Murdocssoul Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Girl not ordering any food, drinks etc on dates? Agreed, I still struggle w it on dates ngl :/ V uncomfortable eating in front of strangers imo	/r/seduction	29/08/22 08:00 AM
5	[deleted by user] Couldn’t agree more! When I’m on dates w overly nice dudes the thing which would’ve ’saved’ them is said ‘spice’. It’s charming when a guy can open up a bit and even tease you - typically makes for a less stale date as well 🦦🤙	/r/seduction	04/05/22 04:33 PM
1	You Reject Girls More Than You Think Well... We kept on talking for a few months following this... In December I finally just asked him about his feelings for me during some late night... He replied rather politely and let me know he is too busy for commitment during this period of his life. He did however mention he'd love to meet up some time, but that he won't be able to offer much more. We've not interacted much ever since... I believe I wished him a happy birthday but that is about it. I've spoken to other guys ever since and.…	/r/seduction	08/04/22 12:20 PM
3	You Reject Girls More Than You Think Sorry it took a while, but as I said before I was awaiting Halloween more or less. Anyways, here’s the update: Me and a couple of friends celebrated Halloween yesterday night at a club –meaning, I got drunk for the first time in over a year or so. This led me to message him something about the fact that I'm touching alcohol again. Since it was very late, I assumed he had fallen asleep. Because of this, I mustered up the courage to ask him out for drinks. To my surprise, he replied within fifteen…	/r/seduction	31/10/21 07:16 PM
1	You Reject Girls More Than You Think I see where you're coming from, but I did not reject him when he asked. He was the one who had to cancel & ever since then he didn't make an effort to ask again... I'm not the most bold person, so it didn't occur to me that I should suggest another date. Instead, I assumed he either made up an excuse the first time, or he just lost interest.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 11:54 PM
3	You Reject Girls More Than You Think Yeah I figured that was a possibility... The advice I kept getting was to let him 'do the chasing' but perhaps that backfired. I'll give it a shot once I have some liquor in my system... The fact that my strategy may have had an adverse effect makes me rather nervous to initiate again... especially considering I do quite like the guy.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 10:54 PM
2	You Reject Girls More Than You Think Very fair points! I appreciate your input as well, it's refreshing to hear the male pov. as someone who barely hangs out w. straight men. Regarding asking him out... I might insinuate something around Halloween once I'm a little drunk and thus bolder. Not sure how relevant this is, but I suspect the reason he lost interest is because I told him I was sober & he is an avid drinker... I am however considering drinking again, but I'm awaiting Halloween.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 12:28 PM
2	You Reject Girls More Than You Think Hahah I was considering this, but he definitely comes off as very secure in himself, so I thought he'd muster up the courage to initiate... Gosh, I feel so dumb.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 12:20 PM
8	You Reject Girls More Than You Think Well, as it happens I am a woman who finds herself in a similar situation. I interacted with a guy for almost two months, consistently being the initiator (through snap). We spoke on a daily basis and he was clearly attracted to me + always replied, he even asked me out in the beginning. The issue however... I stopped talking to him for two weeks to see if he'd make an effort to initiate and he just never did... Should I assume this was his way of rejecting me? He kept on watching all of my stor…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 01:43 AM