AM
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Thanks man i appreciate it I’m just going to hit the gym and try to get in better shape until i see girls cheking me out and go after them and avoid the low interest like you said if they have high interest i feel my texting will still work but ultimately i want to try to become better seducing in person and not depend on dating apps i honestly want to get off of the apps and start goin out and trying in person instead i feel like it is easier because on dating apps all you have is your looks to…
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:54 AM
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I feel like i had good fotos as i had like 33 likes on tinder 23 on chispa and i had like 19 matches on tinder and 11 on chispa 0 on bumble but they never led to anything because i suck at texting i dont know what else to say besides what they consider the “boring texts” like what am i supposed to write a poem or something do you mind if i share my profile and you critique it
/r/seduction05/09/22 05:32 PM
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High interest
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:41 PM
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Posts like these Makes me sad bro i only got like 3 likes in 4 months on bumble one from a transvesti😢
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:39 PM
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That was just an example i know learning to ride a bike is easier but just use the same principles to learn you got to practice you cant just read a book and then hop in a helicopter you have to actually get in the field and try
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:27 AM
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Thats like wondering how the hell do people ride bikes but you dont even try to get on a bike to learn Slow steps with training wheels first falling a couple times getting back up and trying again into you succeed and it becomes second nature later till your riding with no handle bars you got to try bro stop being a wuss your own brain is tricking you into keeping you in your confort zone like oh they dont want you bro dont do it youre going to emberass and make a fool of yourself fuck your brai…
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:16 AM
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Yeah its because men are attracted to looks while woman are attracted to feelings but if you still want to take care of yourself and not be approached i suggest being on a phone call with a friend or something i wouldn’t bother approaching someone whose on a phone call or of you don’t feel like doing all that work just simply tell them you have a boyfriend as soon as they try dont have mercy
/r/seduction04/09/22 01:01 AM
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Put a lot of toilet paper in your pants so it can look like you have a bulge they’ll think you’re a transvestite
/r/seduction04/09/22 12:54 AM
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Go out more to enviornments where there are woman you arent going to find women sitting on your couch at home as soon as you walk out the door your chances go up
/r/seduction02/09/22 07:18 PM
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Yeah you got a point he probably sugarcoated the sentence and left some details out he was probably giving out butthurt vibes or something but i hope op learns from it and does better next time
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:55 PM
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You’re right i’d stay the whole movie to be polite but i mean if he was just sitting their all quiet just staring at the movie not saying anything or tryng to break the touch barrier or escalate i’d leave after a hour too out of boredom especially if she was only looking forward to getting freaky he shoulda atlest tried like cuddling and see how she reacted and then proceeded from their i bet she wont be coming over again
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:07 PM
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Probably because he wasn’t escalating or building up the tension and she like nah this mf doesn’t got it in him
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:01 PM
1

I’d still try even if she pulled up in a trench coat and astronaut boots
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:59 PM
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You should text her bro you got nothing to lose of she doesn’t answer
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:04 AM
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How does it not make sense? You asked how to make a jump from touches on the arm to more risky ones to make sure shes comfortable before hand i just answered your question i said that i went straight for it i did not make sure she was confortable or not I’m not playing it safe like you bro i took the risk and it worked out she liked it I’m trying to tell you stop being so respectful and scared of getting the girl mad you’re obviously scared to lose her thats not the right mindset to have. And th…
/r/seduction31/08/22 05:10 PM
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One time i was talking with this girl for a few weeks it was our 2nd time hanging out she invited me and my stepmom to her birthday at her house we were sitting next to each other at the table eating with her family and my stepmom she was sitting fairly close to me our knees were touching and i skipped the arm touches i just put my hand around her lower back and pulled her a little closer she even scooted a little closer i remember i was kinda shocked because i didn’t know 100% if she liked me o…
/r/seduction31/08/22 01:16 PM
1

At least I’m not gonna be a financially unstable amphetamine addict with pissing problems like you🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:44 PM
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How do you suggest i start from scratch today if i have no social circle i moved to las vegas and dont know anyone you think i should go out alone? Also im more introverted and not relaxed when approaching women so im not very confident but i feel like once i land the first one my confidence will skyrocket fast where do you suggest i start at the club or at the mall or street making approaches on daygame im also not as goodlooking and charming as you made yourself appear im 5,10 also did terribl…
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:38 PM
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I know i was just playing😂😂
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:30 PM
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Are you in shape? Hitting the gym does wonders too bro for your self confidence and attraction to women always remember that SOME women dont want to talk to you not all of them their are women out their that do want to to talk to you its all a numbers game dont let one girl turning you down stop you from trying again the next one can be the one always remember that their are guys uglier than you in relationships
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:19 PM
22

Erectile dysfunction?
/r/seduction29/08/22 06:56 AM
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Maybe she was shy eating infront of you i remember when i was a kid i didnt like eating infront of ppl
/r/seduction29/08/22 06:42 AM
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Just tell her you are a gentlmen and dont kiss and tell that eill let her know maybe if i sleep with this guy he wont run around telling everybody
/r/seduction28/08/22 05:54 PM
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So being attracted to woman makes you a cuck? Lol ok son first off you shouldnt be talking i seen your post about “i don’t get paid for a week” but i really want some pizza tonight🤣🤣🤣 you cant even afford some 5$ little ceasars pizza?? sounds to me like youre the real cuck here bumb need to get your priorities straight calling people cucks when you cant even afford to take a chick to little ceasars on top of that you got amphetamine addiction and pissing problems??🤣🤣🤣boy said i cant piss my blad…
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:06 AM
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You’re right man i didn’t read the post all the way through
/r/seduction28/08/22 05:12 AM
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Nobody wants her thats why shes dying to be with someone
/r/seduction28/08/22 05:09 AM
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Alright then chief next time a girl asks you what you are looking for tell her you want to be in a relationship with her badly and theres nobody else in the world that you’d prefer to be with more than her and you’d do anything to be with her and come give us an update of how it went i was just trying to help some brothers out but to each his own🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:44 AM
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🙏 amen
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:51 AM
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alpha male strategies said that when a girl asks what youre looking for to tell them you arent looking for anything what ever happens happens and that telling them you are looking for a relationship will turn them off even if they are the relationship girl because if you are a high value male then why havent you found a relationship why are u still looking for one? someone of high value isnt looking for a realtionship because he can easily get one. woman date up not down
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:45 AM
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And also one thing i noted when i used to be a nice guy was that i was too respectful which would always land me in the friendzone so stop being respectful guys take the risk and make the move
/r/seduction27/08/22 10:34 PM
2

You cant make seductive eye contact through text
/r/seduction27/08/22 10:32 PM
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It is like 90% looks i agree and i feel like they have it easier because if a female thinks youre a 9 or 10 in looks than anything you say or do will be entertaining so you dont got to even try its like you’re already 75% into getting the pussy already just with the looks alone without even saying anything and then you just have to do the other 25% with your charisma and charm and whatnot you cant just be like the terminator in the date all silent you still have to escalate properly which is eas…
/r/seduction22/08/22 06:23 AM
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This girl i liked and she liked me at one point stopped texting back what was once a 2 minite response became a 6 hour response all dry so i said oh well whats the point in pursuing someone that takes 6 hours to respond with one word linnes so i deleted her number for my own good so i can move on in life. She texted me 7 months later and sent me a follow request on instagrram she was doing a lot to come back into contact she got mad and blamed me for ghosting her lmao. Its funny how when you sho…
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:53 PM
2

You drink coffee often😏
/r/seduction13/08/22 01:45 PM
2

Of shes a waiter or something or working then no but a woman at the streets or gym then yeah most likky open to being approached
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:44 AM
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Then lie
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:50 AM
1

The ability to make the girl orgasm
/r/seduction10/08/22 11:21 PM
7

Never give up bro no matter what💯
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:11 PM
1

Stop being scared to lose bro you cant win if you arent willing to take the risk of losing
/r/seduction07/08/22 03:34 PM
1

Okay thanks man i will stick to the more direct approach see if it works out for me i just thought that would seem more natural or whatever since one time my gym crush caught me cheking her out and she then asked me to spot her a few minutes later but i did not know how to proceed from there but i will just be straight to the point next time so i can get the what ifs out of the way
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:05 PM
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Okay thanks i have never acted mad after a rejection but still felt like they might have been annoyed thats why i have not been approaching at all
/r/seduction06/08/22 10:56 PM
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Okay thanks for the tip also do you think its better if i am direct right from the beginning? Or do you think it would be better if i asked her to spot me or something and just say hey when ever i see her afterwards and slowly work my way up
/r/seduction06/08/22 10:54 PM
1

What is you strategy? Just the standard i think youre cute and wanted too see if you were interested in taking my number or which lines do you use?
/r/seduction06/08/22 08:52 PM
1

But what if i have a crush on a girl at the gym and dont have her in any class or mutual friends you think im screwed and should just not think of even trying since it would be harassment
/r/seduction06/08/22 08:45 PM
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Same thing with women when they have nice legs and ass everyone prefers them over the flat one or the fat one i cant complain when we are all the same and prefer the highest value one in the looks department dont complain bro just hit the gym everyone is happy in the end because you feel better when you look better and your partner is happier to have you by their side its a win win for everyone
/r/seduction06/08/22 07:10 PM
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Damn bro thats tough learn from your mistakes never tell a girl anything that will put you at a negative light women date up not down the other day i super liked a girl and she super liked me back i told her it was about time she swiped right back joking back and i guess she took it the wrong way and replied about time? and unmatched i figured its better not to try to be funny over text either because they can misinterpret it
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:42 PM
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I only bring the homies over to smoke blunts
/r/seduction29/07/22 01:45 AM
1

Happens to the best of us you have to learn to move on early on
/r/seduction26/07/22 06:24 PM
1

What is dopamine butnout
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:37 PM
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I girl once asked me to hangout through text and then i said im down and she said oh but wont your girlfriend get mad? Now that i look back she was cheking if i had a girl without asking
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:03 PM
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Yea you should just fucking go for another girl thats what you should do the firendozone just means that you werent making your intentions clear from the beginning no seduction at all your best bet to get out the friendzone is to get with someone better looking than her but it wouldnt matter then
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:20 AM
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Keep cold approaching bro dont listen to other folks i see women all the time on reddit making post about how to get men to approach them women want to be approached they like it because it gives them reassurance of their value/beauty and makes them feel disired all you have to do is hit the gym hard and follow a scrict diet and your success rate will increase and the caliber of women you are successful with will also increase too women love attention they just dont want the attention from a fat…
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:50 AM
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Youre right brother we must always stick to the self improvement💯 it pays off with extended years of life and beauty
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:37 PM
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Alright thanks man im going to get back into it soon the only thing that stops me was my own damn mind talking me out it like i dont want to look like a creep or feel like im bothering but i am going to just yolo it. Also do you feel like you had more success with the indirect or with the direct?
/r/seduction16/07/22 07:24 PM
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Nice job bro im proud of you i am going to start doing what your doing and get off the dating aps do you mind sharing your method of approach do you just do cold approach at the store/mall ? And do you just use the basic line like hey i thought you were attractive etc
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:37 AM
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Mf more unattractive than i am on his profile i haven’t got not dates guess the old ladies are more down than the young ones
/r/seduction16/07/22 01:54 AM
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Then you’re doing it right Just keep doing it he is gonna eventually pick up on the hint right now he probably thinks you are just being friendly since you are the cashier. maybe you can ask him if he has snapchat or instagram to see if he picks up the hint then most guys are dense as hell and dont pick up on hints im speaking from experience lol. Also when you say you hold eye contact does he hold it too? Or did he not notice when you were trying to lock eyes
/r/seduction15/07/22 02:55 AM
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Just keep saying hi to him every time he comes in so he can become familiar with you also if you give him that extended eye contact then look at his lips and back at his eyes with the smile he’s gonna know Whatsup
/r/seduction15/07/22 02:21 AM
2

Then you start begging and be needy till she changes her mind
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:56 PM
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Im glad you see the truth 💯 the better you look the higher your success % on cold approach and both sides are happy you made the approach its a win win for everyone when your hitting the gym and working on your physique and working on your approach too nobody wants to be approached by a out of shape person i wouldn’t want fiona approaching me no matter how smooth
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:04 PM
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Thats what i was saying you have to be handsome to her she will be so happy you approached but these 290 pound 5,5 sweaty guys overhere downvoting because i said you have to be not ugly they think as long as your smooth youll succeed keep dreaming 😂😂
/r/seduction14/07/22 04:58 PM
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Its by ugly people who had their hopes up high that it is all 100% obout confidence🤣🤣
/r/seduction14/07/22 04:36 PM
2

You just have to be not ugly
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:23 AM
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What if you worked in a spot without girls how would you have done it
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:14 AM
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Oh forsure i mean when i first meet the girl tho like if i got her number at the mall or on tinder you think its better if i set up the date on the first day texting?
/r/seduction13/07/22 02:01 AM
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But then wont the girl be not comfortable enough to meet up?
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:44 AM
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Sounds too good to be true man but if it is thats one hell of luck you should play the lottery
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:42 AM
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Sounds like she has low interest id say its better if you get other girls and let her see you with those girls without making it obvious once she sees you with other girls than maybe will raise her interest
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:32 AM
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I know but I’m just saying like if you and your boyfriend get in a argument/breakup women can always get revenge easier and faster so i agree with the post that women have more power than men in most cases
/r/seduction12/07/22 10:22 PM
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The power of the phussay
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:30 PM
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But you can move on/find a parter faster within 1 day if you tried we have to put in the work for several days, make sure we meet the minimum attractive requirement, make sure the approach is good, pass the texting phase, need to build comfort before i can even invite them out, have to have a big social cirlce to prove were not murders, set up the date, deal with flakes, have to make sure the date goes good, have to build an attachment for her to want second date , deal with attention seekers/go…
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:29 PM
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Because if “you want them less” that signals to them that you have other options this pre selection is a hell of a drug i remember when i was 15 i started dating this girl and immediately as soon as my dads 4 sister in laws saw me with her they all started being extra nice to me flirty and then their other female friend kept coming up to me offering me takis and smiling at me and when i broke up with that girl she then saw me with my dads sister in law on the back of my motorcycle we were going …
/r/seduction11/07/22 07:29 PM
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You should start lining up your backup options and start dating other women im am sure she most likely has her back up option lined up already or probably seeing him already
/r/seduction10/07/22 03:02 AM
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I’d rather just make her bust so she can think about that all night
/r/seduction08/07/22 02:05 AM
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You don’t need confidence to talk to woman what you need is courage and courage comes from not overthinking about the negative outcomes think only about the good outcome or Dont think about nothing at all thats where the 3 second rule came from. It is normal to feel nervous it is a survival instinct to keep you “safe”. Confidence is just the byproduct of courage after you succeed in something that you needed courage to try in the first place
/r/seduction08/07/22 01:08 AM
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You got more game than 80% men here🤣🤣
/r/seduction08/07/22 12:39 AM
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It is the hardest method but if you think about it on parties and activities / universities and so on they will still have to make the approach the goal is to get confortable with approaching by cold approaching not set a goal to get laid from cold approaching that is why i feel it is good to still cold approach even if you fail at it you will basically be immune to the anxiety when it comes to making a “warm approach” as it is a easier lvl
/r/seduction07/07/22 09:46 PM
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Say thanks i like you
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:11 PM
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And because they always lead women like men that can lead everything aw shit they beat me to the comment lmfao
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:17 AM
2

Nice tips
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:27 PM
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Try to make the conversation about her you have to genuinely be curious about her and want to know more not focus on the end game try not to expect anything out of it either almost like your homies you dont get nervous around them because you dont have a agenda like i got to make the homie like me and think im cool you just happen to talk with them without expecting to achieve something
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:04 AM
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I agree with your point that the women already knows why youre asking questions in the first place but i am just trying to help the guy that made this post and give him some hope to keep trying he is obviously new to this and id think he’d be better off using that method than not trying at all or using pre thought lines like he said he did also i disagree that all women would be irritated if you asked them something maybe like 80% would but some women are down to earth and wouldn’t get annoyed a…
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:50 AM
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It does work she just has to find you very attractive. One thing i noticed tho is that your success rate nearly triples if you guys are doing a similar activity it can be any activity like working out, bicycling, walking your dogs, skatepark, church, dance class, library looking at books, running, anything you guys are both doing so it can seem more “organic” it can be any activity it could be in the middle of a riot for all i care when you do it at a similar activity you both are doing now you …
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:01 PM
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Nice job bro im proud of you one thing i used to do was i’d ask the girl for directions to wherever you can think of and then switch it up at the end and tell her i actually already knew where it was i just thought you were cute etc. It takes off some of the pressure as opposed to just walking up like hey i think you’re cute from the start you should try that so you wont depend on corny pick up lines
/r/seduction01/07/22 02:58 AM
1

Thanks for you advice man i will start off with guys and people im not attracted to
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:09 AM
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You just need courage to succeed in something not cofidence bro. To get the courage to do something all you have to do is not think about the negative outcomes just think about a criminal for example they have the courage to commit a crime because they are only thinking about the positive outcomes jewlry,easy money etc not the negatives which is going to jail, getting shot etc. all you need to work on is your courage which comes from only thinking about the positive outcomes and soon enough the …
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:42 PM
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It does work bro just imagine if a attractive girl cold approached you im sure you’d give her your number all you have to do is the self improvement and the self improvement is going to raise you opportunities % and once you advantage of every opportunity you get you will eventually score and thats when your confidence will sky rocket. I remember when i cold approached a girl in college i just went up to her said excuse me hi whats your name? She said her name i told her i thought she was cute a…
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:19 AM
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Na don’t say so glad just say glad
/r/seduction27/06/22 07:39 AM
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You’re right man all i need now is a third ball so i can get the courage to make the approach
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:12 AM
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Eaither her ex came back or someone she likes more has started chatting her or maybe sometimes when you dont make a move fast women lose interest for that too ironically i ended up in the friendzone for being too “respectful” its true when they say nice guys finish last you have to take the risk like fuck it and just go in for the kill while you still can
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:10 PM
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I agree about the women making men wait so they avoid being used and discarded i respect that but if she let the guy before me smash on the first date and making me wait then ama lose interest too not because i only want to fuck and im a asshole but because that shows that you value me less thats like letting someone cut infront of the line but you tell me nah not you man you have to wait in line id feel like im less desired than the other one and move on
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:28 PM
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I think thats for some men only i wouldnt lose interest if my crush let me smash on the first date id actually like her more id think shes freaky and into me not easy
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:18 PM
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🖨
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:16 PM
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Okay thanks for the tip(: its good to get feedback from a woman il definitely use that if if they look busy or something. Also another method i used to use was i would ask them for directions to a class or something then switch it up like honestly i knew where it was at i just found you attractive one time this girl started cracking up when i used that one but i still didn’t get the number lol
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:40 AM
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How would you like to be approached then? I remember when i was cold approaching back 2019 in college i would just say hi first then introduce my self, after that i would tell them that i find them attractive and was wondering if i could get their number. If they said they had a boyfriend i would just say okay have a good day. You think that is a good approach? Or do you think i should do it differently
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:32 AM
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You’re right guess ama have to start taking risks i actually haven’t made no approaches at all this year for the same reasons that women are tired of getting approached well like 75% of them lol
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:28 AM
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Because when you asked if i would hit on someone thats not attractive i thought you were gonna be like alright what do you expect asshole or something😂 someones always getting triggered on reddit
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:26 AM
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I thought you were gonna start talking crap for a sec😂
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:20 AM
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I honestly wouldn’t but im just saying like if the girl finds you attractive then she would like it if you approached her but if she isn’t attracted to you i doubt that they would like the approach
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:12 AM
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Only if the guy is attractive tho right
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:09 AM
2

Just grab him by the pussy
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:37 PM
1

Also i feel like the “protection” aspect women care about too like a thug is always going to protect his girl more than a scrawny nerd with glasses that cant even stand up for his own self. Also a thug is always going to stand up to his girl and not let her walk over him and he wont beg her to stay when she leaves. Its not necessarily just because hes from a gang that makes them attractive
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:02 AM
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I agree my mother was once mad at the insirence lady giving her attitude for nothing because our neigbor recomended it to her husband because a “fine” ass woman was working there. Btw she was seriously sexy i cant lie
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:29 PM
1

I 100% agree
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:29 AM
1

Just wear skimpy cloths like short shorts or dresses and go out where theres men get caught looking on purpose the end
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:55 PM
1

No personally me i actually like it when a girl is more upfront/bold showing interest idk why when i find out someone likes me i start to like them more too but thats just me i cant speak for everyone else
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:49 AM
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Tbh if i find a woman attractive thats enough for me to want to talk to them long term maybe the guys you were with did not find you sexually attractive maybe hit the gym or wear more thirst trappin cloths like yoga pants/shorts to get mens attention soon enough one that finds you attractive will approach you
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:51 PM
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Talk to multiple girls bro if you have 5 100 dollar bills you wont obsess over one of the bills out of the 5
/r/seduction06/06/22 03:09 AM
2

Hey man i got the same problem lol i remember there was this girl i liked in the class and i gave her “the look” multiple times and held eye contact with her till she looked away first a few times i seen her looking at me at the hallways later she was with a guy and looked away quick so i figured she had some interest and One day they grouped us up it was me 3 guys one girl and her and i sat next to her on purpose and she started talking so much to the guy next to her on her left about his handw…
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:30 PM
2

On god😂
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:21 AM
1

What you got to put yourself in their vicinity first or what
/r/seduction25/05/22 04:12 PM
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🖨
/r/seduction25/05/22 06:57 AM
2

Just dont invite her on dates or initiate contact first anymore sure answer her if she texts first but it should slowly die on its own if you stop seeing eachother in person/ ingaging in txts
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:16 AM
1

Nice tip thanks
/r/seduction15/05/22 12:23 AM
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You have to make the interaction and topics more sexual make your intentions clear of you are scard to make your intentions clear just always be pushing to invite her over it will let her know
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:46 AM
1

Ovulation and the way you make them feel
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:28 PM
0

For me its the opposite lol
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:49 AM
1

If you look at them like you said but add a smile to it they will probably get the idea that you are interested and make a approach
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:37 AM
1

I tend to look away when i dont want to make it weird lol. I never approach women either since it would be weird to them unless i catch them looking at me like you said then i would push myself to make the approach but i never get looked at lol
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:35 AM
1

Why not both lol
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:17 AM
3

Just tell her straight up that you want to keep it on the low for reason x if shes truly interested in you she wouldn’t mind
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:35 AM
1

What if i only get like 20 likes on instagram few to none comments and only 250 followers wont that make me come off as not high value
/r/seduction03/05/22 11:23 PM
1

Youre right man
/r/seduction03/05/22 01:22 PM
3

What you tryna say that i see women as objects just because i wouldn’t have turned her down lmao okay
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:08 AM
2

Did you ever ask them for tips or see what they did differently from someone that didnt get ass
/r/seduction02/05/22 09:04 PM
17

Wtf that girl weird ashell man making animal noises ive never seen a attractive women acting weird 😂 how old are you i need to begin to be like you bro you must have hella options to get creeped out by attractive women i only get creeped out by the fat ugly ones id still smash a awkward 9
/r/seduction02/05/22 08:22 PM
1

Just lock eyes with me for 2 seconds and smile id begin to get really curious about you (if you guys arent talking yet) of you are talking just make it obvious like eye contact,smiling , laughing at any dumb thing i say, grabing arm etc hed have to be dumb not to pick up on it
/r/seduction02/05/22 08:12 PM
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Damn bro thats crazy i probably would have made out with her there if i found her attractive probably even tried to lay the pipe after the party youre totally diferent person leaving ass on the table What is a meow btw she made a meow sound like a cat???
/r/seduction02/05/22 08:11 PM
5

Damn man looks like its time to gain 85 pounds and get some tatts lmao
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:14 AM
1

Ama have to copy you man hahaha
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:09 AM
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Hey man did you get the gold tinder thingy to get all those matches i feel like the algorithm not showin my profile lol
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:07 AM
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Looks like its time to buy some crocs and whip out the camera😏
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:06 AM
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As long as your not 250 pounds there should be a high % of men that would date you maybe you are not showing interest in people so they get the vibe like you dont want to be approached or uninterested
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:22 AM
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Wow i wish i could find a girl like you dying for a man to notice her where i am the girls get angry or rude if i approach them or even check them out so i often avoid it unless they send me obvious signs. Id suggest you start making eye contact with men and probably smile that should get men to approach you if you do it enough
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:20 AM
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Flirting cannot be done if ugly otherwise is seen as creepy no matter how smooth
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:44 PM
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Just give her that type of eye contact that lets her know you have dirty thought ms sonetimes you got to show it without saying it
/r/seduction21/04/22 01:11 AM
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Thats crazy man tinder is is the only app where i got a ton of likes and i have the same exact pictures also on BLK i got a ton of likes and chispa like 30 likes too but bumble and hinge i got 0 i guess those apps are more picky or they show you less idk
/r/seduction09/04/22 04:49 PM
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Damn thanks man i definitly struggle with the opener text some times too because the girls be responding with dry answers ive only had a few girls who did put in effort too but they seemed to stop responding when i transtion the conversation into meeting up
/r/seduction09/04/22 03:17 AM
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Theres some pretty good information there thanks man i will definitely be taking some ideas from that post
/r/seduction09/04/22 03:15 AM
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Thats crazy man i downloaded hinge and got 0 likes also in bumble 0 likes idk if it is popular here in las vegas and in tinder i got 45 likes but it does not let me see who they are unless i pay lmao
/r/seduction09/04/22 03:14 AM
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Hey thank you for taking your time to reply to the post you are right i will definitely be upgrading my pictures most of them are just of me like in a car and the other in a mirror, i have one on my motorcycle and a shirtless one working out idk if shirtless ones are good idea im pretty fit in the pic tho but i do not have any pics doing fun activities or smiling like you said, i am going to try to get better pictures of myself with better lighting and more pictures with my bully maybe that is w…
/r/seduction09/04/22 03:10 AM
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You can dermaroll your skin to remove acne scars theres posts about it on reddit i forgot which mm depth tho i think it was .5mm but i could be wrong
/r/seduction08/04/22 11:27 PM
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You need to hit the gym hard bro get on a 1500 calorie diet to U need to shave your beard bro or atleast trim it looks like you dont take care of your grooming at all i can only imagine your sack
/r/seduction02/04/22 05:07 AM
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The eye contact will tell you when to escalate brother
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:37 PM
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Because women self esteem are devastated by rejection and on top of that men are the hunters we are built and supposed to be aggressive and do the handling and not be fazed by rejection but men have become weak over the years thats why you see more gays walking around thinking their women because they dont eant to take responsibility and work hard they want a real man to do the heavy lifting for them
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:37 PM
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Howd you do it to seduce a much younger women im having trouble seducing women my own age im 22
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:13 AM
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So youd rather jack off than to bang average chiks okay😂😂
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:11 AM
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Because you never showed them that you were interested you have to make it more clear and thats when women will wonder like that boy always lookin at me and she will become more curious about you and apl u got to do after that is seal the deal with is basically just getting her confortable around you enough to invite over
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:09 AM
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Na bro just lower your standards go after a unconfident 6 that tops you off like theres no tomorrow and your confidence will go up to get a 7 and then you build your way up till u get 8s+
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:07 AM
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Im telling you folks the self improvement is the key to life it make you look better, stronger, makes you more confident get you more mates be on top of competition and it extends your life expectancy what else can u ask for get your asses to the gym
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:05 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/seduction27/03/22 10:35 PM
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Bro you have to be more straight forward i remember in college i did a cold approach i said excuse me and asked the girl her name and when she told me her name i told her that i thought she was really cute while looking into her eyes and told her that i wanted to get to know her she started blushing hard and told she shed love to but she had a boyfriend you have to tell them what all the other men are scared to tell her just be straight forward bro you have nothing to lose. when you tell them li…
/r/seduction21/03/22 12:43 PM
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I say you should get other girls once she sees that you got a girl better than her and you dont need her you’re going to be the one having the last laugh
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:32 AM
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Bro i was driving my dads car without a license since 16 on the streets and freeway i got my license at 18 im 22 now and still dont got my license for my motorcycle or insurance and been driving my bike like it was stolen since 15 if u drive good when a cop is nearby u wont get pulled over. Definitely not a dealbreaker not having a license but not knowing how to drive or scared to probably is how else are you supposed to go on dates you gonna walk? If you’re worried about the money part just buy…
/r/seduction02/01/22 07:05 AM
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Thats where im struggling at too since i work 6 days a week 10h shifts on amazon deliviert so im alone all day not around women to approach i feel like going to the mall to improve on cold approach but im not scared to make the approach just don’t want to look like a creep so i often avoid it so i wont look weird or thirsty
/r/seduction18/11/21 11:36 PM
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Yeah joking around too much is like a friendly vibe so u end up like friends you want to be in seductive frame making eye contact smiling etc so you can build the sexual tension you can make a joke here and there but dont try to be a comedian either and not making moves or u end up as a brother
/r/seduction18/11/21 11:32 PM
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Idk why i feel like i have the courage to do it but then once im there my mind goes like blank nd i get nervouse but im thinking on starting off with ugly girls for practice
/r/seduction04/06/21 10:56 PM
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